WHY DOES THE MUSIC SOUND MINOR BUT HER SINGING SOUNDS MAJOR GOD THIS MAKES ME WANT TO KILL MYSELF I LIKE THE SONG THE LYRICS ARE SO GOOD IT JUST HURTSSS MEEE
I was listening to my playlist and i forgot i put this song in it, and since my quinceañera is coming up I think this is a perfect song to dance with my dad :) it makes me tear up
There's nobody better than you. It just took me a while till I knew. But you knew form the start it was us, didn't you? It just took me a while till I knew.
No, their pillow will only be cold on the corners, so if they want the comfortable, only a fraction of their head will be elevated, leaving them both uncomfortable and warm.
this song hits like a bus. because of my autism, my whole life ive grown up undesirable as a friend, girlfriend etc. no matter how hard I tried, all i seemed to do was push people away, and whenever I did have that special person, they’d move on quickly, and leave once they get bored of me. its not fun. its tiring. ily mitski
Mitski is one of the best artists of our generation. Ive never disliked one song of hers, ever. She is truly a genius and i hope she gets more recognition rather than a few of her songs getting big on tiktok. She is truly grammy worthy. love her so much and wish the best on the rest of her career
I interpret this song as a girl that struggles with bpd wanting their lover to stay with her but she also sees herself as "too much" to handle and doesn't mean to hurt her lover.
The same here ! I’ve been in this off on relationship with such a nice dude but I had my own issues and now that it seems that we’re done for good I just have this weird feeling that I can’t explain it’s like mixed regret for ending it and missing him but this song describes it perfectly. . .
Is it weird that this song reminds me of my relationship with my parents? The “Bury me in your memory, i’m not the girl i ought to be” and “i’m not who i used to be” really really hits hard for me as a transmasc, gay, autistic, mentally i’ll burnout gifted kid. I used to be a child prodigy and now i can barely get out of my bed. I know how much i’m disappointing them. They are like horrible parents both of them, but still i can’t bring myself to not feel bad about how i just failed them. All my friends are starting to become tired and weirded out by me i can feel it, and my partner never calls anymore, never tells me that they love me anymore etc etc. Everyone is just leaving. Both me and my partner are infact danish, so the title stands out even more to me, since i know that they’ll leave me soon.
My boyfriend broke up with me a few minutes ago, i feel so lost. It was neither of our fault, sometimes people arent ready for commitment i understand but i didnt think it would hurt to be told "yes this is goodbye, imsorry"
I’m crying. I’m in a relationship and im going to break up with him, I’ve changed I’m not the same with he first met me and I truly did loved him but now I just want him to forget about me. We weren’t meant to be. I had other eyes for other things but in my eyes he’s the best bf ever but sadly I have to break up with him and I feel so bad for it
This song makes me want to start an account with a friend where we dress up and kinda ballroom dance to music and specifically cottage core or slow violin songs, we wear masks to keep our privacy contained. Trust me, in my head it's beautiful.
@@anila7164 so basically when she says "I don't blame you if you want to bury me in your memory I'm not the girl I ought to be" it reminded me of falling in love with a straight man as someone who is transgender.
That moment when your boyfriend is bi with a female preference but you’re a trans boy and have thoughts that haunt you in the back of your head that say “what if he sees me as a girl?” He loves you, he calls you handsome, corrects people when they call you the wrong pronouns, told his family you’re a boy, etc but you’ll always be insecure about it.
Are you OK? I know this is just a comment, but are you OK if you don’t wanna talk about it it’s fine but I just need to know if you’re OK and that you matter and that he loves you for you
@@Raginghomosexual-wb2hw I’m actually sobbing rn lol. Thank you so much. You don’t understand how much this means to me. I’m over him now and like, all of my gender dysphoria isn’t really bother me. In terms of my identity and sexuality, I’m doing amazing. Life’s just been really difficult lately, though. It’ll get better tho, just waiting to move out of the house and stuff. But like, actually thank you so much.
So we're all having an "I failed people who I love and/or love me, and I wish I was good enough for them, but I'm not, so all I can hope for is that these wonderful people forget me." moment? Okay. I'm just gonna go ahead and misinterpret this song to be about someone struggling with their self-worth, and yet their friend/family member/lover stays at their side no matter what, and despite the singer's best attempts to convince them to leave, the other person refuses, and this helps the singer accept themself, move on, and be happy with that person, thanking them for staying by their side. i just can't handle another sad ending i'm sorry i need something happy
the dislikes are from people who were crying and hit the dislike button on accident. luckily, i was one of the few crying folk who managed to hit the right one.
Denmark (🇩🇰) is a country in Northern Europe, it has a small population of 5.8 million inhabitants, if you live in Denmark you are called a Dane or Danish and you speak Danish. We get really exited when our small country is mentioned, so please excuse all the Danes in the comment field😅
I broke a boys heart because I couldn’t get over my inferiority complex 🥲 I was so insecure, depressed, and I didn’t feel enough for him. But I really liked him and I rushed into things too fast and spoiled our entire relationship. The worst part is I ghosted him when I couldn’t be brave enough to keep talking to him. He probably thinks I hate him 🥲🥲🥲
Girl same i want to get over this inferior complexity cause its just not about me being a pussy and pushing his love away anymore, i don't think i can love anyone at this point and it sucks sm
If you really want to get back together with home talk to him. He’s not gonna know how to feel unless you reach out, so you can talk and figure out how you can help each other. I hope you realize that you’re worth it and are so much more than you think.
@@oopsiedaisy3976 i actually did talk to him! We’re not friends or anything but he doesn’t hate me and that’s more than I could ever ask for. I don’t like him how I did so I found peace with that relationship. What you said is really good advice 😅 and I hope that anyone else who sees this does the same as well, it’s gives closure to both parties, which is really nice haha
out of all of the songs mistake has wrote out, This one is truly how i feel about my past relationships, whether they were romantic or purely platonic. I'm gonna fuckin cry ;__;
Support your children. Just fucking support them. If they want to use different pronouns, let them. If they want you to call them by a different name, do it. Don’t make them force themself someone else. They’re humans too. They have emotions. They can think for themselves. They’re not some damn puppet or a fucking animal in a cage.
it's kinda funny you think your parents dont support you because you want to use different pronouns or a name. That's straightup stupidity at its finest. There are legit kids who get gaslighted and emotionally unavailable parents and here you are crying about your stupid free hippie shit
There's nobody better than you It took me a while till I knew But you knew from the start it was us, didn't you? It just took me a while till I knew [Pre-Chorus 1] Now I lay as I study a blank wall Would you spare me your voice if I call? 'Cause you waited and watered my heart till it grew You just grew a little smarter too [Chorus 1] So I don't blame you if you want to Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but Maybe when you tell your friends, you Can tell them what you saw in me, and not how I turned out to be [Verse 2] There's some kind of burning inside me It's kept me from falling apart And I'm sure that you've seen what it's done to my heart But it's kept me from falling apart [Pre-Chorus 2] Now here I lay, as I wonder about you Would you just tell me what I'm meant to do? 'Cause I've waited and watered my heart till it grew You can see how it's blossomed for youAnd I don't blame you if you want to Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but Maybe when you tell your friends, you Can tell them what you saw in me, and not the way I am [Chorus 2] And I don't mean to make your heart blue But could we be what we're meant to be? I'm just about to beg you please, and Then when you tell your friends, you can Tell them what you saw in me, and Not the way I used to be [Outro] 'Cause there's nobody better than you
I have never been in a relationship so i dont relate to that part of the song. But the part where she says the burning inside her although it harms her is what kept her from falling apart, something really shifted inside me. I hate how true it is. That the awful coping mechanisms that im trying to overcome now came from a need for refuge during a time where i was just trying to survive. It genuinely helped me with all my guilt and self hate i have been carrying. I can finally look at where i am emotionally with pragmatism and serenity for the rest of my journey. Im so grateful for mitski and no artist has ever done so much for me with a single verse.
i don't know exactly why but i'm never a good friend. i can't start a conversation, if i can't find a response to their message then i don't respond at all, i have trouble being around people beyond just sitting around together, if things start getting personal i get anxious, i hate it. i wish i could be normal with my friends, but i usually just let them drift away. i never mean to push people away, but that's usually what happens. i've gotten used to it, maybe i shouldn't have, but there's not much else i can do
As someone who moves around a lot and changes appearance(hair styles and colour)often people often remember me as what i used to look like this song is kinda relatable
This song is so important to me; my memory, emotions, and mental health have been declining since I was around 15 and I can feel it ruining friendships. I used to be such a joyful person, now I'm just off the phone from having one of the worst arguments of my life with a friend I've known since I was 4 and I can't even get myself to cry
This is exactly how I feel about someone I used to know. Except, I don’t want to be with him again and I know I’m not who I used to be. And I know what happened wasn’t my fault. But I don’t blame him if he wants to forget me, and I don’t want him to go back to me if I ever give into the temptation of trying to talk to him again. I hope whoever loves him next takes care of him better than I could.
I see this as a girl going through a break up, and she blames herself for changing, and she feels it's her fault. It sounds like she's falling apart without him. The way her voice sounds and the music is so chaotic, I love it
i kin this song bc of my friendship. they know i’m not a good person and they were tired of tending to my deprived parts. so they left. a lot of times. “so i don’t blame you if you want to bury me in your memory i’m not the girl i ought to be.” and it’s just. so good.
"Tending to your deprived parts"? It just sounds like you're a hurt, possibly-abused person, not a bad person. Like you just had more needs and they decided they didn't want to bother helping you. I mean idk, but it's normal for hurt, sad, disabled, and/or abused people to be gaslit by their family or society into thinking they're a problem or a bad person just for having needs other people are too lazy to meet. Just because you needed help doesn't make you bad. Other people choosing to neglect you doesn't make you the problem. I don't know what the situation was, or if it could feasibly be something you did wrong, but I hope you know that bit, at least. No one is bad or in the wrong just for wanting their needs met, no matter how hard it happens to be to meet them in their circumstances.
'I don't blame you, if you want to, Bury me in your memories I'm not the girl I ought to be.' This is what I feel every single day. I feel tired and anxiety just envelops me every where.
Today I found out my ex was cheating on me when we were dating. They were flirting with this other girl who didn't even know we they were dating me. They would sit on their lap on the bus ride home and try to kiss them. And when we broke up because they were moving and neither of us wanted to do long distance, it turns out they asked out the other girl like 2 hours after we broke up. The only way I found out was when the person they cheated on me with found out they cheated and told me today
I just wanted to be special to him. To anybody. I wanted to be important to someone. The most important thing to them. Their first thought when they wake up. I wanted someone to look at me and tell me i was worth it. To choose me, deapite everything. When he said that, when i saw how quickly he switched up my heart broke. I went from being the most important thing the most special the one who hed follow anywhere, to nothing. It was so fast. Too fast for him to really have cared about me. It was all bullshit. 'ive never felt something this strong before' yeah right. He says that to every girl. But its my fault isnt it? Its always my fucking fault. My fault i couldnt touch him. My fault i couldnt kiss him. My fault i couldnt stand their eyes on me. My fauly that mia and karen could give him exactly what he wanted. Exactly what i could never give him. I hate him. Id do anything he asked of me.
"there's some kind of burning inside me, it keeps me from falling apart." Was my yearbook quote, people may say it's cringe but that quote has been true to me for a long time.
I remember when I first kept watching this over and over a couple months ago. there was only 30-200 comments and I would read every single one of them, hehe im so glad to see this have a lot more
The vibe of Mitski’s songs are amazing and gives me a weird but comforting feeling, I love so much her voice, with all these original notes that she put in her songs, her voice always fit in!
this reminds me of my first love, i was 12 and had abandonment issues so i just kinda broke up with her cus i thought she would do it first, and even tho shes definitely over it i still feel kinda bad😭
Is it just me or is this a raeda song (raine x eda The Owl House) "I dont blame you if you want to bury me in your memories, I'm not the girl I ought to be" sounds like eda's curse and how she used to hide it from raine
This song is gold. Mitski is a legend. Thank you, dollparts for giving the lyric video! if i'm gonna listen to a great mitski song like this i would want these perfect fonts and amazing background. Love you mitski, Love you Dollparts!
“There’s some kind of burning inside me it’s kept me from falling apart and I’m sure you can se what it’s done to my heart but it’s kept me from falling apart.”
“i don’t blame you if you want to bury me in your memory i’m not the girl i ought be but maybe when you tell your friends you can tell them what you saw in me and not what i turned out to be” i think i relate to this a little too mach as a trans man 😃
@@vampilyghost7831 their is referencing someone’s possession. Like “that’s theirs”. You’re looking for “there” like “there is this much”. And then there’s “they’re” which is the words they and are crunched together. So, “they’re okay”
this is so painful. *plays on repeat and learns the lyrics*
❤️😭 same
Same omfg
literally me
“This is so painful, Alexa play it on repeat”
emaS
i relate to every single lyric i hate that
It’s ok
Same 😩
@rey Im so brocken 😢
This song is so good but so painful i cant believe this is her most unknown song tbh☹️
I can't do this rn bestie
same
Bestie to do this Lyric i Had to listen the song on repeat (´༎ຶ ͜ʖ ༎ຶ `)♡
This song feels like an insecurity
I just came back from reading A Liar's Truth and this hurts a lot.
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WHY DOES THE MUSIC SOUND MINOR BUT HER SINGING SOUNDS MAJOR GOD THIS MAKES ME WANT TO KILL MYSELF I LIKE THE SONG THE LYRICS ARE SO GOOD IT JUST HURTSSS MEEE
mitski pro
Future me:
REMEMBER THIS IS SPECIAL PLEASE
DO YOU STILL REMEMBER THIS?
Hi, this song makes me cry, that's all
I was listening to my playlist and i forgot i put this song in it, and since my quinceañera is coming up I think this is a perfect song to dance with my dad :) it makes me tear up
There's nobody better than you.
It just took me a while till I knew.
But you knew form the start it was us, didn't you?
It just took me a while till I knew.
This is one of her most unknown songs and It's so goooddd
That's my favourite
@@dollparts3178 Samee, It's so good! Thank you for this :)))
Ikrrrr
its becoming more popular. Which is good
Its one of my favorite songs it should get more attention
Who ever disliked this video I hope their pillow is warm on both sides
Evil but fair
this is so evil but I support the motion
No, their pillow will only be cold on the corners, so if they want the comfortable, only a fraction of their head will be elevated, leaving them both uncomfortable and warm.
i hope after they microwave their food 5 times its still cold. warm, but uncomfortably cold and gritty.
@@bottleofwindex9695 *yes*
this song hits like a bus. because of my autism, my whole life ive grown up undesirable as a friend, girlfriend etc. no matter how hard I tried, all i seemed to do was push people away, and whenever I did have that special person, they’d move on quickly, and leave once they get bored of me. its not fun. its tiring.
ily mitski
holy fuck this comment is so real.
“And I don’t blame you if you want to bury me in your memory I’m not the girl I ought to be” oh god. “I’m not the way I used to be” OH GOD
HEAVY ON THIS LYRIC
THIS HURTS LOL
THIS ｡:ﾟ(;´∩`;)ﾟ:｡
@@iuukiana (*´Д｀*)
hits different when youre trans
Mitski is one of the best artists of our generation. Ive never disliked one song of hers, ever. She is truly a genius and i hope she gets more recognition rather than a few of her songs getting big on tiktok. She is truly grammy worthy. love her so much and wish the best on the rest of her career
this.
The fact that she's huge on tiktok now !
first love late spring is so good ☝️
STAY
AAA THIS WAS TWO YEARS AGI BUT CINGARTS
My mother used to play this for me when it first came out. It’s been my comfort song ever since
MITSKI MOTHER
Your mother seems fucking awesome
@@cece-ny8ob HELP YOUR TRANSLATED COMMENT IS "MYTHICAL MOTHER
@@m4ya.777 even google feels like she's too perfect to be exist. like a myth.
That's so sweet :)
I interpret this song as a girl that struggles with bpd wanting their lover to stay with her but she also sees herself as "too much" to handle and doesn't mean to hurt her lover.
YOU. YOU GET IT !!!!!!!!
I WAS JUST ABOUT TO COMMENT ABOUT HOW THIS DEFINITELY HAD BPD UNDERTONES
YESS!! I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE
No wonder I relate to it so much if someone could interpret it as that.
how does it feel being the smartest in the room bestie
To the 10 people who disliked, why do you keep pushing your emotions away 🤨
everything about what mitski talks about in this song is exactly what i'm feeling right now
The same here ! I’ve been in this off on relationship with such a nice dude but I had my own issues and now that it seems that we’re done for good I just have this weird feeling that I can’t explain it’s like mixed regret for ending it and missing him but this song describes it perfectly. . .
Me too, and for 5 years
Is it weird that this song reminds me of my relationship with my parents? The “Bury me in your memory, i’m not the girl i ought to be” and “i’m not who i used to be” really really hits hard for me as a transmasc, gay, autistic, mentally i’ll burnout gifted kid. I used to be a child prodigy and now i can barely get out of my bed. I know how much i’m disappointing them. They are like horrible parents both of them, but still i can’t bring myself to not feel bad about how i just failed them. All my friends are starting to become tired and weirded out by me i can feel it, and my partner never calls anymore, never tells me that they love me anymore etc etc. Everyone is just leaving. Both me and my partner are infact danish, so the title stands out even more to me, since i know that they’ll leave me soon.
i thought u were being sarcastic at first ...
😭
omfg legit same
same
aww i feel this, well it's been 7 months are things better?
My heart: we're fine!
My brain: no, love. We're not this is our 40th time listening to this week and it's only monday
quite literally same... it's 3:55 pm on a monday why have i heard this song 27 times already this week
My boyfriend broke up with me a few minutes ago, i feel so lost. It was neither of our fault, sometimes people arent ready for commitment i understand but i didnt think it would hurt to be told "yes this is goodbye, imsorry"
I'm sorry for you
im really sorry for you
I’m crying. I’m in a relationship and im going to break up with him, I’ve changed I’m not the same with he first met me and I truly did loved him but now I just want him to forget about me. We weren’t meant to be. I had other eyes for other things but in my eyes he’s the best bf ever but sadly I have to break up with him and I feel so bad for it
@rey yeaaaa I broke up with him let’s just say he’s with my friend from kinder but it’s fine
@rey LMAO IM SORRY
it will be okay keep your head up
If you disliked I hope u eat a dorito vertically
I don't make the rules😌
this comment wasnt that long ago-
This song makes me want to start an account with a friend where we dress up and kinda ballroom dance to music and specifically cottage core or slow violin songs, we wear masks to keep our privacy contained. Trust me, in my head it's beautiful.
ARE WE TWINS OR SMTH
PLSSS I WANT TO OD THIS WITH SOMEONE SO BAD
elisabeets ytb account description :
I WOULD DO THAT WITH ANYONE WHO WOULD DO IT WITH ME HALPPP
MASQUERADE BALL OMG
As someone who is transmasc and is attracted to men, yeah :’)
Same
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@@anila7164 so basically when she says "I don't blame you if you want to bury me in your memory I'm not the girl I ought to be" it reminded me of falling in love with a straight man as someone who is transgender.
omg me too, i sometimes question if i should become a girl again because i’m more wanted as a girl, but i’m more happier as a boy
@@gimmick432 aw i'm so sorry :((((
That moment when your boyfriend is bi with a female preference but you’re a trans boy and have thoughts that haunt you in the back of your head that say “what if he sees me as a girl?” He loves you, he calls you handsome, corrects people when they call you the wrong pronouns, told his family you’re a boy, etc but you’ll always be insecure about it.
Are you OK? I know this is just a comment, but are you OK if you don’t wanna talk about it it’s fine but I just need to know if you’re OK and that you matter and that he loves you for you
@@Raginghomosexual-wb2hw I’m actually sobbing rn lol. Thank you so much. You don’t understand how much this means to me. I’m over him now and like, all of my gender dysphoria isn’t really bother me. In terms of my identity and sexuality, I’m doing amazing. Life’s just been really difficult lately, though. It’ll get better tho, just waiting to move out of the house and stuff. But like, actually thank you so much.
@@jamison5116 thank you for telling me that you’re all right and thank you for being so kind
So we're all having an "I failed people who I love and/or love me, and I wish I was good enough for them, but I'm not, so all I can hope for is that these wonderful people forget me." moment? Okay.
I'm just gonna go ahead and misinterpret this song to be about someone struggling with their self-worth, and yet their friend/family member/lover stays at their side no matter what, and despite the singer's best attempts to convince them to leave, the other person refuses, and this helps the singer accept themself, move on, and be happy with that person, thanking them for staying by their side.
i just can't handle another sad ending i'm sorry i need something happy
the dislikes are from people who were crying and hit the dislike button on accident. luckily, i was one of the few crying folk who managed to hit the right one.
Denmark (🇩🇰) is a country in Northern Europe, it has a small population of 5.8 million inhabitants, if you live in Denmark you are called a Dane or Danish and you speak Danish. We get really exited when our small country is mentioned, so please excuse all the Danes in the comment field😅
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Pain
it hurts
Time to cry
I broke a boys heart because I couldn’t get over my inferiority complex 🥲 I was so insecure, depressed, and I didn’t feel enough for him. But I really liked him and I rushed into things too fast and spoiled our entire relationship. The worst part is I ghosted him when I couldn’t be brave enough to keep talking to him. He probably thinks I hate him 🥲🥲🥲
@rey damn you commented about 100 times💀
@rey I see
Girl same i want to get over this inferior complexity cause its just not about me being a pussy and pushing his love away anymore, i don't think i can love anyone at this point and it sucks sm
If you really want to get back together with home talk to him. He’s not gonna know how to feel unless you reach out, so you can talk and figure out how you can help each other. I hope you realize that you’re worth it and are so much more than you think.
@@oopsiedaisy3976 i actually did talk to him! We’re not friends or anything but he doesn’t hate me and that’s more than I could ever ask for. I don’t like him how I did so I found peace with that relationship. What you said is really good advice 😅 and I hope that anyone else who sees this does the same as well, it’s gives closure to both parties, which is really nice haha
out of all of the songs mistake has wrote out, This one is truly how i feel about my past relationships, whether they were romantic or purely platonic. I'm gonna fuckin cry ;__;
Just caught you lackin' 😡
stay strong ily
What kind of genre of music is this cause I LOVE IT
This song Is Folk but most of her songs are Alternative/Indie.
Orchestral pop I think
Mitski
This always gets me dancing on the first half hour and then breaking down and sobbing on the second
hour? 😭😭
@@ateandthrewuponyou5486 yes.
"But could we be what we're meant to be?
I'm just about to beg you please"- MITSKI PLS SPARE MY SOUL
Support your children. Just fucking support them. If they want to use different pronouns, let them. If they want you to call them by a different name, do it. Don’t make them force themself someone else. They’re humans too. They have emotions. They can think for themselves. They’re not some damn puppet or a fucking animal in a cage.
Slay dude
No.
@@ethanwinters9419 elaborate
@@spacecowboy6801 no
it's kinda funny you think your parents dont support you because you want to use different pronouns or a name. That's straightup stupidity at its finest. There are legit kids who get gaslighted and emotionally unavailable parents and here you are crying about your stupid free hippie shit
I don't know if it's because of the "Danish" bit in the name, but I've always associated this song with Hamlet's death scene.
There's nobody better than you
It took me a while till I knew
But you knew from the start it was us, didn't you?
It just took me a while till I knew
[Pre-Chorus 1]
Now I lay as I study a blank wall
Would you spare me your voice if I call?
'Cause you waited and watered my heart till it grew
You just grew a little smarter too
[Chorus 1]
So I don't blame you if you want to
Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but
Maybe when you tell your friends, you
Can tell them what you saw in me, and not how I turned out to be
[Verse 2]
There's some kind of burning inside me
It's kept me from falling apart
And I'm sure that you've seen what it's done to my heart
But it's kept me from falling apart
[Pre-Chorus 2]
Now here I lay, as I wonder about you
Would you just tell me what I'm meant to do?
'Cause I've waited and watered my heart till it grew
You can see how it's blossomed for youAnd I don't blame you if you want to
Bury me in your memory, I'm not the girl I ought to be, but
Maybe when you tell your friends, you
Can tell them what you saw in me, and not the way I am
[Chorus 2]
And I don't mean to make your heart blue
But could we be what we're meant to be?
I'm just about to beg you please, and
Then when you tell your friends, you can
Tell them what you saw in me, and
Not the way I used to be
[Outro]
'Cause there's nobody better than you
Isn’t the whole point of this video the lyrics 😀
TGANK YOUU
@@serotonin9984 THEY'RE GOIN TOO FAST MOST PEOPLE CAN'T KEEP UP
@@serotonin9984 some people also struggle to read because of the font
“I’m not the girl I ought to be” hits different when you’re a trans man with an unsupportive mom.
omg
I have never been in a relationship so i dont relate to that part of the song. But the part where she says the burning inside her although it harms her is what kept her from falling apart, something really shifted inside me. I hate how true it is. That the awful coping mechanisms that im trying to overcome now came from a need for refuge during a time where i was just trying to survive. It genuinely helped me with all my guilt and self hate i have been carrying. I can finally look at where i am emotionally with pragmatism and serenity for the rest of my journey. Im so grateful for mitski and no artist has ever done so much for me with a single verse.
this is my favorite song of hers holy shit
Samee
you are my personal hero for this video
i don't know exactly why but i'm never a good friend. i can't start a conversation, if i can't find a response to their message then i don't respond at all, i have trouble being around people beyond just sitting around together, if things start getting personal i get anxious, i hate it. i wish i could be normal with my friends, but i usually just let them drift away. i never mean to push people away, but that's usually what happens. i've gotten used to it, maybe i shouldn't have, but there's not much else i can do
As someone who moves around a lot and changes appearance(hair styles and colour)often people often remember me as what i used to look like this song is kinda relatable
This song is so important to me; my memory, emotions, and mental health have been declining since I was around 15 and I can feel it ruining friendships. I used to be such a joyful person, now I'm just off the phone from having one of the worst arguments of my life with a friend I've known since I was 4 and I can't even get myself to cry
This is exactly how I feel about someone I used to know.
Except, I don’t want to be with him again and I know I’m not who I used to be. And I know what happened wasn’t my fault.
But I don’t blame him if he wants to forget me, and I don’t want him to go back to me if I ever give into the temptation of trying to talk to him again.
I hope whoever loves him next takes care of him better than I could.
this right here omg
yeah, same thing. I hope he is fine now, without me, cause he didn’t deserve this shit, neither I
i hope u ppl here interpreting this song as anything BUT mitski's struggle as a woc,,,, i hope ur not white
also if u relate to this song as a white person
Why is this song so relatable
the dislikes are from the people crying so hard that they couldn’t find the like button
Mitski's songs are always outstanding but this one is especially good
This song has such an unsettling, frantic feel to it
I see this as a girl going through a break up, and she blames herself for changing, and she feels it's her fault. It sounds like she's falling apart without him. The way her voice sounds and the music is so chaotic, I love it
i kin this song bc of my friendship. they know i’m not a good person and they were tired of tending to my deprived parts. so they left. a lot of times. “so i don’t blame you if you want to bury me in your memory i’m not the girl i ought to be.” and it’s just. so good.
Exact same here , "took me a while till I knew" am just beginning to realise what I had with that person 7 months later
"Tending to your deprived parts"? It just sounds like you're a hurt, possibly-abused person, not a bad person. Like you just had more needs and they decided they didn't want to bother helping you.
I mean idk, but it's normal for hurt, sad, disabled, and/or abused people to be gaslit by their family or society into thinking they're a problem or a bad person just for having needs other people are too lazy to meet. Just because you needed help doesn't make you bad. Other people choosing to neglect you doesn't make you the problem.
I don't know what the situation was, or if it could feasibly be something you did wrong, but I hope you know that bit, at least. No one is bad or in the wrong just for wanting their needs met, no matter how hard it happens to be to meet them in their circumstances.
“Bury me in your memory. I’m not the “girl” I ought to be” I’ve never found a more relatable line 😟
“ tell them what you saw In me and not how I turned out to be” whenever I get compliments it’s always about my “potential” not who I am it hurts ngl
Past me said I don't relate to mitski songs
'I don't blame you, if you want to, Bury me in your memories I'm not the girl I ought to be.'
This is what I feel every single day. I feel tired and anxiety just envelops me every where.
Ik this is probably not the meaning but as a transmasc with parents who do not believe in their children being mentally unwell *_(agonized noises)_*
Today I found out my ex was cheating on me when we were dating. They were flirting with this other girl who didn't even know we they were dating me. They would sit on their lap on the bus ride home and try to kiss them. And when we broke up because they were moving and neither of us wanted to do long distance, it turns out they asked out the other girl like 2 hours after we broke up. The only way I found out was when the person they cheated on me with found out they cheated and told me today
1:28
1:30
Hey mitski please unwrite this song I am sobbing thank you 😍
Square up ten dislikes 🔪🔪
I just wanted to be special to him. To anybody. I wanted to be important to someone. The most important thing to them. Their first thought when they wake up. I wanted someone to look at me and tell me i was worth it. To choose me, deapite everything. When he said that, when i saw how quickly he switched up my heart broke. I went from being the most important thing the most special the one who hed follow anywhere, to nothing. It was so fast. Too fast for him to really have cared about me. It was all bullshit. 'ive never felt something this strong before' yeah right. He says that to every girl. But its my fault isnt it? Its always my fucking fault. My fault i couldnt touch him. My fault i couldnt kiss him. My fault i couldnt stand their eyes on me. My fauly that mia and karen could give him exactly what he wanted. Exactly what i could never give him. I hate him. Id do anything he asked of me.
It's good until 2:18
"there's some kind of burning inside me, it keeps me from falling apart." Was my yearbook quote, people may say it's cringe but that quote has been true to me for a long time.
Couldn't we be what we're meant to be I'm just about to beg you please?
This is like a poem 😭 everything- from the way mitski sings, the music, the lyrics. Omygosh 😭
mitski literally has an angelic voice. ill never ever forget it in my whole life and maybe in my next life too!!!
I remember when I first kept watching this over and over a couple months ago. there was only 30-200 comments and I would read every single one of them, hehe im so glad to see this have a lot more
I’m crying 😢
I'm crying
@@Wertyber 😢😔
This is my exact situation and why i am listening to mistki in the first place
oh my god hamlet and horatio
Everyone in the comment section is just being depressed (myself included) and ur just out here being a shakespeare nerd, I gotta respect it :)
To the people that disliked this, I hope everything is okay at home
This low-key makes me think of my dead dad, whose probably disappointed because I'm not who I'm supposed to be
transmasc here, this song fucks me uppp
The vibe of Mitski’s songs are amazing and gives me a weird but comforting feeling, I love so much her voice, with all these original notes that she put in her songs, her voice always fit in!
this reminds me of my first love, i was 12 and had abandonment issues so i just kinda broke up with her cus i thought she would do it first, and even tho shes definitely over it i still feel kinda bad😭
Time to listen to this song while scrolling thru thousands of pics of mads mikkelsen in pinterest
This song gives me Luca and Alberto vibes
Im not the girl id ought to be is the best lyric - a trans ftnb
THE bpd anthem
Is it just me or is this a raeda song (raine x eda The Owl House)
"I dont blame you if you want to bury me in your memories, I'm not the girl I ought to be" sounds like eda's curse and how she used to hide it from raine
real :-;
so i read 'flowers from 1970' and this song goes with it so well-
Wasn't it deleted?
Ikk i read "Flowers from 1970" to
YES
WAIT IS IT THAT DNF FIC WAIT--
Aw I never got to read that one and now it’s deleted I heard it was good :(
Just noticed the girl in the picture is Dolores Abernathy. That makes so much sense
Seeing everyone's takes on this song makes me love it even more like it really could mean so many things and thats so amazing
This song is gold. Mitski is a legend. Thank you, dollparts for giving the lyric video! if i'm gonna listen to a great mitski song like this i would want these perfect fonts and amazing background. Love you mitski, Love you Dollparts!
0:43 this sound always sounds good to me, I will never get sick of this💖✨😭
“There’s some kind of burning inside me it’s kept me from falling apart and I’m sure you can se what it’s done to my heart but it’s kept me from falling apart.”
ymir x historia vibes
i kin this
Same
hes gonna realize im a bad person but this song gets me so hyped
“i don’t blame you if you want to bury me in your memory i’m not the girl i ought be but maybe when you tell your friends you can tell them what you saw in me and not what i turned out to be” i think i relate to this a little too mach as a trans man 😃
Imm so sad
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@@vampilyghost7831 their is referencing someone’s possession. Like “that’s theirs”. You’re looking for “there” like “there is this much”. And then there’s “they’re” which is the words they and are crunched together. So, “they’re okay”