12 hours on an overnight ferry in the North Sea

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  • In this video, I take an overnight ferry from Aberdeen to Shetland and review the experience.
    I quite enjoyed the Scotland to Shetland boat, although it was a bit bumpy! But if you're wondering how to get to Lerwick, it's the cheapest option (flights to Shetland are expensive).
    I was spending one week in Shetland for Up Helly Aa - videos to come!
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  • @johnmurdock2630
    @johnmurdock2630 Місяць тому +5

    Really enjoyed your video. You speak really clearly and are very easy to listen to. I’ve now subscribed and look forward to watching more of your videos.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому +1

      thankyou so much! I post lots of overland travel content from around the world, will be doing some more UK ferries this year hopefully too :D

  • @nickbeloff7307
    @nickbeloff7307 Місяць тому +4

    Excellent - thoroughly enjoyed this. Have done this crossing a few times, but in the middle of summer so completely calm. I remember wandering outside at midnight in complete daylight! You have a new subscriber!

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому

      Thanks for the lovely comment! It would be a different experience in the summer for sure :)

  • @gunlokman
    @gunlokman 7 днів тому +2

    Great video - highly watchable. Glad you made it across in one piece!

  • @JustAlex848
    @JustAlex848 4 дні тому

    2:25 I love how they close the decks off in bad weather, but not the smoking area! As one myself, I can confirm that any smoker worth their salt would rather risk immediate death than go without!

  • @NealePinkney-td2cn
    @NealePinkney-td2cn Місяць тому +1

    Nicely presented dear ,am sure you take happiness to wherever you may travel 😊

  • @COMEINTOMYWORLD
    @COMEINTOMYWORLD Місяць тому

    Great video. Loved it! xx

  • @21shubunkin
    @21shubunkin 24 дні тому +1

    Really interesting loved this video never knew where Shetland was first time I’ve seen any of your videos and I have subscribed happy travels safe travels all of you and enjoy Shetland

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  24 дні тому

      I'm glad you enjoyed it and good to have you following! Lots of ferry videos to come 😄

  • @BeersFrontiers
    @BeersFrontiers 17 днів тому

    Taking this journey in August, have booked the cabin. Thanks for the tour and info.

  • @PlaneandTrainWindowSeat
    @PlaneandTrainWindowSeat Місяць тому +2

    Great video. During my last ferry crossing from Oslo to Copenhagen the sea was really rough it was something I wasn’t prepared for. The result was disastrous but somehow I have maneged to survive. I will never forget this trip.😭

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      Ooh I'm hoping to do Stockholm to Helsinki this year! Hopefully that will be a little calmer as it's more protected?

  • @jeremyhaines4481
    @jeremyhaines4481 Місяць тому +2

    This is very interesting and informative

  • @lincolncityful1
    @lincolncityful1 Місяць тому +1

    Great watch thanks and that’s a journey I must do..

  • @Peteski-0
    @Peteski-0 Місяць тому +2

    I did this trip in 2003, regrettably we had a gale force 9 on way back to Aberdeen. Will never forget that night!!

    • @EleventhMonkey
      @EleventhMonkey Місяць тому

      Lol I know what you mean but I was in a gale 10 and had the best sleep ever.

  • @JustAlex848
    @JustAlex848 4 дні тому

    THanks for the tip on making porridge with hot water - I had never thought about that before! Much more convenient than doing it in the microwave!

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  3 дні тому +1

      Yes I do that a lot when I stay in Premier Inns etc. Saves some money when I just want a quick brekkie! :)

  • @redouanepeche
    @redouanepeche Місяць тому +1

    good evening my friend. Welcome. Thanks, for participating. Nice to meet you

  • @markjonno91
    @markjonno91 4 дні тому

    Fantastic video! Much love from Northern Ireland ❤

  • @margheritapaglia9753
    @margheritapaglia9753 Місяць тому

    Great video - thanks ♥️♥️♥️🇦🇺

  • @johnkerr1953
    @johnkerr1953 Місяць тому

    I went to Shetland years ago & stayed with a friend, but I flew from Glasgow to Shetland but made a couple of stops before landing in Shetland, so had a good holiday in Shetland, hope you did as well , also enjoyed your video, so well done to the person who made this great video.

  • @bobgoodall1603
    @bobgoodall1603 Місяць тому

    I did that many years ago, in the harbour you could shaved with the reflection from the sea, it was that calm, got on board still tied up and one of my companions felt sea sick, different strokes for different folks.My first crossing Harwich to Hamburg i took advice from everyone in the shared cabin, went the restaurant had sauerkraut mash and Würstchen in splendid isolation. Went back to the cabin where six others were either speaking to the divine, or to the toilet.

  • @kevanhubbard9673
    @kevanhubbard9673 Місяць тому +3

    I've been on that ferry.It has 2 variants 1/Aberdeen Lerwick direct,2/Aberdeen Kirkwall Lerwick.A bit slower via Kirkwall in the Orkneys.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому

      Yes I believe goes to Kirkwall two or three times a week? We wanted to visit Orkney as well but didn't have the time on this trip!

  • @andywright3450
    @andywright3450 Місяць тому

    Hi cracking video this cu on next one x

  • @jamesfoley4832
    @jamesfoley4832 19 днів тому +1

    I remember as child going to Ireland 2 or 3 times a year on the SeaLink ferry. I could never understand how anyone could eat whilst on a ferry. Just the smell of the food set me off. 😂😂😂😂😂 Great video. 👍👍👍👍

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  17 днів тому

      Haha I tried to eat before I started feeling nauseous both ways 🤣

  • @kirsteneasdale5707
    @kirsteneasdale5707 15 днів тому

    I have taken the same journey one October during rough weather.
    I made sure I had something in my stomach by eating on board the ferry about 45 minutes before departure and then took my first dose of Stugeron (the sea sickness pill of choice for my late father who was a keen yachtsman).
    I chose the Macaroni Cheese with chips and plenty of water (in the worst case scenario that ‘what goes down may have to come up again’)
    After dinner, I walked around between the bar and the aft deck from where you can see the horizon in the moonlight and / or the sea by the lights on the ship or by the light of the midsummer sun. It was rolling and bumpy but it was bracing and actually quite fun trying to walk across the deck which one minute felt like I was walking uphill at an angle and the next, I was running downhill. By the time I felt tired, it was beginning to be too difficult to navigate the deck (and stairs) anyway so I headed for bed.
    Fortunately I had been given an outside (window) cabin amidships. Amidships is the most comfortable part of the ship where you will feel the least motion so book one if you can.
    I did feel the odd bump and shudder during the night as it pitched and rolled. When the alarm on my phone went off for me to take another dose of Stugeron, I got out of bed, had a look out of the window but all I could see were the waves closest to the ship. I checked our position on my phone and found that we were just off Fair Isle. My cabin was going up and down so I went back to bed. I woke up in the morning to much the same view as you did and ate a very nice breakfast in the cafe before leaving the ferry.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      Thanks for sharing your trip! I took Stugeron too and it definitely helped. Pretty rocky, but wasn't too bad :)

  • @mephitidae5668
    @mephitidae5668 14 годин тому

    Haha nice Video! Keep it up!

  • @mattrawlinson4093
    @mattrawlinson4093 20 днів тому

    New subscriber!! Great vid!!!

  • @bertiewooster3326
    @bertiewooster3326 Місяць тому +1

    Yep the trip can be a right hood honker!

  • @prof.hectorholbrook4692
    @prof.hectorholbrook4692 Місяць тому +1

    My father was once "sea-sick" in London's Charing Cross Dock on the Thames during a heavy swell!

  • @ryan1mcq
    @ryan1mcq Місяць тому +2

    Yeah you dont want to be forward on a ship in bad weather. When i joined the navy in 2000 (no longer serving) my first ship was HMS Guernsey and my mess (accomodation) was right at the front of the ship and my bed was positioned so that my head pointed foward and feet towards the stern, absolutely horrendous in rough weather even with rough weather straps to strap you in lol

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому

      Thanks for the insight - that must have been rough! Definitely regretted our cabin placing at one point!

  • @tonys1636
    @tonys1636 Місяць тому +1

    I loved rough North Sea crossings to the Hook or Hamburg as the restaurants were often very quiet, Hamburg in very rough weather could often be close to 36 hours. The boss preferred to use ferries to Northern Europe as it kept the mileage down on the trucks and border crossings with all the extra paperwork in each country's language. Sailings to Spain in summer were mini cruises and I Was getting paid for it. All long before the Chunnel and EEC/EU.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому +1

      do they still do the ferries to Hamburg? That would be a really fun trip! I always see it as a mini cruise haha

    • @tonys1636
      @tonys1636 8 днів тому

      @@ClairesFootsteps Not sure, I've been out of the transport industry since '97 and not a UK resident since then, in IE now. A mini cruise in summer but can be an ordeal in winter and rough weather unless a good sailor, even Nelson suffered for the first few days at sea. A cabin low down and in the centre of the ship has less movement but engine and machinery noise can be a problem for some. I loved rough crossings as bars and restaurants were almost empty.

  • @colinhowarth3070
    @colinhowarth3070 Місяць тому +1

    Nice video

  • @30verity
    @30verity 7 днів тому +1

    I’m seasick watching the video!

  • @lyallbaybum69
    @lyallbaybum69 11 днів тому

    Try the Hjaltland/Hrossey in Winter when you are sliding about on your bunk, the vessel shudders and you can't walk to the cafe for breakfast!

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      haha this was winter! but sounds like it could have been worse!

  • @htmc2022
    @htmc2022 Місяць тому +1

    Take Gravol ginger capsules & ginger tea or good ginger ale to settle your stomach. I wouldn’t eat any strong coloured food - just plain white or beige food because that is what is coming up later on! Boat breaks the waves with it’s bow, eh? ❤ I would love to go to the Shetland Isles because I love the brilliant crime drama filmed there.

    • @bertiewooster3326
      @bertiewooster3326 Місяць тому

      Far better to have a great honk to clear the stomach of all that crap food stuck in the corners and in the bends of your body.

  • @Travels_Tim
    @Travels_Tim 15 днів тому

    I've done this twice rough out of Aberdeen both times just stretched out on the comfy seats in the bar much cheaper then a cabin

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому +1

      the cabins weren't too bad when split between us (worked out about £20 each I think!). Would have considered this if I was solo though!

  • @damienlovestheoutdoorsandr6110
    @damienlovestheoutdoorsandr6110 Місяць тому +4

    Such a fantastic upload. You are really sweet and always smiling. You have just got yourself another subscriber.

  • @EleventhMonkey
    @EleventhMonkey Місяць тому

    I did this ferry in gale force 10. Chairs sliding, glass breaking but man, I had the best sleep ever. My room was mid ship on the water line, must of been rocked like a baby.
    Both my travel companions had a journey from hell however.

  • @fionainnes-smith2706
    @fionainnes-smith2706 Місяць тому +1

    Never in a million years would I get on that ferry! A crossing of the English Channel in December was enough for me🤣

  • @wlskyrme2193
    @wlskyrme2193 Місяць тому +1

    I once got an overnight ferry from a southern English port (cant remember which one) to Denmark and I NEVER got on a ferry again I was so ill. 11 HOURS OF HELL!

  • @Xantec
    @Xantec Місяць тому +1

    i used the Hrossey in 2018 and 2019, the northsea was calmer than a bathtub

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому

      Really! What month was it?

    • @Xantec
      @Xantec Місяць тому +1

      @@ClairesFootsteps July :-) 2019

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому

      @@Xantec ah yeah I think it can be much rougher in winter! This was February :)

    • @davidtresarden9069
      @davidtresarden9069 Місяць тому

      12:12 ​@@ClairesFootsteps

  • @martinthornley1610
    @martinthornley1610 Місяць тому

    I am commenting b4 I’ve finished the vid, is there an all inclusive option? If so how much extra would it be

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      There's not an all inclusive option but you can pay extra to use the Magnus Lounge (maybe £30 extra?) which includes some drinks and snacks.

    • @martinthornley1610
      @martinthornley1610 8 днів тому

      Thanks for reply, great vid this

  • @BibTheBoulderTheOriginalOne
    @BibTheBoulderTheOriginalOne Місяць тому +11

    I wouldn't catch that boat for a million pounds.....I get seasick on a canal boat.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому +1

      haha yeah maybe not for you if that's the case!

    • @independentpuppy7520
      @independentpuppy7520 24 дні тому

      It's nice. I'm used to the sea though. Live by it, and been on crossings before. Dorset to Channel Islands.

  • @joetoy8999
    @joetoy8999 Місяць тому +1

    Hi, Sea journey rules…
    Drink 300 to 500 cc, of good quality Ginger Beer about 2 hours before boarding, and you should be fine.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      Thanks for sharing! I had some ginger ale on the ship, does that count?

  • @Silentauditor974
    @Silentauditor974 Місяць тому +1

    Stugeron…. Brilliant meds for sea sickness and I slept like a log 👍

  • @Islandicus
    @Islandicus Місяць тому +2

    Although Shetland wishes to retain its Nordic connection, Shetlandic is basically a Scots dialect. Shetlandic Norn died out in the mid nineteenth century but also by that time it was heavily corrupted and even if spoken today, it would be practically incomprehensible to any other Nordic speaker. The Faroe Islands fared better and the language is still intelligible for Icelanders although with some effort. I think there have been some moves to promote Norwegian on Shetland to regain the Nordic connection.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому +1

      thanks for your insight! I did actually post a more detailed video about Shetland later. There are definitely lots of Nordic elements but I didn't hear enough of the language!

    • @Islandicus
      @Islandicus Місяць тому

      @ClairesFootsteps Having studied Icelandic, I noticed that a lot of vocabulary is derived from Norse in Scottish dialects. You can see its influence too in the Gaelic languages. There is a movement on Shetland to promote Nynorn but personally I think it would be a better idea to promote Nynorsk since it a modern living language spoken widely in Norway which is the original land where Shetland Vikings came from.

    • @markwilkie3677
      @markwilkie3677 Місяць тому

      @@Islandicus There are a whole swathe of `Scots` words that are Scandinavian.

  • @GGK1986
    @GGK1986 21 день тому

    Done the same journey but the opposite way,if that makes sense ha in December 2015 late on a Sunday night. Basically everyone was too pissed to get sea sick it was like an 18-30s cruise with all the lads on who were working on the glass plant

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      Hahaha or were people sick but didn't know the reason? 🤣 sounds funny!

  • @kristianhaugland1886
    @kristianhaugland1886 11 днів тому +1

    Love Shetland😊. Seasick what is that? Love from Norway 😊

  • @independentpuppy7520
    @independentpuppy7520 24 дні тому

    I like the sea rough, and big waves. I would be hanging over the edge near the waves :) I don't get sea sick. Should be in the navy.

  • @kennyRumbles
    @kennyRumbles 7 днів тому

    I’ve done this journey.
    Guitarist sick as a dog , me and the whoever straight to he bar !

  • @DB-1984
    @DB-1984 15 днів тому

    I made this journey once and I’m never doing it again . They say we live and we learn and learned there is just some things in life that you just don’t do 😂

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      haha not going to lie I'd probably do it again 🤣

    • @DB-1984
      @DB-1984 8 днів тому +1

      Your crazy in the best possible way 😂

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      @@DB-1984 I've got a video about an overnight ferry crossing just in a seat coming up soon haha

    • @DB-1984
      @DB-1984 7 днів тому

      Il be sure to give that a watch to

  • @martinbvanecek
    @martinbvanecek Місяць тому

    thats were you would find me at the fifa game lol

  • @robertwalters5654
    @robertwalters5654 26 днів тому

    You need to go to fair isle shetland islands

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  24 дні тому

      Yes that's on my list! Didn't get time on this trip unfortunately (and think it's best in the summer?)

  • @ignatiusrodrigues588
    @ignatiusrodrigues588 29 днів тому +1

    Hi Claire how are you you have best videos do you have any membership options or way i can support you

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  26 днів тому

      Thankyou! I have a Kofi account here :) ko-fi.com/clairesfootsteps

  • @tonyp011
    @tonyp011 16 днів тому

    Hi Claire it's not floor onboard a ship as it's called a DECK and CABIN not room

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      Yes I know, sometimes when you're talking to the camera it's easy to say the wrong thing accidentally :)

  • @chriscoughlan5221
    @chriscoughlan5221 Місяць тому

    Thats nothing compared to that wee 2 hour crossing btween thurso( scrabster) and stromness- Orkney!!

  • @Gazr965
    @Gazr965 25 днів тому

    11 15 til 12 40 Was it the travel sickness pills that caused the more noticeable 'Vocal fry' ?

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  24 дні тому

      Haha think that's just what I sound like when I wake up 🤣

  • @jennyhicks1930
    @jennyhicks1930 Місяць тому

    The pods aren’t really pods, they’re just slightly bigger slightly more comfy reclining seats, not worth the extra £18 if like me you can’t sleep without stretching your legs out !

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      yeah Steve Marsh's video certainly made them seem that way!

  • @Hedgewitch47
    @Hedgewitch47 15 днів тому

    Hahahah that’s nothing!!! You got an easy crossing there. 😂😂😂

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому +1

      haha really! Have you done it in really rough weather?

    • @Hedgewitch47
      @Hedgewitch47 8 днів тому

      @@ClairesFootsteps my partners folks live on Orkney. The worst was coming upon the half sunken fishing boat, all crew lost. 😔😳
      Other crossings where all the windows have the metal doors on. 🤮🤮🤮 we’ve started going further north and doing a 1 hr crossing instead. 😂 wimps lol

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому +1

      @@Hedgewitch47 oh that's incredibly sad about the fishing boat. Yes we want to go to Orkney but think we'll take the shorter ferry when we do! Thanks for sharing!

  • @endamullen9689
    @endamullen9689 Місяць тому +2

    On a ship, you don't refer to the different levels as "Floors", they're referred to as Decks. The rooms are referred to as cabins

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому +1

      thankyou, slipped my mind a bit when talking to the camera!

    • @flyer1658
      @flyer1658 Місяць тому +2

      ​@@ClairesFootsteps ignore them we all knew exactly what you meant 😂

  • @flyr17101710
    @flyr17101710 20 днів тому

    How do you get back?

  • @baysideharpy8350
    @baysideharpy8350 21 день тому

    If you go to sea thinking, worrying, wondering, focusing on getting seasick, guess what’s going to happen.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  20 днів тому +1

      OR you could just be taking reasonable precautions as someone who's suffered with seasickness badly in the past...

  • @stuarthepburn6508
    @stuarthepburn6508 Місяць тому +7

    It's Shetland not Shet Land

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому +4

      I only said that once 😂 sometimes when you're filming it's easy to pronounce things slightly wrong

  • @reciprocating
    @reciprocating Місяць тому

    Did you see Jimmy Perez..😅

  • @baysideharpy8350
    @baysideharpy8350 21 день тому

    It’s a SHIP

  • @MrYashka12
    @MrYashka12 8 днів тому

    I get sea sick in a deep bath

  • @user-rl8mq9uf7b
    @user-rl8mq9uf7b Місяць тому

    I went on the irish sea and my friend kept walking around the ship he said he felt better walking around weirdo

  • @WILLIAM1690WALES
    @WILLIAM1690WALES Місяць тому

    I have never seen that flag before I wondered which One, it was a white cross on a blue background and of course the Shetlands

  • @Michael43713
    @Michael43713 Місяць тому

    It's a ship.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому

      not a ferry?

    • @Michael43713
      @Michael43713 Місяць тому

      You said it was a boat. It's a ship.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому +1

      @@Michael43713 my maritime knowledge isn't amazing so I may be wrong but I was under the impression that ferries should actually be called boats... Quick Google seems to say that's the case but I'm only going by a few sources.

    • @Michael43713
      @Michael43713 Місяць тому

      It's a question of size. While it is possible for a ferry to be a boat, the ferry you were on is a ship.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  Місяць тому

      @@Michael43713 fair enough, I didn't know that! So at what size does it become a ship?

  • @jimmyoconnell6167
    @jimmyoconnell6167 Місяць тому

    I lived snd worked in Shetland you should of got on a airplane its faster

  • @TARZANswings
    @TARZANswings Місяць тому +1

    Shetland is part of Scotland !.the picts, decendants of modern day Scots inhabited the island's long before the vikings, and the Scots got it back

  • @ozbolli
    @ozbolli Місяць тому

    ShetLAND?

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому

      Sometimes it's easy to get your words jumbled when you're speaking to the camera!

  • @oliverphin8622
    @oliverphin8622 Місяць тому

    Dont be so naive about Nordic, when they have oil they want independence, when they are struggling they all want the dole

  • @oliverphin8622
    @oliverphin8622 Місяць тому

    Why would anyone want to go to shetland

  • @MrYashka12
    @MrYashka12 8 днів тому

    20 minutes of some chick talking to a camera....lame

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  8 днів тому +1

      Leaving comments like this and referring to women as "chicks" is even lamer

  • @iCE2sKY
    @iCE2sKY Місяць тому +1

    Wow what a great trip!! 🌊🛳⚓
    To travel by boat or train is best!!!🤢🤮 ha ha I`m kidding! 🤣

  • @brittania1974
    @brittania1974 6 днів тому

    What a dull young woman.

    • @ClairesFootsteps
      @ClairesFootsteps  3 дні тому +1

      At least I'm not spending my time commenting negative things on people's videos :)

    • @brittania1974
      @brittania1974 2 дні тому

      @ClairesFootsteps if you're going to put yourself 'out there' you'd better develop a thick skin ASAP. Not everybody is going to fake it, there are a few who will give you their own honest thoughts. Get real snowflake.