It is a very bad long-term strategy to have a partner who does not share your values. Speaking as a happily married for over 10 years 41 years old man, who had some previous bad experiences.
-- Without watching this. There is NO way I would date a liberal woman. Not even if she doesn't have an Adam's apple. I've been married for 7 years to a good conservative Italian woman. Couldn't be happier that our values line up.
I (a staunch conservative) started dating a woman (a die hard liberal) while I was in my late 20s and working and she was in her early 20s and finishing grad school. All it took to turn her into a conservative was getting that first paycheck and seeing all those taxes.
@PlayfulJoyful Not true at all, we dated for a few years and got engaged while she was still in grad school. In fact, I actually enjoyed the fact that she was so liberal as it kept me open minded and not so set in my ways. 25 years later and we're still going strong! Thanks for the reply, Merry Christmas!
In the past I would have said that it should be ok to marry blue/ red as long as there was mutual respect… but it’s just so divided now, with leftists increasingly deranged over gender topics and a variety of other issues with a ‘prescribed party orthodoxy’, that I’d now say: DON’T DO IT. Your life is not an experiment, and it’s hard enough even when you behave sensibly and responsibly.
Ask yourself this question. Do you want a person with whom, speaking in the long term, most of your conversations will likely become arguments, as a lifetime partner?
@@shani5345 lol...what does it matter if you like to date a woman that would never date you at first place you damn fool...you sound like your mother is also your sister
"Try to associate with or marry or date someone who ACCEPTS and RESPECTS your deeply held values" If you can respect the views of someone you disagree with, you can be friends. If you can be friends with someone you disagree with it can be more. It's not the differing views that kill romance across political lines it's in tolerance.
Okay but where on earth are all the conservative women? I am a college student in an extremely left wing university in one of the most left wing cities in New Zealand. I don't think I've ever met a conservative woman around my age. I'm also not religious, although I am interested in religion and I am looking into different religions to see if one of them might be true.
@@alethein359 no they are everywhere but like i say they aren’t as open about it as you would hope. Mostly due to the govt/media social bias. The thing with allot of girls in NZ is they are more in the middle, than hard left or right. Definitely majority left overall though. The south island is way more traditional
This is why america is so divided. Politics to me and many others in the U.K is one of the most single boring things to talk about and nobody really cares!
You completely missed the point. Nobody said you can't date whoever you want, just that you should date someone with your same values for your own good.
@@efrenrodriguez4329 Saying that makes it seem like all conservatives are being put in one basket and all liberals are being placed in one basket these two groups come in a spectrum if someone is looking for someone who agrees with them on everything they are not going to have much luck . I realize it wasn't an order but it sounded like a very strong suggestion
@@marvenlunn6086 it is a very strong suggestion. Imagine if a conservative man marries a woman who wants to have an abortion over an unplanned pregnancy. To her it's ok, to him it's murder. How about a parent who wants to let the boy dress as a girl and the other finds it disturbing? So for the benefit of both, the advise is wise and completely appropriate, marry someone with your same moral, ethical, and religious beliefs.
@@marvenlunn6086you’re saying PC statements. Everyone should be free to date anyone from any perspective but for a long lasting relationship that will be marked with as little turmoil as possible people should date/ marry others who share the same values and moral structure as themselves.
@@efrenrodriguez4329 I would think you would want to know the person well enough to know where they stand on things before you marry them you could marry a conservative and the same thing could happen
I believe you can date whoever you want, if you believe that they are the one, then go for it, being liberal or conservative doesn't matter, your character matters more
Im kind of split on some policies but very mich a traditionalist who wants a traditional family. Basically a moderate Republican. No you shouldnt date someone who doesnt align with your deeply held goals and values. And I'd definitely prefer a conservative who is much more right of center than me over a liberal any day.
If you can get a liberal girl to date you go ahead. Be prepared to be dumped shortly thereafter but go ahead. Be true to your masculinity and your conservatism and you might just convert her to the sane side of life.
😮💨I tried dating a conservative it was an awful experience. Went a whole 6 months. To understand. It told me a lot about why they are lonely people and why its difficult for them to date. They don't want to hear it and it could be beneficial to them but because they are not emotionally aware, they will never understand. Doesn't matter if that guy is in a red or blue state.
@@andycampbell8622 The secret is all the good wifeable women are snapped up as soon as they are legal. Not all women are 304's, it just looks that way because the good ones are immediately off the market never to be seen again.
There's a huge problem that no one will address with modern dating. Not all, but most modern women are undesirable. They have high body counts, bring nothing to the table and expect their man to be their servant. It's become laughable that all the blame still goes to men in an age of loveless and disrespectful women. I'm sorry to say Mr. Kirk but the solution you give is outdated.
@@brittonprice637 so that means men are sleeping with women that they won't marry?And still have audacity to say they want women with lower body count,couse if they want women with no body counts so maybe don't ask women to sleep before marriage
@ I always go on the basis that I may not agree with peoples opinions or beliefs but I’ll always try to respect them. So if a couple are in a relationship and have differing viewpoints and know it it’s less likely to cause problems by agreeing to disagree.
No, because she will NEVER be happy and make your life a living hell.
Lol why ! And who's the one who will marry a conservative bigot!
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It is a very bad long-term strategy to have a partner who does not share your values. Speaking as a happily married for over 10 years 41 years old man, who had some previous bad experiences.
-- Without watching this. There is NO way I would date a liberal woman. Not even if she doesn't have an Adam's apple. I've been married for 7 years to a good conservative Italian woman. Couldn't be happier that our values line up.
Some real women have adams apple lol
Im with you .... I will not seriously date a liberal woman .... but, i will have bedroom fun with them
Should they isn't the question, it's a statement NO WAY!!!
Being married nowadays is a waste of life, women now get married thinking about to destroy's a man life.
I (a staunch conservative) started dating a woman (a die hard liberal) while I was in my late 20s and working and she was in her early 20s and finishing grad school.
All it took to turn her into a conservative was getting that first paycheck and seeing all those taxes.
I figured it might go that way.
She was a centrist, not a lib. Anyone whose mind can be changed on a dime doesn't stand for anything.
Interesting that you had to change her in order for the relationship to work.
@PlayfulJoyful
Not true at all, we dated for a few years and got engaged while she was still in grad school. In fact, I actually enjoyed the fact that she was so liberal as it kept me open minded and not so set in my ways.
25 years later and we're still going strong! Thanks for the reply, Merry Christmas!
@@kaybrown7733 Well said!
In the past I would have said that it should be ok to marry blue/ red as long as there was mutual respect… but it’s just so divided now, with leftists increasingly deranged over gender topics and a variety of other issues with a ‘prescribed party orthodoxy’, that I’d now say: DON’T DO IT. Your life is not an experiment, and it’s hard enough even when you behave sensibly and responsibly.
But women said they don't need men. Now men are saying they don't need women.
Oh how the turn.. tables 😁
it's time to legalize prostitution.
@@joaopedrobaggio4475 again lol
@@joaopedrobaggio4475 A maid a cook and a prostitute... less expensive lol
@@cosmic4037 always.
Last time I checked liberal women don't wanna date conservative men 😂
Charlie the Dating Counselor 😅 😅
Ask yourself this question. Do you want a person with whom, speaking in the long term, most of your conversations will likely become arguments, as a lifetime partner?
You can be friends with a leftist, but forget about marriage. Too many conflicts will crop up: education, religion, morality, etc.
i don't think liberal women would care if conservatives liked to date them or not
I don’t think that’s the point. How liberal women feel is irrelevant.
@@shani5345 lol...what does it matter if you like to date a woman that would never date you at first place you damn fool...you sound like your mother is also your sister
They start to care after 30, they love making videos about how us men won't talk to them.
@@Jurassic_Jews they wont.they gonna see u an insecure bigot
@@Jurassic_Jewsthat never happened dude😂😂 and even if it did these are minority, studies showed single women are happier
"Try to associate with or marry or date someone who ACCEPTS and RESPECTS your deeply held values"
If you can respect the views of someone you disagree with, you can be friends. If you can be friends with someone you disagree with it can be more. It's not the differing views that kill romance across political lines it's in tolerance.
Should Conservative Men Date Liberal Women? Not on a cold day in hell.
I live in Seattle, unfortunately! Fat chance I'll find a guy who's not liberal or a woketard here! I definitely plan to move out asap!
Nope. HELL no. Never. Its doomed to fail.
Okay but where on earth are all the conservative women? I am a college student in an extremely left wing university in one of the most left wing cities in New Zealand. I don't think I've ever met a conservative woman around my age. I'm also not religious, although I am interested in religion and I am looking into different religions to see if one of them might be true.
The truth is there simply are very few. Not remotely enough to go around. You’ll probably have to move to have a prayer in hell.
I’m from NZ and they are there, but allot of them don’t voice their opinions on it easily for obvious reasons.
@@Drifty325i They are... where? Do you mean just friends of yours, or people working in a certain industry, or what?
@@alethein359 no they are everywhere but like i say they aren’t as open about it as you would hope. Mostly due to the govt/media social bias. The thing with allot of girls in NZ is they are more in the middle, than hard left or right. Definitely majority left overall though. The south island is way more traditional
read the Book of Mormon
NO! NO! NO! 😱
This is why america is so divided. Politics to me and many others in the U.K is one of the most single boring things to talk about and nobody really cares!
darkness and light do not mix bro
Darkness=Christiannity. Light=liberalism
People should be able to date whoever they want it is a free country even if others don't agree with their choice
You completely missed the point. Nobody said you can't date whoever you want, just that you should date someone with your same values for your own good.
@@efrenrodriguez4329 Saying that makes it seem like all conservatives are being put in one basket and all liberals are being placed in one basket these two groups come in a spectrum if someone is looking for someone who agrees with them on everything they are not going to have much luck . I realize it wasn't an order but it sounded like a very strong suggestion
@@marvenlunn6086 it is a very strong suggestion. Imagine if a conservative man marries a woman who wants to have an abortion over an unplanned pregnancy. To her it's ok, to him it's murder. How about a parent who wants to let the boy dress as a girl and the other finds it disturbing? So for the benefit of both, the advise is wise and completely appropriate, marry someone with your same moral, ethical, and religious beliefs.
@@marvenlunn6086you’re saying PC statements. Everyone should be free to date anyone from any perspective but for a long lasting relationship that will be marked with as little turmoil as possible people should date/ marry others who share the same values and moral structure as themselves.
@@efrenrodriguez4329 I would think you would want to know the person well enough to know where they stand on things before you marry them you could marry a conservative and the same thing could happen
I believe you can date whoever you want, if you believe that they are the one, then go for it, being liberal or conservative doesn't matter, your character matters more
Im kind of split on some policies but very mich a traditionalist who wants a traditional family. Basically a moderate Republican. No you shouldnt date someone who doesnt align with your deeply held goals and values. And I'd definitely prefer a conservative who is much more right of center than me over a liberal any day.
Don’t do it. She will be easily triggered and keep you walking on eggshells.
broskies: here you are on wrong side of the internet. go back. dont soak in this dudes misogynistic blabla
If you can get a liberal girl to date you go ahead. Be prepared to be dumped shortly thereafter but go ahead. Be true to your masculinity and your conservatism and you might just convert her to the sane side of life.
Only if you want pain, change State.
The momemt he said beta i understood he is going to be goofy again
Not a chance....
Problem is they are all liberal
😮💨I tried dating a conservative it was an awful experience. Went a whole 6 months. To understand.
It told me a lot about why they are lonely people and why its difficult for them to date.
They don't want to hear it and it could be beneficial to them but because they are not emotionally aware, they will never understand. Doesn't matter if that guy is in a red or blue state.
You could say the same about liberals.
Ok and liberal women like to lecture men on how racist, misogynist, or homophobic they are. Nobody likes a woman who nags.
@@gocardinals8887No not reallt
Get your passport before it's to late
I would prefer a sweet young thing working at Sonic and has no political views at all.
Diddler
@@andycampbell8622 The secret is all the good wifeable women are snapped up as soon as they are legal. Not all women are 304's, it just looks that way because the good ones are immediately off the market never to be seen again.
You seem to like kids?
No no no no. She will he hurt. They are to voilant.
NOPE!
There's a huge problem that no one will address with modern dating. Not all, but most modern women are undesirable. They have high body counts, bring nothing to the table and expect their man to be their servant. It's become laughable that all the blame still goes to men in an age of loveless and disrespectful women. I'm sorry to say Mr. Kirk but the solution you give is outdated.
If they undesirable then how they have high body counts?If women have body counts that means that men are sleeping around too
@@Sam478y Undesirable for marriage.
@@brittonprice637 so that means men are sleeping with women that they won't marry?And still have audacity to say they want women with lower body count,couse if they want women with no body counts so maybe don't ask women to sleep before marriage
@@brittonprice637 so why men go out & sleep with women that they won't marry?
@@Sam478y Why wouldn't they? It's the only benefit of the modern woman so why commit? There's more to lose than to gain.
No.
Nah. Not biggest blue state in the country and more. /
No marriage until the laws are changed
Don't talk politics. And agree to disagree when needed.
That doesn’t work long term. If you’re looking to get serious with someone their beliefs and morals will matter
@ I always go on the basis that I may not agree with peoples opinions or beliefs but I’ll always try to respect them. So if a couple are in a relationship and have differing viewpoints and know it it’s less likely to cause problems by agreeing to disagree.
Sounds good until you decide to have children.
Lol. No. Hard no.
No.