My Broken Childhood Story - Uorfi Javed

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  • @robindey4031
    @robindey4031 Рік тому +136

    There's so much pain in her voice..This is real Urfi..a very simple gitl next door who's cornered and abused and ignored.

    • @SD-et6rh
      @SD-et6rh 5 місяців тому +1

      Totally

  • @himanshupatidar007
    @himanshupatidar007 Рік тому +1496

    From now on i will not judge anyone, there are always two sides of a story. 🙏

    • @GTBlack01
      @GTBlack01 Рік тому +16

      glad mate

    • @zubairshaikh5453
      @zubairshaikh5453 Рік тому +22

      To tomne is k parents ki baat suni,ye ek tarfa baat hai jisme ye apna rebellious nature chupa kr parents ko ghalt Bata rahi hai.

    • @Rana_ji_55
      @Rana_ji_55 Рік тому

      Nangpna karke ye apne rishte daro ko kya prove karna chahati hai 😅 ips officer bnti ya koi esaa kaam krti jisse sabka muh band hota ,, par nanga hoke kya sabit kar liya ulta esi ladkiyo ko dekh ke ladko ka dimag kharab hota hai aur rape jese crime hote hai ,,

    • @parsisimran4095
      @parsisimran4095 Рік тому +12

      Then you should try to think about her parent's point of views

    • @smshaikh5226
      @smshaikh5226 7 місяців тому +2

      @@parsisimran4095 sahi kaha

  • @swetashaw495
    @swetashaw495 Рік тому +492

    Undoubtedly she is brutally honest 👍🏻 and much much better then any nepo kids

  • @matrixmayaearthandwe6478
    @matrixmayaearthandwe6478 Рік тому +416

    When I saw her in initial days I said she is acting out due to childhood trauma. Innerchild healing is what Ranveer should do next podcast. We all have so many wounded innerchildren ruling our life.

    • @gaganajadhav8299
      @gaganajadhav8299 Рік тому +10

      well spotted!

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 Рік тому +14

      Exactly! You can clearly tell she has some intense childhood trauma

    • @vasusharma8336
      @vasusharma8336 Рік тому +6

      Exactly past and childhood trauma healing

  • @kainattali8718
    @kainattali8718 Рік тому +661

    At least there is someone who talks about abuse from parents...We talked about abuse from male and etc but the actual abused we faced is from our own parents..You won Urfi and you will win more In Sha Allah.

    • @RiyaSharma-fp3jy
      @RiyaSharma-fp3jy Рік тому +22

      But future mai aise kapde pahen kar vo lessaon kya dena chati hai

    • @naziya9089
      @naziya9089 10 місяців тому +8

      Chiii

    • @freyaafarooq9663
      @freyaafarooq9663 9 місяців тому +29

      Seriously.... please don't use this pure word inshallah for these people.... please know the meaning of this word first

    • @reviewofreality4997
      @reviewofreality4997 8 місяців тому

      ​@@RiyaSharma-fp3jy sirf ghurbat ki wajahse kr rahe hai paisy aur fame k liye bs jb dunya loser kehy toh insan kuch bny k liye kuch b kr jata hai

    • @reviewofreality4997
      @reviewofreality4997 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@VaiShNav51casting couch nai hota Bollywood main? Ye sb actress achi hain

  • @user-tq1mm8gh9e
    @user-tq1mm8gh9e Рік тому +266

    In my vicinity i don't know anyone who has her kind of responsibility even at the age of 30 something. She was taking care of all 5,6 people before she was 20! Respect and all the best. ❤

    • @Yaadein10
      @Yaadein10 Рік тому +2

      People are there who handled responsibility at the age of 13 itself.

    • @shahi7879
      @shahi7879 6 місяців тому +5

      ​@@Yaadein10she said "in my vicinity" for a reason

    • @Yaadein10
      @Yaadein10 6 місяців тому +1

      @@shahi7879 Vicinity is not required for giving or taking a reasons and responsibility

  • @imunstoppable7316
    @imunstoppable7316 Рік тому +321

    I can feel her pain being raised in that kind of toxic environment .I couldn't concentrate in my study well and always in a kind of fear in the heart 💔 I can't explain how much depressed throughout my life now I'm 32 n mom of one kid I will never ever beat or use abusive words to my kid ...those people r so lucky who have loving and caring father 👨

    • @saransha5937
      @saransha5937 Рік тому +7

      Mee too😢

    • @khushisingh7796
      @khushisingh7796 4 місяці тому +7

      I have a very great loving and caring father... But except from other people I am not comfortable with my mother, she is good but toxic at another level too. 😭😭😭

    • @adilupsc
      @adilupsc Місяць тому

      I can understand

  • @zabeehsaquib4857
    @zabeehsaquib4857 Рік тому +217

    Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah . & *"Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful."* (Quran 35:53)

    • @Tastiquekitchen
      @Tastiquekitchen 7 місяців тому +13

      The best comment any one can share is a verse from quran!! Subhanallah ❤❤❤

    • @sr7895
      @sr7895 6 місяців тому

      And yet he throws 😂 people in hell but he is all merciful 😂. Yet he hated kafir and jews

    • @aaisha_346
      @aaisha_346 4 місяці тому +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @Anzela-y9g
      @Anzela-y9g 4 місяці тому +1

      Sub han allah

    • @kapil4417037
      @kapil4417037 Місяць тому

      This is the outcome when you suppress someone in the name of religion or culture.

  • @joymascarenhas3491
    @joymascarenhas3491 8 місяців тому +42

    A very candid, honest, true-to-self, endearing personality…one to admire, rather than condemn!

  • @jayautsav3110
    @jayautsav3110 Рік тому +322

    I totally relate to her....even my father was abusive...he left me and my mother...cheated on her and stayed away from us ...and is still the same...we have now finally separated from him...thankfully I now have the most qualified and loving husband ( IITian and a bureaucrat) and the most beautiful daughter. Even I underwent massive mental pain and scars because of all this....I did my own therapy through music , writing, spirituality and now I'm much better .

    • @gagneet2199
      @gagneet2199 Рік тому +5

      So nice

    • @parsisimran4095
      @parsisimran4095 Рік тому +9

      You can't be related to her you grow yourself positively...so do not compare yourself with such crass...i feel you are kinda inspirational personality than this drama from your story...

    • @Mira-pm3ni
      @Mira-pm3ni 11 місяців тому +19

      ​@@parsisimran4095 Urfi is a self made so stop comparing her with someone who has a husband who is IITian and a bureaucrat . No disrespect to this girl though . Both are inspiration overcoming their tragic past . It's you who need to grow up .

    • @priyankasharma-xd7wh
      @priyankasharma-xd7wh 10 місяців тому +3

      How did u heal yourself? Can u pls pls share?? I have been thru same recently married, want to have good future with husband, pls help

    • @jayautsav3110
      @jayautsav3110 9 місяців тому +3

      @@priyankasharma-xd7wh connect to God mam, that's the most powerful way and some art form too like music , literature etc. HAPPY HEALING 😊.

  • @geetumalik1
    @geetumalik1 Рік тому +1699

    She is still low on confidence, usse lagta hai ussme aisa kuch bhi khas nahi sirf uski body ke alawa. Sad, I hope she sees her true self one day.

    • @Aizakhan-e1b
      @Aizakhan-e1b Рік тому +23

      Right 😢

    • @jeanettedias64
      @jeanettedias64 Рік тому +16

      Very true

    • @maryamfatima8608
      @maryamfatima8608 Рік тому +5

      hqi۔is jaisa Confidence nhi chahiye

    • @pratyangiraomasang369
      @pratyangiraomasang369 Рік тому +22

      Insaan har tarah ke emotions rakhta hai.. Lekin overall situation ko deal kaise karte ho ye matter karta hai.. Jyada judgement pass karne ki zarurat nahi..vaise ye khas kaun se alag seeng rakhte hein ye bhi batao..Tum aisa kya khas rakhte ho ye bhi explain karo

    • @AvilashSharma-x5c
      @AvilashSharma-x5c Рік тому +13

      And I hope one day you will be sitting in the place where urfi Javed is sitting when you will do something that can be compared to one fourth of what she has achieved in her life

  • @poshhakhbyaakansha2890
    @poshhakhbyaakansha2890 Рік тому +487

    I can totally relate to her.... these are the toxic people you cannot get rid of

    • @economicsadda7376
      @economicsadda7376 Рік тому +3

      Ye baat toh thik jab aapka bachpan aisa hota tab aise bhavnay hoti hai par aapka ego ahankar ko atmgyan badalne kosish kare ye problem muje dharti ke har insan ke sath hai uske roop alag honge par dusro dosh dene acha hum situation ke sath sangharsh kare

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 Рік тому +3

      Aa jao aap bhii phir undergarments main apne ghar se bahar.

    • @economicsadda7376
      @economicsadda7376 Рік тому +3

      @@kunalgusain3124 Kahan mein bahar hi hoon apne ghar se kai salo se muje pata hai apna kaam kar hi raha hoon

    • @kungfu8154
      @kungfu8154 Рік тому

      Yes you mean your parents are toxic

    • @lemon9171
      @lemon9171 Рік тому +3

      @@kunalgusain3124 Damn this comment increased your charm by 100 percent ....Also make sure you say these stuffs to your significant(if you have any) other I bet she will fall for you even more ...

  • @namastescience_India
    @namastescience_India Рік тому +823

    Don't compare her case with your casual punishment at home. I think her case is totally different. It is more about suppressing women right, personal choice etc. by religiously rude conservative family and to the extent a whole community! Hats off to this brave girl breaking all those stereotypes.

    • @SANIYABISHT9
      @SANIYABISHT9 Рік тому +8

      Right

    • @sabeeen_01
      @sabeeen_01 Рік тому +48

      I am a Muslim and Know my limits. 😒I can be a influencer being in Abaya and being Modest.

    • @sabeeen_01
      @sabeeen_01 Рік тому

      Her Family is not islamic at all. They are more like conservative family. Hitting children is Haram in Islam. Not at all allowed. Domestic Violence is sin in our religion. Yeh Islam ka mazak hi bana rahi hai eik tarah se ke Main Muslim hoon isiliye kerte the. Parents sirf 18 years(completed puberty) tak bache ko samjha sakte hain control bhi nahi ker sakte. Rishtedaar to Bol hi nahi aakte hain Apke mamlaat main. Kiunke Family ki privacy pehle aati hai. Jahan tak baat hai Chote kapron ki to Woh bilkul sahi nahi hai. Azaadi ke naam per Shorts pehnna Kiun sahi hai? Janwar bhi Kapron ke bagair hi rehte hain

    • @syedahum4973
      @syedahum4973 Рік тому +11

      ​@@sabeeen_01 ye Hui na baat..❤

    • @Starlight-lf2ck
      @Starlight-lf2ck Рік тому +17

      ​@@sabeeen_01 that's upto you religions are to be followed only if you believe in it .......just like you know your limits she wanted to expand and break free of her limits

  • @rezuparvin-p5s
    @rezuparvin-p5s 9 місяців тому +19

    To be honest,I have been shocked! I never heard Urfi talking like this...This is real Urfi

  • @shibubiswas2152
    @shibubiswas2152 Рік тому +497

    Only Ranveer Bhaiya can understand some people's pain. Really, honestly, your face expression was supportive in that situation.❤🙏☺

  • @goddessvibes08
    @goddessvibes08 8 місяців тому +23

    Men uploading her photos on websites without consent is terrible!

  • @sumanpriyadarshini1354
    @sumanpriyadarshini1354 Рік тому +257

    Its better to be born as an orphan to be have those type of parents 😢

  • @rehansaiyad9305
    @rehansaiyad9305 4 місяці тому +7

    नंगे होने के सिवा दूसरे बहुत से तरीके हैं रिश्तेदारो के सामने खुद को साबित करने के

  • @khekarichard9249
    @khekarichard9249 Рік тому +45

    I faced so many things too and i understand her this girl has a voice of her own she has a life to live

  • @djshikha
    @djshikha Рік тому +169

    I m so glad you invited her. Kudos!

    • @Youcandoitjustgo
      @Youcandoitjustgo Рік тому +1

      What are you love urfi cringe ?

    • @lonelyspirit3319
      @lonelyspirit3319 Рік тому +17

      ​@@Youcandoitjustgo try to understand her just for a moment bro ! there's always a reason why people become like this, trauma literally changes people. She is so brave that despite having traumatic childhood ,she decided to live and fight against everybody!

    • @lizatripathy6333
      @lizatripathy6333 Рік тому

      ​@@lonelyspirit3319o

    • @shahi7879
      @shahi7879 6 місяців тому

      ​@@Youcandoitjustgoif you walked in her shoes for a day we'll be seeing you on the news for sui... the next day

  • @A.s.tutorials-k3g
    @A.s.tutorials-k3g 2 місяці тому +16

    Parents and family abuse hurts alot.....those people had spoiled this girl's life...

  • @Hopefulnomads
    @Hopefulnomads 9 місяців тому +83

    I can totally relate to her. Abuse just kills your soul completely. Be it girls or boys both get affected. My heart goes out for anyone who has ever suffered violence and abuse growing up. Stay strong ❤❤

  • @kalashkumarithakur7202
    @kalashkumarithakur7202 Рік тому +118

    TBH I am not a fan of Urfi but though respect her alot.... But after this broadcast the respect for her grew more for me..
    She is a pure soul...

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 Рік тому +2

      Abey fan mere bhai kisi true "Influencer" ka hua karte hai na ki kisi bhii "Jholle-Chaap" ka !!

    • @moorkhonkojawab7118
      @moorkhonkojawab7118 Рік тому +3

      Respect yourself first , 😉 If you respect yourself , you will never develop respect for girl like her . Always she says against her father . But has anyone asked her father his side of story . Apne nangepun ko justify kerne ke liye ye aurat Kahani banati hai . 😅😅

    • @shahi7879
      @shahi7879 6 місяців тому

      ​@@moorkhonkojawab7118go and ask him for his story then and yeah adopt him and live with him, he'll serve you right

  • @lexi_2021
    @lexi_2021 2 місяці тому +11

    A happy childhood is very crucial. Even if there is no personal abuse, a toxic environment can also affect a child.

  • @yashbhardwaj1801
    @yashbhardwaj1801 Рік тому +91

    She is a brave girl, look at her eyes.....

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 Рік тому +7

      Pakki baat?
      Aankhein hi dekh raha hai na tu?

    • @geetsingh5716
      @geetsingh5716 Рік тому +1

      ​@@kunalgusain3124 😂

    • @HindiKahaniTV69
      @HindiKahaniTV69 Рік тому

      Haa public me nanga ghumne ke liye brave hona zaroori sorry besharam 😂😂

    • @lakshmiuikey22926
      @lakshmiuikey22926 Рік тому

      ​@@kunalgusain3124 comedy krna h to shi s hi kar men 🚮☕sala

  • @suhaniagarwal6549
    @suhaniagarwal6549 Рік тому +34

    She is a brave girl ❤️

  • @rajput40891
    @rajput40891 Рік тому +119

    My mindset was totally changed for you dear after seeing this one .I don't know what others say about you but for me you are my ideal and you are the true guy yr you don't deserve hatred you deserve respect from everyone .I wholeheartedly respect you appreciate you .👍

    • @parsisimran4095
      @parsisimran4095 Рік тому +2

      Ajkal ke log girgit ki Tarah rang nahi opinion change karte he kese turant hi kisi se ghruna aur turant hi kisi ke favour kar sakte he

  • @sanobershaheen9485
    @sanobershaheen9485 8 місяців тому +11

    Success ke liy bht rasta hota hai koi asan chunta h or koi kathin jo paisa ke sath power b deta hai..agr jazba ho to insan bina paisa ke b IAS ban jata hai…apko ghr se naftrat thi its ok 70% tin age ki hoti h body expose kerne ke elawa or b talent ap talash ker sakti thi khud me..izzat or jillat uper wale ke hath me hai..

    • @ShamaKhan-r6j
      @ShamaKhan-r6j 2 місяці тому

      Insan ke nazron me gandagi hoti he " jism" me nahi zindagi ke raste bahut kathin he izzat se chal pana bahut hi mushkil he jab raste alag alag ho

  • @Shalusingh_101
    @Shalusingh_101 4 місяці тому +16

    मजबूरियों की भार इतनी हो जाती है कि....revenge ki feelings gayab ho jati......I felt that very hard💔

  • @sumeetjammu6984
    @sumeetjammu6984 Рік тому +24

    Hats off to her, she is survivor of serious crimes - cyber crime, child abuse, victim blaming, adult domestic and family conflict. Sending you a virtual hug girl, you are very brave.

  • @pdpriya-e8h
    @pdpriya-e8h 7 місяців тому +57

    Bandi ko bolna bohot tha pr bol nhi payi

  • @Angelica83948
    @Angelica83948 Рік тому +136

    She gave a t8 slap to her father by how she have turned up now.
    Salute to you Urfi! Love You!
    God is definitely with you. Keep it up! ❤️💐

  • @goodthoughts4139
    @goodthoughts4139 Рік тому +28

    From start I never thought bad of her. She was a beautiful heart from the beginning

  • @Ashes_to_Phoenix
    @Ashes_to_Phoenix Рік тому +57

    "It's not okay to normalise abuse " 🔥 >>>>>>

  • @shivangidutta1914
    @shivangidutta1914 8 місяців тому +21

    I don't understand how some people are still trolling her in the comments . You can just see how much pain she is in still now . I hope she gets all the love and respect and she is very much deserving of it . Please dont comment if you have nothing nice to say haters don't spread your gibberish in here

    • @hsd287
      @hsd287 7 місяців тому +3

      U clearly haven't seen her outfits u can't be sympathetic towards all that

    • @shivangidutta1914
      @shivangidutta1914 7 місяців тому +4

      @@hsd287 sometimes we need to consider the good side of people as well I believe she is good as a person why judge just by seeing her dresses

    • @Clam782
      @Clam782 3 місяці тому

      ​@@hsd287putfits are just clothes see the soul not body

  • @user-ld8nr9ju2c
    @user-ld8nr9ju2c 6 місяців тому +47

    Ye ladki is dress me sbse sundar lag rahi h 😢😢😢😢

  • @fuzzyfuzzy8105
    @fuzzyfuzzy8105 6 місяців тому +13

    Ulta hai, irfi apne anubhavon se bohot mature himmati hai, isliye wo bindass bani
    We love you Urfi
    Keep being you!

  • @PrabhjotkaurDhaliwal-d8s
    @PrabhjotkaurDhaliwal-d8s 4 місяці тому +7

    Villains are not born they are made by society

  • @kumudinijayaram7821
    @kumudinijayaram7821 Рік тому +8

    U know it's very sad .... she is fighting with so many issues ... I wish she had better way to handle things .. PRAY AND WISH ....SHE HEALS FROM ALL TRAUMAS ... LEADS .BETTER AND PEACEFUL SUCCESSFUL LIFE.....

  • @skylinecreations.1634
    @skylinecreations.1634 Рік тому +26

    You can to any extent to protect your family. If people are saying urfi doesn't have dressing sense. Who cares? .Urfi just carry on with your work. The world will say, but we don't have to hear.

    • @aditytiwari3876
      @aditytiwari3876 Рік тому +3

      When your child will look at her dress and how she show and when they will follow her like her ....just because she has traumatic past it doesn't mean you motivate her to go on wrong path ..at the very pls 🙏 do tell her to at least have normal life ..😤

    • @parsisimran4095
      @parsisimran4095 Рік тому

      Sorry but world also have same thoughts like yours for ppl like her

  • @_supriyaapaathak
    @_supriyaapaathak 8 місяців тому +5

    What a girl❤❤❤🧿🧿

  • @Bebetheloveofmylife
    @Bebetheloveofmylife Рік тому +21

    *I always loved Urfi, because I know whatever she is doing has painful history*

  • @Bluefav-c3p
    @Bluefav-c3p 2 місяці тому +5

    लोगो को जो बोलना है, बोलने दो उरफ़ी, तुम्हारा दर्द सिर्फ तुम जनती हो,,,,, तुम वोही करो जो तुम्हे पसंद हो। तुम बोहोत बहादुर हो,,, god bless you.

  • @itsjustme_meeni
    @itsjustme_meeni Рік тому +33

    Thanx for covering her story ❤

  • @abhilashasharma4476
    @abhilashasharma4476 Рік тому +48

    Mera bachha ❤❤ she suffered a lot ❤❤❤❤❤ I respect you from all my heart and soul

  • @zainabzara35
    @zainabzara35 4 місяці тому +99

    URFI KA past tha or mera present hai mujhe pata hai ke kia feeling hoti hai

    • @Irfanm-x1w
      @Irfanm-x1w 3 місяці тому +6

      Apne liye stand lo maar mat khana

    • @harshagrawal681
      @harshagrawal681 2 місяці тому +1

      Ye sab to normal hai waise 😅😅

    • @Ishan.isachdeva
      @Ishan.isachdeva 2 місяці тому +1

      Same story h meri

    • @khanbro6455
      @khanbro6455 2 місяці тому +2

      Mere saath to har roj hota he jaise ki me adopted hu but i am not adopted. Maa baap ka dimag shi hona chaiye

    • @khanbro6455
      @khanbro6455 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Irfanm-x1w
      Iske liye Bus stand kyu jaye??

  • @kukee4715
    @kukee4715 Рік тому +68

    I literally cried while hearing this from you because this was exactly the same thing that happened with me too.

    • @sana3097
      @sana3097 Рік тому +9

      Same...And I haven't recovered yet...

    • @ASMRforyou989
      @ASMRforyou989 Рік тому

      ​@@sana3097she isn't wrong but she isn't right too because back of then she was muslim and these things aren't allowed in Muslim religion so her father wasn't wrong about that and also girls can't wear crop top or whatever these things still happens in Pakistan

    • @satyajit2981
      @satyajit2981 Рік тому

      Tujhe or maar paad nai ki jarurat hai 🤣🤣😂
      Ye kasar tera pati pura karega😂🤣

    • @ishi9649
      @ishi9649 10 місяців тому

      ​@@satyajit2981shows ur upbringing

    • @kyakyrah
      @kyakyrah 10 місяців тому

      Mine as well, even everything she said here coincidently matched mine, including phy abuse, clothes, unsociality, etc... I've never shared all these to anybody till date but now.

  • @kratikasingh-654
    @kratikasingh-654 2 дні тому

    She did a great job! And now she is taking revenge on her enemies so called family! Go girl. We are with you 👏👏

  • @ayeshavlog442
    @ayeshavlog442 Рік тому +43

    Hr cheez ko religion ky sath ni attach krty..as muslim hmen study ki job ki azzadi di gi.shadi ky decession ki azzadi dii gii..yhii azadi hotii ha r tu kuch ni meri bhin. Proud being a muslim❤❤

    • @beautyofthenature1483
      @beautyofthenature1483 Рік тому +10

      😂😂😂That's nothing but a joke

    • @AryanSingh-cm1ds
      @AryanSingh-cm1ds 9 місяців тому +9

      You are living in delusion miss
      In my school bus 1 girl of class 3rd was wearing wollen leggings and full sleeves uniform in june ....she was muslim we were suffocating by hot weather wearing t shirt

    • @Itz_Ninii
      @Itz_Ninii 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@AryanSingh-cm1dsclass 3rd Kuch Jada Kam hogaya...Uske parents strict , uneducated ho gay bhaii to is main humari kia galti hai

    • @AryanSingh-cm1ds
      @AryanSingh-cm1ds 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Itz_Ninii sahi bol rhi ho Maine tab se itni chhoti bacchi ko nhi dekha aur we have a very open minded and good muslim class teacher she is gone now but miss you ruqsar mam wish everyone was like her

    • @Itz_Ninii
      @Itz_Ninii 6 місяців тому

      @@AryanSingh-cm1ds good to hear that! Koii b relegion burra naii hota bas us relegion k logo k burry Acts ki wajjah se log whole religion ko hi judge krty Hain.....

  • @saritamanandhar2967
    @saritamanandhar2967 9 місяців тому +2

    I heard her story few few years ago. She suffered a lots.
    She is doing as she likes the way. But kidikp harm or nuksan or chori to maho kar rahi gai na. To unko khus rehene fo..god bless her ❤, from Nepal.

  • @sidharthawaghade8059
    @sidharthawaghade8059 Рік тому +56

    She is innocent. This side of her was totally hidden . Thanks ranveer for showing her traumatic side

    • @kyliek8414
      @kyliek8414 3 місяці тому

      Naah! I wont go as far to call her innocent. Innocebt are those girls that are getting influenced by her. Thinking that to leave the past behind and to feel confident one should do the extremes. Nudity, out right vulgarity is not innocence man. Sympathising is one thing.

  • @punyashloka4946
    @punyashloka4946 Рік тому +98

    People should not confuse punishment with direct physical violence or in extreme cases sexual violence. Some parents ( not all ) are just toxic. But still I do not support what she is doing ,neither her stupid fashion, these are wrong example for any girl who may be coming from these kind of highly dysfunctional background.

    • @anwargaming3267
      @anwargaming3267 Рік тому +9

      Jb tum is situation se guzrogi tb bolna mgr ha tareeka iska glt h

    • @punyashloka4946
      @punyashloka4946 Рік тому +11

      @@anwargaming3267 I have been through these situations thats why I don't not support her way as it set wrong example for girls who come from very highly dysfunctional background.

    • @anwargaming3267
      @anwargaming3267 Рік тому +1

      @@punyashloka4946 👍

    • @kdjoshi726
      @kdjoshi726 Рік тому +7

      You have to understand why she does that. She's said it here ki isse usko paisa milta hai. Uske rozi roti ka kam hai. Tum ya hum support kre na kre usko paisa milta rahega but uski wo abuse vali Baat bohot sahi hai

    • @abhilashasharma4476
      @abhilashasharma4476 Рік тому +1

      Do not defend parents by the words toxic

  • @yuktapalekar
    @yuktapalekar Рік тому +49

    She is a pure soul ❤

  • @Skurollet
    @Skurollet Рік тому +22

    Her story is most of the Indian households' story.

    • @Clam782
      @Clam782 3 місяці тому

      Thats why she is getting fame

  • @agnosticatheist4093
    @agnosticatheist4093 Рік тому +31

    No doubt you are supergirl. More strength to you. Apne haq ke liye ladne ki takat boht kam logo mein hoti hai aur aap unhi mein se ho. Comment section dekh ke pata chalta humara samaj aur desh kyu baki duniya se piche hai. Anyway thanks Ranveer for calling her in your show.

  • @roopamp8304
    @roopamp8304 2 місяці тому +1

    Urfi, I was a little opinionated about you but to grow up in an abusive atmosphere, I can relate with the challenges you grew up with. You are bold and continue to be what you are...❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ishratjahan6897
    @ishratjahan6897 11 днів тому +5

    Yaar parents kI toh galti kisi ko dikhti hi nahi. Jo bho ho sari galti baccho ki. Parents ko Asia mein God ka darja de diya. Uss jagah se pehle utarna chahiye. They are just normal human beings.

  • @TasneemLakdawala-
    @TasneemLakdawala- Місяць тому

    She is most honest girl i have. Ever seen

  • @Priyal611
    @Priyal611 Рік тому +5

    I was also face these now i m १९ i crack neet and that s my freedom now i am living my live freely

  • @Sushit-c2c
    @Sushit-c2c Рік тому +12

    Are yarr uorfi javed ki childhood story to meri childhood story se puri match ho gai

    • @csdstar5819
      @csdstar5819 Рік тому +1

      Ap kb ghoom rahi hain public ma kapre utaar k like urfi

  • @dr.madihaarifshealthdiary676
    @dr.madihaarifshealthdiary676 7 місяців тому +7

    All my love and prayers for her. I somehow always had a feeling that she is not what she looks like! I'm not encouraging nudity offcourse,but there is always the other side of the story. I have all my prayers for this girl. She has a good heart 💜

    • @khanbro6455
      @khanbro6455 2 місяці тому

      All are made up story. Lol all are made up story.

  • @ROMLEXA
    @ROMLEXA 3 місяці тому +2

    Ranveer I am glad that you invited her Urfi and did this podcast because I analysed that you introduced her with herself you comforted her. She needed and deserve this.

  • @Dddddddd974
    @Dddddddd974 Рік тому +4

    Urfi di ko phle se hi hum bahut pyaar krte hai❤

  • @najreenbegam8205
    @najreenbegam8205 2 місяці тому +1

    हर गलत उठाने वाले की बस यही कहानी मुझे किसी ने वक्त पर समझा नहीं,मतलब तुम्हें गलत करने से रोकना ही उनकी सबसे बड़ी ग़लती थी और तुम तो कभी ग़लत थे ही नहीं बस अपनी जिंदगी खुलकर जीना चाहते थे

  • @Azeemshaks
    @Azeemshaks 9 місяців тому +5

    Us urfi...now whenever I will see you the word will be in my heart is respect.

  • @steavew427
    @steavew427 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you ranverr for this show. At this young age you know somany things and have attain so much knowledge. God bless you.

  • @kaifjamal379
    @kaifjamal379 Рік тому +11

    May Allah give you hidayah and strength to leave all those dresses behind...

  • @BhawnaBeniwal-f3d
    @BhawnaBeniwal-f3d 6 місяців тому +2

    Awww very cute when he said mujhe aapko gya dene hai

  • @toralmehta543
    @toralmehta543 6 місяців тому +6

    Critics will be critics. People who are critics don't have anything better to do. People criticise you because they don't know yourstory. If you tell them your story . It is a short term empathy they criticise you more.
    If you want friends don't share your story. Believe me they will criticise you more and take advantage of you. Same mouth who criticise you soon will bless you and speak highly of you. Just be in control of yourself don't bother yourself with critics

  • @sudhasharma143Sudha
    @sudhasharma143Sudha 17 днів тому

    Ham sb aapke sath hai ❤

  • @soni_hitansh
    @soni_hitansh Рік тому +20

    That point whe she say i feel sad to saw others outfit 😢 is heart touching

    • @Zoombie321
      @Zoombie321 Рік тому +2

      Me bhi bilkul aisi hi hun

  • @Moumita-w5c
    @Moumita-w5c 2 місяці тому +2

    Mere sath v asa hota h 😶 unfortunately sabke dad ache nhi hote 😢 jo dad apni beti ko princess treatment dete h wo girls bht lucky he ❤😢 god's favourite ❤🥺

  • @ambitiousqueen4025
    @ambitiousqueen4025 Рік тому +26

    So many hate comments, someone is telling what she has been through, so please be gentle..otherwise get lost!!

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 Рік тому +2

      Abey, dhonhi maximum "10 minutes" ka podcast dekh karr tu kaise samajh gaya ki voh genuine hai ya fake?

    • @ambitiousqueen4025
      @ambitiousqueen4025 Рік тому

      @@kunalgusain3124 I like to give benefit of doubt oftenly rather than assuming the worst..so keep your mouth shut!!

    • @Cassidiaaa
      @Cassidiaaa 2 місяці тому

      Trauma ka meaning pta he?​@@kunalgusain3124

  • @ShivaniPandit-mi2en
    @ShivaniPandit-mi2en 2 місяці тому +1

    Tabhi khte h bacche ko pyar se handle kre maar kar nahi,nahi to wo hath se nikal jata h
    Urfi is better example of this...

  • @saritasarita1736
    @saritasarita1736 6 місяців тому +3

    Childhood trauma can cause so many issues. Inonfidence, low personality and mental disorders. I also suffered abuse from my parents. They used to fight and pour their frustation on me. Beating/ threatening/ humiliating for silly reasons. Denying clothes for 6 years straight!! Desperate to be on tatters. So much so that neighbours wanted to donate their clothes. Father used to say you can never earn money if I die you will beg. Itna bhi difficult nhi hai yaar paise kamana jitna confidence gain karna difficult hai ye adult hoke samjha. Now i suffer from anxiety and curse him day and night. He is dead and i am happy that evil control is lost and gone forever from my life. I feel free like a bird. But i will always remember him for the bad memories he has given.

  • @munibamazari3809
    @munibamazari3809 8 місяців тому +2

    May Allah guide her the right path like sana khan.

  • @shamanashaik6509
    @shamanashaik6509 Рік тому +14

    I have seen families where the father is addicted to alcohol and the kids suffer with everyday fights but they have not chosen a wrong path and wore unethical cloths and came out in public..this is just an excuse meaningless excuse that she is giving to justify her wrong doings

  • @riyadaxine297
    @riyadaxine297 Рік тому +7

    You are right in your place urfi and no one has the right to comment on your character 🫶

  • @prashantkumar-gw6en
    @prashantkumar-gw6en Рік тому +14

    Urfi ne kafi correct jawab diya👍👍good

  • @drjunior3753
    @drjunior3753 Місяць тому +2

    Revenge ki aag mai khud ko tabah kiya😂😂

  • @lemon9171
    @lemon9171 Рік тому +80

    It's quite baffling to be that people are stuck at her dressing... It's about her trauma and her life .... People are disgusting....I am someone who has experienced extreme bloody domestic violence since childhood and even though what we went through is different but that intense feeling of hatred is constant and right now if anyone would hit me that person is getting it back ... People if you want to have kids please be nice to them
    Edit: you can say whatever the heck you want I don't care because fighting you guys in the comment section is a waste of time

    • @kunalgusain3124
      @kunalgusain3124 Рік тому +1

      Arrey bevkoof praaniyo.
      Past Parr tu believe karr Raha hai kyuki voh verbally khud itne badde social platform Parr bata rahi hai & jo voh ab present main karr rahi hai jo sach main haqeqatt - ussey tu parre hai.

    • @KajalMalik-o7o
      @KajalMalik-o7o Рік тому

      Haan to tu hi bata de wo kar rahi abhi present me logo ka murder karti fir rehi ha kya😒

    • @harshsaraswat6254
      @harshsaraswat6254 Рік тому +2

      Toh bhai ..rebel bnne k liye sb nange hijaye sadak or .....lakho log h jinhone aisa feel kia h iska mtlb ye nhi jo tumne kia ahi usko apne past se justify karo......

    • @harshsaraswat6254
      @harshsaraswat6254 Рік тому

      ​@@kunalgusain3124 true bhai...bc pagal hi hogye hai saare...bhai bilkul buddhi nhi bachi bc logo me..

    • @kdjoshi726
      @kdjoshi726 Рік тому

      Exactly!

  • @anushreegupta3398
    @anushreegupta3398 Місяць тому +1

    Same story of a girl in movie secret superstar 😢😢❤❤❤

  • @sofielensy
    @sofielensy 8 місяців тому +3

    The most painfull situation is the place and people where is your home and family actually you should feel save but you must think daily of run away from them the real shit

  • @shakha_singh
    @shakha_singh Рік тому +21

    Really she is pure soul

    • @Youcandoitjustgo
      @Youcandoitjustgo Рік тому +3

      Wow kuch bhi uska kapda dekho pehle.

    • @vasudev7872
      @vasudev7872 Рік тому +2

      @@Youcandoitjustgo Arre bhai ye sab paid or fake comments h 😁😁

    • @hiraushan
      @hiraushan Рік тому +1

      ​@@vasudev7872 whi toh 😂

    • @Youcandoitjustgo
      @Youcandoitjustgo Рік тому

      @Aniket Shaw acha bhai jyada gyan mat de samjha duniya ko pata hai yeh kitni ghatiya aurat hai abhe short dress or bahut short dress mein padak hota hai

    • @Youcandoitjustgo
      @Youcandoitjustgo Рік тому +1

      @Aniket Shaw acha toh ek kaam kar apni maa aur behen ko bhi iske jaise kapde pehnayega bhol na sun bhai logic se baat kar yeh paltu gyan mat diya kar aur bhol pehnayega apni maa aur behen ko aise kapde sach bhol?

  • @11_being
    @11_being Рік тому +8

    real person in and out

  • @anushree3209
    @anushree3209 5 місяців тому +1

    It's a huge example of not valuing the child ,no motivation about the life in real , neglecting the importance of raising kid. Grateful to God to give me wisdom at young age & just not thinking of short skirts n dressing .comparing self to other in teenage . Sending more love to at least realise the worth of herself more than just physical appearance.

  • @ashwininayak6700
    @ashwininayak6700 Рік тому +23

    I always knew it.. Urfi, ur a pure soul... Relax girl... Deep breath... In and.. Slowly out... And damn the rest of the world...

  • @farhakadir2794
    @farhakadir2794 2 місяці тому

    Agar apko inko prove karna tha.. regret karana tha.. toh sach m bohat kuch aacha kariye.. .jisme respect mile. Aap precious hain har ek ladki ki tarah..

  • @amandeepanand6201
    @amandeepanand6201 7 місяців тому +5

    I'm absolutely amazed by the amount of wisdom this girl has! Lots of love and light! 💖💖
    TRS doing an awesome job once again! 👏👏 Thanks to you, we are able to see an unadulterated version of people!❤❤

  • @mehnaznoor4217
    @mehnaznoor4217 Місяць тому

    It's not easyto forget childhood traumas most difficult period actually the whole personality is framed and structured around it

  • @romaldinamaria1569
    @romaldinamaria1569 Рік тому +18

    If Urfis life was broken but she doesn't have to ruin the society by wear such vulgar clothes you don't take your family revenge on the society. You hv to be strong and set a good example

  • @mehak.kapoor
    @mehak.kapoor Місяць тому

    I can relate ..she is right ..i had same feelings ki ghar se chli jau kahi

  • @staygold1285
    @staygold1285 Рік тому +5

    Having a disturbed childhood doesn’t equal to wearing minimal clothes and showing off ur body in public

  • @minduladraaisma1598
    @minduladraaisma1598 9 місяців тому +2

    Urfi... She's genius ❤ She a best costume designer ❤️❤️

  • @mottotobehappy3334
    @mottotobehappy3334 11 місяців тому +11

    I think i can finally comprehend whats exactly happening with her. She grew up in an abusive, oppressive, highly conservative household. So, she is literally burning with anger and vengeance till date, thats why she is revolting against society and such people by wearing extremely revealing clothes. Its not like she like wearing such clothes, but its the anger, actually extreme anger that accumulated within her soul for years thats making her wear such clothes, she is protesting against all such extremely conservative people. Its not really her fault, its the fault of the environment she grew up in that made her like this.

    • @roxanne2749
      @roxanne2749 11 місяців тому +1

      I don't think you comprehend anything and also there is nothing oppressive in that kind of household. I am daughter as well if my hobby was to wear such sort of clothes and post them openly on social media even my father would show concerns.

    • @mottotobehappy3334
      @mottotobehappy3334 10 місяців тому

      @Roxane2749 I personally think that the household a person grows up in actually contributes to their character development. However, your POV is also quite relevant, considering the obscene clothes she wears but it's also her parents fault for making her life miserable. 🤔😇 Anyways, it's her life let her do whatever she wants, why bother ourselves lol 😆

    • @roxanne2749
      @roxanne2749 10 місяців тому +1

      @@mottotobehappy3334 Yes you are absolutely right sister/brother (sorry I don't know which one are you🤣) it was definitely her parents fault and why bother ourselves 😭😭
      Thanks for making me realise it
      And my God you are such a sweetheart, I really loved your tone (it's just sooooo rareeeeeeee to find sweeties like you on the internet) really loved the way talk❤❤❤
      May God bless you!!!! Bye sweetheart😁✌

    • @mottotobehappy3334
      @mottotobehappy3334 10 місяців тому +1

      @@roxanne2749 Awww💝 Feeling overwhelmed that you felt so 💛 Thank you so much for your kind words sunshine 🥰💞 Byeee ❤️

  • @sudhalama1249
    @sudhalama1249 Місяць тому

    I think I should not judge anyone....I think whatever happen in others life there is some reason so respect everyone ....❤

  • @the_artmate
    @the_artmate Рік тому +13

    To some extinct her story is similar to mine . Only the difference is about mine story is about getting bright future , and ghar se bahar nikalna also i am a guy

    • @gudiyakhan9942
      @gudiyakhan9942 Рік тому +1

      Mera bhi esa hi haal hai but Meri story alag h..

  • @Rayyanjasim-b1s
    @Rayyanjasim-b1s Місяць тому +1

    I agree ki Urfi ke saath ghalat hua but her path isn't right. She could take revenge through her studies. As a muslim l would say that my parents never asked me to wear hijab. I wore it because my teacher told me its importance. When she was being pressurized then she could have read Quran for guidance. She can also watch a turkish drama Alif.l hope that it would benifit her

  • @dihi.ngia22
    @dihi.ngia22 Рік тому +10

    She is ả straight forward women 8:15

  • @olfruits
    @olfruits 5 місяців тому

    I kind of like her, she is getting matured day by day.