The Need for Modesty, Femininity, and Submission Among Christian Women | Susan Heck

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  • @haileymarie1168
    @haileymarie1168 Рік тому +63

    This teaching was a direct response to a prayer I had about vanity. God’s answer: Beauty is found in the Lord. Then He provided this video. Thank you for this message!

    • @JustLouns
      @JustLouns Рік тому +3

      It’s interesting you said that I’ve been thinking about this topic

    • @anastasiaburr3959
      @anastasiaburr3959 9 місяців тому +2

      I am very thankful that my mother was strict regarding her daughter’s dresses!😊

    • @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds
      @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds 7 місяців тому

      It's interesting that most women find about modesty - or Christianity in general - when the beauty fade away and then suddenly they're miss chaste

  • @adrianaarj5180
    @adrianaarj5180 Рік тому +68

    I'm definitely looking for more sermons like this❤. Thanks a lot.
    As a 25 years old woman, I can say it is quite challenging to change our mindset when we have grown up with the influence of feminism even inside of the church.
    Greetings from Colombia 🇨🇴

    • @alfreidam5839
      @alfreidam5839 11 місяців тому +7

      Set your mind by God’s grace to Love the Lord, he will transform you from within so that you will delight to do his will. Obey what you know to obey, and ask God for the related to obedience.🦅😎😉

    • @wandertree
      @wandertree 11 місяців тому

      @@alfreidam5839 This is so true!

    • @sppss617
      @sppss617 11 місяців тому +2

      She wasn't preaching a sermon. She was teaching/educating. Aparece que fue un sermon, pero no, no fue. Predicando un sermon no debe de ser las mujeres. Y ademas, predicando un sermon esta presentado diferente--with imperatives/commands/authoritative. I'm thankful you enjoyed her lesson on 1 Timothy 2:8--15. Consider memorizing scripture and also reading from beginning to end (Genesis to Revelation). - a fellow Christian (from USA)

    • @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds
      @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds 7 місяців тому +1

      É muito desafiador mudar (cambiar) sua mentalidade quando porque está acostumada com a validação masculina e atrair homens
      Saludos desde Brasil!

  • @vivimariegonzalez1829
    @vivimariegonzalez1829 10 місяців тому +6

    What you are wearing today reveals what’s in your heart! This is so true!

    • @jayonnaj18
      @jayonnaj18 2 місяці тому +1

      Amen, @vivimariegonzalez1829,it is sooo TRUE that for a Christian woman to dress modestly shows what it is her heart! We serve our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ even by what we wear OUTWARDLY, and our outward behavior!

  • @lisagutowski8808
    @lisagutowski8808 Рік тому +28

    I want to thank you for this truthful important message. Before I was saved I used to spend a lot of money on my clothes. I would spend 2 hours a day doing my makeup making sure everything matched . ( it never was revealing clothes but the purpose of the clothing was the attention I would get for having these amazing outfits) I looked great on the outside but I was so empty and lost on the inside. When I devoted my life to being a servant of Christ the Lord spoke to me and told me to dress in skirts and full coverage of shoulder’s .I have been doing that ever since. My number one job is to represent Christ and to spread the Gospel. How can I do that if people are asking me about where I get my clothes and complimenting my outfits. My inner beauty shines now because I am filled with his holiness and goodness not a heart of seeking approval and compliments. Thank you for this wonderful video . God Bless you and keep making videos about this topic that needs to be addressed.

    • @sofiabravo1994
      @sofiabravo1994 3 місяці тому

      Dressing in beautiful clothing can be used to glorify God, it’s an art God gave us the desire to create and I’m convicted to use clothing to glorify Christ and for people to see Him in the way I carry myself.

  • @doreenardourel7921
    @doreenardourel7921 11 місяців тому +16

    Finally some teaching that is biblical and relevant to women. Thank you for posting this. I am so blessed by it.

  • @ta2505
    @ta2505 11 місяців тому +10

    I wish someone had taught me this stuff when I was growing up in church

    • @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds
      @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds 7 місяців тому +1

      It's interesting that most women find about modesty - or Christianity in general - when the beauty fade away

  • @jayonnaj18
    @jayonnaj18 2 місяці тому +2

    I am an elderly disabled widow, but, PRAISE JESUS, I have been born again for almost 46 years now! My late husband was saved also, and we were blessed with a son and daughter who are now middle-aged! Both of them are saved and married, live in their own homes and serve our Darling Savior! I agree with EVERYTHING my sister IN Christ is saying and give God the glory for her sound Biblically teaching for women on this subject! Thank you, sweet Sis Susan! Hallelujah!😊❤

  • @indriadrayton1132
    @indriadrayton1132 Рік тому +28

    She's been through so much. LORD, CONTINUE TO KEEP HER!!

  • @ElizabethSmith-nam1-7
    @ElizabethSmith-nam1-7 Місяць тому +1

    Ooo I’m sooo grateful I found your teaching 🙏🏻
    We stood up for Biblical Truth and we were scoffed at, and even treated with hatred.
    We can only pray for the women and even pastors that believe women can be pastors 😢.
    But God will sustain us all when we stand up for righteousness.
    Thank you so much Susan.
    May the Lord bless you continually.🙏🏻❤️

  • @des711
    @des711 Рік тому +75

    I, as a woman, absolutely see how women are dressing provocative. Good message!!!!!! Do not follow the culture of showing your body to attract eyes. Dress respectful and nice. Advertisements and pornography use provocative clothing to attract lustful thinking. Why would people not think it would not be the same in public. Dressing provocative attract lustful thinking.

    • @Jaco3688
      @Jaco3688 Рік тому +9

      Women’s provocative dress “trips a switch” in men which turns the woman into an object. It becomes difficult to get off that track and back into a God-approved moral frame of mind.

    • @KCEagleFlies
      @KCEagleFlies Рік тому

      Men are responsible for their lustful thinking. Women are not.

    • @yosemite735
      @yosemite735 Рік тому

      @@Jaco3688 Learn not to rape Jaco, learn not to rape.

    • @MSBowen-pk6ww
      @MSBowen-pk6ww 9 місяців тому

      Men need to stop runnign around half naked at beaches. Men also need to be more modest like women need to. Why don't people ever seem to mention them? I dunno but I do know that I find it baffling. We all need to be responsible for our own dress, and our own thoughts like Jesus said to the disciples in the Sermon on the Mt. "Any man who looks on a woman with lust in his heart has commited adultery with her" yes he does tell women to dress modest in a dif book area of the Bible to not trip up our brothers so why can't that go for men too? Why not? I mean it is really hard to go to the beach without seeing men in almost nothing! So again if women need to be modest so do men! It's all tempting.
      I hope I didn't come off blunt just being honest, I have high functioining autism and Huntington's Disease which causes me to come off blunter than I mean to. This is said without malice or sarcasm.

  • @lemma4223
    @lemma4223 Рік тому +112

    Oh thank God, there are remnants of godly women in America and we need this a lot this time! May God bless you! I don't have words that express your beautifulness!

    • @A_Flourishing_Life
      @A_Flourishing_Life Рік тому +11

      There are many of us, the problem is the ungodly women are loud and obtrusive so you have to search for the women who truly desire to please and obey our Lord.

    • @sheilabrown3477
      @sheilabrown3477 Рік тому +3

      @@A_Flourishing_LifeAre you being Loud yourself, there are many wounded woman believers who would love to be nurtured and affirmed in there femininity by Godly women but those who function to care for the wounded are few and far between. So when you think you are building or helpful with your comments. “you are not” if you are a Godly woman Learn to Love as Jesus Loves. Practise on these “loud” woman they may need it. Much Grace..

    • @A_Flourishing_Life
      @A_Flourishing_Life Рік тому +5

      @@sheilabrown3477 Interesting way to perceive what I wrote...

    • @bernhardbauer5301
      @bernhardbauer5301 11 місяців тому

      I do not believe that godly woman have a desire to preach the word. These female preachers are sent from the devil. ​@@A_Flourishing_Life

    • @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds
      @BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds 7 місяців тому

      ​@@A_Flourishing_Lifethe big problem is that most women find about modesty - or Christianity in general - when the beauty fade away and then suddenly they're miss chaste

  • @21olympusmons
    @21olympusmons Рік тому +47

    I am a Christian man and I thank you so much for this wonderful lesson.

    • @MSBowen-pk6ww
      @MSBowen-pk6ww 9 місяців тому

      I think men need to be more modest too, half naked men are just as tempting to women as half naked women to men. It needs to go both ways.

  • @helendeacon7637
    @helendeacon7637 Рік тому +16

    This is so important and timely in the Sovereignty of God. Thank you for your faithful, godly presentation.

  • @purpose8141
    @purpose8141 Рік тому +23

    Thank you for pointing women to Jesus.💖

  • @racheltonner2509
    @racheltonner2509 Рік тому +5

    Susan is a great teacher of God's Word. Bless her for her work. Well actually the Holy Spirit is our teacher. She is just a vessel. I pray God will give her strength and health to keep doing his work. I pray God humble us women of faith to be submissive and modest for his Glory! Greetings from Indiana :)

  • @bellcm1
    @bellcm1 Рік тому +4

    Absolutely wonderful teaching. Thank you very much for this. It is a huge issue in our culture.

  • @TimmyWells-km1yf
    @TimmyWells-km1yf 9 днів тому

    Thank you for this awesome video

  • @annettefloyd
    @annettefloyd 11 місяців тому +11

    This is very God honoring and above reproach. Thank you Ms. Susan for this biblical teaching that is so desperately needed in the church today! There is nothing wrong with being a Godly submissive housewife. I actually love it.

    • @MSBowen-pk6ww
      @MSBowen-pk6ww 9 місяців тому +3

      Not all of us are meant to be married God's word tells me that in 1st Corinthian's 7! It tells you what marraige is for in God's eyes about avoiding burning in hell for your lusts. If you need sex then you need marraige. God's word tells you that it is good to be single if you can avoid sex. With God's help I can! I do my best to live seperate from the world as much as I can. Just like each person out there there are really tough times. I also tried to date but with High Functioning Austim and my terminal illness of Huntington's disease.
      It causes mental, physical, and emotional issues, my own mother was like a little baby by the time she passed away from HD. I can't be there for a husband and family the way that God calls me to be. So I would be selfish to force myself down a path I can't handle. I can't emotionally be the strong one like a wife needs to be, I can't be loving and selfless because I will need someone to help me as this disease progresses. I have peace now with God I prayed and I keep praying for his strength. I asked him to heal me but if he uses me the way that he used my mother's own weakness to show his strength then I would be honored.
      I asked for strengh, courage, grace and patience to keep going and to keep my eyes on him and with peace beyond understanding. My mother is a Chirstian she passed in 2018. She would say everyday "God is awesome!" And when you asked "How are you?" "AWESOME!" she loved God with all her heart and did not complain when life got harder for her, even when she almost died in 2010 she ended up with an ostomy bag. She used to make jokes and i asked her what to name it she said "Rose" with a big grin. She always had such an amazing sense of humor and strength that she definetly got from God.
      She had my father with her and had a familyi I just couldn't do that at 25 I was in and out of psych wards with massive suicidel idations and depression, they thought it was. 1 time a year I ended up in the hospital. In 2016 I snapped after a bad med set me off and ended up in a homeless shelter certain that I was not safe though I was! Through God's grace I got Mainecare and got to go to a dif Psycitrist dr. She said "Bipolar 2 wiht Mania" and took me off the poison meds I was on. It had set me off again and again for 10 years! I'm 42 now, my life is dif from other's who are my age.
      5 and a half years ago God helped me to realize that I needed to walk away from dating etc, he showed me in the Bible and with much prayer to ask for understanding of what he wanted for me. I finally let go of the fantasy the world had for me and I realized that I didnt' need marraige to complete me! I needed to put my life in God's hands! I did that and with his strength I keep going! I am focused on him, and learninga bout myself along the way as a Christian. I leave my life in his hands and I know that I am unusal and that is ok! That there is nothign wrong with a different path. In the end my mother's testimony at her funeral ended up being used by God to lead her nephew to Jesus! It made it all worth it!
      God used her to bring so many to him! I mean wow! It's hard to explain without writing a bigger book. It's important to role wiht the lot that God gives you and find a blessing in God where other's may see a frightening path a head. Yes I will lose my own abilities like my art, and taking care of myself day to day; but with God there is hope especially in the darkness of life! Do not give up hope! I am happy that you are happy with your life. I pray that you and your family will be blessed. I ask for prayer for me and my family. I know that God's got each of us in His hands if we have faith!

    • @carolgeorge6409
      @carolgeorge6409 9 місяців тому

      @MsBowem🙏♥️

  • @EllizyStorm
    @EllizyStorm Рік тому +9

    Listening to you from South Africa. What a great teaching, thank you!

    • @marianel7630
      @marianel7630 Рік тому +1

      I also posted a comment from SA Johannesburg/ Roodepoort . Do glad for this Talk / Teaching ❤

  • @Bro.JoshuaG
    @Bro.JoshuaG Рік тому +29

    This has been a blessing. I have never heard that text dealt with with such grace and understanding by a woman. Interestingly, this was not about marriage yet I am challenged as a husband based on this material, to steward my marriage with greater honour to God.
    I loved in particular the section about women's dress. I am part of a church that interprets that text in the wrong way, the fallout of that is preachers - pastors and laymen, who downplay the biblical command for believers and especially women to be modest. I cannot tell how many times I have been angered in my spirit when I hear these preachers acquiesce (rather ignorantly) actually to cultural depravity on women's adornment.
    Great presentation Mrs. Heck and may God use this material to transform men and women who listen.
    Soli Deo Gloria!

  • @debsthriftytips
    @debsthriftytips Рік тому +43

    Amen! Modesty applies to all places 🔥
    And I, too, feel for my college-age sons.

    • @zacharymccoy9262
      @zacharymccoy9262 Рік тому +7

      I’ll say a quick prayer for them. College campuses are rough for young Christians. I am in my junior year. It’s not a great environment for developing (almost done developing) Christians.

    • @untpython8480
      @untpython8480 Рік тому +5

      ​@@zacharymccoy9262Stay strong, bro. Don't be lead into temptation, but rather be delivered from evil.

    • @asimskentzos9231
      @asimskentzos9231 Місяць тому

      modesty applies to all people like your sons for example.

    • @asimskentzos9231
      @asimskentzos9231 Місяць тому

      @@zacharymccoy9262 rough on women in particular, the amount of rapes of women that happen on campuses for decades is disgusting. Young men need to change the culture that they have created.

    • @debsthriftytips
      @debsthriftytips Місяць тому

      @@asimskentzos9231. You really got me there. 🙄

  • @heidismith3678
    @heidismith3678 Рік тому +23

    When Peter mentions the woman being the weaker vessel, I think he is talking about physically weaker, not that she is spiritually or mentally weak.

    • @karoleenascottage
      @karoleenascottage Рік тому +9

      I heard it said this way - weaker as in more delicate. Compare to a crystal bowl versus a crock or other sturdy bowl. We require protection, care, and are designed differently. ❣️

    • @heidismith3678
      @heidismith3678 Рік тому

      Yes, I agree, as God is the ultimate artist and designer: he created the delicate Butterfly, and created a big and powerful Lion.@@karoleenascottage

    • @dcarr-kr7hk
      @dcarr-kr7hk Рік тому +2

      @heidismith3678... I agree.

    • @skyydancer67
      @skyydancer67 Рік тому

      I have to disagree a bit. Our emotional nature leaves us more open and vulnerable spiritually than men. It was demonstrated as early as Genesis when Eve was deceived by satan in the garden. Yes, husbands should protect wives physically if the need arises but also spiritually as well since they are less likely to have spirits come after them IF they have a strong relationship with God and a strong, biblically sound foundation for that relationship. And again, look to Genesis, where Adam demonstrates what men should NOT do/allow.

    • @kalindakelly3417
      @kalindakelly3417 8 місяців тому

      @@karoleenascottageI don’t feel like I need care or protection. I’m from the South and we women are pretty sturdy. I do love my husband tho and like a manly man.

  • @andreadavis5002
    @andreadavis5002 Рік тому +13

    Yes, this is needed, I have been talking with my neighbor about how we dress.

  • @marianel7630
    @marianel7630 Рік тому +15

    Love this woman❤ She's speaking Biblical TRUTH from God's Word. 🇿🇦

  • @Thlmabello
    @Thlmabello Рік тому +3

    Praise God. Thank you for sharing this message. May the Lord bless us all. 🙏❤

  • @cherylwiemann5863
    @cherylwiemann5863 2 місяці тому

    Very excellent teaching. God has used it in my life

  • @josedopwell9645
    @josedopwell9645 Рік тому +5

    Praise God for our sister Susan Heck. Her devotion to God and His Word, especially in stressing memorization, are so encouraging. Excellent message.

  • @owlfethurz8377
    @owlfethurz8377 Рік тому +3

    This was such a wonderful message. So much to pray, meditate on and search the Word. Just a practical note: It is becoming very hard to even find clothing that is suitable, especially blouses that are not low cut. I had to make an effort to find higher cut tops to layer under or over quite a few tops. It does take some time and thought, but it's worth it. Thank you Susan.

  • @denniscrumbley8274
    @denniscrumbley8274 Рік тому +19

    Thank you very much! It was a pleasure to meet you at G3 '23. Even though I have taught this passage many times I was convicted by some of the things you said. I have fallen short of obedience to God as a husband and father. Thank you for your clear teaching.

  • @TAdler-ex8px
    @TAdler-ex8px Рік тому +34

    Women are a precious treasure in God’s perfect design. When we are gentle, trusting and full of wisdom and grace we’re the evil ones worst nightmare. He wants angry, fearful, controlling women who condemn themselves, their husbands and children. By God’s mercy and grace we will be gentle and lowly like our Lord!

  • @Earth_Dragon566
    @Earth_Dragon566 Рік тому +12

    At 26:22 Susan said it was unheard of for a Jewish woman to attend public worship. Matt 13:56 suggest women in the synagogue. Act 16:13-14 Lydia was a dealer of purple cloth and invited Paul and his group to her house. Later in Act 18:26, which Susan mentions later in her teaching, Apollos was in the synagogue teaching when Pricilla and Aquila heard him. I question that statement of Jewish women did not attend public worship.

    • @mrs.ingham
      @mrs.ingham Рік тому

      Thank you for bringing the Scriptures to bear on this point. This unfortunately is a very common take among even more reformed circles. But no where in the Bible (especially the Old Testament regarding the assembling of God’s people) would give you the idea that women were not allowed to worship, learn and receive instruction. Families have always worshipped the Lord together.

  • @joelleonel6240
    @joelleonel6240 Рік тому +5

    Wonderful teaching!

  • @Gashd820
    @Gashd820 Рік тому +10

    Praise God for a much needed message on modesty. May the Lord help me to apply these truths to my life.

  • @BuildingYourInheritance
    @BuildingYourInheritance Рік тому +4

    Great teaching! I shared this video with a few young women one of which I know dresses super provocative especially in the sanctuary.

  • @kelliknotts
    @kelliknotts Рік тому +8

    Thank you so much

  • @HKLee-dn1fh
    @HKLee-dn1fh Рік тому +11

    Good lecture!
    Thank you so much!

  • @sundeewalker777MARANATHA
    @sundeewalker777MARANATHA Рік тому +9

    HALLALUIYAH AND AMEN ❤🙌THANK U SO MUCH FOR YR TEACHING AND FAITHFULNESS TO YAHUSHA IN TEACHING WOMAN SUSAN, IT WAS A BLESSING YO HEAR THIS VIDEO. I PRAY AND LIVE BY EXAMPLE IN HOPES THAT ALL MY DAUGHTERS, DAUGHTER INLAWS AND GRANDAUGHTERS TRULY HEAR AND KNOW THIS TRUTH OF A GODLY WOMAN PRAISE YAHUAH 🙌 BLESS U DEAR SISTER .

  • @Lakeslover1
    @Lakeslover1 Рік тому +6

    Wonderful message.

  • @yshstar
    @yshstar Рік тому +8

    50:01 “One area you do not submit in is if your husband ever ask you to sin. You never submit.”
    You obey your Lord over your husband.”

    • @onewomansjourney760
      @onewomansjourney760 Рік тому +4

      That's true...scripture says to submit one to another as is fitting in The Lord. Is it Godley, Biblical, Holy, honest, true, righteous?

    • @Jaco3688
      @Jaco3688 Рік тому

      How many times does a husband demand that a wife to sin? “I want you to steal that steak!”

    • @wandertree
      @wandertree 11 місяців тому +2

      @@Jaco3688 This is not about how many times a husband might do this. It is clarifying that IF a husband asks a wife to sin (and this has happened in the world), a Christian woman's first responsibility is to obey God.

    • @kalindakelly3417
      @kalindakelly3417 8 місяців тому +1

      God can give women wisdom when to submit. We are individually responsible for our walk with God and consequences that could arise out of our actions when we follow anybody. Just because a husband is a husband does not mean he automatically knows what is best. A wife needs to be convinced in her own mind that a course of action is safe and right to follow t give her full agreement to it. God’s intent was a partnership and two becoming one flesh in more ways than just sexual. One day I hope that instead of teaching women submission, they teach our daughters that they have a brain and a will and if something is off they never agree just to be agreeing. Unfortunately I’ve not seen much of teaching a wife to think for herself. It’s all about giving over her will to another.

  • @hometowngirlncurls5669
    @hometowngirlncurls5669 Рік тому +12

    This video was good!!!!!!! I have 2 daughters and I'm definitely teaching them and showing them how to be modest.

  • @Olivia840-love
    @Olivia840-love Рік тому +8

    Glory be to God ! I’m a present truth seeker and keeper of the Remnant church. I see everything in the church just like the world . Thankyou my dear Sister for your discussion… it’s all about surrender and having a relationship with our Lord. It’s much harder for young girls to submit to the Biblical standard why… they don’t see enough girls their age following the counsel. It’s a deception of Satan the Adversary to get them to feel like they have to be seen, heard and take charge … we need more encouragement and enlightenment from fellow Christian women like yourself. Thankyou for caring please pray for Paulina and Elizabeth my two girls that they would surrender from the heart n not because mommy says so. Amen 🙏

    • @elizabethrodriguez7363
      @elizabethrodriguez7363 Рік тому +2

      Prayers for your two daughters May the Lord give them eyes and ears to understand and receive truth! In Jesus name.

    • @cherylwebb8340
      @cherylwebb8340 Рік тому

      My children did not follow the law of their father and mother. It is heartbreaking 😢

  • @bykingdomdesign1741
    @bykingdomdesign1741 Рік тому +3

    God Bless you Woman of God! Sound Teaching from a Godly Woman.

  • @lyds4465
    @lyds4465 Рік тому +16

    I love your work, as an old charismatic religion, and a raving lunatic 😅 I was able to turn away from a false doctrine and a false religion, I am so grateful for you, Justin peters, Jim Osman, John MacArthur and so many others, it's so refreshing to hear you speak Susan ❤️
    I introduced my sister to your teachings, and what I couldn't do you did, I am grateful for that, she finally sees life so much differently. God bless you and the good work you do. ❤
    Love from south Africa 🌍

    • @A_Flourishing_Life
      @A_Flourishing_Life Рік тому +2

      We’ve all been lunatics before the Lord truly regenerates us!! Haha so funny your wording tho

    • @JD-yq3dd
      @JD-yq3dd Рік тому +1

      She joked about keeping good company with false teachers and all the laughter is sad. I'd be very careful with JM and JP and the crazy Calvinism they teach.

    • @joshuamorris9630
      @joshuamorris9630 Рік тому +1

      Thank God is raising the true teacher of the word of God to teach women properly and decently 😊

    • @lyds4465
      @lyds4465 11 місяців тому

      No person Wil speak 💯 truth..... only Jesus can.
      I listen to different teachings but I do my own research, that's our job to search, and the Bible is the way and only way.
      If it wasn't for Justin Peter and John MacArthur and many others I would not have seen that the path I was on led to self destruction. I followed the feeling good about yourself...... religion, like a Joyce Meyer and a Joel Osteen. Jesus was never the goal.
      I would have never studied and searched the way I do.
      I live in South Africa. We have 99.9% false churches and it's hard to find the .1% here they believe in voodoo, witchcraft, wealth, health, prosperity, etc, churches make people eat grass like animals and eat animals alive, the sick child will rather be taken to a witch doctor instead of believing in God and trusting Jesus or just trusting the process.
      I will never be 100% without sin, I do try. I can tell you this if I do sin, my sin grieves me, and I will stay on my knees and try for as long as i live.

  • @MwiyeMulanda-vf4ru
    @MwiyeMulanda-vf4ru Рік тому +7

    God has spoken through her .

  • @c-u4377
    @c-u4377 Рік тому +3

    Fantastic lesson on this topic! I thoroughly enjoyed it. Can't wait to share this with my teenage daughter. ❤ Blessings to you.

  • @deanvanlaarhoven1413
    @deanvanlaarhoven1413 Рік тому +42

    Stretchy pants. Stretchy pants. Stretchy pants. We used to call that: " pantyhose." And now we call it stretchy pants. Many so-called Christian women walk around in public in thick pantyhose with nothing else on. Why is this not obviously recognized as immodest and ungodly?

    • @blessedrthosesermount99
      @blessedrthosesermount99 Рік тому +10

      Amen. Amen. Amen. 🙏

    • @naturallyawesomefitness1738
      @naturallyawesomefitness1738 Рік тому +5

      Excellent point!! 🎉

    • @des711
      @des711 Рік тому

      It is immodest. I am not sure why Christian women wear it and are blind to see how inappropriate it is to wear it.
      Non Christians wear it because they think it is no big deal and does not affect anyone negatively, except the extremely sensitive strict Christians.

    • @joanie19591
      @joanie19591 Рік тому +6

      " So called Christians " is a term only God reserves to judge .
      Be careful with your words , please .
      We may not agree but to classify them as non Christian ....hm .

    • @deanvanlaarhoven1413
      @deanvanlaarhoven1413 Рік тому +5

      @@joanie19591 You misunderstand the term " so-called Christian". The term leaves the judgment up to God. The term does not say that they are not Christians. They are so-called Christians. We are called to make judgments according to their fruit. Did you know that? And only God makes the condemning judgment.

  • @TheBibleDIET
    @TheBibleDIET 11 місяців тому +1

    Praise God! What a good presentation ❤❤❤

  • @willtay3575
    @willtay3575 5 місяців тому

    What a well spoken, wise, and in the truest most biblical sense, beautiful woman. So thankful for teachers like her, who step in to teach other women (Titus 2). We so sorely need women stepping in to teach other Christian women and disciple them (just as we still need men to side up to teach and disciple other men!).

  • @mmyabaki
    @mmyabaki 18 днів тому

    Wow, ladies you are representing Christ in your dress, speech and service

  • @lorieneharris6541
    @lorieneharris6541 Рік тому +1

    Awesome teaching

  • @jezusfreak1234
    @jezusfreak1234 Рік тому +15

    This needs to be addressed for real.
    Many Christian Women these days are dressing very provocative.

    • @Brendaglam24
      @Brendaglam24 8 місяців тому

      I’m not a Christian

    • @blessedrthosesermount99
      @blessedrthosesermount99 7 місяців тому

      ​@@Brendaglam24 Poor you.

    • @asimskentzos9231
      @asimskentzos9231 Місяць тому

      because that is what a lot of men like, they are the ones who create the culture. And how do you know many women who dress provocatively ar Christian? Big assumption don't you think?

  • @Thlmabello
    @Thlmabello Рік тому +2

    Amen.. That's for our good. Thank God. ❤

  • @allig1415
    @allig1415 8 місяців тому

    This answered many questions of mine, my church doesnt teach on most of these facts. Thanks for the whole word. It encouraged me greatly & opened up my eyes.

  • @Godlylady1980
    @Godlylady1980 Рік тому +6

    Amen, Amen.. A good word for us Women as Christians who should be separated from our clothing, thinking, behavior, etc. And not As Christain women stating my body, my choice, do what I please. This is more needed in the church, etc... Good Message!! Enjoyed. Strive to do, be and be an Example to others. Make God smile 😊

  • @loiscarteaux9389
    @loiscarteaux9389 Рік тому +7

    Thank you for posting this❤

  • @cocomeek
    @cocomeek Рік тому +1

    Thank you this was so on point! I have been looking for help with this topic. Thank you

  • @suzetterookwood6749
    @suzetterookwood6749 Рік тому +2

    I love this… thank you

  • @michaelhillman4699
    @michaelhillman4699 Рік тому +6

    She KILLED IT!!!🔥🔥🔥

  • @TheologicalHandyman
    @TheologicalHandyman Рік тому +6

    Good video.

  • @janefarrer2868
    @janefarrer2868 5 місяців тому

    Please share more teachings from this amazing woman! Thank you 😊😊😊

  • @user-vg2lk6yr1z
    @user-vg2lk6yr1z 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for a good talk. I would like to expand the definition of modesty to the rest of our life and this applies to men as well. Modesty is not promoting ourselves in anyway through clothing, appearance, possessions, etc. but true modesty is promoting Jesus drawing attention to him in every possible way in our lives. That understanding would correct 99% of all that we would describe as worldly or ungodly.

  • @blanchet2531
    @blanchet2531 Рік тому +3

    Love this🙂.
    Great encouragement to us women🙏

  • @nemamdala7300
    @nemamdala7300 Рік тому +1

    Thank you

  • @Morningstar2216
    @Morningstar2216 Рік тому +19

    Thank you for this needed message.
    Rev. Tiff Shuttlesworth has a series sex and marriage that is wonderful and goes hand-in-hand with this message.
    Some women in my "old" church would dress so inappropriately.
    It was really disturbing when the pastor did baptisms it was like being in a dingee bar having a wet tee shirt contest. Many of the men would stand around the baptismal waiting for women to emerge wet from the fount. Very troubling.
    3-b's should not be allowed (no boobs, no belly, no butt) not only in church but anywhere.
    Thank you for this message.
    Women we need to teach our children: the girls to respect themselves and their bodies and for our men that they not be fooled by sexually inappropriate women.

    • @bassxeon
      @bassxeon Рік тому

      Is this is part of the problem because women are Not supposed to be reverend. Only men should hold such position

    • @dcarr-kr7hk
      @dcarr-kr7hk Рік тому +3

      "Women we need to teach our children: the girls to respect themselves and their bodies and for our men that they not be fooled by sexually inappropriate women."
      Actually you should be teaching men to also respect themselves (and to honor God) for no man who does would be fooled by the body of any woman.

    • @bassxeon
      @bassxeon Рік тому +1

      @@dcarr-kr7hk I think you’ve misunderstood my comment.
      I agree with this teach to women from Susan and as you listen clearly she’s against women being Reverends.
      Women are to teach younger women and children and that’s clear when are not to try and interpret scripture to men and break Down and explain to men nor guide the church and that’s what a reverend does.

  • @robertboebinger7719
    @robertboebinger7719 Рік тому +7

    Blessings 🙌

  • @mariafinke9913
    @mariafinke9913 10 місяців тому

    ❤shalom for you. Greetings from holland🙏🙌📖

  • @AviannaLemonier
    @AviannaLemonier 7 місяців тому +1

    Very grateful for this video. Please pray for me. There is something that has been an ongoing problem in my life for years now that Satan has been using to try and distract me and, unfortunately, I have been very distracted by it.

  • @alfreidam5839
    @alfreidam5839 11 місяців тому +1

    73 years old, married 53 years,well done Susan!

  • @MarkJohnson-xm6hy
    @MarkJohnson-xm6hy 9 місяців тому +13

    As a christian man, I have a responsibility to respect my sisters in Christ.

  • @vaughanthiesfeld4697
    @vaughanthiesfeld4697 Рік тому +1

    Wow, beautifully said. 🙏🏾

  • @gailcarey3597
    @gailcarey3597 Рік тому +4

    I agree that we must encourage modesty.
    I am dismayed by the disregard women in the church have for those struggling with pornography addictions and fidelity.
    However, we must not be unkind toward those who need to come to that understanding.
    Jesus loved the harlot as well as the faithful.

    • @namelesswreck6383
      @namelesswreck6383 11 місяців тому +1

      As long as men don't lose their accountability for their own sin,...we can work side by side with them.

  • @Kit-ug7rq
    @Kit-ug7rq 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for this. I've been very distracted lately and haven't been growing and maturing where I should. Please pray for me.

  • @lexipflegl2527
    @lexipflegl2527 Рік тому +1

    17:55 AMEN!

  • @louisekord9790
    @louisekord9790 4 місяці тому

    Amen God's word doesn't change according to culture or design.

  • @keithparry1111
    @keithparry1111 Рік тому +5

    Good teaching. Bold teaching, in a culture hostile to God's holy word! In Gods eyes, He expects our conduct and character as His children, to reflect that of Jesus. Humble, meek and lowly in spirit. We will all fail every day but that should be EVERY believers' heart's desire.

  • @laurakailua6305
    @laurakailua6305 5 місяців тому

    Dressing with Dignity, by Colleen Hammond. Is fabulous read about modesty.

  • @mikefrench4787
    @mikefrench4787 Рік тому +1

    Well said and well done 👍 I am going to subscribe to your channel

  • @edwinherrera6840
    @edwinherrera6840 11 місяців тому +2

    Listening to her she speaks a lot about dreading to do things. I was supposed to be the light of the world do not dread.

  • @meilingavelino9624
    @meilingavelino9624 Рік тому +7

    Beautiful teaching! I'm so grateful I found this 🙏

  • @Lisa-ty5xw
    @Lisa-ty5xw Рік тому +25

    Mothers and fathers should dress modestly in front of their opposite sex children and their friends and vice versa.

    • @thrilledinthird7415
      @thrilledinthird7415 Рік тому +11

      Yes! You're so right. I am pretty conservative in my clothing anyway, but as my son has become a teenager, I have become more intentional on not dressing in a way that I wouldn't want any future girlfriend to dress. I can't encourage him to value modesty if I don't set that example.

  • @debrahatfield7712
    @debrahatfield7712 Рік тому +22

    I completely agree with everything you said. My issue is the way it makes all the single women feel like second class citizens in the kingdom because He has sovereignly chosen not to bless us with husbands and families even though they are the things we desire the most. We must all submit to the sovereignty of God in these matters. Being in submission to His sovereign will cannot possibly make me or any other single woman a second class citizen in His kingdom. The people in His kingdom need to learn how to reach out and embrace and include us single women in the circle of life in the church.

    • @peachsangria8704
      @peachsangria8704 Рік тому +5

      I couldn't agree more. Single women are forgotten in church. If you're over 40 and single in church might as well be dead.

    • @zaram131
      @zaram131 Рік тому +1

      I agree 100%!

    • @karenreynolds349
      @karenreynolds349 Рік тому +3

      I so agree! We are a forgotten group. My hearts desire was for marriage, I didn't want the single life. But its where I am at.

    • @janewhitely964
      @janewhitely964 Рік тому +5

      Your worth is more than being married and a mother. It breaks my heart that churches limit women to certain roles, and if she doesn’t fit that, then she’s stuck.

    • @cactusannie738
      @cactusannie738 Рік тому +2

      It's a type of shunning and very hurtful

  • @ashley.s2764
    @ashley.s2764 Рік тому +1

    wow amazing

  • @jackiegregory4515
    @jackiegregory4515 Рік тому +2

    Amen

  • @blazee3895
    @blazee3895 11 місяців тому +3

    This is one of the reasons so many women remain in abusive situations.

  • @gohawks3571
    @gohawks3571 Рік тому +6

    I'm glad this didn't disappear, wanted to listen to it. It sure is hard (at least for me?) to find decent clothes. I keep meaning to learn sewing so I can fix the wardrobe issue. I end up buying guy's clothes, because women's stuff looks ok on the hanger, but then it's thin, the cut is so low, things never fit right, and infamously no pockets. I swear, they design things for Barbie bodies☹️ Pray I am able to learn to sew! Thank you 🙏🥰

    • @littlehousepineywoods5352
      @littlehousepineywoods5352 Рік тому +3

      I often wear undershirts to fix the low cut problem. Thrift stores are also a great place to find more modest clothing for me.

    • @gohawks3571
      @gohawks3571 Рік тому

      @@littlehousepineywoods5352 I do want to go to thrift stores more often. I just hate clothes shopping so much☹️ I do that when I can wear layers, but I live in the desert, so kinda hard when it's hot 😞 I miss those gauzy clothes that were opaque. Now they're practically windows; like, what's the point?!

    • @littlehousepineywoods5352
      @littlehousepineywoods5352 Рік тому +3

      @@gohawks3571 I feel your pain on that. I'm in Florida.

    • @Kra-ri6fd
      @Kra-ri6fd Рік тому +1

      I find dresses on Amazon. My favorites so far are Pretty Garden maxi dresses. There are many of that variety but look through and there are many feminine and pretty dresses. Carefully read though, some have side suits and some are very neck. I usually get the rounded neck but need to switch to v neck now and a nursing tank top under because I'm due to deliver in the end of March. They have beautiful colors and patterns. I get many many compliments. One lady stopped me at Sam's club and thanked me for dressing as a women and said she wished she saw that more often. Now I don't dress like this for compliments but they came anyway. I also just got a sewing machine and hope to learn to sew. I'm pregnant with a little girl and want to teach her how to aquire decent feminine clothing.

  • @gramgrampmc.6937
    @gramgrampmc.6937 Рік тому +4

    Excellent message! We are wondering why Corinth 11 is not preached (about uncut hair)
    Thanks

    • @dcarr-kr7hk
      @dcarr-kr7hk Рік тому

      @gramgrampmc.6937... Maybe because ones salvation isn't dependent upon it.

    • @flowerpower3618
      @flowerpower3618 Рік тому

      Interesting question . It doesn’t say uncut hair - it says longhair. How long is long - how long is not? It speaks of hair as a covering . Some say Christ is our covering …..

    • @gramgrampmc.6937
      @gramgrampmc.6937 Рік тому

      I don't see anywhere where it says "Christ is our covering". It says "long"...but what is long? 1 Corinth 11 answers this.
      I love these topics of modesty and such, I just would like all of the scriptures expounded on......but I think it may offend some.
      "But every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head-it is the same as having her head shaved. 6 For if a woman does not cover her head, she might as well have her hair cut off; but if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut off or her head shaved, then she should cover her head."

  • @mikayln
    @mikayln Рік тому +3

    YES!! This has been taken out of churches as we "come as we are" in the last thirty years. God has standards for a reason. Feminism opposes *God's best* for women! Why settle?

  • @user-wl8wl8lp9r
    @user-wl8wl8lp9r Рік тому +15

    Many Christian women would love to be submissive but it’s hard to do when the husband is not submitting to the Lord 😢

    • @angelface22003
      @angelface22003 Рік тому +3

      Thats when submission becomes annointed. We submit firstly to God and give you best to him

    • @A_Flourishing_Life
      @A_Flourishing_Life Рік тому

      Hard indeed! Prayers, God sees 🙏🏼

    • @txLALA
      @txLALA Рік тому

      Don’t marry a man who isn’t.

    • @tinabennett8524
      @tinabennett8524 Рік тому +4

      My belief on this is to submit to authorities when that would not contradict The Word Of God. If a husband contradicts God, we should obey God, and trust Him. When this Godly disobedience is necessary we should approach it in a humble way, not in a rebellious way. Yielding in most areas and ways is best, but don’t be lead into sin, for companionship. You will feel divided within. When you are persuaded to compromise, more pressure to compromise will follow, drawing you further from Godliness, and righteous living.

    • @Yanina-ls1gy
      @Yanina-ls1gy Рік тому

      Because christian women are not supposed to be unequally yoked with unbelievers,is a sin and God calls it an abomination.Also,light and darkness cant walk together.A woman submitted to God should nt submit nor comply or take part in anything that s ungodly,unjust or inmoral just to keep the ungodly man from leaving.

  • @mattleitner5194
    @mattleitner5194 Рік тому

    Needed

  • @Virginia-vn7ud
    @Virginia-vn7ud Рік тому +18

    Women really need to hear this . I spend my hour at the gym praying for modesty for the young women that walk in practically naked.🙏

    • @heistruth2865
      @heistruth2865 Рік тому +2

      Yes, praying for their hearts to first know Jesus as Lord & Savior & to have an intimate & Biblical relationship w/ Him.

    • @BuildingYourInheritance
      @BuildingYourInheritance Рік тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @Jaco3688
      @Jaco3688 Рік тому +1

      I have come close so many times to approaching women in the gym to ask them “What gives you the right to come to the gym naked, like you are??” Disgusting.

    • @heistruth2865
      @heistruth2865 Рік тому +9

      @@Jaco3688 resist the temptation. I know we wonder why in the world would you leave your home like that. But instead let's pray for their hearts. That's what they need prayer for. May they KNOW Jesus.

    • @des711
      @des711 Рік тому +3

      I work in a public place where families go to shop, and quite a few women were wearing shorts throughout the summer with their cheeks hanging out, almost thong like. I do not want to see that. It is extremely inappropriate with the underage boys and girls there. It should be considered indecent exposure because of underage kids being around. Edit: I did mention it to management, and apparently, it is OK.

  • @PaolaSanchez-hc5my
    @PaolaSanchez-hc5my Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this message, but I do feel very sad that we did not clarify the verse about women bearing children and how it relates to women who cannot have children or bare children or are infertile.

  • @sjurdurkjv
    @sjurdurkjv 11 місяців тому +2

    Heck, Susan, that is much needed for todays women. Tell them good.

    • @MSBowen-pk6ww
      @MSBowen-pk6ww 9 місяців тому

      it needs 6to be a two way street half naked men are just as capable of stirring lust for women as half naked women for men. Also God's word says that it's a man's fault if he looks on a woman with lust in his heart he has commited adultery with her. He's telling them to controlt heir minds to turn to him and ask forgiveness and turn from the lustful thoughts.

    • @pjetri24
      @pjetri24 9 місяців тому

      ahahahahaha I saw what you did there .

    • @asimskentzos9231
      @asimskentzos9231 Місяць тому

      and men as well

  • @naamhaisiddhu
    @naamhaisiddhu 11 місяців тому +2

    💜

  • @juliespade1573
    @juliespade1573 Рік тому +9

    Wonderful, only I wonder , or better to say…we are living in Biblical times still, same God who doesn’t change, same word.

  • @faithbelleg7465
    @faithbelleg7465 Рік тому +3

    Any insight on 1 Cor. 11:5 about the head covering?

    • @8784-l3b
      @8784-l3b Рік тому +1

      ...because the hair instead of a covering hath been given to her...
      In your own selves judge ye; is it seemly for a woman uncovered to pray to God? doth not even nature itself teach you, that if a man indeed have long hair, a dishonour it is to him? and a woman, if she have long hair, a glory it is to her, because the hair instead of a covering hath been given to her;...
      -Young's Literal Translation (YLT)
      Does even nature itself not teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a dishonor to him, but if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her? For her hair is given to her as a covering.
      -NASB
      A woman's long hair is the 'covering'.
      If a fabric covering is actually required,
      then all references to hair are
      totally irrelevant to the subject.
      It only can make sense if the
      long hair of a woman is the 'covering'.
      She should be covered, with her long hair.
      To have short hair, like a man, means that
      she is basically bald. Therefore uncovered.

  • @MarkM-gt1vf
    @MarkM-gt1vf Рік тому +6

    Very useful. I have a question though: if a woman is not allowed to confront/stand up the pastor in the assembly, can she still do it in private, possible, having the elders as witness?

    • @dcarr-kr7hk
      @dcarr-kr7hk Рік тому +2

      @MarkM-gt1vf... I have.
      My pastor (years ago) told someone that if I knew he was doing something wrong, he knew I would say something.
      You bet I would! (In private but I most certainly would.)
      He's my pastor but he is also my brother! His life, his salvation, his relationship would me means something to me.
      One of the reasons (I believe) sin is so prevalent in church leadership is because of the silence of others.
      Silence (in the face of sin) is not live!
      Obedience is.

  • @Chazd1949
    @Chazd1949 4 місяці тому

    I remember that book, "Bobbed hair, etc." and may still have it somewhere. I think it was written by Jack Hyles.

  • @JoshuaEdward12
    @JoshuaEdward12 Рік тому +5

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb
      @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb Рік тому +1

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    • @JoshuaEdward12
      @JoshuaEdward12 Рік тому

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    • @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb
      @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb Рік тому +1

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      @JoshuaEdward12 Рік тому

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    • @wandertree
      @wandertree 11 місяців тому +2

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  • @lauratempestini5719
    @lauratempestini5719 Рік тому +28

    Please pray our daughters be delivered from feminism’s pull and entrapment!🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
    Restore their purity and create a quiet and meek spirit!🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼

    • @debrawehrly6900
      @debrawehrly6900 3 місяці тому

      Yep. Let them be submissive woman, a doormat instead.

  • @lewislibre
    @lewislibre 11 місяців тому +1

    Great sermon! Sad to think majority of Christian women would hate this sermon

    • @Brendaglam24
      @Brendaglam24 8 місяців тому

      Because it seem very oppressed and hateful toward the woman’s didn’t know you have to change the way you dress to be a Christian this modesty is driving me away from Christ