"Gettin' Bi" (feat. Pete Gardner) - "Crazy Ex-Girlfriend"

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  • Опубліковано 7 бер 2016
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    Starring Pete Gardner
    Written by Adam Schlesinger
    "Gettin' Bi"
    Darryl:
    I don't know. I don't know why.
    But I like ladies. And I like guys.
    I realize, it's a surprise! But
    Now I see that that's just me.
    It's not like I even try --
    So if you ask me how I'm doing,
    Here's is my reply:
    I'm g-g-gettin' bi. Getting bi.
    Oh yeah, I'm letting my bi flag
    Fly. Not gonna hide it. Not
    Gonna lie.
    I'm a bi kinda guy. There's no
    Reason to be shy. My oh my.
    It's a fact I can't deny. I'm bi
    Bi bi, until the day I die. Now
    Some might say: aw you're
    Just gay. Why don't you just
    Go gay all the way? But that's
    Not it. Cause bi's legit.
    Whether you're a he or a she
    We might be a perfect fit. And
    One more thing. I'll tell you what.
    Being bi doesn't imply that you're
    A "playa" or a "slut." Sure, I like sex!
    Jim:
    Okay, Darryl please...
    Darryl:
    But I'm no "ho." I take things
    Slow. Until I feel at ease!
    Paula:
    Please make him stop!
    Darryl:
    So if you ask me how I'm
    Doin', I'm feeling peppy,
    Sprightly, spry.
    I'm g-g-gettin' bi. Getting bi.
    And it's something I'd like to
    Demystify. It's not a phase.
    I'm not confused. Not indecisive.
    Don't have the gotta choose
    Blues! I don't care if you wear
    High heels or a tie. You might
    Just catch my eye. Because I'm
    Definitely Bi! BIG MAN!
    I'm gettin' bi! I'm gettin' bi!
    I'm gettin' bi! I'm gettin' bi!
    I'm gettin' bi! I'm gettin' bi!
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  • @miadelaguila2611
    @miadelaguila2611 8 років тому +12360

    I never thought I'd need a video of a middle aged man singing about his bisexuality and yet I couldn't have asked for anything better.

    • @lastlife0726
      @lastlife0726 5 років тому +135

      besides freddie mercury

    • @charlottedeacon6031
      @charlottedeacon6031 5 років тому +32

      lastlife0726 I thought Freddie Mercury was gay?

    • @LudwigMahler
      @LudwigMahler 5 років тому +157

      @@charlottedeacon6031 Complicated: Mercury was gay, but the love of his life was a woman, Mary Austin. Perhaps he was gay but biromantic.

    • @charlottedeacon6031
      @charlottedeacon6031 5 років тому +40

      LudwigMahler Possibly, but it could of been more of a friendship love. Like they were soulmates. X

    • @bookl0ver
      @bookl0ver 4 роки тому +166

      @@charlottedeacon6031 He was bi, he identified as such. The woman that he was with described him as gay, and assumed he was gay and told people he was. Mercury himself identified as bisexual.

  • @darkjaden-fe
    @darkjaden-fe 4 роки тому +3201

    People: Rosa from Brooklyn99 coming out as bi was too unrealistic because she says it too much
    Actual bi people:

    • @dandaropa
      @dandaropa 4 роки тому +283

      Yeah i talk about it A LOT, especially after anyone says “yeah we get it, do you have to talk about it all the time”

    • @entertain7us148
      @entertain7us148 3 роки тому +66

      did people actually say that??

    • @Ougerosity598
      @Ougerosity598 3 роки тому +126

      @@entertain7us148 Yeah, people are pricks, and not the fun kind! 😂

    • @elliot1165
      @elliot1165 3 роки тому +162

      yeah tbh rosa even talks about it less often than i actually do (which is very characteristic of her, she's rosa after all) bc damn i talk abt how bi i am all the damn time. like just seeing a cute couple on twt, i immediately say oh damn im so bi

    • @Josie-th3id
      @Josie-th3id 3 роки тому +15

      Can confirm we do that

  • @michaelkopischke8072
    @michaelkopischke8072 7 років тому +8530

    This song would be perfect as the official bisexual anthem. I'm not even joking. It denounces all of the stereotypes that bisexual people face, including them just being gay, that they need to choose a side, that they're choosing this, that they're promiscuous, that they're just confused, or that this is just a phase. It also overwhelmingly portrays bisexuality as positive and OK instead of as a joke or something "hot", like it's often portrayed in movies and TV shows. Finally, it's nice that they finally have an openly bisexual male character, who are greatly underrepresented in portrayals of bisexual people.

    • @sydbloom03
      @sydbloom03 7 років тому +306

      I agree with this as a bisexual girl. I'm actually planning on using this song to come out to my parents. :D

    • @Miranda-dk1sq
      @Miranda-dk1sq 7 років тому +159

      Michael Kopischke I've been openly bi for a year and watch this show with my parents. I was so thrilled with how much diversity this show has (race and sexuality).

    • @TigerPrawn_
      @TigerPrawn_ 7 років тому +44

      CatNabber Plays I used this song to come out on Facebook haha :)

    • @YeowooBBCVIP
      @YeowooBBCVIP 7 років тому +83

      it's bisexuality in a nutshell, all summed up in 2mn30. It's genius :D

    • @saramichele2321
      @saramichele2321 7 років тому +6

      Michael Kopischke I

  • @unirytmi5020
    @unirytmi5020 3 роки тому +1474

    reasons why this just is the best bi song:
    -groovy
    -great lighting
    -destroys common bi stereotypes
    -its got a pun in it
    -saxophone

    • @soyPLEA
      @soyPLEA 3 роки тому +9

      Yesssssss 😭 ❤️💕

    • @sisisi16
      @sisisi16 2 роки тому +27

      The saxophone solo was everythingggg and the punnnn omgg for some reason I just love puns in songs and this was just perfect (and hella relatable)

    • @lucie8827
      @lucie8827 2 роки тому +4

      Yes.

    • @kathrynjaneway._
      @kathrynjaneway._ 2 роки тому +12

      And it’s got Peter Gardner in it

    • @MaryanaMaskar
      @MaryanaMaskar Рік тому +1

      And that jacket with rolled up sleeves ❤

  • @EllieC130
    @EllieC130 7 років тому +6883

    This is everything about me. I love that they made Daryl bisexual rather than gay. No offence to gay people, I just think the whole "he was secretly gay and his entire marriage was a lie" storyline is a little old.

    • @aceofspades4930
      @aceofspades4930 4 роки тому +1005

      yes! it wasn't that his marriage was a lie . it just didn't work out which happens sometimes.

    • @andrewnovak1390
      @andrewnovak1390 4 роки тому +1166

      Not to mention movies and shows in general are really lacking in male bisexual representation. Most bisexual characters are younger women.

    • @mae8364
      @mae8364 4 роки тому +391

      Andrew Novak YES exactly !! even as a bi girl this bothers me.

    • @rhysgrammling4531
      @rhysgrammling4531 4 роки тому +340

      @@andrewnovak1390 and soo oversexualized it's absurd.

    • @fabuloushatlady7812
      @fabuloushatlady7812 4 роки тому +168

      Rhys Grammling, Yep! Just because I like both, doesn’t mean I want both simultaneously, or even to many parters total. I like to form long connections with people, not just hop in bed with everyone.
      Also I love how they gave our male counterparts representation! Like I love all the attention but c’mon, they need some love as well.

  • @Melissa-tw2gp
    @Melissa-tw2gp 4 роки тому +9179

    I don’t think Crazy Ex Girlfriend realized how desperately bisexuals needed this song lol.

    • @alyssaburton8456
      @alyssaburton8456 4 роки тому +208

      We really did lol

    • @claireaurore9970
      @claireaurore9970 4 роки тому +182

      Actually I think they did :D they're good.

    • @Mexxi-ti9xy
      @Mexxi-ti9xy 4 роки тому +70

      So true ❤️💜💙

    • @CashCatMoney
      @CashCatMoney 4 роки тому +239

      Everytime a bisexual I know comes out, I send them this song.

    • @theam4546
      @theam4546 4 роки тому +315

      Especially bi men. They're SO underrepresented in pop culture and media. This is such an amazing song. Not just for the lyrics but also because it's catchy as hell.

  • @kkilco
    @kkilco 8 років тому +1522

    honestly is this like the most bi-positive depiction that's ever been on television or what????

    • @toadallyanonymous4625
      @toadallyanonymous4625 5 років тому +11

      coffeeeyes yep

    • @carolinelutz397
      @carolinelutz397 4 роки тому +56

      Producer : how much bi-positive representation do you want?
      Writers : yes.

    • @twoinacarcrash
      @twoinacarcrash 3 роки тому +14

      only other candidate would be Eleanor from the Good Place.

    • @WordyGirl90
      @WordyGirl90 2 роки тому +9

      @@twoinacarcrash I love Eleanor but she never says the words "I'm bisexual." In fact I'm annoyed she didn't say something to that effect like "hey, I'm into chicks as well, bro." Which would have been very in-character.

  • @glamourweaver
    @glamourweaver 4 роки тому +2620

    RIP Adam Schlesinger, the bi community will always owe you for this

  • @michaelhohe2168
    @michaelhohe2168 5 років тому +2226

    there was a comment somewhere about how bisexuals just radiate chaotic energy and this is the purest form of it holy shit lmao

    • @fabuloushatlady7812
      @fabuloushatlady7812 4 роки тому +30

      I agree with this statement.

    • @wren7888
      @wren7888 3 роки тому +21

      That's true, I'd totally sing this to anyone

    • @Ezzy1331_
      @Ezzy1331_ 3 роки тому +8

      Yes we are

    • @madnecessity
      @madnecessity 3 роки тому +9

      I am the chaotic bi friend

    • @kittypeanut4102
      @kittypeanut4102 2 роки тому +4

      So just because i like girls and guys that means i'm a chaotic person...?

  • @sultanaqureshi3226
    @sultanaqureshi3226 8 років тому +4751

    As funny as this song is, it honest to god made me cry when I first listened to it. To have a bi person on TV who is not ashamed of their sexuality literally celebrate it in song made me so happy to see. Thank you so much.

    • @maryshippee3673
      @maryshippee3673 8 років тому +140

      that is also how I feel about this song. I'm not bisexual, but the very vocal sigh of appreciation from the bi community towards this song and daryls overall representation as a bi person that is actually close to how actual bi people feel makes me extremely happy this song/daryl whitefeather/this tv show exist

    • @jennifercramer2156
      @jennifercramer2156 8 років тому +31

      +Mary Shippee I am bisexual and not nearly as good at dancing as he is. I'm probably just an outlier.

    • @thewinchester7955
      @thewinchester7955 7 років тому +4

      Sultana Qureshi WHAT IS THIS SHOW! TELL ME NOW! please?

    • @thewinchester7955
      @thewinchester7955 7 років тому +6

      Wait a minute just saw the ending!

    • @83croissant
      @83croissant 7 років тому +54

      Sultana Qureshi yep, Aline Brosh Mckenna did her due diligence and researched and checked with GLAAD about what's lacking in portrayals of bisexuals in media. It's kinda sad that the bare minimum of consideration is refreshing and new , but hey

  • @stormcloudsabound
    @stormcloudsabound 4 роки тому +1687

    i love how the joke running through this isn’t that he’s a Bisexual-scandalous!-but that he burst into song in the middle of a meeting. that’s such a relief to see! lots of queer rep in TV is either a punchline or derided so to have this show present it like this is so nice.

    • @hayley8806
      @hayley8806 4 роки тому +76

      Yeah and when they try to do it serious the queer character's coming out is just deus ex machina so the straight characters can explore their feelings and come to the epiphany that because their friend is the person who's queer, they themselves are nobly not going to be homophobes, even though they aren't comfortable with it.

    • @mslightbulb
      @mslightbulb 3 роки тому +112

      I love how they are just like “please, we are at a meeting sir, this is not the time for a musical”.

    • @idontneedaname318
      @idontneedaname318 3 роки тому +74

      and also the fact that he called a whole ass office meeting just to tell his employees he's bi when none of them care xd

    • @evanlinden4410
      @evanlinden4410 3 роки тому +44

      I’m also bi and a theatre kid. Bursting into a song during a meeting is bi representation

    • @rfrolicarts
      @rfrolicarts 2 роки тому +34

      @Question the Satirist Darrell is the king of TMI on this show, he has another song that's "My Sperm Is Healthy" so the coworkers are acting annoyed because he overshares constantly and doesn't have boundaries

  • @pordondeandatomi
    @pordondeandatomi 5 років тому +1961

    The only thing that I love more than the fact that he called a meeting to announce he's bisexual is the fact that nobody gave a shit about it. They were all so OK with it, and that's how it should be. Nobody was horrified, nobody doubted him. They were all fine and wanted to go on with their lives, haha

    • @kristyna.kocianova
      @kristyna.kocianova 4 роки тому +261

      And after he came out, everyone acted exactly like before and nobody was awkward around him. I love that.

    • @laurenbruges8784
      @laurenbruges8784 4 роки тому +342

      Well they were a bit horrified their boss was talking to them about sex and his personal life 😂

    • @dragongirl7978
      @dragongirl7978 4 роки тому +176

      @@laurenbruges8784 Right? Lol I'd be like uh huh, okay, happy you're happy, can we go back to work now please? 😅

    • @darrylwhitefeather207
      @darrylwhitefeather207 4 роки тому +17

      Oh, I didn't even notice that!

    • @sennacookie5043
      @sennacookie5043 3 роки тому +71

      Jim asked if he was sure he wasn’t just gay after, but Jim’s bigotry was the joke there instead of Darryl’s sexuality and after that I’m pretty sure Jim’s cool with it too

  • @AnnikaVictoria24
    @AnnikaVictoria24 4 роки тому +2875

    Hands up if you're bi and listen to this nearly everyday, because it's more than a song in a show, it's become your anthem for everytime you're questioning your validity to exist or just wanna boogie 👋

    • @slicedbeans8639
      @slicedbeans8639 3 роки тому +11

      🙋‍♀️

    • @humanperson42
      @humanperson42 3 роки тому +8

      ✋✋✋✋

    • @emremokoko
      @emremokoko 3 роки тому +24

      I'm straight but i'll give you a thumbs up to appreciate how much this song makes bis happy 😀

    • @definitelynotcharlie4001
      @definitelynotcharlie4001 3 роки тому +9

      Omg I have never heard anything more relatable to me in my life thank you

    • @noora_aurora
      @noora_aurora 3 роки тому +10

      Im pan but i still know this out of memory so i kinda did my own version lol

  • @alexander_avila
    @alexander_avila 7 років тому +3304

    same

    • @liviaaffonso1198
      @liviaaffonso1198 7 років тому +115

      AreTheyGay Make are they bi videos haha

    • @leeburger5461
      @leeburger5461 7 років тому +14

      you're the best!

    • @Tozzie50
      @Tozzie50 6 років тому +16

      Why DID I LIKE THIS COMMENT BUT DIDNT REPLY
      I'm a huge fan if it's not obvious yet.

    • @Caraphatash
      @Caraphatash 6 років тому +49

      the real bicon is here

    • @vickigreene9220
      @vickigreene9220 6 років тому +3

      How the FUCK did u say same and get 311 likes bruh the most ive got is 30 something

  • @Cavatica
    @Cavatica 7 років тому +2898

    How am I just now realizing that the lady musicians' shirts are red and the dudes' shirts are blue and Darryl's is purple because BOTH COLORS
    THIS SHOW

  • @KazWinchester
    @KazWinchester 8 років тому +1906

    after dealing with biphobia I come here to feel better

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 5 років тому +39

      Hope you're doing alright.

    • @colinstapleton7795
      @colinstapleton7795 5 років тому +32

      I hope so too. It can be really hard.

    • @carolinelutz397
      @carolinelutz397 4 роки тому +14

      Alright time to go punch the people annoying my bi friends

    • @carolinelutz397
      @carolinelutz397 4 роки тому +7

      @no, my name is tyler the more, the merrier

    • @fabuloushatlady7812
      @fabuloushatlady7812 4 роки тому +2

      Caroline Lutz, wooh I want to help!

  • @MezephelesArt
    @MezephelesArt 8 років тому +3949

    I'm questioning my sexuality, but if I turn out bi, I'm coming out using this.

  • @unicorntomboy9736
    @unicorntomboy9736 4 роки тому +1067

    This song made me smile, I loved it.
    I love how this show uses a middle aged man with a mustache to represent us, instead of a Femme- Fatle type attractive woman in her 20s like a lot of other shows and movies would, and I love it for that reason.

    • @user-dd4jo9zd9d
      @user-dd4jo9zd9d 4 роки тому +194

      Let's be honest, middle aged man badly dancing and making bad puns is probably a more accurate representation of the community than a femme fatal type character.

    • @thehappyhippo-_-
      @thehappyhippo-_- 4 роки тому +47

      @@user-dd4jo9zd9d as an 18 yo bi female... Yes

    • @gemavaliente7675
      @gemavaliente7675 3 роки тому +17

      @@thehappyhippo-_- yeah, this man speaks for me :)

    • @elliot1165
      @elliot1165 3 роки тому +46

      and i love how when it was revealed that valencia (the closest to your description of a Femme-Fatle type attractive woman in her 20s) was also bi, she wasn't made to be promiscuous (like most female bisexuals are portrayed), but rather in a strong and healthy relationship with a woman
      edit: there's nothing wrong with being bi and promiscuous but bisexuals are just so stigmatized to be like that

    • @imakebadvideos
      @imakebadvideos 3 роки тому +5

      They also had Valencia tho, who is definitely a femme fatale attractive woman lol

  • @KyleRayner12
    @KyleRayner12 4 роки тому +306

    Come for the bi-positivity, stay for the dad dancing.

  • @jessicapannell2365
    @jessicapannell2365 8 років тому +3470

    I'm sending this to anyone who asks my sexuality

  • @bongodave13
    @bongodave13 8 років тому +2021

    "It doesn't take an intellectual to get that I'm bisexual!" This show delivers. Funny stuff.
    "Big man!" LOL

    • @alainaatnip7811
      @alainaatnip7811 5 років тому +2

      Bongo Dave yes

    • @-L.S
      @-L.S 4 роки тому +8

      "big man!!" while he points to himself will never fail to make me laugh. Darryl is so extra

    • @colinkohrs5838
      @colinkohrs5838 4 роки тому +2

      L S I could be wrong, but I think he’s saying “big band.” In the commentary track song album, Rachel Bloom and the other songwriters often refer to this kind of instrumentation as “big band.”

    • @-L.S
      @-L.S 4 роки тому +1

      @@colinkohrs5838 the captions say "big man", so you could be right and whoever wrote the caption wrong, but that's what I was referencing!

    • @auntsteve9148
      @auntsteve9148 4 роки тому +6

      @@-L.S he's saying big man to introduce the sax solo. It's a Bruce Springsteen reference

  • @AxelWedstar411
    @AxelWedstar411 7 років тому +2690

    Is this the bisexual national anthem? XD

  • @Superphilipp
    @Superphilipp 5 років тому +248

    "Sure I like sex" - "Please make him stop."
    Paula's look! I love this so much.

  • @nunyabusiness164
    @nunyabusiness164 8 років тому +1200

    honestly the most bi representation ive ever seen on TV!!!

    • @g_way
      @g_way 6 років тому +22

      It made me so happy to see this!! We're not oversexualized in this show and I love it

  • @benw.3848
    @benw.3848 8 років тому +732

    I'm a bi dude and I freaking love this song. I think my favorite thing about this is that it is both a Pride song and also intensely, intensely awkward and cringey in a way where you're laughing at Darryl's social ineptitude rather than his sexuality.
    Like, the song is triumphant and awesome but also Darryl did you REALLY call a business meeting to come out of the closet? These people have work to do.
    Oh, I love love love it.

    • @josephcorridon9314
      @josephcorridon9314 5 років тому +36

      Donna Lynn is so good here.
      "Please make him stop."

    • @unicorntomboy9736
      @unicorntomboy9736 4 роки тому +23

      I love how corny and awkward it is, but is also enjoyable and makes me laugh at the same time.

    • @aceofspades4930
      @aceofspades4930 4 роки тому +16

      i love how everyone is just like " can.we just get back to work now "

    • @Silvercentipede
      @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому +20

      Oh completely! None of his co-workers are bothered he's bisexual, they just don't understand why he's called a meeting for it :')

  • @paulinaenck5797
    @paulinaenck5797 7 років тому +331

    "no, we're just shocked that you called a staff meeting to tell us this" The second hand embarrassment of the coworkers is so real...

  • @EllenJones
    @EllenJones 4 роки тому +436

    RIP Adam Schlesinger, writer of this and so many Crazy-Ex Girlfriend songs. You helped and were loved by so many

  • @kepeklibiskuvi
    @kepeklibiskuvi 7 років тому +624

    How he came to the realization at the gym was hilarious. I wish it was on UA-cam.
    Inner thoughts: I like them both, may be I'm
    People leaving gym class: Byeee.
    And he didn't even know the term. He referred himself as bothsexual.

  • @rfrolicarts
    @rfrolicarts 3 роки тому +187

    To anyone who hasn't seen the show but is wondering about people's reactions in the video - Darryl is their boss and he's constantly delivering TMI to everyone in the office, so they're just weirded out that yet again he called a meeting to talk about his personal life

    • @tjenadonn6158
      @tjenadonn6158 Рік тому +39

      Further context: Darryl's entire aura is just sort of lovable oblivious cringe in general. Some of his other songs include "I Love My Daughter (But Not In a Creepy Way)" and "My Sperm is Healthy." Think "Michael Scott but less casually misogynistic and better at his job" and you'll be on the right track.

    • @arona6692
      @arona6692 Рік тому

      Is there anyone here who is not from the show tho

    • @bendemare5270
      @bendemare5270 Рік тому

      ​@@arona6692me

  • @cupcakesurvivor
    @cupcakesurvivor 8 років тому +1750

    does anyone else feel like the cw's advertising team just DO NOT get this show? I stayed away from this amazing show all season because the ads stripped away all the irony from each scene, making it look like an awful romantic comedy. but then I realized it starred the Rachel Bloom from the hilarious youtube videos and I gave it a chance. I was shocked how amazing it is. the cw would've honestly had a way better ad if they just showed the theme song.

    • @silvertamagachi
      @silvertamagachi 8 років тому +135

      +Jaclyn N-man To be fair, while the execs suck at selling the show, they have come out and said they'll support it despite its crappy reviews because they think it's good. So SOMEONE at the station gets it, but it's not translating super well to the marketing team.

    • @Bluerabbit42
      @Bluerabbit42 8 років тому +83

      +Jaclyn N-man At least CW has a history of giving shows a chance. Supernatural, now in it's like, dozenth season, was not popular at first. It tried to be a straight ahead horror show in season one, but ultimately wound up a rather campy and funny buddy show with lots of weird revelations type biblical allusions.
      Of all networks, they seem to realize that if a show has a good cast that is pleasant to work with and produces quality episodes, they might be worth nurturing even if they don't bring in big numbers at first. They've had a few shows that began as cult favorites and grew into giant fandoms. It gives me much hope for Crazy Ex-Girlfriend.

    • @cupcakesurvivor
      @cupcakesurvivor 8 років тому +32

      +Bluerabbit42 I'm not trying to say the whole network doesn't get it, but definitely the advertising department seem a little confused on how to make the commercials. But I'm surprised with how much the cw lets them get away with.

    • @cupcakesurvivor
      @cupcakesurvivor 8 років тому +86

      Seriously, the CW is great at giving low rated but critically acclaimed shows a chance, and I applaud them for it. My comment was just about how bad the commercials made the show seem, which in my opinion is due to someone in advertising misunderstanding the humor of the show

    • @landonle3308
      @landonle3308 8 років тому +23

      I think they're focusing on jane the virgin more or izombie. this show is only in its freshman season until the second season comes out

  • @unirytmi5020
    @unirytmi5020 4 роки тому +132

    nice to see bi representation that isn't just a 20something woman whos bi because the writers thought it would be hot

  • @olivia_vermast
    @olivia_vermast 4 роки тому +370

    RIP Adam Schlesinger who wrote this song, he died at the age of 52 because of corona.

  • @VeWatchesVideos
    @VeWatchesVideos 3 роки тому +296

    I do always feel sad when some people still claim Darryl was "gaybaiting" because he ended up with a woman in the end. I mean, I loved him and WhiJo too, but we saw them having a full on relationship on screen and afterwards, Darryl was still openly bi and open about WhiJo being his ex. That's not baiting. Plus, a ton of bisexual people are in opposite sex relationships and not just because they're "in hiding". Logistically, in a world where the number of LGBTAQ+ people is estimated to be between 4-14% of the population and part of that group is not interested in you by default (for example, a bisexual man is not of interest to a lesbian), but you go both ways, there's a bigger chance you'll find a lover of the opposite sex just by sheer numbers. I don't think it's wrong to acknowledge that. Would I have liked Darryl and WhiJo to stay together? YES. Were we gaybaited? Absolutely NOT.

    • @robertjackson3552
      @robertjackson3552 3 роки тому +57

      apparently they did not listen to the song "I'm bi, bi, bi until the day I die" maybe needs a new line nonmatter if I'm with lady or a guy i'm still bi, bi, bi until the day I die"

    • @renhey9979
      @renhey9979 2 роки тому +17

      If they didn't stay together then we wouldn't have 'the group mind has decided you're in love'

    • @dddddddddddddddd6368
      @dddddddddddddddd6368 2 роки тому +22

      I was just thinking before finsihing this show, that whenever Bi people in TV almost always end up with the person of the same sex anyway, and I think the fact that thjs happens more often barely enforces the whole liking people of the same AND opposite sex part of being bi.
      Like in Brooklyn Nine Nine, after Rosa comes out as Bi, she always just dated girls and never had a fling with another guy.

    • @Wednesdaywoe1975
      @Wednesdaywoe1975 2 роки тому +22

      I'm going to point out something I didn't learn until my 40s--being bisexual doesn't mean you like men 50% of the time and women the other 50%. It can be 60 /40 or even 80/20.

    • @rosedocherty545
      @rosedocherty545 2 роки тому +23

      I love this comment - the whole point of 'the group mind has decided you're in love' is that people still shipped those characters even though they lived out their romantic arc. WhiJo and Darryl were such a fully explored relationship, and like many on the show they didn't work out. Him also having a positive relationship with a woman in my mind is important to validate his bisexuality - and also they were suuuuper cute together

  • @leaoraissa
    @leaoraissa 7 років тому +327

    I just wonder if they know how meaningful it is to do this, to create this character and this number. I actually want to cry. I feel so "normal" and validated and included. Just the fact that this happened makes me feel so warm inside. I wonder if they had any idea the impact this would have, making many bi folks feel like they finally exist. And it was all presented in such a simple way... oh, man, here I go crying again.

    • @beckhampang191
      @beckhampang191 6 років тому +20

      exactly why representation matters.
      and not just any... a good representation matters.
      like how black children see Black Panther

  • @Carolina57685
    @Carolina57685 4 роки тому +87

    i like how they look annoyed not because he's coming out but because he's their boss and just a whole Dad!

  • @SallyLePage
    @SallyLePage 7 років тому +1245

    Happy #BiVisibilityDay everyone :D

    • @Lillowh
      @Lillowh 7 років тому +4

      Your channel is awesome!

    • @senorPachuChay
      @senorPachuChay 6 років тому +2

      Oh! You were in some of the roosterteeth podcasts!

    • @deprepperonipizza4269
      @deprepperonipizza4269 6 років тому +4

      Dont you mean
      Bisivility?
      (Im sorry im stupid)

    • @RandomDragonEXE
      @RandomDragonEXE Рік тому

      Happy bi visibility day from 2022!

  • @ruby-jessicasmith719
    @ruby-jessicasmith719 4 роки тому +37

    The fact this is a pun is the most bi thing I've ever seen

  • @g_way
    @g_way 6 років тому +210

    The background is the bisexual flag and I love it. It made me so happy to see bisexual people represented properly and not oversexualized

    • @alexba1ley
      @alexba1ley 4 роки тому +2

      The song is amazing and so needed. However, the official bisexual pride flag is actually dark pink, purple, and blue. The flag shown here has the colors of the trans pride flag, which are pastel pink, white, and blue, but they are not in the same order as the trans pride flag. Here is an article breaking down the different pride flags www.courier-journal.com/story/life/2019/06/03/lgbtq-gay-transgender-bisexual-pansexual-pride-flag-colors-meaning/1284689001/

    • @g_way
      @g_way 4 роки тому +24

      Alexandra Bailey nah fam, the way the colors are arranged + the colors themselves make it a bi pride flag. Also the light behind it is making it more pastel

    • @Hazelcloudy
      @Hazelcloudy 3 роки тому +11

      @@alexba1ley the flag in the background is not the trans flag, it's the bisexual flag.

    • @alexba1ley
      @alexba1ley 3 роки тому +6

      @@Hazelcloudy and @Noriaki Kakyoin y'all are right. I was thrown off by the lighting.

  • @queerboy8370
    @queerboy8370 4 роки тому +60

    In most shows with a bi person (which is rare in and of itself), it's a MIRACLE if they actually SAY the word bisexual once.
    and then this show gives us THIS. i cried when i saw it for the first time lmao

  • @rowanatkinson3594
    @rowanatkinson3594 7 років тому +500

    Gotta say as a bisexual man that adore this song.

    • @memequern8087
      @memequern8087 4 роки тому +6

      Hell yeah!! Tho have to say your profile pic makes it 100 times better 😂

    • @akhila3048
      @akhila3048 4 роки тому +2

      omg Rowan I'm such a fan

    • @_chew_
      @_chew_ 4 роки тому

      That profile pic though...
      GET ME PICTURES OF DIO! lol
      Hey, isn't Dio bisexual too?

    • @rowanatkinson3594
      @rowanatkinson3594 4 роки тому

      @@_chew_ Yep! Still waiting on my timestop powers though

    • @sathianm1830
      @sathianm1830 3 роки тому

      Yeah he really don't know what to do with his fingers😂 lmao

  • @nadesicond4018
    @nadesicond4018 8 років тому +394

    Pete Gardner is an absolute treasure

    • @silvertamagachi
      @silvertamagachi 8 років тому +18

      +Nadesico ND And he wasn't even the first choice! I think this is the luckiest mistake ever.

    • @Ryan4891s
      @Ryan4891s 7 років тому +3

      Who was their first choice?

    • @colombines5588
      @colombines5588 6 років тому +3

      Ryan4891s Michael McDonald

    • @alsolos3120
      @alsolos3120 5 років тому

      @@colombines5588 lol

    • @lucystoner
      @lucystoner Рік тому +3

      He was so nervous about singing in this show because he's just a comedian, he would ask the producers all the time if he would be singing.
      This was the song they gave him. :)

  • @agustinamagpie
    @agustinamagpie 8 років тому +403

    BRING ME SOME TOAST 'CAUSE THIS IS MAH JAM!

  • @valeriaayastagiron2159
    @valeriaayastagiron2159 8 років тому +106

    this made so happy because we (the bi community) don't have a bi representation on TV and we're invalidated A LOT, and watching a bi character singing about how proud he is about his sexuality makes me feel better

  • @connormaclane
    @connormaclane 7 років тому +1082

    best song for us bisexuals :-)

    • @chrisosuna5275
      @chrisosuna5275 6 років тому +40

      I like how lesbians get Hayley Kiyoko and we get Pete Gardner

    • @abiscott857
      @abiscott857 5 років тому +8

      Chris Osuna Wouldn’t change him for anything 😂

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 5 років тому +2

      @@abiscott857 Same!

    • @alsolos3120
      @alsolos3120 5 років тому +4

      Okay I'm here because my friend is super supportive of the lgbtq community. But. She sent me this out of the blue. So. Like. How do I take this.

    • @T.ricksterr
      @T.ricksterr 4 роки тому +1

      Connor Macfarlane I want to like this but it would be 666, haha yes

  • @ashiraocampo2339
    @ashiraocampo2339 7 років тому +69

    "you just might catch my eye because I'm definitely bi"YESSS

  • @SapphOfLesbos
    @SapphOfLesbos 4 роки тому +88

    I know this song helped a lot of ppl so I just wanted to say thank you to Adam Schlesinger (the man who helped write/come up w this song and many others) he passed away from COVID 19 today, so thanks for the songs, the pride, and encouragement Adam! Your music will be dearly missed 💖💜💙

  • @hannahmabbutt3978
    @hannahmabbutt3978 4 роки тому +95

    RIP Adam, this song has helped so many people:(

  • @HamsterPopcorn74
    @HamsterPopcorn74 Рік тому +15

    The only crime the show this committed was not having Valencia sing a reprise of this song when she gets into a same-sex relationship

  • @eleanorisnotgivingyouherla3156
    @eleanorisnotgivingyouherla3156 8 років тому +235

    I've spent the past year trying to come to terms with my sexuality and I gotta say, as corny as it is, this song is helping. This is the first bisexual character I've ever seen in a movie or TV show and the knowledge that it's becoming a more accepted thing is very reassuring

    • @jillstrick309
      @jillstrick309 6 років тому

      Eleanor IsNotGivingYouHerLastName g

  • @beckhampang191
    @beckhampang191 4 роки тому +116

    Rest in peace Adam Schlesinger.
    Thank you for this beautiful song and allowing thousands of people to come out and feel validated as Bisexuals.
    Your impact will live on. Thank you.

  • @ibzac6756
    @ibzac6756 3 роки тому +34

    I like that there's an actually portrayal of a grown man who's bi and not a man who was just "secretly gay and leaves his wife". Its annoying that such representation is rare in media, its 2021 and there isn't much to show for it!!

  • @apoorvatadepallibeauty
    @apoorvatadepallibeauty 5 років тому +17

    Lol I love how he called a meeting just to say he is bisexual

  • @elliot1165
    @elliot1165 3 роки тому +36

    i love how darryl also dates a man but still ends up with a woman by the end of the show, really signifying that bisexuality in men is not just "gay but won't accept the full 100"

  • @charlottemarianmabe6171
    @charlottemarianmabe6171 7 років тому +37

    -Sure, I like sex
    -Please, make him stop
    jajajajaja

  • @dorabodrogi7081
    @dorabodrogi7081 3 роки тому +45

    This is the most realistic representation of bisexuality to be absolutely honest. Miss me with that "I like dark chocolate AND milk chocolate, if you know what I mean, I'm bilingual eyyyyy, I'm a dog AND a cat person [wink, wink, nudge, nudge]" Nah, THIS is what we're actually like XD

  • @TJKoland
    @TJKoland 4 роки тому +44

    Rest in Power, Adam Schlesinger. This was a perfect example of your genius.

  • @hmonstrosus
    @hmonstrosus 4 роки тому +63

    Rest in Peace, Adam. This song meant so much to so many, and so much to me. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

  • @alf27
    @alf27 Рік тому +9

    It's a hate crime that this only has 1.3 million views

  • @GreyGosamyr
    @GreyGosamyr 8 років тому +74

    I already identified so much with how tonedeaf and naive Darrell is, and then this happened and I realized Darrell IS me (in ten years).

  • @lolmechy
    @lolmechy 4 роки тому +38

    Back when I was in the military, during one of our longer on field practices (like 2 weeks in the forest) I told my entire tent that I was bi, just kinda let it slip in a conversation. There was like a 5 minute long awkward silence after that, during which this just kinda played in my head.

    • @rexappleby4731
      @rexappleby4731 3 роки тому +2

      Were they chill or shitty after that 5 minute pause?

    • @lolmechy
      @lolmechy 3 роки тому +4

      @@rexappleby4731 Neither really. Aside from one guy (Who was bi himself.) nobody said anything about it. I guess that's technically chill, but it was mostly just awkward.

    • @rexappleby4731
      @rexappleby4731 3 роки тому +2

      @@lolmechy Thanks.

  • @icandrivebestie
    @icandrivebestie 3 роки тому +28

    “I don’t care if you wear high heels or a tie”
    Me wearing both: 👁👄👁

  • @thekaycave
    @thekaycave 4 роки тому +34

    RIP Adam Schlesinger. You still had so many songs in you, but you gave us so much already

  • @VickiLovesDoctorWho
    @VickiLovesDoctorWho 8 років тому +179

    I really needed this song last year when I tried to explain to my mum that I was attracted to men and women by using a very weird ice cream analogy! ^_^

    • @SenipLuff
      @SenipLuff 8 років тому +17

      +VickiLovesDoctorWho You've gotta tell us the weird ice cream analogy now. But yeah it's good to see someone who just celebrates being bi without actually falling into any of the shitty stereotypes?

    • @thesewinggeekmiri9029
      @thesewinggeekmiri9029 8 років тому +15

      +Hart I think I know what the ice cream analogy is: @VickiLovesDoctorWho is it the one where you say that you love chocolate, but you also love vanilla?

    • @inkspillled
      @inkspillled 4 роки тому +15

      wait so does that mean that bi's are just
      *_ARE WE JUST NEOPOLITAN ICECREAM??_*

    • @gummygutshoe
      @gummygutshoe 4 роки тому +8

      Rivi The Corgi that’s pansexuals. Bisexuals are double swirl.

    • @samstarba4569
      @samstarba4569 2 роки тому

      Either I'm very bi myself or just confused in some other way but I've always wondered how people have to so hard time understanding bisexuality? :D In my opinion, it is much easier to understand someone's attraction towards both/all genders than attraction solely on one gender.

  • @erraticonteuse
    @erraticonteuse 2 роки тому +7

    "I don't have the 'gotta choose blues'" I am DYING (bisexually, of course).

  • @nxxhnikolic5479
    @nxxhnikolic5479 4 роки тому +17

    me a straight guy screaming along to this song as loud as possible

  • @Silvercentipede
    @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому +47

    Can we also give huge props to White Josh as a depiction of a gay character. I was so shocked when this was revealed, cos he didn't seem it all all, but then who am I to say that, what does it mean to "seem" gay?
    I think I was just so conditioned to other shows with gay male characters prancing around like queen's and talking in feminine voice's and liking girly things, that I was shocked to have a more typical "bro" guy on TV being gay, but I 100% shouldn't have been
    So huge props to this show for that
    I just wanna be clear I'm not stupid, I have known gay people in real life who haven't been the camp, feminine stereotype.
    It was just kinda unusual and refreshing to see it on TV, when they're usually so badly stereotyped

    • @carolinelutz397
      @carolinelutz397 4 роки тому +2

      Ikr I saw nothing coming for neither of them, I felt betrayed by my gaydar

    • @Silvercentipede
      @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому +5

      @@carolinelutz397 haha it's good though! Shows you not to judge or use stereotypes but yeah I was also like "huh?!" Crazy 😂❤️

    • @carolinelutz397
      @carolinelutz397 4 роки тому +4

      @@Silvercentipede yes agrees, I think it's great! ♥️ Plus I like that people were calling him white Josh instead of Gay Josh or to call the other Asian Josh

    • @Silvercentipede
      @Silvercentipede 4 роки тому

      @@carolinelutz397 wow yeah so true ☺️❤️

    • @chileanyways-593
      @chileanyways-593 3 роки тому

      YESS PERIODTT

  • @tellnate29
    @tellnate29 5 років тому +61

    All bisexuals rise for our national anthem

  • @politemenace5781
    @politemenace5781 2 роки тому +10

    it's the way they rhymed "intellectual" with "bisexual" for me

  • @bl4ck_st4rrr
    @bl4ck_st4rrr 4 роки тому +11

    When I first watched this show, I was closeted, and I played this song for my parents to come out. This should be the bi anthem, and also Darryl is an absolute bicon

  • @basiasuszek3473
    @basiasuszek3473 7 років тому +28

    please, please, please, can it be like official anthem of bisexuals?

  • @dgf3308
    @dgf3308 4 місяці тому +4

    Gives me hope to think 8 years ago this was revolutionary. The world is slowly, painstakingly slowly, better.

    • @christyshultz6443
      @christyshultz6443 4 місяці тому

      Love shows that try to write in more LGBT stories
      Bisexuals see so erasure it's important to be seen. So show like
      Roswell New Mexico 2019 tv who has two main cast members plus other people are either gay or trans or bi as well ❤❤ Michael Alex.. Michael is my bi icon thses days ❤❤
      Then you got Shadowhunters
      Again good r representation.magnus/Alec
      Yay Magnus ❤
      911 Lonestar ❤ amazing and sweet story of TK and Carlos.

  • @mariana457
    @mariana457 3 роки тому +26

    Yes we need this, bisexual men deserve this type of recognition. Your sexuality is valid. I'm so proud of this show...

  • @deru1792
    @deru1792 8 років тому +281

    I'm gay but I'm in love with this song

    • @corrineanderson5652
      @corrineanderson5652 8 років тому +4

      I love your profile pic😍

    • @deru1792
      @deru1792 8 років тому +1

      Corrine Anderson me 2

    • @Eli-yp9yv
      @Eli-yp9yv 7 років тому +1

      ALLY HILLS

    • @thrcuddlygamer
      @thrcuddlygamer 6 років тому +4

      Omg same haha
      This song is just so good 😄

    • @jonathanstern5537
      @jonathanstern5537 6 років тому +16

      I'm straight, but I rather enjoy it too. Good music transcends sexuality

  • @despairingleonardo
    @despairingleonardo 8 років тому +92

    daryl's dance move is so adorable 3<
    the song is excellent . one of the best song !

  • @PB-qe6ce
    @PB-qe6ce 7 років тому +123

    Next time someone asks my how I'm doing I'll reply "I'm getting bi", wonder if anyone will get it.

  • @robertjackson3552
    @robertjackson3552 Рік тому +4

    this and captain raymond holt's speech of "Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better, more interesting place.
    is what we need

  • @maxi5627
    @maxi5627 4 роки тому +20

    RIP, Adam Schlesinger.
    Thank you for this. Thank you for everything.

  • @lilisey
    @lilisey 8 років тому +82

    This song is so great and the characterization of a bi character is fantastic. Thank you so so much for this positive representation!

  • @whitenova754
    @whitenova754 2 роки тому +6

    I JUST REALIZED HE'S THE PURPLE LINE ON THE STAGE

  • @spidergregory3857
    @spidergregory3857 4 роки тому +16

    I never realized I needed an anthem so strongly as the first time I heard this. I don’t watch the show, but I think I might now.
    Edit: Used this to come out to my sister. Went...much better than I thought it would. RIP Adam Schlesinger, and thank you.

  • @broccoliweeb1212
    @broccoliweeb1212 4 роки тому +26

    My parents: so what do you want to talk about?
    Me: * plays this song *

  • @JustChelseaAnn
    @JustChelseaAnn 8 років тому +47

    I kinda want to come out on Facebook by posting this song! it's pure genius

    • @nebula-not-a-website
      @nebula-not-a-website 8 років тому +11

      +JustChelseaAnn JUST DO IT! DON'T LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS!
      (As long as your family won't murder you in your sleep, etc.)

    • @JustChelseaAnn
      @JustChelseaAnn 8 років тому

      +Kat Von Sperling Hahaha! I think they'll mostly talk but yeah! I'll probably do that x)

    • @Toooheuueuehdbhq
      @Toooheuueuehdbhq 8 років тому

      +JustChelseaAnn I'm gonna send this to me dad because of you lmao

  • @hayleyt8018
    @hayleyt8018 4 роки тому +12

    Thank you Adam for giving us this gift. RIP

  • @JageshemashFTW
    @JageshemashFTW Рік тому +7

    As a bisexual, I wish I had a Big Man I could invoke for instant saxophone solos.

  • @bmas44
    @bmas44 4 роки тому +10

    3 years later and this is still the greatest thing ive ever watched

  • @zoharsarig9474
    @zoharsarig9474 4 роки тому +20

    I was starting to think they weren’t allowed to say bisexual on tv

  • @rorolilred
    @rorolilred 3 роки тому +7

    Got to appreciate that bisexual lighting!

  • @stagefrights
    @stagefrights 8 років тому +259

    did anyone use this to come out yet???

    • @annevankins7145
      @annevankins7145 8 років тому +26

      yes! on fb, but the people i wanted it to see didnt reply :(

    • @cieram7575
      @cieram7575 8 років тому +10

      Mee! !

    • @stagefrights
      @stagefrights 8 років тому +8

      Ciera Murphy great congrats for you to be proud enough to come to!

    • @stagefrights
      @stagefrights 8 років тому +4

      Anne likeucare aww that sucks but still great

    • @cieram7575
      @cieram7575 8 років тому +2

      +Daniel DeMartis Thanks :)♡

  • @thehappyhippo-_-
    @thehappyhippo-_- 4 роки тому +6

    I came out to my older sisters this week, so now the oldest one sends me this😁

  • @Ppooppoobbutthhead
    @Ppooppoobbutthhead 4 роки тому +5

    If this isn't played at my funeral I'm not fucking dying.

  • @supernoodle704
    @supernoodle704 3 роки тому +8

    finally bi rep, and bi rep that isn’t an overly sexualised, young, bi woman.

  • @olivervickman638
    @olivervickman638 4 місяці тому +5

    My favorite part of this will always be "it doesn't take an intelectual to get that I'm bisexual" as if it didn't take him decades to even get the slightest clue *himself*

  • @radish1395
    @radish1395 4 роки тому +6

    Please play this at my funeral.

    • @grappyday5438
      @grappyday5438 4 роки тому +2

      Because ur bi bi bi till the day ya die

  • @antigonikarag8689
    @antigonikarag8689 4 роки тому +10

    This is hands down THE BEST bisexual song

  • @hannahhinshaw1660
    @hannahhinshaw1660 Рік тому +22

    Hear me out guys. This is just a theory but…
    I think he might be bi

    • @prageruwu69
      @prageruwu69 11 місяців тому +1

      preposterous!

    • @Valtharr
      @Valtharr 10 місяців тому

      aw, he's just gay

  • @user-li7zd1mn1d
    @user-li7zd1mn1d Рік тому +12

    I’m Asian girl at her 20 and I’m being represented by a middle aged white guy successfully and happily

  • @Generic_Ralsei_Worshipper
    @Generic_Ralsei_Worshipper Рік тому +10

    At long last I've finally found the perfect bisexual representation

  • @wren7888
    @wren7888 3 роки тому +26

    At first I found Daryl adorable...
    Now I find him so relatable and adorable, even more actually

  • @andiehernandez1995
    @andiehernandez1995 4 роки тому +5

    I didn't know my bi existence needed this and I'm glad I clicked it even when I thought it could be cringey.

  • @Thebook690
    @Thebook690 8 років тому +30

    The official bi song.