Iyanla Vanzant On Maintaining Relationships, Feminine & Masculine Energy, The Power Of Silence +More
Вставка
- Опубліковано 25 чер 2024
- Subscribe NOW to The Breakfast Club: ihe.art/xZ4vAcA
Get MORE of The Breakfast Club:
► LISTEN LIVE: power1051fm.com/
► CATCH UP on What You Missed: ihe.art/Dx2xSGN
► FOLLOW us on Instagram: / breakfastclubam
► FOLLOW us on Twitter: / breakfastclubam
► LIKE us on Facebook: / breakfastclubam
Executive Producer: Eddie F.
Producer: Taylor Hayes
Video Director: Nick Ciofalo
Video Editor: Elijah Lugo
Social Manager: Sydney Brown
The Breakfast Club features celebrity interviews, Charlamagne tha God’s Donkey of the Day, Rumor Reports, DJ Envy’s mixes and so much more! Every guest visiting the world’s most dangerous morning show is grilled with their signature blend of honesty and humor. The results are the best interviews to be found on radio.
#BreakfastClub #IyanlaVanzant - Розваги
"If a woman knew that her greatest power was silence...because then she can hear."
That's deep.
💯💯💯
What does it mean?
Yes. Women need to practice the art of shutupedness.
@@o............. my interpretation is basically like the saying 'the loudest person in the room is often the weakest person in the room'. Not necessarily physically the weakest, but the weakest in intelligence, confidence, etc. It means you don't always have to respond to people's ignorant comments or rudeness towards you. Make your moves (career, relationship, money) in silence and you'll have more success, peace, and security than if you let people in all your business. Lastly, if you are a Christian it means that in silence you can hear from God and He will direct your path.
She literally just said women don’t listen no more 😭
Her energy, aura, presence and intellect is refreshing. I’m intrigued and I’m listening. Iyanla is a gem!
Foreal💯
You're only saying this because she went easy on the men. Like always.
@@cashmereglow7549 Lol noooooooooooooo, I honestly didn’t even consider that before commenting. It’s really only about the message itself and how she conveyed
Right. She is such a blessing to this world.
💎💎💎
No body can replace Iyanla. Through her show it helped me.
Facts!!!!
I was behind her and her assistant in line at a local restaurant here in Atlanta. She ordered her own food and paid, I was so nervous because I wanted to acknowledge her presence without ‘blowing up her spot’. I looked at the assistant for permission and them said “hello, thank you for what you’ve done for humanity” she said “hi there 🙂 you’re welcome”. And that was that. She is genuinely humble, I love it 💜
Fix My Life was such a game changer for the culture, we needed Iyanla and all of her lessons!!!! I use them to this day!!! "Your behavior diminishes your message" 👏🏾
You and I both
Wow I love this! Thank you for sharing that quote. ♥️
Dmx episode.
No it wasn’t! The culture is more toxic and degenerate then ever before. BW are not getting married and BM are choosing to date non black women
Same! She’s my idol. I wanna provide the same tools for healing the way she has!
Just having her presence on the show is beautiful and deep. I really miss seeing her energy in healing in our world. I can only hope that one day, she develops a school for gifted healers and help train other to go in the world and help heal. Our world needs it.
My thoughts exactly!
Such a great idea ❤
She has one. The Spiritual Study Sanctuary.
A school for healers would be a great idea. 👍
That would be amazing!!
I’m begging y’all to have ms iyanla monthly! Have her regularly this young audience needs to her wisdom and she’s also REALLY funny!!
Her energy is what’s missing from a lot of younger women and I’m glad she’s here to help them reunite with their feminine energy.
She's a beautiful, dignified & elegant woman. Witty too!
Masculine accountability and responsibility is what's missing from "men". Conquered buffoons who want women to submit to them when they don't even have a kingdom and want a woman to help then do a masculine job
Agreement!! Every WORD you said.... Agree!!
I used to love her show. I remember when she made that man put all those baby dolls in his arms to symbolize all the kids he had 😂.
One of my fav episodes too
You childish 😂😂😂😂😂
Yessss alll 40 of them damn dolls😂😂
He was out of order 😂😂😂
She need to come out of retirement
She speaking to the masses with this interview….. Love her wisdom and energy ❤
Faxx needed this
You signing up for polygamy?
Yesss she really is 🙌🏾♥️ Sharing that wisdom!!! Awesome interview 🔥✊🏾
She’s a truthful minster, lawyer ,Healer and life teacher /coach
One thing that I learned from Iyanla is that regardless if you’re right or wrong, sometimes you have to let things fall in your lap and take ownership. It’s sometimes the experience you give a person that makes it wrong or right.
Well said 👏🏽
Wooow this women is beyond amazing! She speaks facts and the wisdom is off the charts !
*woman. Women is the plural form of woman.
No heat no judgement beloved😅
I could seriously sit and listen to her all day. Would love to have a mentor like her in my life.
Same
Same here ❤
Me too
Facts
Same!
Iyanla is a treasure for our community. She drops valuable gems 💎
I love everything about this woman. The way she commands attention just by being herself; incredible!
That is so powerful to command attention by being "Thyself "...
I see Iyanla Vanzant interview, I immediately clicked. Her knowledge and wisdom are so needed and greatly appreciated ❤❤
same!
Agreed 😊❤
Would love to see her on TV again. She is so needed. ❤
Faxx💯
For the woman to be in balance is a valuable contribution to everything around her 👑
Absolutely
I had everything Iyanla published at one point in my life. I'm a faithful devotee of Mother/Sister Iyanla. I was speaking with my 32 year old daughter last night and telling her how disgusted I am with my life because I am forced to be in masculine energy daily. I'm a FT caregiver for my 82 year old mother. I have no siblings and I do all that's needed to be done around the house including yard work. I just want to get a mani/pedi. I really don't think being a "strong, independent" woman is cute. Iyanla, fix our lives!
🗣️Talk about it!!!! I build and move furniture, give car repair advice, act as the brain for my family. I’m tired and they don’t understand. Then when you have a breakdown they mad and think you’re crazy. Family members don’t know how privileged they are because if these were strangers I would disappear 🫠.
“Forced to be in masculine energy daily”… how about be thankful you have another day of life, health and strength? Victim. Smh.
Mama, if you have the money. Please get help. Pay for the help. Don't do it all on your own. Get cleaners and carers.
@@uncleb7821 Continuing to be in her masculine energy is almost certainly lessening her health and strength. I'm in that position too. She's no victim, quite the opposite, just saying it as it is. I don't know why you were triggered by that. SMDH.
@@rejectionisprotection4448 That’s just it, you’re so busy being stuck on self that you forgot to be grateful you have life. Black women are so full of themselves. It’s disgusting. My Nana’s are rolling in their graves listening to modern day women like you complain about the air you breathe. It’s so pathetic.
I sat smiling the whole time watching this. I love Ms. Iyanla ❤ so grateful for her. Kindred spirit
You smiled at signing up for polygamy 😂
Your cheeks must be sore then
18:11
ua-cam.com/video/DGtshsd_b_I/v-deo.html
For this clip start at 2:27
The reason people of all ages love and respect Ms. Iyanla is because she understands where she came from and pays homage to her ancestors who sacrificed for her. Many blessings for her.
I’m 53 and raised my 28 yr. Son with values morals. He is a true gem. ⭐️Treats his love like a Queen. Parents today need to do way better. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Parents today need help to better.
This woman has done so much! When we talk about people who deserve their flowers, this woman is that person. She is the only notable black woman who had a national TV program about us getting therapy and tackling our internal issues and dealing with our traumas TEN YEARS ago. I have a lot of respect for her.
and has helped soo many people that have never met her, me being one!! I remember one episode she said "youre responsible for your triggers" and I had never heard it before but it was like I started to see my life with new eyes, instantly! ever since, Im barely triggered by anything or anyone. changed my perspective and even the way I deal with people who used to trigger me everytime they spoke smh lol.
@@TheodoreBakes That's good. Personally, she reminds me that everyone has a purpose on earth and all you can and are here to do is show the world your gift which is a gift in itself. She reminds me you will never please everyone and it's not your job to do so.
Too bad you clowns never hold black men accountable for anything. No wonder black women are "masculine"
We miss you on tv Ms. Iyanla!!!! ❤️
So glad I tuned in this morning miss u Iyanla but love the fact that u still keeping it real...😌
I haven't watched an entire segment of The Breakfast club in years... I'll be watching all of this today. This too good👏🏾
Its so much better without angela
@@carolinacorner3211 that is so true!
Same. The only reason I’m here.😂
She got me through the panini! Saved my life a few times and every conversation seats me squarely in my purpose and my dignity. Never met this woman but she healed my soul. Put my broken pieces together. Continues to do so. 🙏🏽 God made sure I saw this today. I thank you.
Queen Iyanla. I love her. I found my own healing thru her show. Still go back and watch it from time to time. I hope the OWN Network never removes it!
She said a woman can’t teach a man to be a man, she can only help him heal
Love this woman so much.
There's a lot of people in the world right now that could use her guidance.
Our generation forgets that we are our ancestors wildest dreams and a lot of people waste their lives or fake their lives.
She is why I found out what my purpose was! I couldn't figure out what I was put here to do. I am working on developing my gift. Her work in was not in vain. I don't need tv, and I'm developing my ministry, but this is what I want to do! Help folks find their healing path! Thank you Iyanla!!!❤️❤️❤️
Yep ..... I know I'm a healer as well
My mentor, my spirit guide. My teacher. My matriarch elder who has led me out of strife and survival into a thriving life. I listen, read and watch everything she teaches. Thank you Ms. Vanzant. I can't wait for the Right of Passage Course!! Because of you, I have been able to help many others on my path, I have found my own ministry. God continue to keep you and use you to support us on our paths. 💜
Iyanla come back WE NEED YOU!!!!!
She didn't leave she's online
She is so calm and intelligent. She controlled the room and me for 41:27 minutes lol
I felt real vibrations when Iyanla spoke on being quiet and still. So real. So true. I will be more conscious of this now.
I absolutely love Our Elders man!! I knew from the clip I saw on IG Auntie wasn't going to disappoint! Elders are really a gem that is dying 😭 but while they are here we have to appreciate their wisdom even if it's dished out a little harshly. I pray all the women that are 35 and under didn't take any offense to what she was saying. We need you Queens, you are loved and are needed. We got to stop giving up Our goods for little of nothing in return and I'm talking about more than just sex..we as women need to learn to support each other without any malice so we can then support our black and brown men without malice. We all are out here wanting and needing to be supported wholeheartedly. We have to take our power back! Cause we are tried, of leading in our masculine energy. I absolutely loved this episode ❤️
Hi! I hope you are doing well today. I am 30 and when listening to these types of conversations I am left with many questions but primarily; what is a woman "being masculine"? I have yet to hear what a clear and concise version of that is from anyone but specifically the people like her that say it.
Iyanla Vanzant digs deep to get to the root of issues we face or have faced. She’s never caught off guard and just says something to give a response. I loved every minute of this interview and can’t for her next project. Wisdom/nuggets/Gems all that headed over to check out R spot !
Iyanla is functioning in her correct stage of human development. Keep giving, some of us are listening!
I’m 24 and inherited “Acts of Faith” from my grandmother at 21. These affirmations have guided me and I thank Iyanla for her wisdom 🤍
I miss Iyanla’s show, she’s the reason why I started seeking therapy. It took an episode to make me realize that I need help, she’s like that mother or big momma that everyone would go to when they need advice.
The way she refers to it as "The Walmart" and "The Target" just warms my heart ❤️🤗🥰😁😁
As a culture, we NEED this woman’s energy and wisdom. She is a 💎
Four questions to ask regarding your relationship:
1. Is this an important relationship in my life?
2. Do I value this person and do they value me?
3. Am I willing to take 100% responsibility for the state of this relationship?
4. Am I willing to do the work regardless of what the other person puts in?
Thanks for capturing those questions!! I had to copy them and save them!!
Iyanla is the ONLY therapist ive ever learned something from..."feelings buried dont die" #bars
Iyanla books are life changing 💜
I love her! Everything she does she does with love.❤ I wish she could just hug me like she did that lady on Oprah😔 She is so nurturing and healing
The one she sat on her lap while in the chair??? LISTENNNN!!! 🥹🤧
I wish she could gather you in her arms for a warm ,comforting hug. ❤
I'm a woman & I agreed with every word Iyanla said. We are being programmed to be like men. That's not good. We have to be women again ❤️ It's nice hearing something of substance online for once from someone that knows what they're talking about.
Do you understand what you're saying? To get back in your role, you would need to "step aside". Take the Police, fire fighter, and military combat uniforms off. Get out of the corporate CEO positions. If you do this, will you take women back, or forward? That is the question.....
@@what77und it has nothing to do with job roles. It’s about ways of existing, operating and relating to one another
@Aina More IT has everything to do with job titles and money. These things define our roles.
@@what77und it doesn't. Job roles has little to do with it. It is more about your relationship, that is, how you carry yourself, talk, walk, and treat a man. The problem is some men cannot behave with reason. They feel like a woman being a woman is vulnerable and they take advantage of that. Women give Submission and Respect , Men respond with Love and Tenderness and understanding.
@TheBragg Gaming I hear you, and I agree with the 2nd half of your comment (in theory). Modern women still feel like men are "supposed to be" the PROTECTOR and PROVIDER. Question, 2 men 6ft tall, 230lbs are fighting at a bar. Police are called. 2 5ft tall policewoman show up with loaded guns and badges. Who's the PROTECTOR? Regarding VP Kamala Harris and her husband. Who's the PROVIDER? Switch the genders around and answer the same questions. Did you answer the same? Job positions and salary matters!!
Iyanla was placed on this earth to be a spiritual mother who empowers and uplifts everyone who encounters her words of wisdom. She has changed my life. Her spirit is something words cannot explain. Love her!!
My God!!!! This was such a beautiful, open, honest, and necessary conversation that We all need to hear and receive. Iyanla is a light worker and doing real work to heal this planet 🙏🏽
“Silence” is a great power!
I love Ms. Iyanla. Not only is she wise and gives great life lessons, she is willing to listen to other’s experiences. She said she did not understand something so, she sits back and she listens. She doesn’t claim to know everything although she is a well of knowledge.
Exactly ! she appreaciates her limitations
We must bubble-wrap her...I absolutely LOVE her
I always tell my younger friends that they NEED a woman older than them as a mentor… they can teach you what women your age can not ❤
100%
So true. I've learned so much from my mother in law and my mentor who are phenomenal
@@fennyyahtaylor6772 mentorship has saved my life more than once lol
Agree with this ❤ I am thankful to the women that have helped me !❤ 💫
She is speaking the REAL!!!!!!! Divine order! Iyanla V is so spiritually in tune.
Iyanla preaching the gospel and hit the bullseye spot on about teaching the rites of passage for women. We all need this!
Iyanla Vanzant is the truth!!! I’ve been following her since that first show she when she was in a blue house being a therapist to others. She’s such a gem, a lil piece of Heaven here on earth. Her wisdom is unmatched as a Yoruba priestess she’s amazing. Such an inspiration
That's why her book Truth is so inspirational in being authentic and being in your truth about self, the Universe and others... amazing woman!!❤
@@KG-bliss Ima have to buy that!! Thanks for letting me know ❤️
😂UA-cam Priestress
..amen
Love Ms. Iyanla, she reminds me so much of my mom, their teaching strategy is so similar, such style and grace she possesses. I remember attending a seminar in MD about 6 years ago and she had each group of women stand ( separated by their decade) and she spoke over each decade and what we shall be! She's a #classic
The gift she has is so powerful
Wow. She gave me chills. Omg. I’m going home today to take my girl car to fill it up. But truly I needed to hear this. So amazing. I will be subscribing to her channel. Thanks 🙏 you God
As a millenial from Arizona, enticed by this woman's words, I just wanna say thank you Iyanla, but also kudos and flowers to the man and woman who raised you
You guys need to play this over the radio allll day until the tape breaks!!!!! This was all facts!
Nah, I'll pass on polygamy 😅
She hit the nail on the head about the masculinity in women! This whole interview was phenomenal! Love her ❤
People complain about that masculinity in women but can never name anything masculine about men, specifically black men.
@whowhat when that's because yall are raising feminine men. A lot of yall have son husband's. Yall baby them so much they become way more feminine than masculine
@@whowhatwhen7977 Blame that on these broken homes from these independent women who bash men all day. Y’all are the problem
@@mantrell502 Iyanla said a woman can't teach a man how to be a man . Then said women lack femininity. How can we teach boys femininity if we don't have it ourselves?
@@whowhatwhen7977 you don’t sound feminine at all.
I always hang on to her every word!! I was so disappointed when this interview was finished. Like: I thought this was supposed to be forty minutes.... Time just flew right on by it was so good!! I needed about three whole hours of hearing her speak!! She is truly informative and nurturing. 💖💛💖
I hope that she centers her rites of passage program on giving back and being in service to humanity and amplifying love and kindness and the connection to source energy.
"NOT ON MY WATCHHH!" 😂
I still rewatch her episodes. I miss her being on TV healing people. ❤
I love this woman. Her wisdom resonates through generations. I hope the youngins are listening.
This woman is a gem. Her show dealt with the most extreme cases of dysfunction, and with every situation she was able to break it down from the core. A lot of times, the core was generational… a lot of times, it was simply behavioral. But her ability to peel those layers and bring it to light:: unmatched. I pray for her, for her ministry, her family, her daughter… I wish for another leader like her.
Ill never forget when Iyanla Vanzandt was talking to Neffe, Keisha Cole’s sister, she called her “a nasty, vile, guttersnipe…that’s right up out the hood!” Lol!!!
Tariq used to use this clip. Hilarious
And to Shay from flavor of love 😂
I was so focused on this interview I LOVE hearing wise people talk.
I love how she came in bearings gifts and complimenting the black man 🤎 divine feminine energy ✨✨
*Keyword: Doctor Iyanla Vanzant, I am here with my pen & paper whenever she speaks, she always drops gems. I love her laugh, it sounds like serotonin*
Her line, “I’m not arrogant enough to tell a man how to be a man.” Speaks volumes because that is what has been happening.
I would love to meet her one day. She's saying things that I've been dwelling on for a while. As women and as wives, atleast for me growing up in the 90's I was taught this prince charming / cinderella fairy tale or had the impression that men can do it all. They are men, they are strong, they are leaders. And though those statements are true, it doesn't educate women on how much of our energy needs to go into our men. Our men have fears, battles and weaknesses like any other human being. So we have to steer and aid in adding stability, guidance, reassurance, health, nutrition, balance into our households. And yes the foundation of that is knowing who you are as a woman and developing that. There's no love like a woman's love and people who love thier mother's understand this. A woman takes a mans seed and turns it into another person. Growing a baby by doing nothing but taking care of herself. Feed into yourself because when you are better everything around you get be better.
Iyanla has always been inspirational to me and I absolutely love her healing energy! I could feel it just by watching. Her presence and wisdom is needed in this world.
I used to wonder men found me attractive.
Many years later I understood why.
It's because I was always very feminine!!!
And, I have been through a lot of horrible things but it never changed me as a person.
I wasn't hardened by those traumas.
And, I was told by a man that I was too feminine!!
Being feminine does not mean helpless!
I have always been independent but I want to be treated like a lady in the presence of a gentleman.
Iyanla, you're right about how you carry yourself.
Thank you!!!
I love Iyanla. This conversation was a good listen.❤️
She’s so amazing. I could listen to her talk all day. ❤ Great interview and insightful conversation!
It was endearing to see the level of respect that the men had for this queen...awesome interview!
I Grew Up Watching Her As Punishment.
Anytime I Got In Trouble In School I Had To Watch Fix My Life - Years Later, Now Im The Immediate Problem Solver In My Family 😂
Thank you for this real interview with Iyanla because she is so real!! Blessings to her!
13:36 was a fucking bar, thats currently my issue and what's pushing me away from my fiancee, she doesn't have a social life and not many friends except for 2 that live out of state and she relies on me too much to be her female bestfriend and gets mad because I don't want to do the female things with her...this interview gave me so much peace and relief 🙌🏾
These new relationship gurus have women believing that your man is supposed to be your best friend. It's foolish because when you're in a venerable emotional state, feminine energy is the best option. My husband wants to protect me, not eat ice cream and cry with me. He's my mate, not my best friend.
@@tamalaknox1438 preeeeeachhhhh
I throughly enjoyed this conversation! I am all ears when Iyanla speaks
I’m still in the beginning and just watching the two of them smile as she says she’s proud of them. It’s beautiful. ❤
Great interview! Great honest, peaceful, confident energy. I noticed that the Covid pandemic made a lot of healers and peace makers, move out of the public eye and into their own lives…focusing on staying at home and nourishing the close relationships with their own families. She definitely is missed but I’m glad she took some time for herself 💕💕💕
I love her energy
Iyanla and her divine wisdom always gets my undivided attention.
I love Iyanla so much! I could listen to her talk for hours
Your voice is so sweet, such a soul and spirit.. I love your gift to this world. Your realness and this is much needed. God bless you Ma'am aka auntie Iyanla.🙏🏼🤟🏼
We have to lift her up! I loved this interview. She's so real. And not just book smart but wisdom. Reminds me of my Gran ❤
She is so right about everythinggggg she said about relationships and our misrepresentation of what love is supposed to be! I miss her show and I will be tuning in to her podcast
I truly love this lady! I love her laughter and her smile. May God continue to bless her so she can keep on advising us.
LOVE HER ENERGY..ITS ALLLLWAYS PURE AND SOOO REAL!!
I swear I can listen to her talk all morning she so real and so rooted and I love her spirit.
A lot of beautiful gems were dropped, but I’m also sick and tired of hearing Black woman bashing.
She completely ignores how Black Men should also step up. I like how she said that she cannot speak on behalf of man because it’s arrogant.
However, as an elder, she could’ve given some guidance.
A lot was lacking from this conversation. Even when the host asked her any advice to men. This is why you have so many black women feeling defeated in this journey & they don’t want to listen to certain elders.
Nobody wants to be blamed. How about taking ownership that the prior generation failed us. Versus acting as though this generation did something wrong.
I love her she still has so much to offer this world. Thanks for this interview.
I LOVE HER!!! She helped me to see my gifts and to do the work to find my identity. I am so grateful for her. Deep Bow Queen 💞💞💞💞
Our people need more women with her knowledge, Hickma and wisdom. The black family is weak man ,woman, children,grandparents, aunt's, uncles,cousin's ,brothers and sisters.. I really appreciate this sisters I mean elder. I took something postive from it and it just helped me as a man a father a husband.
I love Iyanla Vanzant! I've followed her through her books. I was fortunate to hear her speak in person. So powerful!😊 Teach!
A woman’s greatest power is SILENCE!!!! Wow this is sooooo goood damn she don’t miss a beat!