Why LDS Polygamy and Joseph Smith Historian Left and Came Back to the LDS Church (Part Two) | E0013

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  • In episode 13 of Let's Get Real with Stephen Jones, Don Bradley speaks candidly about why he, as an LDS Polygamy and Joseph Smith Historian, left and came back to the LDS Church.
    00:00 - Intro
    00:58 - "What will I have to do to come back?" | Coming Back
    04:31 - "The Lord wants you back in His church."
    11:45 - "Just to show that God had a sense of humor. . . "
    15:27 - "I had to go through what is called a restoration of blessings."
    21:42 - "This has to do with Joseph Smith and Polygamy."
    34:40 - "One of these things is not like the others."
    44:02 - "This doesn't look like it is about sex. If it were, we would expect him to do it differently."
    49:57 - "I'm totally open to building on what any other historian finds."
    55:37 - "People leave the church but they don't leave it alone. What's your perspective on that?"
    01:03:26 - "What I would say to people who are questioning, have doubts, or who have even lost their faith."
    01:07:24 - "Looking at the good things in my life and realizing I didn't have anybody to thank."
    Don's book The Lost 116 Pages: Reconstructing the Book of Mormon's Missing Stories:
    www.amazon.com/Lost-116-Pages...
    Don Bradley's Academia.edu page, with several of his publications, including one on the John Alger account of the First Vision:
    josephsmithpapers.academia.ed...

КОМЕНТАРІ • 518

  • @Irvingdector
    @Irvingdector 9 місяців тому +668

    I gradually lost my faith in the Church and God after watching Mormon Stories and anti-Mormon content. One day I paid attention who I was listening to, and all of them didn’t believed in God and Christ anymore; I also asked myself “Are you going to remplace Elder Urchdoft for Jhon Dehlin as role model in your life?”, that day I went back to God for answers and I got answers and spiritual experiences. I’m coming back to the Church and more than that I’m Coming back to Jesus Christ with a more informed and real testimony than ever.

    • @Irvingdector
      @Irvingdector 9 місяців тому +10

      (I apologies for my broken English)

    • @onandagus1
      @onandagus1 9 місяців тому +25

      @lmlrvi - Whoaaa! Powerful! People don't realize where the trajectory they get themselves on leads. It's so much wiser to look down the road to see where it leads *before* you travel that road than to just blindly keep going on it.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +57

      Thank you for being willing to share this publicly. I'm sure many more may be going through the same thing. I've had many people message me with similar comments. Your comment will give strength to so many who will read this. I love that you emphasized coming back to God. He is full of grace and truth-much love.

    • @Irvingdector
      @Irvingdector 9 місяців тому +31

      @@LetsGetRealSJit’s so hard when your go thru a “faith crisis” bro, it affects you spiritually, mentally (lost of anxiety and depression) and even physically (spend lots of time searching and watching anti Mormon content). Now looking back I can’t believe how they just throw half-truths and lies without mercy of knowing that so many families and individuals are being damaged. (I apologies for my broken English)

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +31

      @@Irvingdector Everyone has a journey. Your English is great by the way. I learned Portuguese and know how hard it is to express yourself in another language. . . I hear you loud and clear.

  • @lukewoodward4342
    @lukewoodward4342 9 місяців тому +138

    I'm a southern baptist and I love watching these videos and learning about how LDS members think. Thanks for sharing this content.

    • @rkchen
      @rkchen 9 місяців тому +7

      Thank you for being open to learning our beliefs.

    • @angelalewis3645
      @angelalewis3645 8 місяців тому +17

      I am LDS, and I’ve been watching some good Catholic content. It’s helped me understand so much more. I love all of my Christian brothers and sisters! How blessed we all are to know Jesus Christ!

    • @RevelationTestament
      @RevelationTestament 8 місяців тому +14

      I grew up Southern Baptist, but God led me out of it as I had too many questions about the doctrine of the trinity, and other things. I can still honestly say that the Church of Jesus Christ is the only Church I have ever found that meets all the criterion of the Lord's Church in the Bible.

    • @majesticliberatoroftheoppr3971
      @majesticliberatoroftheoppr3971 4 місяці тому +7

      I love our Baptist brothers and sisters

    • @lizh7777
      @lizh7777 3 місяці тому +6

      I have some southern baptist friends. I know we have doctrine differences but I love people being faithful. We agree on so many good things, I'm happy to stand with my baptist friends.

  • @hjohnson966
    @hjohnson966 9 місяців тому +112

    Someone who is honestly willing to change their point of view is way more trustworthy than someone who blocks out beliefs they don't like.
    I'm honestly a bit more of the latter, but it is so refreshing to see someone who not only acknowledged that their old point of view was incomplete but to do it twice and adjust accordingly regardless of how embarrassing it is. I have nothing but respect.

    • @onandagus1
      @onandagus1 9 місяців тому +13

      Thanks! I just hope others don't think they have to leave the church in order to get perspective. Learn from *my* mistakes and those of others--don't be like me and insist on just learning from your own! 😅

    • @scottvance74
      @scottvance74 9 місяців тому +4

      Would you still honor him as trustworthy if he was willing to change his beliefs again, or only because he changed his beliefs to those which align with yours?

    • @kevinedward118
      @kevinedward118 9 місяців тому

      Any rational human being with half a mind who reads the CES letter evidence would see that Joseph Smith is a fraud. The GOOD news is that the Jesus of the Bible is TRUE and will help anyone who wants to know the truth!

    • @hjohnson966
      @hjohnson966 9 місяців тому +11

      ​@scottvance74 I was implying that anyone who is willing to actually confront hard truths that force them to ask if what they believe is true is more likely to find the truth than someone who refuses to confront harsh realities that they don't like.
      In or out of the church, someone who honestly seeks truth is more respectable than someone who only defends their beliefs because they're emotionally attached to them.

    • @hjohnson966
      @hjohnson966 9 місяців тому +6

      ​@onandagus1 Good advice!
      I'm fascinated by your story, it's truly remarkable how God works in our lives. Your humility is especially admirable.
      Thank you for your hard work in researching church history. Knowing your story helps people (myself included) to know that your research is being done properly, and not cherry-picking evidence to fit a narrative. Someone who has never left the church might be inclined to ignore uncomfortable findings and someone who left might only focus on the uncomfortable aspects. You're probably the most reliable source there is for unbiased research.

  • @jbailey1898
    @jbailey1898 9 місяців тому +107

    I remember feeling so broken hearted when I saw my dear friend wearing her "I am John Dehlin" tee shirt after she left the church. My subsequent study and "journey" of faith followed after seeing her departure from the church. I am so grateful for that experience and what it taught me about the Lord and His mercy and love for us. I am really ready to wear an "I am Don Bradley" tee shirt now. Thank you Brother Bradley. You are one of my favorite modern-day examples.

    • @onandagus1
      @onandagus1 9 місяців тому +8

      @jbailey1898 Oh, wow, how sweet!! Thank you for sharing this.

    • @outof_obscurity
      @outof_obscurity 7 місяців тому

      So odd how people have a problem paying tithing to the church of Jesus Christ of latter day saints, but have no problem giving it to Mormon stories who is giving John delin a raise every year. Ever read their public tax records? He makes more than half a million every year. Do you really think he's not going on vacation and buying expensive cars with that? 🤔.
      Odd how they have no problem paying that to him instead of charity 😂

  • @tecumseha
    @tecumseha 7 місяців тому +21

    This is absolutely the BEST interview w/ Don Bradley that I've seen. The Saints Unscripted one was good but brief. In the Ward Radio interview, Don was frequently interrupted by the host & other guests. This one was so great! Between Part 1 & Part 2, this is a full-length film, where Don does most of the talking! 👏🏼 Thank you Stephen, for only asking necessary questions, & letting Don mostly guide the conversation. 🙏🏼
    I have 1 disagreement w/ Don, though. He says he's not a very good speaker. Pfff! 🤔😆 I've heard his story before, & was still mesmerized for over 2 hours by everything he said!
    THANK YOU BOTH!

  • @harmagician1
    @harmagician1 9 місяців тому +95

    Here's a scholar who has looked at LDS Church history from all angles with a critical eye. After all he has seen and been through, he's come to the conclusion that the Church is true. His story is a cautionary tale to members who are thinking of walking down the same path that leads to spiritual apostasy. Thanks for sharing your story, Don.

    • @Battleborn357
      @Battleborn357 6 місяців тому +2

      That's still doesn't prove anything. Faith is subjective, built on personal feelings, emotions, etc. Not fact or truth.

    • @phillipcook3430
      @phillipcook3430 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Battleborn357 You just stated a fact but you don't even know if that is true.

    • @Battleborn357
      @Battleborn357 5 місяців тому

      @@phillipcook3430
      Are you a sped? You literally contradicted yourself

    • @Battleborn357
      @Battleborn357 5 місяців тому +1

      @@phillipcook3430
      What? You're contradicting yourself

    • @papayaw2920
      @papayaw2920 2 місяці тому

      @@Battleborn357you don’t understand your own words? How is that possible? Read your words carefully and see how they apply to you and this situation. You’d be baffled

  • @bliu4266
    @bliu4266 8 місяців тому +21

    Don not only brings great light to controversy in LDS history, but also teaches us how to think critically about history and all aspects of truth in our lives. I love his emphasis on broadening his perspective on how the gospel has benefited him, as I think so many tend to “throw the baby out with the bath water”. Also a common practice in todays politics and culture.
    I also appreciate his ex-member atheist perspective and hope to give more compassion and understanding for a difficult path people choose to take when leaving their beliefs behind. Thank you Don!

  • @ronpalmer2u
    @ronpalmer2u 5 місяців тому +7

    Many years ago I was concerned that Joseph Smith committed adultery. The Holy Spirit told me " whether or not Joseph Smith committed adultery is none of your concern, that is between him and Me, as for you, you need to be concerned about your own standing."

  • @pleasantpictures
    @pleasantpictures 9 місяців тому +50

    I can feel Don’s sincerity. The closing segment/couple minutes is everything. Thank you Don and Stephen for being bold and sharing this with the world.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +6

      There is more to come. We are just getting started. I'm glad you enjoyed this.

  • @vanderley3
    @vanderley3 6 місяців тому +16

    The last part got me. Thank you so much for this. I have been listening to Don Bradley a lot this past year, and I had thought the whole time, as insightful as he is, that he was a historian who came back to the Church simply because his research revealed historical facts that were undeniable. This is the first time I saw that he actually has a sincere and beautiful testimony of the gospel and the love for our Savior. Thank you, Don, for what you do. God did not give up on you.

  • @lindapotter1982
    @lindapotter1982 9 місяців тому +43

    Part 1 was my first time watching your channel. I loved the interview! As a mother of many who looks like the typical LDS mom and who has experienced a faith crisis, I have so much more compassion for everyone who struggles. It is a gut wrenching experience. Thank you Don for sharing your experience in such an open and honest way. It was very uplifting to hear your story.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +10

      We need more compassion in this world. One of the things I love about the Savior is his ability to love without judgment. He is full of grace AND truth. He knows everything about us, yet he’s still willing to love us, while at the same time, he doesn’t shame us into following Him or force us to be with him. He’s been playing the long game for a long time and is good at it.

  • @dinocollins720
    @dinocollins720 9 місяців тому +35

    This was one of the most uplifting, insightful, and inspiring interviews I’ve ever listened to… no exaggeration. Wow 😮

  • @kenton6804
    @kenton6804 9 місяців тому +29

    There have been a lot of interviews with Don Bradley, and this and his Ward Radio one are my favorites, for different reasons. I love hearing from this man, your story is amazing Don! Not only that, but your intellect is so clear and refreshing in my mind. I really appreciate your contributions.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +24

      Don is a breath of fresh air. There is so much more in him to share. I'm trying to convince him to start his own channel. If I can get enough people to like this comment, maybe he will consider it.

    • @bmwestmoreland
      @bmwestmoreland 8 місяців тому +4

      I think it would be awesome to follow a channel about LDS History helmed by Don.

    • @kenton6804
      @kenton6804 8 місяців тому +2

      @@LetsGetRealSJ The Don Bradley channell would be pretty awesome.

  • @GusHdzRuiz
    @GusHdzRuiz 9 місяців тому +42

    Don's journey is very sincere and I agree that someone who leaves the church and returns is a more trustworthy source for me because they understand the dealbreakers and have reasons to believe regardless of them. Again, thank you for sharing his story! It truly shows that behind the scenes the church wants to forgive...the Savior wants to forgive.

    • @scottvance74
      @scottvance74 9 місяців тому +2

      So a person who changes their beliefs twice is more trustworthy than a person who changes their beliefs once? Can you explain the logic here to me?

    • @marymabey9858
      @marymabey9858 9 місяців тому +1

      Much good in all the journeys. I’ve believed all my life and I feel very grateful and blessed. Yet I love hearing about and learning from the other faith journeys test others travel. They add to my own testimony ❤

    • @michaelkillpack5102
      @michaelkillpack5102 9 місяців тому

      @scottvance74 You know, you don’t have to take everything so literally and without nuance. Check out the Parable of the Two Debtors (Luke 7:36-50).

    • @scottvance74
      @scottvance74 9 місяців тому +1

      @@michaelkillpack5102 What things should we take literally and what things should we take figuratively? Is the bible literal? Genesis and the 7 day creation? Is God literal? If everyone gets to choose what is literal and what isn't based on what is most convenient, then we are all playing a game of Calvin-ball. I think that there is value in logic, reason, and thoughtful discussion.

    • @MattMorency
      @MattMorency 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@scottvance74The nuance here is that by trustworthy, he probably meant faith building. Changing your position twice to two different things is not the same as changing it once and then returning to the original belief as your understanding grows.
      I'm hesitant to say more because this kind of comment feels like the kind that hunts out errors and nitpicks rather than giving room for human frailty and the benefit of the doubt, hence why the second commenter said to read with nuance. Your response indicates that you aren't interested in nuance or the potential for this viewpoint to be correct. You have conclusions in search of evidence rather than the other way around.
      I'm not gonna say that we have concrete proof because that's not how faith works, but the gaps that fall under scrutiny have a tendency to find themselves getting filled rather than getting worse.

  • @shawneddy2093
    @shawneddy2093 9 місяців тому +25

    I love listening to Don Bradley. Him and David Alexander are two of the best people to listen to on the internet. I hope he keeps writing more books. His story needs to be shared far and wide. if nothing else, like and comment to get this important story and man out there.

  • @chasebros4948
    @chasebros4948 9 місяців тому +34

    I would like to add a thought to what Don Bradley spoke about regarding Joseph Smith marrying women who were pregnant and already married to other men. In addition to the possible motive discussed in the podcast at 44:57, I think there’s another possible explanation we should consider. Joseph understood that plural marriage would be hard for people-especially Emma-to accept. Being sealed for eternity only to woman who were already married and pregnant essentially eliminates the possibility of sexual relations between these women and Joseph. This seems to be the case especially in light of what the Lord says in D&C 132:41. After being sealed for eternity to Joseph, these women continued to live and have normal marital relationships with their first, legal husbands. Therefore, one could argue that another motive for Joseph seeking out these kinds of marriages was because he knew they would be less difficult for Emma to accept. Certainly less difficult than if Joseph had immediately sought out single, attractive women-since marriages of that kind could justifiably include sexual relations. Joseph’s first attempt to practice plural marriage with Fanny Alger did not go well to say the least, and it makes sense Joseph would want to avoid a repeat of that. So it seems these marriages to women who were already married and pregnant was Joseph’s attempt to fulfill the commandment to practice plural marriage while minimizing damages to his relationship with Emma and accusations of sexual promiscuity from others.

    • @DB_Golfer
      @DB_Golfer 9 місяців тому +4

      💯totally agree with that

    • @noelhausler8006
      @noelhausler8006 4 місяці тому

      Nothing changes. In the D&C Martin Harris was told to not covert his neighours wife. (D&C 19:25-26) The report by his wife Lucy seems to show that he was doing more than just coveting. Did Martin Harris whip, kick and turn her out of the house?

    • @jordanott5464
      @jordanott5464 2 місяці тому

      I don't think he had much concern for Emma. God had his back he just told Emma he would destroy her if she didn't like it

    • @keola787
      @keola787 Місяць тому

      I agree with you. Also, I think that the women Joseph chose were emotionally unavailable.

  • @HustleatHomeMom
    @HustleatHomeMom 9 місяців тому +13

    This is so incredibly powerful. Thank you both for what you are doing to lift and strengthen testimonies. Don, your story touched my heart and brought me to tears. I’m grateful for your vulnerability and willingness to share. Thank you! ❤️

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +4

      I find myself pondering this conversation often since we recorded it. There are so many levels. For me, a lot of its power has been from the simplicity and honesty of Don’s real story. He is a witness of Jesus Christ’s redemption. It's so beautiful to witness it's impact on others.

    • @onandagus1
      @onandagus1 9 місяців тому +1

      @HustleatHomeMom So happy! Thank you!

  • @surferdude4487
    @surferdude4487 7 місяців тому +14

    "if the church couldn't forgive, It couldn't be The Lord's church." TRUTH!

  • @willcareterana9186
    @willcareterana9186 9 місяців тому +33

    Thank you so much Stephen and Don, this has been faith promoting content. God bless you brethren!

  • @bryanl.taylor6249
    @bryanl.taylor6249 9 місяців тому +12

    I love Don Bradley’s life story and his powerful witness and testimony of the divine nature of the restored gospel of Christ through Joseph Smith and God’s mercy to all His children through Jesus Christ. Very humbling! Thank you both for this wonderful discussion!

  • @Anonymoussoidontgetfired
    @Anonymoussoidontgetfired 9 місяців тому +34

    Absolutely beautiful episode(s). Don has to be one of my new favorite people and I cannot wait to read more of his publishings and findings. What an incredible man and GENIUS. I could listen to him talk for another 3 hours!! Thanks for putting together this amazing podcast and for being a wonderful corner of the internet that is faith building and assuring. Can’t wait to hear more!

    • @onandagus1
      @onandagus1 9 місяців тому +9

      @emmathyst2999 - Emma, goodness how kind of you! If you really want to listen to another 3 hours, I will just have to do a lot more podcasting!😋 In fact, Stephen and I are planning another about the lost 116 pages. Thanks for you sweet and very affirming comments.

    • @DB_Golfer
      @DB_Golfer 9 місяців тому +3

      @@onandagus1 Don that would be amazing! Already devoured your Ward Radio stuff lol

    • @cainefamily3547
      @cainefamily3547 Місяць тому

      Same!!

  • @Motlatsi
    @Motlatsi 9 місяців тому +8

    I appreciate the things I felt watching this series, the resolve that has come to me. Oh I took so much from this. So much beauty. I never watch lengthy videos but I'm glad I stuck around through these.

  • @roberthall9452
    @roberthall9452 9 місяців тому +12

    I think we could all put ourselves in his shoes and learn the process of being compassionate and charitable when things aren't the way we want them to be in church.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +3

      I agree. Charity takes longer but lasts longer.

  • @livejoyfully6426
    @livejoyfully6426 9 місяців тому +10

    I read Don's book on the 116 pages. It was so well thought out and insightful. He is really good at his craft. I loved this episode!

  • @kimnielschris
    @kimnielschris 9 місяців тому +16

    This made my day! Thank you, Don, for sharing your experience and testimony and thank you, Stephen, for putting wonderful, faith-building content out there. ❤

  • @dinocollins720
    @dinocollins720 9 місяців тому +14

    “On account of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints I’d like to invite you to be baptized again!”
    Wow that was powerful! That brought tears to my eyes.

  • @kevinferrin5695
    @kevinferrin5695 9 місяців тому +7

    You wrung me to tears. I am so grateful for overcoming my carro period and for my testimony of the restoration.

  • @suzipalmer5248
    @suzipalmer5248 9 місяців тому +9

    This was so amazing to me. It's just what i needed. Most of my children have left the church... for now. I want to read all of dams books. What a humble scholar.

    • @Muzzy2024
      @Muzzy2024 9 місяців тому +2

      Me too dear. I want so much to understand my children and siblings in kindness and compassion. Let’s buy the books and hang in there, I’m with you❤

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +1

      His humility is what I love the most about him.

  • @Shezuko
    @Shezuko 7 місяців тому +4

    Both part 1 and 2 of this are amazing. I am so grateful for Don Bradley and that he went on the journey of leaving and now back with so much to share. His life, journey and knowledge he gained through everything is a gift to us. The journey is important. He is so much more credible to me because of his journey.

  • @jacoblines6364
    @jacoblines6364 9 місяців тому +8

    Don Bradley's book The Lost 116 Pages is one of the very best books I have read about the Book of Mormon, and I have read a lot of them. His attention to all of the tiny details and the way he connects the dots between them make his work very special and very instructive. If you haven't read the book, you should. It made me love the Book of Mormon even more. And, like he mentioned in this interview, I feel closest to Jesus Christ when I am reading the Book of Mormon.

    • @onandagus1
      @onandagus1 9 місяців тому +1

      @jacoblines6364 Jacob, I'm so glad my book has helped you understand the Book of Mormon better, brother! =)

  • @hjohnson966
    @hjohnson966 9 місяців тому +12

    I literally just finished watching part 1 when this was posted.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +1

      Well, there you go. Part two is just as good. Different flow, but still good.

  • @TrebizondMusic-cm6fp
    @TrebizondMusic-cm6fp 9 місяців тому +8

    There's so much good stuff; I particularly appreciate from 11:18 to about 11:50. After coming out the other side of my own little crisis of chafing against the culture, doubting my faith etc. I've gotten a lot more patient with my fellow worshipers, even when they say boneheaded things. I might try to describe it by saying I feel I've had a link forged to a truth deeper than all that, and a love that dissolves a lot of natural human fractiousness.

  • @jordan-xe2yb
    @jordan-xe2yb 9 місяців тому +7

    I love his book The Lost 116. I feel like he has the best grasp on translation process and can explain it well. At least for me-he helped me more than any other book or speaker on the topic.

  • @henryponnefz1419
    @henryponnefz1419 9 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for sharing. Millions will either find the truth or return because of your experience. God will utilize you as a tool, both of you. All the best.

  • @seinipavia6355
    @seinipavia6355 9 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for sharing your story! I have 2 sons who removed their membership records from the church, one of them went on a mission. Broke my heart.

    • @onandagus1
      @onandagus1 9 місяців тому +4

      @seinipavia6355 Aww. I feel for you! When I left, God didn't give up on me. He hasn't given up on your sons either; and, just like you, He never will! What were their main reasons for leaving?

    • @sarahaas183
      @sarahaas183 9 місяців тому +4

      I came back after 20 years! Hugs ❤

    • @seinipavia6355
      @seinipavia6355 9 місяців тому

      @@onandagus1 they left after learning about Joseph Smith married a 14 yr old girl. I pray for them that someday they will come back!

    • @jaasynergy8
      @jaasynergy8 9 місяців тому

      @@seinipavia6355 did this video insinuate she might have actually been 16 since the marriage dates were off? Just not sure

    • @LatterdayDiscipleofChristJesus
      @LatterdayDiscipleofChristJesus 7 місяців тому +1

      @@seinipavia6355 Joseph Smith was sealed to a 14 yr old girl. She has a name and it is Helen Mar Kimball. Helen Mar Kimball wrote a book called Why We Practice Plural Marriage. She defended the principle of plural marriage as taught in Doctrine and Covenants 132. isn't it interesting that the anti's don't mention this. The Joseph Smith Foundation has a book on it. Joseph Smith's Plural Wives volume 1 Helen Mar Kimball. Let the young woman speak for herself instead of anti's speaking for her while muffling her voice.

  • @victoriaquentino5836
    @victoriaquentino5836 9 місяців тому +5

    Welcome home brother.

  • @bontay4490
    @bontay4490 9 місяців тому +5

    This is an exceptional interview and person. Thank you so much!

  • @halsamsing6720
    @halsamsing6720 5 місяців тому +2

    Conservations with intellectuals like Don reveal that one of Antis favorite phrase “I know something you don’t know” holds no water.
    It all comes down to where you are willing to place your faith. Either in the trinity, a closed time loop, or other random philosophy. Personally, I am much more comfortable putting faith in the God taught by LDS than any other. This faith has born me good fruit.

  • @Irvingdector
    @Irvingdector 9 місяців тому +15

    I have a feeling that Joseph did everything around to obey “polygamy” according for Jacob 2 without having intimacy with those women but still having children born in the covenant.
    According to multiple DNA evidences he didn’t fathered biologically children with any of his plural unions.
    Also, I don’t think he saw/treated them like “wives”. Also, I have a feeling that we are seeing a poligamy practice very influenced by the “Law of Adoption” (a very common practice in the early years of the church of getting sealed to the presidents/leaders of the church to link the families for the after life since there were not family history back on those days).

    • @scottvance74
      @scottvance74 9 місяців тому

      If he didn't produce offspring, then he was disobeying the revelation on polygamy (132) which specifically says that the purpose of polygamy is to create offspring. So why are we so adamant that Joseph must have disobeyed the revelations that God revealed only to him?

    • @jaasynergy8
      @jaasynergy8 9 місяців тому +1

      In verse 41 the Lord acknowledges Joseph is inquiring about adultery. Then in verse 44 the Lord says that if a woman is keeping her vows and her husband is basically unfaithful or not keeping his vows then Joseph has the power to take her and give her to someone who has been faithful. Verse 46 goes on to talk about the binding to each other becomes eternal. So there were clear issues of adulterous behaviors that some of these women whether pregnant or not may have been facing and Joseph brought them from a possible unfaithful marriage situation into a situation that provided for their eternal salvation through the sealing....whether polygamous or not.

    • @scottvance74
      @scottvance74 9 місяців тому +1

      @@jaasynergy8 It really sounds like you're justifying Joseph taking other men's wives because the husbands of the said wives were adulterers. Church historians acknowledge that many of the husbands of these wives were active church members in good standing. It therefor appears that you are justifying actual adultery by Joseph Smith and several women based on non-existent alleged adultery on the part of several men. I struggle to understand how you think such an argument is moral.

    • @jaasynergy8
      @jaasynergy8 9 місяців тому

      @@scottvance74 I don't know any more than you. I was just reading those verses and it read that way to me. I'm not able to understand what was meant there nor what Joseph Smith did. I can only understand it must have been hard on everyone. A very Abrahamic moment which is also discussed in that section.

  • @bgeren8249
    @bgeren8249 9 місяців тому +6

    Excellent. Beautiful. Vulnerable. Humble. Inspiring. Hopeful.
    I'm so grateful you are willing to share your experiences.

  • @jyltubbs7220
    @jyltubbs7220 9 місяців тому +10

    Simply amazing!!!! Wow…..The spirit is so strong listening to the testimony of these two men!

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому

      This interview blew my mind on so many levels, mainly in Don’s honest, simple declarations of what is in his soul. I'm so grateful he is willing to share to share it freely.

  • @wayneorr6748
    @wayneorr6748 9 місяців тому +6

    So beautiful, remarkable humble young man. Love to have you back Carol

  • @juliecoop
    @juliecoop 9 місяців тому +5

    Man, what a great episode. I feel better. Thank you.

  • @samuelmoon3051
    @samuelmoon3051 9 місяців тому +7

    This is an incredible video! Thank you so much Brother Don for sharing your story!!!

  • @antonettedollete2458
    @antonettedollete2458 9 місяців тому +5

    I am so grateful i have listened to the whole episode. I was strengthened a hundred fold in my belief that Jesus Christ is the head of the Church of Jesus Christ and that He lives. Thank you to both of you. ❤

  • @AnaliliB
    @AnaliliB 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so very much for this interview!

  • @emilywilson9632
    @emilywilson9632 9 місяців тому +3

    The mashup of video clips from his other podcast appearances is great.

  • @jacobbuzan374
    @jacobbuzan374 9 місяців тому +9

    My gratitude for the pioneers of the church has been an enormous part of the foundation of my faith in the church.

  • @Profreedom386
    @Profreedom386 9 місяців тому +3

    Powerful. Both part 1 and 2. Thank you for your testimony. Looking for The Lost 116 Pages! ❤

  • @leecarroll6005
    @leecarroll6005 9 місяців тому +5

    I really am touched by this interview. Thanks so much for letting Don talk aboutb his journey and testimony building experiences! I have a young grandson who has been going through a faith crisis. Not sure Ican get him to watch, but believe it could make a difference. He read some material that told him Joseph Smith lied about polygamy, that really threw him for a loop. I'm praying how to get this before him. Thanks again! Love this!

    • @senecaaurelius1811
      @senecaaurelius1811 9 місяців тому +1

      Joseph never lied about polygamy, because he never practiced it. Plural marriage in the modern age was introduced into the church partly by BY and partly by JC Bennett with origins from the cochranites.
      Be careful what you’ve been led to believe about the Lord’s true prophet. Not everything is as it seems.

  • @Icanonlyimagn7891
    @Icanonlyimagn7891 9 місяців тому +4

    Wonderful interview! Loved it! ☀️💕

  • @jennifermarsh1469
    @jennifermarsh1469 3 місяці тому +1

    I just finished both episodes. Fabulous interview! Thank you, Don, for authentically sharing your story.

  • @kylecoleman1281
    @kylecoleman1281 6 місяців тому +1

    I was intrigued and impressed with Don’s knowledge in Part 1 but this interview had so much power. Thank you for sharing.

  • @twinrcr
    @twinrcr 9 місяців тому +5

    I love hearing his journey, and appreciate his willingness to share such personal experiences. I really loved his thoughts on Gratitude. It’s important to love everyone, including those who leave the church, we are commanded to love others as ourselves. You will never regret being kind. As those who understand the Atonement, everything we say, do, think of others was felt and suffered by Jesus Christ.

  • @christophersevern6210
    @christophersevern6210 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank you Stephen Jones and Don Bradley! I am glad I listened to both parts 1 & 2.

  • @johnhola1778
    @johnhola1778 9 місяців тому +6

    Thank you thank you thank you! For such a wonderful testimony! Truly strengthened mine

  • @beckischreyer
    @beckischreyer 9 місяців тому +8

    My brain is logic driven. Early on… I was always told I couldn’t build faith thru logic. And it’s true… you can’t fully gain faith thru logic.
    However… while my faith began thru child like trust in my father and others… logic has always strengthened my faith as my study in the gospel continues…
    Listening to your journey… what depths you dug into… and having it all lead you back is an incredible… and logical strength to my own testimony.
    I’ve never had a faith crisis… my weaknesses… however … lead to broken temple covenants. The love and support of members that met me where I was… helped me pick myself up and in the end… that made me stronger. ❤
    Thank you for sharing your journey … I’ve heard it thru a number of different channels now… and it’s always inspiring ❤❤

  • @davisdm2
    @davisdm2 9 місяців тому +6

    Such a great video!

  • @salazarmml
    @salazarmml 9 місяців тому +21

    Don Bradley got me choked up walking on the treadmill 🥲 - barely 10 minutes in and loving the episode.

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +7

      I admit. I got chocked up a few times editing this interview.

  • @leilanispeck2655
    @leilanispeck2655 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for choosing to come back. You have given me hope for my friends (a couple of them, specifically) who chose to leave the church. I appreciate your story and your journey back. Even if I never hear about any future contributions you may make for the church, thank you for them and your insights. 🕊️💐

  • @GlenLawlor
    @GlenLawlor 9 місяців тому +10

    Christ said to Peter that revelation was how He would build His kingdom and that is exactly what you have done. 😮

  • @stardustgirl2904
    @stardustgirl2904 Місяць тому +1

    One crucial thing people seem to forget is their spiritual experiences ✨️ are also apart of your testimony! And they should be remembered as a part of your testimony ! And feeling the spirit of God is also so important!

  • @tokouatonga7914
    @tokouatonga7914 Місяць тому +1

    Majority of those who leaves the church similar to Don are very sincere. It’s so sad because we know 100% that Satan has got ahold of them and they’re blinded by his craftiness. It’s far more refreshing when you see the grace of the Lord continue to work with them until they return. This interview is a beautiful and a testament of God’s love to all of us.

  • @everettdegrasse8478
    @everettdegrasse8478 9 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for sharing your story. It has given me hope.

  • @senecaaurelius1811
    @senecaaurelius1811 9 місяців тому +5

    Just finished both videos. Fantastic stuff. I can’t agree with all of Don’s premise and conclusions regarding polygamy, but his insights on life as a member and all of the stuff connected to leaving is a new dimension to this ongoing discussion of Mormonism and living as a member. God bless.

  • @DB_Golfer
    @DB_Golfer 9 місяців тому +7

    1:17:50 core of the gospel, I love it! Thank you Don for your humility, going to dive into the gratitude journey and encourage everyone around too! 1:19:10 pure truth

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +1

      I've been doing a gratitude journal for a few years, and it changed the game for me.

  • @danieldunbar2956
    @danieldunbar2956 8 місяців тому +1

    Really enjoying your channel, Stephen, and Don Bradley is awesome!

  • @rutht2023
    @rutht2023 Місяць тому

    Thank you both!

  • @shawnbrigance3993
    @shawnbrigance3993 4 місяці тому

    I LOVE this,
    It's good to know that you can really come back. 💙

  • @mikedavis8880
    @mikedavis8880 7 місяців тому +1

    Love this thanks you. I'm many years inactive. Intellectually helpful and spiritually Touching and watery eyes.

  • @HelenFeriante
    @HelenFeriante 8 місяців тому +1

    What a journey and testimony Don has. I just ordered Don's book about the 116 missing pages! Cannot wait to read.

  • @ChapinaUSA
    @ChapinaUSA 3 місяці тому

    Powerful testimony. Thank you for being a great host to a great guest.

  • @morganfabrizio
    @morganfabrizio 26 днів тому

    Wow! I have learned so much in this interview! I will be watching this again to be able to absorb more. Don, thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge! What an amazing life. And congratulations on your marriage!

  • @sappermarine
    @sappermarine 8 місяців тому +2

    My big takeaways on this one or the fascinating information about the initial plural wives being pregnant or very likely pregnant, and then I really enjoyed the part of the end about Christ and God reaching down to us to help lift us up

  • @pewtorye
    @pewtorye 9 місяців тому +9

    You’re a good dude Don👊🏻. Glad you found your way back🎉

    • @onandagus1
      @onandagus1 9 місяців тому

      @keltontrey - Thank you, brother!!

  • @kgarnold8938
    @kgarnold8938 9 місяців тому +4

    This was great. Reading his book and listened to him a lot, but loved hearing his personal story

  • @lschat5831
    @lschat5831 4 місяці тому

    Best take away for me with what was said is, "Faith is gratitude. Gratitude is faith." Thank you for that thought.

  • @angelalewis3645
    @angelalewis3645 8 місяців тому

    Around 14:00 - “There are going to be things in the culture of the church that I don’t like, and that’s okay.” That’s so good. Thank you.

  • @davidconlee2196
    @davidconlee2196 2 місяці тому

    This was an amazing and uplifting discussion. I always love hearing Don Bradley speak. Thank you Stephen and Don!

  • @Taft9296
    @Taft9296 9 місяців тому +4

    When will this episode be uploaded on Spotify?

  • @johnmtconnolly
    @johnmtconnolly 3 місяці тому

    Thank you!

  • @beefmaster4
    @beefmaster4 9 місяців тому +9

    Such a beautiful and powerful ending Don, thank you for your insights, I love what you said about the gospel being God lifting us up with Christ and trying to emulate through helping others. Thank you for sharing things close to your heart.

  • @carlavegas887
    @carlavegas887 8 місяців тому

    Can you imagine being the missionaries re-teaching Don Bradley! His story is amazing and inspiring.

  • @prkrjlln
    @prkrjlln 9 місяців тому +4

    Great stuff, Don B. Is a stud!

    • @LetsGetRealSJ
      @LetsGetRealSJ  9 місяців тому +1

      I agree. He is one of the most genuine people I've met.

  • @catherineaviles1786
    @catherineaviles1786 8 місяців тому

    This was absolutely beautiful! His journey resonated so much with mine and I had the same prompting just yesterday before watching this video about how I left the church because I didn't have a testimony of Jesus Christ but I did in J Smith, eventually everything came down when I did my degree in history because I didn't have Jesus Christ as my center. Thank you so much for doing this episode.

  • @evh3305
    @evh3305 8 місяців тому +2

    In faith there is enough light for those who want to believe and enough shadows to blind those who don't.
    Blaise Pascal

  • @slharrison7478
    @slharrison7478 9 місяців тому +6

    Amazing. God is good and Christ is Lord.

  • @MsLT62
    @MsLT62 5 місяців тому

    Please have Don on more often. He has several appearances on Ward Radio with some very interesting topics, but he gets interrupted so much there that they really don't get to the meat of those topics. Im always left wanting more.

  • @JennyG.COW5
    @JennyG.COW5 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing your experience and Testimony.
    My younger brother has left the Church, and while he has helped me realize that I need to think critically about Why I continue to go to Church, and more importantly choose to be a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, it has also caused me to lessen my level of conviction.
    Also, upon learning more about the corporate side of the Church, and when emphasis seems to be more about Prophets than Jesus Christ, I have been wondering where I was finding Jesus and His Gospel.
    In addition, it's been hard to see my brother who has chosen to leave the Church, being what I feel is harshly judged by my Dad!
    It feels like those moments in a story when a character makes a choice that makes you cringe and you want to call out "Noooo! Don't Do that! No.. that just made it worse!"
    It's especially hard when you know that your Dad gets choked up about the story of the Prodigal Son, and yet when it's happening in real time, he chooses to act like the Elder son of the Parable.
    It makes me question whether or not I Am even Christian or if if I think I'm doing better than I really am as a person.
    Do I really live out what I believe or am I just going through the motions? Do I have pure motives, or should I stop "trying", so I can be honest with myself and others?
    I still want to believe, but I want to be sincere in what I believe when it comes to this Gospel and the Church Doctrine.
    However, I'm grateful for when you mentioned that we each deal with members who might not do things exactly how we might think it could be done, but that our main focus should be on our relationship with God, my Father, and my Brother, Advocate, and Savior, Jesus Christ.
    Thank you Brothern for this interview. ❤🙏🕊️

  • @paulcrave3112
    @paulcrave3112 4 місяці тому

    Welcome back to the church, brother Bradley!

  • @scottmitts6870
    @scottmitts6870 2 місяці тому

    "If the church couldn't forgive, it couldn't be the Lord's church." Powerful.

  • @b.j.3729
    @b.j.3729 5 місяців тому

    Wow!! I love the humility of this intelligent man! It clearly shows the contrast between those with pride who think they are way smarter than the Lord, and those who are humble like this man who overcame all pride he clearly could have had because of his extensive knowledge and abilities in order to admit he had been wrong and accept pure truth. Because of his point of view from both sides, he has been able to discover and share some amazing insights. Thank you for sharing this sweet story!

  • @paulblack1799
    @paulblack1799 9 місяців тому +2

    Don, it sounds like your 'Moses's snake' letter swallowed up your 'pharaoh's magician' letter.

    • @onandagus1
      @onandagus1 9 місяців тому

      @paulblack1799 - Nice! Love the analogy!

  • @3812042
    @3812042 6 місяців тому

    What an Spiritual Banquet !! Bravo 👏 👏 👏 👏

  • @neldonjohnson3033
    @neldonjohnson3033 9 місяців тому +4

    I firs want to say welcome home. I know that what you lost was similar to loosing your brother in having your family relation broken. But when you leave the church you also loose a family feeling of belonging to the family of Jesus. Even now my strongest testimony is that the church the only organization that has the ability to create a family relationship. If president Nelson didn’t have .he priesthood keys the bringing a person into a family. Going into a dedicated building makes you feel like being in your own fathers home. Most people know that you feel differently in your fathers home an,d being in your grandfathers home. That is why when we go to church we want to associate together as siblings. To me there is no greater testimony that the church is true. Again I welcome you back.
    NPJ

  • @Chericherry4
    @Chericherry4 7 місяців тому +1

    That tunnel vision spoken of in this video reminds me of MANY current members who are focusing on social issues in which they feel the church is off base in its stance. We would all do well by being grateful for all we have and know. Everything else works itself out of focus over time and we have peace.

  • @ghstrdio
    @ghstrdio 8 місяців тому

    Powerful

  • @thedailydump7407
    @thedailydump7407 8 місяців тому +1

    So… Brother Bradley left the church and subsequently felt spiritually lost. Then he discovered that perhaps Joseph Smith knew things about the temple endowment long before Nauvoo. God reached out to him and let him know that He is real. Don came back to the church, because of the good that he felt it did in his life and because our form of religion/spirituality “worked“ for him. What I was listening for, hoping for was some reason to believe that if Joseph was a prophet, then it rationally follows that the men who controlled the church after him, were also prophets. I never heard him expressed that belief, and I never heard him say he believed the church is true. Just that it’s good for him and he wants to be part of it. That is the most honest, educated testimony, I think I’ve ever heard in my life!

  • @user-ux3vb5zg1p
    @user-ux3vb5zg1p 8 місяців тому

    The church love you all who have left and welcome you all back with open arms you will be greatly blessed

    • @markkrispin6944
      @markkrispin6944 8 місяців тому

      Oh really now?? I know a few Mormons who left the church and later wanted to return, but were turned away. The "church" is NOT a christian religion as Jesus himself would NEVER do that.

  • @user-ux3vb5zg1p
    @user-ux3vb5zg1p 8 місяців тому +1

    Im a latterday saint and I am crying knowing you both have come back john tells lies to make money and supports those that have been excommunicated not to come back heavenly father loves you and the saints you are stronger now and can help others