I had to pause the video when she said at one point she wanted to be a 2 because she wouldn't have to deal with the pressure of being a 3 and achieving. That hit my core! I was shocked to hear someone else say that! I have caught myself saying (alone and to others) that, "I get on my own nerves" or "why do I care so much about what others think of me?" Before I discovered the Enneagram I had a love/hate relationship with myself. I loved that I had a large capacity to take on tasks and get them done while "wowing" people but hated the fact that all I wanted to was to feel authentically loved and not feel the pressure of "having" to perform. Now having the understanding that God created me this way for His will and His glory I've come to accept my 3ness and embrace it! Thank you for these videos!
I am pretty sure I am a 3 but I don't relate to the like to be seen with successful people and the being aloof with others when insecure, and everything I find about 3s is talking about how they want to appear successful, and don't associate with unsuccessful people, and worry about their image and I for the life of me can't relate, I don't know if I am in denial or what
You might be a Self Preservation 3 then. This is the counter-type. They are more concerned with being a perfect role model, good, efficient, hardworking and productive. They do still want to be admired but without bragging about themselves. I haven’t covered the subtypes yet but plan to. 😀 Thanks for sharing! Hope this helps a little.
@@enneagramandcoaching it helps a lot not little, because for the longest time I thought I was a 1 and till this day, I relate so much to them, and I can't wait to hear more from you about the subtypes 💗💗💗
Oh I’m so glad!!!! Every type has a counter-type. Which means it doesn’t “look” like the typical type. It can be so confusing! So glad you reached out! Now I’m excited to teach on the subtypes!
Hi... im looking forward for the subtypes. Cuz i feel the same. I am 3w4, but i dont feel like i want to be the "star" or superstar or whatever the enneagram tries to describe about 3. But, tho, i know im 3. But still, im ambitious, hardworking, very n supoer effective 😂
Subtypes will help you so much! If your core fear and core desire is the type 3 then that’s you type even if you don’t relate to the typical type 3’s. Thanks for sharing your journey so far. It helps other 3’s for sure!
I had to pause the video when she said at one point she wanted to be a 2 because she wouldn't have to deal with the pressure of being a 3 and achieving. That hit my core! I was shocked to hear someone else say that! I have caught myself saying (alone and to others) that, "I get on my own nerves" or "why do I care so much about what others think of me?" Before I discovered the Enneagram I had a love/hate relationship with myself. I loved that I had a large capacity to take on tasks and get them done while "wowing" people but hated the fact that all I wanted to was to feel authentically loved and not feel the pressure of "having" to perform. Now having the understanding that God created me this way for His will and His glory I've come to accept my 3ness and embrace it! Thank you for these videos!
LOVE THIS! LOVE that you now know and can rejoice in knowing God made you this way and it was on purpose and for a purpose. Thank you for sharing! ❤️
I'm a type 3 and thank you for your great content, it is very helpful for my self discovery ❤️
Your so welcome! Thanks for sharing!
Right off the bat, we 3s self-promote 🤩
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3s always prep!
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I am pretty sure I am a 3 but I don't relate to the like to be seen with successful people and the being aloof with others when insecure, and everything I find about 3s is talking about how they want to appear successful, and don't associate with unsuccessful people, and worry about their image and I for the life of me can't relate, I don't know if I am in denial or what
You might be a Self Preservation 3 then. This is the counter-type. They are more concerned with being a perfect role model, good, efficient, hardworking and productive. They do still want to be admired but without bragging about themselves. I haven’t covered the subtypes yet but plan to. 😀 Thanks for sharing! Hope this helps a little.
@@enneagramandcoaching it helps a lot not little, because for the longest time I thought I was a 1 and till this day, I relate so much to them, and I can't wait to hear more from you about the subtypes 💗💗💗
Oh I’m so glad!!!! Every type has a counter-type. Which means it doesn’t “look” like the typical type. It can be so confusing! So glad you reached out! Now I’m excited to teach on the subtypes!
Hi... im looking forward for the subtypes. Cuz i feel the same. I am 3w4, but i dont feel like i want to be the "star" or superstar or whatever the enneagram tries to describe about 3. But, tho, i know im 3. But still, im ambitious, hardworking, very n supoer effective 😂
Subtypes will help you so much! If your core fear and core desire is the type 3 then that’s you type even if you don’t relate to the typical type 3’s. Thanks for sharing your journey so far. It helps other 3’s for sure!
I wonder how many first borns/only children of each gender are 3s.
Hmmm....me too!
She seems like a 2 to me.
I do have a strong 2 wing for sure!