I agree, that's one of the reasons my husband and I agreed to have our daughter sleep in the same room with us because we were protecting her. We had her at 43 years old, (both my husband and I), so one can understand how we felt being afraid someone was going to take her from her room. She is 12 yrs old now and decided to go to her own room when she was 11 years old. She decided she was ready. We miss it so much.
C'est vrai mais jusqu'à quel âge? En tant qu'enfant je n'ai pas apprécié me réveiller et voir mes parents faire des choses d'adultes et me poser des questions 🤔🤨
I think sleeping with your children is healthy for them emotionally and creates strong family bonds. We did it 40 years ago and everyone told us how bad it was. Our 3 adult children are happy loving people and we’ve wonderful relationships with each one. Kudos to you Mama Lilly
@@krisb-travel right, I'm from a small town called Buckeye in Arizona and my elders were against the kids sleeping with me. So my kids didn't sleep with me but all of my grandkids slept with me when they were little. They used to fight over who would be the two to sleep with me each night. It's been a bonding thing for us for sure.
Hi Lilly, don’t be a shamed of anything in your home or how you do things together as a family. You are blessed. Beautiful life and family. You are all very special and as you said yourself, you are at the happiest time of your life. That is very important. God bless you all. I enjoy watching your videos. Thank you for sharing your life.
Hi Lily am enjoying your video...nice happy family thats a blessing from God your such a beautiful good person take care may Godbless you and your family..
@@carpediem4512 do you know the meaning of love and family.... At the end, You need a holding hand not perfect face and body . Maybe you are living alone thats why u r jealous.
My husband is from the Philippines 🇵🇭 and that is how they sleep. Even when we went to visit we all sleep on the floor on mats in the same room. At home here in the US we have out mattresses on the floor. People always think it’s strange. I love co sleeping it really bonds you together
I'm sorry for asking this question but I am wondering if you sleep in one room with your kids, how do you get intimate with your husband/wife? I know this question might be a little funny but I am really interested about the answer! Maybe somebody can give me the answer. Thank you!
@@arunavodasgupta9171 you get when you can. When the kids are out with family or you slip into another area be be very quiet. You get creative and this also keeps the marriage from being boring. ❤️❤️❤️😂
@@danainaclang9732 I agree with you quality matters more than quantity. And you don't need to do stuff at night it can be anytime of the day for example when the kids are out playing. Based on my experience if it's unplanned it is way better than planned. 😇🥳🥳
We are from Sweden and our family slept all together in one room 😍 I also have 3 children, today 19, 18 and 15 years old. We have a special bound. I think, when we are together from the beginning we make special bounds. ❤️ You have wonderful family 🙏
I live in united states', and when my children was young they would sleep in my room as well, it never bothered me actually I felt like if the kids were happy and felt better to sleep with me than we would all get a more restful night, and I think it's so wonderful that your husband has such a hands on approach with helping out with taking care of children more men could learn from him . You appear to have such a beautiful family dynamic. Beautiful children and congratulations on newest baby she's gorgeous
Ditto in Australia. In fact I'd say its far more common than people let on. It's somehow, bizarrely considered to be 'failed parenting' or some other crackpot idea, so people often don't mention it. I loved those nights with those tiny sleepy heads. Or I'd call out in the early morning when I could hear them awake "HUGGY TIME!" and they'd charge into our room, dive in and snuggle down until the alarm went off. I missed that when they grew up!
Wat is doing his DAD THING.. I LOVE to see that. It's hard to find Father's who actually want to play with their children. Kudos to you, Lily for handling this situation with a great deal of patience. Totally love your family.
You and Wat both are amazing parents. And it really is nice to see a father interact with their children the way Wat does . You truly have a wonderful family.. Leila is beautiful.
Love this video, it’s so cozy seeing you all together , doing what you’ll do, you’re family is full of love , and Wat does such a fab job as a dad to your 3 beautiful children.
This is one of the most favourite vlogs you'd shared us. I like the fact that you are so flexible about Asian culture on how we sleep. Very typical Asian style sleeping in one room and that's how we are too as I am a Filipino even though I'm not Thai. We have similar culture. So don't be ashamed cause that how we appreciate of who you are and how cute and lovely is your family. 🥰😇
My babies all slept with us in the same room until they felt ready to go to their rooms. They were about 9 or 10 when they finally wanted to go to their rooms. I loved it. I loved know my kids were next to us safe and sound. They have turned out to be great human beings. :)
I also did that with my kids. King size bed for me and a queen size bed for my 3 kids right beside that sits lower and beside the wall for falling protection. My husband worked nights, and it just felt safer with my kids in the same room with me. They all started venturing out into their own rooms around 7 years old and never returned. Haha Love watching your sweet family, stay blessed!
You are smart! I like listening to 911 calls channels and there are so many incidents that parents can’t get away from the intruders because they can’t get to the kids’ rooms so they get stuck inside the house separately!!!
Im from the Philippines, that's asian culture sleeping in one big room, enjoying and building sweet memories with kids are treasures from us parents. I love the way you and your husband treat your kids. Keep vlogging and enjoy motherhood.♥️
If she slept like this in the United States people would call Child Protective Services on them. I am not kidding you. I think it is beautiful that other countries are like that. I think its nice to have everyone together. I know that when the USA built homes for the Eskimos in Alaska, the Eskimos removed the walls, they liked a big room for people to sleep like you are saying. Americans think its inappropriate for children to be sleeping like that with parents.
I’m from Nova Scotia Canada and my babies slept with me for many years. I think it’s healthy that you and your husband share nighttime responsibilities and sleeping in one room makes a lot of sense to me. I enjoy the simplicity of your videos tone honest. They are very peaceful to watch.
@@KRE8TVT That rarely happens, if at all. If a baby got laid on at all, it would wake up and cry, before it ever got crushed and would wake the parents.
I’m Lithuanian and my husband is American from NY. We have two boys - 3 year old and 2 months old. We live in the UK and sleep in the same room. Co-sleeping can also be a European thing. Love this blog. Congratulations on a new baby! 🎉
I was born and raised in France and I always had my own bed and even my own room.People sleeping in the same room is mostly seen in third world countries.
Hello Lilly! I'm from the U.S., and when my kids were little, we all slept in the same bed until the kids were about five. I have NO judgement, at all!!! I love that you are transparent and are showing your true life! This video makes me feel at home and normal! This is how many of us live!!! Thank you, thank you!!!!!!
I just accidentally stumbled onto your channel. I so relate to you having 3 children under 4 years. I had 1 in 2000, another 2002, 2004,2005. I have 3 boys and 1 girl. The oldest is 21 and it went by so fast! Enjoy your little ones and know that every family do things to help the kids and mom keep their sanity. I also had my little ones sleeping in the same room because it’s exhausting! So happy your husband helps with the kids, that is a blessing. You are such a good mama. Love your babies and get as much rest as you can.
Just love your family, you’re all so loving and happy. You can clearly tell how much your husband just adores you all ☺️ I’m in Australia and my husband and I sleep in our room, my 18 year old daughter has her own room and so does my 21 month old. No judgement here at all, as a mama myself, I know that you just do wherever it takes to make things work for your family.
Hi Lilly! My husband is an American too, from Ohio, and we are living here in the Philippines. We also sleep Asian style: my husband, my son, and I are all in one bed. My husband used to protest about it as he kept saying that's not how it is in America so I just tell him that he's here in the Philippines and in the Philippines we sleep with our kids in the same room and bed. He's used to it now. Haha.
Wat is SUCH a good father!!!! I love how he isn’t a typical Thailand man and he doesn’t conform to gender roles. So nice to see a man giving 100% to help his wife!!!! 🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻
well i do not know what a typical Thai man means but... my purely European husband had NOTHING TO DO WITH BABIES, apart from contributing to their conception naturally 😉. I slept with the babies, fed them, changed them, bathed them. He started playing his kids when they were big enough to play sport. He was good with organising games but babies, no sir 😄
The sleeping together is an Asian thing for most simple family coz we love our kids and we felt secured when they slept with us both parents. I grew up only child and I slept with my parents until the age of 12. As a child you felt so secured to have mom and dad in one room.
Yup, respect to Wat and all the men out there who know what it means to be a real partner (sharing family roles/helping each other as husband and wife) ❤
What is TYPICAL THAI MEN? I am Thai who was raised by my dad alone until 3 years old. He made the milk formula for me, fed me, played with me, put me to sleep, read the bedtimes stories, sang me the lullabies, dressed me, tied the ponytail for me before taking me to the pre school. EVERYDAY.
All five of our sons slept with us when they were little and then with each other, respectively. Our youngest is about to graduate high school so naturally they all sleep in their own rooms and beds now. They are super close as brothers. The sweetest times, is when they were supposed to be going to sleep and would be in their beds just talking and telling stories. Just think of all the sweet bonding time you and your family will have together. They grow up fast so just enjoy.
You're right! I'm Thai, Chinese, Laotian. I'm in the US now, but I was born in Chiangmai, we came to the US when I was 5yrs old. I'm a mom of 2 now, 23yr old and 17yr old. My daughter will still sleep with me when she comes over. I love your family! Hope little ones are adorable! Your hubby is so so gentle and loving. Keep up the great work! Keep the videos coming!
I also love the sound of rain and thunder but here in California where I live we hardly get any rain. This is why I used UA-cam for the sounds of rain and thunder to help me go to sleep.
I'm writing this message with tears, because of my health condition, the doctor told me this morning that i will not survive my health condition due to my cancer diagnosing, so i have decided to offer my fund to the orphanage children, homeless less privilege there in your country to enable them to always pray for me even am if I'm know more alive as the doctor has told me that i can not survive my health condition
I like seeing kids sleep with their families especially because you can guard your children. Here in Savannah Georgia, there's a toddler that has been missing for about a month and a half or so now. They woke up and the front door was open and he was gone. Prayers for Quentin Simon. The search team is still looking for him in a sad place now when at first they thought someone took him from the home.
I think the most important thing in life and in Family is Peace, Honesty and Acceptance - Your family is a perfect example and you are ment to inspire other to live a happy life. It doesnt matter which part of the world you belong and what is your living conditions , I personally think you are the perfect example of Inter-cultural Marriage/Relationship.
Watching this video reminds me of growing up in Trinidad and Tobago, (Caribbean). Love how loving and close you guys are. God's continued blessings to you and your lovely family. Thanks for sharing your life with us.
I absolutely love this video. You do not need to feel pressured to go places to show us. Enjoy this season in your life, Lila is going to grow fast and then you will have more time to do other things. I’m interested in the recipe of the brownies, at home we are also trying to cur gluten. I send greetings from Toronto, Canada
Lilly- you’re so blessed with a beautiful life, children, wonderful husband and a fantastic nanny 😊 You’ have a successful UA-cam channel with fans from all over the globe and we all love your positive outlook in life and you totally are so radiant & have a genuine personality…..You go girl!!!! Love all of your videos:) 😘
We live in Luxembourg. My husband is Swedish and I am French-Congolese and it was very natural for us that our son sleeps with us. He is now 3 years old and it is the cosiest thing.
Your kids are absolutely gorgeous. That little baby girl awww. My granddaughter will be 19 next month. It seems like yesterday. I worked as an RN on a weekend overnight shift so I got to keep her during the week until she started kindergarten. I cherish every minute. I have two sons but having a girl granddaughter is so good. She is my only one. I enjoy your videos. Thank you.
I’ve always been waiting to see your every new vlog…so enjoyable to watch your every day life. Wat is so loving. Nam is so helpful. Luke, Leon and Lila are extremely adorable! Many blessings to you all…!
I am so glad I found your UA-cam channel. Your family is so lively and full of love, and it brings back happy memories of when my children were young! Thank you for sharing your life with us!
Lilly, I pray God blesses you with Strength and wisdom. It's hard work to take care of a new baby and also little kids. You are an awesome mom. My kids are older teens now. I missed those days when they were little. It's a lot of work but so much fun! Praying for you and your family.❤️🙏
My brother does the same thing with my nephews; they will start playing before bedtime..... lol. We are from Venezuela, and we don't sleep in the same bedrooms, but my brother has begun that habit with his children. I love that you are happy, Lilly. Kisses and blessings to everybody. I hope your siblings will come to visit you in Thailand because that will be so much fun for all of us, they are comedians.
We are Asian but our baby boy started sleeping in his own room since he was newborn. But I can really relate so much in this video you shared as it reminded me of how I and my siblings used to enjoy sleeping in the same room with our parents. I even let my baby sleep with us in our bedroom nowadays from time to time. My husband and I enjoys watching your videos. You were blessed with such a great husband and wonderful kids.
I'm an introvert too, Lily. Maybe that's why, when nothing else on UA-cam hits the spot, it is so refreshing to watch your simple, everyday activities with Wat and the kids. You have a lovely, refreshing way of allowing us into your home. Khop khun maak, maak krap!
I do understand how sometimes it gets to our nerves when we wanted the kids to wind down and get sleepy but suddenly they are active and full of energy again after they play with their father 😄 I’m from Kuala Lumpur Lily and yes we sleep in the same room together with our son he’s 2 years old.
Hi lily in you are so lucky that the electricity is out only for a day but here in sri lanka we have 15 hour power cuts everyday and 18 hour water cut. Even the shops dont have aircon because theres no diesel to operate generators. But when we watch your videos we feel so happy admist everything
The pumping looks so practical. It didn't exist this way when I had my babies. Enjoy this period in your life. I had 3 children within 3 years and 4 months. It is a lot of work and little sleep, but it is so nice to have them grow up so close together.
Lilly, I had a Thai husband and lived in Bangkok for thirteen yezrs.My son is 46 now and still lives there, but I live in West Virginia. Your life there brings back so many fond memories of Thailand.We spent lots of time at Hua Hin, the Ancient City, Rose Garden,And Central Department Store. Love watching your videos.
Hi Lily, I’ve really enjoyed watching this video. It shows us viewers the daily ups and downs in your life, and it’s normal for all of us regardless where we live. Things just don’t become prefect just because you live in an exotic place. I appreciated vlogers like you, who keeps it real. You are so blessed. You and your family are so beautiful plus with sweet Nam. Also, you are beautiful with and without makeup. I wish you all the best💜🌺
I come from Philippines live now in Australia for 32 years. -When we were kids Yes we used to sleeps together with the whole family in one room.Nothing is wrong with that.I think 🤔 s the best felling to have the kids sleeps with you.
Thank you Wat, Lilly. I am leaving for the island of Phuket in the first week of March never to leave, Thailand. I already have my little villa, not in the tourist area, which is what I wanted. My dream is actually going to come through, my heart bursts with joy and excitement. I don't know how this works, exactly, but I would like to have contact with your family there. Assume you get my email when I send this? Anyway, Lilly, thank you for finally a channel with everyday life!!! :) That is the information we need. Continue to grow, and good fortune to your beautiful family. Tony☺🙏🙏🌞
@ 18:35 "Asian Style". I'm Asian: born and live in USA. I'm a parent now and I let me kids sleep in the same room until they are brave enough to go sleep in their own room. I believe this is why we Asian are so family orientin. Keep up the good job you are doing.
I'm from the UK and I travelled to Thailand in 2016 in June, which was apparently monsoon season. Amazing rain and wonderful place. I unfortunately didn't get to see alot as I twisted my ankle badly and due to other circumstances I got stranded on Koh Yai Noi. It was beautiful though... I would love to go back one day and experience more. You look very well Lily...
You are living your life on your own terms. That’s what life should be. I am a grandmother and when our kids were babies they slept with us. We always had a family bed till they were comfortable on their own. My children have done the same with their children. For us we believe it gave our babies a secure feeling. Much Love and Prayers for your beautiful family. Saying Hi from S.E. Florida, U.S.A. ✌🏼❤️🙏🏼
I’m from US the state of Illinois.I’m a grandma now, but my first were twins and it was so easy for me to have the children in the same room as us parents sleeping with all the nursing times. So the children were in the same room and often same bed depending on nursing needs. It was helpful for my husband to pick one child up put him close to me for feedings. They were in the same room with us until the age of 2, because that’s what worked best for us. Also our bed was always open for a child that might get frightened in the night, sick or just needed special attention. I think it’s a wonderful thing, it builds a stronger sense of comfort and security. I applaud you👏🏽. Make sure you get rest, a good aid in producing quality milk is 1. Rest when the baby rest! 2. Drink water every time you nurse. 3. Nuts have a hand full throughout the day, rich in protein easy to store and freshness. Beautiful family, Gods blessings to you and your family 😘💐
Hello Lilly this is my third time watching this vlog. There are lots in here that I see how proud ypu are with your family. Your husband is so close to your children. He loves to play with their Dad because they are so closed to each other... You are so blessed. Thank you for sharing your family to us ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰
We did that too and that way your kids feels the love all the time.Once they grow up no matter where they go they always feels the parents love.God bless you with your beautiful family
I absolutely enjoyed watching all your blogs especially this home video! I’m 72 years old. Living in Melbourne since 1983. This blog reminded me when I was kid in Malaysia. That’s exactly how we 7 of us slept together in a normal size bedroom. I remember my mum,dad n 3 years old youngest brother slept on a normal double size bed and me with my 4 sisters slept on the wooden floor with the sleeping mat.Although we were not rich but we had happy family’s life together. God bless your family❤️😍
I’m from America. This is how my family sleep. Huge house, but super close with all of my children. They were all breastfed and we all cosleep. My two biggest have gone to their own rooms, which I’m so happy about lol. My two littles are still in our room though.
Enjoyed watching this video, amazing to see you guys enjoying the rainy season and just staying at home. We also have the same sleeping setup, altogether with the kids in one room, my husband and I plus 3 kids. Watching here from Philippines!
So good to see you, Lily. I know exactly how you are feeling right now, at this stage of your life! You are blessed with such a beautiful family and you will cherish these memories for the rest of your life. I think this was a fantastic video , showing people from around the world how expats living in Thailand spend their days raising two young children and a wee little baby girl. Blessings to you. P.S. your very wise to be eating so healthy. Ward off postpartum depression.. I'm like you ..I spend alot of time on Rumble, UTube, and Bitchute. Keeping informed of global events, etc, etc, etc. Oh and Telegram. Can't wait for your next VIDEO. When my children were your kids age we did the same as far as sleeping arrangements go. I was raised in San Diego, CA and later moved to Redmond, Washington. That's where I raised my two children.
I love listening to the rain, it's so relaxing.......I live in the US, my sons had their own rooms, but during the first 2 years of their lives they slept in my bed. Keep doing what works for your family, you are great parents!
I grew up this way and even now that I have lived for 40 years in America, I will never change this practice if I have to start all over again. I definitely support your lifestyle Lilly.
Hi lily I love your family I’m from Tanzania and our culture is the same as Thai we sleep with our kids until further notice 😄 no Judgment at all. God bless you with your family ❤️
I enjoy seeing the simple life you guys are living. The food look amazing and tasty. Lilly ... you touched my heart by sharing this being the happiest time of your life. It's a BLESSING❗ Keep on living a well deserved good and happy life. I'm from Aruba and have nothing to complain ... life treat us right. God Is Good❗ Take care ... Sharing LOVE ❤ ...
Philippines ... We do the same way.. specially if you have a 1 bedroom house. But mostly some families they sleep together dont even have room. Only a space for the whole family.
I loved every moment of this vid you reveal so much about your family life, pls don’t be too hard on Wat he’s just happy to play with the boys, few months from now you’ll be hanging out with your daughter👩🍼take care🥰
Hi lilly , im from Pakistan 🇵🇰, been watching your videos back to back, you’re such a pure soul , sending warm wishes to your family. I love Thailand 🇹🇭. Please do share your everyday makeup routine, your skin looks flawless
30 years ago, my OB encouraged all us pregnant ladies to read the book called "The Family Bed" it was awesome & my kids never slept in a crib, just in the family bed til thet were older.
We all know that you are exhausted from transitioning to a family of 5 plus nanny. So , it is commendable that you even have time to let us peak into your life as you make videos. Please take good care of yourself. You and your husband are doing a great job! 💗
Usually when dads are part of bedtime , they’re really good at that part!!! My childrens father, ALWAYS got them going at bedtime while I was trying to be calm so they would go to sleep.
I really think that Lila already looks like her brother Luke. My husband used to always get my three boys all excited just before bed too. God bless beautiful family. 🙏😁😁
I love your personality Lily and Watt is a very good example of a Good husband and father💕 I'm from Fiji and it is very common for parents and their children to share a bedroom😊
Lily you’re doing just fine. It’s not easy with 3 kids. I still enjoy watching your channel very much. I feel like you’re family and I’m checking in on you 😍
I stumbled in your channel and i got addicted to it and now it became my daily habbit to wait and check the new aploads...and i love all your content..it made me sit all day watching just to get the seqence of your life story..thamk u for showing us and sharing your life story...so much respect.....much love from the Philippines.❤
I have the same thing. My husband is from India and we don't always sleep in same room. Often with the 3 kids we have a 4 bedroom house 1 is office. I often sleep alone because my twin teen daughters have each other but I feel lonely a lot. I should also say that past fee days has been wonderful as he slept in our bed...probably as a Christmas gift. 🎄 feeling blessed! I don't want any of our kids to feel scared or alone so it's fine. I try to get them to sleep with me but it doesn't always work out they prefer their lavendar room! I just let it be. Also, each bedroom is a different temperature as well as different bed cushion comfort. Our ons can be too soft for me sometimes with mattress topper. There are many different options. Couch is also pleasant for a change of comfort it's super firm!
Its so encouraging to read all of your comments! Wow thank you so much. You can see more of us on instagram.
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Leon is so cute! 👍♥️💋
you have a pretty kid👶❤
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Dearest lily,you are doing a great job,mom and wife. Be yourself is just an awesome real!!. Blessed indeed! Keep it up. Good Job!
God bless u and your family
Sleeping in the same room is one of the safest feelings you can have while you sleep growing up. I loved it.
I agree, that's one of the reasons my husband and I agreed to have our daughter sleep in the same room with us because we were protecting her. We had her at 43 years old, (both my husband and I), so one can understand how we felt being afraid someone was going to take her from her room. She is 12 yrs old now and decided to go to her own room when she was 11 years old. She decided she was ready. We miss it so much.
C'est vrai mais jusqu'à quel âge? En tant qu'enfant je n'ai pas apprécié me réveiller et voir mes parents faire des choses d'adultes et me poser des questions 🤔🤨
Wat is such a great father and husband. He’s so supportive and hands on with the kids. Love your family
*Jesus Christ is Lord & He’s coming soon. Do not take that vacxine*
I salute you and your husband, he has initiative
I think sleeping with your children is healthy for them emotionally and creates strong family bonds. We did it 40 years ago and everyone told us how bad it was. Our 3 adult children are happy loving people and we’ve wonderful relationships with each one. Kudos to you Mama Lilly
I never understood why western culture is sooooo against it, I did the same but didn’t even tell my friends and family as they would think it’s weird
@@krisb-travel right, I'm from a small town called Buckeye in Arizona and my elders were against the kids sleeping with me. So my kids didn't sleep with me but all of my grandkids slept with me when they were little. They used to fight over who would be the two to sleep with me each night. It's been a bonding thing for us for sure.
I don’t think it is healthy for your marriage
I never had my kids sleeping with me, even from babies and my kids now adults are happy confident and well rounded.
I agree so much with what you said 💯.
The family bond is strong and the children gain added confidence. I think it is wonderful!
I love this… daddy getting the kids wild.. I love the dynamics and no one should judge. As long as everyone happy and healthy
Hi Lilly, don’t be a shamed of anything in your home or how you do things together as a family. You are blessed. Beautiful life and family. You are all very special and as you said yourself, you are at the happiest time of your life. That is very important. God bless you all. I enjoy watching your videos. Thank you for sharing your life.
Hi Lily am enjoying your video...nice happy family thats a blessing from God your such a beautiful good person take care may Godbless you and your family..
At one point in her life, I’m sure she thought she would end up with a high value man. Reality bites! Cute kid though.
@@carpediem4512 are u serious?? 💀
@@carpediem4512 wat do u mean by that...who r u to say such ?
@@carpediem4512 do you know the meaning of love and family.... At the end, You need a holding hand not perfect face and body . Maybe you are living alone thats why u r jealous.
My husband is from the Philippines 🇵🇭 and that is how they sleep. Even when we went to visit we all sleep on the floor on mats in the same room. At home here in the US we have out mattresses on the floor. People always think it’s strange. I love co sleeping it really bonds you together
I’m from the Philippines and all my life I slept on mattress with a bed frame in my home country.
I'm sorry for asking this question but I am wondering if you sleep in one room with your kids, how do you get intimate with your husband/wife? I know this question might be a little funny but I am really interested about the answer! Maybe somebody can give me the answer. Thank you!
@@Kikifriedmann you can get intimate without making noise😉
@@arunavodasgupta9171 you get when you can. When the kids are out with family or you slip into another area be be very quiet. You get creative and this also keeps the marriage from being boring. ❤️❤️❤️😂
@@danainaclang9732 I agree with you quality matters more than quantity. And you don't need to do stuff at night it can be anytime of the day for example when the kids are out playing. Based on my experience if it's unplanned it is way better than planned. 😇🥳🥳
Leon is so cute! Smiling all day! He looks like his sister too.
We are from Sweden and our family slept all together in one room 😍 I also have 3 children, today 19, 18 and 15 years old. We have a special bound. I think, when we are together from the beginning we make special bounds. ❤️ You have wonderful family 🙏
I live in united states', and when my children was young they would sleep in my room as well, it never bothered me actually I felt like if the kids were happy and felt better to sleep with me than we would all get a more restful night, and I think it's so wonderful that your husband has such a hands on approach with helping out with taking care of children more men could learn from him . You appear to have such a beautiful family dynamic. Beautiful children and congratulations on newest baby she's gorgeous
Ditto in Australia. In fact I'd say its far more common than people let on. It's somehow, bizarrely considered to be 'failed parenting' or some other crackpot idea, so people often don't mention it.
I loved those nights with those tiny sleepy heads.
Or I'd call out in the early morning when I could hear them awake "HUGGY TIME!" and they'd charge into our room, dive in and snuggle down until the alarm went off. I missed that when they grew up!
Wat is doing his DAD THING.. I LOVE to see that. It's hard to find Father's who actually want to play with their children. Kudos to you, Lily for handling this situation with a great deal of patience. Totally love your family.
I found that so funny, why do men always have to tickle and wrestle before bed time hahaha
You and Wat both are amazing parents. And it really is nice to see a father interact with their children the way Wat does . You truly have a wonderful family.. Leila is beautiful.
Love this video, it’s so cozy seeing you all together , doing what you’ll do, you’re family is full of love , and Wat does such a fab job as a dad to your 3 beautiful children.
This is one of the most favourite vlogs you'd shared us. I like the fact that you are so flexible about Asian culture on how we sleep. Very typical Asian style sleeping in one room and that's how we are too as I am a Filipino even though I'm not Thai. We have similar culture. So don't be ashamed cause that how we appreciate of who you are and how cute and lovely is your family. 🥰😇
❤❤ so sweet
My babies all slept with us in the same room until they felt ready to go to their rooms. They were about 9 or 10 when they finally wanted to go to their rooms. I loved it. I loved know my kids were next to us safe and sound. They have turned out to be great human beings. :)
I also did that with my kids. King size bed for me and a queen size bed for my 3 kids right beside that sits lower and beside the wall for falling protection. My husband worked nights, and it just felt safer with my kids in the same room with me. They all started venturing out into their own rooms around 7 years old and never returned. Haha Love watching your sweet family, stay blessed!
You are smart! I like listening to 911 calls channels and there are so many incidents that parents can’t get away from the intruders because they can’t get to the kids’ rooms so they get stuck inside the house separately!!!
Oh so comfy. Staying home with hubby and kids.... the best.
Im from the Philippines, that's asian culture sleeping in one big room, enjoying and building sweet memories with kids are treasures from us parents. I love the way you and your husband treat your kids. Keep vlogging and enjoy motherhood.♥️
If she slept like this in the United States people would call Child Protective Services on them. I am not kidding you. I think it is beautiful that other countries are like that. I think its nice to have everyone together.
I know that when the USA built homes for the Eskimos in Alaska, the Eskimos removed the walls, they liked a big room for people to sleep like you are saying.
Americans think its inappropriate for children to be sleeping like that with parents.
@@lagunabeachbody2393 lol no child services wouldn't be called . People like you make me laugh
@@parisinthe30sx False, they have been called on people like her.
You are probably the person who has.
@@lagunabeachbody2393 ä
Kids should be given some privacy. It’s not right to sleep with them in the same bed!
He really seems to be a very loving father to his children.
I’m from Nova Scotia Canada and my babies slept with me for many years. I think it’s healthy that you and your husband share nighttime responsibilities and sleeping in one room makes a lot of sense to me. I enjoy the simplicity of your videos tone honest. They are very peaceful to watch.
You’re not supposed to sleep with your baby because you may crush them in your sleep.
@@KRE8TVT That rarely happens, if at all. If a baby got laid on at all, it would wake up and cry, before it ever got crushed and would wake the parents.
I’m Lithuanian and my husband is American from NY. We have two boys - 3 year old and 2 months old. We live in the UK and sleep in the same room. Co-sleeping can also be a European thing. Love this blog. Congratulations on a new baby! 🎉
With or without make up you are beautiful mama
@@klaramoral5582 Agreed with you, Klara.
Well I’m English and we all have separate rooms
Over the last couple of decades alot of people in europe have gone for the option of sleeping with their babies/toddlers in the same room...
I was born and raised in France and I always had my own bed and even my own room.People sleeping in the same room is mostly seen in third world countries.
Hello Lilly! I'm from the U.S., and when my kids were little, we all slept in the same bed until the kids were about five. I have NO judgement, at all!!! I love that you are transparent and are showing your true life! This video makes me feel at home and normal! This is how many of us live!!! Thank you, thank you!!!!!!
Lilly nom is a great nanny such a beautiful blessing have her to care for Luke Leon and Lila you have beautiful kids! God bless you and your family!
Right!! Blessed I Love Nom but Don't know much about her Beautiful Spirit. Blessings n Peace To You n Family
Her husband(Wat) is amazing! Very loving and attentive to the kids and her. Love Nana too! Really great that you share your life with us.
Agreed, I love how the family is together and supportive. Nana is there to help and dad is very involved.
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I just accidentally stumbled onto your channel. I so relate to you having 3 children under 4 years. I had 1 in 2000, another 2002, 2004,2005. I have 3 boys and 1 girl. The oldest is 21 and it went by so fast! Enjoy your little ones and know that every family do things to help the kids and mom keep their sanity. I also had my little ones sleeping in the same room because it’s exhausting! So happy your husband helps with the kids, that is a blessing. You are such a good mama. Love your babies and get as much rest as you can.
Just love your family, you’re all so loving and happy. You can clearly tell how much your husband just adores you all ☺️ I’m in Australia and my husband and I sleep in our room, my 18 year old daughter has her own room and so does my 21 month old. No judgement here at all, as a mama myself, I know that you just do wherever it takes to make things work for your family.
Hi Lilly! My husband is an American too, from Ohio, and we are living here in the Philippines. We also sleep Asian style: my husband, my son, and I are all in one bed. My husband used to protest about it as he kept saying that's not how it is in America so I just tell him that he's here in the Philippines and in the Philippines we sleep with our kids in the same room and bed. He's used to it now. Haha.
It’s a beautiful thing to all sleep together!
Wat is SUCH a good father!!!! I love how he isn’t a typical Thailand man and he doesn’t conform to gender roles. So nice to see a man giving 100% to help his wife!!!! 🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻
well i do not know what a typical Thai man means but... my purely European husband had NOTHING TO DO WITH BABIES, apart from contributing to their conception naturally 😉. I slept with the babies, fed them, changed them, bathed them. He started playing his kids when they were big enough to play sport. He was good with organising games but babies, no sir 😄
The sleeping together is an Asian thing for most simple family coz we love our kids and we felt secured when they slept with us both parents. I grew up only child and I slept with my parents until the age of 12. As a child you felt so secured to have mom and dad in one room.
True
Yup, respect to Wat and all the men out there who know what it means to be a real partner (sharing family roles/helping each other as husband and wife) ❤
What is TYPICAL THAI MEN? I am Thai who was raised by my dad alone until 3 years old. He made the milk formula for me, fed me, played with me, put me to sleep, read the bedtimes stories, sang me the lullabies, dressed me, tied the ponytail for me before taking me to the pre school. EVERYDAY.
All five of our sons slept with us when they were little and then with each other, respectively. Our youngest is about to graduate high school so naturally they all sleep in their own rooms and beds now. They are super close as brothers. The sweetest times, is when they were supposed to be going to sleep and would be in their beds just talking and telling stories. Just think of all the sweet bonding time you and your family will have together. They grow up fast so just enjoy.
You're right! I'm Thai, Chinese, Laotian. I'm in the US now, but I was born in Chiangmai, we came to the US when I was 5yrs old. I'm a mom of 2 now, 23yr old and 17yr old. My daughter will still sleep with me when she comes over. I love your family! Hope little ones are adorable! Your hubby is so so gentle and loving. Keep up the great work! Keep the videos coming!
Your husband is a gentle soul and very patient with the children.
I love the rain in Asia too it's such a comforting sound, the thunder storms are amazing too!
I also love the sound of rain and thunder but here in California where I live we hardly get any rain. This is why I used UA-cam for the sounds of rain and thunder to help me go to sleep.
Me too! It sounds so peaceful and the storms bring cool breeze.
I'm writing this message with tears, because of my health condition, the doctor told me this morning that i will not survive my health condition due to my cancer diagnosing, so i have decided to offer my fund to the orphanage children, homeless less privilege there in your country to enable them to always pray for me even am if I'm know more alive as the doctor has told me that i can not survive my health condition
I like seeing kids sleep with their families especially because you can guard your children.
Here in Savannah Georgia, there's a toddler that has been missing for about a month and a half or so now. They woke up and the front door was open and he was gone. Prayers for Quentin Simon. The search team is still looking for him in a sad place now when at first they thought someone took him from the home.
Sadly his mom has been charged with murder now
What a lovely dad watt is. Wonderful parenting by both of you. Beautiful children
I think the most important thing in life and in Family is Peace, Honesty and Acceptance - Your family is a perfect example and you are ment to inspire other to live a happy life. It doesnt matter which part of the world you belong and what is your living conditions , I personally think you are the perfect example of Inter-cultural Marriage/Relationship.
Watching this video reminds me of growing up in Trinidad and Tobago, (Caribbean). Love how loving and close you guys are. God's continued blessings to you and your lovely family. Thanks for sharing your life with us.
I absolutely love this video. You do not need to feel pressured to go places to show us.
Enjoy this season in your life, Lila is going to grow fast and then you will have more time to do other things.
I’m interested in the recipe of the brownies, at home we are also trying to cur gluten.
I send greetings from Toronto, Canada
Lilly- you’re so blessed with a beautiful life, children, wonderful husband and a fantastic nanny 😊 You’ have a successful UA-cam channel with fans from all over the globe and we all love your positive outlook in life and you totally are so radiant & have a genuine personality…..You go girl!!!! Love all of your videos:) 😘
We live in Luxembourg. My husband is Swedish and I am French-Congolese and it was very natural for us that our son sleeps with us. He is now 3 years old and it is the cosiest thing.
Your kids are absolutely gorgeous. That little baby girl awww. My granddaughter will be 19 next month. It seems like yesterday. I worked as an RN on a weekend overnight shift so I got to keep her during the week until she started kindergarten. I cherish every minute. I have two sons but having a girl granddaughter is so good. She is my only one. I enjoy your videos. Thank you.
I’ve always been waiting to see your every new vlog…so enjoyable to watch your every day life. Wat is so loving. Nam is so helpful. Luke, Leon and Lila are extremely adorable! Many blessings to you all…!
Of course Nam is helpful, she's the paid nanny!
I am so happy that you got your baby girl ...your husband english has improved a lot ...he is a nice kind gentle guy ...your kids are beautiful
I am so glad I found your UA-cam channel. Your family is so lively and full of love, and it brings back happy memories of when my children were young! Thank you for sharing your life with us!
I think it's a really good sleeping arrangement you have. The children sleep better in the room with Mom and Dad ❤️
I love everybody sleeping in the same room, looks so cosy. Thats called living together ♥️
Lilly, I pray God blesses you with Strength and wisdom. It's hard work to take care of a new baby and also little kids. You are an awesome mom. My kids are older teens now. I missed those days when they were little. It's a lot of work but so much fun! Praying for you and your family.❤️🙏
My brother does the same thing with my nephews; they will start playing before bedtime..... lol. We are from Venezuela, and we don't sleep in the same bedrooms, but my brother has begun that habit with his children. I love that you are happy, Lilly. Kisses and blessings to everybody. I hope your siblings will come to visit you in Thailand because that will be so much fun for all of us, they are comedians.
We are Asian but our baby boy started sleeping in his own room since he was newborn. But I can really relate so much in this video you shared as it reminded me of how I and my siblings used to enjoy sleeping in the same room with our parents. I even let my baby sleep with us in our bedroom nowadays from time to time. My husband and I enjoys watching your videos. You were blessed with such a great husband and wonderful kids.
I'm an introvert too, Lily. Maybe that's why, when nothing else on UA-cam hits the spot, it is so refreshing to watch your simple, everyday activities with Wat and the kids. You have a lovely, refreshing way of allowing us into your home. Khop khun maak, maak krap!
I do understand how sometimes it gets to our nerves when we wanted the kids to wind down and get sleepy but suddenly they are active and full of energy again after they play with their father 😄 I’m from Kuala Lumpur Lily and yes we sleep in the same room together with our son he’s 2 years old.
Hi lily in you are so lucky that the electricity is out only for a day but here in sri lanka we have 15 hour power cuts everyday and 18 hour water cut. Even the shops dont have aircon because theres no diesel to operate generators. But when we watch your videos we feel so happy admist everything
The pumping looks so practical. It didn't exist this way when I had my babies. Enjoy this period in your life. I had 3 children within 3 years and 4 months. It is a lot of work and little sleep, but it is so nice to have them grow up so close together.
Lilly, I had a Thai husband and lived in Bangkok for thirteen yezrs.My son is 46 now and still lives there, but I live in West Virginia. Your life there brings back so many fond memories of Thailand.We spent lots of time at Hua Hin, the Ancient City, Rose Garden,And Central Department Store. Love watching your videos.
So touching your vedio, say hello to Wat from a fellow southen old guy.
It's so beautiful to bond even during sleeping hours. What a blessing Lilly!
Hi Lily, I’ve really enjoyed watching this video. It shows us viewers the daily ups and downs in your life, and it’s normal for all of us regardless where we live. Things just don’t become prefect just because you live in an exotic place. I appreciated vlogers like you, who keeps it real. You are so blessed. You and your family are so beautiful plus with sweet Nam. Also, you are beautiful with and without makeup.
I wish you all the best💜🌺
I come from Philippines live now in Australia for 32 years. -When we were kids Yes we used to sleeps together with the whole family in one room.Nothing is wrong with that.I think 🤔 s the best felling to have the kids sleeps with you.
All your kids are adorable but it looks like Leon’s coming into his own! That hair! Those eyes! A truly beautiful family. 😊
Thank you Wat, Lilly. I am leaving for the island of Phuket in the first week of March never to leave, Thailand. I already have my little villa, not in the tourist area, which is what I wanted. My dream is actually going to come through, my heart bursts with joy and excitement. I don't know how this works, exactly, but I would like to have contact with your family there. Assume you get my email when I send this? Anyway, Lilly, thank you for finally a channel with everyday life!!! :) That is the information we need. Continue to grow, and good fortune to your beautiful family. Tony☺🙏🙏🌞
@ 18:35 "Asian Style". I'm Asian: born and live in USA. I'm a parent now and I let me kids sleep in the same room until they are brave enough to go sleep in their own room. I believe this is why we Asian are so family orientin. Keep up the good job you are doing.
Watching your three kids is already a fun. I saw Leon grow up From infant to toddler is like having our own digital kid.
I'm from the UK and I travelled to Thailand in 2016 in June, which was apparently monsoon season. Amazing rain and wonderful place. I unfortunately didn't get to see alot as I twisted my ankle badly and due to other circumstances I got stranded on Koh Yai Noi. It was beautiful though... I would love to go back one day and experience more. You look very well Lily...
Lily, you have the best husband and father to your children…you are blessed!
You are living your life on your own terms. That’s what life should be. I am a grandmother and when our kids were babies they slept with us. We always had a family bed till they were comfortable on their own. My children have done the same with their children. For us we believe it gave our babies a secure feeling. Much Love and Prayers for your beautiful family.
Saying Hi from S.E. Florida, U.S.A.
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I’m from US the state of Illinois.I’m a grandma now, but my first were twins and it was so easy for me to have the children in the same room as us parents sleeping with all the nursing times. So the children were in the same room and often same bed depending on nursing needs. It was helpful for my husband to pick one child up put him close to me for feedings. They were in the same room with us until the age of 2, because that’s what worked best for us. Also our bed was always open for a child that might get frightened in the night, sick or just needed special attention.
I think it’s a wonderful thing, it builds a stronger sense of comfort and security. I applaud you👏🏽.
Make sure you get rest, a good aid in producing quality milk is 1. Rest when the baby rest! 2. Drink water every time you nurse. 3. Nuts have a hand full throughout the day, rich in protein easy to store and freshness.
Beautiful family, Gods blessings to you and your family 😘💐
Best thing is for there to be harmony and peace. Everyone can sleep where they wish, it all looks cosy to me!
Congratulations Lilly and Wat, your baby girl is beautiful. God bless your family.
How you sleep is your business it really doesn’t matter what others think. If it works for your family that’s all that matters. 😊
*Jesus Christ is Lord & He’s coming soon. Do not take that vacxine*
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actually, once posted here it becomes everyones business and is open for critisism.
Correct
@@nathanbohn1078 Which can be ignored of course. Criticism is not Law.
Hello Lilly this is my third time watching this vlog. There are lots in here that I see how proud ypu are with your family. Your husband is so close to your children. He loves to play with their Dad because they are so closed to each other... You are so blessed. Thank you for sharing your family to us ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰
We did that too and that way your kids feels the love all the time.Once they grow up no matter where they go they always feels the parents love.God bless you with your beautiful family
I absolutely enjoyed watching all your blogs especially this home video! I’m 72 years old. Living in Melbourne since 1983. This blog reminded me when I was kid in Malaysia. That’s exactly how we 7 of us slept together in a normal size bedroom. I remember my mum,dad n 3 years old youngest brother slept on a normal double size bed and me with my 4 sisters slept on the wooden floor with the sleeping mat.Although we were not rich but we had happy family’s life together. God bless your family❤️😍
Lily, congrats with your 3rd child! It’s not easy to look after 3 children, they’re all very adorable! Hope you’re keeping well!
Hello Pam how are you doing
It looks like she has plenty of help. I’m sure domestic help is cheap there.
@@davidospina3601 why r u asking everyone how they r doing? You don't know them.
Congratulations on the new born baby 👶, all love from South Africa 🇿🇦❤
I’m from America. This is how my family sleep. Huge house, but super close with all of my children. They were all breastfed and we all cosleep. My two biggest have gone to their own rooms, which I’m so happy about lol. My two littles are still in our room though.
I love your videos of your beautiful family! Thank you for sharing your life with us!
Enjoyed watching this video, amazing to see you guys enjoying the rainy season and just staying at home. We also have the same sleeping setup, altogether with the kids in one room, my husband and I plus 3 kids. Watching here from Philippines!
So good to see you, Lily. I know exactly how you are feeling right now, at this stage of your life! You are blessed with such a beautiful family and you will cherish these memories for the rest of your life. I think this was a fantastic video , showing people from around the world how expats living in Thailand spend their days raising two young children and a wee little baby girl. Blessings to you. P.S. your very wise to be eating so healthy. Ward off postpartum depression.. I'm like you ..I spend alot of time on Rumble, UTube, and Bitchute. Keeping informed of global events, etc, etc, etc. Oh and Telegram. Can't wait for your next VIDEO. When my children were your kids age we did the same as far as sleeping arrangements go. I was raised in San Diego, CA and later moved to Redmond, Washington. That's where I raised my two children.
I love listening to the rain, it's so relaxing.......I live in the US, my sons had their own rooms, but during the first 2 years of their lives they slept in my bed. Keep doing what works for your family, you are great parents!
I grew up this way and even now that I have lived for 40 years in America, I will never change this practice if I have to start all over again. I definitely support your lifestyle Lilly.
Nam is such a wonderful person...she could be out having a single gals life.. she is a great friend.
Hi lily I love your family I’m from Tanzania and our culture is the same as Thai we sleep with our kids until further notice 😄 no Judgment at all. God bless you with your family ❤️
I enjoy seeing the simple life you guys are living.
The food look amazing and tasty.
Lilly ... you touched my heart by sharing this being the happiest time of your life.
It's a BLESSING❗
Keep on living a well deserved good and happy life.
I'm from Aruba and have nothing to complain ... life treat us right.
God Is Good❗
Take care ...
Sharing LOVE ❤ ...
I enjoyed this Lilly. I am also an introvert and prefer the quiet life. Your children are so beautiful! I would like more at home videos!
What a wonderful man, he loves you Lily and the kids, I love watching how he take care of your children
Philippines ... We do the same way.. specially if you have a 1 bedroom house. But mostly some families they sleep together dont even have room. Only a space for the whole family.
So sweet that your family sleep in the same room at least for now. Enjoy early years cuz time flies. You are so blessed.
Congratulations Lilly and Wat , for your being hands on parents to your kids. God bless 🙏
I loved every moment of this vid you reveal so much about your family life, pls don’t be too hard on Wat he’s just happy to play with the boys, few months from now you’ll be hanging out with your daughter👩🍼take care🥰
Hi lilly , im from Pakistan 🇵🇰, been watching your videos back to back, you’re such a pure soul , sending warm wishes to your family. I love Thailand 🇹🇭. Please do share your everyday makeup routine, your skin looks flawless
30 years ago, my OB encouraged all us pregnant ladies to read the book called "The Family Bed" it was awesome & my kids never slept in a crib, just in the family bed til thet were older.
Your husband is so good with the children's!
That's what I noticed as well.
I love seeing how you live on a normal day. Not boring at all! Would love to see more of them.
We all know that you are exhausted from transitioning to a family of 5 plus nanny. So , it is commendable that you even have time to let us peak into your life as you make videos. Please take good care of yourself. You and your husband are doing a great job! 💗
Hello Stella how are you doing today
Usually when dads are part of bedtime , they’re really good at that part!!! My childrens father, ALWAYS got them going at bedtime while I was trying to be calm so they would go to sleep.
Beautiful family. Rest and keep taking good care of yourself and your tribe. So good to see your husband helping with the children.
I really think that Lila already looks like her brother Luke. My husband used to always get my three boys all excited just before bed too. God bless beautiful family. 🙏😁😁
I love your personality Lily and Watt is a very good example of a Good husband and father💕
I'm from Fiji and it is very common for parents and their children to share a bedroom😊
Lily you’re doing just fine. It’s not easy with 3 kids. I still enjoy watching your channel very much. I feel like you’re family and I’m checking in on you 😍
I stumbled in your channel and i got addicted to it and now it became my daily habbit to wait and check the new aploads...and i love all your content..it made me sit all day watching just to get the seqence of your life story..thamk u for showing us and sharing your life story...so much respect.....much love from the Philippines.❤
I have the same thing. My husband is from India and we don't always sleep in same room. Often with the 3 kids we have a 4 bedroom house 1 is office. I often sleep alone because my twin teen daughters have each other but I feel lonely a lot. I should also say that past fee days has been wonderful as he slept in our bed...probably as a Christmas gift. 🎄 feeling blessed! I don't want any of our kids to feel scared or alone so it's fine. I try to get them to sleep with me but it doesn't always work out they prefer their lavendar room! I just let it be. Also, each bedroom is a different temperature as well as different bed cushion comfort. Our ons can be too soft for me sometimes with mattress topper. There are many different options. Couch is also pleasant for a change of comfort it's super firm!
I loved this video- so homey, natural, casual!