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  • Опубліковано 23 сер 2024
  • Sadhguru discusses how parenting has changed over the years. He emphasizes the importance of parents being a friend to their children, someone who understands and supports them, rather than being a boss. He also explains why parents should create a nurturing and joyful atmosphere at home.
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  • @yourstrulytk12
    @yourstrulytk12 9 місяців тому +28

    "They happen to come through you. They don't come from you."
    beautifully sums up a lot of things
    also the last bit "don't teach them philosophy. lead by example." is VERY IMPORTANT
    this video is in sync with my personal insights.
    From what I know:
    parents should correct the course of their children. But stop restricting free will to a dangerous extent. Teach your child 'the approach' and then just trust intelligence to figure out the rest. 😊
    Thank you sadhguru for this video.

  • @prajwaljoseph2351
    @prajwaljoseph2351 9 місяців тому +27

    The thing is only those who know , know. Very few children grow up unscathed from their own parents

  • @spiritualseeker1993
    @spiritualseeker1993 9 місяців тому +11

    They should grow up in a atmosphere of joy and love because This is a nurture they needed for a life to shape itself ❤

  • @sooryan9081
    @sooryan9081 8 місяців тому +11

    I am ever grateful to the universe for having me in Sadhguru's time ❤😭🙏

  • @Strangekid_fr
    @Strangekid_fr 8 місяців тому +5

    He is like a parent to me who understands me every time 🥺❤️

  • @CharmerLMN
    @CharmerLMN 9 місяців тому +7

    Wow, now I know why all the niece's and nephews love me sooo much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cherrygautam5549
    @cherrygautam5549 8 місяців тому +2

    He is just like mother who all time cares and guides her child ...

  • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
    @user-yx2zu6tf9i 8 місяців тому +4

    Being spiritual means being empathetic, sympathetic, compassionate , sensible ,unbiased & simultaneously detached...

  • @Kpopbhavna
    @Kpopbhavna 9 місяців тому +12

    Whatever he said touched me really 🖤

  • @evelyneamasse7488
    @evelyneamasse7488 9 місяців тому +6

    Thank you, ... Very good Teaching ! ... The ''Universe'' trough our Universal identity, ... is the true ''boss''. 🌌

  • @loridee6138
    @loridee6138 9 місяців тому +7

    Your kids come through you, not from you. ❤

  • @alanviewanime
    @alanviewanime 9 місяців тому +6

    Chadguru ❤

  • @lynnestar8637
    @lynnestar8637 Місяць тому

    wish every parent in the world could have the same mindset as yours

  • @yourvfxhelper
    @yourvfxhelper 9 місяців тому +3

    U know how we came here 😂😂❤like carry bhayyy gang 🫶❤️‍🔥

  • @jmteves3440
    @jmteves3440 9 місяців тому +4

    I really like u guru ji u help me a lot in so many ways❤️

  • @GerardoDiGiuseppe
    @GerardoDiGiuseppe 8 місяців тому +9

    I agree about being a "friend" instead of bossy and I wonder if it's healthy to shield them from certain emotions

    • @sorenlampe951
      @sorenlampe951 7 місяців тому +2

      you dont need to wonder. many people who grow up and have mental problems you can see they had a hard childhood most of the time. 😢

    • @Inspirations4you_
      @Inspirations4you_ 4 місяці тому

      It’s healthy for them to see how you navigate and process your emotions as long as the parent is processing them in a healthy way. Children help refine us so much

  • @avinash6820
    @avinash6820 9 місяців тому +3

    👏👏👌👌😊😊🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
    This One To Get That Realization of Souls & Hearts for a beautiful realization of the same.
    Jai Gurudev 🙏👍

  • @woodspriteful
    @woodspriteful 9 місяців тому +18

    Parents today succeed when their relationship with their child sets a foundation for future relationships that are nourishing, whole-person, honest, emotionally connected.

  • @Lillielotus444
    @Lillielotus444 8 місяців тому +3

    Perfect advice!

  • @reme7903
    @reme7903 9 місяців тому +6

    In my point of view children should be carefully exposed to anger, jealosy and other "unpleasant" aspects of life but a parent should never direct their own problems or negative emotions towards their children but completely bordering them off from those parts of life leaves them unprepared for what's to come in the walk of life. But still don't pass on your unprocessed issues onto your child!

    • @DeanoAcorn
      @DeanoAcorn 7 місяців тому

      100%. Seems a bit idealistic to not expose your children to all aspects of human emotion. We all make mistakes, owning and fixing them is greater for the kids to see.

  • @SWAMYNATH.S
    @SWAMYNATH.S 9 місяців тому +2

    Namaskaram sadhguru......

  • @geerishadevi5003
    @geerishadevi5003 8 місяців тому +1

    ❤ Thank you Guru ji.
    May god bless you.

  • @ABasit-mx7rf
    @ABasit-mx7rf 9 місяців тому +1

    I also...

  • @Piszon_en_Smithfield
    @Piszon_en_Smithfield 9 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Sadhguru

  • @user-tk2jr1mc2g
    @user-tk2jr1mc2g 9 місяців тому +3

    Chaddguru❤

  • @gela-uh9pd
    @gela-uh9pd 9 місяців тому +4

    si esto lo hubiese escuchado hace 10 años hoy seria el mejor amigo de mi hijo que pena por mi

    • @lokeshhoskere8425
      @lokeshhoskere8425 8 місяців тому +3

      Oye, es tan hermoso que te diste cuenta,
      No te sientas avergonzado.
      Más bien, si puedes, sé un verdadero amigo para tu hijo ahora... incluso si es mayor.
      Les encantará tu transformación, ya que no es solo para ellos sino también para tu crecimiento.
      Por favor no te preocupes. Es bueno para ti. Cuidarse.

  • @itsstark295
    @itsstark295 9 місяців тому +2

    Hey Chadguru🙂

  • @milosbozilovic7843
    @milosbozilovic7843 8 місяців тому

    Thank you teacher, maybe we are to late to never introduce all of the ugly things but we will try to make our best never to repeat the mistakes made.. i feel sorry not have heard this before

  • @LazFume
    @LazFume 9 місяців тому +3

    🙏🏿❤grateful for the lesson Sadghuru. Love and Light from Evaton in South Africa🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
    @user-yx2zu6tf9i 8 місяців тому +3

    Parents are your source and you have to honour them...they are your roots and you have to take care of them...

    • @nexuscross3233
      @nexuscross3233 8 місяців тому +3

      That's not the truth, every parent chose to have children, so the should honor the child, instead of Demanding something that they feel entitled to.

    • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
      @user-yx2zu6tf9i 8 місяців тому

      ​​​​@@nexuscross3233 opinions should be objective not subjective...responsibility, sensibility , nurturance ,assistance etc should be from both the sides...I am not taking the cases into the scenario where parents are less aware & dont know how to tackle their children....such cases are also present where parents needs counselling & guidance too....some things may be common but we should keep in mind the concept of individuality & diversity....bearing & raising a child is not a task ,which should be taken superficially....

    • @tahiyamarome
      @tahiyamarome 8 місяців тому +1

      Only if they actually fulfil mm THEIR duty and live up to being parents. Children are not chattel. If you want a living being too carry your burdens buy a donkey

    • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
      @user-yx2zu6tf9i 8 місяців тому

      again one of my comment is not showing....?

    • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
      @user-yx2zu6tf9i 8 місяців тому

      एक female भी enlightened spiritual master /guru बन सकती है, ये possibility हमेशा मौजूद थी , है और रहेगी...भले ही कोई इससे agree करे या disagree , इससे कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ने वाला....we all worship female goddess like goddess kali, goddess parvati....then nobody can disagree with the possibility of a female guru....

  • @sunnybhai2694
    @sunnybhai2694 9 місяців тому +6

    Chadguru🔥🔥🔥

  • @atefesadventures3499
    @atefesadventures3499 8 місяців тому

    Very well said!Those kids that have a bossy parent haven't enjoyed being a child and felt like it's unfair!They even asked their nanny if mothers or parents are all like that."Are parents are all the same?So there is a problem with their parenting.

  • @ismail2739
    @ismail2739 9 місяців тому +6

    Muje nahi pata ta ki chadguru kaun hai mai to Carryminati ke video dekkar pata chala 😄😄😆

  • @guruvasa
    @guruvasa 8 місяців тому

    Great advice Sadhguru! Thanks.

  • @NmMobile-gi1nw
    @NmMobile-gi1nw 9 місяців тому

    Jai gurudev aapkaa nalayak sevak guruji.

  • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
    @user-yx2zu6tf9i 8 місяців тому +2

    Children should be taught how to think...not what to think....😇

    • @nexuscross3233
      @nexuscross3233 8 місяців тому

      Instead of trying to teach them something that didn't work, one's complete involvement should be on the nurturing and nourishment of the child.

    • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
      @user-yx2zu6tf9i 8 місяців тому

      ​@@nexuscross3233exactly that's why i used the word "how to think"....one should have ability to discriminate between parenting & dictatorship....

    • @nexuscross3233
      @nexuscross3233 2 місяці тому

      ​@@user-yx2zu6tf9iEven "how to think" is just another extention on what to think, it will just end up conditioning their minds, the best thing is to just let them play and not trying to teach philosophies.

    • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
      @user-yx2zu6tf9i 2 місяці тому

      @@nexuscross3233 let them play?.... exactly.....as a responsible citizen if elders are aware then learning will be a natural process.... psychologists , actually western psychologists lay emphasis on this... according to jean piaget , a constructivist, said that a child is the creator of knowledge, a child is a scientist itself....& If we ourselves are aware then we ourselves will not label THE RIGHT CODE OF CONDUCT as something like philosophies or teachings...we should not be judgemental....we must have courage first to address & recognize what is harming human kind , its well being, what is obstructing its growth & progress....then we can also discover the remedies too.....there is nothing like philosophies or something else.....

    • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
      @user-yx2zu6tf9i 2 місяці тому

      @@nexuscross3233we humans have a blessing, our brain....we can use this blessing as a blessing or as a curse....even the animals don't do those things, which we humans do inspite of having brain..... somebody else may interpret philosophies differently....in reality we actually accept those things which work for us & reject which don't work...... individuality, diversity, etc are not just the terms.....karmas & samskaras also play a pivotal role.....

  • @rashmiyadav4062
    @rashmiyadav4062 6 місяців тому

    Pranam Sadhguru 💕🙏💐

  • @ginaferracini9375
    @ginaferracini9375 8 місяців тому

    Best advice ..dont be a boss .❤🙏

  • @pathanboy2421
    @pathanboy2421 9 місяців тому +2

    I am here after listening chadguru

  • @rhondahenthorne2266
    @rhondahenthorne2266 9 місяців тому +1

    Wring, wrong , they need direction, guidlines, what they need is someone they trust & feel comfortable talking to .

  • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
    @user-yx2zu6tf9i 8 місяців тому +1

    Face the brutes. That is a lesson for all life-face the terrible, face it boldly. Like the monkeys, the hardships of life fall back when we cease to flee before them. - swami vivekananda

  • @lynnmcquillan2338
    @lynnmcquillan2338 8 місяців тому

    Thankyou 🙇‍♀️🙏

  • @ConsultancybyTS
    @ConsultancybyTS 8 місяців тому

    That's amazing and so true ❤

  • @d.haskins3840
    @d.haskins3840 9 місяців тому

    Ty❤

  • @swanandchakave5996
    @swanandchakave5996 9 місяців тому

    Namaskaram Sadguru

  • @ferrowgaming9165
    @ferrowgaming9165 9 місяців тому +576

    U know how i came here? (Chadguru) 😂

  • @garimapatel5839
    @garimapatel5839 9 місяців тому +3

    Sorry to say but... before carry minati video I didn't know about sadguru..maine search of kra abbi pta chla.... respect..🙏

    • @gurasissingh784
      @gurasissingh784 9 місяців тому +1

      Try Inner Engineering offered by Sadhguru :)

  • @stevenfrigo4635
    @stevenfrigo4635 7 місяців тому

    Very wise 😔

  • @parvinderkaurmaan459
    @parvinderkaurmaan459 9 місяців тому +1

    Guru ji I want to go foreign but I am facing a lot of problems please reply please please reply

  • @nevergotrobux
    @nevergotrobux 19 днів тому

    Thank God my controlling parent needs this

  • @Tori_Celeste1
    @Tori_Celeste1 8 місяців тому

    Grace ♡

  • @share-Yur-experiences_Feelings
    @share-Yur-experiences_Feelings 9 місяців тому +1

    When This come in Hindi

  • @ankitsingh-by9tb
    @ankitsingh-by9tb 9 місяців тому

    Thanks chudguru

  • @shaghilkhan8500
    @shaghilkhan8500 9 місяців тому +5

    Shadguru has become more famous after carry's recent video 💀

  • @ishaartworks
    @ishaartworks 8 місяців тому

    3:36

  • @alienallen2983
    @alienallen2983 9 місяців тому

    👍 SADHGURU 🙏>>>💚

  • @Ghunvanchit
    @Ghunvanchit 9 місяців тому

    🙂 great

  • @billionaireverse
    @billionaireverse 8 місяців тому

    Sad Guru

  • @akashsahni730
    @akashsahni730 9 місяців тому +1

    Hello Chadguru😊😊

  • @AeDeADFC
    @AeDeADFC 9 місяців тому +1

    Chadguuru op

  • @dreamsofhospitality2997
    @dreamsofhospitality2997 9 місяців тому

    Nice sir

  • @christopheryeager266
    @christopheryeager266 8 місяців тому +1

    I like to make a comment on an issue on this platform because if you are here, that's an indicator that your mind is in the right place listening to Sadhguru. I hope to get a comment on, "These days, families are splitting up and in person social interaction is kind of fading away, other than close family members. Make a long story short, we will almost be like the Walking Dead without Social media?"

  • @pritishbiswas007
    @pritishbiswas007 9 місяців тому

    Jai guru

  • @Ayankhan00019
    @Ayankhan00019 9 місяців тому +4

    Who is here after carryminati video😂😂😂

  • @ishanjindal5232
    @ishanjindal5232 9 місяців тому +6

    See what is a kid, it's nating but a small child😂

  • @amiteshthorat9129
    @amiteshthorat9129 9 місяців тому +1

    🙏🏽

  • @oko1111
    @oko1111 9 місяців тому +1

    👍

  • @vini_thakur
    @vini_thakur 9 місяців тому +11

    See what is boss. Boss is nothing but someone who have all the power ( chadguru😅)

    • @sm-ts5vq
      @sm-ts5vq 9 місяців тому +2

      Couldn't find the statement in the video... But agree he is a chad

  • @Dil.Careem
    @Dil.Careem 8 місяців тому

    Embracing a mindful parenting tip from Sadhguru: 'Don’t Be a Boss to Your Child.' Your insights encourage a nurturing approach to parenting. Time to implement these principles and foster a strong parent-child connection.

  • @Mrsantoshkumar9
    @Mrsantoshkumar9 9 місяців тому +2

    🙏❤️🙏

  • @JR-vo7gq
    @JR-vo7gq 8 місяців тому

    need this in hindi please.

  • @tajwarnoor8419
    @tajwarnoor8419 9 місяців тому +4

    Who is from carry minaties video present here 😅 Chad guru 😂

  • @untouched5131
    @untouched5131 9 місяців тому

    🙏

  • @hitendrac9383
    @hitendrac9383 9 місяців тому

    Sadhguru 🙏❤️

  • @hassanonyt
    @hassanonyt 9 місяців тому

  • @sobeautifulcakes
    @sobeautifulcakes 9 місяців тому +1

    Carry ka video dekh ke koun koun idhar aaya sach sach batana😅😂

  • @snudd
    @snudd 9 місяців тому +2

    Chadguru🙌😅

  • @booblam6919
    @booblam6919 8 місяців тому

    What does SAMBO means in india ?

  • @kauvehrusta9326
    @kauvehrusta9326 9 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @joypain5565
    @joypain5565 8 місяців тому

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
    @user-yx2zu6tf9i 8 місяців тому +1

    जो खुद ये बोले कि आपको अपने माता पिता की guidance की जरूरत नहीं , आप "जीवन" के भरोसे रहकर, जीवन की गहराई को समझकर भी पनप सकते हो, वो तो इंसान हो ही नहीं सकता , वो तो हैवान और पशु है....

  • @isibazigar
    @isibazigar 9 місяців тому +2

    I come here when I see carry video Chad guru😂😂😂😂

  • @darshan_k6254
    @darshan_k6254 9 місяців тому +3

    Carry Bhai Ke Fan Aye he ? 😂

  • @manmohannegi6138
    @manmohannegi6138 9 місяців тому +2

    Chadguruji pranam 🙏🏻

    • @unnikuttan3953
      @unnikuttan3953 9 місяців тому

      What is this chadguru

    • @vipinrawat2220
      @vipinrawat2220 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@unnikuttan3953his father is chadguru

  • @alkabatra6741
    @alkabatra6741 9 місяців тому

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @bhupendradabhole6461
    @bhupendradabhole6461 8 місяців тому

    😊🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @sd777sd
    @sd777sd 9 місяців тому +2

    hlo chadguru😂😂😂

  • @tonykwok9763
    @tonykwok9763 9 місяців тому

    👍😇

  • @rockstarshahnawaz7551
    @rockstarshahnawaz7551 9 місяців тому +2

    Carry Minati Zindabaad

  • @aniruddhamukherjee7579
    @aniruddhamukherjee7579 6 місяців тому

    🙏🙏🙏❤...

  • @cluelessfamily_
    @cluelessfamily_ 7 місяців тому +1

    How can we get our 11 year olds to do their homework and get good grades

  • @user-yx2zu6tf9i
    @user-yx2zu6tf9i 8 місяців тому +1

    खाली जीवन की गहराई नापने थोड़े ही आये हैं...यहां...जीवन‌ को जीने के लिए आये हैं...idiotness, insanity, insensibility & inhumane tendencies should always be checked & monitored....without family life is nothing...family is the root...family is like the root of the tree (society).....

  • @soilstorm
    @soilstorm 9 місяців тому

    3:26 lol!

  • @Studywithsonu140
    @Studywithsonu140 9 місяців тому

    Save Soil🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @seemaseemadevi7599
    @seemaseemadevi7599 9 місяців тому

    😊😘🙏

  • @thefactkid18
    @thefactkid18 8 місяців тому +1

    Who else came here after watching chadguru ??...😅😂

  • @jtecjtec7260
    @jtecjtec7260 9 місяців тому +3

    Nothing, anything.

  • @rubalsharma7821
    @rubalsharma7821 9 місяців тому

    What are you trying to do??

  • @chinnaramechchinakathegalu4443
    @chinnaramechchinakathegalu4443 9 місяців тому

    Hope t reaches to many indian parents...in schools also dey should say how to be a good parents instead f complaining about child

  • @satadrusinha9i332
    @satadrusinha9i332 9 місяців тому +1

    chadguru supremacy