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    ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 100 - MUSA
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 167

  • @EngineerYLShow
    @EngineerYLShow  2 місяці тому +46

    Musa shared a part of his life that no person on earth deserves to go through. So many trials and tribulations but I hope this episode empowers someone who is affected by this situation and helps them find healing and restore their inner power.

    • @VanessaFK
      @VanessaFK 2 місяці тому +2

      Please don’t talk over your guests and let them tell their stories.. you are rushing him and sound impatient
      Thank you❤

    • @likhayanabom
      @likhayanabom Місяць тому +1

      ​@@VanessaFK also wanted to say the same thing, but this guy is also draaaaaaging it. I guess it's he's way of talking...aknani

  • @JessGbelia
    @JessGbelia 2 місяці тому +82

    Who else is from TikTok?

  • @mbt9820mpp
    @mbt9820mpp 2 місяці тому +98

    STOP FINISHING HIS SENTENCES and you get it wrong. Let him tell his own story.

    • @onalennamogale6524
      @onalennamogale6524 Місяць тому +8

      I also kinda feel like he was taking time to get to the point. I understand where the host was coming from.

  • @badxbrains7950
    @badxbrains7950 2 місяці тому +41

    Why is the host so impatient. What is the rush 😢

  • @user-sm6ll9jo8k
    @user-sm6ll9jo8k 2 місяці тому +96

    Eish I'm from tik tok let me watch this episode 😢

  • @charleen6491
    @charleen6491 2 місяці тому +31

    He is such a handsome man with a beautiful soul,may the lord continue strengthening him.

    • @BOP_Favent
      @BOP_Favent 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you mbhemu

  • @carlascott3420
    @carlascott3420 2 місяці тому +19

    Pray over your children people, pray for them, pray with them…. Demons are real and they’re working overtime, how do you go from being selected for a scholarship, to hearing a voice telling you to run away, we are at war with the devil for real!!!

  • @obedmphela6804
    @obedmphela6804 2 місяці тому +41

    Yohhhh the interviewer is a bit impatient.🤦

  • @feed9337
    @feed9337 Місяць тому +5

    May God console this innocent, kind, gentle and beautiful soul who shared his painful story! May he heal and be blessed with health, wealth, happiness, and long life amen❤🙏🏾♥️

  • @florzyogada4442
    @florzyogada4442 2 місяці тому +8

    Straight from tiktok 😢. My heart is broken 💔, mom to a boy here 😢

  • @raquelxi
    @raquelxi 2 місяці тому +20

    You look like such a kind man. What happened to you was unbelievably evil. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Sending you hugs 🫂 😭

  • @shazzymats7952
    @shazzymats7952 2 місяці тому +20

    The interviewer has a lot of work to do in terms of how to conduct interviews. A lot of interruptions and assumptions like calm down and let the man tell his story

    • @guyzulu1774
      @guyzulu1774 2 місяці тому +2

      This is so true. The interviewer acts like the guest is on a therapy session.

  • @lulufierce01
    @lulufierce01 13 днів тому +2

    This guy is so soft spoken, with a huge smile . Im so sorry mntase.❤

  • @Monique72574
    @Monique72574 2 місяці тому +22

    This is my life exactly, I wish I would get a forum to pour out what I've been harbouring for a lifetime ❤

  • @ofentseradikonyane7728
    @ofentseradikonyane7728 2 місяці тому +13

    Such a sweet, soft spoken human being bathong. I pray for healing for you, dear brother. Well wishes❤

  • @MoliehiMkhawana
    @MoliehiMkhawana 2 місяці тому +14

    Yoh!!you went through a lot man and by telling your story means that you have healed from the trauma !! thanks for sharing your story stay blessed

  • @bongemthembu4061
    @bongemthembu4061 Місяць тому +2

    So heart breaking. "Decent" old men preying on helpless homeless kids. This is so evil. 😢

  • @UKAZambia
    @UKAZambia 2 місяці тому +14

    Infatuation is bad and getting used to toxicity is bad because he went back twice in the name of hearing an apology but ended up doing it again this happens a lot with people who desperately want validation and attention and care and acknowledgement of the wrongs done to them these are the people who leave room for second chances and most of them go back to toxic partners and it’s sad we don’t address these issues in mental health not everyone deserves a second chance weigh the circumstances

  • @bububinca
    @bububinca 2 місяці тому +9

    This is so sad! Sending him love and light! 🙏❤️

    • @BOP_Favent
      @BOP_Favent 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you mbhemu

  • @user-hv7vw1en9h
    @user-hv7vw1en9h 2 місяці тому +14

    No one is talking about how cute he is neh 😮

    • @BOP_Favent
      @BOP_Favent 2 місяці тому

      Mbhemu though 🙈🙈🙈🙈

    • @gontsemogotsi5736
      @gontsemogotsi5736 Місяць тому +1

      was about to say the same hey..😶

    • @BOP_Favent
      @BOP_Favent Місяць тому

      @@gontsemogotsi5736 😂😂😂😂 thank you mbhemu

  • @nthabisengsithole3309
    @nthabisengsithole3309 2 місяці тому +4

    Oh musa❤ I commend you for sharing your story I pray God heals your heart and restores all that was lost and bless you abundantly
    Such a beautiful person , I’m sorry that happened to you 😢

  • @teyisenkosekhaya
    @teyisenkosekhaya 4 дні тому

    pfeeeew!!!!!!!! Man!! God is wonderful. For him to even sit there and tell his story, is a testimony that trusting in God, having a relationship with God heals us.

  • @lovettastephens
    @lovettastephens 2 місяці тому +3

    Sending love and lights to this beautiful soul❤

  • @veronicalizekamemani8673
    @veronicalizekamemani8673 2 місяці тому +3

    Another heartbreaking story. May you heal and gained the strength to push harder in life. I have been hearing very horrible on some men are so horrible and evil yazi. It just turns my stomach and gives me nausea.
    I am thinking of a story of a young boy who had a dream of being a soccer player and was decieved and lured by these evil men who disguised as football club owners. Are sies maarn.
    These people I pray that they are found and be thrown in jail.

  • @badxbrains7950
    @badxbrains7950 2 місяці тому +9

    Please try not to speak over your guests. 😢😢

  • @vickyblack_0289
    @vickyblack_0289 2 місяці тому +22

    Can the host please stop interfering yooooh nkosi yam

  • @sinoxolodelanto362
    @sinoxolodelanto362 2 місяці тому +3

    Ooh I'm so sorry for what you went through mntase ❤️

  • @_Dalinkosi
    @_Dalinkosi 2 місяці тому +3

    Just subscribed now, thanks to this episode ❤️

    • @BOP_Favent
      @BOP_Favent 2 місяці тому

      Thank you and welcome to the family

  • @lindaniwelcome1071
    @lindaniwelcome1071 2 місяці тому +2

    Omg .. This is so sad , sending love and light❤❤🙏

  • @frankmercedess1130
    @frankmercedess1130 2 місяці тому

    This is so sad, sending love and light ❤

  • @Mbalings
    @Mbalings 2 місяці тому

    Sending all the hugs to this handsome man ❤

  • @user-mf4vf7tz4z
    @user-mf4vf7tz4z 2 місяці тому +4

    A very humble handsome man ❤❤❤may you be healed 🙏

  • @gcobisamntubu3122
    @gcobisamntubu3122 Місяць тому +1

    Oh my God i feel very sorry for him, hes been through a lot 😭😭
    Sending love and hugs for him❤❤❤
    Im not being judgemental but i feel like his mother failed him totally, she should took him to his home for just introduction because he didn't feel like staying with them, he had that feeling of not wanting to stay in a home that is not his

  • @user-el6yd9hl6i
    @user-el6yd9hl6i 5 днів тому +1

    😢😢😢god will lift u up brother. 🙏

  • @olgaogada7868
    @olgaogada7868 2 місяці тому +3

    Eish, friends are wicked out here, God 😢may they get their punishment here on earth and in heaven,
    He's cute ❤see his smile 😊

  • @Mamsicle
    @Mamsicle Місяць тому

    Very good, keep it up, and don’t be put down by interjection comments. You do very well interpreting what your guest is unable to say. Especially this guest he is just coming into his own so he leaves a lot of healing points out, your interjection actually assists us to understand because you speak so week Engineering 🥰🥰🥰

  • @MbaliMoreConsultant-zx5sj
    @MbaliMoreConsultant-zx5sj 2 місяці тому +4

    Man... the interviewer missed a chance to be sympathetic and really engaging

    • @omaimaqani
      @omaimaqani Місяць тому

      Even the last part I don’t think miss was willing to share but this guy just brought it up 😢

  • @pulemolefe6104
    @pulemolefe6104 2 місяці тому

    These people that came out of OF in 2020 had so much potential (from the stories they tell), but they've gone through so much trauma

  • @simsonmurangi6308
    @simsonmurangi6308 2 місяці тому +1

    Jesus 😢 I wish him a full mental recovery this wasn't an easy journey seriously... Eish hebana people go through things 😢 🙏 💔

  • @Tandiya11
    @Tandiya11 2 місяці тому +2

    I’m from tik tok. Sad story 😢

  • @chiefdropout
    @chiefdropout 2 місяці тому +5

    I am not from TikTok

  • @healthandmoreTV
    @healthandmoreTV 2 місяці тому +1

    I felt for you bro all that you went through is not a reality of brotherhood I wish you could have someone to protect you 😢sending you hugs 🤗 bro

  • @mbaliprimrose1453
    @mbaliprimrose1453 2 місяці тому

    So sad, may God heal you

  • @mbalimabaso9485
    @mbalimabaso9485 2 місяці тому

    Mmm nkosi yam😢😢😢,May God heal you

  • @sithabelamandlawenkosiwodu6298
    @sithabelamandlawenkosiwodu6298 2 місяці тому +2

    Is this not a repeat episode?

  • @mphofatima4626
    @mphofatima4626 2 місяці тому +7

    Oooh Handsome lovely sweet Musa how I wish I was close to you so I may give you a big kiss and huge hug, May the glorious merciful Lord the only Master of the Universe give you a permanent healing in Jesus name what a painful story 🥲

  • @sbongilebridget7588
    @sbongilebridget7588 Місяць тому

    I’m also from TikTok this is so sad😭

  • @Nikilita
    @Nikilita 2 місяці тому

    Love and light ✨️ ❤ 1:04

  • @nikuwemashinini9012
    @nikuwemashinini9012 Місяць тому

    May God heal you He is faithful

  • @UnathiNtuli-et9ob
    @UnathiNtuli-et9ob 2 місяці тому +1

    Yoh😢

  • @lusandagiyo1538
    @lusandagiyo1538 Місяць тому

    I'm from tik tok yhuuuu oko ndikhuzaaa bethuna

  • @user-jh1en3em1s
    @user-jh1en3em1s 2 місяці тому +1

    😢😢😢oh my

  • @AsantewaaDoris-ws2ce
    @AsantewaaDoris-ws2ce 2 місяці тому +1

    So sad😢

  • @khanyisileshabalala1170
    @khanyisileshabalala1170 Місяць тому

    Hayi Lungelo awumbuzanga umbuzo 🤧
    What is that one thing that you know for sure?

  • @Tumisang955
    @Tumisang955 26 днів тому

    from tiktok 😢 I'm pained😭💔

  • @Asileshy
    @Asileshy 2 місяці тому +1

    😢😢😢

  • @user-sd9ig5wx8s
    @user-sd9ig5wx8s 2 місяці тому

    So sad

  • @sharonncube1794
    @sharonncube1794 2 місяці тому

    This is sad life can be cruel 😭😭😭

  • @user-ud3ns6fp3q
    @user-ud3ns6fp3q 2 місяці тому

    😢he is really handsome

  • @estherdladla3082
    @estherdladla3082 2 місяці тому +1

    😢😢

  • @NoziphoBeulah_
    @NoziphoBeulah_ 4 дні тому

    Lungelo please let guests express themselves without speaking over them

  • @moyraratshabane9739
    @moyraratshabane9739 2 місяці тому +3

    some people are heartless 💔

  • @Cocoe.Amaru.Elite.001
    @Cocoe.Amaru.Elite.001 2 місяці тому +2

    “His dealing with this trauma (with logic) not emotions.

    • @BOP_Favent
      @BOP_Favent 2 місяці тому

      That’s very true, I realised it few days ago.

  • @nomynoms1969
    @nomynoms1969 2 місяці тому +1

    People wanting the interviewer to stop saying a word… Haibo, he was trying to interview & also connect the dots of the story… how,why when… e.g I wanted to know what were the parents saying& why he didn’t want to go to UK & things like that….Yhoo hai guys! I wonder why he was leaving his home🥹🥲… such a sad story yhuu💔.

    • @VhoTurnDoor
      @VhoTurnDoor 2 місяці тому

      I think he was sort of indicating that he was being bewitched because someone could see that he was clever and could easily be chosen for the opportunity to go to the UK. It happens a lot in the villages: jealousy that leads to someone causing unexplainable destruction in your life so that you don't succeed.

  • @OlwethuMakaptain
    @OlwethuMakaptain Місяць тому

    So sad 😢😢

  • @user-gs2bu8pf6f
    @user-gs2bu8pf6f 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-dv7zs1fn2h
    @user-dv7zs1fn2h 2 місяці тому

    😢

  • @valdinetchamake705
    @valdinetchamake705 Місяць тому

    I feel so bad 😢😢💔💔

  • @evangelistdenisestephenson113
    @evangelistdenisestephenson113 7 днів тому

    I pray 🙏 heal finds healing mentally and emotionally and finds peace...

  • @ropafadzomatongo6113
    @ropafadzomatongo6113 22 дні тому

    Yoooh i have been thru almost the same ...i was ganged raped by 4 men at the age of 17 on my way home from xool.
    Had to drop from xool coz of the bullying. I am a mom now and being a mom is the only reason i am here today

  • @kaywendy78
    @kaywendy78 26 днів тому

    I wonder what his family said each time he came back, did they talk to him or anything

  • @thandomofokeng2943
    @thandomofokeng2943 2 місяці тому +2

    Lungelo like please let your guests tell their story without interruptions it comes across as if u want to hear what u want to hear and finish... Please my guy your interruptions are boring man

  • @dorcastasha6769
    @dorcastasha6769 Місяць тому +1

    He’s laughing trying to hide his trauma😢

  • @rudadomaringe8330
    @rudadomaringe8330 2 місяці тому

    😢😢😢😢Nkosiyami

  • @teyisenkosekhaya
    @teyisenkosekhaya 4 дні тому

    😭😭😭💔💔💔💔 16:20 I started crying

  • @gordenmg4966
    @gordenmg4966 Місяць тому

    This guy has gone through serious tromer he need serious therapy.

  • @busisiwentanda6798
    @busisiwentanda6798 16 днів тому

    No no not happy with the host, he's so impatient, what's the point of this interview 😢😢😢

  • @lacronz6248
    @lacronz6248 2 місяці тому

    🫂🫂🫂😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @thee_libra_stallion
    @thee_libra_stallion 2 місяці тому +5

    omg, i know this guy he works at the dining Hall in my uni

    • @zabantumchunu6232
      @zabantumchunu6232 2 місяці тому

      Is it a uni in Gauteng?

    • @BOP_Favent
      @BOP_Favent 2 місяці тому +2

      So much details though mbhemu

    • @Bee-dp3st
      @Bee-dp3st 2 місяці тому +1

      Aih wena! Manners please

    • @thee_libra_stallion
      @thee_libra_stallion Місяць тому

      @@BOP_Favent so what, it's not a secret and we love him here and so does he, and he doesn't mind,ftsek

    • @thee_libra_stallion
      @thee_libra_stallion Місяць тому

      @@zabantumchunu6232 yea

  • @brendanaliaka1651
    @brendanaliaka1651 2 місяці тому

    They should be in jail

  • @lightnessmndeme9874
    @lightnessmndeme9874 2 місяці тому +2

    All started with the devil’s voice

    • @mirandamasego4826
      @mirandamasego4826 2 місяці тому

      That's what I thought when he said he felt/believed he is unwanted

    • @lightnessmndeme9874
      @lightnessmndeme9874 2 місяці тому +1

      That’s why you have to rebuke the voice with the word of God you don’t have the word he will drive as he pleases one must resist. This guy seemed like he can’t say no to anything even when he had a choice to do so. I am not judging but throughout the conversation he has to let them in

  • @mathelesenyeho7811
    @mathelesenyeho7811 Місяць тому

    I watched and stopped like three times, and the constant interjections from the host got to me. The interviewee is slow paced and it felt like the host is impatient.

  • @tshepisolekgoro2561
    @tshepisolekgoro2561 Місяць тому

  • @NatashaMmope
    @NatashaMmope 2 місяці тому +7

    why are men a problem though 🤔

    • @konkebukosini770
      @konkebukosini770 2 місяці тому

      what do you mean?

    • @lokishvibes202
      @lokishvibes202 2 місяці тому

      @@konkebukosini770 as if there's no problem women.

    • @dot510
      @dot510 2 місяці тому

      @@konkebukosini770 Violence

    • @dot510
      @dot510 2 місяці тому

      @@lokishvibes202 Statistically men are more violent.

    • @Bee-dp3st
      @Bee-dp3st 2 місяці тому

      @@lokishvibes202Men are so dangerous and unpredictable. As men, please hold each other accountable

  • @shilongane.designs
    @shilongane.designs 25 днів тому

    The interviewer is bad.

  • @joselynekategaya6295
    @joselynekategaya6295 2 місяці тому

    You guys says the interviewer is impatient, what do u want him to do?
    These are professionals, u just don't know

  • @pettycashentertainment1380
    @pettycashentertainment1380 2 місяці тому +1

    Khona into e off

    • @The-truth-about-the-truth
      @The-truth-about-the-truth 2 місяці тому

      What do you mean

    • @BOP_Favent
      @BOP_Favent 2 місяці тому +1

      Nami ngiyayibona

    • @pettycashentertainment1380
      @pettycashentertainment1380 2 місяці тому

      They will say I am a R*PE apologist and or NEGATIVE.. so I'd rather not say anything

    • @AkhonaKweyama-xr2hw
      @AkhonaKweyama-xr2hw 2 місяці тому +4

      @@pettycashentertainment1380 personally before he got rape i think ubehlushwa izinto zakubo um not judging the mom but if maybe ingane bayenzela imbeleko yayingeke ilobe ifuna ukuyohlala emgaqweni because he didn't feel like he belong kubo so he eventually got disturbed and everything else followed yhoo istory sakhe sib'hlungu

    • @lebogang7600
      @lebogang7600 2 місяці тому +1

      I kinda know what you mean but let me tool

  • @omaimaqani
    @omaimaqani Місяць тому +1

    My heart bleeds for him. I hope he recovers from it. 🫂🤍

  • @atikumartha7556
    @atikumartha7556 2 місяці тому

    😢😢

  • @AnezwaDyonase
    @AnezwaDyonase 2 місяці тому

    😢

  • @user-bs1kk3ds4x
    @user-bs1kk3ds4x Місяць тому

    😢😢