Fellas my grandma said it best - "Son women don't want to fix their problems or be with the perfect man because they'll lose all their BS drama and they'll feel dead...they need drama to feel alive."
Drama is a woman's preferred currency. The more she has, the wealthier she feels, and the richer her relationships become. This is why they love the Bad Boys.
@@jacksquat4140also love to chase men with options bc it gives them that thrill of maybe one day she might have to throw hands with other women potentially or just argue.
My ex was so fucking Whiney , cool personality but whiney . She complain going out and complain coming back home she was never happy always complaining about everything . 🤷🏿♂️ . Just came back from Costa Rica with my brother and 6 of his friends no women , all we did was drink , smoke and talk 💩 all day . We hike , went to the beach hang around the pool . It was the happiest I been in a long time . Did I mention there was no women with us and absolutely no whining whatsoever , no negative energy . 👍🏾💪🏾💯
A good relationship with her father is probably the most important quality to look for in a woman. My fiancé adores her father, speaks fondly of her childhood, quotes his witty sayings regularly, and, surprise surprise, no bullshit whatsoever in our relationship.
The ex wife of super soccer star Kaka, left him because he is so perfect. She left him and destroyed her family, just because of the toxicity of feminism.
They leave their man in instances like that and use that excuse because they NEED it to be their choice and have the control. They are so insecure that they feel its imminent that a man like that will eventually leave them for something else, so they sabotage it first so they have that control.
Yuuup . Ex got to be a “ stay- at - home “ long after the kids got out of college , married , etc . Then after me working 60-80 hours a week because she needed newer bigger houses that were never good enough ; I finally said I can’t work anymore hours . You get a job . Ran off with a Chad alcoholic a few years older than our oldest daughter - they live in a meth neighborhood in a mobile home ; bitching and complaining now after 7 year itch …
@@user-wp5qo6qg7q : I honestly can't say that I've ever met a truly happy woman. Women seem programmed to hunger and thirst for something more, while losing interest in what they have.
@@jacksquat4140 I found that it’s hard to run on their schedule, when im busy and need to get things down and they have all their stuff all over the place, it’s hard because they cost time.
@@drewsmith5961: I wish I could believe this, but I don't think it's possible. Women are too proud to be humble and they will never take agency for their actions. Studies have shown that women are incapable of learning from their mistakes.
My “ex baby momma” divorced me with our three kids, etc., wanting to “travel” and she meet a guy on a Vegas trip. I’m worth approximately 2M and she is renting, and will have to work until the day she dies, currently single and alone.
She's insecure because her "perfect man" forces her to look at herself and her shortcomings in the mirror. She's never done that involuntarily, which is uncomfortable. And, like a small child, she runs in the opposite direction of pain and probably takes it out on him in ways that will only grow her resentment towards him and, as a result, towards herself. It's a disaster waiting to happen.
@@sole__doubt Same here. Even if you do please others it will never be enough. Live your life the way you want. If others want to come along for the ride, that's great. If not, it's their loss.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 3 years ended 5 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about him.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 7 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back .
Women don’t even really want half the shit they say they want. What they want, is to see where the boundaries are, and how firmly you will maintain them in the face of an onslaught of guilt tripping and mind games. It does get tedious though, because it never truly ends. Even a secure woman in a healthy LTR will occasionally throw some shit at her man to see what slides off and what sticks.
The woman complaining about the perfect man is upset because she realizes that she has no leverage. Her instinct is to want to control him, but he holds all of the value in the relationship. Everything he brings to the relationship requires effort and hard work. Everything she brings to the relationship can be replaced without any effort.
Exactly what happened to me. My ex had a close friend she spilled her issues to with me. I'm a high value guy, make 6 figs, in shape, got my shit together. Her friend (who has never met me or spoken to me in person on any other route) convinced my ex of 4 years to leave me for a low value man who makes fraction of my income and isn't driven. They got engaged in 4 months and that friend of hers is now her maid of honor. Her other 2 close friends that actually know me and have been with me both said she made a mistake and were trying to convince her to stay with me and marry me. Insanity. Now I have to start over.
She feels insecure because hes leagues beyond her. Ive seen it countless times, she ignores/dumps mr right for a pookie or rayray type cause they need someone who "isnt as good as them" to feel adequate. Women dont have have that "grind hard and become the best" thing in them that we have. They are quite satisfied with being mediocre while at the same time demanding that they want a superhero, but if they do get one they dont know what to do with him, hes just too good and she doesnt want to improve herself.
After my divorce, I met a girl who fooled me again. The first year was perfect and she was an amazing girlfriend. She had dinner ready for me when I came home from work, helped me out around the house and I provided for her in return. I truly thought we would have a family together, mainly because she said that's what she wanted with me and her actions backed that up. She was a college educated, intelligent, conservative white girl who seemed to have good values. Then, she abruptly left me for a coworker guy who had at least 5 kids by 4 different baby mamas, was a gang member with the Bloods, was a literal pimp and had spent half his life in jail. He hooked her on coke and other drugs to gain emotional control over her. I'm pretty sure he ended up pimping her out. His first major crime was that he murdered an 81 year old man when he was 16 and it was before being tried as an adult was a big thing so he got off lightly. I don't think I have to mention his race. After that mindfuck of a relationship, I will never date again. My marriage was equally as ridiculous in other ways.
@@pdizzle5302dang! This is why Coop says, females always preserve the opportunity to change their mind and emotions at any given moment. No matter how innocent she may seem. Im Afrikan, and to say the least, im not surprised those statistics are from a melanated male from America.
I have a unicorn. Was planning to start another business and she says ‘sweetie, we have enough money, don’t stress yourself out making more.’ Blew my mind, never knew a woman who thought enough was enough. What a treasure she is.
Shes lying to you to make you feel better and lull you into a sense of complacency. Don't fall for it! They all care about money and progress it's in their DNA!!
Dude.. All that means, is “right now I want more of your attention”, but that is just how she feels right now, and if you give her what she wants, she will soon get bored, and her priorities will change, or she’ll be comparing herself to other people, and she’ll be right back to stressing about money and wanting a better lifestyle and making you feel like it’s not enough. The solution is to ignore women when they say stuff like that. If you want to start another business, do it. Give her enough attention to sustain the relationship, rather than the amount of attention she is asking for, and stay focused on YOUR goals. It will serve you both in the long term.
10+ year marriage and she made me feel like I was constantly wrong even when I was 100% right .in the end I gave in to her and she left she now regrets it but doesn't see that she did anything wrong.
That reminds me of a woman my buddy was dating. They flew down to Costa Rica, they stayed at one of the nicest hotels in that country, and they spent a day on a "volcano hiking tour" where they hiked up an active volcano, swam in hot springs, and had had a meal catered by the company they contracted with. And when she got back, all she talked about was the size of a bug she had seen while out on that hike. If there is a heaven, women like that would absolutely, positively find SOMETHING to complain about!
My parents were married for 37 years, my parents had a big beautiful paid off house with a pool thousands of dollars for retirement they literally had the American dream, one day my mom disappeared long story short she took off on my dad for a one legged felon who snorts pills and watches cnn all day he’s lazy, unemployed, collects disability and leeches off my mom,all the money she got from her divorce is almost gone now my mom cries for my dad and regrets her decisions I haven’t been the same since because my family fell apart my dad remarried a gold digger, any inheritance me and my brother would have gotten are gone to strangers. My mom threw away are family and the American dream so she can pay a lazy felons way through life, life has felt shitty since then…
It’s important to consider that AS A SPECIES human females have a proclivity for negative emotions when going through the same experience/s compared to male humans.
Drama is a woman's preferred currency. The more she has, the wealthier she feels, and the richer her relationships become. This is why they love Bad Boys.
Yep. If I'm quiet she thinks something is wrong or that I'm ignoring her when I'm just sitting quietly and trying to relax from dealing with this world.
Women listen to their friends way too much cuz they can't think for themselves.So they seek counsel from women who can't think for themselves either but somehow know exactly what she needs to do.
This may be off subject but when I was a very young guy, I dated a beautiful young woman I fell in love with and thought she loved me too. She sure acted like she was. After she broke up with me, I realized she was in love with love. She was a woman who was in love forever every time. I'll bet there are a lot of them like that out there.
Wow. This is a super interesting comment to me. At least two girls I dated that I had an intense relationship with could be described as such. They would acknowledge time and again that I was the best man they had ever met, even said the word "perfect" a handful of times about me...but I never *quite* got all I wanted out of them emotionally and in how they expressed themselves..sex was fine but a little hot and cold thanks to them being under stress and loving to vent, play victim - more than feel sexy etc. But it was confusing cause, I know they gave more to me more than any other man they'd ever met or dated. And they were more loving, laughing, fun, and down to earth compared to the average biddy. Still...about half the time they seemed distracted. And there were times they pulled back with the worst timing ever. Certain days they wouldn't want me naturally leading them to be more confident, sexy or something else they were otherwise total cool with before. On those days they'd say I was "too pushy" when I know they also hated men who were too shy and didn't know how to push smoothly/carefully as I did. The "pushy" criticism, and me having healthy boundaries for our relationship (that they agreed to or liked as much as I did from the jump)...were the only things they could think to level at me as complaints at all. And those were rare complaints, cause they generally preferred I stay happy and non-judging of them and nagging BS, etc. So I always knew something was wrong but couldn't figure it out... Now I think it is what u said.. they were in love with love, more than me directly or 100%.. Maybe they always loved me like 75 or 85 percent but that missing percentage was annoying, didn't make sense, and ultimately made them f' up a lot of good moments/potential. They would have gotten more of what they wanted out of men and me, if they had let go the final percentage but they just couldn't conform totally or let go. I can agree there is a side to them that will think they are right and maybe regret very little...(idk, been completely no contact on my side since dumping them) But yeah it's what u said plus immaturity.. plus they didn't know what healthy love looked like.. plus they probably needed attention overload to be satisfied (like to just remain on the phone with them all night/every night)..but I was never gonna do/be that part (again and they knew it from the jump...oh well)
@RexJacobus-bb1vw great comment. But what's sad of course is that a man can't be there for them non-stop, on the phone all night every day, or giving all their random female emotions everything they ever dreamed the instant they randomly feel it... I mean, no human can do that. We all have to have life. And everyone needs to do a lot of things in peace and in private to even become attractive physically/financially in the first place. Then u have the fact that females also get turned off if you seem TOO available, TOO thirsty, or TOO romantic even. They don't want a simp who fawns all over them like a floating hummingbird...but they don't really want an alpha who is so strong they have to live up to his higher standards or be dropped like a toilet-seat with little forgiveness... So what they ultimately want is to just "trick" a man. Make a good man fall in love so he has blind-spots to her weaknesses. Or try to improve a generous man to being more studly/stoic. Or make a studly guy be less cheap and controlling (outside the bedroom). It barely makes any sense ever and it's a miracle and relationship ever works super long-term. Girls love when u command and control them to the best orgasms and sexual performance of her life in the bedroom...but God help you if you suggest her communication skills or something else she be adjusted or improved outside of that. Lord help us all.
I’ve seen both women with Daddy issues and women with great dads who just can’t be happy.. miserable all the time, has everything she could need and still pissed off 50% of the time. Cannot be consistently happy
It sounds to me that it's not a great match. It's a matter of lifestyle and she obviously is not as driven as he is. He might be experiencing some doubt too.
The woman whom Rich cites is uncomfortable, not because the man is “perfect,” but because she implicitly senses the degree of effort that keeping him will require of her. Feminism has beguiled women into thinking they can have it all without effort, and that’s an utter fantasy. The woman is slowly learning that a productive and successful life takes constant effort, and that poses a fundamental psychological conflict in her worldview. And no, it’s not at all in women’s DNA to seek out powerful, productive and successful men; it’s only in their views of life and reality that they form and adopt as they enter adulthood which motivate them to do this, and the fact that not all women do that is more than sufficient evidence to show that it is not “in the blood.” Rich’s citation of the corrupting influence of feminism confirms that it is philosophical, not genetic.
The way I keep my girlfriend happy. Every time she asks me to do something, I say no nine times out of ten with no exceptions. I never bore her by giving her endless drama, and as a result of these things, we have never been happier!
I have a question, I have dated many women, and I have noticed a pattern when it comes to female behavior. A lot of times what they do is they go into self-sabotaging behavior. So let’s say I’m with a girl, and I tell her “hey listen, I don’t want you to go out partying with your girlfriends because I don’t like you being in that scene.” That same week she will go do it, as if they are trying to challenge me. Obviously after that I stop seeing that girl because it would be a lose-lose situation, some end up regretting, but it baffles me that as women, if it’s in your nature to be submissive, why go against that natural tendency and do something to hurt your significant other and risk it all for a few drinks and get hit on by a few dudes?
Behavior is not really in the DNA but instinct is sure in the DNA, because of the hind brain. Most of the time they don't even know they're doing it, they just for some reason can't accept peace as a state of being yet think happiness is a state of being. I'm sorry, they feel like happiness is a state of being
It’s as psych-hacks put it, women don’t see value in the past. Everything you do for them if not deposited into a bank of gratitude in their minds. The only thing that matters is what you do for them today, and what they expect you to do from them in the future. Without gratitude, you can never be happy or fulfilled. Women who say they are happy, have to gaslight themselves into believing they are happy. That’s why women cannot take accountability, they don’t see past actions as actions or consequences.
That women are so imperfect, unfair, inconsistent blah blah blah doesn't bother me. That fits in with my perception of all reality. But that the system accommodates their demands no matter how inappropriate especially in marriage, divorce and other legal cases in the courts does. It's the system, the courts, the gov't that makes it all so unfair and difficult. Avoiding marriage and the system as much as possible is the best way to deal with that that I know of.
The committee is really and it’s often toxic. In my experience, it is often the friends they destroy healthy relationships. You have to pay close attention to who the friends are when you start dating to determine what they are like.
If you don’t want kids, don’t want to live with a woman and don’t want to get married, why do you need to provide for her? If she’s working making good money she can pay her way / share. I’m reluctant to share my pot of gold otherwise.
A man is like God, he is the life giver, he is there to take the blame when things are bad. We are the root of all life and thus the responsibility lies on us to hold frame with these crazy women.
Just went through this last week. A chic said i was analytical, critical, and she felt like she would always have to be “on” with me. 😂 I’m like what the hell don’t you want a man to be analytical
Beg to differ with you Rich - the man described by the woman on the Reddit post is not the perfect man. He’s a robot. Nor is she drunk on toxic feminism. Doesn’t mean she may not have issues . . . Anyways, I listen to you and appreciate your voice overall . . .
the problem already is guys being committed to one woman, it's best to have a main and other side pieces and not put up with the crap, let them go if they want
This is the same concept as when a woman wants a successful man to give the family the all they want>.But then complains constantly about the man working hard all the time to give it to them !Insane
As a woman, I think you're wrong. I can be really happy, but only without a man. Why ? Because all I will wonder is if he's cheating on me. Me alone, single and abstinent , I don't have to worry about competition or diseases.
80% of women statistically prefer 20% of men, then these same women wonder why the top 20% of men are not faithful? The faithful men are deemed as too boring and not exciting enough
It sounds to me like she's insecure. Like she's feeling not worthy of him. Of course there are some women who just are never happy. And there are women who are damaged from childhood and bad relationships that peace feels weird. They prefer the chaos. But other times like in this case, it sounds like the woman is feeling intimidated by this man. Like he's got so much ambition that eventually he'll be sick of her. An example would be if a woman is into working out and fitness but the man she's with it way more into it than her. He''s built like Joey Swoll and now she's worried that she won't be able to meet his expectations. In spite of the girl boss, confidence garbage they spout, most women are deeply insecure. And a good man will make them feel not worthy. This is why so many women date losers. It makes them the "better" one. Just a thought. This may be more about her insecurity than her dissatisfaction. 😊
Been following Rich Cooper for close to a decade now. Obviously a tremendous guy, but looks like he's forgetting key lessons from Rollo, Deida et al here. Women are not one-dimensional creatures who just want a provider. They also have a strong need for excitement, variation, spur of the moment experiences, yes for drama and the emotional roller coaster (obviously some more than others). Women also want guys who are relatable. This was Mystery Method 101 back in the day. Like it or not, women are the guardians of emotions and sensibility in life as Deida teaches. This is a fact of their nature. If emotions didn't matter to human life, they would've evolved away long ago. It's funny when guys keep getting surprised 'oh wow, he's a Harvard grad in high finance, makes 1M a year plays sax and piano and she's still unhappy??' If she's unhappy and not generally deranged, it most likely means some of her needs or wants are not being met. Many guys tend to get blinded by images of success, but fact is being a high achiever and being attractive to women are different things and don't necessarily overlap - often very different things, because to be that successful you're often deeply invested in following rules and conforming to expectations (especially in high academia or corporate). Chalking it all up to the feminism boogeyman sounds like a copout for not doing the analytical work to actually understand the situation. Bottom line If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to navigate a woman's emotions and meet all her needs. Otherwise even the 'good girls' get bored eventually. Apart for his amazing qualities and success, problem I see with @Rich Cooper is, his over-seriousness gives him a too-narrow view of life at times and he ends up missing important dimensions. There's something 'anal' there, if you'll pardon my French, like his a--hole is cramping up on overdrive and just won't relax. I'm sure I'm not the first one to notice.
From my experience dont put up with bullshit. Period. You dont need to be abusive, mean or nasty. You can put your foot down if you need to without being violent or abusive. Learn when you need to disengage and walk away. You always want to maintain your dignity and self respect if it goes south. Know what your limits are with what she brings to the table and let her know when its inappropriate. They will always complain about something. Create some form of drama. Its their nature. Stay grounded when they start getting weird. Dont engage walk away.
for man its more easy to state in happiness mode due to testosterone...that makes what we are and shape our brain in that way..with man values as friendship hardwork and risk our lives for child and womens in a swap
Maybe it's contradicting your point that all women want is a successful guy with lots of money. Maybe they're complaining cuz they just simply want to spend quality time with him and the money and success isn't as important as you like to think it is.
Putting aside sexes for a second, between two incentive based people, a power vaccume will exist. Think of the object of power being something in the middle of a table between the two people. You need to be the first one to grab it before the opposite person does. Its also a freedom vs security issue. Men want one while women want the other.
She feels intimidated by him because he's too good for her. She knows another woman, a better woman, could take him away at any time. That's why she feels all insecure about their relationship. 😂
Anyone who says other people make them feel a certain way is using flawed thinking. Each of us makes our own decision of how to feel. A person who refuses ownership of their own actions is too weak.
Excuse me. Man here, and I love this content, generally speaking. But honestly, how is it you guys cannot understand that a so-called "perfect guy" who comes home at 7, goes to bed at 9, and all the time inbetween his phone is ringing? Life is about more than just satisfying the cultural and societal norms of success. Bake some fucking cookies. Enjoy the lush green color of a leaf. Breathe in, breathe out. Life is a mystery. Don't get stuck on the hamster wheel. There is a balance to these things.
I made another comment but I agree with this too. Life, to me, is about working smarter, not harder...and in general it is to gain and use whatever resources you have to have more free time and fun, not less... Aaannd NOT to have to wait til the day u retire to have fun, rather such that u can begin doing it every week NOW So if a sexy vixen or super-duper fun girl complained that I didn't have a few long days off to pipe her down six times in a row.. or if I was on the phone too much with other douche-bags who are not a sexy woman with a hot ass to turn on said pipe... Then I probably agree with her (depending on how important what I am doing is on a given month/scenario) I like my free time though. My tombstone won't say jack-shh like "he spent all his time at work" or "grinding in circles" or "obsessed with something ultimately draining and not fun"
Just remember guys like Tom Brady and Steph Curry couldn’t keep their wives happy so that tells you everything you need to know! By the way even in the Bible there is no mention of a man being responsible for keeping a woman happy! A man is to be a protector, provider, and priest of his house not a provider of happiness!
If she’s complaining she is happy and if she’s happy she’s cheating bc she’s getting sick from somewhere else. Rollo Tomassi said you can’t make women happy. I showed Rollo this and he’s upset that you’re spewing out wrong information.
If you give a woman everything she says she wants, she'll never be more miserable.
Just give her what she needs, not what she wants.
I learned in 8th grade it's not my job to make a woman happy and I've been going off that business model ever since
She will always find a way to fuck it up no matter how good you treat her
Facts
Until it's all gone, then she's really miserable. Make it make sense.
Women prefer the excitement of failure over the boredom of success. Let that sink in.
Indeed. Women don't hate maltreatment, when it's predictability, routines, and boredom they loathe.
There's a ring of truth in what you say.
You are correct, sir.
They are not builders, but they are very good at destroying anything good.
MW love fun OVER everything 🤷🏿
EVERY woman wants a good man until, that man requires her to be a better woman.
Fellas my grandma said it best - "Son women don't want to fix their problems or be with the perfect man because they'll lose all their BS drama and they'll feel dead...they need drama to feel alive."
Drama is a woman's preferred currency. The more she has, the wealthier she feels, and the richer her relationships become. This is why they love the Bad Boys.
They use drama to water down your authority, never entertain it. They can get on my program or kick rocks!
Grandma was a real one for that man much respect 🫡💯
@@jacksquat4140also love to chase men with options bc it gives them that thrill of maybe one day she might have to throw hands with other women potentially or just argue.
@@jurassicthunder :You're right about that.
my ex was always chasing rainbows under the guise of being happy when she finally "found it"...she was never happy
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Happiness is a fleeing feeling, if you make Happiness your goal in life you'll always be miserable.
My ex was so fucking Whiney , cool personality but whiney . She complain going out and complain coming back home she was never happy always complaining about everything . 🤷🏿♂️ . Just came back from Costa Rica with my brother and 6 of his friends no women , all we did was drink , smoke and talk 💩 all day . We hike , went to the beach hang around the pool . It was the happiest I been in a long time . Did I mention there was no women with us and absolutely no whining whatsoever , no negative energy . 👍🏾💪🏾💯
A good relationship with her father is probably the most important quality to look for in a woman. My fiancé adores her father, speaks fondly of her childhood, quotes his witty sayings regularly, and, surprise surprise, no bullshit whatsoever in our relationship.
I mean I feel bad for women who had shitty fathers and wish them well. But I'm not going to live with them ever again.
Where the hell do you find a woman like that?? They still exist?
The ex wife of super soccer star Kaka, left him because he is so perfect. She left him and destroyed her family, just because of the toxicity of feminism.
Gisele Bundchen, too, with Tom Brady
They leave their man in instances like that and use that excuse because they NEED it to be their choice and have the control. They are so insecure that they feel its imminent that a man like that will eventually leave them for something else, so they sabotage it first so they have that control.
Amazing, isn’t it? Kaka was a great footballer, popular guy, good looking, multi millionaire, good family man, and yet that still happened. Crazy!
100% accurate. This is why they love toxic guys. They never fully get what they want so they are occupied with the rollercoaster. Like a child.
Broken women love toxic guys, healthy ones don't.
@@birdie.21. you naive
@@DanielGarcia-hr3yx the naive one here is you.
Yuuup . Ex got to be a “ stay- at - home “ long after the kids got out of college , married , etc . Then after me working 60-80 hours a week because she needed newer bigger houses that were never good enough ; I finally said I can’t work anymore hours . You get a job . Ran off with a Chad alcoholic a few years older than our oldest daughter - they live in a meth neighborhood in a mobile home ; bitching and complaining now after 7 year itch …
I've found that women hate peacefulness and silence
They watch True crime shows and fear porn to relax.
Guys a woman can never be satisfied.....
Seems it,
@@user-wp5qo6qg7q : I honestly can't say that I've ever met a truly happy woman. Women seem programmed to hunger and thirst for something more, while losing interest in what they have.
@@jacksquat4140 I found that it’s hard to run on their schedule, when im busy and need to get things down and they have all their stuff all over the place, it’s hard because they cost time.
Even if satisfied, that is also boring for them and wants drama.
@@drewsmith5961: I wish I could believe this, but I don't think it's possible. Women are too proud to be humble and they will never take agency for their actions. Studies have shown that women are incapable of learning from their mistakes.
My “ex baby momma” divorced me with our three kids, etc., wanting to “travel” and she meet a guy on a Vegas trip. I’m worth approximately 2M and she is renting, and will have to work until the day she dies, currently single and alone.
I love hearing stories like this. Congrats.
My story is exactly the same.
Had something similar man. Hope you’re doing alright bro xxx heal and take time . Someone better is coming
You probably weren’t laying pipe correctly
Get a Vasectomy and pay women to leave, you won bro!!
She got bored and of course looking for more attention from other men
You can make a woman feel anything just NOT bored...
@@PaulsChannel779 her constant entertainment is not a man's purpose
She's insecure because her "perfect man" forces her to look at herself and her shortcomings in the mirror. She's never done that involuntarily, which is uncomfortable. And, like a small child, she runs in the opposite direction of pain and probably takes it out on him in ways that will only grow her resentment towards him and, as a result, towards herself. It's a disaster waiting to happen.
Self reflection is not a characteristics strength in females.
@@cevanfx40 Unless self-absorption counts as reflection.
Sounds like bpd
A tale as old as time- ‘he’s great, but’………….
She thinks she can do better 🙄
Grass aint green on other slide
@@JayDubb410greener where you water it
Being an alpha male is overrated. I decided to just ignore what women want and enjoy my life and I'm so much happier.
Loud, brash, struts like a peacock, 10 mil in the bank. That's not an alpha. Alpha's are reciprocal
Let's talk about the toxic narcissism that is prevalent in so many men.
Since you will never make her (or anyone else) happy, always put your happiness first.
It took me years of trial and error to realize that.
@@sole__doubt Same here. Even if you do please others it will never be enough. Live your life the way you want. If others want to come along for the ride, that's great. If not, it's their loss.
@@MidwestMoney I couldnt have said it better myself.
This is some Patrice O'Neal type of knowledge #KingsHappinessComesFirst
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 3 years ended 5 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about him.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 7 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back .
How did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
The spiritual counselor is Suzanne Ann Walters .
Thank you very much for this vital information .
@@melly-n1w It's a spam bot.
Women don’t even really want half the shit they say they want. What they want, is to see where the boundaries are, and how firmly you will maintain them in the face of an onslaught of guilt tripping and mind games.
It does get tedious though, because it never truly ends. Even a secure woman in a healthy LTR will occasionally throw some shit at her man to see what slides off and what sticks.
Guilt tripping mind games wow. You said it man.
The woman complaining about the perfect man is upset because she realizes that she has no leverage. Her instinct is to want to control him, but he holds all of the value in the relationship. Everything he brings to the relationship requires effort and hard work. Everything she brings to the relationship can be replaced without any effort.
Damn son your a prophet. 🎯
Exactly what happened to me. My ex had a close friend she spilled her issues to with me. I'm a high value guy, make 6 figs, in shape, got my shit together. Her friend (who has never met me or spoken to me in person on any other route) convinced my ex of 4 years to leave me for a low value man who makes fraction of my income and isn't driven. They got engaged in 4 months and that friend of hers is now her maid of honor. Her other 2 close friends that actually know me and have been with me both said she made a mistake and were trying to convince her to stay with me and marry me. Insanity. Now I have to start over.
Women are just crabs in a bucket.
She feels insecure because hes leagues beyond her. Ive seen it countless times, she ignores/dumps mr right for a pookie or rayray type cause they need someone who "isnt as good as them" to feel adequate. Women dont have have that "grind hard and become the best" thing in them that we have. They are quite satisfied with being mediocre while at the same time demanding that they want a superhero, but if they do get one they dont know what to do with him, hes just too good and she doesnt want to improve herself.
After my divorce, I met a girl who fooled me again. The first year was perfect and she was an amazing girlfriend. She had dinner ready for me when I came home from work, helped me out around the house and I provided for her in return. I truly thought we would have a family together, mainly because she said that's what she wanted with me and her actions backed that up. She was a college educated, intelligent, conservative white girl who seemed to have good values. Then, she abruptly left me for a coworker guy who had at least 5 kids by 4 different baby mamas, was a gang member with the Bloods, was a literal pimp and had spent half his life in jail. He hooked her on coke and other drugs to gain emotional control over her. I'm pretty sure he ended up pimping her out. His first major crime was that he murdered an 81 year old man when he was 16 and it was before being tried as an adult was a big thing so he got off lightly. I don't think I have to mention his race. After that mindfuck of a relationship, I will never date again. My marriage was equally as ridiculous in other ways.
@@pdizzle5302oh dude. i hate this world.
@@pdizzle5302dang! This is why Coop says, females always preserve the opportunity to change their mind and emotions at any given moment. No matter how innocent she may seem. Im Afrikan, and to say the least, im not surprised those statistics are from a melanated male from America.
Holy fuck this is too much real tea.
MY EX WIFE ALWAYS ACCUSED ME OF MAKING HER FEEL INFERIOR BECAUSE I MADE SO MUCH MORE THAN HER. I WAS SHOCKED TO HAVE MY SUCCESS WEAPONIZED.
The guilt trips are incredible.
Right that's crazy
Steph Curry wife said she’s jealous of all the attention he gets. She should be the one getting the attention
I don't think she was ever attracted to him..she knew he was about to get paid..now she knows in California she gets half..
Shouldn't have married him then! She knew what she was in store for!
She's a narcissist.
Well, her greatest accomplishment was being ‘his wife’. No one knows her as anything else
She should be the one getting the attention? Why? She should be the one GIVING (Steph) her attention as his wife.
I have a unicorn. Was planning to start another business and she says ‘sweetie, we have enough money, don’t stress yourself out making more.’ Blew my mind, never knew a woman who thought enough was enough. What a treasure she is.
Every man thinks they have a unicorn lmfao
never get into that mindset. you don't have a unicorn. they don't exist.
Shes lying to you to make you feel better and lull you into a sense of complacency. Don't fall for it! They all care about money and progress it's in their DNA!!
Don't listen to her. It's a trap. You might get called as unambitious after few months
Dude.. All that means, is “right now I want more of your attention”, but that is just how she feels right now, and if you give her what she wants, she will soon get bored, and her priorities will change, or she’ll be comparing herself to other people, and she’ll be right back to stressing about money and wanting a better lifestyle and making you feel like it’s not enough.
The solution is to ignore women when they say stuff like that. If you want to start another business, do it. Give her enough attention to sustain the relationship, rather than the amount of attention she is asking for, and stay focused on YOUR goals. It will serve you both in the long term.
10+ year marriage and she made me feel like I was constantly wrong even when I was 100% right .in the end I gave in to her and she left she now regrets it but doesn't see that she did anything wrong.
That reminds me of a woman my buddy was dating.
They flew down to Costa Rica, they stayed at one of the nicest hotels in that country, and they spent a day on a "volcano hiking tour" where they hiked up an active volcano, swam in hot springs, and had had a meal catered by the company they contracted with. And when she got back, all she talked about was the size of a bug she had seen while out on that hike.
If there is a heaven, women like that would absolutely, positively find SOMETHING to complain about!
My parents were married for 37 years, my parents had a big beautiful paid off house with a pool thousands of dollars for retirement they literally had the American dream, one day my mom disappeared long story short she took off on my dad for a one legged felon who snorts pills and watches cnn all day he’s lazy, unemployed, collects disability and leeches off my mom,all the money she got from her divorce is almost gone now my mom cries for my dad and regrets her decisions I haven’t been the same since because my family fell apart my dad remarried a gold digger, any inheritance me and my brother would have gotten are gone to strangers. My mom threw away are family and the American dream so she can pay a lazy felons way through life, life has felt shitty since then…
Sorry that happened to you Kevin. Learn and move on with your life.
It’s important to consider that AS A SPECIES human females have a proclivity for negative emotions when going through the same experience/s compared to male humans.
If there’s nothing to complain about they will complain that there’s nothing to complain about
hahahaha GOOD ONE
Funny, but true
Us as guys don't have time for drama and negative energy! Great video!
Leave these damaged women to the bears. Bears gotta eat... Grizzle Grizzle.
My wife every so often wants Drama and confrontation, testing, Its there way to see if you still have frame.
Drama is a woman's preferred currency. The more she has, the wealthier she feels, and the richer her relationships become. This is why they love Bad Boys.
They want chaos and drama. Peace is boring just understand the game
Yep. If I'm quiet she thinks something is wrong or that I'm ignoring her when I'm just sitting quietly and trying to relax from dealing with this world.
So in summary make yourself happy as that is achievable.
Her bf problem is that he is too soft and don't put her in her place and don't stand up agains her!
Facts. Women need security of knowing they cannot run over a man.
Women listen to their friends way too much cuz they can't think for themselves.So they seek counsel from women who can't think for themselves either but somehow know exactly what she needs to do.
This may be off subject but when I was a very young guy, I dated a beautiful young woman I fell in love with and thought she loved me too. She sure acted like she was. After she broke up with me, I realized she was in love with love. She was a woman who was in love forever every time. I'll bet there are a lot of them like that out there.
Wow. This is a super interesting comment to me.
At least two girls I dated that I had an intense relationship with could be described as such.
They would acknowledge time and again that I was the best man they had ever met, even said the word "perfect" a handful of times about me...but I never *quite* got all I wanted out of them emotionally and in how they expressed themselves..sex was fine but a little hot and cold thanks to them being under stress and loving to vent, play victim - more than feel sexy etc.
But it was confusing cause, I know they gave more to me more than any other man they'd ever met or dated. And they were more loving, laughing, fun, and down to earth compared to the average biddy.
Still...about half the time they seemed distracted. And there were times they pulled back with the worst timing ever. Certain days they wouldn't want me naturally leading them to be more confident, sexy or something else they were otherwise total cool with before. On those days they'd say I was "too pushy" when I know they also hated men who were too shy and didn't know how to push smoothly/carefully as I did.
The "pushy" criticism, and me having healthy boundaries for our relationship (that they agreed to or liked as much as I did from the jump)...were the only things they could think to level at me as complaints at all. And those were rare complaints, cause they generally preferred I stay happy and non-judging of them and nagging BS, etc.
So I always knew something was wrong but couldn't figure it out... Now I think it is what u said.. they were in love with love, more than me directly or 100%..
Maybe they always loved me like 75 or 85 percent but that missing percentage was annoying, didn't make sense, and ultimately made them f' up a lot of good moments/potential.
They would have gotten more of what they wanted out of men and me, if they had let go the final percentage but they just couldn't conform totally or let go. I can agree there is a side to them that will think they are right and maybe regret very little...(idk, been completely no contact on my side since dumping them)
But yeah it's what u said plus immaturity.. plus they didn't know what healthy love looked like.. plus they probably needed attention overload to be satisfied (like to just remain on the phone with them all night/every night)..but I was never gonna do/be that part (again and they knew it from the jump...oh well)
@RexJacobus-bb1vw great comment. But what's sad of course is that a man can't be there for them non-stop, on the phone all night every day, or giving all their random female emotions everything they ever dreamed the instant they randomly feel it...
I mean, no human can do that. We all have to have life. And everyone needs to do a lot of things in peace and in private to even become attractive physically/financially in the first place.
Then u have the fact that females also get turned off if you seem TOO available, TOO thirsty, or TOO romantic even. They don't want a simp who fawns all over them like a floating hummingbird...but they don't really want an alpha who is so strong they have to live up to his higher standards or be dropped like a toilet-seat with little forgiveness...
So what they ultimately want is to just "trick" a man. Make a good man fall in love so he has blind-spots to her weaknesses. Or try to improve a generous man to being more studly/stoic. Or make a studly guy be less cheap and controlling (outside the bedroom).
It barely makes any sense ever and it's a miracle and relationship ever works super long-term.
Girls love when u command and control them to the best orgasms and sexual performance of her life in the bedroom...but God help you if you suggest her communication skills or something else she be adjusted or improved outside of that.
Lord help us all.
I respect my wife & Have great times together
But injoy my free times alone ! 68 yrs old,& 34 yrs married confident & work hard..Good video & Channel
You make a million they want a billion you make a billion women want a trillion dollars you'll never make them happy!
I was divorced by committee after the committee convinced my formerly ok ex to travel w them, go to conferences out of town, all the usual sht.
I’ve seen both women with Daddy issues and women with great dads who just can’t be happy.. miserable all the time, has everything she could need and still pissed off 50% of the time. Cannot be consistently happy
Unreal. Fantastic post!!
She'll only be happy when you're miserable.😂
Cus they are not hormonally stable
It sounds to me that it's not a great match. It's a matter of lifestyle and she obviously is not as driven as he is. He might be experiencing some
doubt too.
The woman whom Rich cites is uncomfortable, not because the man is “perfect,” but because she implicitly senses the degree of effort that keeping him will require of her. Feminism has beguiled women into thinking they can have it all without effort, and that’s an utter fantasy. The woman is slowly learning that a productive and successful life takes constant effort, and that poses a fundamental psychological conflict in her worldview. And no, it’s not at all in women’s DNA to seek out powerful, productive and successful men; it’s only in their views of life and reality that they form and adopt as they enter adulthood which motivate them to do this, and the fact that not all women do that is more than sufficient evidence to show that it is not “in the blood.” Rich’s citation of the corrupting influence of feminism confirms that it is philosophical, not genetic.
The way I keep my girlfriend happy. Every time she asks me to do something, I say no nine times out of ten with no exceptions. I never bore her by giving her endless drama, and as a result of these things, we have never been happier!
dont worry; her wheels are still turning trying to find a way to make you miserable
@@joejones9520@joejones9520 I agree that the eternal fight between good and evil never sleeps.
@@joejones9520😂
I have a question, I have dated many women, and I have noticed a pattern when it comes to female behavior. A lot of times what they do is they go into self-sabotaging behavior. So let’s say I’m with a girl, and I tell her “hey listen, I don’t want you to go out partying with your girlfriends because I don’t like you being in that scene.” That same week she will go do it, as if they are trying to challenge me. Obviously after that I stop seeing that girl because it would be a lose-lose situation, some end up regretting, but it baffles me that as women, if it’s in your nature to be submissive, why go against that natural tendency and do something to hurt your significant other and risk it all for a few drinks and get hit on by a few dudes?
Propaganda and modern day 'culture'. Women needs to comply, so when the group says 'behave like this', they comply...
Also they can't be controlled by their man and be boss bitches
Story of Adam and Eve
Our culture
shit tests. if she finds a guy who will let that happen, she will leave him afterwards. regardless if she's married for decades or not.
Behavior is not really in the DNA but instinct is sure in the DNA, because of the hind brain. Most of the time they don't even know they're doing it, they just for some reason can't accept peace as a state of being yet think happiness is a state of being. I'm sorry, they feel like happiness is a state of being
Married 20 years. It seems like she was looking for a reason to be unhappy. The topics were transient in nature and time.
It’s as psych-hacks put it, women don’t see value in the past. Everything you do for them if not deposited into a bank of gratitude in their minds. The only thing that matters is what you do for them today, and what they expect you to do from them in the future. Without gratitude, you can never be happy or fulfilled.
Women who say they are happy, have to gaslight themselves into believing they are happy. That’s why women cannot take accountability, they don’t see past actions as actions or consequences.
That women are so imperfect, unfair, inconsistent blah blah blah doesn't bother me. That fits in with my perception of all reality. But that the system accommodates their demands no matter how inappropriate especially in marriage, divorce and other legal cases in the courts does. It's the system, the courts, the gov't that makes it all so unfair and difficult. Avoiding marriage and the system as much as possible is the best way to deal with that that I know of.
Tom Brady, Kevin Costner were not enough!! Let that sink in
not even brad pitt
The committee is really and it’s often toxic. In my experience, it is often the friends they destroy healthy relationships. You have to pay close attention to who the friends are when you start dating to determine what they are like.
What is the only thing a woman wants..., ? Answer: MORE
Avoud em and be at peace
Why would I spend all day and night working, just to impress a woman? I'd rather have some downtime, hangout time, quality time.
Shes broken and thats why she feels unworthy.
Just be yourself and respect yourself. It’s not complicated.
Treat them mean to keep them keen. 😂😂😂
Always scrolling for a higher bid.
If you don’t want kids, don’t want to live with a woman and don’t want to get married, why do you need to provide for her?
If she’s working making good money she can pay her way / share.
I’m reluctant to share my pot of gold otherwise.
Why would you ? What's the point ?
A man is like God, he is the life giver, he is there to take the blame when things are bad. We are the root of all life and thus the responsibility lies on us to hold frame with these crazy women.
Just went through this last week. A chic said i was analytical, critical, and she felt like she would always have to be “on” with me. 😂 I’m like what the hell don’t you want a man to be analytical
There's a lyric in a song by The cars and it goes, as soon as she gets it... she wants something new... Lol
Wait till one runs a worldwide superpower.
Beg to differ with you Rich - the man described by the woman on the Reddit post is not the perfect man. He’s a robot. Nor is she drunk on toxic feminism. Doesn’t mean she may not have issues . . . Anyways, I listen to you and appreciate your voice overall . . .
the problem already is guys being committed to one woman, it's best to have a main and other side pieces and not put up with the crap, let them go if they want
Love you for what you do to help men. Read your book and pass it on. The ideal man does not exist. Also, I do not want to be that man.
This is the same concept as when a woman wants a successful man to give the family the all they want>.But then complains constantly about the man working hard all the time to give it to them !Insane
As a woman, I think you're wrong. I can be really happy, but only without a man.
Why ? Because all I will wonder is if he's cheating on me.
Me alone, single and abstinent , I don't have to worry about competition or diseases.
Well said!!!
80% of women statistically prefer 20% of men, then these same women wonder why the top 20% of men are not faithful? The faithful men are deemed as too boring and not exciting enough
@@inacher4566both of ya’ll have cats as profile pictures. The meme writes itself lol
Great, no one will miss out anyways.
It sounds to me like she's insecure. Like she's feeling not worthy of him. Of course there are some women who just are never happy. And there are women who are damaged from childhood and bad relationships that peace feels weird. They prefer the chaos.
But other times like in this case, it sounds like the woman is feeling intimidated by this man. Like he's got so much ambition that eventually he'll be sick of her. An example would be if a woman is into working out and fitness but the man she's with it way more into it than her. He''s built like Joey Swoll and now she's worried that she won't be able to meet his expectations. In spite of the girl boss, confidence garbage they spout, most women are deeply insecure. And a good man will make them feel not worthy. This is why so many women date losers. It makes them the "better" one. Just a thought. This may be more about her insecurity than her dissatisfaction. 😊
Rich,
God bless you and your book. It helped me overcome
Been following Rich Cooper for close to a decade now. Obviously a tremendous guy, but looks like he's forgetting key lessons from Rollo, Deida et al here. Women are not one-dimensional creatures who just want a provider. They also have a strong need for excitement, variation, spur of the moment experiences, yes for drama and the emotional roller coaster (obviously some more than others). Women also want guys who are relatable. This was Mystery Method 101 back in the day. Like it or not, women are the guardians of emotions and sensibility in life as Deida teaches. This is a fact of their nature. If emotions didn't matter to human life, they would've evolved away long ago. It's funny when guys keep getting surprised 'oh wow, he's a Harvard grad in high finance, makes 1M a year plays sax and piano and she's still unhappy??' If she's unhappy and not generally deranged, it most likely means some of her needs or wants are not being met. Many guys tend to get blinded by images of success, but fact is being a high achiever and being attractive to women are different things and don't necessarily overlap - often very different things, because to be that successful you're often deeply invested in following rules and conforming to expectations (especially in high academia or corporate). Chalking it all up to the feminism boogeyman sounds like a copout for not doing the analytical work to actually understand the situation.
Bottom line If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to navigate a woman's emotions and meet all her needs. Otherwise even the 'good girls' get bored eventually. Apart for his amazing qualities and success, problem I see with @Rich Cooper is, his over-seriousness gives him a too-narrow view of life at times and he ends up missing important dimensions. There's something 'anal' there, if you'll pardon my French, like his a--hole is cramping up on overdrive and just won't relax. I'm sure I'm not the first one to notice.
Agents of chaos. Can only function when under control.
Everyone has some type of baggage we just have to try and minimize it. Think you’re looking for someone that doesn’t exist.
From my experience dont put up with bullshit. Period. You dont need to be abusive, mean or nasty. You can put your foot down if you need to without being violent or abusive. Learn when you need to disengage and walk away. You always want to maintain your dignity and self respect if it goes south. Know what your limits are with what she brings to the table and let her know when its inappropriate.
They will always complain about something. Create some form of drama. Its their nature. Stay grounded when they start getting weird. Dont engage walk away.
for man its more easy to state in happiness mode due to testosterone...that makes what we are and shape our brain in that way..with man values as friendship hardwork and risk our lives for child and womens in a swap
1:57 Dude’s eyes are throwing me off.
😂😂😂
Maybe it's contradicting your point that all women want is a successful guy with lots of money. Maybe they're complaining cuz they just simply want to spend quality time with him and the money and success isn't as important as you like to think it is.
Their ego.
Putting aside sexes for a second, between two incentive based people, a power vaccume will exist. Think of the object of power being something in the middle of a table between the two people. You need to be the first one to grab it before the opposite person does. Its also a freedom vs security issue. Men want one while women want the other.
She feels intimidated by him because he's too good for her. She knows another woman, a better woman, could take him away at any time. That's why she feels all insecure about their relationship. 😂
360p? I thought my internet was acting up.
Well said!
Women say they hate cheaters but thrn steal husbands, then wonder why she loses him too.
Women have to develop an intrinsic source of happiness. you can NOT make another person happy.
Until I became Red Pilled I thought it was me
Women never get bored of evil things
Patrice O Neal!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
My favorite comedian of all time.
I miss that guy.
The world class athlete is the brazilian soccer player Kaka, World Cup Champion, handsome, rich, calm, a great father and husband.
Anyone who says other people make them feel a certain way is using flawed thinking. Each of us makes our own decision of how to feel. A person who refuses ownership of their own actions is too weak.
to a point but if a person is hitting you with a hammer they are making u feel a certain way...
Today's huge misconception, success does not equate to value.
Excuse me. Man here, and I love this content, generally speaking. But honestly, how is it you guys cannot understand that a so-called "perfect guy" who comes home at 7, goes to bed at 9, and all the time inbetween his phone is ringing?
Life is about more than just satisfying the cultural and societal norms of success. Bake some fucking cookies. Enjoy the lush green color of a leaf. Breathe in, breathe out. Life is a mystery. Don't get stuck on the hamster wheel. There is a balance to these things.
I made another comment but I agree with this too.
Life, to me, is about working smarter, not harder...and in general it is to gain and use whatever resources you have to have more free time and fun, not less... Aaannd NOT to have to wait til the day u retire to have fun, rather such that u can begin doing it every week NOW
So if a sexy vixen or super-duper fun girl complained that I didn't have a few long days off to pipe her down six times in a row.. or if I was on the phone too much with other douche-bags who are not a sexy woman with a hot ass to turn on said pipe... Then I probably agree with her (depending on how important what I am doing is on a given month/scenario)
I like my free time though. My tombstone won't say jack-shh like "he spent all his time at work" or "grinding in circles" or "obsessed with something ultimately draining and not fun"
I’d be scared if I found a happy woman 😆😆 “it’s the rapture!!!”
Just remember guys like Tom Brady and Steph Curry couldn’t keep their wives happy so that tells you everything you need to know! By the way even in the Bible there is no mention of a man being responsible for keeping a woman happy! A man is to be a protector, provider, and priest of his house not a provider of happiness!
She needs to have a good relationship with her father is KEY.
no, she can have stable married parents whom she loves and still destroy you
💯 Rich.
They don’t have a lick of sense…..let em figure it out for themselves. We toxic men have checked out.
If she’s complaining she is happy and if she’s happy she’s cheating bc she’s getting sick from somewhere else. Rollo Tomassi said you can’t make women happy. I showed Rollo this and he’s upset that you’re spewing out wrong information.
I call it the Hive Mind