Frank get the hell out of Kensington, you are vulnerable right now, you came to far to put yourself in harms way. People places and things. Keep your head up, you got this. You're a man of god, don't let the devil defeat you!!
One thing I’ve learned…. One must take care of self before taking care of anyone else. If I’m not ok mentally… I’m not going to be any kind of help for anyone around me
Bro don’t put this kinda stuff on the internet. She’ll use it against you and say you’re unstable. You gotta stop wallowing in sorrow and regret or this won’t get better. Take a shower, get a haircut and shave. You been in mourning for two months man. If you can’t handle it check yourself in somewhere for a couple weeks and clear your mind. You gotta try something different cause this ain’t working. It’s gonna kill you
Agree and frank don't always wear Black man .Change it up with white or colour it will make you feel so much better. ⚫️ Black is for mourning.... your very handsome man .. great complexion colour would look awesome on you❤❤❤❤
@@jenniferdemir4140black is chic actually when it's worn right, but I agree switching up with some self care could possibly help with his emotions right now..
@@jenniferdemir4140blaq is chic actually when it's worn right, but I agree switching up with some self care could possibly help with his emotions right now..
Frank, again, I know this video is for Rachel and you want her to see how much you are hurting. You can’t even string two sentences together. Are you getting any therapy? Any meetings? Anything? This is NOT GOOD FRANK? You are stuck and pride and ego is not your friend right now and you need professional help NOW! This is not going to change anything. ACCEPT THAT IT IS OVER AND GET HELP FRANK PLEASE. YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER. STOP GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY DAMN IT FRANK. YOU CANNOT EVEN SEE HOW MUCH SUPPORT AND LOVE IS SURROUNDING YOU. AGAIN, MONDAY, GET SOME HELP AND START WITH CALLING A EMERGENCY HOT LINE FOR DEPRESSION. NOW! I ain’t your mama but damn old enough to be so do it! ❤❤❤. PLEASE, FOR YOURSELF AND ALL YOUR CHILDREN.
Yes Frank listen to this woman and me I’m old enough to your mom too and you have got to talk to someone, take care of yourself and don’t do something you’ll regret don’t forget how far you’ve come and make it your MISSION to keep in the kids lives and to care for yourself! Then you can help others but you have to take care of yourself first! Just some motherly advice
It does get easier Frank and please don’t get high🙏 don’t forget where you came from, the bottom isn’t no place to be you are bigger and better than that. Don’t let her drag you down!
Why don't ya be honest with him n tell him he is actually making the Situation Worse. I know she's pissed n disgusted with these videos n I hope she gets a Protective Order on him
@@Cthomas5678 again Rachael is not DRAGGING him down. He's doing this all on his own. How dare you blame Rachael you think she would want her kids fatherless?? That's 🤢 sick
Don’t lose sight of your self worth, no one can take that from you. Stand tall with your shoulders back, and keep showing up for those babies, their world got blown apart too. You are loved and admired for who you are, just keep holding on💗💗
@Grahamt978 you are absolutely right! However, Frank will have moments like this, feeling deep sorrow. Let's hope there aren't too many and that the episodes become further and further apart. I have faith in him just as you do. He's a good man who deserves the best. ❤️
Lost my 37 yr old son in September due to the bacteria blood infection and heart valve infection due to tranq. He lived on the street in Kensington. But we were able to be with him at the end. He was in hospital
I’m truly sorry for the loss of your beloved son. I’m grateful you had the blessing to be with him when he crossed over. Not everyone gets that chance. I’m so so sorry. You must be reeling. I’m truly devastated by this deliberate poisoning they’re doing to our young ppl. We need to stand up and clean up our cities and rid them of this tranq. Nit acceptable in the America I was raised in.
My heartfelt condolences go out to you. I lost my nephew in 2022 and I thought I wouldn't make it. There was a point where he was my son.... I feel this... I can't connect what you feel. Nobody can.
Frank…. This was the hardest video I have ever watched. Kensington is a place for you when you feel strong. Right now, you need your own bed with your own pillow and your sweet kiddos…. So ask Rachael if she can share them this week. I pray she does. You can always revisit Kensington when you feel stronger. Maybe it is time to just invest in your health. Maybe it is time to think of you and only you. You’ve always been putting everyone before yourself. It is time you put yourself first. I am devastated you are having to carry this cross….. you need to let God carry you….. remember Footprints in the sand. It is when we need Him most that He will carry us, which leaves only one set of footprints in the sand !!! I am going to check in on you!!! You have got this Frank. I promise you, you will make it through this. You ain’t ever going to look back either. I praying for you more than ever.
Go home, Frank. Not a good place to be for you right now. It’s hard but it could be a lot harder. You got a lot to get done in this life. Gods got you this time the way he always has. We love you and your heart. You are a great dude. Get home, take a hot shower, thank god for a roof over your head, clothes on your back, a warm bed and sleep for a couple days would do you some good.
Frank, Find Your Peace, go to a meeting, do you have a sponsor? I'm in recovery and have a strong support system,I also have a trauma therapist, I'm a combat veteran and I've seen more than any human should see, God has blessed me in so many ways, I believe he knows what your dealing with and it if meant to be it shall. Stay Safe and don't pick up, we need you, your family needs you.
Giving your life to a Narcissist must be a familiar feeling the same kind of feeling of giving your life to drugs. Its an empty bottomless uphill battle. Frank needs to remember how he pulled himself out of addiction. Except he is grieving the loss of the Narcissist and not the loss of himself, so it's understandably worse. If only he could understand losing the Narcissist is a blessing in disguise, he has to set himself free the same way he did with addiction just a little bit more. Going backwards is not going to make Mercy proud, Frank! Mercy needs you her whole life.
I completely agree. Frank obviously has an addictive personality. Me too I'm years clean. He went from being clean in jail and marrying Rachel in jail and when he got out I believe he unknowingly became addicted to her. Cross addiction it happens all the time. I think Rachel is FOR SURE a narcissist. The ignoring him for days. When I heard that my ears pricked up. I've been there and I'm guessing you have too. He's going have to give her up too now. We have to stay away from people and places that remind us of the drug/Rachel. How hard is that going to be he can't stay away from the children. It's heartbreaking. A narcissist wouldn't be able to stay away from these videos/comment sections so I just want to say Rachel go get therapy. Tell your therapist there's a huge chance you're a narcissist. There's help for your type too and tell the father of your kids that you're sorry his father died and then leave him B.
Poor baby 😢 I hate to see a good man hurting. I wish it was different for him. Rachel aint s*** for this. I hope she reaps what she sews. Smh Always praying for Frank and kids.
Why is he even there? Right now he needs people to support him. He can support others when he gets stronger and have a clear mind. Frank take your ass home
Frank, prayers work, I'm from Philly and I know that neighborhood well, Once I got clean and found recovery, I was able to accept life how it is and not how I want it, Go home brother and pray
There’s a finality to death, when someone’s feelings for you die and they’re still alive it’s so different and beyond understanding, the grief is different, everything’s different and so hard to navigate
Lawyer up. This isn't a game. Get the best attorney you can find. Get qualified legal counsel for you for your kids for your future... You owe this to all your children. It's a crime for you to pretend this is no big deal. 50% 50% custody is to goal. & you'll still have to pay support. Merry xmas
As an adult? If he wants to be with his kids? That is the FIRST thing he should be doing. Rachel has an attorney and he will get destroyed in family court unrepresented. That system destroys people when you are NOT prepared. He needs to get legal representation to carry this burden for him so that he does not lose access to his children.
Wish I could just reach through the screen and give you a hug ,I know it hurts but I promise you it WILL get better, hang in there mate love from the UK❤
Man I just got to the end of the video and it worried the fuck outta me. Get help cause you’re in a bad place. You can’t see it but it will get better. You got an army pulling for you!
Hang in there Frank we are all here for you and we’re listening. You are loved by thousands of people and an inspiration God loves you your children love and need you. The pain will get easier. You have a whole life ahead of you when you love so hard and it is not reciprocated and the bond has been broken. It is like a death. but the person you love is still alive . There’s always hope never give up on love it will come around again. You have so much to offer. Time is on your side. Hold on tight to your beautiful children. Live,love,heal!!❤🙏Never give up !❤
So sorry to see you hurting like this. Christmas can be a very hard time of year for a lot of people. Keep trying Frank. Your kids depending on you. Sending much love and light to you all. 💙💙💙🌲🌲🌲
We love you Frank and we're here with you. God's got you. I promise rainy seasons don't last forever. Praying for you. And it's always OK to cry are us. ❤
He looks defeated , lonely and heartbroken. Man this shi is very painful to even watch but we've gotta have his back, bc if we don't then WHO WILL??!!!?? I pray he doesn't even get out of his truck and walk around down there while he's feeling so lost and defeated. I feel he is smart enough to not get back into that mess of a life but when you're feeling like he's feeling you just never know. Extremely heartbreaking to say the least. 🙏🏻💔🥺 If you need to talk to someone Frank or anyone else dealing with heartache, pain or ANYTHING else y'all can ALWAYS reach out to me if yall need a listening ear. Don't ever feel like you have no one bc I'm sure there's plenty here that'll help with what they can. Sending love, big virtual hugs and peace 🙏🏻❤
Get your mind right. Go get some chinese. Find someone to give out the things you came there to do. Quit dwelling on the bad and do the good you've done for others. It's rewarding . And on Monday, please get a haircut cut and straighten up that beard. Peace....
Rachel was just waiting for her brat twins to go to college so she can make her move. I don't need a man to help me raise my kid's. She probably dosen't have a boy friend she probably has a girlfriend.
Always remember, man's rejection is God's protection Frank. Your kids love you and no one can change that. Better days ahead, you just have to make it to the other side.
😔 this poor fella needs sleep, food, & self care for the next 2 weeks straight. Otherwise bad decisions come calling. Hellish breakups/unrequited love are hard enough on non-addicts, much less for folks with a long history of addiction. Stay strong buddy! 💕
@ right?! But remember, this is his first time dealing with this so he wouldn’t know that, unlike so many of us who have experienced these emotional depths before. The first cut is the deepest…
💯💯💯 @wendymy heart is breaking for him I wish there was something I cld personally do I just know I have been in his place n it will get easier he needs to take a mental health break! Sorry to say but she’s doing some number on him wish she wld ease up just a lil bit till he’s mentally healthier I know he helped her n got her to where she is today n I’m a woman saying this 🙏🙏🙏
@@gypsyrobin516 yeah this is harsh. She’s clearly moved on & Frank is no longer her concern. Hope he can hold it together, find a good attorney, & get a decent custody schedule. But it feels like things could go pear-shaped real fast with the path he’s on…
@@wendylpa yesss Wendy beyond worried I n I saw a few others wrote “ Rachel if ur watching please give him a call reach out etc “ if it was the other way around we all know Frank wld have been much delicate then she is being ! I feel like because addiction on both parts she shld be more gentle with dealing with things with frank she knows he’s hurting n I’m really shocked that she is going in even harder on him especially with the Christmas holidays 1st time kids and all of them not waking up together on Christmas morning etc I just think there is a better way for her to go about it Wendy smh I’m 🙏🙏🙏🙏 so hard for our buddy our guy Frank 💙
The withdrawals from this relationship are real. The trauma bond is real. What you felt in your relationship was real. The isolation, feeling unheard and alone while in the relationship. Recovery is real!!!! I know what it looks like to stay. I know what the kids think in the end for staying. As a Latina we are taught by our culture/family to stay and fight but our children see it all they know and it isn’t good for them to see parents in that space for years. Fight to create boundaries there is a such thing as no contact parenting. I am rooting for you and I see you trying to move beyond and how stuck you are feeling right now. This will pass, it hurts. We all deserve to live our joy! There are basic things you can learn about toxic abuse recovery to maneuver in your situation while you are healing. Be well just for today, just for one hour, just for one afternoon.
God has got you! It’s so hard at Christmas. Worried about you. Please please don’t look elsewhere for relief. Continue vlogging - it’s a great outlet. I encourage you to journal as well. Write what you wish you could say to Rachel. It may help. God bless you!🙏
Agree 💯 I’m really concerned he is going to give in and I will just be so devastated for him and those babies. Great idea write her but don’t give it to her. Just seal it and put it away. When your ready read from time to time watch how his thought process changes 6,8,12 months
That’s one of my comments I wrote before too just be there for him before anything more serious god forbid happens cause if it was the other way around we all know how frank wld handle it just 🙏🙏🙏🙏
She doesn't care! So sad he raised her daughters now they don't even talk to him. Frank take care of yourself and just take care of those that love you and care for you..your children love you and need you!
Saying a prayer for you Frank. I'm sorry your struggling. Kensington is not a good place for you to be right now. Nothing good can happen for you there! Nothing!
Bro you need to get better mentally for your kids. There will be a lot more Christmases to come. I know I've been there. You have to surround yourself with good friends to fight through it and come out the other side awesome.
I’m sorry you are so sad which I could give u a big hug ur a lovely Man U don’t deserve this please stay on top this too shall pass… Tae care of ur precious self woe ❤❤u
Frank have you got a sponsor ? Do you go to meetings you really need to Im worried for your sobriety . What has happened to you happened to me after 25 years of marriage and it hurts like hell but if you relapse everything will get a 1,000 times worse as you will lose everything including your children maybe even your life and its not worth it . I have 35 years of sobriety and let me tell you in those years i have been through lots of shit but i never relapsed as i used my tools to keep myself safe and you need to do the same . Your children are suffering too so stop with the poor me's and pull yourself together for them which in turn will help you . Shit happens but at the moment you are still clean and sober but you are on very thin ice so get your hair cut have a shower and get yourself to a meeting and try to enjoy the time you spend with your kids over christmas
Just some good advice - never make a woman your God. There is only one Almighty God and he will bless you if you trust and are patient with him - it’s all in his timing!
Hey Frank…I’m mostly a quiet follower but I just wanted to say I’m praying for you. And also, for you to really lean in to God. This season of pain and discomfort for you may also be a season of growth and change. While you may want things to go back to normal, God has other plans for your growth. LEAN IN….ask God where you need to grow. Follow his instructions 🙏🏾
Take care of yourself Frank remember the kids need you and love you! You're always in my prayers 🙏 🫂's to you Frank! Get a haircut you are a very handsome man.. don't let your self go please don't 😢
I love what you do for Kensington, but I’m afraid you going there will cause you to relapse during this time of your life. Maybe step back and give yourself time to heal a little until you feel strong enough to go back and film.
Whenever I need comfort I open the Bible to the book of Psalms and start reading or open up an audio Bible app. It helps. You can even pray the words you are reading. God sees you. He will help you.
The dEVIL has done enough destruction in your life over the past many months, don't ever hand him over your soul. That's EXACTLY what he wants. Lord, I asked that you completely shield Frank with your mighty armor and help him safely get through this horrific time he is going through. 🙏🏻✝️🙏🏻🌹
My heart breaks for you pal I went thru the exact same thing 5vchildren but she was so nasty she wouldn't let me see my kids that's what I worked my ass off for that's why I became sober I got over the break up but when there's children who you love and your not involved in my youngest life like day to day and it nearly ended me but I battled on for my children I used to get my children 27th December to 30th of December I wasn't loud to give them there presents on Christmas day I had to give them on Christmas eve that's not Christmas day family day the whole process drove me back on the shit but only till I said she and her family wanted that so I'm sober today and I'm going thru the courts to have more time with my children us fathers that want our children we got no rights I loved my children more than any1 or anything so frank stay strong it's a horrible road and uts been 4cyears since we split up but she is still so jealous I have no other choice but to go thru the courts like the last 4 Christmas day I won't be with my children especially my young children 6 and 10 it's a road I m willing to go as far as I know I'm a better parent and 2 she's around stuff she shouldn't be around our my son but my other children are over 18 it's fucked up the pain is a different pain only people like frank and thousands off fathers around the world will know my heart breaks for you bro because I know what you going thru I couldn't function without my children for the first 2 years id only get them on weekends don't give up fight for everything you want your family is all us fathers want women want a whole different ball game god bless you frank here 2 with tears running down my face because off my children should be aloud just as much as there mom and I wish no bad will on my wife but she's not the same as me I found that out kills me seen any father going thru the same
seek the Lord find a service to go to tomorrow. eat, sleep, clean up, get a therapist and maybe a sponsor. whatever you need you are a strong person. Believe in yourself again God bless
Keep on doing the wonderful things that you do. Somehow maybe they’ll lift you up and let you know what a great person you are to help others that are in distress!
Big bro. I been watching all these videos bro. And man I just think man she went way extreme on you over this shit bro. I mean does she think more has happened? Did the chick say more happened and is lying? Man shits wild bro. You don’t deserve this if you didn’t actually commit an act of infidelity. If that chick came on to you and you resisted you are in the right bro. Now if you made a move back that’s another story. I just think that Rachel is under the impression that more has happened bro when it hasn’t been. Bro sorry for your pain. She’s putting it to your ass brovva. Shit ain’t rite. STAY SOBER. THIS TOO SHALL PASS. Get back to the basics. Meetings and church. 🫡 God be with you bro
Nah I think Rachael is using something that happened 5 years ago as an excuse to leave. If I remember correctly they met when she was in a relationship and usually women like that repeat that behavior. If she did it to another man chances are she’ll do the same thing to you.
@@Tuttimomenti facts I feel that. Man this chick is brutal forreal. Bro is forreal busted down. Deserves better. I ain’t gonna lie. The first video in this situation I thought maybe bro was running a game. Just being honest. But he has proved me wrong and I learned you can’t always pass judgement off the cuff. I hope bro pulls thru this. As long as he doesn’t use and sticks to his foundations he will get thru this. Prayers.
FRANK, Please don't dwell too hard on these things. It will only take you down, way down. You can not make sense out of nonsense. It's impossible. I totally understand needing to do this, I have been there. Let go and let God have his way. YOU are His child. His heart is aching for you. God has a plan, never doubt that. Conversely, He has a plan for your kids and their mother. Sending love. ❤
Frank, I broke a lot of hearts some willing and some not willing. The one thing that use to turn me off is when dudes didn't want to face that it was over and would try to plea. I would be like walk away and take your pride with you don't leave it here for me to stump all over it. Don't let your kids see you are hurting, you want them to suffer the process of the divorce as less as possible. I know you can get up and get it together, do it.
I’m sorry I’m watching this so late. I’m in NE Philly and my cousin is in Port Richmond, I would have asked him to drive by and talk to you. You are going through a rough time and I really don’t think being in Kensington is a good place for you right now Frank. Your videos helped me get through the loss of two of my cousins due to not knowing fentanyl was in their drugs. I pray to God you don’t relapse Frank. Please stay out of Kensington until you are in a better place yourself.
Buenas noches yo vivo en puerto rico te dedico esta canción a ti de Abraham Velázquez " mamita de mi alma .. cuando yo perdí mi mamá no es fácil olvidar ... 😢
I know it’s hard Frank but this community is so unbelievable. The comment section are your family, friends some even angels just helping you keep it together. Read the comments pls. They really love you!! What’s r you thinking about right now? You have said 10 words are you wanting to go grab dope so u don’t feel any pain? Did you and Rachel have a fight? What’s in your head???????? I’m extremely worried about you.
Frank, PLEASE stay away from Kensington for awhile (until you get through these down times like your going through at this moment) You know that you are a giving, caring, loving person wanting to care for the community of Kensington but please wait till you are stronger, bc right now is not the time. Praying for you. 🙏
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You should not be in Kensington.
Frank get the hell out of Kensington, you are vulnerable right now, you came to far to put yourself in harms way. People places and things. Keep your head up, you got this. You're a man of god, don't let the devil defeat you!!
One thing I’ve learned…. One must take care of self before taking care of anyone else. If I’m not ok mentally… I’m not going to be any kind of help for anyone around me
100% Very well said Nicole 🥰🙏🏻
So true
REAL FACTS!!!
Self preservation is mandatory.
Bro don’t put this kinda stuff on the internet. She’ll use it against you and say you’re unstable. You gotta stop wallowing in sorrow and regret or this won’t get better. Take a shower, get a haircut and shave. You been in mourning for two months man. If you can’t handle it check yourself in somewhere for a couple weeks and clear your mind. You gotta try something different cause this ain’t working. It’s gonna kill you
Agree and frank don't always wear Black man .Change it up with white or colour it will make you feel so much better. ⚫️ Black is for mourning.... your very handsome man .. great complexion colour would look awesome on you❤❤❤❤
@@jenniferdemir4140black is chic actually when it's worn right, but I agree switching up with some self care could possibly help with his emotions right now..
@@jenniferdemir4140blaq is chic actually when it's worn right, but I agree switching up with some self care could possibly help with his emotions right now..
Frank, again, I know this video is for Rachel and you want her to see how much you are hurting. You can’t even string two sentences together. Are you getting any therapy? Any meetings? Anything? This is NOT GOOD FRANK? You are stuck and pride and ego is not your friend right now and you need professional help NOW! This is not going to change anything. ACCEPT THAT IT IS OVER AND GET HELP FRANK PLEASE. YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER. STOP GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY DAMN IT FRANK. YOU CANNOT EVEN SEE HOW MUCH SUPPORT AND LOVE IS SURROUNDING YOU. AGAIN, MONDAY, GET SOME HELP AND START WITH CALLING A EMERGENCY HOT LINE FOR DEPRESSION. NOW! I ain’t your mama but damn old enough to be so do it! ❤❤❤. PLEASE, FOR YOURSELF AND ALL YOUR CHILDREN.
Yes Frank listen to this woman and me I’m old enough to your mom too and you have got to talk to someone, take care of yourself and don’t do something you’ll regret don’t forget how far you’ve come and make it your MISSION to keep in the kids lives and to care for yourself! Then you can help others but you have to take care of yourself first! Just some motherly advice
It does get easier Frank and please don’t get high🙏 don’t forget where you came from, the bottom isn’t no place to be you are bigger and better than that. Don’t let her drag you down!
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Why don't ya be honest with him n tell him he is actually making the Situation Worse. I know she's pissed n disgusted with these videos n I hope she gets a Protective Order on him
@@Cthomas5678 again Rachael is not DRAGGING him down. He's doing this all on his own. How dare you blame Rachael you think she would want her kids fatherless?? That's 🤢 sick
Don’t lose sight of your self worth, no one can take that from you. Stand tall with your shoulders back, and keep showing up for those babies, their world got blown apart too.
You are loved and admired for who you are, just keep holding on💗💗
@Grahamt978 you are absolutely right! However, Frank will have moments like this, feeling deep sorrow. Let's hope there aren't too many and that the episodes become further and further apart. I have faith in him just as you do. He's a good man who deserves the best. ❤️
Hi Frank 🙏🙏 bless you 💕💕 you will be ok a day at a time thinking of you always 🎄😘
Lost my 37 yr old son in September due to the bacteria blood infection and heart valve infection due to tranq. He lived on the street in Kensington. But we were able to be with him at the end. He was in hospital
Peggymcglade4132, 😔 🙏🏼
I’m so sorry for your loss
My deepest condolences. So good for you to be there at the end.
I’m truly sorry for the loss of your beloved son. I’m grateful you had the blessing to be with him when he crossed over. Not everyone gets that chance. I’m so so sorry. You must be reeling. I’m truly devastated by this deliberate poisoning they’re doing to our young ppl. We need to stand up and clean up our cities and rid them of this tranq. Nit acceptable in the America I was raised in.
My heartfelt condolences go out to you. I lost my nephew in 2022 and I thought I wouldn't make it. There was a point where he was my son.... I feel this... I can't connect what you feel. Nobody can.
Frank…. This was the hardest video I have ever watched. Kensington is a place for you when you feel strong. Right now, you need your own bed with your own pillow and your sweet kiddos…. So ask Rachael if she can share them this week. I pray she does. You can always revisit Kensington when you feel stronger. Maybe it is time to just invest in your health. Maybe it is time to think of you and only you. You’ve always been putting everyone before yourself. It is time you put yourself first. I am devastated you are having to carry this cross….. you need to let God carry you….. remember Footprints in the sand. It is when we need Him most that He will carry us, which leaves only one set of footprints in the sand !!!
I am going to check in on you!!! You have got this Frank.
I promise you, you will make it through this. You ain’t ever going to look back either. I praying for you more than ever.
Go home, Frank. Not a good place to be for you right now. It’s hard but it could be a lot harder. You got a lot to get done in this life. Gods got you this time the way he always has. We love you and your heart. You are a great dude. Get home, take a hot shower, thank god for a roof over your head, clothes on your back, a warm bed and sleep for a couple days would do you some good.
Frank, your eyes look different… praying for you, Brah ! God bless
Frank, Find Your Peace, go to a meeting, do you have a sponsor? I'm in recovery and have a strong support system,I also have a trauma therapist, I'm a combat veteran and I've seen more than any human should see, God has blessed me in so many ways, I believe he knows what your dealing with and it if meant to be it shall. Stay Safe and don't pick up, we need you, your family needs you.
@@michaelholmes3707 thank you for your service. Wishing you and your loved ones Happy holidays
Thank You for your service.
Giving your life to a Narcissist must be a familiar feeling the same kind of feeling of giving your life to drugs. Its an empty bottomless uphill battle. Frank needs to remember how he pulled himself out of addiction. Except he is grieving the loss of the Narcissist and not the loss of himself, so it's understandably worse. If only he could understand losing the Narcissist is a blessing in disguise, he has to set himself free the same way he did with addiction just a little bit more. Going backwards is not going to make Mercy proud, Frank! Mercy needs you her whole life.
I completely agree. Frank obviously has an addictive personality. Me too I'm years clean. He went from being clean in jail and marrying Rachel in jail and when he got out I believe he unknowingly became addicted to her. Cross addiction it happens all the time. I think Rachel is FOR SURE a narcissist. The ignoring him for days. When I heard that my ears pricked up. I've been there and I'm guessing you have too. He's going have to give her up too now. We have to stay away from people and places that remind us of the drug/Rachel. How hard is that going to be he can't stay away from the children. It's heartbreaking. A narcissist wouldn't be able to stay away from these videos/comment sections so I just want to say Rachel go get therapy. Tell your therapist there's a huge chance you're a narcissist. There's help for your type too and tell the father of your kids that you're sorry his father died and then leave him B.
I'm scared for Rachel n the Kid's he's not Stable n ya ain't helping him
@@Rose187-p4f And you are 😆 🤣
@@bethlarkin5651 I'm what 😊
Poor baby 😢 I hate to see a good man hurting. I wish it was different for him. Rachel aint s*** for this. I hope she reaps what she sews. Smh Always praying for Frank and kids.
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Can someone check on him
Absolutely I agree
I agree, he needs to get out of Kensington
@@michaelholmes3707yes I’m afraid he will relapse
Why is he even there? Right now he needs people to support him. He can support others when he gets stronger and have a clear mind. Frank take your ass home
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This is just a test . Your gonna pass it. Your a strong man. God's got you!!
Amen
Amen 🙌🏻🙏🏻
Beautifully said
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Frank, prayers work, I'm from Philly and I know that neighborhood well, Once I got clean and found recovery, I was able to accept life how it is and not how I want it, Go home brother and pray
There’s a finality to death, when someone’s feelings for you die and they’re still alive it’s so different and beyond understanding, the grief is different, everything’s different and so hard to navigate
Lawyer up. This isn't a game. Get the best attorney you can find. Get qualified legal counsel for you for your kids for your future... You owe this to all your children. It's a crime for you to pretend this is no big deal. 50% 50% custody is to goal. & you'll still have to pay support. Merry xmas
Yes yes and yes.
As an adult? If he wants to be with his kids? That is the FIRST thing he should be doing. Rachel has an attorney and he will get destroyed in family court unrepresented. That system destroys people when you are NOT prepared. He needs to get legal representation to carry this burden for him so that he does not lose access to his children.
Wish I could just reach through the screen and give you a hug ,I know it hurts but I promise you it WILL get better, hang in there mate love from the UK❤
Me too hun me too
Man I just got to the end of the video and it worried the fuck outta me. Get help cause you’re in a bad place. You can’t see it but it will get better. You got an army pulling for you!
Hang in there Frank we are all here for you and we’re listening. You are loved by thousands of people and an inspiration God loves you your children love and need you. The pain will get easier. You have a whole life ahead of you when you love so hard and it is not reciprocated and the bond has been broken. It is like a death. but the person you love is still alive . There’s always hope never give up on love it will come around again. You have so much to offer. Time is on your side. Hold on tight to your beautiful children. Live,love,heal!!❤🙏Never give up !❤
So sorry to see you hurting like this. Christmas can be a very hard time of year for a lot of people. Keep trying Frank. Your kids depending on you. Sending much love and light to you all. 💙💙💙🌲🌲🌲
Your kids need you and adore you.....please stay strong🙏🙏❤️
We love you Frank and we're here with you. God's got you. I promise rainy seasons don't last forever. Praying for you. And it's always OK to cry are us. ❤
DON'T make any mistakes. Go home and sleep, take a Benadryl, you look beat.
He looks defeated , lonely and heartbroken. Man this shi is very painful to even watch but we've gotta have his back, bc if we don't then WHO WILL??!!!?? I pray he doesn't even get out of his truck and walk around down there while he's feeling so lost and defeated. I feel he is smart enough to not get back into that mess of a life but when you're feeling like he's feeling you just never know. Extremely heartbreaking to say the least. 🙏🏻💔🥺 If you need to talk to someone Frank or anyone else dealing with heartache, pain or ANYTHING else y'all can ALWAYS reach out to me if yall need a listening ear. Don't ever feel like you have no one bc I'm sure there's plenty here that'll help with what they can. Sending love, big virtual hugs and peace 🙏🏻❤
Jesus ❤ Frank
Relapse starts in the mind
Absolutely. It takes a strong mind to stay sober. Sobriety is not for the weak.
Let’s stay positive for Frank!!
@@mariesandiego5291 it's a reminder to Frank to STAY strong
He’s struggling
get out for the holidays Frank any family you have outside just go
Get your mind right. Go get some chinese. Find someone to give out the things you came there to do. Quit dwelling on the bad and do the good you've done for others. It's rewarding . And on Monday, please get a haircut cut and straighten up that beard. Peace....
Rachel was just waiting for her brat twins to go to college so she can make her move. I don't need a man to help me raise my kid's. She probably dosen't have a boy friend she probably has a girlfriend.
WENT ON LIVE AND SAID 19 WORDS TOTAL
Always remember, man's rejection is God's protection Frank. Your kids love you and no one can change that. Better days ahead, you just have to make it to the other side.
😔 this poor fella needs sleep, food, & self care for the next 2 weeks straight. Otherwise bad decisions come calling. Hellish breakups/unrequited love are hard enough on non-addicts, much less for folks with a long history of addiction. Stay strong buddy! 💕
Yessss self-care obsession for 2 weeks!!!
@ right?! But remember, this is his first time dealing with this so he wouldn’t know that, unlike so many of us who have experienced these emotional depths before. The first cut is the deepest…
💯💯💯 @wendymy heart is breaking for him I wish there was something I cld personally do I just know I have been in his place n it will get easier he needs to take a mental health break! Sorry to say but she’s doing some number on him wish she wld ease up just a lil bit till he’s mentally healthier I know he helped her n got her to where she is today n I’m a woman saying this 🙏🙏🙏
@@gypsyrobin516 yeah this is harsh. She’s clearly moved on & Frank is no longer her concern. Hope he can hold it together, find a good attorney, & get a decent custody schedule. But it feels like things could go pear-shaped real fast with the path he’s on…
@@wendylpa yesss Wendy beyond worried I n I saw a few others wrote “ Rachel if ur watching please give him a call reach out etc “ if it was the other way around we all know Frank wld have been much delicate then she is being ! I feel like because addiction on both parts she shld be more gentle with dealing with things with frank she knows he’s hurting n I’m really shocked that she is going in even harder on him especially with the Christmas holidays 1st time kids and all of them not waking up together on Christmas morning etc I just think there is a better way for her to go about it Wendy smh I’m 🙏🙏🙏🙏 so hard for our buddy our guy Frank 💙
The withdrawals from this relationship are real. The trauma bond is real. What you felt in your relationship was real. The isolation, feeling unheard and alone while in the relationship. Recovery is real!!!! I know what it looks like to stay. I know what the kids think in the end for staying. As a Latina we are taught by our culture/family to stay and fight but our children see it all they know and it isn’t good for them to see parents in that space for years. Fight to create boundaries there is a such thing as no contact parenting. I am rooting for you and I see you trying to move beyond and how stuck you are feeling right now. This will pass, it hurts. We all deserve to live our joy! There are basic things you can learn about toxic abuse recovery to maneuver in your situation while you are healing. Be well just for today, just for one hour, just for one afternoon.
Frank reminds me of Immortal Technique. Is he Puerto Rican/ Peruvian? I'm trying to guess 😊
Unfortunately I think Frank already got high
Please go knock on someone's door that's open! You need a friend to have a cup of coffee and talk❤❤❤
Is Frank ok?
It doesn’t sound it
No he's not and this is so painful to watch.
You drove all the way here for this short live, come on dog stay out of here until you pull yourself together
Get out of that area be safe go home pray stay strong
God has got you! It’s so hard at Christmas. Worried about you. Please please don’t look elsewhere for relief. Continue vlogging - it’s a great outlet. I encourage you to journal as well. Write what you wish you could say to Rachel. It may help. God bless you!🙏
@@denisemoon9572 great idea
Agree 💯 I’m really concerned he is going to give in and I will just be so devastated for him and those babies. Great idea write her but don’t give it to her. Just seal it and put it away. When your ready read from time to time watch how his thought process changes 6,8,12 months
Hey Frank, we offer our condolences and send our prayers. We want you to know we are rooting for you down here in Atlanta.
If Rachel is watching this- please call him. Check on him.
That’s one of my comments I wrote before too just be there for him before anything more serious god forbid happens cause if it was the other way around we all know how frank wld handle it just 🙏🙏🙏🙏
She doesn't care! So sad he raised her daughters now they don't even talk to him. Frank take care of yourself and just take care of those that love you and care for you..your children love you and need you!
Frank go back to Milton before you do something dumb. Keep your head up. This too shall pass
Why are you in Kensington?
Why does anybody go to kensington??
Saying a prayer for you Frank. I'm sorry your struggling. Kensington is not a good place for you to be right now. Nothing good can happen for you there! Nothing!
Bro you need to get better mentally for your kids. There will be a lot more Christmases to come. I know I've been there. You have to surround yourself with good friends to fight through it and come out the other side awesome.
So sad to this happening. Plz 🙏 know that this will pass, people need u frank! Be strong man. Love from Australia 🇦🇺
I’m sorry you are so sad which I could give u a big hug ur a lovely Man U don’t deserve this please stay on top this too shall pass…
Tae care of ur precious self woe ❤❤u
Mucho love coming your way and to your family too...🙏♥️
Get rid of that beard.... Ur prettier than that lol
Frank have you got a sponsor ? Do you go to meetings you really need to Im worried for your sobriety . What has happened to you happened to me after 25 years of marriage and it hurts like hell but if you relapse everything will get a 1,000 times worse as you will lose everything including your children maybe even your life and its not worth it . I have 35 years of sobriety and let me tell you in those years i have been through lots of shit but i never relapsed as i used my tools to keep myself safe and you need to do the same . Your children are suffering too so stop with the poor me's and pull yourself together for them which in turn will help you . Shit happens but at the moment you are still clean and sober but you are on very thin ice so get your hair cut have a shower and get yourself to a meeting and try to enjoy the time you spend with your kids over christmas
Just some good advice - never make a woman your God. There is only one Almighty God and he will bless you if you trust and are patient with him - it’s all in his timing!
Hey Frank…I’m mostly a quiet follower but I just wanted to say I’m praying for you. And also, for you to really lean in to God. This season of pain and discomfort for you may also be a season of growth and change. While you may want things to go back to normal, God has other plans for your growth. LEAN IN….ask God where you need to grow. Follow his instructions 🙏🏾
Hi Frank; may God Bless you always and protect you wherever you are ❤
damn man... wasn't expecting this one. God bless
Cry. Scream. Cry more. Get it out, stir it up. Rest. Repeat.
lol yall are a trip
I felt that 🙏❤️
Please Frank go home you don’t need too be down there right now!!! They will be fine
Take care of yourself Frank remember the kids need you and love you! You're always in my prayers 🙏 🫂's to you Frank! Get a haircut you are a very handsome man.. don't let your self go please don't 😢
I love what you do for Kensington, but I’m afraid you going there will cause you to relapse during this time of your life. Maybe step back and give yourself time to heal a little until you feel strong enough to go back and film.
Remember we all love and care for you. Continue being the good hearted person that you are..god is going to bless you 🙏 this shall pass..
Be strong Frank
You have people depending on you.
I’m sorry you’re in so much pain. I would suggest to stay away from Kensington for now.
Of all places why sit in Kensington and at night. Go home
High as a kite, what a sad video!
You are terrifying me Frank. Please leave that place.
Whenever I need comfort I open the Bible to the book of Psalms and start reading or open up an audio Bible app. It helps. You can even pray the words you are reading. God sees you. He will help you.
answer your phone frank people are trying to call you to check on you.
Are you okay? Did you end up giving any stuff out? Are you staying there? Have you started seeing g a therapist? I think that is a good idea.
I can see your pain you need to be around some friends
Worried about you Frank, please be strong 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
KING FRANK!!!!! We literally going through the same thing in life right now……
Frank.... hope you are doing better today buddy. I woke up thinking of you hoping that you are okay. Praying for your peace and clear mind. Big hugs.
I pray that you can find peace. I love you and don't know you. ❤❤❤ Hang in there son 💪
The dEVIL has done enough destruction in your life over the past many months, don't ever hand him over your soul. That's EXACTLY what he wants. Lord, I asked that you completely shield Frank with your mighty armor and help him safely get through this horrific time he is going through. 🙏🏻✝️🙏🏻🌹
So sorry you shouldn't be in Kensington right now not good for you right now! I think...
My heart breaks for you pal I went thru the exact same thing 5vchildren but she was so nasty she wouldn't let me see my kids that's what I worked my ass off for that's why I became sober I got over the break up but when there's children who you love and your not involved in my youngest life like day to day and it nearly ended me but I battled on for my children I used to get my children 27th December to 30th of December I wasn't loud to give them there presents on Christmas day I had to give them on Christmas eve that's not Christmas day family day the whole process drove me back on the shit but only till I said she and her family wanted that so I'm sober today and I'm going thru the courts to have more time with my children us fathers that want our children we got no rights I loved my children more than any1 or anything so frank stay strong it's a horrible road and uts been 4cyears since we split up but she is still so jealous I have no other choice but to go thru the courts like the last 4 Christmas day I won't be with my children especially my young children 6 and 10 it's a road I m willing to go as far as I know I'm a better parent and 2 she's around stuff she shouldn't be around our my son but my other children are over 18 it's fucked up the pain is a different pain only people like frank and thousands off fathers around the world will know my heart breaks for you bro because I know what you going thru I couldn't function without my children for the first 2 years id only get them on weekends don't give up fight for everything you want your family is all us fathers want women want a whole different ball game god bless you frank here 2 with tears running down my face because off my children should be aloud just as much as there mom and I wish no bad will on my wife but she's not the same as me I found that out kills me seen any father going thru the same
Oh, this makes me so sad for you. As always sending prayers & virtual hugs your way 🙏
seek the Lord find a service to go to tomorrow. eat, sleep, clean up, get a therapist and maybe a sponsor. whatever you need you are a strong person. Believe in yourself again God bless
I feel your pain I really do just please know it will get easier I had my family lay on me for months saying I got you and eventually it got easier
Please Frank take care of yourself
Yea man sat nights NA always good place to be your around ppl you know
Keep on doing the wonderful things that you do. Somehow maybe they’ll lift you up and let you know what a great person you are to help others that are in distress!
Go for joint custody! She won't get a dime.
Big bro. I been watching all these videos bro. And man I just think man she went way extreme on you over this shit bro. I mean does she think more has happened? Did the chick say more happened and is lying? Man shits wild bro. You don’t deserve this if you didn’t actually commit an act of infidelity. If that chick came on to you and you resisted you are in the right bro. Now if you made a move back that’s another story. I just think that Rachel is under the impression that more has happened bro when it hasn’t been. Bro sorry for your pain. She’s putting it to your ass brovva. Shit ain’t rite. STAY SOBER. THIS TOO SHALL PASS. Get back to the basics. Meetings and church. 🫡 God be with you bro
Nah I think Rachael is using something that happened 5 years ago as an excuse to leave. If I remember correctly they met when she was in a relationship and usually women like that repeat that behavior. If she did it to another man chances are she’ll do the same thing to you.
@@Tuttimomenti facts I feel that. Man this chick is brutal forreal. Bro is forreal busted down. Deserves better. I ain’t gonna lie. The first video in this situation I thought maybe bro was running a game. Just being honest. But he has proved me wrong and I learned you can’t always pass judgement off the cuff. I hope bro pulls thru this. As long as he doesn’t use and sticks to his foundations he will get thru this. Prayers.
Worried about you
Me too
Me as well 🙏🙏🙏
FRANK, Please don't dwell too hard on these things. It will only take you down, way down. You can not make sense out of nonsense. It's impossible. I totally understand needing to do this, I have been there. Let go and let God have his way. YOU are His child. His heart is aching for you. God has a plan, never doubt that. Conversely, He has a plan for your kids and their mother. Sending love. ❤
Stay out of there! I’m so sorry Frank…don’t put yourself in harms way
Frank, I broke a lot of hearts some willing and some not willing. The one thing that use to turn me off is when dudes didn't want to face that it was over and would try to plea. I would be like walk away and take your pride with you don't leave it here for me to stump all over it. Don't let your kids see you are hurting, you want them to suffer the process of the divorce as less as possible. I know you can get up and get it together, do it.
This is good advice..... everyone's unique though.
I’m sorry I’m watching this so late. I’m in NE Philly and my cousin is in Port Richmond, I would have asked him to drive by and talk to you. You are going through a rough time and I really don’t think being in Kensington is a good place for you right now Frank. Your videos helped me get through the loss of two of my cousins due to not knowing fentanyl was in their drugs. I pray to God you don’t relapse Frank. Please stay out of Kensington until you are in a better place yourself.
Keep strong dear Frank 💯 You are a true soldier of good 💯 peace, love and blessings 💯🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️💛💚😇
Buenas noches yo vivo en puerto rico te dedico esta canción a ti de Abraham Velázquez " mamita de mi alma .. cuando yo perdí mi mamá no es fácil olvidar ... 😢
Son please get yoursef together this shall past remember God is alive
I know it’s hard Frank but this community is so unbelievable. The comment section are your family, friends some even angels just helping you keep it together. Read the comments pls. They really love you!! What’s r you thinking about right now? You have said 10 words are you wanting to go grab dope so u don’t feel any pain? Did you and Rachel have a fight? What’s in your head???????? I’m extremely worried about you.
I always say being in my head is the devil’s playground so I don’t go there alone or at night. Prayers.
Frank, PLEASE stay away from Kensington for awhile (until you get through these down times like your going through at this moment) You know that you are a giving, caring, loving person wanting to care for the community of Kensington but please wait till you are stronger, bc right now is not the time. Praying for you. 🙏
Frank your loved….dont leave me sober alone
Frank, I am praying for you and your sobriety..get out of there…there’s no reason for you to be there
God will put u in situations alone to realize all u need is him ❤
Haven't had a cut since summer my barber closed on Sundays 🙏🏻