I removed my self from the friendship when the cancellations became very frequent yet they could hang out with other friends blow me off then ask for my help when those friends got them in trouble. I learned to have better boundaries and not expect everyone to be a good friend the way I am.
This videos really speaks to me. Thanks Lucy. My best friend and I are currently not speaking because I decided to start having boundaries as I turned 30. It’s hard but you have given me strength to move on
I have been practicing healthy selfishness, but I always get gaslighted for doing so...... And when that happens I always feel like I am the problem and that there is something I need to change about myself. But hearing Lucy speak about healthy selfishness really resonated with me and I will stop feeling bad about myself for choosing me all the time. Thank you Lucy. My online big sister
I love this message . I will also add stay away from damage individuals. No matter how you want to be there and help them heal. Its draining, it might seem like a good idea but actually it’s not ❤. Being selfish is also changing your mindset about self sacrificing yourself for others. You don’t need to be there, you don’t need to help. Stop playing God in others life and actually start being there for yourself. ❤
Lucy this video truly openend my eyes and a dubbel check on it’s okay to live this mindset…I’ve doubted soo much, because I don’t want to come off as ‘mean’, but ahh this life you’re the only one who feels what you feel when people walk over you🙃 Thank you for this video✨✨✨
I love your take on selfishness. You’re right, at first I wanted to reject the idea, but it does make perfect sense. When I work on myself and focus on myself, I become such a welcoming and engaged person. When we prioritize our general happiness through daily decisions, we really can improve our demeanor and mental wellbeing. I do also agree to not care what others think, because I know that I’m working on standing firm on my boundaries to make me the best version of myself. If someone doesn’t like it, oh well🤷🏾♀️
Just had the experience of a long time girlfriend calling me selfish! That means I must be living for me! Thank you for the beautiful reminder that filling my cup first is ALWAYS a blessing to my personal well being ❤
This is an amazing point. Selfishness and self centeredness need to be given a second look because it’s a survival technique for many of us. I’ve struggled choosing this route because as an African especially it’s almost as if you’re the last person you should care about, everyone else’s things should come first. Love this message Lucy.
All i can say is WOW, i really needed this. This video has been an eye opener into parts of me that i didn't even know and parts i refused to acknowledge Thank you so much Lucy ❤❤
Listening to you is so uplifting. I can relate because I have been told "you are selfish" because I don't visit people much... but that's just me. Same way, I don't hold it against people for not visiting me. I like how you separated negative from positive selfishness. Please what app/software do you recommend for background noise reduction?
I came to the lord asking for this blessings because raising my son (Joel) was an act of courage despite all the challenges .And the lord answered my prayers with a benefiting income of $31,000 everymonth. To God be the glory, this video have inspired me greatly in many ways!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Lucy, I'm a new UA-camr, and no it's not this channel I have another channel for that, my niche is self-development and I must say you inspire me a lot. Can you help with tips and/or encouragement?
THIS ONLY WORKS IF YOU ARE ALONE, HAVE A HEALTHY PARTNER, AND NO CHILDREN BECAUSE UNHEALTHY PEOPLE AND KIDS WILL WORK AGAINST BEING A HEALTHY SELFISH PERSON 😢
Lucy am 23 year I cannot take my own decision without my guardian telling me what to do and I feel so bad about actually don't know what to do I think i actually need help
Please do not use oil on your scalp. Would love to get into the numerous reasons. Just too lazy. They are literally scientist research done on why you shouldn't. You could use it on your hair tho
"Don't be everyone else's 911 cause when you need them they won't be there" that got me!!!!
Spot on💯
When I say Lucy speaks her mind, I mean it. She's all about keeping it real, no sugarcoating.
I actually prefer when people walk away from me , I don't mind and no guilt felt
This!
Fr good riddance
I removed my self from the friendship when the cancellations became very frequent yet they could hang out with other friends blow me off then ask for my help when those friends got them in trouble. I learned to have better boundaries and not expect everyone to be a good friend the way I am.
10:39 especially with family. Always wanting you to please them in the name of "respect" and displease yourself.
"If i'm not comfortable to be there,i'm not gonna be there"🎉
This videos really speaks to me. Thanks Lucy. My best friend and I are currently not speaking because I decided to start having boundaries as I turned 30. It’s hard but you have given me strength to move on
I have been practicing healthy selfishness, but I always get gaslighted for doing so...... And when that happens I always feel like I am the problem and that there is something I need to change about myself. But hearing Lucy speak about healthy selfishness really resonated with me and I will stop feeling bad about myself for choosing me all the time.
Thank you Lucy.
My online big sister
I can relate to this😢😭
That selfishness in relation to African families is very necessary!!!
Very very
The truth oh. I swear especially if you are the oldest girl
This is a MESSAGE 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I wish I heard this 10 years ago but God has his timing for me.
Thank you for this ❤❤
I love this message . I will also add stay away from damage individuals. No matter how you want to be there and help them heal. Its draining, it might seem like a good idea but actually it’s not ❤. Being selfish is also changing your mindset about self sacrificing yourself for others. You don’t need to be there, you don’t need to help. Stop playing God in others life and actually start being there for yourself. ❤
Lucy this video truly openend my eyes and a dubbel check on it’s okay to live this mindset…I’ve doubted soo much, because I don’t want to come off as ‘mean’, but ahh this life you’re the only one who feels what you feel when people walk over you🙃
Thank you for this video✨✨✨
I love your take on selfishness. You’re right, at first I wanted to reject the idea, but it does make perfect sense. When I work on myself and focus on myself, I become such a welcoming and engaged person. When we prioritize our general happiness through daily decisions, we really can improve our demeanor and mental wellbeing. I do also agree to not care what others think, because I know that I’m working on standing firm on my boundaries to make me the best version of myself. If someone doesn’t like it, oh well🤷🏾♀️
Just had the experience of a long time girlfriend calling me selfish! That means I must be living for me! Thank you for the beautiful reminder that filling my cup first is ALWAYS a blessing to my personal well being ❤
I couldn’t relate more.. really need to speak on this too 😊😊
This is an amazing point. Selfishness and self centeredness need to be given a second look because it’s a survival technique for many of us. I’ve struggled choosing this route because as an African especially it’s almost as if you’re the last person you should care about, everyone else’s things should come first. Love this message Lucy.
Lucy is just a big blessing 🥺❤
I’m learning so much from you and I appreciate you. You’re like my internet life coach
Be Selfish...ah this video is gonna be Epic...❤❤❤
All i can say is WOW, i really needed this.
This video has been an eye opener into parts of me that i didn't even know and parts i refused to acknowledge
Thank you so much Lucy ❤❤
The intro? Yes girl, you inspired me to open this my new channel, we gotta improve ourselves😊
This is my mood all day everyday! Thanks Queen 🎉
⭕️ you have pour your soul into this video, very informative !
This video is so empowering. Thank you!
I love you Bebe, using one stone to kill two birds i e making your video and installing your hair always on point speaking like a feminine woman.
I LOVE THIS VIDEO! 100% RIGHT
Baby girl! U are amazing 👏 💖
I learn alot from you 💯
I'm your Auntie 51 young 😂
God bless you 🙏
I loooooooove you sista!!!! Yesss!! Speak the truth! 🌼🌻🌸
This video is one of the best video of all time 😩 thank you so much ❤️❤️
please what hair growth oil and supplement do you use?
You made this video at the right time!!
Preach sis 😍🙏🏾
Came to this realization early this year, and my life is more at peace
Spot on
What you said just described me ❤❤❤❤
I love the video before the Start . Lucy always dropping bangers just like a big Sis on the internet to me ❤😍
Miss Lucy's video keh?? NEVERRRR!!😂❤
Personally my favorite part was when she said, 3:45 but thing you will do is to respect and her wishes as well.
All I can say is... Amen and Amen!!!
Listening to you is so uplifting. I can relate because I have been told "you are selfish" because I don't visit people much... but that's just me. Same way, I don't hold it against people for not visiting me. I like how you separated negative from positive selfishness.
Please what app/software do you recommend for background noise reduction?
Omg! Preach!!! Yes
This really helped me a lot
Thanks Lucy
I came to the lord asking for this blessings because raising my son (Joel) was an act of courage despite all the challenges .And the lord answered my prayers with a benefiting income of $31,000 everymonth. To God be the glory, this video have inspired me greatly in many ways!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
God bless you more abundantly for your generosity
But then, what do you do? How do you come about that in that period?
thanks to my co _worker (Mary) who suggested Ms Kathleen Mary Vella
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
Her top notch guidance and expertise on digital market changed the game for me
I’m sure have come across this name Kathleen Mary Vella
Thanks for your video, your content is always worth the wait!🥰
Hey Lucy, if you don’t could you please share the name of the hair growth pills? Thank you in advance
🥀 thank you Lucy🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘👏🏿👏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
You are so beautiful sis…
❤❤❤❤
Hey Lucy please share with us the hair oil and supplements .. also struggling with hair ❤
I love you mama ❤❤
Lucy, I'm a new UA-camr, and no it's not this channel I have another channel for that, my niche is self-development and I must say you inspire me a lot. Can you help with tips and/or encouragement?
Do you ever miss? NO❤❤❤
please what's the name of the oil and supplement you are taking?..my front hair doesn't grow and I need help growing it.
Lucy, I love you ❤️💕
VERY CUTE
stop being everyones 911😅😅😅
❤wow ❤❤
💯💯💯!!!
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THIS ONLY WORKS IF YOU ARE ALONE, HAVE A HEALTHY PARTNER, AND NO CHILDREN BECAUSE UNHEALTHY PEOPLE AND KIDS WILL WORK AGAINST BEING A HEALTHY SELFISH PERSON 😢
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Early ❤❤
Lucy am 23 year I cannot take my own decision without my guardian telling me what to do and I feel so bad about actually don't know what to do I think i actually need help
First here🤭
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Please do not use oil on your scalp. Would love to get into the numerous reasons. Just too lazy.
They are literally scientist research done on why you shouldn't. You could use it on your hair tho
Do you care about your life or your soul?
That’s why I always enjoy Lucy’s channel 🫠. Always saying the truth and I relate a lot.