It's well. The fact that the man has BP should move her to cook healthy food for him.I pity this lady,it's when the man dies that she will bring a corpse to the court.All these excuses this woman brought her man to court for I think can be resolved if they both drop egos
I believe and pray this marriage will still work, the woman still loves her husband but seems she took his gentleness for granted and didn't believe the man could stay away from home. May the Lord restore the home. God bless Judge Funmi always.
@@codephisher You'll be surprised what love does; you would if you really love the woman. Some women have done worse things and their husbands have yet forgiven them.
@@tejudaniels3109 life is short, you don’t want to spend it with someone make it even harder. I want to be happy, be respected and be loved and do same for my partner… Not going through this sh*t… that’s just my values.
Men should stop going to this court. The only conclusion the partial judge knows is, "How much do you want to be giving her for the Upkeep of the children?" Nothing more
Man was living alone, decided he needs a wife, got a wife for himself and now he has run away from the house 🏠. Oh shit, this marriage thing is not easy!!
This couple doesn't actually have any problem at all except for the fact that the man's earnings may have dropped and the woman whom he developed is now disturbing the peace of the home.
Both parties have said and done things to hurt each other. They are too proud to apologise, thankfully the judge could see through this. Hopefully the marriage counselling will help them to communicate better.
I hope you heard him in the first episode that he has been begging over the years to know what is his offence but she doesn't talk, but only open up to outsiders or her church pastor
They don't need counseling in my opinion it is a futile effort. This woman has hurt this man the most and she is at war with herself and now also at war with her husband. Do you know what it means for a wife that report her husband to court at all?
@@prophetkazbj7356It means that wife is tired and now needs a legal intervention. He didn't drop money for food for a year plus remember ( she stopped cooking for him for a year ) Couldn't tell the court how much he dropped and when last . Just went about saying how he established her . Okay , awesome , she can assist. But when did you drop money for food .....he couldn't answer
@@prophetkazbj7356 Exactly what I could understand from the whole story. Both parties are proud, and they hurt each other. Whether they still love each other is not clear. All what the judge is trying to do is for the sake of their children.
This is a marriage that has every potential to work. They are both very hardworking individuals that can go very far and succeed if they can learn to do marriage right, after all 2 good heads are better than 1. I hope they both put their selfish interests aside, get good marriage counselling and give their marriage everything it takes to make it work.
Why are men attacking the woman? Relationships are complex, the way he’s talking about her new success is a pointer towards a deeper issue. The way he reminds everyone of where she was when he met her, shows a man with a wounded ego. Men need to learn to deal with their ego & women need to be sensitive to the fragile egos of their partners. The main reason why men work hard in this life is to feel good and earn respect from others! Don’t mind any man that says otherwise. So, women respect your men & learn not to bruise their ego else they will change and adopt a childish, resentful and irritating attitude Man, try and work on your ego. If your woman becomes more successful than you, it’s not a curse or competition. I have a situation where a wife will call her husband to buy bread on his way home and when he was rich and doing well it wasn’t an issue. Infact whenever he forgot, he would drive out again to buy the bread and any other thing needed at home. Immediately, he lost his job that errand was seen as an insult to the same man. COUPLES YOU ARE PARTNERS O! Leave you egos at your parents house and support each other If you like don’t hear
@@levBeing he's reminding them of where he met her because of the way she treated him. Not saying the man is a saint o, I feel he's mentally drained as he expected her to also stand by him when things went rough. I can imagine how he'd feel when she didn't leave any portion of food for him... (That thing dey pain). Please stop starving ppl when there's food. Especially for someone you claim you love or was the love conditional? I love your last Paragraph though. Marriage is partnership. Those preprogrammed marriage rules you've heard dump them and create sustainable rules both of you are comfortable with
relationship are not complex. the reason people come together is to get help they can't give each other in building their lives. if this man is reminding the court of how things were before, it is because he wants the court to see how he stood to support his family and his wife so that they become better and would have expected the same woman to step up too for him as is required of a wife but she isn't. A man does not work hard to impress anyone but to feed his family and gets the things he needs. It is human nature to expect help form someone you stood for. isnt that the reason many of you women complain about when a man makes it and forgets the woman who stood by him while he was struggling? This is not an ego thing
This woman is a very wrong choice for a wife. Marry a kind woman, not because she is overly religious or something. I'm not saying the guy is a saint, but his own wahala is a learner compared to that woman's wahala. This will serve as a lesson to young guys out there.
I really love the way Judge funmi tackle the situation. She refuse to allow any other unwanted emotional situations in the matter. All she's after is the happiness of the family. Na better judge be this. She's not emotionally attached by supporting one side and condemning the other
Me I don't see anything serious with this couple's marital issue. These are the things that can be sorted out amicably. They just need to forgive each other and maybe go for another honeymoon and counseling and try to remember the things that brought them together in the first place. Love covereth a multitude of bad character. Madam this man still loves you. So remove anger and pride and cherish him ooo. E get why❤❤
I totally agree with you but the man doesn’t seem like he’s ready to make it work. He feels like he’s helping her and he has said so many demeaning things about her. Like he doesn’t appreciate her. He needs to work on his mindset. He should try to love and cherish her not just lord over her
@@ghaneeyaha.o661 You are right but the man said he has invested so much into making her who she is today and I think if he doesn't love her he won't do that and for him to still be going back home I think he is still interested in the marriage if not he will just disappear like several men will do just to pain her and frustrate her the more. Every marriage has its own challenges. But manner of approach matters a lot and will go a long way to solve the problem. Most women that are divorced will tell you that it's costly oo. Maintain what you have if possible both for men and women especially if life is not threatened.
Very sound judgement. Women, let us stop keeping malice with our husbands, it scares them. Men, please stop listening when we get angry and say we no do again...abeg...let peace reign. I wish this family the BEST!!!
@gabrex5940 Did you read what she wrote at all, or are you this unintelligent. It is people like you that make us think the govt should restrict social media usage. If I were you, I will apologize to her for typing such ignorant nonsense
Marriage is a lot of learning, unlearning and relearning. Same with any other things in life but spouses need to do so together to make great possibilities. Now, that’s what is called a POWER COUPLE not the ones displayed on social media
Daddy wa trying to fulfill the Scriptures 😂... Prov 21:19: "¹⁹ It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman." I feel their marriage will still work, "at times I will greet him in the morning; I can't touch his gas; you said you are rich now" ... 😁. Bros... The woman want attention Madam... The Bros wants some respect That smile on the woman's face showing she want make dem marriage work. So I feel ooo May God bless Judge Funmi
Yes, they need a good marriage counselor. Not anyhow pastor, not anyhow family member, not prayer. The mental health of the guy is damaged that's why he ran away 😂 (not fair on the children though). The wife needs to be more aware of her husband and less selfish. She should stand by him and encourage him out of his current condition... All the wahala might not put his mind in the right state to scale through
10:28 Judge: If you're angry with him, must your children suffer for that? Lady: They're boys, so... Men, that's the beginning of our suffering.😂 Happy international men's day!
I watch this program often but with all due respect and humility, in as much as I love Judge Funmi's way of handling matters, she still does not see from the men's perspective. Maybe thats how the law prescribed. If so, then the law favors only the women. However, I love this Judge so much.
@@malikmustapha9891 Judge Judy is a woman and does not behave this way. she sometimes lashes the women in court coming from an American background. Some women are wicked sha
@@ojonugwastephen5816 if the man dies or his health is gone maybe the judge will cater for the children. How can you not see that the children is used by the wife to punish the husband who clearly is already responsible for the entire family until he decided he will focus on himself and the children. The wife leaves her children hungry while she could afford to feed them because she wants the money in her hands. The reason the husband no longer gives her money is because she no longer cooks for him and sometimes the children. Only a daft man will keep giving money to such a woman especially when resources were more scarce than before. He had to buy food using a timetable to show how bad it was and eventually bought a gas cooker to save himself from starvation. This same man was doing everything before but for good reason decided not to be wasteful. I guarantee the only woman wanted him to be forced to keep giving her money like before so she can live the life of competition she wanted not because she wants it for family. I have seen these pattern too many times not to recognize it.
Food is the least you shouldn’t give someone…. No matter what just cook and leave it there. If he eats fine if he doesn’t fine. But don’t cook and not leave food for everyone
Even when my father is angry at my mum. She will prepare his food morning and night and the man will not touch the food and she must continue to set the table.
I agree but in this case the man only stopped directly giving her money to stop wastage especially given she doesn't give him food and sometimes the children remain hungry till he returns from his hustle then he starts looking for something for them even till he had to make a time table showing how bad things were. No sensible will continue giving money to such a woman. She only wants extra money to keep up with a lifestyle. If she could she would have determined the amount. I feel for such good hearted men, they suffer a lot unfortunately in the hands of this type of women
Finances and upkeep of the home should be handled communally. There is no my your money when it comes to running the home. Why is one person bearing all the brunt of the upkeep if all are working. If one person loses their means to provide (god forbid) the other picks up the slack. Finance in the home is really not that complicated na we like to complicate am. Have four accounts - Wife Account - Husband account - Home Account (for daily/weekly expenditure) - Home Savings Account for rainy days kids college future projects. Ensure that all are funded as agreed. He who who earns more contributes more and all benefit if you cannot do this both of you better not marry. Money breaks homes apart quicker than extramarital affairs.
Empower some woman at your own risk . If you have never done this before pls dont say anything. You will think a woman is very humble until you set rhem up and neglect yourself .
As a Godfearing couple...4 Things you MUST DO for the marriage to WORK peacefully. 1.Both MUST BE BORN AGAIN & Have GOD in the Centre of the family. 2.Must be LED by the MAIN BOOK ..The BIBLE DAILY. 3.Never ROB GOD His tithe ...have spiritual parents whom you can go to for such matters ....& 4.Most Important..PRAY Together in the morning & evenning as a couple..arise very early and do LORDS PRAYER,,TONGUES, & dress with full armor of God.... BEARING ONE ANOTHER WITH PATIENCE & FORGIVENESS
You just dey talk rubbish… being over religious.. if you like wear the armor wey big pass Goliath own, if you don’t work on your nasty traits and character… your marriage go collapse… werey say na pray morning and night… LOL
As a man, just know say life is already leading you 2:0, it’s so obvious the society is built to always favor the women. The judge should also be allowing men to speak their mind and what they are going through
@@phebejimba4399that is a big lie. The judge is very biased and never allowed the man to explain himself. Anytime he tried talking, the judge kept interrupting him and even told him she wasn't interested in what the man is going through. You can see the pain in the man's eyes towards the end of the video, as he used his hands to clean his face because he felt unheard.
Going to church doesn't mean the person is transformed.And even it's so,don't take it for granted continuisly pray for your familly. It's not ...Christian are also tempted. If Jesus where tempted then who are we.
The woman is very greedy and irresponsible..the same husband that you are denying food helped you to start up the business that you are making money from and if you cook,you won't give him? She is wicked
Exactly my thoughts.... My advice to the man is for him to take care of himself medically first cos if he dies now the woman will continue her life. All Men should invest in themselves more.
Obviously, the man is not happy. I believe this marriage can still work as the decision of Judge Funmi is simply what sincere religious leaders or family members could help the couple reach. No sacrifice is too big for both parties to take to have a better relationship. This matter should not have come to the court at all. I wish them a better marital life.
He owns the House. He is still catering for the apartment. He's not sleeping there, but He still lives there. His crime is "being nice" to the lady ftom the start of their marriage, when he always gave her capital for her Recharge Card Business.
😅big man started claiming walking dead. They still love each other but ego really is their problem......... The biggest fvvk up is the fact he doesn't take care of his kids
Please always try and give then a fair hearing Many men have gone silently without speaking out in the name if marriage Ma, please be fair in your judgements
The justice court should look deep into men's issues critically too. Should men stop empowering their wives and face responsibilities duly? Because most women turn against their husbands after being empowered.
Hmmm...this kinda lady needs a marriage counselor and spiritual deliverance. Her mindset is porous. The man should win back his marriage at all cost...because of the kids.
Men should learn. While you're empowering your woman, please don't neglect yourself. Grow too
Thanks so------much
Daddy Freeze kept hammering on this point of yours o
The talk someone to me a week ago
He his a responsible man❤❤
I am a woman, and I second this. And if she really is into you, she will help you manage what you have
The fact that you married a religious lady is not enough for marriage to work. The both of you must make it work.
I still haven't seen why the ladies religious beliefs is the reason so far...
They are the worse. They respect pastor more than their husband
She is bias and not even listening to the man
@@selinakyeraa569the man was close to tears. His heart is still heavy with many unsaid words!
It's well.
The fact that the man has BP should move her to cook healthy food for him.I pity this lady,it's when the man dies that she will bring a corpse to the court.All these excuses this woman brought her man to court for I think can be resolved if they both drop egos
Never marry for religious reasons, you will only impress your pastor and church members.
Fact
True talk
Powerful statement!!!
Very correct
😂😂😂
The fact that you married SU doesn’t guarantee you will have peace…this man is going through alot..this is really sad.
Fools marry on religious grounds. He deserves the devil he married.
An amazing Courageous Gentleman
With the Heart of a Servant Leader
I believe and pray this marriage will still work, the woman still loves her husband but seems she took his gentleness for granted and didn't believe the man could stay away from home. May the Lord restore the home. God bless Judge Funmi always.
I am an old woman and have seen women like her. She treats him like a cash machine. Keeps what she makes, uses his.
would never be with her again if I was the man.
She sees him as a money printing machine no love and support... WTF
@@codephisher You'll be surprised what love does; you would if you really love the woman. Some women have done worse things and their husbands have yet forgiven them.
@@tejudaniels3109 life is short, you don’t want to spend it with someone make it even harder. I want to be happy, be respected and be loved and do same for my partner…
Not going through this sh*t… that’s just my values.
Men should stop going to this court. The only conclusion the partial judge knows is, "How much do you want to be giving her for the Upkeep of the children?" Nothing more
Man was living alone, decided he needs a wife, got a wife for himself and now he has run away from the house 🏠.
Oh shit, this marriage thing is not easy!!
😂😂😂😂😂 oh shit really...
Some women are very terrible. I blame men who enable such women.
Full time shit
This couple doesn't actually have any problem at all except for the fact that the man's earnings may have dropped and the woman whom he developed is now disturbing the peace of the home.
You literally just listed their problems
Honestly they don't have issue
She don see say bills choke now she don calm down😂😂.She Dey whine herself before ni
Nazo dem Dey do 😂
Both parties have said and done things to hurt each other. They are too proud to apologise, thankfully the judge could see through this. Hopefully the marriage counselling will help them to communicate better.
I hope you heard him in the first episode that he has been begging over the years to know what is his offence but she doesn't talk, but only open up to outsiders or her church pastor
@@iwufaustinachinaemerem659that's not true. He did not say that. He said his wife doesn't talk to him but rather talk to people outside. Stop lying.
They don't need counseling in my opinion it is a futile effort. This woman has hurt this man the most and she is at war with herself and now also at war with her husband. Do you know what it means for a wife that report her husband to court at all?
@@prophetkazbj7356It means that wife is tired and now needs a legal intervention. He didn't drop money for food for a year plus remember ( she stopped cooking for him for a year )
Couldn't tell the court how much he dropped and when last . Just went about saying how he established her . Okay , awesome , she can assist. But when did you drop money for food .....he couldn't answer
@@prophetkazbj7356 Exactly what I could understand from the whole story. Both parties are proud, and they hurt each other. Whether they still love each other is not clear. All what the judge is trying to do is for the sake of their children.
I love the composure of the Judge,Judge Funmi....
This is a marriage that has every potential to work. They are both very hardworking individuals that can go very far and succeed if they can learn to do marriage right, after all 2 good heads are better than 1.
I hope they both put their selfish interests aside, get good marriage counselling and give their marriage everything it takes to make it work.
This man is passing through a lot.
This man is going through hell.I can only imagine how financially comfortable this man would be if had gotten married to peaceful woman.
😢 KAI! This is so truee
Really? What did she do that is not giving him peace? So you didn't hear the woman? You don't know the full story and you're judging already?
Why are men attacking the woman?
Relationships are complex, the way he’s talking about her new success is a pointer towards a deeper issue. The way he reminds everyone of where she was when he met her, shows a man with a wounded ego.
Men need to learn to deal with their ego & women need to be sensitive to the fragile egos of their partners.
The main reason why men work hard in this life is to feel good and earn respect from others! Don’t mind any man that says otherwise.
So, women respect your men & learn not to bruise their ego else they will change and adopt a childish, resentful and irritating attitude
Man, try and work on your ego. If your woman becomes more successful than you, it’s not a curse or competition.
I have a situation where a wife will call her husband to buy bread on his way home and when he was rich and doing well it wasn’t an issue. Infact whenever he forgot, he would drive out again to buy the bread and any other thing needed at home. Immediately, he lost his job that errand was seen as an insult to the same man.
COUPLES YOU ARE PARTNERS O! Leave you egos at your parents house and support each other
If you like don’t hear
What a well rounded comment! You just nailed 🔨
Thank you for elucidating these salient points
@@levBeing he's reminding them of where he met her because of the way she treated him.
Not saying the man is a saint o, I feel he's mentally drained as he expected her to also stand by him when things went rough.
I can imagine how he'd feel when she didn't leave any portion of food for him... (That thing dey pain). Please stop starving ppl when there's food. Especially for someone you claim you love or was the love conditional?
I love your last Paragraph though.
Marriage is partnership. Those preprogrammed marriage rules you've heard dump them and create sustainable rules both of you are comfortable with
You are very stupid
relationship are not complex. the reason people come together is to get help they can't give each other in building their lives. if this man is reminding the court of how things were before, it is because he wants the court to see how he stood to support his family and his wife so that they become better and would have expected the same woman to step up too for him as is required of a wife but she isn't. A man does not work hard to impress anyone but to feed his family and gets the things he needs.
It is human nature to expect help form someone you stood for. isnt that the reason many of you women complain about when a man makes it and forgets the woman who stood by him while he was struggling? This is not an ego thing
This woman is a very wrong choice for a wife. Marry a kind woman, not because she is overly religious or something. I'm not saying the guy is a saint, but his own wahala is a learner compared to that woman's wahala. This will serve as a lesson to young guys out there.
My brother Run from this woman, it is not over yet oooo your disrespect not even start bro,
lol 😂
I really love the way Judge funmi tackle the situation. She refuse to allow any other unwanted emotional situations in the matter. All she's after is the happiness of the family. Na better judge be this. She's not emotionally attached by supporting one side and condemning the other
Me I don't see anything serious with this couple's marital issue. These are the things that can be sorted out amicably. They just need to forgive each other and maybe go for another honeymoon and counseling and try to remember the things that brought them together in the first place. Love covereth a multitude of bad character. Madam this man still loves you. So remove anger and pride and cherish him ooo. E get why❤❤
I totally agree with you but the man doesn’t seem like he’s ready to make it work. He feels like he’s helping her and he has said so many demeaning things about her. Like he doesn’t appreciate her. He needs to work on his mindset. He should try to love and cherish her not just lord over her
Spot on!!
@@ghaneeyaha.o661 You are right but the man said he has invested so much into making her who she is today and I think if he doesn't love her he won't do that and for him to still be going back home I think he is still interested in the marriage if not he will just disappear like several men will do just to pain her and frustrate her the more. Every marriage has its own challenges. But manner of approach matters a lot and will go a long way to solve the problem. Most women that are divorced will tell you that it's costly oo. Maintain what you have if possible both for men and women especially if life is not threatened.
@@ghaneeyaha.o661 but she denies him food. Someone you claim you love, is that good?
@@ghaneeyaha.o661😂 typical woman comment
The judge should extend more grace to the men,these women are running wild
Every Marriage Isn't From God, Love Is Not Forced!!! This World Needs Jesus 🌍
😂😂😂😂 jesus my foot, none be only jesus,na jesus bring them together if so then he is a confused as them both, brainwashed slave
Very sound judgement. Women, let us stop keeping malice with our husbands, it scares them. Men, please stop listening when we get angry and say we no do again...abeg...let peace reign. I wish this family the BEST!!!
😂😂😂 Odeh you want people to be single mother like you
@@gabrex5940😂😂😂
@@gabrex5940😂😂😂
@@gabrex5940😂😂
@gabrex5940 Did you read what she wrote at all, or are you this unintelligent. It is people like you that make us think the govt should restrict social media usage. If I were you, I will apologize to her for typing such ignorant nonsense
Marriage is a lot of learning, unlearning and relearning. Same with any other things in life but spouses need to do so together to make great possibilities. Now, that’s what is called a POWER COUPLE not the ones displayed on social media
They both have a point. There major problem is communication
He does not trust you again so you dont poison him. Afterall, someone poisoned four men with pepper soup.
Where did you hear that o
She stopped leaving food for him .
She said he wasn't dropping money
This lady's family should be ashamed of her behavior. She is a disgrace to them.
I really pity this man. May God reinstate his economic situation.
He voted Tinubu. There is no God in his situation.
Seriously!!! 😂😂😂
You funny @@AugustineAriola
May we not marry our enemy in disguise.
Amen
@@prophetkazbj7356you are the one that turn your friend into an enemy
Amen
God bless the judge. She is truly a professional peacemaker!
does she tell you her own family problem? am ashamed of you. so bringing your family problem in public is a good thing to you
She is novice in marriage. Thank you Judge Funmi for helping them to get a councillor.
Daddy wa trying to fulfill the Scriptures 😂...
Prov 21:19: "¹⁹ It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman."
I feel their marriage will still work, "at times I will greet him in the morning; I can't touch his gas; you said you are rich now" ... 😁.
Bros... The woman want attention
Madam... The Bros wants some respect
That smile on the woman's face showing she want make dem marriage work.
So I feel ooo
May God bless Judge Funmi
Yes, they need a good marriage counselor. Not anyhow pastor, not anyhow family member, not prayer.
The mental health of the guy is damaged that's why he ran away 😂 (not fair on the children though). The wife needs to be more aware of her husband and less selfish.
She should stand by him and encourage him out of his current condition...
All the wahala might not put his mind in the right state to scale through
Exactly 💯😂😂😂😂
No bro she don see day bills choke .😂
Beautiful Judge FUNMI I love you 💕. Very intelligent, cool, calm and calculated Judge.
Thank you, mama Judge.
10:28
Judge: If you're angry with him, must your children suffer for that?
Lady: They're boys, so...
Men, that's the beginning of our suffering.😂
Happy international men's day!
It is well
Please how do i contact this court and the lawyer,i have similar case
U better sort ur problem privately within your both families/parents cos I don't subscribe to public degradation, it's just a mess.
I support the judge,we must think about the children we bring to this life
I watch this program often but with all due respect and humility, in as much as I love Judge Funmi's way of handling matters, she still does not see from the men's perspective. Maybe thats how the law prescribed. If so, then the law favors only the women. However, I love this Judge so much.
Was wondering if they could let us have a male judge in her place
@@malikmustapha9891 Judge Judy is a woman and does not behave this way. she sometimes lashes the women in court coming from an American background. Some women are wicked sha
Seriously she downplayed every single concern the man had as if she wasn't interested in listening to his side
Her stands are, the children should not suffer because 2 adults have issues to deal with.
@@ojonugwastephen5816 if the man dies or his health is gone maybe the judge will cater for the children. How can you not see that the children is used by the wife to punish the husband who clearly is already responsible for the entire family until he decided he will focus on himself and the children. The wife leaves her children hungry while she could afford to feed them because she wants the money in her hands. The reason the husband no longer gives her money is because she no longer cooks for him and sometimes the children. Only a daft man will keep giving money to such a woman especially when resources were more scarce than before. He had to buy food using a timetable to show how bad it was and eventually bought a gas cooker to save himself from starvation. This same man was doing everything before but for good reason decided not to be wasteful. I guarantee the only woman wanted him to be forced to keep giving her money like before so she can live the life of competition she wanted not because she wants it for family. I have seen these pattern too many times not to recognize it.
Men stop looking for women in churches.
Many go to churches to look for husbands not that they are prepared for a home.
Men watch out.
Men and women should let God lead them in the choice of a spouse
I know this too be true
I think this couple can reunite if they work with the advice of a councillor. Thanks for the good job, ma
It's like marriage is a gamble; one can either succeed or fail.
As a broke man, have kids. Avoid marriage until you’re about 60 or 70.
Feel free to marry if you’re wealthy.
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The way you ppl reason ehn, have kids for what, so that they will suffer. The person that is giving birth to the children nko
Una sef ehn😂
For any marriage to work, forgiveness must always be in the from burner .Any resentment toward each other will ruin the whole show.
Food is the least you shouldn’t give someone…. No matter what just cook and leave it there. If he eats fine if he doesn’t fine. But don’t cook and not leave food for everyone
Omo that thing dey pain😢😭
@@joeadeleke😂😂😂😂😂
Well said…
African men always expect the least. I think it is good she does not feed this man baby.
Even when my father is angry at my mum. She will prepare his food morning and night and the man will not touch the food and she must continue to set the table.
When a man stop bringing the Dow , that's when he will know the real characters of the woman he married. Don't trust the loyalty of a poor woman .
You said it all
I agree but in this case the man only stopped directly giving her money to stop wastage especially given she doesn't give him food and sometimes the children remain hungry till he returns from his hustle then he starts looking for something for them even till he had to make a time table showing how bad things were. No sensible will continue giving money to such a woman. She only wants extra money to keep up with a lifestyle. If she could she would have determined the amount. I feel for such good hearted men, they suffer a lot unfortunately in the hands of this type of women
This woman is a bunch of trouble
How bunch of trouble? If you are not married sister married first ok
The man is very rude. He always interrupted the judge. he pretends to suffer.
Finances and upkeep of the home should be handled communally. There is no my your money when it comes to running the home. Why is one person bearing all the brunt of the upkeep if all are working. If one person loses their means to provide (god forbid) the other picks up the slack.
Finance in the home is really not that complicated na we like to complicate am.
Have four accounts
- Wife Account
- Husband account
- Home Account (for daily/weekly expenditure)
- Home Savings Account for rainy days kids college future projects.
Ensure that all are funded as agreed. He who who earns more contributes more and all benefit if you cannot do this both of you better not marry. Money breaks homes apart quicker than extramarital affairs.
Please how can I report a case what are the requirements
I will advise that the man stays away from this woman until the marriage counselling is over
I have a lot to say but I only said thank you judge fumi for your good work
Empower some woman at your own risk . If you have never done this before pls dont say anything. You will think a woman is very humble until you set rhem up and neglect yourself .
As a Godfearing couple...4 Things you MUST DO for the marriage to WORK peacefully.
1.Both MUST BE BORN AGAIN & Have GOD in the Centre of the family.
2.Must be LED by the MAIN BOOK ..The BIBLE DAILY.
3.Never ROB GOD His tithe ...have spiritual parents whom you can go to for such matters ....&
4.Most Important..PRAY Together in the morning & evenning as a couple..arise very early and do LORDS PRAYER,,TONGUES, & dress with full armor of God.... BEARING ONE ANOTHER WITH PATIENCE & FORGIVENESS
You just dey talk rubbish… being over religious.. if you like wear the armor wey big pass Goliath own, if you don’t work on your nasty traits and character… your marriage go collapse… werey say na pray morning and night… LOL
As a man, just know say life is already leading you 2:0, it’s so obvious the society is built to always favor the women. The judge should also be allowing men to speak their mind and what they are going through
Marriage is work. They both MUST be willing to put in the effort to make it work.
Why arent you allowing the man to talk. His income is not fixed . They should share the responsibility 50/50 8:25 8:25
They gave him more time to answer questions than they gave the wife . He just foes not know how to answer a question.
@@phebejimba4399that is a big lie. The judge is very biased and never allowed the man to explain himself. Anytime he tried talking, the judge kept interrupting him and even told him she wasn't interested in what the man is going through. You can see the pain in the man's eyes towards the end of the video, as he used his hands to clean his face because he felt unheard.
He's not answering the questions being asked
He's wasting time
He goes out of point
This is really touching 😢
Whao good judgment.
Going to church doesn't mean the person is transformed.And even it's so,don't take it for granted continuisly pray for your familly.
It's not ...Christian are also tempted. If Jesus where tempted then who are we.
The woman is very greedy and irresponsible..the same husband that you are denying food helped you to start up the business that you are making money from and if you cook,you won't give him? She is wicked
@@winifredokonkwo2329 plus tax
Exactly my thoughts.... My advice to the man is for him to take care of himself medically first cos if he dies now the woman will continue her life. All Men should invest in themselves more.
Judge you are not settling this problem well to my understanding 👨⚖️
All i have to say is that this man is a very different man to live with ,simple !
Man, please take care of your health. If your BP goes uncontrollable na die be that oo. This woman and children will enjoy when you are gone
Please how do I locate this court in Nigeria
Obviously, the man is not happy.
I believe this marriage can still work as the decision of Judge Funmi is simply what sincere religious leaders or family members could help the couple reach. No sacrifice is too big for both parties to take to have a better relationship. This matter should not have come to the court at all.
I wish them a better marital life.
God please give me a good woman to marry 🙏🙏🙏
I am available ooo
Aaah!😂😂😂😂😂@@prissydee
Hope you are a good man too. Because it takes two to .,....
@@prissydee 🤣
Be a good man too
He owns the House. He is still catering for the apartment. He's not sleeping there, but He still lives there.
His crime is "being nice" to the lady ftom the start of their marriage, when he always gave her capital for her Recharge Card Business.
The man want to pressure the woman to submit as a wife but the woman na i no gree type...men study them and deal with women according to knowledge.
All these women be pretendin.. baltazar egonga has xposed all of them..
So because hushpuppi is a fraudulent yahoo boy, was caught and jailed means every man is a criminal? You are mugu!!!
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It's unfortunate that it's a risk to marry a religious person today
God bless the Judge
Please how can I get to this woman
This woman needs help, The Husband needs to Understand this woman..
So the man doesn't need any help?
Amos 3:3
Can two walk together , expect they agreed?
I actually don't think these woman is a bad person it's just miscommunication...marriages have issues they should fix it or go there separate ways
Money don finish madam turn tiger.
Say the truth and stop supporting bad behaviour from women
What is this judge saying, he foots the bill of his household.
This type of wife, mark them and avoid them.
This can never be me sha.
She'll either go or I'll take another woman.
Never marry or have relationship with over religious people......
If u really want to enjoy your marriage as a man show your wife practically that u love her children.
I use to say it
I don't need a relationship that is based on scripture from the church
But the word of God
This is a pastor's child.
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Gentle, timid men don suffer for this life
This woman dey make me vex
Please forgive each other for the sake of the innocent children.
Justice Ashaolu seems to always favour the women more
Most at times good men always suffer in marriage because of their good hearts but the bad ones are always feared and respected.
Very very correct
😅big man started claiming walking dead. They still love each other but ego really is their problem......... The biggest fvvk up is the fact he doesn't take care of his kids
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Please always try and give then a fair hearing
Many men have gone silently without speaking out in the name if marriage
Ma, please be fair in your judgements
😂😂😂This couple eh
The justice court should look deep into men's issues critically too. Should men stop empowering their wives and face responsibilities duly? Because most women turn against their husbands after being empowered.
It is a pathetic to know that this is a supposed christian home. May God help them to recover.
A woman with a BIG stubborn heart cannot stay married. Read Ecclesiastes ...
Hmmm...this kinda lady needs a marriage counselor and spiritual deliverance. Her mindset is porous.
The man should win back his marriage at all cost...because of the kids.
Understanding matters and co parenting
Mummy the law desame dey my house
Please how can I contact The Justice court and what’s their location please
Am I watching a different video? Everyone is condemning the woman while the man couldnt answer simple questions.
What was the question the man couldn’t answer?
The judge didn't even wan he to talk
@brightekhator3499 the cout asked him how much does he want to be dropping. He said the wife said she is rich.
So tell me. Do u think that was the answer the judge was expecting.
@@brightekhator3499he said his wife doesn't cook, she replied saying he does not drop money for food.
Please how do I sue someone any one with there contact info
Marriage isn’t always rosy I guess they need more communication
All marriage na d same no better one try n live with whoever you find yourself with
Very dramatic couple 😂
Having different gas at home 😅
Perhpas if they can help the man financially 😊
The man self na mumu you day talk like woman so you leave house for your wife go your sister side 😅😅😅💔
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