Going my home 고잉마이홈 | Short Film

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  • Опубліковано 17 бер 2022
  • Busan International Short Film Festival : BISFF (2020) - Korean Competition
    Seoul International Pride Film Festival : SIPFF (2019) - Closing Film
    Hong Kong Lesbian and Gay Film Festival : HKLGFF(2020) - Best short film
    #고잉마이홈 #goingmyhome #hiv #lgbt

КОМЕНТАРІ • 134

  • @dnb8835
    @dnb8835 Рік тому +435

    This is the real korea I want to see. Not the uber polished image Kdrama and Kpop want to sell us. Very touching . It's so hard to be gay, but I was fortunate to meet my soon husband and to live a very happy life by his side. He save me and give me a reason to believe un life.

    • @KADUSish
      @KADUSish Рік тому +9

      Вы тронули своими несколькими фразами мое сердце. Благодарность вашему любимому!

    • @sarahuseynova5859
      @sarahuseynova5859 Рік тому +8

      I dont even watch kdramas

    • @kristinaterjanyanc2067
      @kristinaterjanyanc2067 Рік тому +1

      скажите пожалуйста названия?

    • @kristinaterjanyanc2067
      @kristinaterjanyanc2067 Рік тому +1

      @@KADUSish спасибо большое

    • @tinapiliouras4103
      @tinapiliouras4103 Рік тому +6

      NIce to know you have lowing partner. In this life that is a blessing from the unIverse❤❤

  • @farzanafaiza5913
    @farzanafaiza5913 Рік тому +196

    The scene where his father put his hand on his shoulder when he was crying was so strong.❤

  • @MM-km6xx
    @MM-km6xx Місяць тому +6

    Being gay is already a difficult journey and HIV makes it a lonely journey. Thx for the short film.

  • @hasnat2002
    @hasnat2002 Рік тому +118

    This was a very poignant and well made film. Short, but packed in a lot of unshown could be 'befores' and possible 'afters'; wonderful story telling through looks, glances, scenes and pauses. Life can seem, maybe, so unfair, hopeless and pointless sometimes.
    It also made me cry. ❤❤❤❤

  • @samirsigneu3920
    @samirsigneu3920 Рік тому +65

    Beautiful. Script, direction and sensitive, touching interpretations. Pauses, super filled silences. Necessary themes and subtopics. Inner dramas and conflicts resonate in bodies, in attitudes. I loved!

  • @hanaca2010
    @hanaca2010 Рік тому +113

    It’s touching. Being gay is a really difficult journey. None of love is going to last long. It’s impossible to make yourself understood, and you suffer everything alone.

    • @ayejay8862
      @ayejay8862 Рік тому +19

      True, but it's about perspective too. I'm glad I am gay despite the obstacles. It gave me insight into human nature that many do not get. And a lasting love can happen. I've had one. It was not on the fairy tale level, but it was/is epic.

    • @mharis2197
      @mharis2197 Рік тому +1

      @@ayejay8862 👋

    • @fredfonebone5108
      @fredfonebone5108 Рік тому +8

      I’ve been with my husband for 30 years. I’m not alone. Don’t buy into that old homophobic b.s. about gay people always being lonely. It might be tough to meet the right person, but it is not impossible.

  • @leo8383
    @leo8383 Рік тому +30

    Men in general struggle with the search to find intimacy and love. Sex seemingly helps but its not what's fully needed. You want to be seen, to be wanted, to be valued, to belong, to be needed, to be tressured, to be touched, held, and loved. Thats what you want, and need, and never give up on that. Never stop being open to it. Being gay does not diminish your value. Having HIV does not diminish your value. Coming from a difficult or broken childhood or background does not diminish your value. You are valuable. Nothing will change thst. Please, believe it. ~ Never let anyone tell you that the random conditions you experience in life makes you any less valuable. Even the things that scare you, exist to reveal your beauty. ~

    • @annak.5477
      @annak.5477 Місяць тому

      Straight woman, I relate with what you wrote in the first two sentences. I dated some people, had 3 serious relationships in my youth, I lived with themr. I discovered that sex without love can be fun but isnt fulfilling. When is done with the right person you feel completed like something clicked, even the orgasms are better and you can do more stuff with the person because of trust, activities you dont do them with one night stands or people that you dont know well. I just feel sorry for gays and others, for those who want to be wanted, valued, cheriched, have a person that love and respect and don't have them because the ones that get near them want just sex. At the end there is an emptiness that can't be filled. I know, I experienced it. Worst is for the people that have HIV that are discriminated and rejected. Every human being deserved to be loved.

  • @de-gezel
    @de-gezel Рік тому +62

    It’s touching and wonderful to see in reading the reactions how much healing this movie brings 💞

  • @riniellechoi7588
    @riniellechoi7588 Рік тому +38

    This Short film is sad but amazing at the same time.
    Needs more views !!!

  • @saanmigs
    @saanmigs Рік тому +24

    so real so sad but so true aghhh i hope people give more respect and understanding to people living with HIV. Theyre people too like all of us.

  • @dorkeboye
    @dorkeboye 3 місяці тому +3

    I’m glad I didn’t get the same treatment as him but I have gone through the same emotional journey he has. Great movie and director!!❤

  • @anacruz2719
    @anacruz2719 Рік тому +36

    Just beautiful, strong, specific, sad yet amazing. Thank you for this film.

  • @michaelmagdaleno6604
    @michaelmagdaleno6604 11 місяців тому +8

    Well acted and extremely impactful.

  • @GrotrianSeiler
    @GrotrianSeiler 11 місяців тому +9

    That was excellent. So sad. So well done. Wow.

  • @rogerioscorrea3063
    @rogerioscorrea3063 Рік тому +23

    This dificult journey (just love..) , in this “estigmatized situariam” repeats in the same way around the world. Doesn’t matter the language .. but tomorrow is another day. And the handsome guy (in the picture) has a new message in his phone!!😘

  • @ParvaizRaja
    @ParvaizRaja Рік тому +20

    This looks so real and so touching. Thanks for sharing. Blessings from Pakistan

  • @Brooklynec2
    @Brooklynec2 Рік тому +12

    This short was great. I was crying because the man was sad and lost in this film. the story was a good lesson to learn. Brooklyn ec. April 30,2023

  • @awoFalase
    @awoFalase Рік тому +19

    The wonderful lens to experience this story through. Nicely done.

  • @taemyway
    @taemyway 2 місяці тому +3

    Beautiful film. It’s sad that the stigma around HIV still is prevalent today.

  • @argaarifwangsa4060
    @argaarifwangsa4060 Рік тому +19

    What a beautiful short-movie. Want to watch more like this.

  • @user-er1oh4bo2t
    @user-er1oh4bo2t 11 місяців тому +5

    잔잔한 울림을 주는 단편영화네요

  • @hereiam2734
    @hereiam2734 Рік тому +7

    i just want to say that i loved every thing in this .. because there's so many things to say that i might not stop typing once i start

  • @zinatakhi2412
    @zinatakhi2412 11 місяців тому +6

    No one is your own without your family❤

  • @dylanoscreamo
    @dylanoscreamo Рік тому +9

    the phenomena was beautifully captured...

  • @florenciadominguez824
    @florenciadominguez824 Рік тому +8

    este es el mejor cortometraje que he visto

  • @user-xj7yk2eh2x
    @user-xj7yk2eh2x 24 дні тому +2

    내용이 정말 현실적이고 중요한 이야기. 선입견보다는 두려움이 더 많은 단편. 동성애를 환상이나 로맨스가 아닌 부분에서 바라보는 시선이 좋고 동성애에 대한 편견을 버리게 하는 것같아서 울림이 느껴짐. 두 배우가 연기 참 실감나게 하는데 정작 영화에선 볼 수없어서 안타깝네요. 감상 잘 하고 갑니다.

  • @trixy1823
    @trixy1823 Рік тому +22

    I gave a friend this perspective… for those of us who struggle in life… it must have been that, before we placed our soul into this physical realm, we asked for the “Spiritual growth no matter how much I suffer” deluxe tour package.
    Constantly battling the self hatred that fear based judgment heaps on the LCTBQ community must be exhausting… even for those with strong support systems that maintains one’s inner strength. To be subjected to such judgements, without support, is pain so intense I want to rise up and protect each and every one of you who suffer such an existence.
    YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOULS ABSOLUTELY DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED BADLY E V E R !!!!
    I would stand between you and anyone. I would fight tooth and nail against anyone cowardly enough to target you. For each and every one of you if I could. Fight them until they understand they have no right to attack anyone. Until they are buried in the shame of considering such abuse against another.

  • @user-jt5nc6cv8b
    @user-jt5nc6cv8b Рік тому +9

    잘만들어진 단편이네요 나도 hiv랑 에이즈의 차이를 모른다고 깨달았습니다

  • @quyluu9257
    @quyluu9257 11 місяців тому +6

    Such a beautiful film ❤

  • @Chelsea-ex3ng
    @Chelsea-ex3ng 8 місяців тому +3

    Nice movie ,so touchy 😢😢 i cried 😭😭

  • @vicentejouclas2518
    @vicentejouclas2518 11 місяців тому +4

    Story spectacularly transported to the cinema. The hero must be going to a support group in the metropolis and life goes on, right?
    Nice relationship with his first family.
    Thanks, STUDIO 7!

  • @tonyholcombe8193
    @tonyholcombe8193 Рік тому +8

    Excellent and on-time .

  • @user-fu6uo9px5b
    @user-fu6uo9px5b Рік тому +9

    Очень настоящий фильм... Люди, в наши дни, никак не могут понять, что в болезни есть различия... Это всё очень грустно... Спасибо за этот фильм...

  • @salimkurniawan319
    @salimkurniawan319 Рік тому +8

    this is a short film but very good

  • @phenguinboi5811
    @phenguinboi5811 Рік тому +11

    beautiful...!

  • @genyflores1913
    @genyflores1913 Рік тому +14

    Protection and education is a must!

  • @user-ff8fp8zp6z
    @user-ff8fp8zp6z 2 місяці тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤From the PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @hungtran515
    @hungtran515 Рік тому +25

    A short movie but useful messages. Thanks for your hard working!

  • @rolmaguiland21
    @rolmaguiland21 Рік тому +8

    MORE PEOPLE NEED TO C THIS😢😊

  • @carlosandre1971
    @carlosandre1971 Рік тому +11

    Que belo filme!👏🏼

  • @danatomlinson3774
    @danatomlinson3774 Рік тому +35

    So sad. This really happens more than people understand. The guy should have 100 percent been honest up front and told him the situation about being on meds and undetectable. But the other guy also should not have talked to him that way. I myself would have been just as pissed off and probably cursed him out, maybe been so mad and hit him even, told him to leave, but I would hot have called him those names and said that, there are people that are born infected and people who also transmit it as careful as they may be.

    • @omnip3469
      @omnip3469 Рік тому

      If he's on medication you know you cannot get HIV at all. So he doesn't have to disclose it in anyway

  • @elliotalderson_
    @elliotalderson_ Рік тому +7

    Lindo, um filme que mostra algo real da vida coreana.

  • @janellespangler886
    @janellespangler886 Рік тому +7

    Nicely done.

  • @Nanda_J_Gaikwad
    @Nanda_J_Gaikwad Рік тому +4

    Fantastic

  • @onceforever_on_Twiceland
    @onceforever_on_Twiceland Рік тому +20

    It's beautifully done

  • @Brooklynec2
    @Brooklynec2 Рік тому +7

    love this love. thanks April 30,2023 Brooklyn ec

  • @mucrudi
    @mucrudi Рік тому +6

    👌👌👌

  • @emenbrayan3078
    @emenbrayan3078 Рік тому +6

    Nice movie 😢❤😊

  • @record.retake.repeat7922
    @record.retake.repeat7922 Рік тому +18

    This short film mirrors how ignorant people are in some parts of the world despits of overwhelming information about Hiv.

  • @sabrimelian8532
    @sabrimelian8532 Рік тому +7

    Esta si que es una dura realidad😭

  • @user-bn9vd8rr6z
    @user-bn9vd8rr6z 2 місяці тому +2

    Так что берегите себя,партнеров.

  • @rend9760
    @rend9760 Рік тому +7

  • @Izabellamenins
    @Izabellamenins Рік тому +9

    Gay Nice film 🎥 from korea 🇰🇷 I m surprised after I watched this 😢 make me cry 😢

  • @oliverbyumang
    @oliverbyumang Рік тому +9

    If only gay men accept for who they are it can be an easy world for them. I accepted myself at an early age.

    • @nikkotinz
      @nikkotinz Рік тому +4

      It's not that easy if your parents typical conservative asian parents...
      You suffer with your conditions a lot (but nobody knows & nobody cares) 😩😩

  • @blessmeachoomarkmadcity9586
    @blessmeachoomarkmadcity9586 Рік тому +11

    I was too ignorant (or just couldn’t be bothered) before but because of this short movie, I found out the difference between AIDS and HIV.
    Who was the person who texted him in the end? I didn’t catch it.

    • @Pheelyp
      @Pheelyp Рік тому +3

      It was pointed out in another comment that the text message contained the word "oppa", which is a word used by females to address an older male.
      So it was the girl who texted him. 😊

  • @v7kok
    @v7kok 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ for more stories like this please

  • @Joronai
    @Joronai Місяць тому +1

    Him: “I’m HIV positive.”
    She: “What is that?”
    Really???? 🙄😳🤦‍♀️

  • @yanibarra8193
    @yanibarra8193 Рік тому +3

    they stay together or not?

  • @kaybunny7836
    @kaybunny7836 Рік тому +2

    was it the guy who texted him at the end?

  • @kainguru1
    @kainguru1 4 місяці тому +1

    I can relate to this, especially the family, almost exactly... except i can only sympathize with the HIV part, though lots has improved even in the last 2 years since this was made with treatment of this disease, I wouldn't hesitate to date someone HIV positive.

  • @jhorbedia3588
    @jhorbedia3588 2 роки тому +8

    me encanto

  • @infinity9781
    @infinity9781 4 місяці тому +1

    But i still like happy endings... Life is hard for different people in different ways

  • @spring488
    @spring488 7 місяців тому +2

    Feeling bad for him.. How much frustrated and lonely he must have😢

  • @ZahrianyAz
    @ZahrianyAz 3 місяці тому +1

    Akhirnya jumpa juga film@, sudah lama aku cari film ini tapi tak tau judul dan tak tau film berasal dari mana, aku hanya melihat cuplikan saja

  • @LMays-cu2hp
    @LMays-cu2hp Рік тому +4

    Cool.

    • @LMays-cu2hp
      @LMays-cu2hp Рік тому +3

      The actors in this movie were really nice. Thank ypu for sharing this great movie!!!!

  • @dclassof84
    @dclassof84 Рік тому +12

    😢😢😢Mannnnn the Dad was what got me!!!! And the ending, was that his hook up from the night before?😢😢😢😢😢

    • @Pheelyp
      @Pheelyp Рік тому +3

      I also am confused about who texted him at the end.

    • @dclassof84
      @dclassof84 Рік тому

      @@Pheelyp I am hoping it was his hookup

    • @Pheelyp
      @Pheelyp Рік тому +5

      @@dclassof84 It was pointed out in another comment that the text message contained the word "oppa", which is a word used by females to address an older male.
      So it was the girl who texted him. 😊

    • @dclassof84
      @dclassof84 Рік тому

      @@Pheelyp awww man

    • @CosmosPeony
      @CosmosPeony Рік тому +3

      It was the woman, I can read Korean, the contact name was spelled "eun-ji".

  • @Tobi48613
    @Tobi48613 25 днів тому +1

    Sumpah keren banget ada subtitle bahasa indonesia😂😂❤

  • @Y3U.55LE
    @Y3U.55LE Рік тому +4

    Esto es cine🚬

  • @tar7
    @tar7 Рік тому +3

    cryin' 20:41 😢

  • @ichi_san
    @ichi_san 6 місяців тому +2

    This was heartbreaking.

  • @ClaireMunich
    @ClaireMunich Місяць тому

    16:45 and I stop watching to read the comments. I know where this is going and I just can't do this right now. Too personal and too painful, will come back to this at some other time.

  • @freedomhello9946
    @freedomhello9946 Рік тому +7

    덜 외로웠으면 좋겠다.

  • @kameemyeu8623
    @kameemyeu8623 Рік тому +1

    Who messaged him at the end of the film?

    • @jaesooshin7803
      @jaesooshin7803 9 днів тому

      Message from the female friend, taxi driver.
      Saying "Did you get home safely last night?"

  • @quachbaoan7883
    @quachbaoan7883 Рік тому +5

  • @ayejay8862
    @ayejay8862 Рік тому +15

    Powerful! But I'm not sure who texted him at the end. The woman or the guy...? He met them on the same night, I think. It makes a difference.

    • @charles-zw6kn
      @charles-zw6kn Рік тому +11

      It was the young lady. In the text, she addresses it to him (as "older brother", but it's a catch phrase that could include a man you are going out with or an upper classman in school from the point of view of a girl). I wish the translation of the dialogue could have been a bit fuller.

    • @onceforever_on_Twiceland
      @onceforever_on_Twiceland Рік тому +6

      There's a word oppa .....so its a girl who messaged

    • @Pheelyp
      @Pheelyp Рік тому +4

      @@onceforever_on_Twiceland Thank you for pointing out that "oppa" is used by girls and "hyeung" is used for guys. 😊

    • @onceforever_on_Twiceland
      @onceforever_on_Twiceland Рік тому +1

      @@Pheelyp hmm but it's kindaa sad 😢 if the message from boy it would be concluded as happy end but it's not for him

    • @Pheelyp
      @Pheelyp Рік тому

      @@onceforever_on_Twiceland Ah but prejudice isn't erased in a single encounter.

  • @IronRose-r4r
    @IronRose-r4r 4 дні тому

    I have a doubt though, who was the one who messaged him in the end? Was it the woman or the man? Would really appreciate if someone answered because this film is a really beautiful piece of art from the beginning to the end. I would like to know about its hidden meanings and facts more.

  • @jokoanwar1513
    @jokoanwar1513 Рік тому +1

    Who sent him text ? Is it the girl?

  • @katiasantos3231
    @katiasantos3231 Рік тому +3

    Infelizmente isso não é só Coreia, é geral 😢. O preconceito é o grande ainda no século 21. 😢

  • @kyliealvey7878
    @kyliealvey7878 Рік тому +5

    Did the man have HIV? It's good that they talked about showering and condoms, but I think when it comes to HIV you've got to be open with sexual partners

  • @videniv8623
    @videniv8623 Рік тому +2

    22:30 🥹🥹🥹

  • @aliveyyy9931
    @aliveyyy9931 3 місяці тому

    Там конце ему тот парень написал да? Я не поняла

  • @user-ek3wg4xf6m
    @user-ek3wg4xf6m Рік тому +3

    人们必须处理的令人震惊的事件

  • @user-hw1hp9yn9c
    @user-hw1hp9yn9c Рік тому +1

    어머니 맛있어 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cecepsupriyadi1966
    @cecepsupriyadi1966 Рік тому +1

    Subetle Indonesia please 🙏🙏🙏

  • @alejandrocruzaguilarcarril2044

    Todavía ay gente que no se informa sobre este temas bien creo que hartos de.hablar deberían de informase bien para no ofender a la persona

  • @marcchesley3731
    @marcchesley3731 Рік тому

    Wow this didn't end well I was expecting a little more a little disappointed

  • @tar7
    @tar7 Рік тому +2

    22:30 auhh :((

  • @MariaSantos-st4xw
    @MariaSantos-st4xw Рік тому

    6y2

  • @cineziotrindade8421
    @cineziotrindade8421 Рік тому +1

    Sem legenda dublada. Só inglês. Não é legal.

  • @jrc120412
    @jrc120412 Рік тому +2