How to Date Us 101 with Soobeanie (박수빈)
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
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I feel like Ashley's whole high school era could make a good plot for a movie lol
Ikr! She always has the best stories lmao
right 😲
couldn't agree more lol
That’s high school in nyc for you 😂
fr. she got the hottest tea to spill
I live for Peniel and Harry's mental breakdown as the ladies enumerates their relationship rules 😭🤣
they are looking a little traumatized 😅
@@ComedyGlor no the person is talking about the list they made about what they‘re looking for in a partner
Harry: *Listing his rules for his partner*
Me: *AGRESSIVELY TAKING NOTES*
Crying cause that’s me
WRITE THAT DOWN
WRITE THAT DOWN
WRITE THAT DOWN
sameee
Hahahaaa 👍👏
YAS
The rules segment just really showed the difference between men and women. Can’t stop laughing how concise the men’s rules are, while the girls wrote complex sentences. Lmao
the girls rules kinda childish LOL
It seemed like the guys viewed their partner in a more fundamental and feature aspect (possessive traits) but the girls looked for specific behaviour or habits (actionable traits). Really interesting dynamic.
Basically it’s just saying that girls want to control the guys. And then the guys rules are wanting the girls to be controlling lol. It’s like polar opposites
usually I’d think guys’ requirements are superficial ie fat ass etc and girls more realist but this completely surprised me lol
The way I related more about the boys rules and I'm a girl lol
I’m low key tight how y’all skipped over ph-1’s college probation story 13:00. I really wanted to hear it 🥺😭 Great episode though 💕
Yea. what's up with that?? I want the tea
Omg same! I wanted to hear it!
Yeahh. They end up not talking about it
yeah lol thought I was the only one thinking abt that
Same... I was waiting 🤣
Love the fact that Ph-1 is so into hosting at this point that he can easily lipsync Peniel's intro, mistakes and all :D
I legit thought it was him hosting at the start 😂
"This is why i think boys and girls can be FRIENDS" i lost it hahahaha
2:10 Christine's reaction to Peniel telling Harry that she's a fan is so cute hahaha! It's like on her mind... "It's our secret!!!"
Is she really, though? He looks like he’s kidding.🥲
@@san_mathfractions321 that too... Maybe she's not really a fan and she is reprimanding Peniel 🤣
@@humblepebble with that Peniel, you’re never gonna know when he’s kidding.
“It’s hard to ignore a dog”
And with that, I instantly connected with Peniel.
i like how everyone was laughing at first about 4 of them having a child but a little bit later Ashley already talking how kid should tell “us”, thank you ph-1 for this community scenario😌
I lost it when Harry said “right, Ashley?” (14:55) HABAHAHHA i love them
OMYYYYY I AM LOOKING FOR THIS KIND OF COMMENT, I THOUGH I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED IT WAAAH!
My sister jokingly said “OMG they’re dating” when he said it Ashley 😂😂😂
I noticed this as well then I found your comment. Hahaha I feel like they’re dating. Are they tho?
hahaha the clowningg im dedd
I love this episode, it’s feels different from the rest cos they all look comfortable with each other. The part where they wrote the characteristics for their partners is my fave and got me really cackling at 1 am 😂
Same 🤣🤣
Well they were already all friends except ph-1 but ph-1 is good with everyone except Christine so like it just works
had me dying 🤣
The chemistry between Ashley and Soobeanie is beaming ✨
@三木Asenath It is so cute!
harrys face when the girls are reading their list is so funny while peniels like yeah yup i already know 🤣
I love it when Ashley's friends participate in episodes. I laughed a lot in this episode, especially at the time of the lists about partners (ph1 and Peniel's lists are exactly like my list) I feel like Soobenie and Ashley described a character from a book written by a woman hahaha I really liked
Listening to Soobeanie's stories about her curfew and her relationship with her mother, I found myself relating to them. My mom is also like that
Do you know in what group she was in??
@@flywithbees in Blady, se was known as Tina.
@@Dowoon_is_a_drum thank you
I mean just imagine a mom having only one daughter. Def gotta try and keep her as safe as possible. Especially considering it looks like her dad passed or something like that
I'm so happy seeing ashley get excited having her bestie as guest 🥰
I'm falling for Harry in every episode more and more, this man has a different charm
I found it interesting how they were struggling to come up with rules for their kid cause this is something I've thought about: we might rag our parents for some rules they came up with, forgetting that they were probably our age when they had us, and still figuring out their lives like we are. Like how my mom was 23 when she had her first child, that's YOUNG. Obviously mistakes will be made, but it can be easy to forget that our parents were just tryna do their best. Looking forward to the next podcast! :)
Lol my mom had me when she was 17 or 18 and my grandmother was 15 when she had her lol they were both young but both ended up being great parents…and back then once they found out the were pregnant they both had to get married in which they did…anyways im just bored telling my life story lol i hope you have yourself a great week 👍
@@oharayoung4992 You have a great week too!
Uhhh my mom had me at 30
@@AstarionWifey Yeah I mean my mom had me at 33 lol, hence the emphasis on "probably"
Same, my mom had me when she was 23
"Right ashley, okay?" Omygod
Exactly 😄💕
For real 🥰🥰🥰
Hahahha i thought im only thinking like that 😅💗
@@gerlietorejo4680 my heart can't take it
I felt that too oh gosh
tell me im not the only who got butterflies when harry asked ashley(technically them but yea) 'what neighborhood do you wanna live in?' 😭✋
Same girl! Same! 😅🤪
which minute is that pls 🥺
@@xeenrl at 27:20 ❤️
Yesss!!!!
@@sofiya320 Thankyouu!!
43:24 was so relevant to bring up. It’s so true that some in-laws are really forceful and cunniving to their son’s wife ( specifically in south asian culture I feel) . Honestly, this issue needs to be addressed in like a whole episode itself and how to combat this problem. Thank you for bringing it up!
omg PREACHH because im south asian and this is EXACTLY how in-laws treat their sons wife :(( its a cultural thing im sure and its fucking aggravating
It's for sur will be a big épisode. The difference in education or any subjects are very very differents between East and Weast. For exemple, me, i understand the respect you have to do in front of elders people in Korea, but sometines they abuse their ''power'' and can be bad, or the foreigners in Korea you can see the wall they have to destroys before been accepte in the korean family. For sur some cultural things shock me in education or some other things but it's the same in Europe or usa. But like, when i watching episode of TV reality in Korea, i be like the mom come to their appartement and change what she wants and the person who is foreigners is not okay, in result '' the mom in laws is angry and you have to make excuse '', i'm like ''you serious right now ?!'' 😂
Rly? But my grandparents are just super chill and they stay out of their kids' business.
36:52 - 37:28 damn peniel and ph-1 were sooooo silent they got nothing to say 😂 they be stressed while ashley was reading her rules 😂
actually the girls' rules are over the top 😂 but that what makes them lovable ♥️
ASHLEY's whole life can easily be turned into an amazing netflix series ... seriously.. it's so relatable and interesting.
OH MY GOD THE LISTENERS WITHOUT THE UA-cam VIDEO WOULD BE DYING AT @29:13
When Harry says "Well what if YOUR childs or OUR CHILD brings a boyfriend or girlfriend"
SURR DON'T GIVE US A HEART ATTACK LIKE THAT!
"What neighborhood do you wanna live in?" Omygod my heart-
I love the rules of pH-1 and peniel since it's very general and realistic like a laid-back relationship, but ashley and soobeanie's rules are hilarous, it tells so much about girls. Love this episode! ♥
Ph-1 with holly on his lap is the most sweetest thing 😭
Omg the way Soobeanie and Ashley automatically did their baby voices when they saw Holly is the cutest 😭 😭🥰
I chocked on my water when Ashley started gosh these guys should be comedians
Since ph-1 confirmed that he reads comments, this is just a reminder for him to stop scrolling and sleep well 😆💃
Can we take a moment to appreciate how fine peniel is ? glasses looks good on him 🥰
Yeahh he’s so kyyuuuttt
He's sooo handsome
This episode was so good! Would love to see each host bring a friend for future episodes. Felt like I was watching a group of friends just hanging out. the ep flew by!
Ashley looks so happy to have another girl in the podcast lol they're both such a vibe this episode :)
3:37 remember when peniel called out Ashley for not knowing how to pronounce c’est la vie? 😂
pH-1 being a host is a blessing and that's the tea!! 😎🙌🏽
My list would be:
1) Be respectful to yourself and towards others
2) Be yourself don't try to be someone else.
3) I am clueless when it comes to feelings and stuffs like that most of the time, so please if something is bothering you let me know.
4) I need my personal space and may not hangout with you all time but that doesn't mean I'm not interested in our relationship.
5) I hope we have something in common if don't we can find something we can do together. I'm willing to explore new things if those don't affect my morals.
6) Always tell the truth.
40:07 "THIS IS WHY I BELIEVE GUYS AND GIRLS CAN BE FRIENDS" LMAOOOOOOOOO THAT SENT ME
42:10 Damn Harry asking Ashley to marry , but she straight up said NO lol. Anyways they hella cute together so imma lowkey support our brother Harry in this tho.
harry and holly literally has the cutest bond
Ph-1 yelling out STOP ASKING US had me dying. 😂😂
Peniel looks so boyfriend material in this episode- 😳
Pls have part 2 with soobeanie again.. Plsss.... Felt like the talk was too short n I need moreeee 😂🤭🤭
I have been waiting for Soobeanie to hop on Get Real and let me say it was worth the wait. I love this episode and loved how all four of them interacted. Please have more episodes like this. 😁😁
Peniel and Ashley literally just exchange seats 🤣cute! .HAHAHAHHAHA
i swear this episode was like 10 minutes 😩
49:55 every story ashley tells about the group makes me fall more and more in love with ladies' code. this is one of my favorite episodes!☺
I’d go with 49:11 though because it has more context on how soft cinnamon rolls they all are everyone can assume that Ashley was the hardcore leader but they all cry they all love each other and Ladies Code was basically the mold of how to be a strong girl group in regards to treating each other right even if things got dramatic.
I'm so proud of Ashley! she went through a lot but still strong..Love her so much such a strong independent woman❤❤❤
I say all the time when it comes to dating. I don’t want to be your world, I just want to be part of it. Being ok with being by yourself is a big thing😌
Ily so much. Ash and harry, date each other already 🤧
This episode was so fun. We definitely need another girl as a host 15:40 😂
Daddy when Holly appears: *smile; a proud daddy*
And he's trying so calm in front of his daughter
And that's so funny watching the guys' expression when Ashley starts reading her rules for her partner. OMG
My list would have been
1. Repectful
2. God Loving
3. Trustworthy
4. Compassionate
5. Family oriented
Like the guys said: "As long as the guy is a good human being" the relationship should work. I believe that as long as you are two independent and settled human beings and you work as a team and communicate the realtionship should work.
Watching Harry disassociate while the girls read their lists made my week
26:38
for me, i wouldn't give money when they do chores because it gives the child a mindset where they do work for money, like personal gain. not just for helping out the family and the home.
Yessss exactly. I don't see many with this perspective but it makes so much sense. You don't get paid for chores when you're older, you just have to do it out of duty and self respect.
So true I agree
Good point
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ph-1’s face when the girls were reading their lists 😂😭
I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed that "right Ashley" 🤭 Anyway, I agree with the boys rules but I can squeeze one or two of the girls rules in there too 🥴😂
Time for teasing Peniel!!! I think he is like this because he is the maknae line. And they teasing their hyungs in BTOB often but in a good way, like a family. 💙
I think the most difficult to say sorry is that I thought that I have sufficient reasons but then I understand that whatever reasons I had, I caused trouble o hurted someone. And I have to apologize and then explain my reasons.
Yeah, he is also the maknae in their friends group too
Funny how the partner rules for the guys are the bare minimum for any human being. I mean, if the other person don't respect other people and don't give you space they have problems, so for me those things should'nt be rules at the first place, you should'nt ask for someone to act decently. P.s. the synergy between you guys is on point, love the episode
14:55 I feel like Harry and Ashley are dating and he's trynna point out sth making him uncomfortable but doesn't know how to talk to her directly :) But anyways, love their vibes and this ep is funny af.
U are not alone I actually want them togu
Ohh my sister jokingly said “omg they’re dating, I know it” when this happened 😂 low key ship them 👀
i think its bcs in previous ep she kinda implied very lowkey that she acted certain ways with her exes (im sure shes not that way anymore) and harry’s just like…ok ashley? dont be this way okay? but very subtly. love their growing chemistry 🥰
im not even half way the vid and i love it alr HAHAHA i love how in the first part when they were sharing experiences and peniel and ph1 were sharing men's perspective and ashley soobeanie's sharing the women's perspective and they'll have realizations afterwards is just so funny HAHAHAHA
3:22 Peniel: “Ignore her? It’s hard to ignore a dog”
Omg someone please take Peniel to a shelter so he can get a dog🥺
After 16 minutes, isn't Harry supposed to tell his college detention story?
I couldn't get over how cute Holly is. The fact that she walked in well uncle Peniel was talking and went stright to aunty Ashley like 'pay action to me.' The fact she so cute and she has the best cue to walk in is priceless. Harry has the cutest dog in the world. Also dad
(I'm not sure they the aunt or uncle.)
I’ve been shipping ashley and harry since day 1 but this ep right here made me ship them more 😫💗
Omfg! Me too!!!!
SAME!!!!
gimme good timestamps
unm she would drive him nuts…
Holly seriously so adorable and can get along with everyone ❤️❤️
Ashley,harry,peniel,soobin's
future daughter/son watching this be like :
👁👄👁
Harry looks hotter than July in California
The fact that harry earlier said that he doesn't want kids on get real only, has changed a lot 😂😂😂
PARK HARRY HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE THAT HOT IN THIS EPISODE
Harry’s college probation story when tho? 🧐😆
Also, the girls’ lists were so extra! 😂😂😂 it’s good that they know themselves and what they want though 🤷🏻♀️
Holly is so adorable wth! the way she greeted all the four omo..so cute
So many people felling that Harry and Ashley have something because of the "right Ashley, ok?" and I didn't even realized he said that lol
Such a great episode as always get real team and soobinie!
Harry's fit in this ep is immaculate
We didn't get to hear Harry's probation story. I listened to this last night but didn't finish the whole episode. And then, I dreamed about my cousin getting a probation and my aunt said he got Probation No. 1900 10. I googled it there's no such thing.... I think I was deprived of Harry's probation story haha
😩😂
We better get that Harry probation story in the next podcast! 😩
I can't wait for the entire BTOB members to be guests on Get Real. Oooohh the stories and the crazzzzyyy...it's going to be epic! They will cover 2 episodes..easyyyy...😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oh please I want this sooo bad😩😂😂😂
14:51 HMMMM ashley and harry... HMMMMMM
That part where ashley and soobean were reading their rules and peniel & harry were just dead silent 😂🤣
I LOVE this episode
*le Harry* imagine four of us have the same child
*le Harry again* *to Ashley* who's WE? haha WhO'S WeEe !!
26:12 Harry:we all sharing the same child. Me :🤯👀🤯👀
Harry's very attentive when it comes to Ashley. its cute.
but I'll ship lowkey cus I dont want them to get awkward. So this will be the last time I'll mention this.. hihihihihih
Your comment itself is cute 😄
AGREE i dont want them reading comments and feeling akward but where else can i voice this out 😭
really? I don't feel any chemistry between them. He looks annoyed when she speaks to me
The girls rules are so funnyyyy but I could see myself writing it too. 😂
soobeanieeeeeeee i was waiting sooooooo long for her to come here omg 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
finally thankyouuu soo much for bringing her omg omg omg... i miss her episodes with dkdktv, the KSTeas 😭😭💜💜💜💜🥺🥺🥺🥺
I feel like the chemistry gotten so good now between Ashley, Ph-1. Like its been good for a while but Harry gotten more comfortable with the host role etc. Like they all shared enough personal stuff to form a friendship. I love u guys.
PENIEL looks extra fine in this episode
wow..im really loving the special appearance of holly!!!its her playground!
we need holly content moreee 🧎🏻♀️💖
14:56 harry pointing it to ashley :v are they datingggg?
Harry voice is so smoothing
OMG!! that part kind of reminded me of Got7's story about when their managers monitor them if they regularly go to the gym. So there were times or was it just one time when they brought different sets of clothes to the gym and took pictures of them working out. With it, they already have pictures ready to send their manager in days when they don't wanna go to the gym.. LOL
EXACTLY
I was dying laughing over the simplicity of the guys' lists vs. the super specific and complex rules from the ladies LOL
But if you were to sum up what the girls want, they're not that unreasonable. Like for Ashley's smell rule, basically she wants someone with good hygiene. And for Soobean's sneakerhead and gaming rules, basically she wants them to have similar interests or be willing to try out and learn about her interests. Those are pretty reasonable when summed up!
@@jessieperson YES
PH1 AS A HOST??? i need to be updated omg
15:40 Ashley was like Soobeanie where are you the holl time to help with these guys 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
When Soobeanie was talking about how she’ll just say sorry to get it over with I literally felt so guilty because I do that same exact thing. I’ve been doing it since 2nd grade which every time I tell people that they are always shocked but I don’t know how it started. Also when harry said it makes pent up anger and stuff I 100% agree cause it’s happened to me multiple times. I still do it but I think I actually want to stop now because it’s so draining mentally but everytime I do get the confidence people never listen. Only one of my friends did when I expressed it to her and she changed and even till this day I hold that too my heart because that’s the first time someone has actually listened to me, apologizing, and never did it again. So yeah that’s one of my goals is too stop doing that especially since I start high school in a couple of months and I feel like I’ll need to change even more in high school. I actually started therapy and I told her that was one of my goals so we’re currently working on that!!
wow harry never disappoints... i keep falling everytime
Been waiting this episode after Ph-1 posted it on ig 🥰
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"that's very reasonable but very hard to do" HAHAHAHAHAHA