Brunch At The Beach House In Seal Beach With OLD FRIENDS

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  • @jackiekonrad859
    @jackiekonrad859 10 місяців тому +8

    That’s a great idea to connect with old friends ! You have inspired me ! Glad you had a great time your friends !!!❤

  • @sallykohorst8803
    @sallykohorst8803 10 місяців тому +2

    Nice to visit friends you havent seen in a while.rhanks for sharing.

  • @AZguy55
    @AZguy55 10 місяців тому +5

    I’ve never been much of a camera person, get caught up in living in the moment, often don’t even remember to take photos. That being said, I find now that I do appreciate the pictures and videos that I do have. Wonderful to have this memory saved! ❤️ Paul

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Hi Paul, that’s a very good point. I’ve always envied my friends and family who really enjoy life and can just live totally in the moment. When you were filming you really are a bit removed from the moment and you’re more of a an observer of people living in the moment lol! I guess I’m just more into capturing the moment to relive the future rather than living in it when it’s actually happening lol. 🤪

  • @williambill5172
    @williambill5172 10 місяців тому +2

    A great resolution, Steve...thanks for sharing, and enjoy all your visits!

  • @jacquestedcooper
    @jacquestedcooper 10 місяців тому +2

    What a great idea! I hope you have some great visits this year.

  • @colleencrane4843
    @colleencrane4843 10 місяців тому +4

    What a lovely day!,Glad you had a wonderful day. 😊❤

  • @kevinallen8162
    @kevinallen8162 10 місяців тому +3

    I have been doing much the same thing -- renewing old friendships. I agree with you it is well worth the time and travel. Traveled nearly 400 miles to visit with friends with whom I had taught school through 2000 -- we hadn't gotten together since 2009. In response to your question about comfort level with videos, I was terribly ill at ease with being videos until I attended graduate school in the early 1990s and had to record teaching practicums on video tape -- after many, many trails, I finally made my peace with the camera. I still am not particularly fond of being on video, but can tolerate it -- the last few years of my career were spent teaching in a large computer lab where the labs continual surveillance by video cameras significantly reduced my issues with computer damage and any other problems as I could refer to the recordings.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Hi Kevin, thank you for sharing this with us. It’s like that all the same practice makes perfect. At first I think everyone’s a little intimidated to be in for the camera, but once you’ve done it a few times you kind of forget us there. Hopefully you will be an inspiration for others reading this. 😄👍

  • @dianejohnson7235
    @dianejohnson7235 10 місяців тому +1

    Looks like a beautiful day with good friends!!! Beautiful weather!!

  • @sharonobryan9713
    @sharonobryan9713 10 місяців тому +3

    I love the fences and the patio, too! It's so sad to hear about bullies showing up at any celebration. It looks so warm there, but i dud notice a lot of long sleeves. I'm close to Atlanta, GA and we've been cold for us (just the way I love it, lol). A beach get away every once in a while, even to a cold beach is always so nice. Your friends seem so nice, and your friend needs to know she is totally adorable, but dignified on video! I hate to be on videos, too; or in pictures. I try lately to be in more, so it will always be there for my granddaughters. I don't know why but it makes me VERY self-conscious of everything.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Hi Sharon, it was sunny but definitely breezy and cool. I think it only got up to about 60° and the breeze made it seem a lot cooler. But it’s still very nice. There’s just something about capturing memories and special moments on video that you just can’t capture in a photograph. I’m sure your family members will be so grateful that they have a video of you where they can see you walking and talking and having fun when someday you’re no longer here. I will give anything to have videos of my grandparents. Just to hear their voice again would be so awesome. But unfortunately iPhones weren’t around back then. Now it’s just so easy. Thanks for sharing with us. 👍

  • @warriorempathshealingfromn5625
    @warriorempathshealingfromn5625 10 місяців тому +4

    What a nice video, Steve! I found out that there's a flex bus that I can pick up and take me into LA, Orange County and San Diego that I'll be taking advantage of. I made it into LA this past summer for a couple of days but it will be nice to not have to drive to these destinations.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      Hi Amy, I hadn’t heard about that. I can see how if you were just going to one specific place that could be very convenient probably a lot cheaper than if I have a car with gas. Thanks for letting us know. 👍

  • @debrahollimon9645
    @debrahollimon9645 10 місяців тому +1

    Ur friends have a beautiful house and patio wit a wonderful landscap

  • @discokitty3375
    @discokitty3375 10 місяців тому +2

    Great day you had there with some really nice friends nice brunch good times good conversation right?
    You couldn't have asked for a perfect weather day either. thx for sharing for sure . I don't mind being in a video it's kinda fun at that. like you said where did all the years go flying by, so go on have a ball Life's too short.🎉🎉

  • @tomklock568
    @tomklock568 10 місяців тому +4

    What a great resolution to meet up with old friends and family! Glad you had a good visit with your friends! Oh "signed up" for your Instagram too!

  • @thewilscott
    @thewilscott 10 місяців тому +3

    Love their backyard fence.😍

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      I know, me too. I would love to have vines like that on our walls. I was surprised that she didn’t like it.

  • @mariaday712
    @mariaday712 10 місяців тому +4

    Looks like you had a lovely day. Glad to see the weather cooperated. The coast can have a mind of its own sometimes. I usually don't like my picture being taken because I either look angry or uncomfortable. My grandfather was a photographer. He had his own shop in Austria. I have inherited his eye for taking a good picture. Glad you got together with you friends and plan to get together with more of them. I sadly don't have any friends or family to get together with. Thanks for sharing your day. You and Jim take care and be safe.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      I was expecting it to be gray and cloudy and rainy and ugly at the beach so I was very happy when it turned out to be such a beautifully sunny day. Sorry you don’t have any friends right now. Hopefully this year he will make lots of new friends. 😄👍

  • @ingrid-7777
    @ingrid-7777 10 місяців тому +2

    Hi Steve, lovely video. It's freezing over here in Germany. I get a red nose and blue hands. Brrrr. Wish I was over there all the best. ❤

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Hi Ingrid, sorry to hear that. We will try to send some sunshine your way. 😎👍

  • @lisad476
    @lisad476 10 місяців тому +1

    Great New Year's Resolution..bravo

  • @dsinavich5141
    @dsinavich5141 10 місяців тому +3

    Hi Steve it looks like a fun day at the beach with friends. The vines on the fence looks awesome. Your friends are very nice and perky. Glad you had a great time. Take care. Deborah 🇨🇦

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      I agree, I love those vines. I wish I could grow them here in the desert. Thanks Deborah 😎👍

  • @avery3767
    @avery3767 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Steve for sharing I really enjoyed it

  • @judithmitchell4667
    @judithmitchell4667 10 місяців тому +1

    Steve - What a great resolution to make. Wonderful idea. Have a great evening, my friend. Blessings - Judith 🎤🎭

  • @jodywoodruff6473
    @jodywoodruff6473 10 місяців тому +1

    Awesome video. It's always great seeing you again. I love to be in videos. I'm such a ham. 😂😂

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      Omg Jody, I definitely need more friends like you! I have to twist all of my friends and families arms to be in my videos lol. 😂👍

  • @debers59
    @debers59 10 місяців тому +1

    Nice resolution sounds really good Steve

  • @alexhill4757
    @alexhill4757 10 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for visiting my two hometowns of Seal Beach and Long Beach. :)

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      You are very lucky to live there Alex. Southern California has the best beaches and beach towns anywhere I think. 😎👍

  • @joane5777
    @joane5777 10 місяців тому +3

    What a fun resolution Steve! I got together with a group of highschool friends right before Christmas. It was a blast and we're not waiting years to do it again!!😊 Glad you enjoyed you visit with Jan and Jim ❤❤ Joan p.s. I'm not camera shy! 😂

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      That sounds awesome Joan. I’ve never been to any of my high school reunions. I would love to do that! And I definitely need more friends like you who aren’t camera shy lol! 😂👍

  • @markdoucette5189
    @markdoucette5189 10 місяців тому +1

    Glad to see your video. Love your voice!

  • @NormaHird
    @NormaHird 10 місяців тому +1

    Steve....my Steelers made the play offs. Have a great meal!!

  • @abigailwolff8334
    @abigailwolff8334 10 місяців тому +1

    Your very young for your age. Must be california air.
    Love the tours of your area. 👍☘️

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Thanks Abigail. I do feel very fortunate to be in good health. Jan and Jim and I were talking about that yesterday saying how funny it is but no matter how old you get your mind still thinks you’re in your 20s. 😄👍

    • @abigailwolff8334
      @abigailwolff8334 10 місяців тому

      So true.☘️💚

  • @Linda-in9ns
    @Linda-in9ns 10 місяців тому +1

    Great idea visiting lol 😌👍☀️

  • @johnpeddicord4932
    @johnpeddicord4932 10 місяців тому +1

    Enjoyed again Steve, old friends mean new subscribers 😊

  • @thomasmccardle725
    @thomasmccardle725 10 місяців тому +1

    Safe travels Steve, wish I were on your list 😂

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Thanks Thomas, yes unfortunately these days I am staying pretty close to home when I travel. Fortunately I live in California but has lots of things to do and see and I still have friends and relatives in various parts of the state to visit. 😄👍

  • @debbiemorgan6701
    @debbiemorgan6701 10 місяців тому

    What a wonderful resolution. I think that I will use it too. I don't get out so much anymore. I miss seeing people. The only conversations that I have anymore are with doctors.
    This made me want to go to Catalina again. We were there in the mid 80's. We did sightseeing. It was nice.
    I'm glad that you had such a wonderful time with your friends. I don't mind being on film or photos. It is nice to have those memories.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      Hi Debbie, I hope you get to reconnect with some of your old friends this year too. And I know what you mean about spending way too much time at the doctors these days lol. And I agree with you about being a Videos. It’s definitely worth any discomfort to capture so many great memories! 😄👍

  • @jerrypermenter9829
    @jerrypermenter9829 10 місяців тому

    My husband and I are Palm Springs snowbirds, currently living in Santa Fe, NM and your channel is great. You and Jim are so sweet. ~ Jerry & Howard

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Thank you Jerry. Santa Fe and Palm Springs, to equally awesome places! 😎👍

  • @Bazerkly
    @Bazerkly 10 місяців тому +1

    "Splendid Isolation" ____Warren Zevon... I guess I am like Jim

  • @aprilwine9157
    @aprilwine9157 10 місяців тому

    What a great video! They seem like a nice couple. Thanks for sharing your time with them. :)

  • @dazzlingchick
    @dazzlingchick 10 місяців тому +1

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @roxielugraf2944
    @roxielugraf2944 10 місяців тому

    A great resolution!

  • @kathleenwilson9510
    @kathleenwilson9510 10 місяців тому

    Hi Steve nice to see you with your friends today

  • @tomchiaromonte1919
    @tomchiaromonte1919 10 місяців тому

    Thanks Steve, always great to hang with friends on a beautiful day. Two things caught my eye (and ear). One is the "perfume-like" taste of rosewater, rose hips, etc...my girlfriend is Persian and rose water is used in desserts quite often...you're right, it tastes like you've just taken a swig out of grandma's perfume bottle (sorry for that image). The other was your omelette, my go-to is ALWAYS a chili cheese omelette, even make them at home when I've made chili, yum! All the best to you and Jim in '24.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      I know, right? Maybe if you were raised on it to taste good. I hope you have a terrific 2024 too Tom! 😄👍

  • @tracyroth-myers5574
    @tracyroth-myers5574 10 місяців тому

    I just love their cactus 🌵

  • @janetslicer3637
    @janetslicer3637 10 місяців тому

    Steve you asked so many questions in the video I couldn't keep up. Yes, years ago, I stayed in Long Beach on the Queen Mary for two weeks doing a computer installation and training contract for the US Navy. I had a blast. I also spent time at Seal Beach and once made a trip to Catalina Island. Good memories all. I don't like being videoed. And I hate listening to my voice on audio. I am self conscious, I guess. Good trip, I am glad you had a good time. I like your New Years resolution, wish I could keep something like that but life gets in the way, like too many doctor appts and our trip to Ireland in July! ♥️ YIPPEE! ♥️

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Hi Janet, what a small world. That’s need to hear that you spent so much time in that area too. And how awesome, a trip to Ireland this year. Definitely something to look forward to. I hope you have a wonderful and memorable trip! 😄👍

  • @joeyrobison6629
    @joeyrobison6629 10 місяців тому

    My cousin lived in Long Beach (as a matter of fact when I would call her, my long-distance phone bill would say that I called Lakewood, so I guess she lived close to the Lakewood exchange office). Her house was about 10 blocks from El Dorado Park off of Spring Street. She was a waitress at a restaurant in Rossmoor, not far from Seal Beach (It's now the Panera Bread restaurant but was once called The Parasol). I frequently visited her on my vacations and Seal Beach was a favorite hang-out of mine. I loved eating at Ruby's, a 50's hamburger joint located at the end of Seal Beach pier overlooking the ocean. I can definitely tell you were at Seal Beach, notorious for being very windy! I always wore a light jacket on my Seal Beach forays.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      Hi Joey, wow, what a small world. Thanks for sharing this with us. Are used to love Ruby’s. I used to go to the one on the Huntington Beach pier. Sadly I think they are closed because of the pandemic. 😩

    • @joeyrobison6629
      @joeyrobison6629 10 місяців тому

      @@theretiredlifewithsteve my cousin moved back to Texas to be close to the family after her retirement, (she sold her house in Long Beach for quite a hefty sum!). Sadly, she passed away in 2016. Sad to hear of Ruby's closing. So many of my favorite spots in Dallas closed for the same reason, due to COVID.

  • @reneerednour3951
    @reneerednour3951 10 місяців тому

    Looks like you had a good time. Nice. 😊

  • @Ettoredipugnar
    @Ettoredipugnar 10 місяців тому

    I’m enjoying your adventures.

  • @legrat6678
    @legrat6678 10 місяців тому

    Hi Steve, wonderful video. Glad to see you had such a wonderful gathering with your friends. Fyi the succulent you were touching is called an epiphyllum. Not sure which variety. I have one at home. They produce large flowers that last a little over a day. That plant was very lovely.
    I had no idea Long Beach is the second largest city now. Even over San Francisco? It's grown a lot since i was there!

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      Wow, he really know your plans! I think he said it was the second largest city in Southern California. It went by in the video real fast. I missed it the first time too and only heard it while I was editing the film. I just googled it and on Wikipedia it says Long Beach is the seventh largest city in California. Maybe he said seventh instead of second lol. 🤪

  • @Christina92520
    @Christina92520 10 місяців тому +1

    Wish I was in California. Supposed to get up to a foot of snow tomorrow and Wednesday here in northern Illinois.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Yikes, that does not sound like fun shoveling all that snow. Hope you’re able to keep warm! 😎👍

  • @peggymcgraw1856
    @peggymcgraw1856 10 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes you only see relatives and friends at funerals so your resolution is a great idea. Maybe you and Jim will go on a cruise one day. That would be exciting. I’m not really camera shy, it just feels a little weird to see myself on film. Maybe because I don’t very often. My family mostly takes still photos. I’m glad you had a good visit, it was a lovely area. Until next time…..

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Cruises sound so nice, but I’m just not a big fan of being out in the ocean, so no cruises in my future. But I enjoy watching videos of other people taking cruises so hopefully Jan and Jim well film some of their upcoming trip. Fingers crossed. 😎🤞

  • @SurfCityBill
    @SurfCityBill 10 місяців тому

    Steve, I knew I felt your aura. While you were at the Beachcomer in Seal Beach, I was just across the inlet within sight at Ballast Point in Long Beach. Literally a 3 min drive away.

  • @pattibrooks1907
    @pattibrooks1907 10 місяців тому +1

    Great to hear you hope to see your friends and family alot this year !I am hoping to see my uncle Ed this Jan Feb or March and maybe my cousin Patty and hoping to see Cousin Mike and Marsha but they do not want to pick me up to see them or come to see me they make excuses all the time but Uncle Ed wants to get me up to his house somehow soon but am too lod to transfer trains and remembering to get my walker and bags CPAP machine and purse and not leave anything on the train or trains !

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      I hope you are able to figure out a way to get together with all of your relatives Patti. 😄👍

  • @jadascott-sanders3743
    @jadascott-sanders3743 10 місяців тому

    You have very nice friends😊

  • @marksears1124
    @marksears1124 10 місяців тому +1

    Myself and others are self conscious of our bodies and the way we talk on video.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      I think you are right. Most people are self-conscious in front of a video until they’ve been in a few videos and then they realize it’s no big deal and actually a lot of fun. And a really nice way to capture some fun and interesting and memorable moments that you just can’t capture in a single photograph. Thanks for sharing with us Mark

  • @carolgillis5265
    @carolgillis5265 10 місяців тому

    Good vlog I enjoyed it

  • @Rotnbully
    @Rotnbully 10 місяців тому

    Steve the more I see of your “neck of the woods” the more I want to visit - South Cali Tourism should have you on the payroll 👌🏻

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Lol Southern California is pretty special. I was born here and I’ve always loved everything about it. 😄👍

    • @Rotnbully
      @Rotnbully 10 місяців тому

      @@theretiredlifewithsteveit certainly shows 👍

  • @bethtyree6346
    @bethtyree6346 10 місяців тому

    So pretty

  • @danettebell5530
    @danettebell5530 5 місяців тому

    I don’t mind being on camera pictures are worth everything wish I had more camera video of my grandparents

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  5 місяців тому +1

      I agree Danette, I think it’s something we would all like to have. If parents and grandparents thought of it as giving a gift to their grandkids and future generations they probably wouldn’t mind being in the videos. Thanks as always for sharing with us! 😄👍

    • @danettebell5530
      @danettebell5530 5 місяців тому

      @@theretiredlifewithsteve yes Steve my grandparents always said pictures are worth a thousand words we treasure them

  • @whitneypreminger
    @whitneypreminger 10 місяців тому

    Hate being filmed. But always thankful later when my friends have. The memories are great.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for sharing that with us Whitney. I am glad to hear that and I agree that there’s nothing better than capturing memories on video. Photos just can’t capture those moments in the same way! 😄👍

  • @legrat6678
    @legrat6678 10 місяців тому

    Oh i know that location where you ate. I was on the other side of the canal and went to the restaurant there one day when i was in LB.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      How fun and what a small world right? 😎👍

    • @legrat6678
      @legrat6678 10 місяців тому

      @@theretiredlifewithsteve very much. Strange too as my trip out there was a random day trip I took. Got on the free bus and just stayed on it until it came to the end of the route. Saw a lot of interesting sights along the way. LB was a fascinating place.

  • @robinvarnadoe8429
    @robinvarnadoe8429 10 місяців тому

    I like to be behind the camera, always have.

  • @gypsyrain7289
    @gypsyrain7289 10 місяців тому

    In my later years I have become less camera shy, my daughter tells me all the time that there are very few pictures of me ,so I'm doing better. I don't mind videos ad long as I don't have to talk🤣 I'm from the south so I sound like country cornbread. 🤣🤣

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      That’s one of the benefits of getting older is that you are not as self-conscious as when you were younger. At least that’s how I feel. And I think everyone loves Southern accents! And who doesn’t love country cornbread lol! 😄👍

    • @gypsyrain7289
      @gypsyrain7289 10 місяців тому

      @@theretiredlifewithsteve 😉🤣

  • @pattibrooks1907
    @pattibrooks1907 10 місяців тому +1

    old not lod made a mistake in the typing Steve

  • @alichtenwalter
    @alichtenwalter 10 місяців тому

    I not like my picture taken. My voice sounds yo quiet. I enjoy listening to jim and you. A big wave 👋 to you and jim

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      You are not alone Alich. I’ve noticed that whenever I film anyone they all start speaking very very softly. I guess people get shy in front of the camera. 😊

  • @RockinStacy
    @RockinStacy 10 місяців тому

    You will be hard pressed to find pictures of me from the last 25 years. I suppose that it's a combination of things in my own head. And growing up, there were no pictures or videos taken. I wasn't always camera shy though.
    Pay for parking at a restaurant, that's crazy.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      That seems so shocking to me that someone wouldn’t have photos of their entire life, but then when you think about it cameras were only invented about 200 years ago so all the people who came before I had no photos of their lives. I guess I was just born in the wrong era. Since I like to film and photograph every single moment of my life lol, I would’ve fit in better with those people born in the last 17 years since the iPhone was invented! 😂👍

  • @ftcdesigns
    @ftcdesigns 10 місяців тому

    Although you meant well, I believe your friendship with these people would be better off camera.

  • @SarahParalegal
    @SarahParalegal 10 місяців тому

    I'm too fat. I look horrible 😂

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      No one ever likes the way they look on video even when they look great. I bet all of your friends think you look great and you don’t even know it. 😄👍

  • @KimmieCat70
    @KimmieCat70 10 місяців тому

    I don't like being on video because I have a very thick southern accent. 😂

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому

      Hi Kimmie, that’s part of the fun, trying to decipher everyone’s accents and trying to figure out what everyone is saying. These days, with everyone doing UA-cam from every region at all over the world I can really understand what anybody is saying lol! 🤪👍

  • @iainmelville9411
    @iainmelville9411 10 місяців тому

    I don’t mind being filmed, or photographed. But as Greg Ferguson used to say, on the Late Late Show, I’m a bit of a media whore.
    Great video by the way.👍

  • @colleenkelleher393
    @colleenkelleher393 10 місяців тому

    Privacy

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  10 місяців тому +1

      I guess I’m just not a private person so it’s hard for me to relate. 👍