The Need for Modesty, Femininity, and Submission Among Christian Women | Susan Heck

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  • In this breakout session from the 2023 National Conference, Susan Heck taught on the need for modesty, femininity, and submission among Christian women.
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  • @adrianaarj5180
    @adrianaarj5180 4 місяці тому +56

    I'm definitely looking for more sermons like this❤. Thanks a lot.
    As a 25 years old woman, I can say it is quite challenging to change our mindset when we have grown up with the influence of feminism even inside of the church.
    Greetings from Colombia 🇨🇴

    • @alfreidam5839
      @alfreidam5839 4 місяці тому +6

      Set your mind by God’s grace to Love the Lord, he will transform you from within so that you will delight to do his will. Obey what you know to obey, and ask God for the related to obedience.🦅😎😉

    • @wandertree
      @wandertree 4 місяці тому

      @@alfreidam5839 This is so true!

    • @sppss617
      @sppss617 4 місяці тому +1

      She wasn't preaching a sermon. She was teaching/educating. Aparece que fue un sermon, pero no, no fue. Predicando un sermon no debe de ser las mujeres. Y ademas, predicando un sermon esta presentado diferente--with imperatives/commands/authoritative. I'm thankful you enjoyed her lesson on 1 Timothy 2:8--15. Consider memorizing scripture and also reading from beginning to end (Genesis to Revelation). - a fellow Christian (from USA)

    • @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds
      @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds 6 днів тому

      É muito desafiador mudar (cambiar) sua mentalidade quando porque está acostumada com a validação masculina e atrair homens
      Saludos desde Brasil!

  • @haileymarie1168
    @haileymarie1168 4 місяці тому +54

    This teaching was a direct response to a prayer I had about vanity. God’s answer: Beauty is found in the Lord. Then He provided this video. Thank you for this message!

    • @JustLouns
      @JustLouns 4 місяці тому +3

      It’s interesting you said that I’ve been thinking about this topic

    • @anastasiaburr3959
      @anastasiaburr3959 Місяць тому +1

      I am very thankful that my mother was strict regarding her daughter’s dresses!😊

    • @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds
      @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds 6 днів тому

      It's interesting that most women find about modesty - or Christianity in general - when the beauty fade away and then suddenly they're miss chaste

  • @lisagutowski8808
    @lisagutowski8808 4 місяці тому +23

    I want to thank you for this truthful important message. Before I was saved I used to spend a lot of money on my clothes. I would spend 2 hours a day doing my makeup making sure everything matched . ( it never was revealing clothes but the purpose of the clothing was the attention I would get for having these amazing outfits) I looked great on the outside but I was so empty and lost on the inside. When I devoted my life to being a servant of Christ the Lord spoke to me and told me to dress in skirts and full coverage of shoulder’s .I have been doing that ever since. My number one job is to represent Christ and to spread the Gospel. How can I do that if people are asking me about where I get my clothes and complimenting my outfits. My inner beauty shines now because I am filled with his holiness and goodness not a heart of seeking approval and compliments. Thank you for this wonderful video . God Bless you and keep making videos about this topic that needs to be addressed.

  • @TAdler-ex8px
    @TAdler-ex8px 4 місяці тому +23

    Women are a precious treasure in God’s perfect design. When we are gentle, trusting and full of wisdom and grace we’re the evil ones worst nightmare. He wants angry, fearful, controlling women who condemn themselves, their husbands and children. By God’s mercy and grace we will be gentle and lowly like our Lord!

    • @wandertree
      @wandertree 4 місяці тому

      Beautifully said. Thank you.

  • @lemma4223
    @lemma4223 5 місяців тому +94

    Oh thank God, there are remnants of godly women in America and we need this a lot this time! May God bless you! I don't have words that express your beautifulness!

    • @SoulRevivalCoach
      @SoulRevivalCoach 4 місяці тому +9

      There are many of us, the problem is the ungodly women are loud and obtrusive so you have to search for the women who truly desire to please and obey our Lord.

    • @sheilabrown3477
      @sheilabrown3477 4 місяці тому +3

      @@SoulRevivalCoachAre you being Loud yourself, there are many wounded woman believers who would love to be nurtured and affirmed in there femininity by Godly women but those who function to care for the wounded are few and far between. So when you think you are building or helpful with your comments. “you are not” if you are a Godly woman Learn to Love as Jesus Loves. Practise on these “loud” woman they may need it. Much Grace..

    • @SoulRevivalCoach
      @SoulRevivalCoach 4 місяці тому +3

      @@sheilabrown3477 Interesting way to perceive what I wrote...

    • @bernhardbauer5301
      @bernhardbauer5301 4 місяці тому

      I do not believe that godly woman have a desire to preach the word. These female preachers are sent from the devil. ​@@SoulRevivalCoach

    • @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds
      @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds 6 днів тому

      ​@@SoulRevivalCoachthe big problem is that most women find about modesty - or Christianity in general - when the beauty fade away and then suddenly they're miss chaste

  • @doreenardourel7921
    @doreenardourel7921 4 місяці тому +15

    Finally some teaching that is biblical and relevant to women. Thank you for posting this. I am so blessed by it.

  • @debsthriftytips
    @debsthriftytips 5 місяців тому +41

    Amen! Modesty applies to all places 🔥
    And I, too, feel for my college-age sons.

    • @zacharymccoy9262
      @zacharymccoy9262 4 місяці тому +7

      I’ll say a quick prayer for them. College campuses are rough for young Christians. I am in my junior year. It’s not a great environment for developing (almost done developing) Christians.

    • @untpython8480
      @untpython8480 4 місяці тому +5

      ​@@zacharymccoy9262Stay strong, bro. Don't be lead into temptation, but rather be delivered from evil.

  • @21olympusmons
    @21olympusmons 4 місяці тому +41

    I am a Christian man and I thank you so much for this wonderful lesson.

    • @MSBowen-pk6ww
      @MSBowen-pk6ww 2 місяці тому

      I think men need to be more modest too, half naked men are just as tempting to women as half naked women to men. It needs to go both ways.

  • @des711
    @des711 4 місяці тому +73

    I, as a woman, absolutely see how women are dressing provocative. Good message!!!!!! Do not follow the culture of showing your body to attract eyes. Dress respectful and nice. Advertisements and pornography use provocative clothing to attract lustful thinking. Why would people not think it would not be the same in public. Dressing provocative attract lustful thinking.

    • @Jaco3688
      @Jaco3688 4 місяці тому +6

      Women’s provocative dress “trips a switch” in men which turns the woman into an object. It becomes difficult to get off that track and back into a God-approved moral frame of mind.

    • @krcross7954
      @krcross7954 4 місяці тому

      Men are responsible for their lustful thinking. Women are not.

    • @yosemite735
      @yosemite735 4 місяці тому

      @@Jaco3688 Learn not to rape Jaco, learn not to rape.

    • @MSBowen-pk6ww
      @MSBowen-pk6ww 2 місяці тому

      Men need to stop runnign around half naked at beaches. Men also need to be more modest like women need to. Why don't people ever seem to mention them? I dunno but I do know that I find it baffling. We all need to be responsible for our own dress, and our own thoughts like Jesus said to the disciples in the Sermon on the Mt. "Any man who looks on a woman with lust in his heart has commited adultery with her" yes he does tell women to dress modest in a dif book area of the Bible to not trip up our brothers so why can't that go for men too? Why not? I mean it is really hard to go to the beach without seeing men in almost nothing! So again if women need to be modest so do men! It's all tempting.
      I hope I didn't come off blunt just being honest, I have high functioining autism and Huntington's Disease which causes me to come off blunter than I mean to. This is said without malice or sarcasm.

  • @indriadrayton1132
    @indriadrayton1132 4 місяці тому +24

    She's been through so much. LORD, CONTINUE TO KEEP HER!!

  • @lauratempestini5719
    @lauratempestini5719 4 місяці тому +30

    Please pray our daughters be delivered from feminism’s pull and entrapment!🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
    Restore their purity and create a quiet and meek spirit!🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼

  • @ta2505
    @ta2505 4 місяці тому +6

    I wish someone had taught me this stuff when I was growing up in church

    • @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds
      @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds 6 днів тому

      It's interesting that most women find about modesty - or Christianity in general - when the beauty fade away

  • @annettefloyd
    @annettefloyd 4 місяці тому +10

    This is very God honoring and above reproach. Thank you Ms. Susan for this biblical teaching that is so desperately needed in the church today! There is nothing wrong with being a Godly submissive housewife. I actually love it.

    • @MSBowen-pk6ww
      @MSBowen-pk6ww 2 місяці тому +1

      Not all of us are meant to be married God's word tells me that in 1st Corinthian's 7! It tells you what marraige is for in God's eyes about avoiding burning in hell for your lusts. If you need sex then you need marraige. God's word tells you that it is good to be single if you can avoid sex. With God's help I can! I do my best to live seperate from the world as much as I can. Just like each person out there there are really tough times. I also tried to date but with High Functioning Austim and my terminal illness of Huntington's disease.
      It causes mental, physical, and emotional issues, my own mother was like a little baby by the time she passed away from HD. I can't be there for a husband and family the way that God calls me to be. So I would be selfish to force myself down a path I can't handle. I can't emotionally be the strong one like a wife needs to be, I can't be loving and selfless because I will need someone to help me as this disease progresses. I have peace now with God I prayed and I keep praying for his strength. I asked him to heal me but if he uses me the way that he used my mother's own weakness to show his strength then I would be honored.
      I asked for strengh, courage, grace and patience to keep going and to keep my eyes on him and with peace beyond understanding. My mother is a Chirstian she passed in 2018. She would say everyday "God is awesome!" And when you asked "How are you?" "AWESOME!" she loved God with all her heart and did not complain when life got harder for her, even when she almost died in 2010 she ended up with an ostomy bag. She used to make jokes and i asked her what to name it she said "Rose" with a big grin. She always had such an amazing sense of humor and strength that she definetly got from God.
      She had my father with her and had a familyi I just couldn't do that at 25 I was in and out of psych wards with massive suicidel idations and depression, they thought it was. 1 time a year I ended up in the hospital. In 2016 I snapped after a bad med set me off and ended up in a homeless shelter certain that I was not safe though I was! Through God's grace I got Mainecare and got to go to a dif Psycitrist dr. She said "Bipolar 2 wiht Mania" and took me off the poison meds I was on. It had set me off again and again for 10 years! I'm 42 now, my life is dif from other's who are my age.
      5 and a half years ago God helped me to realize that I needed to walk away from dating etc, he showed me in the Bible and with much prayer to ask for understanding of what he wanted for me. I finally let go of the fantasy the world had for me and I realized that I didnt' need marraige to complete me! I needed to put my life in God's hands! I did that and with his strength I keep going! I am focused on him, and learninga bout myself along the way as a Christian. I leave my life in his hands and I know that I am unusal and that is ok! That there is nothign wrong with a different path. In the end my mother's testimony at her funeral ended up being used by God to lead her nephew to Jesus! It made it all worth it!
      God used her to bring so many to him! I mean wow! It's hard to explain without writing a bigger book. It's important to role wiht the lot that God gives you and find a blessing in God where other's may see a frightening path a head. Yes I will lose my own abilities like my art, and taking care of myself day to day; but with God there is hope especially in the darkness of life! Do not give up hope! I am happy that you are happy with your life. I pray that you and your family will be blessed. I ask for prayer for me and my family. I know that God's got each of us in His hands if we have faith!

    • @carolgeorge6409
      @carolgeorge6409 Місяць тому

      @MsBowem🙏♥️

  • @purpose8141
    @purpose8141 5 місяців тому +19

    Thank you for pointing women to Jesus.💖

  • @racheltonner2509
    @racheltonner2509 4 місяці тому +5

    Susan is a great teacher of God's Word. Bless her for her work. Well actually the Holy Spirit is our teacher. She is just a vessel. I pray God will give her strength and health to keep doing his work. I pray God humble us women of faith to be submissive and modest for his Glory! Greetings from Indiana :)

  • @marianel7630
    @marianel7630 4 місяці тому +12

    Love this woman❤ She's speaking Biblical TRUTH from God's Word. 🇿🇦

  • @DeclaringChristsGlory
    @DeclaringChristsGlory 4 місяці тому +14

    Amen! Praise the LORD for this Godly teaching 🙏🏻☕️📜 God bless you Susan 🩷🌸

  • @Bro.JoshuaG
    @Bro.JoshuaG 5 місяців тому +26

    This has been a blessing. I have never heard that text dealt with with such grace and understanding by a woman. Interestingly, this was not about marriage yet I am challenged as a husband based on this material, to steward my marriage with greater honour to God.
    I loved in particular the section about women's dress. I am part of a church that interprets that text in the wrong way, the fallout of that is preachers - pastors and laymen, who downplay the biblical command for believers and especially women to be modest. I cannot tell how many times I have been angered in my spirit when I hear these preachers acquiesce (rather ignorantly) actually to cultural depravity on women's adornment.
    Great presentation Mrs. Heck and may God use this material to transform men and women who listen.
    Soli Deo Gloria!

  • @vivimariegonzalez1829
    @vivimariegonzalez1829 2 місяці тому +1

    What you are wearing today reveals what’s in your heart! This is so true!

  • @juliebaldwinpaz8540
    @juliebaldwinpaz8540 4 місяці тому +8

    Glory be to God ! I’m a present truth seeker and keeper of the Remnant church. I see everything in the church just like the world . Thankyou my dear Sister for your discussion… it’s all about surrender and having a relationship with our Lord. It’s much harder for young girls to submit to the Biblical standard why… they don’t see enough girls their age following the counsel. It’s a deception of Satan the Adversary to get them to feel like they have to be seen, heard and take charge … we need more encouragement and enlightenment from fellow Christian women like yourself. Thankyou for caring please pray for Paulina and Elizabeth my two girls that they would surrender from the heart n not because mommy says so. Amen 🙏

    • @elizabethrodriguez7363
      @elizabethrodriguez7363 4 місяці тому +2

      Prayers for your two daughters May the Lord give them eyes and ears to understand and receive truth! In Jesus name.

    • @cherylwebb8340
      @cherylwebb8340 4 місяці тому

      My children did not follow the law of their father and mother. It is heartbreaking 😢

  • @andreadavis5002
    @andreadavis5002 5 місяців тому +13

    Yes, this is needed, I have been talking with my neighbor about how we dress.

  • @jezusfreak1234
    @jezusfreak1234 4 місяці тому +13

    This needs to be addressed for real.
    Many Christian Women these days are dressing very provocative.

  • @MarkJohnson-xm6hy
    @MarkJohnson-xm6hy Місяць тому +2

    As a christian man, I have a responsibility to respect my sisters in Christ.

  • @user-mh2ye8uh1f
    @user-mh2ye8uh1f 4 місяці тому +7

    Listening to you from South Africa. What a great teaching, thank you!

    • @marianel7630
      @marianel7630 4 місяці тому +1

      I also posted a comment from SA Johannesburg/ Roodepoort . Do glad for this Talk / Teaching ❤

  • @bellcm1
    @bellcm1 4 місяці тому +4

    Absolutely wonderful teaching. Thank you very much for this. It is a huge issue in our culture.

  • @gailcarey3597
    @gailcarey3597 4 місяці тому +4

    I agree that we must encourage modesty.
    I am dismayed by the disregard women in the church have for those struggling with pornography addictions and fidelity.
    However, we must not be unkind toward those who need to come to that understanding.
    Jesus loved the harlot as well as the faithful.

    • @namelesswreck6383
      @namelesswreck6383 4 місяці тому +1

      As long as men don't lose their accountability for their own sin,...we can work side by side with them.

  • @heidismith3678
    @heidismith3678 4 місяці тому +16

    When Peter mentions the woman being the weaker vessel, I think he is talking about physically weaker, not that she is spiritually or mentally weak.

    • @karoleenascottage
      @karoleenascottage 4 місяці тому +6

      I heard it said this way - weaker as in more delicate. Compare to a crystal bowl versus a crock or other sturdy bowl. We require protection, care, and are designed differently. ❣️

    • @heidismith3678
      @heidismith3678 4 місяці тому

      Yes, I agree, as God is the ultimate artist and designer: he created the delicate Butterfly, and created a big and powerful Lion.@@karoleenascottage

    • @dcarr-kr7hk
      @dcarr-kr7hk 4 місяці тому +1

      @heidismith3678... I agree.

    • @skyydancer67
      @skyydancer67 4 місяці тому

      I have to disagree a bit. Our emotional nature leaves us more open and vulnerable spiritually than men. It was demonstrated as early as Genesis when Eve was deceived by satan in the garden. Yes, husbands should protect wives physically if the need arises but also spiritually as well since they are less likely to have spirits come after them IF they have a strong relationship with God and a strong, biblically sound foundation for that relationship. And again, look to Genesis, where Adam demonstrates what men should NOT do/allow.

    • @kalindakelly3417
      @kalindakelly3417 Місяць тому

      @@karoleenascottageI don’t feel like I need care or protection. I’m from the South and we women are pretty sturdy. I do love my husband tho and like a manly man.

  • @lyds4465
    @lyds4465 4 місяці тому +15

    I love your work, as an old charismatic religion, and a raving lunatic 😅 I was able to turn away from a false doctrine and a false religion, I am so grateful for you, Justin peters, Jim Osman, John MacArthur and so many others, it's so refreshing to hear you speak Susan ❤️
    I introduced my sister to your teachings, and what I couldn't do you did, I am grateful for that, she finally sees life so much differently. God bless you and the good work you do. ❤
    Love from south Africa 🌍

    • @SoulRevivalCoach
      @SoulRevivalCoach 4 місяці тому +2

      We’ve all been lunatics before the Lord truly regenerates us!! Haha so funny your wording tho

    • @JD-yq3dd
      @JD-yq3dd 4 місяці тому +1

      She joked about keeping good company with false teachers and all the laughter is sad. I'd be very careful with JM and JP and the crazy Calvinism they teach.

    • @joshuamorris9630
      @joshuamorris9630 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank God is raising the true teacher of the word of God to teach women properly and decently 😊

    • @lyds4465
      @lyds4465 4 місяці тому

      No person Wil speak 💯 truth..... only Jesus can.
      I listen to different teachings but I do my own research, that's our job to search, and the Bible is the way and only way.
      If it wasn't for Justin Peter and John MacArthur and many others I would not have seen that the path I was on led to self destruction. I followed the feeling good about yourself...... religion, like a Joyce Meyer and a Joel Osteen. Jesus was never the goal.
      I would have never studied and searched the way I do.
      I live in South Africa. We have 99.9% false churches and it's hard to find the .1% here they believe in voodoo, witchcraft, wealth, health, prosperity, etc, churches make people eat grass like animals and eat animals alive, the sick child will rather be taken to a witch doctor instead of believing in God and trusting Jesus or just trusting the process.
      I will never be 100% without sin, I do try. I can tell you this if I do sin, my sin grieves me, and I will stay on my knees and try for as long as i live.

  • @josedopwell9645
    @josedopwell9645 4 місяці тому +5

    Praise God for our sister Susan Heck. Her devotion to God and His Word, especially in stressing memorization, are so encouraging. Excellent message.

  • @michaelhillman4699
    @michaelhillman4699 4 місяці тому +6

    She KILLED IT!!!🔥🔥🔥

  • @loiscarteaux9389
    @loiscarteaux9389 5 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for posting this❤

  • @inHistime17360
    @inHistime17360 4 місяці тому +3

    Praise God. Thank you for sharing this message. May the Lord bless us all. 🙏❤

  • @sundeewalker777MARANATHA
    @sundeewalker777MARANATHA 5 місяців тому +10

    HALLALUIYAH AND AMEN ❤🙌THANK U SO MUCH FOR YR TEACHING AND FAITHFULNESS TO YAHUSHA IN TEACHING WOMAN SUSAN, IT WAS A BLESSING YO HEAR THIS VIDEO. I PRAY AND LIVE BY EXAMPLE IN HOPES THAT ALL MY DAUGHTERS, DAUGHTER INLAWS AND GRANDAUGHTERS TRULY HEAR AND KNOW THIS TRUTH OF A GODLY WOMAN PRAISE YAHUAH 🙌 BLESS U DEAR SISTER .

  • @HKLee-dn1fh
    @HKLee-dn1fh 5 місяців тому +11

    Good lecture!
    Thank you so much!

  • @robertboebinger7719
    @robertboebinger7719 5 місяців тому +7

    Blessings 🙌

  • @kelliknotts
    @kelliknotts 5 місяців тому +8

    Thank you so much

  • @blanchet2531
    @blanchet2531 4 місяці тому +3

    Love this🙂.
    Great encouragement to us women🙏

  • @Lakeslover1
    @Lakeslover1 4 місяці тому +6

    Wonderful message.

  • @MwiyeMulanda-vf4ru
    @MwiyeMulanda-vf4ru 4 місяці тому +7

    God has spoken through her .

  • @joelleonel6240
    @joelleonel6240 4 місяці тому +5

    Wonderful teaching!

  • @denniscrumbley8274
    @denniscrumbley8274 5 місяців тому +19

    Thank you very much! It was a pleasure to meet you at G3 '23. Even though I have taught this passage many times I was convicted by some of the things you said. I have fallen short of obedience to God as a husband and father. Thank you for your clear teaching.

  • @owlfethurz8377
    @owlfethurz8377 4 місяці тому +3

    This was such a wonderful message. So much to pray, meditate on and search the Word. Just a practical note: It is becoming very hard to even find clothing that is suitable, especially blouses that are not low cut. I had to make an effort to find higher cut tops to layer under or over quite a few tops. It does take some time and thought, but it's worth it. Thank you Susan.

  • @helendeacon7637
    @helendeacon7637 4 місяці тому +16

    This is so important and timely in the Sovereignty of God. Thank you for your faithful, godly presentation.

  • @c-u4377
    @c-u4377 4 місяці тому +3

    Fantastic lesson on this topic! I thoroughly enjoyed it. Can't wait to share this with my teenage daughter. ❤ Blessings to you.

  • @Godlylady1980
    @Godlylady1980 4 місяці тому +6

    Amen, Amen.. A good word for us Women as Christians who should be separated from our clothing, thinking, behavior, etc. And not As Christain women stating my body, my choice, do what I please. This is more needed in the church, etc... Good Message!! Enjoyed. Strive to do, be and be an Example to others. Make God smile 😊

    • @jennifert5120
      @jennifert5120 4 місяці тому

      You’re spot on. “Do as thou wilt” the doctrine of satan.

  • @suzetterookwood6749
    @suzetterookwood6749 4 місяці тому +2

    I love this… thank you

  • @lorieneharris6541
    @lorieneharris6541 4 місяці тому +1

    Awesome teaching

  • @TheBibleDIET
    @TheBibleDIET 4 місяці тому +1

    Praise God! What a good presentation ❤❤❤

  • @vaughanthiesfeld4697
    @vaughanthiesfeld4697 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow, beautifully said. 🙏🏾

  • @Gashd820
    @Gashd820 4 місяці тому +9

    Praise God for a much needed message on modesty. May the Lord help me to apply these truths to my life.

  • @bykingdomdesign1741
    @bykingdomdesign1741 4 місяці тому +3

    God Bless you Woman of God! Sound Teaching from a Godly Woman.

  • @inHistime17360
    @inHistime17360 4 місяці тому +2

    Amen.. That's for our good. Thank God. ❤

  • @nemamdala7300
    @nemamdala7300 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you

  • @hometowngirlncurls5669
    @hometowngirlncurls5669 4 місяці тому +12

    This video was good!!!!!!! I have 2 daughters and I'm definitely teaching them and showing them how to be modest.

  • @isblessed5785
    @isblessed5785 4 місяці тому +3

    Great teaching! I shared this video with a few young women one of which I know dresses super provocative especially in the sanctuary.

  • @meilingavelino9624
    @meilingavelino9624 5 місяців тому +7

    Beautiful teaching! I'm so grateful I found this 🙏

  • @cocomeek
    @cocomeek 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you this was so on point! I have been looking for help with this topic. Thank you

  • @keithparry1111
    @keithparry1111 4 місяці тому +5

    Good teaching. Bold teaching, in a culture hostile to God's holy word! In Gods eyes, He expects our conduct and character as His children, to reflect that of Jesus. Humble, meek and lowly in spirit. We will all fail every day but that should be EVERY believers' heart's desire.

  • @alfreidam5839
    @alfreidam5839 4 місяці тому +1

    73 years old, married 53 years,well done Susan!

  • @deanvanlaarhoven1413
    @deanvanlaarhoven1413 5 місяців тому +39

    Stretchy pants. Stretchy pants. Stretchy pants. We used to call that: " pantyhose." And now we call it stretchy pants. Many so-called Christian women walk around in public in thick pantyhose with nothing else on. Why is this not obviously recognized as immodest and ungodly?

    • @blessedrthosesermount99
      @blessedrthosesermount99 5 місяців тому +10

      Amen. Amen. Amen. 🙏

    • @naturallyawesomefitness1738
      @naturallyawesomefitness1738 4 місяці тому +5

      Excellent point!! 🎉

    • @des711
      @des711 4 місяці тому

      It is immodest. I am not sure why Christian women wear it and are blind to see how inappropriate it is to wear it.
      Non Christians wear it because they think it is no big deal and does not affect anyone negatively, except the extremely sensitive strict Christians.

    • @joanie19591
      @joanie19591 4 місяці тому +5

      " So called Christians " is a term only God reserves to judge .
      Be careful with your words , please .
      We may not agree but to classify them as non Christian ....hm .

    • @deanvanlaarhoven1413
      @deanvanlaarhoven1413 4 місяці тому +5

      @@joanie19591 You misunderstand the term " so-called Christian". The term leaves the judgment up to God. The term does not say that they are not Christians. They are so-called Christians. We are called to make judgments according to their fruit. Did you know that? And only God makes the condemning judgment.

  • @Morningstar2216
    @Morningstar2216 5 місяців тому +19

    Thank you for this needed message.
    Rev. Tiff Shuttlesworth has a series sex and marriage that is wonderful and goes hand-in-hand with this message.
    Some women in my "old" church would dress so inappropriately.
    It was really disturbing when the pastor did baptisms it was like being in a dingee bar having a wet tee shirt contest. Many of the men would stand around the baptismal waiting for women to emerge wet from the fount. Very troubling.
    3-b's should not be allowed (no boobs, no belly, no butt) not only in church but anywhere.
    Thank you for this message.
    Women we need to teach our children: the girls to respect themselves and their bodies and for our men that they not be fooled by sexually inappropriate women.

    • @bassxeon
      @bassxeon 4 місяці тому

      Is this is part of the problem because women are Not supposed to be reverend. Only men should hold such position

    • @dcarr-kr7hk
      @dcarr-kr7hk 4 місяці тому +3

      "Women we need to teach our children: the girls to respect themselves and their bodies and for our men that they not be fooled by sexually inappropriate women."
      Actually you should be teaching men to also respect themselves (and to honor God) for no man who does would be fooled by the body of any woman.

    • @bassxeon
      @bassxeon 4 місяці тому +1

      @@dcarr-kr7hk I think you’ve misunderstood my comment.
      I agree with this teach to women from Susan and as you listen clearly she’s against women being Reverends.
      Women are to teach younger women and children and that’s clear when are not to try and interpret scripture to men and break Down and explain to men nor guide the church and that’s what a reverend does.

  • @FatherQuayshaun
    @FatherQuayshaun 5 місяців тому +6

    Good video.

  • @sjurdurkjv
    @sjurdurkjv 4 місяці тому +1

    Heck, Susan, that is much needed for todays women. Tell them good.

    • @MSBowen-pk6ww
      @MSBowen-pk6ww 2 місяці тому

      it needs 6to be a two way street half naked men are just as capable of stirring lust for women as half naked women for men. Also God's word says that it's a man's fault if he looks on a woman with lust in his heart he has commited adultery with her. He's telling them to controlt heir minds to turn to him and ask forgiveness and turn from the lustful thoughts.

    • @pjetri24
      @pjetri24 Місяць тому

      ahahahahaha I saw what you did there .

  • @allig1415
    @allig1415 Місяць тому

    This answered many questions of mine, my church doesnt teach on most of these facts. Thanks for the whole word. It encouraged me greatly & opened up my eyes.

  • @ashley.s2764
    @ashley.s2764 4 місяці тому +1

    wow amazing

  • @Earth_Dragon566
    @Earth_Dragon566 4 місяці тому +12

    At 26:22 Susan said it was unheard of for a Jewish woman to attend public worship. Matt 13:56 suggest women in the synagogue. Act 16:13-14 Lydia was a dealer of purple cloth and invited Paul and his group to her house. Later in Act 18:26, which Susan mentions later in her teaching, Apollos was in the synagogue teaching when Pricilla and Aquila heard him. I question that statement of Jewish women did not attend public worship.

    • @mrs.ingham
      @mrs.ingham 4 місяці тому

      Thank you for bringing the Scriptures to bear on this point. This unfortunately is a very common take among even more reformed circles. But no where in the Bible (especially the Old Testament regarding the assembling of God’s people) would give you the idea that women were not allowed to worship, learn and receive instruction. Families have always worshipped the Lord together.

  • @mariafinke9913
    @mariafinke9913 3 місяці тому

    ❤shalom for you. Greetings from holland🙏🙌📖

  • @Lisa-ty5xw
    @Lisa-ty5xw 5 місяців тому +24

    Mothers and fathers should dress modestly in front of their opposite sex children and their friends and vice versa.

    • @thrilledinthird7415
      @thrilledinthird7415 4 місяці тому +11

      Yes! You're so right. I am pretty conservative in my clothing anyway, but as my son has become a teenager, I have become more intentional on not dressing in a way that I wouldn't want any future girlfriend to dress. I can't encourage him to value modesty if I don't set that example.

  • @blazee3895
    @blazee3895 4 місяці тому +3

    This is one of the reasons so many women remain in abusive situations.

  • @mikefrench4787
    @mikefrench4787 4 місяці тому +1

    Well said and well done 👍 I am going to subscribe to your channel

  • @mattleitner5194
    @mattleitner5194 4 місяці тому

    Needed

  • @jackiegregory4515
    @jackiegregory4515 4 місяці тому +2

    Amen

  • @dallywilliams6606
    @dallywilliams6606 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you great teaching ❤

  • @Kit-ug7rq
    @Kit-ug7rq Місяць тому

    Thank you for this. I've been very distracted lately and haven't been growing and maturing where I should. Please pray for me.

  • @mikayln
    @mikayln 4 місяці тому +3

    YES!! This has been taken out of churches as we "come as we are" in the last thirty years. God has standards for a reason. Feminism opposes *God's best* for women! Why settle?

  • @lexipflegl2527
    @lexipflegl2527 4 місяці тому +1

    17:55 AMEN!

  • @Virginia-vn7ud
    @Virginia-vn7ud 4 місяці тому +16

    Women really need to hear this . I spend my hour at the gym praying for modesty for the young women that walk in practically naked.🙏

    • @heistruth2865
      @heistruth2865 4 місяці тому +2

      Yes, praying for their hearts to first know Jesus as Lord & Savior & to have an intimate & Biblical relationship w/ Him.

    • @isblessed5785
      @isblessed5785 4 місяці тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @Jaco3688
      @Jaco3688 4 місяці тому +1

      I have come close so many times to approaching women in the gym to ask them “What gives you the right to come to the gym naked, like you are??” Disgusting.

    • @heistruth2865
      @heistruth2865 4 місяці тому +8

      @@Jaco3688 resist the temptation. I know we wonder why in the world would you leave your home like that. But instead let's pray for their hearts. That's what they need prayer for. May they KNOW Jesus.

    • @des711
      @des711 4 місяці тому +3

      I work in a public place where families go to shop, and quite a few women were wearing shorts throughout the summer with their cheeks hanging out, almost thong like. I do not want to see that. It is extremely inappropriate with the underage boys and girls there. It should be considered indecent exposure because of underage kids being around. Edit: I did mention it to management, and apparently, it is OK.

  • @yshstar
    @yshstar 4 місяці тому +6

    50:01 “One area you do not submit in is if your husband ever ask you to sin. You never submit.”
    You obey your Lord over your husband.”

    • @onewomansjourney760
      @onewomansjourney760 4 місяці тому +4

      That's true...scripture says to submit one to another as is fitting in The Lord. Is it Godley, Biblical, Holy, honest, true, righteous?

    • @Jaco3688
      @Jaco3688 4 місяці тому

      How many times does a husband demand that a wife to sin? “I want you to steal that steak!”

    • @wandertree
      @wandertree 4 місяці тому +2

      @@Jaco3688 This is not about how many times a husband might do this. It is clarifying that IF a husband asks a wife to sin (and this has happened in the world), a Christian woman's first responsibility is to obey God.

    • @kalindakelly3417
      @kalindakelly3417 Місяць тому +1

      God can give women wisdom when to submit. We are individually responsible for our walk with God and consequences that could arise out of our actions when we follow anybody. Just because a husband is a husband does not mean he automatically knows what is best. A wife needs to be convinced in her own mind that a course of action is safe and right to follow t give her full agreement to it. God’s intent was a partnership and two becoming one flesh in more ways than just sexual. One day I hope that instead of teaching women submission, they teach our daughters that they have a brain and a will and if something is off they never agree just to be agreeing. Unfortunately I’ve not seen much of teaching a wife to think for herself. It’s all about giving over her will to another.

  • @thecrew777
    @thecrew777 4 місяці тому +1

    Priceless message from a Biblical woman! Thank You, God!

  • @juliespade1573
    @juliespade1573 5 місяців тому +9

    Wonderful, only I wonder , or better to say…we are living in Biblical times still, same God who doesn’t change, same word.

  • @edwinherrera6840
    @edwinherrera6840 4 місяці тому +1

    Listening to her she speaks a lot about dreading to do things. I was supposed to be the light of the world do not dread.

  • @naamhaisiddhu
    @naamhaisiddhu 4 місяці тому +2

    💜

  • @PaolaSanchez-hc5my
    @PaolaSanchez-hc5my 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for this message, but I do feel very sad that we did not clarify the verse about women bearing children and how it relates to women who cannot have children or bare children or are infertile.

  • @debrahatfield7712
    @debrahatfield7712 5 місяців тому +19

    I completely agree with everything you said. My issue is the way it makes all the single women feel like second class citizens in the kingdom because He has sovereignly chosen not to bless us with husbands and families even though they are the things we desire the most. We must all submit to the sovereignty of God in these matters. Being in submission to His sovereign will cannot possibly make me or any other single woman a second class citizen in His kingdom. The people in His kingdom need to learn how to reach out and embrace and include us single women in the circle of life in the church.

    • @peachsangria8704
      @peachsangria8704 4 місяці тому +4

      I couldn't agree more. Single women are forgotten in church. If you're over 40 and single in church might as well be dead.

    • @zaram131
      @zaram131 4 місяці тому +1

      I agree 100%!

    • @karenreynolds349
      @karenreynolds349 4 місяці тому +3

      I so agree! We are a forgotten group. My hearts desire was for marriage, I didn't want the single life. But its where I am at.

    • @janewhitely964
      @janewhitely964 4 місяці тому +4

      Your worth is more than being married and a mother. It breaks my heart that churches limit women to certain roles, and if she doesn’t fit that, then she’s stuck.

    • @cactusannie738
      @cactusannie738 4 місяці тому +1

      It's a type of shunning and very hurtful

  • @gohawks3571
    @gohawks3571 4 місяці тому +4

    I'm glad this didn't disappear, wanted to listen to it. It sure is hard (at least for me?) to find decent clothes. I keep meaning to learn sewing so I can fix the wardrobe issue. I end up buying guy's clothes, because women's stuff looks ok on the hanger, but then it's thin, the cut is so low, things never fit right, and infamously no pockets. I swear, they design things for Barbie bodies☹️ Pray I am able to learn to sew! Thank you 🙏🥰

    • @littlehousepineywoods5352
      @littlehousepineywoods5352 4 місяці тому +3

      I often wear undershirts to fix the low cut problem. Thrift stores are also a great place to find more modest clothing for me.

    • @gohawks3571
      @gohawks3571 4 місяці тому

      @@littlehousepineywoods5352 I do want to go to thrift stores more often. I just hate clothes shopping so much☹️ I do that when I can wear layers, but I live in the desert, so kinda hard when it's hot 😞 I miss those gauzy clothes that were opaque. Now they're practically windows; like, what's the point?!

    • @littlehousepineywoods5352
      @littlehousepineywoods5352 4 місяці тому +3

      @@gohawks3571 I feel your pain on that. I'm in Florida.

    • @Kra-ri6fd
      @Kra-ri6fd 4 місяці тому +1

      I find dresses on Amazon. My favorites so far are Pretty Garden maxi dresses. There are many of that variety but look through and there are many feminine and pretty dresses. Carefully read though, some have side suits and some are very neck. I usually get the rounded neck but need to switch to v neck now and a nursing tank top under because I'm due to deliver in the end of March. They have beautiful colors and patterns. I get many many compliments. One lady stopped me at Sam's club and thanked me for dressing as a women and said she wished she saw that more often. Now I don't dress like this for compliments but they came anyway. I also just got a sewing machine and hope to learn to sew. I'm pregnant with a little girl and want to teach her how to aquire decent feminine clothing.

  • @user-wl8wl8lp9r
    @user-wl8wl8lp9r 4 місяці тому +15

    Many Christian women would love to be submissive but it’s hard to do when the husband is not submitting to the Lord 😢

    • @angelface22003
      @angelface22003 4 місяці тому +3

      Thats when submission becomes annointed. We submit firstly to God and give you best to him

    • @SoulRevivalCoach
      @SoulRevivalCoach 4 місяці тому

      Hard indeed! Prayers, God sees 🙏🏼

    • @txLALA
      @txLALA 4 місяці тому

      Don’t marry a man who isn’t.

    • @tinabennett8524
      @tinabennett8524 4 місяці тому +4

      My belief on this is to submit to authorities when that would not contradict The Word Of God. If a husband contradicts God, we should obey God, and trust Him. When this Godly disobedience is necessary we should approach it in a humble way, not in a rebellious way. Yielding in most areas and ways is best, but don’t be lead into sin, for companionship. You will feel divided within. When you are persuaded to compromise, more pressure to compromise will follow, drawing you further from Godliness, and righteous living.

    • @Yanina-ls1gy
      @Yanina-ls1gy 4 місяці тому

      Because christian women are not supposed to be unequally yoked with unbelievers,is a sin and God calls it an abomination.Also,light and darkness cant walk together.A woman submitted to God should nt submit nor comply or take part in anything that s ungodly,unjust or inmoral just to keep the ungodly man from leaving.

  • @lewislibre
    @lewislibre 4 місяці тому +1

    Great sermon! Sad to think majority of Christian women would hate this sermon

    • @Amourbeauty_mua
      @Amourbeauty_mua 18 днів тому

      Because it seem very oppressed and hateful toward the woman’s didn’t know you have to change the way you dress to be a Christian this modesty is driving me away from Christ

  • @christinelang8798
    @christinelang8798 4 місяці тому +3

    💙🙏💙🙏

  • @ajb.822
    @ajb.822 4 місяці тому +5

    I encourage women, wives, to think of submission more in terms of cooperation. Other than an occasion need to just plain ... obey, basically, what you're doing, being called by God to do, is cooperate with your team Captain, who He appointed Captain and is holding accountable to that office. As a sinner yourself, you are capable of understanding how the fact you're not, and he's not, going to be perfect as a person, as a Christian, as a spouse, as a parent, by any means but that doesn't excuse others less-than-godly, obedient to God, Christ-like behavior. Not to he too hard on yourself, either, but just as a way to understand the role and the requirement.
    That said, be careful of thinking you can't take a stand against evil, abuse of ANY kind, neglect of any kind, against you or your kids but esp. your kids. There doesn't need to be a specific Bible verse about it. There's plenty there about upholding righteousness, not partaking with ( = enabling, over-tolerating) evil, and evil is anything that's not righteous and good and Christlike. There's a place for patience and long-suffering. There's also a lot of foolishness in neglecting your own call as a mom, a parent, to actual meet your kids needs which incl. emotional and etc. . To take their formative, foundational years seriously. Kids are very resilient, don't over worry, but please, please, please pray about this for yourself or others. For how your otherwise godly counsel may be misunderstood or applied by women and girls in your circles of influence. My mom let my Dad bully and brainwash her into thinking she had no Biblical justification to ever insist on anything, he had no accountability and things went from bad to worse as they/we weren't going to any church anymore, and he got older and more bitter in life. Still somewhat in the Word and listening to radio programs, he just heard and focused on what he wanted to and mom just gradually got more and more passive, and basically trained us to do the same. To walk on egg shells. To not believe we had a choice to walk away if we had serious needs not being met, were being abused &/or even were/are over 18. An understaffed family farm and constant other crisis will make it never seen like an ok time to leave, by any means. You basically no all hell will break loose for any left behind. I got married at 27 and gradually left. I have 3 little brothers still there, grown ups but not, and it's not healthy or free. Our family is totally imploded, 4 of my 8 siblings left home underage or under bad circumstances ( jail, for one. He finally acted out around age 17 &18 in secret, stupid and illegal ways and got 3 yrs in prison and a felony record).
    Plz - don't let any version of this happen to your family ! My parents, on a good day, know a lot of truth and can seem like, kinda are, nice, charming, sweet people. It's not an act really, either. They have a HUGE blindspot, layers upon layers of not respectfully considering what " naysayers" say, and relatives concerns. Not praying about it humbly, with open ears. Not following thru on truth revealed in God's word... . Use or lose it, and it's extra hard to find under layers and years of willful ignorance and family drama !!
    Prayers appreciated !!!! I LOVE my siblings, and very much care about my parents. Plz, lift them up to God !! They need Galatians. Need to be in a Church and realize it's not all about them, but being a part of the body and letting God use us all, together. Finding the best one and sticking it out, being humble and prayerful and useful.

  • @MarkM-gt1vf
    @MarkM-gt1vf 5 місяців тому +6

    Very useful. I have a question though: if a woman is not allowed to confront/stand up the pastor in the assembly, can she still do it in private, possible, having the elders as witness?

    • @dcarr-kr7hk
      @dcarr-kr7hk 4 місяці тому +2

      @MarkM-gt1vf... I have.
      My pastor (years ago) told someone that if I knew he was doing something wrong, he knew I would say something.
      You bet I would! (In private but I most certainly would.)
      He's my pastor but he is also my brother! His life, his salvation, his relationship would me means something to me.
      One of the reasons (I believe) sin is so prevalent in church leadership is because of the silence of others.
      Silence (in the face of sin) is not live!
      Obedience is.

  • @jennifert5120
    @jennifert5120 4 місяці тому +5

    It’s so uncomfortable for me to watch men stumble as women parade themselves half naked in society. I watch them as they are unable to peel their eyes off of these women who purposely are putting stumbling blocks in front of them. I used to be one of those women who dressed provocatively. I realize that not only did I want to save my sacred body for my husband eyes only, but I also did not want to cause another brother to stumble because of my actions. I felt horrible for doing that to other men. Our society has fallen so far away from modesty and femininity.

    • @186itaalia
      @186itaalia 4 місяці тому +3

      Men are unable to peel their eyes away? Does the Bible teach that men have no control over their sin?

    • @wandertree
      @wandertree 4 місяці тому +2

      Women should not do this, but men also carry responsibility. God is aware of the temptations they face.

    • @blazee3895
      @blazee3895 4 місяці тому

      Men stumble because they’re not fully committed to God!

    • @blazee3895
      @blazee3895 4 місяці тому +2

      @@186itaalia The justifications offered for men are repulsive. Absolutely no accountability to God.

  • @SouthernAnnie
    @SouthernAnnie 4 місяці тому

    GREAT teaching! Thanks for posting. One point...."lest" means "so that." It doesn't mean "least" (smallest). It has a 'short' e, like "blessed," not 'long' like "least" or "yeast." (Gen. 3:3)

  • @tracyheath6076
    @tracyheath6076 3 місяці тому

    Appreciate your topic today. Do you have a video on women wearing headcoverings in the church as in 1 Cor 11:2-16? Did Paul not say to maintain the traditions that he delivered to the people? ❤

  • @faithbelleg7465
    @faithbelleg7465 5 місяців тому +3

    Any insight on 1 Cor. 11:5 about the head covering?

    • @user-iz8np3vv4i
      @user-iz8np3vv4i 4 місяці тому +1

      ...because the hair instead of a covering hath been given to her...
      In your own selves judge ye; is it seemly for a woman uncovered to pray to God? doth not even nature itself teach you, that if a man indeed have long hair, a dishonour it is to him? and a woman, if she have long hair, a glory it is to her, because the hair instead of a covering hath been given to her;...
      -Young's Literal Translation (YLT)
      Does even nature itself not teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a dishonor to him, but if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her? For her hair is given to her as a covering.
      -NASB
      A woman's long hair is the 'covering'.
      If a fabric covering is actually required,
      then all references to hair are
      totally irrelevant to the subject.
      It only can make sense if the
      long hair of a woman is the 'covering'.
      She should be covered, with her long hair.
      To have short hair, like a man, means that
      she is basically bald. Therefore uncovered.

  • @gramgrampmc.6937
    @gramgrampmc.6937 4 місяці тому +4

    Excellent message! We are wondering why Corinth 11 is not preached (about uncut hair)
    Thanks

    • @dcarr-kr7hk
      @dcarr-kr7hk 4 місяці тому

      @gramgrampmc.6937... Maybe because ones salvation isn't dependent upon it.

    • @flowerpower3618
      @flowerpower3618 4 місяці тому

      Interesting question . It doesn’t say uncut hair - it says longhair. How long is long - how long is not? It speaks of hair as a covering . Some say Christ is our covering …..

    • @gramgrampmc.6937
      @gramgrampmc.6937 4 місяці тому

      I don't see anywhere where it says "Christ is our covering". It says "long"...but what is long? 1 Corinth 11 answers this.
      I love these topics of modesty and such, I just would like all of the scriptures expounded on......but I think it may offend some.
      "But every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head-it is the same as having her head shaved. 6 For if a woman does not cover her head, she might as well have her hair cut off; but if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut off or her head shaved, then she should cover her head."

  • @lordcaitanyaarjunachampion
    @lordcaitanyaarjunachampion 4 місяці тому +3

    What about the need for purity among Christian women?

  • @D07770
    @D07770 4 місяці тому +3

    While it goes without saying that when one enters a church which is a sacred institution, an appropriate clothing should be mandatory yet not everybody is aware of that. Not every person grew up with a religious background.
    But what bothers me the most is that women are still seen as sources of "evil" or "temptress". If a man is distracted by what a woman wears (or not), maybe he has got some work to do.
    As a survivor of child sexual assault and rape, it feels as if we "tempted" men and are made feeling guilty because their "evil and perverse desires" were not under control. The man is often portrayed as "victim" while the woman is mostly "the perpetrator".

  • @crazychicken4063
    @crazychicken4063 4 місяці тому +1

    Where can we find other talks by Susan Heck?

  • @Bakeroo
    @Bakeroo 5 місяців тому

    Under his eye

  • @yasminogbu8929
    @yasminogbu8929 4 місяці тому +3

    The NEED for holy, righteous, none lustful men who are sold out to Christ in heart, mind & spirit 🤩🤩🤩

    • @Jaco3688
      @Jaco3688 4 місяці тому +2

      … says the woman with the avatar, wearing something less than swim wear. God help us.

    • @blazee3895
      @blazee3895 4 місяці тому +1

      I completely agree!

    • @namelesswreck6383
      @namelesswreck6383 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Jaco3688I have never wore anything revealing or remotely vulgar, and yet man have always find a way to sexualize me 🤷‍♀️

    • @yasminogbu8929
      @yasminogbu8929 4 місяці тому

      Swimsuit haha you mean you can see my shoulders, so now its a swimsuit.. cry me a river Jaco! Pull your eyes out if it causes you so much offence Jaco. @@Jaco3688