In my late 30's one of the most common questions i get is why i am not worried. I have no problems answering this question, let me know what you think.
Thank you for the update, glad you gave us updates and are improving bit by bit! Will make a reaction/relatable video to this like the last one sometime tomorow especially since there's certain parts that are relatable. You are right, you definitely need a clear and more grounded mindset in order to be with a partner and have kids and be able to protect them well enough in a cruel world like this.
You are young but wise in your words, very intelligent. I wish that I waited too when I was younger, I rushed into marriage at 21 when I definitely wasn’t ready, it crashed as soon as the marriage was on, year after year it crashed more, 3 beautiful kids came along but 15 years later, the marriage was over. You are doing the right thing, waiting until you know in your heart you’re ready, way to go!!
You’re so right on this. I took a long while after my last relationship to work on myself. I’m in a much better place now, but I’m still working on myself. I’m putting myself out there slowly now and it’s so much easier to write off people bc I can see right through them and their non-authentic selves.
You're honestly so strong to talk about this to the public habibi...you are incredible and awesome, and never forget it!! You will be stronger and super as you already are! And yes, remember that people who truly love you for yourself are the ones who are with you during worse and better...so you can find the one for you at any moment! She's waiting for you and will be lucky!! You gotta become the arab dad that we love :)
Thanks so much man, i really appreciate it. Exactly man, we gotta find the one that loves us for us :) Next Generation of Arab Dad one day Inshallah haha
@@ramio1983 Yes indeed habibi! And you're right about the aspects of kids too, it's a scary place out there to raise them in! InshAllah it'll all be good once you find the one! You'll be a dashing dad! Haha the real arab dad will come out and give the best of moments for us haha :)
@@ramio1983May God bless u with a righteous woman. Allah says in the Qur'an : "And those who strive for us, we will surely guide them to our ways. And indeed, Allah is with the doers of good." Rely to Allah and he will provide you inchallah.
hey ramey. its been a while. pretty interesting topic you posted about. with regards to your first point. i agree about betterment of self but pls also don't be too harsh on yourself. being in a relationship is a give and take. and life has its up and downs. meeting someone at your highest peak point in your life when you are at your best doesn't necessarily mean theyll b willing to hang around when you are at your worse. which also come with regards to your 3rd point. i agree that its hard to find someone who agree with all your opinions. we live in a current lifetime where everything and everyone around us is hard to trust and hard to want to have kids in. and i totally agree with wanting ro be sure that you can provide a better future for your future kids whether they be biological or adoptive(you never know). i hope you are able to find that perfect partner who you both live up to each others expectations. insha'Allah things will get better for you.
Hey Magz, thanks for the comment i hope you're doing fine. Believe me, i am not being harsh on myself, i am simply keeping myself motivated to do better, especially since the slip up years ago, i have found it difficult to recover and i am unhappy in my current position, i have no choice but to aim to become optimal for success in all avenues. Insha'Allah things will work out and i appreciate your words and advice.
Why does that trigger anyone? I am a wonderful guy and i deserve to be treated right. It's as simple as that. It's funny, women tend to have no problem being referred to as Queens or being treated as one, because shes "worthy". Yet when a guy wants the same thing, he's controlling/misogynist/ (insert label here)
Yes, define being treated like a king? Being in a real relationship (married) should be 2 people who are committed to each other and help each other equally. If you mean, being treated like a king is the women devotes everything to her man just doesn’t work. It’s the same for women!
Greetings, for me (and I speak for the majority of women) If a lady wants to be treated like a queen, first treat your man like a king. It goes both ways👸🤴
@@georginasimpson2908 Forget your concept of King thats on TV shows and Movies LOL. I don't want my wife to feed me grapes...However i want to be loved, adored, respected and heard. The Mans role is to be the leader, protector and provider- that is the traditionalist path and it's not misogynistic to say so. A Woman should have no gripe about making her Man happy, full knowing that her Man will do right by her :)
Muslims should work on their behaviour and beliefs to be be a good idol Muslim. This will be though to every muslim in Islam. Your traditional and thinking is like a decent Muslim man but unfortunately you are not Muslim. I will pray to GOD الله ج to guide you. I am sorry but you can't change the world. Even for for your children. GOD الله ج decides what is going happpen to them not you. Your thinking and expectations from your partner is like the expectation of Muslim men. Your partner values You can find them in a Muslim lady. The only problem is that you are not Muslim by beliefs and religion. Otherwise your character and behaviour matches to a Muslim man. One more Advice to you. You work on yourself to become a good man then Ask your GOD الله ج to guide you.
one of the reasons you said you're not married at 6:39 in the video is because the world is declining. so there are over 8 billion people in the world. you're going to wait until the world is in a better state before you get married? 😂 your other reasons make sense, but how are you going to change the mindset of 8 billion people and make them into a happier state before you decide to get married and have children.
I understand you bro, and I admire your self accountability. May Allah give you strength and patience in the rest of your journey.
Insha'Allah he is the best of planners, but i gotta put my work in too! haha.
@@ramio1983 for sure ! "Tie your camel and trust in Allah"
Thank you for the update, glad you gave us updates and are improving bit by bit! Will make a reaction/relatable video to this like the last one sometime tomorow especially since there's certain parts that are relatable. You are right, you definitely need a clear and more grounded mindset in order to be with a partner and have kids and be able to protect them well enough in a cruel world like this.
Thank you , i look forward to your video and response, happy to hear your input on this matter :)
You are young but wise in your words, very intelligent. I wish that I waited too when I was younger, I rushed into marriage at 21 when I definitely wasn’t ready, it crashed as soon as the marriage was on, year after year it crashed more, 3 beautiful kids came along but 15 years later, the marriage was over. You are doing the right thing, waiting until you know in your heart you’re ready, way to go!!
You’re so right on this. I took a long while after my last relationship to work on myself. I’m in a much better place now, but I’m still working on myself. I’m putting myself out there slowly now and it’s so much easier to write off people bc I can see right through them and their non-authentic selves.
I am so glad that you gave yourself time and space to work on yourself after your last relationship, its very important :)
You're honestly so strong to talk about this to the public habibi...you are incredible and awesome, and never forget it!! You will be stronger and super as you already are! And yes, remember that people who truly love you for yourself are the ones who are with you during worse and better...so you can find the one for you at any moment! She's waiting for you and will be lucky!! You gotta become the arab dad that we love :)
Thanks so much man, i really appreciate it. Exactly man, we gotta find the one that loves us for us :) Next Generation of Arab Dad one day Inshallah haha
@@ramio1983 Yes indeed habibi! And you're right about the aspects of kids too, it's a scary place out there to raise them in! InshAllah it'll all be good once you find the one! You'll be a dashing dad! Haha the real arab dad will come out and give the best of moments for us haha :)
@@ramio1983May God bless u with a righteous woman. Allah says in the Qur'an : "And those who strive for us, we will surely guide them to our ways. And indeed, Allah is with the doers of good." Rely to Allah and he will provide you inchallah.
you are the best youtuber ever! and helped me through tough times with your videos :)
Ah that's really kind of you, thanks.
Keep going Brother !
hey ramey. its been a while. pretty interesting topic you posted about.
with regards to your first point. i agree about betterment of self but pls also don't be too harsh on yourself. being in a relationship is a give and take. and life has its up and downs. meeting someone at your highest peak point in your life when you are at your best doesn't necessarily mean theyll b willing to hang around when you are at your worse. which also come with regards to your 3rd point. i agree that its hard to find someone who agree with all your opinions. we live in a current lifetime where everything and everyone around us is hard to trust and hard to want to have kids in. and i totally agree with wanting ro be sure that you can provide a better future for your future kids whether they be biological or adoptive(you never know).
i hope you are able to find that perfect partner who you both live up to each others expectations.
insha'Allah things will get better for you.
Hey Magz, thanks for the comment i hope you're doing fine. Believe me, i am not being harsh on myself, i am simply keeping myself motivated
to do better, especially since the slip up years ago, i have found it difficult to recover and i am unhappy in my current position, i have no choice but to
aim to become optimal for success in all avenues. Insha'Allah things will work out and i appreciate your words and advice.
Hey Magz it's great to hear from you, please stay safe and sending my warm regards your way 🙂
Yeaaah str8 up aye, dont wanna bring kids into this fukd up world, jus lookin at it😂... love u rami🎉🎉
Love you back and yeah, kind spitting facts here haha.
It's so strange accidentally found you here. Back in the day at Sydney Tower :). Subscribed to your chanel 😉. Stay well
OMG those were the glory days hahah! I hope you are doing well and are happy in all ways!
Am your biggest fan
why i cant get a girlfriend: errr umm society😡😡😡😡
Facts though
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when you were gambling online, what were you gambling on?
You lost me at “treat you like a king “
Why does that trigger anyone? I am a wonderful guy and i deserve to be treated right. It's as simple as that. It's funny, women tend to have no problem
being referred to as Queens or being treated as one, because shes "worthy". Yet when a guy wants the same thing, he's controlling/misogynist/ (insert label here)
Yes, define being treated like a king? Being in a real relationship (married) should be 2 people who are committed to each other and help each other equally. If you mean, being treated like a king is the women devotes everything to her man just doesn’t work. It’s the same for women!
Greetings, for me (and I speak for the majority of women) If a lady wants to be treated like a queen, first treat your man like a king. It goes both ways👸🤴
@@georginasimpson2908 Forget your concept of King thats on TV shows and Movies LOL. I don't want my wife to feed me grapes...However i want to be loved, adored, respected and heard. The Mans role is to be the leader, protector and provider- that is the traditionalist path and it's not misogynistic to say so. A Woman should have no gripe about making her Man happy, full knowing that her Man will do right by her :)
@@ivonne22365 Amen Amiga xxx
Muslims should work on their behaviour and beliefs to be be a good idol Muslim. This will be though to every muslim in Islam. Your traditional and thinking is like a decent Muslim man but unfortunately you are not Muslim. I will pray to GOD الله ج to guide you. I am sorry but you can't change the world. Even for for your children. GOD الله ج decides what is going happpen to them not you. Your thinking and expectations from your partner is like the expectation of Muslim men. Your partner values You can find them in a Muslim lady. The only problem is that you are not Muslim by beliefs and religion. Otherwise your character and behaviour matches to a Muslim man. One more Advice to you. You work on yourself to become a good man then Ask your GOD الله ج to guide you.
one of the reasons you said you're not married at 6:39 in the video is because the world is declining. so there are over 8 billion people in the world. you're going to wait until the world is in a better state before you get married? 😂
your other reasons make sense, but how are you going to change the mindset of 8 billion people and make them into a happier state before you decide to get married and have children.
LOL yeah i guess that's true, we never will find anyone that is "perfect" for us, just someone that is good enough and we should be happy for that :)