My Polygamous Gay Pastor Husband Is 20 Years Older - Lesego
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ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 105 - Lesego
Lesego is a 22 year old who is married into a polygamous marriage with a 42 year old man who is a Pastor.
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We interviewed Lesego’s husband as a follow up to this episode.
Watch here: ua-cam.com/video/vJ2WJpxRt44/v-deo.htmlsi=SJd_KbzBfmI1fIj7
PARENTS, PRAY FOR YOUR KIDS AND SIT DOWN AND HAVE REAL TALKS WITH THEM.
exactly...i will present this to my church community. paed0philes are everywhere
this boy is under a strong satanic spell. his destiny is being used and the residual benefits is the money bishop gives him
The devil is sooooooo busy! Help up Lord! 🙏🏾😭
Sound mind is nothing but a great blessing.Thank you my savior.I pray this young guy finds grace to come out of this darkness .
or madness??
I weep for this generation!! Father please have mercy.
I wee with you
Not need to weep about our children if you pretend you don't know,this has been in existence, but people were afraid to come out,because of culture and tradition. Only now I realize what was happening, when uncle Jim and uncle John lived together, or Aunty Jane and aunty Mary lou?? So it's been in existence, maybe our grandparents knew.?
@@rbsbemotivated6160wee and weep is two different things 😅
Praying for Deliverance.
Men are brothers and husbands. WOMEN are sisters and wives.
May this kind of love never find me
And the choir says Amen!
In JESUS name Amen
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Amen😂😢😢
😂
I pray God must do something to save our children this child need Christ amen 🙏
I understand he's a child but these are not our children these people have been turned over to a reprobate mind and there's no prayers we can give that will be an answer to their questions they're looking for something that's vain and that was the same thing Lucifer was looking for when he was in heaven and with that said that's the reason why he got kicked out 🥾💫 by the sword die by the sword⚔️🗡️⚔️🗡️⚔️
Wait until us bashers,find out our child or grandchild is gay?
you makes no sense
This is so wrong on so many levels, right from the beginning 😢
Then go sit with your kids and be present
@@Vann20F😊😊you obviously 🌈
i feel so sorry for this young man needsdeliverance please peopleof God pray for this young man 😮
May God deliver him soon
Raised with no boundaries. Has no sense of right or wrong.
I agree 💯
No teachings from home, when he was young 😢
Exactly usangene, udukile soon uzomuzwa esethi am not gay anymore
I agree with you and somehow I feel he lack the backbone he's is just a walking carton
Poor parenting das ol I can say
Lesego is a very likeable person, sincere and well-spoken. Lungelo did well asking him about education and career. I hope Lesego can become an independent person one day.
This husband must be arrested for child molesting. He groomed this poor boy, I blame the parents. My last born is 21 still staying with me.
Exactly.
A 12 or 13 years old who insisted on living on his own and brazen enough to tell his parents he is dating an older man at age 15 is not your typical groom victim.
@@Saysonowhe met him at 12 he is groom and wether he’s not that’s statutory rape Africa always put up with these minor Bullshit .
@@Saysonow Very true, sometimes these so-called victims put people in Joseph-Potiphas wife scenarios.
His partner should be locked up for child abuse.I hope this case can be open and he go to jail.This is a despicable story
I wish Lesego will watch this episode and introspect. I wish he will take up the opportunities you’re offering to him and maximise on them. 🙏🏾
Math ain't mathing, they paid for your rent but they couldnt pay for school? This is actually sad ngoba wawuyingane and he took advantage.
wow imagine
I know ull come for me but truth is"This guy is married to the Ritualist"
At age 12 my Son would not be leaving my sight, at that age they are vulnerable and can easily be influenced.
He was a minor and he groomed him.. he needs therapy unfortunately
So true ey, I mean if the kids are his peers 😳 that's evidence of grooming..... hopefully he'll realise that he needs professional help in that regard.
They both need Therapy!
If you're a queen I must be mad
That pastor is a devil
God don't call homosexual to preach he will change them
Lesego was broken from a young age. Renting a room that young, a mother who agrees with a youngster renting, a father who says nothing.
I wish I was the interviewer, so many unanswered questions i would ssk😮
I’d ask at what age did he have his first sexual encounter. Was it by assault or grooming? Also, what’s the relation to that other person and their age
He was either sexually violated or lived in a dysfunctional family. Void of guidance and acceptance
I pray right now in the name of Jesus for this young man loose him and set him free my God .
12 years old 😮
High School 😮
Renting 😮
Dating😮
Not make sure 🤞
Asked to move out at the age of 12 and the parents agreed and paid his rent. Hai. kuningi
I know him and indeed he started renting at a very young age. It's no lies
😂😂
I think he is just dishing out. Comprehension is a problem
Jikijiki he doesn’t have funding for tertiary, hai I do t know if I should doubt his stories or his parents parenting skills.
husband is a church founder at the same time tradition healer what is is this world we are living ?
A lot of confusion on this world!!
The world is dead believe me. Hence the Bible say, let the dead bury the dead.
Disgrace an abomination to the body of Christ
😂😂😂😂
Isn't this the least concerning thing about this world rn
He is NOT aware that old man will dump him for another 16 year old in a few years time.
the old guys are vampires...they always want younger younger blood.
Older men are youth vampires
But he is most confident in his position in the man's life ...
I dont think he will ever dump him .Its his rituals
There is a way that seems right to a man, but the end is death.Proverbs 14: 12-16
AMEN 💜💜❤️❤️❤️💜
Our boys are endangered species 😭😭😭it's always somebody older grooming this kids eish this is sad! He can't even hear himself😭😭😭😭ohh nkosi yaam
I wish he could watch back this interview and reflect
Seems a typical kind of story re older straight males taking on young boys and once it is something that the young boy needs - it would appear to be ok. ... His story doesn't seem to project anything awry at all with the association he formed from as early as 12 ...
@@aaronsinclair5095those older males aren't straight then.
@@aaronsinclair5095 did you mean Yong girls? Cause young boys implies he's not straight. Nevertheless, this happens to girls too.
i will say also.....he is very humble and transparent ...the host too is very professional and non judgmental.
Lord have mercy! I really think this world is coming to an end very very soon! 😮😮😮
Guess you know someone we don't
This is some sick shit
Why is the world ending. Gays are not new, they have been there even before our grand parents were born but the world is still here, so why has the world not ended. Why do you feel now it's gonna end
😂😂😂😂
The world would not come to and end, we will though.
It's very dangerous for a child to move grades immaturely. Lesegos childhood development was disturbed and destroyed by 1 skipping grades he grew with kids older than him and got exposed to dating at young age got exposed to going out at groove at young age, two lesego's parents failed to protect and teach him to be a man they let him rent at young age, at the age of curiosity when kids are curious about sex porn and etc. parents allowing him to go twasa at that young age, a 14 year old is not capable of making such huge decisions. the bishop is a pedophile. Lesego was failed by all guardians in his life his parents, the teachers the bishop. You can see by the way he speaks he is not fully matured he talks like a 14 year old. I pray Lesego finds healing....
I agree......most abused people act like the the age they were traumtised. the bisoph started having s3x with him t 14yrs old so he will forever act like a 14yr old. he has peter pan syndrome. the parasitic bisoph and his demons will continue to feast on his carcus until he wakes up if he ever.
Why is it okay for a girl to get married at 8 or 12 years,and not a boy?
@@sherryshah1797 its not ok either to marry or date at 12yrs old. Would you be ok if lesegos is your son and hes dating a grown man?
Lesego shared his private life with us, as means of communicating our differences in society. There’s a lot to take in here, but wear your seatbelt and endure the ride. You may feel discomfort, but don’t forget to be graceful and empathetic. Enjoy the episode.
Grateful for this podcast, we need a part two for this episode 🙏🏾, all viewers would appreciate this.
Thank you 😊 💓
I missed you Lungelo and loved your outfit and of course your guest's outfit as well.
The pedophilia in the black community is crazy! 12 years old ?? Wtf a 12 year year old got in common with someone 20 years their senior .This is criminal but,it’s Africa so anything goes . That person should be tried investigate and put behind the bars .
The pedophilia in the black community is crazy! 12 years old ?? Wtf a 12 year year old got in common with someone 20 years their senior .This is criminal but,it’s Africa so anything goes . That person should be tried ,investigate and put behind the bars .To make matters worst this man has been married 8 times ! divorce 6 😯 ! the ghettooooo . Chile this is so ghetto.I hope this blight type of love never finds me .If the word red flag was a living organism it would this situation .
Amen you got that r6
Big ups to the host, he is asking all the right questions in a humble way.
The interviewer is good at what he does. He interviewed the guest speaker with sensitivity and asked all the right questions without judgement.
🤔
@@beverlyfrancis8433 ?
Cant believe im listening to this 😢
Same 🙉🙊
Me to
I feel like the English language robbed us of some of the golden nuggets of this conversation but beautiful interview great job!
I have dated and defended someone like Lesego,now theraphy is eating my money.
Dangerous situation😢
You dated someone who dates sugar daddies?
hahaha😃
@@IamBaratidated someone and defended that person the way Lesego is defending his husband
@@sihleqengqeleka7125Ohh makes sense. I was also confused as to what she was talking about.
May God heal your soul
Lungelo, I appreciate that you maintain a non-judgmental attitude toward your guest while remaining grounded in your own truth.
The so called husband needs to be arrested because at such a tender age, he psychologically, emotionally and sexually manipulated and abused this kid
I agree with this part of the story.
He is hypnotized by this satanic life
Which is Christian lol which is he’s faith he’s husband is a pastor lol.
So sad for this kid, he does not realize he is with a perv holding a bible. As for the interviewer, his interviewing skills are top notch, everthing I wanted to know he asked
Lungelo your questions, how you posed them and the wit behind them! Bravoooooo. You are a gem 💎
Grateful for such appreciation for the heart poured into the conversations. Thank you :)
Jesus come and rescue this handsome boy
Gay Pastor.Two different words next to each other.The world is coming to an end..Attack me all you can.
You know that pastors have been gay right? For years! Centuries.
Also pastors are just human beings that have a job, pastors are flawed. Not saying being gay is a flaw but there’s nothing “holy” about a pastor. It’s just a person doing a job.
@@Peighter the number one role of a pastor is to lead the flock in the ways of God... That is why they will be judged twice as James says... So when a pastor is also in affirmation of homosexuality which God condemns then he is not standing in his authority and role as a pastor... This is like a sangoma pastor... The two do not mix... When they do mix there is deception... And i say this with no judgement but the truth of God's word.
@@vicky-yx4dy what you’re saying I’m not disputing. All im saying is that all pastors we have in the world sin, live in sin, in their many different ways. Same way both you and I are living in sin, no matter what it is.
That being said I’m not Christian so this is not really of my business, I was just giving a comment🙈
@vicky-yx4dy there's no God who condemns homosexuality, stop spreading this harmful misinformation
I know a handful of gay pastors,obviously most are discreet. Most are those who are not allowed to marry
I am just gonna say this that for those that are still looking for the last days as it was said in Revelations …devil is in charge But as for me and my house we will stick to worshipping the living true GOD
I think a lot of people do not understand who God is.Knowing God make one
Humble my prayet is my som seek the Lord and talk to Him,and the persom you call your husband,he being a pastor and owning a church the Bible has got answers,please talk to God.
Pertinent questions respectfully posed. Great interview. Well Done 👏🏾👍🏾🎉
😳😳😳Me the entire time watching this interview.
I’m like ????????? 14/34 😮😮😮😮
😂😂😂
Oh my God! I may never understand but who leaves their child at that age to rent a room alone. the perverts in this world. I am so sorry and sad for this young man! I may never understand this alternative other than abuse!
I appreciate the professionalism in this podcast. The host was an active and non-judgemental listener. I may not understand the guests lifestyle but I enjoyed hearing his story ❤
Meaning he dated him while he was married to 6 people. So this might happen to him. I think this husband had Juju for him. He hipnotise him. This is really heart breaking.
This boy could be a good husband.What about pampers and his health.
God have mercy on our souls,we need you now more than ever Lord Jesus. Ziveze Nkosi😢
Amen sisi say that again
Ameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen 🇿🇦
votsek phindi
God have mercy on our souls indeed Phindi, Amen 🙏
"""""""This story is so ridiculously!!!!!!! unique""""""Thanx to the Blogger for airing it
Lungelo, I am happy that beyond the shock value presented by this narrative; you actually care for the human being that is Lesego. I do think he has potential to be great. Such an insightful conversation. Very necessary too. Enkosi.
A lot doesn't at up ...
Was scared to say that
Wena 👀
Hey…there’s a lot to unpack here…
Am still stuck on him calling White City a small village in Soweto
White city. Small village njani
Lies come out of his mouth without a wink. Could be mental illness
Listen i've never been in Soweto but that caught of guard like whaaat😳🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm not South African, only been to JB once, but even I was like, whaat?
Sobatshela abantu base White City😂
My goodness, praying for a spiritual breakthrough for all parties involved. Repentance is much needed, may God extend grace and mercy to you all. Very messy 😩
The only truth is that no law on earth will block God's hand as we all stand before the judgment seat to be judged except his word. God never ordained a man to be with a man because he told us to replenish the earth, and multiple no multiplication can come from such a union not even with 2 women. We are to love all people but lie to none because only the truth will set us free.
So if they don't multiply it's wrong
Bishop,traditional healer,polygamous, woman and man tyoooo kuningi
He was groomed by a married man kahle kahle
Don't forget 6 times divorced, child groomer.. It's a lot
Evil spirits
Wow, you I'm so intrigued with these conversations ❤ Lungelo❤
Please help the young man....he needs to be able to define himself outside marriage...
I love him ❤I do feel there is still lots of growing up going to happen. Love and light to the couple❤❤❤
Such a young handsome well spoken gentleman. . 😢
Hayii klk Sana he was 12 Years, the pastor was 32 years old, asoze what kind of a relationship was that ? 😢😢 Aibo Nkosi yam Abantwana bethu
The host was great.. well done.. Husband is a paedo should have been locked up..A selfish nacisist..the church is enabling him..and he is probably sypherring huge amount of thithings out of his congregation to support his life style..IMHO..
He is on a journey destroying innocent and honest people...( that include his Ex wife , children). A snake in the grass making a mockery out of G-d's name.. Something tell me this young man is putting up a front..not revealing the real story.. but is eager to go along with it because he has no inclination to go and help himself . Lazy..accustomed to jumping on the gravy train..A train that leads to nowhere.. yet so handsome ..kind...with lots of potential. So towards the end if the interview he suspect husband could possibly involved with a 3rd person..I stand under correction abt this.
Imagine how he is misleading the congregation.. and has he hubby no 1 on his pay roll as assistant in the church too?
Man of.....capital S.. We cant judge you..but judge your actions and behaviour.. Stop it.
This young man..( wifey no 2) wake up and smell the coffee..get a life..
But...according the Word..
There is nothing new under the sun. It was written. God bless the wonderful host for asking the questions so respectfully and wisely
How about anothet interview with wifey no 1.. let's hear her version of this marriage.
Lungile delves into the conversation by asking the most compelling questions. Interesting show
So are going to call the police on him or?? 😭😭🤣🤣
This is getting completely out of control! 🥺
Such a kind young man , we live our lives differently.
Let's all be kind ❤
Well said..❤❤❤❤
Cult! End times and people allowing the devil to use them.
True
True and so sad to hear these things
Its a cult even their church am sure is for them
Great interview Lungsta, shuuuu!!!! Kunengi, so he was groomed by a 32yr old when he was a minor, mara akuhlangani maan. I wish he had spoken in his mother tongue, maybe he would have expressed himself much better, "my opinion ".. Mmmhhh isn't he talking about "kwasuka lapho kwabanjani" interesting Story!!!I'm left with so many questions.
May the Almighty God save us as well as our children 🙏 😢
So painful 💔
lol lungelo grilled with questions 😂😂enjoyed it so much we got details no questions left hanging
soooo interesting i love these type of conversations with friends hahah
The host is being shady with some questions please 😂😂
Honeng Kerr Yoh😮😮The end is no longer near shame it’s here.
I love him, he is still young, he ll grow to be independent, he still has all the time
Totally agree...
He RIGHTFULLY said there was something WRONG with him...
Informative Interesting indeed 👍 Good news and good day. I was able just this Morning on 6/9/24 waking up in Nyc...to your Talk Show to me a fresh breath of Air. Great person you are Great contents.
He's so well spoken and has so much potential to thrive in entertainment
Hey kuningi, Thixo ngenelela and heal our land. Uphili xa kunje. How did we get here as humans
Was asking myself the same question
oksalayo,u dont know what $xlity your kids will be
Thixo kuningi
Ngeke samenza lethu umuntu oselazi ip*pi
Grooming at its highest peak.
Right....
Grooming in the gay community is so rife, many don't know this. It's a big pandemic
@@mlondidlungwana7472 and the victims don't realize
@@Mbalings Because the parents and guardians and community most times are not there to say this is wrong and protect us.
@@mlondidlungwana7472 it's so sad
Traditional healer and Bishop in one 😮
Lol
Concoction of tricky manipulator fit for world of Guinness status this "arch bishop"who exploits young boys youth to their detrimentheu he is ruthless this man,God please forgive our sins and save our future handsome fathers.😮
Father God come for your World!!
Very interesting! Watching from Switzerland
May THE LORD GOD ALMIGHTY, JESUS CHRIST have mercy, and deliver us from our evil and presumptuous ways, in The Mighty Name of JESUS. Amen.
I will not watch no further
I can't....he says he has a sister wife.....and one of 3 husbands.....God I hope u are listening? Cuz my ears are aching.
Knowing the difficulties we face in our communities. I would like to appreciate the bravery and courage of this young man to share with us. Homosexual stories are normally portrayed as a joke or humor for viewership or followers. Lungelo thank you for teaching us and giving us different dimensions around sexuality. Your dialogues are engaging and educative about how we should ask people if we are curious. Your show teaches us the concept of humanity, and respect. Big up!
Phenomenal feedback. Thank you for taking time to share this. God bless you.
I hope moja love is watching this episode because wow wow, 😂😂😂😂😂we need another maseko's and kolobe's on our screen. Welldone Lungile🎉🎉, you are the best .
🤣 usile
The family situation is not good but also this is the undeniable power of grooming.
Grooming is rife in SA kubi
I'm just here for Lungelo's Gucci socks 😊
wow i wonder what the name of this church is....and no offence.... but (gay pastor at an Anglican independent church with two very young husbands and a denomination of 40 people that don't mind) is giving cult vibes
Brother husband not sister wife.
This is disturbing, may I never ever ever see this kind of interview on our Kenyan media! 😢
Uko kenya gani wewe? N.a. venye mashoga tumejaa
@@user-qs3lq9xc3i Ile uko, they don't come flaunting their stuff on our faces
You aint serious , you mean you don't know Magambo and don't see what he does🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't know how this interview ended up on my timeline but I'm happy it did. The interviewer was amazing, and the guess was amazing. I look forward to the next interview.
We are releasing Part 2 today with the husband himself :)
Same here.😎
Nkosi siyakudinga manje, more than ever 😢
Kwanzima ngasemhlabeni...wow!
God mercy. May the spirit of God guide you out of this marriage
That is not a marriage, marriage is from the true and living God. This is highly demonic.
This is not a marriage. The original creator of marriage is from God and he is HOLY, This is highly demonic
Hold on ... a 12 year old is in High School and is renting a room because he WANTED to move out? This while he was dating a 32 year old? Anyway ...
Dr Matthew vibes
My thoughts exactly but anyways
@@ojewakengit is,
Eush, is not making sure ....something is wrong here
Yep it’s possible to be 12 and at high school. I was 11 turning 12 in grade 8. My 7 year old daughter was 4 in grade R when her peers were 6 and 7. She’ll also be 11 in grade 8.
Confusion at its best
Don't usually like to comment bt. You are a very good interviewer.. You asked all the right questions.. ❤
Host 🎉🎉come and get your flowers you know how to as the right questions
He's a very handsome young man I loved the way he speaks I pray that he happy 😂😂❤❤❤
I like your hosting skills❤👌
Which one is sister wife now 😮. Our Lord Jesus Christ must just come ,we've had enough already
not a single one is going to hold this guy accountable for condoning grooming and child abuse. he's literally interviewing a victim like it is just normal. 12 years, 14 years, haibo! that pastor is a predator and the host is absolutely ok with it. what I have learned my brother is that you may be ok and keep silent about your neighbour's mishaps and call it tolerance, because 'it is just not your business', well until It comes knocking at your doorstep, oh and that time will come, everyone eats a slices of their values.
100% older guy is totally wrong, who goes after a 12 year old? It's just pathetic. A wide age gap is not a problem if both guys meet at a mature age
Im gay who is in a relationship with a white guy whi older than me , so what i wanna know is why is he calling himself a wife even though he is a guy , im not trying to be funny i just wanna understand
Perhaps he's the feminine one in the relationship hence he calls himself the wife.
Because he is a liar, the word "wife" was uttered in his ears everytime he was molested/raped (statutory). Similar to men who come back from ukuthwasa, they are referred to as "Gogo". That must make one deeply wonder.
And why see color/race in a person you love?
@@teem7303still wrong thou, whether fem or masculine he's not a wife. Wife is a female.