Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah . & *"Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful."* (Quran 35:53)
I can feel her pain being raised in that kind of toxic environment .I couldn't concentrate in my study well and always in a kind of fear in the heart 💔 I can't explain how much depressed throughout my life now I'm 32 n mom of one kid I will never ever beat or use abusive words to my kid ...those people r so lucky who have loving and caring father 👨
I have a very great loving and caring father... But except from other people I am not comfortable with my mother, she is good but toxic at another level too. 😭😭😭
At least there is someone who talks about abuse from parents...We talked about abuse from male and etc but the actual abused we faced is from our own parents..You won Urfi and you will win more In Sha Allah.
Gyan Dena bahot asan h lekin jb baat khud pe aati h na to insan ko samjh nhi aata kya Krna h kya nhi jb aap logo ke liye bure bn jate to na to aap kitna bhi accha kr lo bure hi rhoge bs isne yhi socha ki ab accha krne ka koi fyda nhi h hum bure h bure hi shi🤞🏻🤞🏻
Nangpna karke ye apne rishte daro ko kya prove karna chahati hai 😅 ips officer bnti ya koi esaa kaam krti jisse sabka muh band hota ,, par nanga hoke kya sabit kar liya ulta esi ladkiyo ko dekh ke ladko ka dimag kharab hota hai aur rape jese crime hote hai ,,
Ye baat toh thik jab aapka bachpan aisa hota tab aise bhavnay hoti hai par aapka ego ahankar ko atmgyan badalne kosish kare ye problem muje dharti ke har insan ke sath hai uske roop alag honge par dusro dosh dene acha hum situation ke sath sangharsh kare
@@kunalgusain3124 Damn this comment increased your charm by 100 percent ....Also make sure you say these stuffs to your significant(if you have any) other I bet she will fall for you even more ...
When I saw her in initial days I said she is acting out due to childhood trauma. Innerchild healing is what Ranveer should do next podcast. We all have so many wounded innerchildren ruling our life.
Don't compare her case with your casual punishment at home. I think her case is totally different. It is more about suppressing women right, personal choice etc. by religiously rude conservative family and to the extent a whole community! Hats off to this brave girl breaking all those stereotypes.
Her Family is not islamic at all. They are more like conservative family. Hitting children is Haram in Islam. Not at all allowed. Domestic Violence is sin in our religion. Yeh Islam ka mazak hi bana rahi hai eik tarah se ke Main Muslim hoon isiliye kerte the. Parents sirf 18 years(completed puberty) tak bache ko samjha sakte hain control bhi nahi ker sakte. Rishtedaar to Bol hi nahi aakte hain Apke mamlaat main. Kiunke Family ki privacy pehle aati hai. Jahan tak baat hai Chote kapron ki to Woh bilkul sahi nahi hai. Azaadi ke naam per Shorts pehnna Kiun sahi hai? Janwar bhi Kapron ke bagair hi rehte hain
@@mainsabeenhoon that's upto you religions are to be followed only if you believe in it .......just like you know your limits she wanted to expand and break free of her limits
In my vicinity i don't know anyone who has her kind of responsibility even at the age of 30 something. She was taking care of all 5,6 people before she was 20! Respect and all the best. ❤
I totally relate to her....even my father was abusive...he left me and my mother...cheated on her and stayed away from us ...and is still the same...we have now finally separated from him...thankfully I now have the most qualified and loving husband ( IITian and a bureaucrat) and the most beautiful daughter. Even I underwent massive mental pain and scars because of all this....I did my own therapy through music , writing, spirituality and now I'm much better .
You can't be related to her you grow yourself positively...so do not compare yourself with such crass...i feel you are kinda inspirational personality than this drama from your story...
@@parsisimran4095 Urfi is a self made so stop comparing her with someone who has a husband who is IITian and a bureaucrat . No disrespect to this girl though . Both are inspiration overcoming their tragic past . It's you who need to grow up .
I can totally relate to her. Abuse just kills your soul completely. Be it girls or boys both get affected. My heart goes out for anyone who has ever suffered violence and abuse growing up. Stay strong ❤❤
Insaan har tarah ke emotions rakhta hai.. Lekin overall situation ko deal kaise karte ho ye matter karta hai.. Jyada judgement pass karne ki zarurat nahi..vaise ye khas kaun se alag seeng rakhte hein ye bhi batao..Tum aisa kya khas rakhte ho ye bhi explain karo
And I hope one day you will be sitting in the place where urfi Javed is sitting when you will do something that can be compared to one fourth of what she has achieved in her life
@@Youcandoitjustgo try to understand her just for a moment bro ! there's always a reason why people become like this, trauma literally changes people. She is so brave that despite having traumatic childhood ,she decided to live and fight against everybody!
Respect yourself first , 😉 If you respect yourself , you will never develop respect for girl like her . Always she says against her father . But has anyone asked her father his side of story . Apne nangepun ko justify kerne ke liye ye aurat Kahani banati hai . 😅😅
My mindset was totally changed for you dear after seeing this one .I don't know what others say about you but for me you are my ideal and you are the true guy yr you don't deserve hatred you deserve respect from everyone .I wholeheartedly respect you appreciate you .👍
U know it's very sad .... she is fighting with so many issues ... I wish she had better way to handle things .. PRAY AND WISH ....SHE HEALS FROM ALL TRAUMAS ... LEADS .BETTER AND PEACEFUL SUCCESSFUL LIFE.....
Hats off to her, she is survivor of serious crimes - cyber crime, child abuse, victim blaming, adult domestic and family conflict. Sending you a virtual hug girl, you are very brave.
Girl you rocked❤ i can totally relate to the toxic household upbringing since childhood i was an introvert moreover a lost kid i was so shy in front of everyone not a talkative one but it affected me more in my teenage n from the age of 17 to 20 i was just a traumatized n depressed girl overe everything either it is studies or family it takes me through a topper to dropper n left as a confused in life m career as well but this time I choose myself over Anything, at the end of the day it's just you❤
I heard her story few few years ago. She suffered a lots. She is doing as she likes the way. But kidikp harm or nuksan or chori to maho kar rahi gai na. To unko khus rehene fo..god bless her ❤, from Nepal.
I don't understand how some people are still trolling her in the comments . You can just see how much pain she is in still now . I hope she gets all the love and respect and she is very much deserving of it . Please dont comment if you have nothing nice to say haters don't spread your gibberish in here
Hr cheez ko religion ky sath ni attach krty..as muslim hmen study ki job ki azzadi di gi.shadi ky decession ki azzadi dii gii..yhii azadi hotii ha r tu kuch ni meri bhin. Proud being a muslim❤❤
You are living in delusion miss In my school bus 1 girl of class 3rd was wearing wollen leggings and full sleeves uniform in june ....she was muslim we were suffocating by hot weather wearing t shirt
@@Itz_Ninii sahi bol rhi ho Maine tab se itni chhoti bacchi ko nhi dekha aur we have a very open minded and good muslim class teacher she is gone now but miss you ruqsar mam wish everyone was like her
@@AryanSingh-cm1ds good to hear that! Koii b relegion burra naii hota bas us relegion k logo k burry Acts ki wajjah se log whole religion ko hi judge krty Hain.....
@@sana3097she isn't wrong but she isn't right too because back of then she was muslim and these things aren't allowed in Muslim religion so her father wasn't wrong about that and also girls can't wear crop top or whatever these things still happens in Pakistan
Mine as well, even everything she said here coincidently matched mine, including phy abuse, clothes, unsociality, etc... I've never shared all these to anybody till date but now.
People should not confuse punishment with direct physical violence or in extreme cases sexual violence. Some parents ( not all ) are just toxic. But still I do not support what she is doing ,neither her stupid fashion, these are wrong example for any girl who may be coming from these kind of highly dysfunctional background.
@@anwargaming3267 I have been through these situations thats why I don't not support her way as it set wrong example for girls who come from very highly dysfunctional background.
You have to understand why she does that. She's said it here ki isse usko paisa milta hai. Uske rozi roti ka kam hai. Tum ya hum support kre na kre usko paisa milta rahega but uski wo abuse vali Baat bohot sahi hai
Success ke liy bht rasta hota hai koi asan chunta h or koi kathin jo paisa ke sath power b deta hai..agr jazba ho to insan bina paisa ke b IAS ban jata hai…apko ghr se naftrat thi its ok 70% tin age ki hoti h body expose kerne ke elawa or b talent ap talash ker sakti thi khud me..izzat or jillat uper wale ke hath me hai..
I'm absolutely amazed by the amount of wisdom this girl has! Lots of love and light! 💖💖 TRS doing an awesome job once again! 👏👏 Thanks to you, we are able to see an unadulterated version of people!❤❤
Urfi, I was a little opinionated about you but to grow up in an abusive atmosphere, I can relate with the challenges you grew up with. You are bold and continue to be what you are...❤❤❤❤❤
Childhood trauma can cause so many issues. Inonfidence, low personality and mental disorders. I also suffered abuse from my parents. They used to fight and pour their frustation on me. Beating/ threatening/ humiliating for silly reasons. Denying clothes for 6 years straight!! Desperate to be on tatters. So much so that neighbours wanted to donate their clothes. Father used to say you can never earn money if I die you will beg. Itna bhi difficult nhi hai yaar paise kamana jitna confidence gain karna difficult hai ye adult hoke samjha. Now i suffer from anxiety and curse him day and night. He is dead and i am happy that evil control is lost and gone forever from my life. I feel free like a bird. But i will always remember him for the bad memories he has given.
No doubt you are supergirl. More strength to you. Apne haq ke liye ladne ki takat boht kam logo mein hoti hai aur aap unhi mein se ho. Comment section dekh ke pata chalta humara samaj aur desh kyu baki duniya se piche hai. Anyway thanks Ranveer for calling her in your show.
Ranveer I am glad that you invited her Urfi and did this podcast because I analysed that you introduced her with herself you comforted her. She needed and deserve this.
You can to any extent to protect your family. If people are saying urfi doesn't have dressing sense. Who cares? .Urfi just carry on with your work. The world will say, but we don't have to hear.
When your child will look at her dress and how she show and when they will follow her like her ....just because she has traumatic past it doesn't mean you motivate her to go on wrong path ..at the very pls 🙏 do tell her to at least have normal life ..😤
Naah! I wont go as far to call her innocent. Innocebt are those girls that are getting influenced by her. Thinking that to leave the past behind and to feel confident one should do the extremes. Nudity, out right vulgarity is not innocence man. Sympathising is one thing.
It's a huge example of not valuing the child ,no motivation about the life in real , neglecting the importance of raising kid. Grateful to God to give me wisdom at young age & just not thinking of short skirts n dressing .comparing self to other in teenage . Sending more love to at least realise the worth of herself more than just physical appearance.
Mere sath v asa hota h 😶 unfortunately sabke dad ache nhi hote 😢 jo dad apni beti ko princess treatment dete h wo girls bht lucky he ❤😢 god's favourite ❤🥺
I have seen families where the father is addicted to alcohol and the kids suffer with everyday fights but they have not chosen a wrong path and wore unethical cloths and came out in public..this is just an excuse meaningless excuse that she is giving to justify her wrong doings
It's quite baffling to be that people are stuck at her dressing... It's about her trauma and her life .... People are disgusting....I am someone who has experienced extreme bloody domestic violence since childhood and even though what we went through is different but that intense feeling of hatred is constant and right now if anyone would hit me that person is getting it back ... People if you want to have kids please be nice to them Edit: you can say whatever the heck you want I don't care because fighting you guys in the comment section is a waste of time
Arrey bevkoof praaniyo. Past Parr tu believe karr Raha hai kyuki voh verbally khud itne badde social platform Parr bata rahi hai & jo voh ab present main karr rahi hai jo sach main haqeqatt - ussey tu parre hai.
Toh bhai ..rebel bnne k liye sb nange hijaye sadak or .....lakho log h jinhone aisa feel kia h iska mtlb ye nhi jo tumne kia ahi usko apne past se justify karo......
All my love and prayers for her. I somehow always had a feeling that she is not what she looks like! I'm not encouraging nudity offcourse,but there is always the other side of the story. I have all my prayers for this girl. She has a good heart 💜
Critics will be critics. People who are critics don't have anything better to do. People criticise you because they don't know yourstory. If you tell them your story . It is a short term empathy they criticise you more. If you want friends don't share your story. Believe me they will criticise you more and take advantage of you. Same mouth who criticise you soon will bless you and speak highly of you. Just be in control of yourself don't bother yourself with critics
The most painfull situation is the place and people where is your home and family actually you should feel save but you must think daily of run away from them the real shit
If Urfis life was broken but she doesn't have to ruin the society by wear such vulgar clothes you don't take your family revenge on the society. You hv to be strong and set a good example
Yaar parents kI toh galti kisi ko dikhti hi nahi. Jo bho ho sari galti baccho ki. Parents ko Asia mein God ka darja de diya. Uss jagah se pehle utarna chahiye. They are just normal human beings.
I think i can finally comprehend whats exactly happening with her. She grew up in an abusive, oppressive, highly conservative household. So, she is literally burning with anger and vengeance till date, thats why she is revolting against society and such people by wearing extremely revealing clothes. Its not like she like wearing such clothes, but its the anger, actually extreme anger that accumulated within her soul for years thats making her wear such clothes, she is protesting against all such extremely conservative people. Its not really her fault, its the fault of the environment she grew up in that made her like this.
I don't think you comprehend anything and also there is nothing oppressive in that kind of household. I am daughter as well if my hobby was to wear such sort of clothes and post them openly on social media even my father would show concerns.
@Roxane2749 I personally think that the household a person grows up in actually contributes to their character development. However, your POV is also quite relevant, considering the obscene clothes she wears but it's also her parents fault for making her life miserable. 🤔😇 Anyways, it's her life let her do whatever she wants, why bother ourselves lol 😆
@@mottotobehappy3334 Yes you are absolutely right sister/brother (sorry I don't know which one are you🤣) it was definitely her parents fault and why bother ourselves 😭😭 Thanks for making me realise it And my God you are such a sweetheart, I really loved your tone (it's just sooooo rareeeeeeee to find sweeties like you on the internet) really loved the way talk❤❤❤ May God bless you!!!! Bye sweetheart😁✌
My childhood was also traumatic,my father always cursed me n always created a drama at home, never allowed me to study, though I was capable of studying.
To some extinct her story is similar to mine . Only the difference is about mine story is about getting bright future , and ghar se bahar nikalna also i am a guy
A very candid, honest, true-to-self, endearing personality…one to admire, rather than condemn!
Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah . & *"Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful."* (Quran 35:53)
The best comment any one can share is a verse from quran!! Subhanallah ❤❤❤
And yet he throws 😂 people in hell but he is all merciful 😂. Yet he hated kafir and jews
❤❤❤
Sub han allah
This is the outcome when you suppress someone in the name of religion or culture.
There's so much pain in her voice..This is real Urfi..a very simple gitl next door who's cornered and abused and ignored.
Totally
I can feel her pain being raised in that kind of toxic environment .I couldn't concentrate in my study well and always in a kind of fear in the heart 💔 I can't explain how much depressed throughout my life now I'm 32 n mom of one kid I will never ever beat or use abusive words to my kid ...those people r so lucky who have loving and caring father 👨
Mee too😢
I have a very great loving and caring father... But except from other people I am not comfortable with my mother, she is good but toxic at another level too. 😭😭😭
I can understand
Me too
At least there is someone who talks about abuse from parents...We talked about abuse from male and etc but the actual abused we faced is from our own parents..You won Urfi and you will win more In Sha Allah.
But future mai aise kapde pahen kar vo lessaon kya dena chati hai
Chiii
Seriously.... please don't use this pure word inshallah for these people.... please know the meaning of this word first
@@RiyaSharma-fp3jy sirf ghurbat ki wajahse kr rahe hai paisy aur fame k liye bs jb dunya loser kehy toh insan kuch bny k liye kuch b kr jata hai
@@VaiShNav51casting couch nai hota Bollywood main? Ye sb actress achi hain
नंगे होने के सिवा दूसरे बहुत से तरीके हैं रिश्तेदारो के सामने खुद को साबित करने के
Wo tum kro
@@nidhisingh5392sahi bola ❤❤she is right girl urfi
Shi kha aapne bhaiya ji
Gyan Dena bahot asan h lekin jb baat khud pe aati h na to insan ko samjh nhi aata kya Krna h kya nhi jb aap logo ke liye bure bn jate to na to aap kitna bhi accha kr lo bure hi rhoge bs isne yhi socha ki ab accha krne ka koi fyda nhi h hum bure h bure hi shi🤞🏻🤞🏻
@AyushiMishra-d5u I think 💬🤔 she is totally right the fact is we are living in a conservative society which is not able to accept her thoughts 🤔💭
From now on i will not judge anyone, there are always two sides of a story. 🙏
glad mate
To tomne is k parents ki baat suni,ye ek tarfa baat hai jisme ye apna rebellious nature chupa kr parents ko ghalt Bata rahi hai.
Nangpna karke ye apne rishte daro ko kya prove karna chahati hai 😅 ips officer bnti ya koi esaa kaam krti jisse sabka muh band hota ,, par nanga hoke kya sabit kar liya ulta esi ladkiyo ko dekh ke ladko ka dimag kharab hota hai aur rape jese crime hote hai ,,
Then you should try to think about her parent's point of views
@@parsisimran4095 sahi kaha
I can totally relate to her.... these are the toxic people you cannot get rid of
Ye baat toh thik jab aapka bachpan aisa hota tab aise bhavnay hoti hai par aapka ego ahankar ko atmgyan badalne kosish kare ye problem muje dharti ke har insan ke sath hai uske roop alag honge par dusro dosh dene acha hum situation ke sath sangharsh kare
Aa jao aap bhii phir undergarments main apne ghar se bahar.
@@kunalgusain3124 Kahan mein bahar hi hoon apne ghar se kai salo se muje pata hai apna kaam kar hi raha hoon
Yes you mean your parents are toxic
@@kunalgusain3124 Damn this comment increased your charm by 100 percent ....Also make sure you say these stuffs to your significant(if you have any) other I bet she will fall for you even more ...
When I saw her in initial days I said she is acting out due to childhood trauma. Innerchild healing is what Ranveer should do next podcast. We all have so many wounded innerchildren ruling our life.
well spotted!
Exactly! You can clearly tell she has some intense childhood trauma
Exactly past and childhood trauma healing
Undoubtedly she is brutally honest 👍🏻 and much much better then any nepo kids
Don't compare her case with your casual punishment at home. I think her case is totally different. It is more about suppressing women right, personal choice etc. by religiously rude conservative family and to the extent a whole community! Hats off to this brave girl breaking all those stereotypes.
Right
I am a Muslim and Know my limits. 😒I can be a influencer being in Abaya and being Modest.
Her Family is not islamic at all. They are more like conservative family. Hitting children is Haram in Islam. Not at all allowed. Domestic Violence is sin in our religion. Yeh Islam ka mazak hi bana rahi hai eik tarah se ke Main Muslim hoon isiliye kerte the. Parents sirf 18 years(completed puberty) tak bache ko samjha sakte hain control bhi nahi ker sakte. Rishtedaar to Bol hi nahi aakte hain Apke mamlaat main. Kiunke Family ki privacy pehle aati hai. Jahan tak baat hai Chote kapron ki to Woh bilkul sahi nahi hai. Azaadi ke naam per Shorts pehnna Kiun sahi hai? Janwar bhi Kapron ke bagair hi rehte hain
@@mainsabeenhoon ye Hui na baat..❤
@@mainsabeenhoon that's upto you religions are to be followed only if you believe in it .......just like you know your limits she wanted to expand and break free of her limits
In my vicinity i don't know anyone who has her kind of responsibility even at the age of 30 something. She was taking care of all 5,6 people before she was 20! Respect and all the best. ❤
People are there who handled responsibility at the age of 13 itself.
@@Yaadein10she said "in my vicinity" for a reason
@@shahi7879 Vicinity is not required for giving or taking a reasons and responsibility
I totally relate to her....even my father was abusive...he left me and my mother...cheated on her and stayed away from us ...and is still the same...we have now finally separated from him...thankfully I now have the most qualified and loving husband ( IITian and a bureaucrat) and the most beautiful daughter. Even I underwent massive mental pain and scars because of all this....I did my own therapy through music , writing, spirituality and now I'm much better .
So nice
You can't be related to her you grow yourself positively...so do not compare yourself with such crass...i feel you are kinda inspirational personality than this drama from your story...
@@parsisimran4095 Urfi is a self made so stop comparing her with someone who has a husband who is IITian and a bureaucrat . No disrespect to this girl though . Both are inspiration overcoming their tragic past . It's you who need to grow up .
How did u heal yourself? Can u pls pls share?? I have been thru same recently married, want to have good future with husband, pls help
@@priyankasharma-xd7wh connect to God mam, that's the most powerful way and some art form too like music , literature etc. HAPPY HEALING 😊.
I can totally relate to her. Abuse just kills your soul completely. Be it girls or boys both get affected. My heart goes out for anyone who has ever suffered violence and abuse growing up. Stay strong ❤❤
Only Ranveer Bhaiya can understand some people's pain. Really, honestly, your face expression was supportive in that situation.❤🙏☺
Men uploading her photos on websites without consent is terrible!
I faced so many things too and i understand her this girl has a voice of her own she has a life to live
Sahi hai. Jiske sath Hota hai vohi Janta hai
@@gudiyakhan9942true
Its better to be born as an orphan to be have those type of parents 😢
Sahi kaha 😢☹️👍
I am literally in tears after reading your comment sister😢
Yes u r right😢
To be honest,I have been shocked! I never heard Urfi talking like this...This is real Urfi
She is still low on confidence, usse lagta hai ussme aisa kuch bhi khas nahi sirf uski body ke alawa. Sad, I hope she sees her true self one day.
Right 😢
Very true
hqi۔is jaisa Confidence nhi chahiye
Insaan har tarah ke emotions rakhta hai.. Lekin overall situation ko deal kaise karte ho ye matter karta hai.. Jyada judgement pass karne ki zarurat nahi..vaise ye khas kaun se alag seeng rakhte hein ye bhi batao..Tum aisa kya khas rakhte ho ye bhi explain karo
And I hope one day you will be sitting in the place where urfi Javed is sitting when you will do something that can be compared to one fourth of what she has achieved in her life
I m so glad you invited her. Kudos!
What are you love urfi cringe ?
@@Youcandoitjustgo try to understand her just for a moment bro ! there's always a reason why people become like this, trauma literally changes people. She is so brave that despite having traumatic childhood ,she decided to live and fight against everybody!
@@lonelyspirit3319o
@@Youcandoitjustgoif you walked in her shoes for a day we'll be seeing you on the news for sui... the next day
A happy childhood is very crucial. Even if there is no personal abuse, a toxic environment can also affect a child.
TBH I am not a fan of Urfi but though respect her alot.... But after this broadcast the respect for her grew more for me..
She is a pure soul...
Abey fan mere bhai kisi true "Influencer" ka hua karte hai na ki kisi bhii "Jholle-Chaap" ka !!
Respect yourself first , 😉 If you respect yourself , you will never develop respect for girl like her . Always she says against her father . But has anyone asked her father his side of story . Apne nangepun ko justify kerne ke liye ye aurat Kahani banati hai . 😅😅
@@moorkhonkojawab7118go and ask him for his story then and yeah adopt him and live with him, he'll serve you right
What a girl❤❤❤🧿🧿
Parents and family abuse hurts alot.....those people had spoiled this girl's life...
My mindset was totally changed for you dear after seeing this one .I don't know what others say about you but for me you are my ideal and you are the true guy yr you don't deserve hatred you deserve respect from everyone .I wholeheartedly respect you appreciate you .👍
Ajkal ke log girgit ki Tarah rang nahi opinion change karte he kese turant hi kisi se ghruna aur turant hi kisi ke favour kar sakte he
She is a brave girl, look at her eyes.....
Pakki baat?
Aankhein hi dekh raha hai na tu?
@@kunalgusain3124 😂
Haa public me nanga ghumne ke liye brave hona zaroori sorry besharam 😂😂
@@kunalgusain3124 comedy krna h to shi s hi kar men 🚮☕sala
U know it's very sad .... she is fighting with so many issues ... I wish she had better way to handle things .. PRAY AND WISH ....SHE HEALS FROM ALL TRAUMAS ... LEADS .BETTER AND PEACEFUL SUCCESSFUL LIFE.....
Hats off to her, she is survivor of serious crimes - cyber crime, child abuse, victim blaming, adult domestic and family conflict. Sending you a virtual hug girl, you are very brave.
Girl you rocked❤ i can totally relate to the toxic household upbringing since childhood i was an introvert moreover a lost kid i was so shy in front of everyone not a talkative one but it affected me more in my teenage n from the age of 17 to 20 i was just a traumatized n depressed girl overe everything either it is studies or family it takes me through a topper to dropper n left as a confused in life m career as well but this time I choose myself over Anything, at the end of the day it's just you❤
"It's not okay to normalise abuse " 🔥 >>>>>>
I heard her story few few years ago. She suffered a lots.
She is doing as she likes the way. But kidikp harm or nuksan or chori to maho kar rahi gai na. To unko khus rehene fo..god bless her ❤, from Nepal.
Villains are not born they are made by society
She gave a t8 slap to her father by how she have turned up now.
Salute to you Urfi! Love You!
God is definitely with you. Keep it up! ❤️💐
She is a brave girl ❤️
From start I never thought bad of her. She was a beautiful heart from the beginning
I don't understand how some people are still trolling her in the comments . You can just see how much pain she is in still now . I hope she gets all the love and respect and she is very much deserving of it . Please dont comment if you have nothing nice to say haters don't spread your gibberish in here
U clearly haven't seen her outfits u can't be sympathetic towards all that
@@hsd287 sometimes we need to consider the good side of people as well I believe she is good as a person why judge just by seeing her dresses
@@hsd287putfits are just clothes see the soul not body
Thank you ranverr for this show. At this young age you know somany things and have attain so much knowledge. God bless you.
Ye ladki is dress me sbse sundar lag rahi h 😢😢😢😢
Yes nice look
Hr cheez ko religion ky sath ni attach krty..as muslim hmen study ki job ki azzadi di gi.shadi ky decession ki azzadi dii gii..yhii azadi hotii ha r tu kuch ni meri bhin. Proud being a muslim❤❤
😂😂😂That's nothing but a joke
You are living in delusion miss
In my school bus 1 girl of class 3rd was wearing wollen leggings and full sleeves uniform in june ....she was muslim we were suffocating by hot weather wearing t shirt
@@AryanSingh-cm1dsclass 3rd Kuch Jada Kam hogaya...Uske parents strict , uneducated ho gay bhaii to is main humari kia galti hai
@@Itz_Ninii sahi bol rhi ho Maine tab se itni chhoti bacchi ko nhi dekha aur we have a very open minded and good muslim class teacher she is gone now but miss you ruqsar mam wish everyone was like her
@@AryanSingh-cm1ds good to hear that! Koii b relegion burra naii hota bas us relegion k logo k burry Acts ki wajjah se log whole religion ko hi judge krty Hain.....
Thanx for covering her story ❤
I literally cried while hearing this from you because this was exactly the same thing that happened with me too.
Same...And I haven't recovered yet...
@@sana3097she isn't wrong but she isn't right too because back of then she was muslim and these things aren't allowed in Muslim religion so her father wasn't wrong about that and also girls can't wear crop top or whatever these things still happens in Pakistan
Tujhe or maar paad nai ki jarurat hai 🤣🤣😂
Ye kasar tera pati pura karega😂🤣
@@satyajit2981shows ur upbringing
Mine as well, even everything she said here coincidently matched mine, including phy abuse, clothes, unsociality, etc... I've never shared all these to anybody till date but now.
People should not confuse punishment with direct physical violence or in extreme cases sexual violence. Some parents ( not all ) are just toxic. But still I do not support what she is doing ,neither her stupid fashion, these are wrong example for any girl who may be coming from these kind of highly dysfunctional background.
Jb tum is situation se guzrogi tb bolna mgr ha tareeka iska glt h
@@anwargaming3267 I have been through these situations thats why I don't not support her way as it set wrong example for girls who come from very highly dysfunctional background.
@@punyashloka4946 👍
You have to understand why she does that. She's said it here ki isse usko paisa milta hai. Uske rozi roti ka kam hai. Tum ya hum support kre na kre usko paisa milta rahega but uski wo abuse vali Baat bohot sahi hai
Do not defend parents by the words toxic
Success ke liy bht rasta hota hai koi asan chunta h or koi kathin jo paisa ke sath power b deta hai..agr jazba ho to insan bina paisa ke b IAS ban jata hai…apko ghr se naftrat thi its ok 70% tin age ki hoti h body expose kerne ke elawa or b talent ap talash ker sakti thi khud me..izzat or jillat uper wale ke hath me hai..
Insan ke nazron me gandagi hoti he " jism" me nahi zindagi ke raste bahut kathin he izzat se chal pana bahut hi mushkil he jab raste alag alag ho
लोगो को जो बोलना है, बोलने दो उरफ़ी, तुम्हारा दर्द सिर्फ तुम जनती हो,,,,, तुम वोही करो जो तुम्हे पसंद हो। तुम बोहोत बहादुर हो,,, god bless you.
Ha yaar 😢😢😢😢
मजबूरियों की भार इतनी हो जाती है कि....revenge ki feelings gayab ho jati......I felt that very hard💔
That point whe she say i feel sad to saw others outfit 😢 is heart touching
Me bhi bilkul aisi hi hun
Level of honesty 🎉 no one tells that much truth
I'm absolutely amazed by the amount of wisdom this girl has! Lots of love and light! 💖💖
TRS doing an awesome job once again! 👏👏 Thanks to you, we are able to see an unadulterated version of people!❤❤
Urfi, I was a little opinionated about you but to grow up in an abusive atmosphere, I can relate with the challenges you grew up with. You are bold and continue to be what you are...❤❤❤❤❤
Last mey jo hm alovera apply kr k so jaty hen oski wja sy rinkles ni ongy?
Childhood trauma can cause so many issues. Inonfidence, low personality and mental disorders. I also suffered abuse from my parents. They used to fight and pour their frustation on me. Beating/ threatening/ humiliating for silly reasons. Denying clothes for 6 years straight!! Desperate to be on tatters. So much so that neighbours wanted to donate their clothes. Father used to say you can never earn money if I die you will beg. Itna bhi difficult nhi hai yaar paise kamana jitna confidence gain karna difficult hai ye adult hoke samjha. Now i suffer from anxiety and curse him day and night. He is dead and i am happy that evil control is lost and gone forever from my life. I feel free like a bird. But i will always remember him for the bad memories he has given.
No doubt you are supergirl. More strength to you. Apne haq ke liye ladne ki takat boht kam logo mein hoti hai aur aap unhi mein se ho. Comment section dekh ke pata chalta humara samaj aur desh kyu baki duniya se piche hai. Anyway thanks Ranveer for calling her in your show.
Ranveer I am glad that you invited her Urfi and did this podcast because I analysed that you introduced her with herself you comforted her. She needed and deserve this.
Awww very cute when he said mujhe aapko gya dene hai
Mera bachha ❤❤ she suffered a lot ❤❤❤❤❤ I respect you from all my heart and soul
Are looduu
Us urfi...now whenever I will see you the word will be in my heart is respect.
Ulta hai, irfi apne anubhavon se bohot mature himmati hai, isliye wo bindass bani
We love you Urfi
Keep being you!
You can to any extent to protect your family. If people are saying urfi doesn't have dressing sense. Who cares? .Urfi just carry on with your work. The world will say, but we don't have to hear.
When your child will look at her dress and how she show and when they will follow her like her ....just because she has traumatic past it doesn't mean you motivate her to go on wrong path ..at the very pls 🙏 do tell her to at least have normal life ..😤
Sorry but world also have same thoughts like yours for ppl like her
URFI KA past tha or mera present hai mujhe pata hai ke kia feeling hoti hai
Apne liye stand lo maar mat khana
Ye sab to normal hai waise 😅😅
Same story h meri
Mere saath to har roj hota he jaise ki me adopted hu but i am not adopted. Maa baap ka dimag shi hona chaiye
@@Irfanm-x1w
Iske liye Bus stand kyu jaye??
She is innocent. This side of her was totally hidden . Thanks ranveer for showing her traumatic side
Naah! I wont go as far to call her innocent. Innocebt are those girls that are getting influenced by her. Thinking that to leave the past behind and to feel confident one should do the extremes. Nudity, out right vulgarity is not innocence man. Sympathising is one thing.
It's a huge example of not valuing the child ,no motivation about the life in real , neglecting the importance of raising kid. Grateful to God to give me wisdom at young age & just not thinking of short skirts n dressing .comparing self to other in teenage . Sending more love to at least realise the worth of herself more than just physical appearance.
She is a pure soul ❤
Sach me
Itni hi pure ha toh............
@@raviranjankumar2162 ravi ji thanks for keeping your thought to your self
@@sarthaknetke7686ha apni behen ko chain pehna de
Mere sath v asa hota h 😶 unfortunately sabke dad ache nhi hote 😢 jo dad apni beti ko princess treatment dete h wo girls bht lucky he ❤😢 god's favourite ❤🥺
Urfi... She's genius ❤ She a best costume designer ❤️❤️
Her talent is misdirected
I have seen families where the father is addicted to alcohol and the kids suffer with everyday fights but they have not chosen a wrong path and wore unethical cloths and came out in public..this is just an excuse meaningless excuse that she is giving to justify her wrong doings
It's quite baffling to be that people are stuck at her dressing... It's about her trauma and her life .... People are disgusting....I am someone who has experienced extreme bloody domestic violence since childhood and even though what we went through is different but that intense feeling of hatred is constant and right now if anyone would hit me that person is getting it back ... People if you want to have kids please be nice to them
Edit: you can say whatever the heck you want I don't care because fighting you guys in the comment section is a waste of time
Arrey bevkoof praaniyo.
Past Parr tu believe karr Raha hai kyuki voh verbally khud itne badde social platform Parr bata rahi hai & jo voh ab present main karr rahi hai jo sach main haqeqatt - ussey tu parre hai.
Haan to tu hi bata de wo kar rahi abhi present me logo ka murder karti fir rehi ha kya😒
Toh bhai ..rebel bnne k liye sb nange hijaye sadak or .....lakho log h jinhone aisa feel kia h iska mtlb ye nhi jo tumne kia ahi usko apne past se justify karo......
@@kunalgusain3124 true bhai...bc pagal hi hogye hai saare...bhai bilkul buddhi nhi bachi bc logo me..
Exactly!
All my love and prayers for her. I somehow always had a feeling that she is not what she looks like! I'm not encouraging nudity offcourse,but there is always the other side of the story. I have all my prayers for this girl. She has a good heart 💜
All are made up story. Lol all are made up story.
Critics will be critics. People who are critics don't have anything better to do. People criticise you because they don't know yourstory. If you tell them your story . It is a short term empathy they criticise you more.
If you want friends don't share your story. Believe me they will criticise you more and take advantage of you. Same mouth who criticise you soon will bless you and speak highly of you. Just be in control of yourself don't bother yourself with critics
*I always loved Urfi, because I know whatever she is doing has painful history*
Hmm😂
Her story is most of the Indian households' story.
Thats why she is getting fame
Urfi di ko phle se hi hum bahut pyaar krte hai❤
I always knew it.. Urfi, ur a pure soul... Relax girl... Deep breath... In and.. Slowly out... And damn the rest of the world...
Thank you so much sir aapne bohut motivate kiya😊
The most painfull situation is the place and people where is your home and family actually you should feel save but you must think daily of run away from them the real shit
She is extremely creative ❤need better opportunity in career !all the best girl, only advice dont show too much skin ❤
So many hate comments, someone is telling what she has been through, so please be gentle..otherwise get lost!!
Abey, dhonhi maximum "10 minutes" ka podcast dekh karr tu kaise samajh gaya ki voh genuine hai ya fake?
@@kunalgusain3124 I like to give benefit of doubt oftenly rather than assuming the worst..so keep your mouth shut!!
Trauma ka meaning pta he?@@kunalgusain3124
You're real n strong women ❤
How her father came to know about that her picture was uploaded in that site?
😂😂😂
There should be subject for parenting.. Really
If Urfis life was broken but she doesn't have to ruin the society by wear such vulgar clothes you don't take your family revenge on the society. You hv to be strong and set a good example
She needs help. Psychologically, financially..
May Allah give you hidayah and strength to leave all those dresses behind...
Dear Uorfy you are a rebelous person, keep it up, whatever you feel is right from your inner sole. Be happy❤
I understand your fillings ❤
Are yarr uorfi javed ki childhood story to meri childhood story se puri match ho gai
Ap kb ghoom rahi hain public ma kapre utaar k like urfi
I can relate ..she is right ..i had same feelings ki ghar se chli jau kahi
I was also face these now i m १९ i crack neet and that s my freedom now i am living my live freely
May Allah guide her the right path like sana khan.
Yaar parents kI toh galti kisi ko dikhti hi nahi. Jo bho ho sari galti baccho ki. Parents ko Asia mein God ka darja de diya. Uss jagah se pehle utarna chahiye. They are just normal human beings.
I support her ❤🎉
God bless u urfi ,mahadev protect u from negative souls ❤️
Ham sb aapke sath hai ❤
real person in and out
Urfi should watch motivation speech every daily ❤
I think i can finally comprehend whats exactly happening with her. She grew up in an abusive, oppressive, highly conservative household. So, she is literally burning with anger and vengeance till date, thats why she is revolting against society and such people by wearing extremely revealing clothes. Its not like she like wearing such clothes, but its the anger, actually extreme anger that accumulated within her soul for years thats making her wear such clothes, she is protesting against all such extremely conservative people. Its not really her fault, its the fault of the environment she grew up in that made her like this.
I don't think you comprehend anything and also there is nothing oppressive in that kind of household. I am daughter as well if my hobby was to wear such sort of clothes and post them openly on social media even my father would show concerns.
@Roxane2749 I personally think that the household a person grows up in actually contributes to their character development. However, your POV is also quite relevant, considering the obscene clothes she wears but it's also her parents fault for making her life miserable. 🤔😇 Anyways, it's her life let her do whatever she wants, why bother ourselves lol 😆
@@mottotobehappy3334 Yes you are absolutely right sister/brother (sorry I don't know which one are you🤣) it was definitely her parents fault and why bother ourselves 😭😭
Thanks for making me realise it
And my God you are such a sweetheart, I really loved your tone (it's just sooooo rareeeeeeee to find sweeties like you on the internet) really loved the way talk❤❤❤
May God bless you!!!! Bye sweetheart😁✌
@@roxanne2749 Awww💝 Feeling overwhelmed that you felt so 💛 Thank you so much for your kind words sunshine 🥰💞 Byeee ❤️
My childhood was also traumatic,my father always cursed me n always created a drama at home, never allowed me to study, though I was capable of studying.
She is ả straight forward women 8:15 ❤
Thank you for sharing your story Urfi
To some extinct her story is similar to mine . Only the difference is about mine story is about getting bright future , and ghar se bahar nikalna also i am a guy
Mera bhi esa hi haal hai but Meri story alag h..
Urfi aap jo bhi kar rahi ho vo sab apko axa lagna hahiye baki kisi ko lage ya na lage koe fark nahi love you my sisters ❤❤