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    Hi my name is Lilly and I am an American expat living on the island of Koh Samui in the gulf of Thailand for the last 9 years. My husband is Thai and his name is Wat. We have two boys-Luke and Leon plus and a new baby girl named Lyla. Nam is our nanny and she is from Myanmar. Nam has worked for us for nearly 7 years. She was the chef at our restaurant before we closed due to covid.
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  • @lillyslife
    @lillyslife  2 роки тому +343

    Its so encouraging to read all of your comments! Wow thank you so much. You can see more of us on instagram.
    instagram.com/lillys.expatlife/

    • @kitty3980
      @kitty3980 2 роки тому +10

      Leon is so cute! 👍♥️💋

    • @maecatvenuch3266
      @maecatvenuch3266 2 роки тому +5

      you have a pretty kid👶❤

    • @othmankhalid2679
      @othmankhalid2679 2 роки тому +5

      👎🏻

    • @patriciamok6021
      @patriciamok6021 2 роки тому +9

      Dearest lily,you are doing a great job,mom and wife. Be yourself is just an awesome real!!. Blessed indeed! Keep it up. Good Job!

    • @HK00088
      @HK00088 2 роки тому +6

      God bless u and your family

  • @musicsansnotes
    @musicsansnotes Рік тому +119

    Sleeping in the same room is one of the safest feelings you can have while you sleep growing up. I loved it.

    • @aidalopez607
      @aidalopez607 Рік тому +11

      I agree, that's one of the reasons my husband and I agreed to have our daughter sleep in the same room with us because we were protecting her. We had her at 43 years old, (both my husband and I), so one can understand how we felt being afraid someone was going to take her from her room. She is 12 yrs old now and decided to go to her own room when she was 11 years old. She decided she was ready. We miss it so much.

  • @lillymurphy239
    @lillymurphy239 2 роки тому +212

    I think sleeping with your children is healthy for them emotionally and creates strong family bonds. We did it 40 years ago and everyone told us how bad it was. Our 3 adult children are happy loving people and we’ve wonderful relationships with each one. Kudos to you Mama Lilly

    • @krisb-travel
      @krisb-travel Рік тому +8

      I never understood why western culture is sooooo against it, I did the same but didn’t even tell my friends and family as they would think it’s weird

    • @Connie_From_AZ
      @Connie_From_AZ Рік тому +8

      @@krisb-travel right, I'm from a small town called Buckeye in Arizona and my elders were against the kids sleeping with me. So my kids didn't sleep with me but all of my grandkids slept with me when they were little. They used to fight over who would be the two to sleep with me each night. It's been a bonding thing for us for sure.

    • @judithryle2113
      @judithryle2113 Рік тому +3

      I don’t think it is healthy for your marriage

    • @user-yt5dg8nf6y
      @user-yt5dg8nf6y Рік тому

      I never had my kids sleeping with me, even from babies and my kids now adults are happy confident and well rounded.

    • @aidalopez607
      @aidalopez607 Рік тому

      I agree so much with what you said 💯.

  • @annasalmi7789
    @annasalmi7789 2 роки тому +65

    We are from Sweden and our family slept all together in one room 😍 I also have 3 children, today 19, 18 and 15 years old. We have a special bound. I think, when we are together from the beginning we make special bounds. ❤️ You have wonderful family 🙏

  • @tonya8652
    @tonya8652 2 роки тому +68

    I live in united states', and when my children was young they would sleep in my room as well, it never bothered me actually I felt like if the kids were happy and felt better to sleep with me than we would all get a more restful night, and I think it's so wonderful that your husband has such a hands on approach with helping out with taking care of children more men could learn from him . You appear to have such a beautiful family dynamic. Beautiful children and congratulations on newest baby she's gorgeous

    • @triarb5790
      @triarb5790 2 роки тому +2

      Ditto in Australia. In fact I'd say its far more common than people let on. It's somehow, bizarrely considered to be 'failed parenting' or some other crackpot idea, so people often don't mention it.
      I loved those nights with those tiny sleepy heads.
      Or I'd call out in the early morning when I could hear them awake "HUGGY TIME!" and they'd charge into our room, dive in and snuggle down until the alarm went off. I missed that when they grew up!

  • @myra7623
    @myra7623 2 роки тому +250

    Lilly- I am from the Dominican Republic and I sleep with my mother until i was 13- i dont see anything wrong with you all sharing the same bedroom. Your family is beautiful! Amen!!!

    • @Oz83
      @Oz83 2 роки тому +7

      My boy (10) loves sleeping with us too , we are enjoying it AMA we can 🥺🙏🏾

    • @trevortroopa968
      @trevortroopa968 2 роки тому

      *Jesus Christ is Lord & He’s coming soon. Do not take that vacxine*

    • @RachelEden
      @RachelEden 2 роки тому +8

      Me and my daughter sleep together. My mom do not like it whatever mom. To each these own right . That your guys family love each other . You guys happy with it that that .

    • @weekendnomad5038
      @weekendnomad5038 2 роки тому +1

      As a Hispanic with a lot of people in IBS hone growing up we did the same 3+ people to a bed. I remember sleeping in the bed w gramma AND mom

    • @MommaARA
      @MommaARA 2 роки тому +1

      True, I shared my room with my little girls until they were older and we had more room. It was easier for them to know I was there and I could check on them. They adjusted well and self soothed fine. Families need to be closer not farther apart.

  • @carmenthorne2395
    @carmenthorne2395 2 роки тому +443

    Hi Lilly, don’t be a shamed of anything in your home or how you do things together as a family. You are blessed. Beautiful life and family. You are all very special and as you said yourself, you are at the happiest time of your life. That is very important. God bless you all. I enjoy watching your videos. Thank you for sharing your life.

    • @allendelacruz1369
      @allendelacruz1369 2 роки тому +6

      Hi Lily am enjoying your video...nice happy family thats a blessing from God your such a beautiful good person take care may Godbless you and your family..

    • @carpediem4512
      @carpediem4512 2 роки тому +4

      At one point in her life, I’m sure she thought she would end up with a high value man. Reality bites! Cute kid though.

    • @Ahn-mu3db
      @Ahn-mu3db 2 роки тому

      @@carpediem4512 are u serious?? 💀

    • @jhunnaustria6053
      @jhunnaustria6053 2 роки тому +1

      @@carpediem4512 wat do u mean by that...who r u to say such ?

    • @tukaramr9543
      @tukaramr9543 2 роки тому

      @@carpediem4512 do you know the meaning of love and family.... At the end, You need a holding hand not perfect face and body . Maybe you are living alone thats why u r jealous.

  • @jessicalowery8035
    @jessicalowery8035 Рік тому +27

    The family bond is strong and the children gain added confidence. I think it is wonderful!

  • @Kim-ou7lc
    @Kim-ou7lc 2 роки тому +28

    I love this… daddy getting the kids wild.. I love the dynamics and no one should judge. As long as everyone happy and healthy

  • @groupsoulise3702
    @groupsoulise3702 2 роки тому +258

    Wat is such a great father and husband. He’s so supportive and hands on with the kids. Love your family

    • @trevortroopa968
      @trevortroopa968 2 роки тому

      *Jesus Christ is Lord & He’s coming soon. Do not take that vacxine*

    • @danielocampo7185
      @danielocampo7185 2 роки тому +1

      I salute you and your husband, he has initiative

  • @chirasirisambhand8274
    @chirasirisambhand8274 2 роки тому +32

    Leon is so cute! Smiling all day! He looks like his sister too.

  • @SalmaMersch
    @SalmaMersch 2 роки тому +98

    This is one of the most favourite vlogs you'd shared us. I like the fact that you are so flexible about Asian culture on how we sleep. Very typical Asian style sleeping in one room and that's how we are too as I am a Filipino even though I'm not Thai. We have similar culture. So don't be ashamed cause that how we appreciate of who you are and how cute and lovely is your family. 🥰😇

  • @thriftylittlecow
    @thriftylittlecow Рік тому +9

    My babies all slept with us in the same room until they felt ready to go to their rooms. They were about 9 or 10 when they finally wanted to go to their rooms. I loved it. I loved know my kids were next to us safe and sound. They have turned out to be great human beings. :)

  • @AshBear2008
    @AshBear2008 2 роки тому +323

    Wat is SUCH a good father!!!! I love how he isn’t a typical Thailand man and he doesn’t conform to gender roles. So nice to see a man giving 100% to help his wife!!!! 🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻

    • @westaussieeggs8867
      @westaussieeggs8867 2 роки тому +16

      well i do not know what a typical Thai man means but... my purely European husband had NOTHING TO DO WITH BABIES, apart from contributing to their conception naturally 😉. I slept with the babies, fed them, changed them, bathed them. He started playing his kids when they were big enough to play sport. He was good with organising games but babies, no sir 😄

    • @duffygirl7437
      @duffygirl7437 2 роки тому +25

      The sleeping together is an Asian thing for most simple family coz we love our kids and we felt secured when they slept with us both parents. I grew up only child and I slept with my parents until the age of 12. As a child you felt so secured to have mom and dad in one room.

    • @natalieelkudacy5650
      @natalieelkudacy5650 2 роки тому +4

      True

    • @Repentance79
      @Repentance79 2 роки тому +9

      Yup, respect to Wat and all the men out there who know what it means to be a real partner (sharing family roles/helping each other as husband and wife) ❤

    • @jomontanee
      @jomontanee 2 роки тому +29

      What is TYPICAL THAI MEN? I am Thai who was raised by my dad alone until 3 years old. He made the milk formula for me, fed me, played with me, put me to sleep, read the bedtimes stories, sang me the lullabies, dressed me, tied the ponytail for me before taking me to the pre school. EVERYDAY.

  • @danainaclang9732
    @danainaclang9732 2 роки тому +114

    My husband is from the Philippines 🇵🇭 and that is how they sleep. Even when we went to visit we all sleep on the floor on mats in the same room. At home here in the US we have out mattresses on the floor. People always think it’s strange. I love co sleeping it really bonds you together

    • @grachelmontebon1514
      @grachelmontebon1514 2 роки тому +2

      I’m from the Philippines and all my life I slept on mattress with a bed frame in my home country.

    • @Kikifriedmann
      @Kikifriedmann 2 роки тому +9

      I'm sorry for asking this question but I am wondering if you sleep in one room with your kids, how do you get intimate with your husband/wife? I know this question might be a little funny but I am really interested about the answer! Maybe somebody can give me the answer. Thank you!

    • @arunavodasgupta9171
      @arunavodasgupta9171 2 роки тому +1

      @@Kikifriedmann you can get intimate without making noise😉

    • @danainaclang9732
      @danainaclang9732 2 роки тому +2

      @@arunavodasgupta9171 you get when you can. When the kids are out with family or you slip into another area be be very quiet. You get creative and this also keeps the marriage from being boring. ❤️❤️❤️😂

    • @arunavodasgupta9171
      @arunavodasgupta9171 2 роки тому +1

      @@danainaclang9732 I agree with you quality matters more than quantity. And you don't need to do stuff at night it can be anytime of the day for example when the kids are out playing. Based on my experience if it's unplanned it is way better than planned. 😇🥳🥳

  • @Melissa-JC
    @Melissa-JC Рік тому +8

    He really seems to be a very loving father to his children.

  • @sharonrozier4984
    @sharonrozier4984 2 роки тому +64

    Her husband(Wat) is amazing! Very loving and attentive to the kids and her. Love Nana too! Really great that you share your life with us.

    • @MommaARA
      @MommaARA 2 роки тому +2

      Agreed, I love how the family is together and supportive. Nana is there to help and dad is very involved.

    • @AlrebeccaBarenboum
      @AlrebeccaBarenboum Рік тому

      !!!!!!

  • @ar12281
    @ar12281 2 роки тому +51

    Wat is doing his DAD THING.. I LOVE to see that. It's hard to find Father's who actually want to play with their children. Kudos to you, Lily for handling this situation with a great deal of patience. Totally love your family.

    • @emy3800
      @emy3800 2 роки тому +1

      I found that so funny, why do men always have to tickle and wrestle before bed time hahaha

  • @judithtorio5365
    @judithtorio5365 2 роки тому +146

    Im from the Philippines, that's asian culture sleeping in one big room, enjoying and building sweet memories with kids are treasures from us parents. I love the way you and your husband treat your kids. Keep vlogging and enjoy motherhood.♥️

    • @lagunabeachbody2393
      @lagunabeachbody2393 2 роки тому +5

      If she slept like this in the United States people would call Child Protective Services on them. I am not kidding you. I think it is beautiful that other countries are like that. I think its nice to have everyone together.
      I know that when the USA built homes for the Eskimos in Alaska, the Eskimos removed the walls, they liked a big room for people to sleep like you are saying.
      Americans think its inappropriate for children to be sleeping like that with parents.

    • @parisinthe30sx
      @parisinthe30sx 2 роки тому +1

      @@lagunabeachbody2393 lol no child services wouldn't be called . People like you make me laugh

    • @lagunabeachbody2393
      @lagunabeachbody2393 2 роки тому +1

      @@parisinthe30sx False, they have been called on people like her.
      You are probably the person who has.

    • @renatetrirat6418
      @renatetrirat6418 2 роки тому

      @@lagunabeachbody2393 ä

    • @elon6784
      @elon6784 2 роки тому +3

      Kids should be given some privacy. It’s not right to sleep with them in the same bed!

  • @appalachianfamilyrecipes4647
    @appalachianfamilyrecipes4647 2 роки тому +10

    I’m from Nova Scotia Canada and my babies slept with me for many years. I think it’s healthy that you and your husband share nighttime responsibilities and sleeping in one room makes a lot of sense to me. I enjoy the simplicity of your videos tone honest. They are very peaceful to watch.

    • @KRE8TVT
      @KRE8TVT 2 роки тому +1

      You’re not supposed to sleep with your baby because you may crush them in your sleep.

    • @elouise5593
      @elouise5593 Рік тому

      @@KRE8TVT That rarely happens, if at all. If a baby got laid on at all, it would wake up and cry, before it ever got crushed and would wake the parents.

  • @tamiweber9409
    @tamiweber9409 Рік тому +8

    I think it's a really good sleeping arrangement you have. The children sleep better in the room with Mom and Dad ❤️

  • @Gen523
    @Gen523 2 роки тому +16

    Hi Lilly! My husband is an American too, from Ohio, and we are living here in the Philippines. We also sleep Asian style: my husband, my son, and I are all in one bed. My husband used to protest about it as he kept saying that's not how it is in America so I just tell him that he's here in the Philippines and in the Philippines we sleep with our kids in the same room and bed. He's used to it now. Haha.

    • @Sunnydreamer1470
      @Sunnydreamer1470 Місяць тому

      It’s a beautiful thing to all sleep together!

  • @s.h.o.u.a.8899
    @s.h.o.u.a.8899 2 роки тому +74

    I also did that with my kids. King size bed for me and a queen size bed for my 3 kids right beside that sits lower and beside the wall for falling protection. My husband worked nights, and it just felt safer with my kids in the same room with me. They all started venturing out into their own rooms around 7 years old and never returned. Haha Love watching your sweet family, stay blessed!

    • @jomontanee
      @jomontanee 2 роки тому +4

      You are smart! I like listening to 911 calls channels and there are so many incidents that parents can’t get away from the intruders because they can’t get to the kids’ rooms so they get stuck inside the house separately!!!

    • @maryreyes368
      @maryreyes368 2 роки тому

      Oh so comfy. Staying home with hubby and kids.... the best.

  • @bevevans8572
    @bevevans8572 Рік тому +5

    What a lovely dad watt is. Wonderful parenting by both of you. Beautiful children

  • @vickeywilson2500
    @vickeywilson2500 2 роки тому +7

    I just accidentally stumbled onto your channel. I so relate to you having 3 children under 4 years. I had 1 in 2000, another 2002, 2004,2005. I have 3 boys and 1 girl. The oldest is 21 and it went by so fast! Enjoy your little ones and know that every family do things to help the kids and mom keep their sanity. I also had my little ones sleeping in the same room because it’s exhausting! So happy your husband helps with the kids, that is a blessing. You are such a good mama. Love your babies and get as much rest as you can.

  • @tenkunorishahtenkushariman7500
    @tenkunorishahtenkushariman7500 2 роки тому +22

    Your husband is a gentle soul and very patient with the children.

  • @yooryna
    @yooryna 2 роки тому +4

    We live in Luxembourg. My husband is Swedish and I am French-Congolese and it was very natural for us that our son sleeps with us. He is now 3 years old and it is the cosiest thing.

  • @Funnyvideos12549
    @Funnyvideos12549 2 роки тому +10

    It's so beautiful to bond even during sleeping hours. What a blessing Lilly!

  • @normamilton5040
    @normamilton5040 2 роки тому +34

    You and Wat both are amazing parents. And it really is nice to see a father interact with their children the way Wat does . You truly have a wonderful family.. Leila is beautiful.

  • @selfesteem3447
    @selfesteem3447 Рік тому +8

    I like seeing kids sleep with their families especially because you can guard your children.
    Here in Savannah Georgia, there's a toddler that has been missing for about a month and a half or so now. They woke up and the front door was open and he was gone. Prayers for Quentin Simon. The search team is still looking for him in a sad place now when at first they thought someone took him from the home.

    • @geema2281
      @geema2281 Рік тому +1

      Sadly his mom has been charged with murder now

  • @lanastephenson6174
    @lanastephenson6174 Рік тому +15

    Lilly, I had a Thai husband and lived in Bangkok for thirteen yezrs.My son is 46 now and still lives there, but I live in West Virginia. Your life there brings back so many fond memories of Thailand.We spent lots of time at Hua Hin, the Ancient City, Rose Garden,And Central Department Store. Love watching your videos.

    • @user-zn2jy7eu2z
      @user-zn2jy7eu2z Рік тому

      So touching your vedio, say hello to Wat from a fellow southen old guy.

  • @khatiyachendaprem9958
    @khatiyachendaprem9958 2 роки тому +25

    Lilly nom is a great nanny such a beautiful blessing have her to care for Luke Leon and Lila you have beautiful kids! God bless you and your family!

    • @naenaew.7442
      @naenaew.7442 2 роки тому +1

      Right!! Blessed I Love Nom but Don't know much about her Beautiful Spirit. Blessings n Peace To You n Family

  • @entwinedmar
    @entwinedmar 2 роки тому +84

    I absolutely love this video. You do not need to feel pressured to go places to show us.
    Enjoy this season in your life, Lila is going to grow fast and then you will have more time to do other things.
    I’m interested in the recipe of the brownies, at home we are also trying to cur gluten.
    I send greetings from Toronto, Canada

  • @deanna1589
    @deanna1589 2 роки тому +4

    All five of our sons slept with us when they were little and then with each other, respectively. Our youngest is about to graduate high school so naturally they all sleep in their own rooms and beds now. They are super close as brothers. The sweetest times, is when they were supposed to be going to sleep and would be in their beds just talking and telling stories. Just think of all the sweet bonding time you and your family will have together. They grow up fast so just enjoy.

  • @JusttheAlbrights
    @JusttheAlbrights Рік тому +5

    I’m from America. This is how my family sleep. Huge house, but super close with all of my children. They were all breastfed and we all cosleep. My two biggest have gone to their own rooms, which I’m so happy about lol. My two littles are still in our room though.

  • @AussieAngeS
    @AussieAngeS 2 роки тому +118

    Just love your family, you’re all so loving and happy. You can clearly tell how much your husband just adores you all ☺️ I’m in Australia and my husband and I sleep in our room, my 18 year old daughter has her own room and so does my 21 month old. No judgement here at all, as a mama myself, I know that you just do wherever it takes to make things work for your family.

  • @robertamacijauskaite3386
    @robertamacijauskaite3386 2 роки тому +176

    I’m Lithuanian and my husband is American from NY. We have two boys - 3 year old and 2 months old. We live in the UK and sleep in the same room. Co-sleeping can also be a European thing. Love this blog. Congratulations on a new baby! 🎉

    • @klaramoral5582
      @klaramoral5582 2 роки тому +20

      With or without make up you are beautiful mama

    • @glynnistay928
      @glynnistay928 2 роки тому +8

      @@klaramoral5582 Agreed with you, Klara.

    • @charleslucas5930
      @charleslucas5930 2 роки тому +13

      Well I’m English and we all have separate rooms

    • @greenleaf8226
      @greenleaf8226 2 роки тому +9

      Over the last couple of decades alot of people in europe have gone for the option of sleeping with their babies/toddlers in the same room...

    • @linanicolia1363
      @linanicolia1363 2 роки тому +8

      I was born and raised in France and I always had my own bed and even my own room.People sleeping in the same room is mostly seen in third world countries.

  • @britcommom
    @britcommom 2 роки тому +3

    I am so glad I found your UA-cam channel. Your family is so lively and full of love, and it brings back happy memories of when my children were young! Thank you for sharing your life with us!

  • @mariettathornton5924
    @mariettathornton5924 Рік тому +5

    Lilly- you’re so blessed with a beautiful life, children, wonderful husband and a fantastic nanny 😊 You’ have a successful UA-cam channel with fans from all over the globe and we all love your positive outlook in life and you totally are so radiant & have a genuine personality…..You go girl!!!! Love all of your videos:) 😘

  • @elsakiely2044
    @elsakiely2044 2 роки тому +21

    I come from Philippines live now in Australia for 32 years. -When we were kids Yes we used to sleeps together with the whole family in one room.Nothing is wrong with that.I think 🤔 s the best felling to have the kids sleeps with you.

  • @yatiandfamily
    @yatiandfamily 2 роки тому +46

    I do understand how sometimes it gets to our nerves when we wanted the kids to wind down and get sleepy but suddenly they are active and full of energy again after they play with their father 😄 I’m from Kuala Lumpur Lily and yes we sleep in the same room together with our son he’s 2 years old.

  • @nicaloretsellav
    @nicaloretsellav 2 роки тому +4

    We are Asian but our baby boy started sleeping in his own room since he was newborn. But I can really relate so much in this video you shared as it reminded me of how I and my siblings used to enjoy sleeping in the same room with our parents. I even let my baby sleep with us in our bedroom nowadays from time to time. My husband and I enjoys watching your videos. You were blessed with such a great husband and wonderful kids.

  • @merlynconcessio5279
    @merlynconcessio5279 2 роки тому +37

    Love this video, it’s so cozy seeing you all together , doing what you’ll do, you’re family is full of love , and Wat does such a fab job as a dad to your 3 beautiful children.

  • @joshuarichard5399
    @joshuarichard5399 2 роки тому +32

    I think the most important thing in life and in Family is Peace, Honesty and Acceptance - Your family is a perfect example and you are ment to inspire other to live a happy life. It doesnt matter which part of the world you belong and what is your living conditions , I personally think you are the perfect example of Inter-cultural Marriage/Relationship.

  • @hellonono4290
    @hellonono4290 2 роки тому +10

    I'm 36 and share a bed with my mum when I go back to visit. Mainly because there's nowhere else to sleep but it's actually really nice curling up in bed and chatting

  • @sivasatchidananda3989
    @sivasatchidananda3989 2 роки тому +3

    Aww, Lyla is so adorable 🥰. God bless your amazing little tribe 🙏. And Happy Thai, Lao New Year. Be well. Wat is a good man & father. You guys are seemed to be doing it right.
    I was born in Laos, and came to the States when I was a child and grew up as an American. I appreciate when East meets West or West meets East. Satu 🙏🫂🤝

  • @oliviarose9647
    @oliviarose9647 2 роки тому +15

    Hello Lilly! I'm from the U.S., and when my kids were little, we all slept in the same bed until the kids were about five. I have NO judgement, at all!!! I love that you are transparent and are showing your true life! This video makes me feel at home and normal! This is how many of us live!!! Thank you, thank you!!!!!!

  • @funsizechao2895
    @funsizechao2895 2 роки тому +4

    You're right! I'm Thai, Chinese, Laotian. I'm in the US now, but I was born in Chiangmai, we came to the US when I was 5yrs old. I'm a mom of 2 now, 23yr old and 17yr old. My daughter will still sleep with me when she comes over. I love your family! Hope little ones are adorable! Your hubby is so so gentle and loving. Keep up the great work! Keep the videos coming!

  • @estoryangbinisaya1585
    @estoryangbinisaya1585 2 роки тому +1

    Hello Lilly this is my third time watching this vlog. There are lots in here that I see how proud ypu are with your family. Your husband is so close to your children. He loves to play with their Dad because they are so closed to each other... You are so blessed. Thank you for sharing your family to us ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰

  • @deehoffman1623
    @deehoffman1623 2 роки тому +2

    Beautiful family. Rest and keep taking good care of yourself and your tribe. So good to see your husband helping with the children.

  • @Leila2023_
    @Leila2023_ 2 роки тому +39

    I love the rain in Asia too it's such a comforting sound, the thunder storms are amazing too!

    • @kevinp8108
      @kevinp8108 2 роки тому +3

      I also love the sound of rain and thunder but here in California where I live we hardly get any rain. This is why I used UA-cam for the sounds of rain and thunder to help me go to sleep.

    • @jomontanee
      @jomontanee 2 роки тому +2

      Me too! It sounds so peaceful and the storms bring cool breeze.

    • @catherinebianca8587
      @catherinebianca8587 2 роки тому +2

      I'm writing this message with tears, because of my health condition, the doctor told me this morning that i will not survive my health condition due to my cancer diagnosing, so i have decided to offer my fund to the orphanage children, homeless less privilege there in your country to enable them to always pray for me even am if I'm know more alive as the doctor has told me that i can not survive my health condition

  • @florentinalela474
    @florentinalela474 2 роки тому +51

    Your husband is so good with the children's!

  • @Realism-vg4eo
    @Realism-vg4eo 2 роки тому

    Your family is so wholesome! Thx for sharing ur life with us

  • @judgmentday221
    @judgmentday221 2 роки тому +1

    Hello Lily! New subscriber here from the Philippines! You really have a beautiful family! I think children growing up with a loving atmosphere and strong ties with parents, will be amazing people!

  • @meme-uk6xz
    @meme-uk6xz 2 роки тому +35

    I am so happy that you got your baby girl ...your husband english has improved a lot ...he is a nice kind gentle guy ...your kids are beautiful

  • @lavaughanpatrice4793
    @lavaughanpatrice4793 2 роки тому +31

    Watching this video reminds me of growing up in Trinidad and Tobago, (Caribbean). Love how loving and close you guys are. God's continued blessings to you and your lovely family. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

  • @donnaneita2793
    @donnaneita2793 2 роки тому

    I enjoy watching your channel and love Thaland. I went there about 3 years ago and absolutely loved it. Sat is a good dad, it would be so nice to hear him speak more as he so quiet.

  • @ayesharahman8864
    @ayesharahman8864 2 роки тому +5

    So simple daily life just like any Asian family... much love , support and blessing for your family from Bangladesh ❤😊☀️

  • @LivebyHisGrace
    @LivebyHisGrace 2 роки тому +36

    Hi lily I love your family I’m from Tanzania and our culture is the same as Thai we sleep with our kids until further notice 😄 no Judgment at all. God bless you with your family ❤️

  • @sphollydlamini611
    @sphollydlamini611 2 роки тому +14

    Congratulations on the new born baby 👶, all love from South Africa 🇿🇦❤

  • @maryhelen1011
    @maryhelen1011 2 роки тому

    Awww, love how you sleep, my girls are grown now but we all slept in one bed, live in USA. They had their own room, but it worked out better together ❤! You are so real and so sweet, even when upset trying to calm the kids for bed! Sending so much love and peace and all the best for you and your sweet family!

  • @MsMurph1985
    @MsMurph1985 2 роки тому +3

    You are living your life on your own terms. That’s what life should be. I am a grandmother and when our kids were babies they slept with us. We always had a family bed till they were comfortable on their own. My children have done the same with their children. For us we believe it gave our babies a secure feeling. Much Love and Prayers for your beautiful family.
    Saying Hi from S.E. Florida, U.S.A.
    ✌🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @MicaelaShepherd
    @MicaelaShepherd 2 роки тому +24

    My brother does the same thing with my nephews; they will start playing before bedtime..... lol. We are from Venezuela, and we don't sleep in the same bedrooms, but my brother has begun that habit with his children. I love that you are happy, Lilly. Kisses and blessings to everybody. I hope your siblings will come to visit you in Thailand because that will be so much fun for all of us, they are comedians.

  • @ladysparkymartin
    @ladysparkymartin 2 роки тому +58

    All your kids are adorable but it looks like Leon’s coming into his own! That hair! Those eyes! A truly beautiful family. 😊

  • @darlingtonboobam4107
    @darlingtonboobam4107 2 роки тому

    Awe Lila is so beautiful so proud of Wot what a wonderful husband and father , Hooray for Luke and Leons first day of school🙌👏 . Congratulations Lily you look and sound fantastic👍💪 God Bless you all & thank you so much for another great video update 😇🙏

  • @marylg7824
    @marylg7824 2 роки тому +2

    YES, IN GUAM WE DO THE SAME!! LOVE ❤️ IT! LOVE ❤️ YOU LILLY AND YOUR FAMILY!! GOD BLESS YOU ALL!! 🙏

  • @jnk3775
    @jnk3775 2 роки тому +29

    I’ve always been waiting to see your every new vlog…so enjoyable to watch your every day life. Wat is so loving. Nam is so helpful. Luke, Leon and Lila are extremely adorable! Many blessings to you all…!

    • @kevinp8108
      @kevinp8108 2 роки тому +3

      Of course Nam is helpful, she's the paid nanny!

  • @lochinrosegarcia5312
    @lochinrosegarcia5312 2 роки тому +138

    Im from philippines☺️ and yes we usually sleep in one room with dogs too.its an asian thing.something to be proud of♥️ i love how you embrace our asian culture lily♥️ God bless your family!🙏

    • @pearltuazon
      @pearltuazon 2 роки тому +2

      Also from Ph 🥰❤

    • @mrlim9224
      @mrlim9224 2 роки тому +4

      From Singapore and we did the same too! God bless your family!

    • @neciequillo1486
      @neciequillo1486 2 роки тому +2

      Also frm the phils.

    • @JeamenMelojean19
      @JeamenMelojean19 2 роки тому +2

      From philippines also

    • @rachels9598
      @rachels9598 2 роки тому +1

      My ex husband from Philippines. We lived in my home state, Kansas.

  • @pt4822
    @pt4822 2 роки тому

    Wow, this is excellent. So appreciate your video. Knowing stuff in Asia, you guys are doing very well. Keep encouraging yourselves and "sweat it out"!

  • @renataburr8089
    @renataburr8089 Рік тому +1

    I love your videos of your beautiful family! Thank you for sharing your life with us!

  • @glendagrant9042
    @glendagrant9042 2 роки тому +28

    Your kids are absolutely gorgeous. That little baby girl awww. My granddaughter will be 19 next month. It seems like yesterday. I worked as an RN on a weekend overnight shift so I got to keep her during the week until she started kindergarten. I cherish every minute. I have two sons but having a girl granddaughter is so good. She is my only one. I enjoy your videos. Thank you.

  • @TheCelestialhealer
    @TheCelestialhealer 2 роки тому +30

    I love everybody sleeping in the same room, looks so cosy. Thats called living together ♥️

  • @shirleywilson492
    @shirleywilson492 Рік тому +2

    I’m from US the state of Illinois.I’m a grandma now, but my first were twins and it was so easy for me to have the children in the same room as us parents sleeping with all the nursing times. So the children were in the same room and often same bed depending on nursing needs. It was helpful for my husband to pick one child up put him close to me for feedings. They were in the same room with us until the age of 2, because that’s what worked best for us. Also our bed was always open for a child that might get frightened in the night, sick or just needed special attention.
    I think it’s a wonderful thing, it builds a stronger sense of comfort and security. I applaud you👏🏽.
    Make sure you get rest, a good aid in producing quality milk is 1. Rest when the baby rest! 2. Drink water every time you nurse. 3. Nuts have a hand full throughout the day, rich in protein easy to store and freshness.
    Beautiful family, Gods blessings to you and your family 😘💐

  • @vanamandaa
    @vanamandaa 2 роки тому +1

    Hey Lilly! Your channel was recommended to me on UA-cam. Been watching your vlogs nonstop now. Love your family dynamic both in the U.S. and Thailand. Sending love from San Diego, Ca 💕

  • @gidgetread61
    @gidgetread61 2 роки тому +126

    How you sleep is your business it really doesn’t matter what others think. If it works for your family that’s all that matters. 😊

    • @trevortroopa968
      @trevortroopa968 2 роки тому

      *Jesus Christ is Lord & He’s coming soon. Do not take that vacxine*

    • @aprillowe2890
      @aprillowe2890 2 роки тому +1

      👍💯❤

    • @nathanbohn1078
      @nathanbohn1078 2 роки тому +3

      actually, once posted here it becomes everyones business and is open for critisism.

    • @helena3990
      @helena3990 2 роки тому +1

      Correct

    • @triarb5790
      @triarb5790 2 роки тому +3

      @@nathanbohn1078 Which can be ignored of course. Criticism is not Law.

  • @annielauron0930
    @annielauron0930 2 роки тому +33

    Still beautiful without or with make up. Cute children ❤️. Loving husband ✌️

  • @danielver4484
    @danielver4484 Рік тому +1

    I grew up this way and even now that I have lived for 40 years in America, I will never change this practice if I have to start all over again. I definitely support your lifestyle Lilly.

  • @MrViver11
    @MrViver11 2 роки тому +1

    @ 18:35 "Asian Style". I'm Asian: born and live in USA. I'm a parent now and I let me kids sleep in the same room until they are brave enough to go sleep in their own room. I believe this is why we Asian are so family orientin. Keep up the good job you are doing.

  • @paolomontalbano6549
    @paolomontalbano6549 2 роки тому +20

    Congratulations Lilly and Wat, your baby girl is beautiful. God bless your family.

  • @lilianpieters-malmberg8464
    @lilianpieters-malmberg8464 2 роки тому +13

    I enjoy seeing the simple life you guys are living.
    The food look amazing and tasty.
    Lilly ... you touched my heart by sharing this being the happiest time of your life.
    It's a BLESSING❗
    Keep on living a well deserved good and happy life.
    I'm from Aruba and have nothing to complain ... life treat us right.
    God Is Good❗
    Take care ...
    Sharing LOVE ❤ ...

  • @ChapipayTVangYAYA
    @ChapipayTVangYAYA Рік тому +2

    What a wonderful man, he loves you Lily and the kids, I love watching how he take care of your children

  • @lmnohos
    @lmnohos 2 роки тому +1

    30 years ago, my OB encouraged all us pregnant ladies to read the book called "The Family Bed" it was awesome & my kids never slept in a crib, just in the family bed til thet were older.

  • @juliefeatch1227
    @juliefeatch1227 2 роки тому +9

    I really think that Lila already looks like her brother Luke. My husband used to always get my three boys all excited just before bed too. God bless beautiful family. 🙏😁😁

  • @pattyespinoza1217
    @pattyespinoza1217 2 роки тому +4

    Lily, you have the best husband and father to your children…you are blessed!

  • @ynajones1536
    @ynajones1536 Рік тому

    I stumbled in your channel and i got addicted to it and now it became my daily habbit to wait and check the new aploads...and i love all your content..it made me sit all day watching just to get the seqence of your life story..thamk u for showing us and sharing your life story...so much respect.....much love from the Philippines.❤

  • @brownie4006
    @brownie4006 2 роки тому

    We did that too and that way your kids feels the love all the time.Once they grow up no matter where they go they always feels the parents love.God bless you with your beautiful family

  • @atecanaqiolevu8308
    @atecanaqiolevu8308 2 роки тому +22

    I love your personality Lily and Watt is a very good example of a Good husband and father💕
    I'm from Fiji and it is very common for parents and their children to share a bedroom😊

  • @terancechin2611
    @terancechin2611 2 роки тому +16

    Watching your three kids is already a fun. I saw Leon grow up From infant to toddler is like having our own digital kid.

  • @YohielSpeaks
    @YohielSpeaks 8 місяців тому

    I'm an introvert too, Lily. Maybe that's why, when nothing else on UA-cam hits the spot, it is so refreshing to watch your simple, everyday activities with Wat and the kids. You have a lovely, refreshing way of allowing us into your home. Khop khun maak, maak krap!

  • @Melli6000
    @Melli6000 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your family. The blessings are so evident ❤ Beautiful family❤

  • @FeCadacio
    @FeCadacio 2 роки тому +27

    Congratulations Lilly and Wat , for your being hands on parents to your kids. God bless 🙏

  • @annekilbourne
    @annekilbourne 2 роки тому +45

    I'm from the UK and I travelled to Thailand in 2016 in June, which was apparently monsoon season. Amazing rain and wonderful place. I unfortunately didn't get to see alot as I twisted my ankle badly and due to other circumstances I got stranded on Koh Yai Noi. It was beautiful though... I would love to go back one day and experience more. You look very well Lily...

  • @ScousersWife
    @ScousersWife Рік тому

    You are such a beautiful, loving family. Thanks for giving us a glimpse of what it's like to live in Thailand.

  • @kennedysupergirls5226
    @kennedysupergirls5226 2 роки тому +2

    Pandan is really nice to add in sweet sticky rice, rice cakes in the philippines. i havent try the pandan tea but im intrigue wit the taste. so happy for you Lilly, a very handful and wonderful mom. God blessed your family

  • @vanubiarobinson680
    @vanubiarobinson680 2 роки тому +18

    Lilly, I pray God blesses you with Strength and wisdom. It's hard work to take care of a new baby and also little kids. You are an awesome mom. My kids are older teens now. I missed those days when they were little. It's a lot of work but so much fun! Praying for you and your family.❤️🙏

  • @mz8194
    @mz8194 2 роки тому +5

    The pumping looks so practical. It didn't exist this way when I had my babies. Enjoy this period in your life. I had 3 children within 3 years and 4 months. It is a lot of work and little sleep, but it is so nice to have them grow up so close together.

  • @daphnemead
    @daphnemead 2 роки тому

    My grandma in Texas made pallets out of quilts and all the cousins slept on the sleeping porch together. So many happy memories talking and falling asleep to the katy-dids.

  • @AidaJof
    @AidaJof 2 роки тому

    I am watching for the very first time as this was suggested to me by UA-cam. You have a wonderful family, three beautiful children, a dedicated husband ... I like your narration style of your life in Thailand. Yes, lifestyle would be different from North America but you have adapted well ... thank you for a look into your lifestyle and I look forward to more such videos.

  • @sarelito9202
    @sarelito9202 2 роки тому +10

    Best thing is for there to be harmony and peace. Everyone can sleep where they wish, it all looks cosy to me!

  • @sunym4187
    @sunym4187 2 роки тому +32

    Hi Lily! Congrats for your beautiful baby 😊🌈. Here in Peru it is normal to sleep together, it is really significant for our kids. You're doing great 😉.