A FATHER SHOULD BE A ROLE MODEL! NOT AN ABUSER!

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  • @jamielancaster5185
    @jamielancaster5185 3 роки тому +27644

    That is why we love this family. It is not only fun and silly things..it conveys moral values some have definitely forgotten or not even know.

  • @Tennn-vu4fn
    @Tennn-vu4fn Рік тому +1350

    As someone who’s been abused and no one stood up for me, I cried when the boys protected their mother.

    • @komalhaanihashmi6677
      @komalhaanihashmi6677 Рік тому +52

      That means u urself are strong enough to protect urself
      not in every situation people are there for u!!just learn to stand for ur ownself dont depend on others
      Fight for urself

    • @Chocolatexoxo
      @Chocolatexoxo 11 місяців тому +21

      If i was there i will protect you

    • @Tennn-vu4fn
      @Tennn-vu4fn 11 місяців тому +16

      @@Chocolatexoxo Lol thanks, but people who've said that just ended up standing and watching.

    • @SAMI_ZAYN_FANPAGE
      @SAMI_ZAYN_FANPAGE 11 місяців тому +3

      ​@@Tennn-vu4fn you could have save yourself its your own fault that you dont stand up for yourself so watch your words before speaking

    • @Tennn-vu4fn
      @Tennn-vu4fn 11 місяців тому +22

      @@SAMI_ZAYN_FANPAGE excuse you? you don’t have nearly enough information to make that judgement. i’m a *minor.* YOU watch your words before speaking to me like that. i was a little child when the abuse happened to me and it’s none of your business so keep your opinions to yourself.

  • @zenithmemes8238
    @zenithmemes8238 3 роки тому +6582

    Mother: gives paper
    Dad: and I took that personally

    • @whisper6388
      @whisper6388 3 роки тому +130

      Gsgsggs😭I feel like a bad person laughing at this

    • @maatmelanin1159
      @maatmelanin1159 3 роки тому +45

      🤣🤣 right like why

    • @teamebrhane7222
      @teamebrhane7222 3 роки тому +13

      @@maatmelanin1159 its fake

    • @maatmelanin1159
      @maatmelanin1159 3 роки тому +25

      @@teamebrhane7222 i know it’s fake it’s just silly

    • @teamebrhane7222
      @teamebrhane7222 3 роки тому +6

      @@maatmelanin1159 ok good🖒

  • @MulanKones
    @MulanKones 3 місяці тому +84

    "He may not have been the world's greatest dad, but maybe we weren't the world's greatest kids."
    - Young Sheldon

    • @lennycloutier9632
      @lennycloutier9632 22 дні тому +2

      So true my brother hits me and calls me names and is always so rude to me and my mom basically all the girls in my family but he’s been really nice to me until, I grew up he started being rough so I stopped hanging out with him but as a young girl I didn’t know what abuse was until all the comments on an other vid

  • @JessSinha
    @JessSinha 6 місяців тому +148

    Seeing all the sons get up to protect their mother genuinely made me smile 😢❤

  • @sagegrace2909
    @sagegrace2909 3 роки тому +4223

    My dad was an abuser but he ended up dieing in jail then my mom tried to sell me for drugs and then I got adopted and those parents were abusing me every day so my adoption got over turned and now I’m about to be adopted again by someone who really loves me and someone who I really love

    • @kelhudson5423
      @kelhudson5423 3 роки тому +520

      Ahhh that's fantastic, I'm really happy that your now happy! Remember, always pity the abusers and never yourself because you are brilliant and nothing less. Your a survivor! I wish you the absolute best for your future x

    • @imonthenextlevel1364
      @imonthenextlevel1364 3 роки тому +362

      Wooooow I’m sorry that happened to you 🥺🥺🥺 always be strong
      Always be brave
      Don’t let anything stop you

    • @sagegrace2909
      @sagegrace2909 3 роки тому +198

      @@kelhudson5423 thank you so much you don’t know how much this means to me you are such an amazing person

    • @sagegrace2909
      @sagegrace2909 3 роки тому +157

      @@imonthenextlevel1364 thank you so much it means a lot to me that you care

    • @christy76840
      @christy76840 3 роки тому +119

      Damn girl I'm sorry you had to go through all that and happy to hear all is good. Everyone deserves good parents and good parents don't have to be blood. Good luck and be happy. If you keep a strong mind you can overcome anything and keep it from taking you down a dark path.

  • @morganbucaille3529
    @morganbucaille3529 3 роки тому +1973

    This was my mother. She was a huge abuser. My dad is going through a super complicated divorce and my mom wrongly accused my dad of abusing me and my siblings. We all had to go to a foster home because of it. Thankfully my dad fought for us and we are back home 😀

    • @nunyabusiness5401
      @nunyabusiness5401 3 роки тому +159

      Good to hear ❤️ Honestly, I think men should stop being portrayed as the only potential abusers, as it diverts the attention from women who do, too. But I’m glad you’re good!

    • @AndrewKidd14145
      @AndrewKidd14145 3 роки тому +19

      Well it wouldn’t happen so often if children would open their mouths and not let their parents basically fool them into choosing side and lying and stuff.

    • @cranberryjam7408
      @cranberryjam7408 3 роки тому +18

      I’m glad you are with your dad, and I’m so sorry about that. I hope everything is going well.

    • @2drippy0
      @2drippy0 3 роки тому +12

      Yikes.. I'm really sorry for what happened to you, hope your happy now!! 😁❤

    • @2drippy0
      @2drippy0 3 роки тому +17

      @@AndrewKidd14145 oh no no no, if children open their mouths.. ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN, they can get themselves taken into foster. You do know, if kids do speak up, it can create problems for the parents and themselves aswell.

  • @JGC23
    @JGC23 3 місяці тому +10

    Congratulations for portraying another message that domestic abuse not being acceptable 👏

  • @rubio9478
    @rubio9478 5 місяців тому +10

    FYI, BOTH men AND women can be abusive. It's not strictly a male trait. Society needs to hold female abusers just as accountable as male ones.

    • @Ummuray
      @Ummuray 4 місяці тому

      Just because you are the male here doesn't mean that everything is targeted at males ok...?

    • @rubio9478
      @rubio9478 4 місяці тому +4

      @@Ummuray if you understood my previous comment, I said both genders should be at fault. Get your head out of you know where...

    • @sugaslotus957
      @sugaslotus957 День тому

      And in our house we have two abusers and they abuse each other and us 🙂

    • @sugaslotus957
      @sugaslotus957 День тому

      ​@@Ummurayu r getting offended for no reason 🙂chill

  • @thefurrhafamily
    @thefurrhafamily  3 роки тому +2042

    Violence is horrible and not acceptable! Let’s be more aware!

  • @SirYeetus
    @SirYeetus 3 роки тому +721

    A Father needs to be the pillar of strength that everyone can rely on, not a tyrant everyone fears. 💪

  • @RaheraKemp-ve9vx
    @RaheraKemp-ve9vx 5 місяців тому +3

    This is not real they are just showing people to not be abusive and due to this it’s making people bring out their past life and I find that really heart warming ❤❤❤

  • @Samirab25
    @Samirab25 Місяць тому +1

    I almost cried at the end 😭😭
    Mothers gave us their love we also need to give them our love 😢

  • @chrissychris1360
    @chrissychris1360 3 роки тому +86

    My father was a dedicated family man, an educator, a protector, a counselor, a hero to our mom and his 2 children. I know nothing else but this. I pray that ppl can get a chance to experience this type of love and support. Abuse is wrong.

    • @mindymartinez4134
      @mindymartinez4134 3 роки тому +2

    • @chrissychris1360
      @chrissychris1360 3 роки тому +2

      @@vickiedavidson1230 absolutely! I thank God for blessing me and my sister. To me honest, all the men in out family including our uncle's are role models. My uncles have adopted several children and they now are fathers themselves. They are paying it forward. Domestic violence of any kind is wrong.

    • @chrissychris1360
      @chrissychris1360 3 роки тому

      Davidson promise 🤗

  • @LEARNYOURSPANISH..
    @LEARNYOURSPANISH.. 4 місяці тому +9

    This is true💔...
    But just a reminder, anyone, including women, can abuse💔

    • @ElisabethStrand-mp7md
      @ElisabethStrand-mp7md 25 днів тому

      Ahhhh 😢er😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @Stitchlover62674
    @Stitchlover62674 3 місяці тому +2

    That is why you should have a great family that loves so that if a situation like that happens you have people there to help you

  • @lauriedavidson4953
    @lauriedavidson4953 3 роки тому +1381

    My father abused my mother HORRIBLY in every way you can think of and some you can't imagine. Of the four sons and three daughters in our family, none of us grew up to abuse others in any way (thank God), because we will forever remember the suffering of our precious Mama.

    • @beverlytinley3798
      @beverlytinley3798 3 роки тому +64

      I am so sorry i hope you have a great life i am sorry about ur mother

    • @ssoup535
      @ssoup535 3 роки тому +45

      Im so sorry about ur mom and I hope she is having a better life 🤞😭😔

    • @sharooqsalaudeen865
      @sharooqsalaudeen865 3 роки тому +29

      Im sorry. I hope all seven of you lead a great and happy family

    • @rissoldecarne5360
      @rissoldecarne5360 3 роки тому +3

      Nice
      \(◕◡◕)/

    • @anwarabbas7323
      @anwarabbas7323 3 роки тому +3

      @@rissoldecarne5360 yasss

  • @jacksonpodlin9272
    @jacksonpodlin9272 2 роки тому +103

    I have been in a cycle of abuse for all 16 years of my life. When I was 8, my father beat my mom to death. I got upset and hit my father with a bat and he started hitting me constantly with his belt and I kept bleeding until u was knocked out unconscious. By the time I woke up, my father had killed my sister and was in jail. I had a similar instance with my second family but it wasn’t a severe. My second family cyber bullied me offline and ending up leaving me multiple times when they went on vacation. I am now living with my 2nd cousin’s family who really love me, I am so grateful to have a loving family🥰

    • @geminimoonlightthebunnylov270
      @geminimoonlightthebunnylov270 Рік тому +7

      You deserve the best I hope u live the best life

    • @freddokool
      @freddokool Рік тому +6

      If feel so bad for you God Bless you and I hope you have a great life

    • @doejrjrnrkkrk
      @doejrjrnrkkrk Рік тому +5

      God bless you! also no one should have to go through that😭 I hear about that stuff and it makes me cry and hope that people who get abused end up living a happy life and the people who abused then end up in jail where they belong for hurting people that were just trying to do what they thought was right or doing nothing bad

    • @raffaellaguidi28
      @raffaellaguidi28 Рік тому +5

      No one should have to go through something like that!! I’m so happy that ur happy now and I’m sorry for u losses and i wish u all the best.

    • @Saturn-787
      @Saturn-787 Рік тому +1

      Omg really that JUST LIKE GACHA LOGIC. thats HORRIBLE! really why did your father do that😭😭😭Thats the most sad thing i've never heard! (first time hearing something like this! 😟😟

  • @karmynslingerland2494
    @karmynslingerland2494 3 місяці тому +1

    You should never abuse anyone even if you have to! It’s a sin! And it will not do you good in your life! So please do not abuse people, they may act like they don’t care on the outside but on the inside it really hurts!! That is an amazing family, finally realizing what the dad is doing and in the end when they all covered her up, it proves they care for her!!!

  • @Shadow-ty9oz
    @Shadow-ty9oz 3 роки тому +624

    My dad looks tough but is a teddy bear, we ended up adopting my friend who was disowned form an abusive family, she was taken advantage of by her cousin and she was also beat by her dad etc. she is so scared of even hugging my dad because of these things unless I’m there. No one should go through this. My friend helped me right this and is thankful that you are spreading awareness!!

    • @Mtz2604
      @Mtz2604 3 роки тому +41

      You're an awesome friend for protecting your friend from her nasty parents and your parents deserve a medal. Wish you all the best

    • @Shadow-ty9oz
      @Shadow-ty9oz 3 роки тому +10

      Thank you so much!

    • @sauceyboi9831
      @sauceyboi9831 3 роки тому

      @@Shadow-ty9oz write not right

    • @blitzdbs
      @blitzdbs 3 роки тому +6

      @@sauceyboi9831 You had to say it -_-

    • @gachaboba3232
      @gachaboba3232 3 роки тому +5

      This is like my family but my dad threatens all the girls in the house he threatens me and my sister sometimes my mother

  • @_____K808
    @_____K808 3 роки тому +803

    “it’s not okay to be abusive”
    *we’ve been tricked, we’ve been backstabbed, and we’ve been quite possibly, bamboozled.*

    • @johnf7111
      @johnf7111 3 роки тому +5

      Buaaahahahahgahahahahahahagagaga

    • @TB37999
      @TB37999 3 роки тому +2

      Lol 😂

    • @Angrymonkey2489
      @Angrymonkey2489 3 роки тому +3

      That's Sarge's quote from RvB, haha

    • @alamhowlader6940
      @alamhowlader6940 3 роки тому +7

      😢😟☹🙁🤕😭➡️👧,😈😡👺👹➡️👦

    • @TheCowPuncher963
      @TheCowPuncher963 3 роки тому +1

      @@Angrymonkey2489 Tell me the name of the movie and where I can find it...this is not a question,it is a demand.

  • @marysue1883
    @marysue1883 7 місяців тому +7

    I come from a dysfunctional home where my father's father throttled my grandmother, was emotionally and verbally abusive
    My father stood up to my grandfather back then
    Then my grandmother told my father this year "Why aren't you dead yet?" because he's been abusive to me and my sister and my mother is on Dad's side
    It's so encouraging and inspiring to see this
    It's also very encouraging that all of us silent victims and spectators of abuse found a place to come together ❤️🙏

  • @facundorodriguez6723
    @facundorodriguez6723 Місяць тому

    Love how the kids protect their mother❤❤❤ Made me smile😊

  • @sirultim8643
    @sirultim8643 3 роки тому +455

    Ah yes, the abusive father who randomly un-does laundry and starves himself for no reason.

    • @nineteen7071
      @nineteen7071 3 роки тому +8

      Lol

    • @professorrosenstock5026
      @professorrosenstock5026 3 роки тому +19

      He's complaining about the food

    • @ur_lcal_orange6365
      @ur_lcal_orange6365 3 роки тому +3

      Lol

    • @Fluttershy_is.c00l
      @Fluttershy_is.c00l 3 роки тому +1

      His just like my big sis son his so pike about food

    • @-ak-2253
      @-ak-2253 3 роки тому +21

      @@barty38ify i mean imagine living with someone like that, and you do everything to please them, you take care of them, do their laundry, cook food for them, etc. But it's never enough for them so they keep treating you like shit no matter what you do. You're not even getting paid to do things for them or deal with their shit, but you do it anyway and they're always aggressive towards you. Imagine living in fear every day thinking that this person could hurt you anytime. it would all feel like mental torture when dealing with this every single day. Idk about you, but to me it looks like that this could possibly be a factor of mental abuse.

  • @arunhimane
    @arunhimane 3 роки тому +905

    These kids together can easily kick this dad's ass if he ever tries to be abusive towards their mom.
    Edit : to those who r telling me that this isn't real, this family isn't like that... Etc.
    I know.. they r acting. But they r portraying based on the real life issues.. maybe this is not happening in ur family.. but there are ppl who r facing these kinds of issues. Those victims should stand against such acts either by filing a complaint or defend themselves using violence if need be.
    And about this family, we r only witnessing what's shown on the youtube not what's going on in their real lives.

    • @real_smilegamez
      @real_smilegamez 3 роки тому +19

      Indeed, but when they're like 12 they got very little chance without weapons

    • @eisaalhammadi5368
      @eisaalhammadi5368 3 роки тому +12

      They can’t hit the dad whatever happens they still can’t hit him and this is acting not real

    • @BrainFoodCafe
      @BrainFoodCafe 3 роки тому +4

      It's just a message , fking understand that

    • @Zukrio
      @Zukrio 3 роки тому +5

      @@real_smilegamez lol the oldest is like 20 bro none of them are 12

    • @budget_gandalf
      @budget_gandalf 3 роки тому +4

      @@eisaalhammadi5368 what do you mean no law says you can't hit a family member in defense of others it is the same rules as if you were protecting somone on the street

  • @dorotheadavis6829
    @dorotheadavis6829 2 місяці тому +1

    Hopefully someone who needs to see this message will learn from it. You as a family are wonderful. You make us laugh and then you make us stop.and think. Thank you for everything you do. ❤

  • @samanthamaguire3668
    @samanthamaguire3668 28 днів тому +1

    THAT was my Daughters Ex. HE DIDN'T let the Kid's STOP him from beating her either - If THEY got in the way, THEY got it Too! Tg SHE FINALLY got rid of him, after a Struggle. At LEAST POPS had the Decency to put his Head in His hands in SHAME!!! My daughters EX Didn't, Just turned it around and acted like Nothing happened. Even abused her when she was going through Cancer. Just HOPE she picks a Better Guy next Time!

  • @tcm844
    @tcm844 3 роки тому +119

    I'm glad I had a disciplinarian as a father. Never abusive, but when I crossed that line, an ass whopping, and a lecture came fast. Some people say that is abuse, but that man took care of me everyday, taught me valuable skills, and is a role model to me and my siblings.

    • @19bendunk
      @19bendunk 3 роки тому +11

      If you not feel abuse that what matters my friend, people knows very well when its not from love and care believe me

    • @dannydethanos6994
      @dannydethanos6994 3 роки тому

      @@19bendunk the mental toll is the main tag line of abuse so if in the child’s mind it is just a punishment it won’t usually affect them mentally, but as a child it’s hard to speak up so it is a risky line just because every child sees things differently and may not say anything or realize what they are feeling. So it can stray into the area of mental damage and a warped view of their parent as they can become scared of them and then most experiences have that base of fear built in, so it does have to be balanced between loving in a way that a child can see and discipline.(most of the time when they’re older they will see that it is from a place of love I know I did, but I don’t see much of a reason to not discipline when needs be and love them the rest of the time it helps them to keep that loving relationship in mind.)

    • @draco6524
      @draco6524 3 роки тому

      @@19bendunk its not abuse, just good discipline or tough love, now if its like everyday constantly and on purpose then thats when you gotta speak up

    • @Equinox-rq3ig
      @Equinox-rq3ig 3 роки тому +1

      Y'all got some Stockholm smh

    • @dannydethanos6994
      @dannydethanos6994 3 роки тому

      @@Equinox-rq3ig I think some people do lol my dad did spankings once every blue moon

  • @claudiazambrano8562
    @claudiazambrano8562 Рік тому +167

    The way they all protected her is beautiful ❤️❤️

    • @rue2599
      @rue2599 Рік тому +2

      When I was six, my toddler and preteen sisters and I defended our mother against our father that way.

    • @lexis2660
      @lexis2660 Рік тому +1

      ​@@rue2599 God bless you and your family love. I pray that you don't have to be in that environment anymore and I pray for blessings and coverings over you and your family. I pray that Jesus comes in and heals your broken heart from that. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Amen!
      😘😘😘😘

    • @rue2599
      @rue2599 Рік тому +2

      @@lexis2660 Amen!

    • @lexis2660
      @lexis2660 Рік тому +1

      @@rue2599 🥰💖💞💓

    • @grandcanyon-fu9zt
      @grandcanyon-fu9zt Рік тому

      They honestly could gang up on him and beat him up

  • @woundextra
    @woundextra 7 місяців тому +1

    Having an alcoholic father, it relates to me so much. He beats me and my mom up for no reason,stays the night out. Things has been really hard for us. We don't even know if he has another family. We can't even dare to talk to him. Sometimes when he says to me that I'm the problem for everything, I feel like dying.

  • @Vickyg826
    @Vickyg826 5 місяців тому +2

    aww the way the boys protected their mom from the dad was soo cute ❤❤❤

  • @Jeffwaifei
    @Jeffwaifei 3 роки тому +648

    It hurts to know that this is actually happening somewhere right now.

    • @isay379
      @isay379 3 роки тому +5

      Then it’ll hurt if you knew me

    • @Bruhhhhv
      @Bruhhhhv 3 роки тому +3

      🙋🙋

    • @Bruhhhhv
      @Bruhhhhv 3 роки тому +2

      @@isay379 same here haha

    • @mygame9309
      @mygame9309 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah y me.

    • @rthnae
      @rthnae 3 роки тому +2

      Awwww 😢 hope y'all find peace ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @varijothetree8670
    @varijothetree8670 3 роки тому +508

    "Abuse is bad"
    Holy crap why didnt i think of such thing?

    • @sckmindfrud
      @sckmindfrud 3 роки тому +25

      Right😭 wth is going on with this low effort tik toks, and look at everyone eating them up too

    • @osamawalkk
      @osamawalkk 3 роки тому +11

      @@sckmindfrud exactly it pisses me off

    • @linnatbu5603
      @linnatbu5603 3 роки тому

      😳😳🤔

    • @justaweirdmanwithamustache5338
      @justaweirdmanwithamustache5338 3 роки тому +3

      @@osamawalkk me2

    • @nanalalatumtum
      @nanalalatumtum 3 роки тому +10

      @@sckmindfrud it's not low effort or anything bad these people are trying to help raise awareness and show others that it's not okay and that you need to take action if this is happening to you.

  • @user-fq1rd7sn6l
    @user-fq1rd7sn6l 25 днів тому

    It is so heart warming that the last one all the kids came to protect her ❤😊

  • @sharonanderson9448
    @sharonanderson9448 2 дні тому

    The dad has been an amazing role model for his boys and has set the bar extremely high for his girls. The love he shares with mom shows in his family

  • @aesopvann3553
    @aesopvann3553 3 роки тому +81

    “Acting was invented in 1806”
    Acting in 1805:

    • @seththompson4525
      @seththompson4525 3 роки тому +4

      😂LMAO

    • @lolaakin8460
      @lolaakin8460 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂

    • @ax3lot108
      @ax3lot108 3 роки тому +3

      Funny but still the video is still trying to teach some people that abuse is wrong

    • @Kittymewmewmeow
      @Kittymewmewmeow 3 роки тому

      Just appreciate the message and stfu 💀

    • @ax3lot108
      @ax3lot108 3 роки тому +1

      I’m just saying these words in saying are coming from a 10 year old

  • @varaprasadperchalla2453
    @varaprasadperchalla2453 3 роки тому +499

    I-am 27 year old guy ended up leaving India and living in Canada due to abusive friends, family.here’s my story my parents are very strict, especially my father who used to beat me crazy and embarrass me in front of people for my small mistakes . For some reason I don’t know I always used to be target for bullies in my class. They all used to beat, harass ,treat me real bad but I never confronted them because if I do they would me beat me real bad (always 1 v 5,6)I never used to tell my parents about my problems because I was afraid that I would get beating. My father used to run a small restaurant whenever I am off my school he used to make me work in the restaurant. The workers who used to work in the restaurant also started bullying me and my father would never say anything to them and they took advantage of it. My father would never allowed me go to play with friends he always wanted me to work in the restaurant.One day when I was 16 year old my father beat me like real bad I was crying all day and was thinking about my life why am I target ?? for everybody and I came to a conclusion that I was born I like this and I will be like this from then on started staying from friend, cousins, everybody. From that day I never made friends and never spoke with my old friends. I stopped going to family events, used to enjoy my self company. I liked girls in my class but never spoke with them because I was afraid that if my father get to know any relationship i am dead.I only used to go to church and pray to god that please change my life and make me achieve great things in life.all these years my self esteem ,confidence was really low and I never believed in my self I only thought that Iam fit for nothing. After finishing under graduation I was so afraid and scared to apply for jobs because that feeling of iam fit for nothing was deeply rooted in my brain even though I used to get 70 percent on my studies I was afraid people would say something. One day when I was 22 (just finished under graduation)he gain beat me real bad in front of my relative I was depressed and thought I should leave the house so, I packed my stuff and went to Mumbai that was on 2016. The only thing that I was worried leaving home was about my mom I knew she would be in anguish. I was roaming streets in Mumbai. Spent one night in a hotel my sisters kept on calling, texting me all this time but I didn’t reply or answer them. That next day morning they texted me that mom was really worried about me and didn’t have food ever since I left the house so, I returned that evening to home. My mom spoke with a uncle and she requested them to let me stay in their house for 4 months.i was thinking all the time when I was at uncles home to stay away from my world and go to other country and start new life and do any job to live if even there they said i am fit for nothing I could easily change jobs because I don’t really care any job as long as they pay me. I can’t do that in India because people would judge you and embarrass you for the type of work you do.So here I am in Canada came on a student visa somehow managed to finish two years and got work permit. I work as security guard and I am very happy that my supervisor never said anything wrong about mr and I am always careful about my duties but I have still the fear of I am fit for nothing in my brain. I am still scared to apply for good jobs because i might do wrong and have to face embarrassment even I have the caliber to do it. There is always struggle in myself.I hope someday I will get the courage to change my brain and get self confidence.
    Edit : thank you every one who strengthened me with your words. This would really help me to build my self.

    • @angelfernandez8528
      @angelfernandez8528 3 роки тому +63

      Well your father is a freaking coward then

    • @seamussmyth120
      @seamussmyth120 3 роки тому +78

      You sound like a great guy and I wish you the best. I think you should leave the ‘I’m fit for nothing’ mentality in India. You don’t deserve to feel that way! Your going to find people that love you for who you are and any one else can get lost

    • @varaprasadperchalla2453
      @varaprasadperchalla2453 3 роки тому +30

      @@seamussmyth120 Iam trying to

    • @sebastienpasnin9826
      @sebastienpasnin9826 3 роки тому +8

      Me trying to figure out who tf asked

    • @SPIKE-kh5ny
      @SPIKE-kh5ny 3 роки тому +71

      @@sebastienpasnin9826 you thought that was the right comment to reply
      Have some shame
      Can't someone share their experience?
      Remember
      UA-cam was not to watch but also share
      Just say ur too lazy to read man
      Even if ur not having a heart then just stfu and go away

  • @samanthaperez7484
    @samanthaperez7484 Місяць тому

    Agreed no father should be abusive father need to be a role model for thier kids 💯💯💯

  • @vilmerdanilomonterrosovasquez
    @vilmerdanilomonterrosovasquez Місяць тому

    This is a example to not be abusive especially someone you love like your parents ❤

  • @gradin6615
    @gradin6615 3 роки тому +561

    This is my father. Finally, all of his children left him. During his old ages, he never experienced how other fathers like. Having family gathering.. surrounded by his children & grandchildren. At his final moment, none of his children was at his side except his wife. (our stepmother).

    • @ms.fandoms811
      @ms.fandoms811 3 роки тому +25

      *Children, not childs
      Sorry

    • @gradin6615
      @gradin6615 3 роки тому +36

      @@ms.fandoms811
      Noted. Thanks.
      English is not my 1st language so Im not good at it.
      😊😊😊

    • @ms.fandoms811
      @ms.fandoms811 3 роки тому +10

      @@gradin6615 No prob man

    • @anasjaved3093
      @anasjaved3093 3 роки тому +3

      Yo shut up fam who tf asked for your story g

    • @gradin6615
      @gradin6615 3 роки тому +11

      @@vickiedavidson1230
      Yeah...that is how it is.
      That's why I always try to be the best for my children. I am their mom..sister & friend. I don't want them to go through like what I went through.

  • @lloydfletcher3119
    @lloydfletcher3119 3 роки тому +53

    I’m so glad this was made. I had no idea you should treat, not only your family but people in general, with respect and kindness.

    • @jaushuagrahamthefloridaman1124
      @jaushuagrahamthefloridaman1124 3 роки тому +9

      Ikr? Man i sure am grateful for tiktoc for teaching me being a wife-beater is wrong! I never would have knew

    • @dripjaeger3475
      @dripjaeger3475 3 роки тому +5

      Yeah! If TikTok didn't exist I would've never known hitting my wife is bad
      (This is a joke, TikTok is garbage, I learnt this shit from my parents)

    • @lecrocodile5651
      @lecrocodile5651 3 роки тому +6

      Tiktok really stopped me from being racist, abusive and homophobic thanks tiktok for everything 😢🙏🙏

    • @fankkarp1305
      @fankkarp1305 3 роки тому +2

      My mind was blown 🤯

  • @viktoriamarta2390
    @viktoriamarta2390 Місяць тому

    The way the boys helped her mom❤

  • @hollandbryson2442
    @hollandbryson2442 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤ brought tears to my eyes. You're such a beautiful inspirational family

  • @sophia3702
    @sophia3702 3 роки тому +723

    My dad disowned my big brother who is 19 after protecting me so my dad could not give me a black eye, now my brother had custody of me and my other brother
    Edit: I know people find edits annoying but I just wanted to say thank you to all of the kind, caring people in my comments ❤️ you guys are so very sweet and I hope you all have an amazing day, stay sweet ☺️❤️

    • @Abhey_1708
      @Abhey_1708 3 роки тому +43

      Strength to your brother and you

    • @Didmasela
      @Didmasela 3 роки тому +18

      Very good. And let this motivate you and your to become one of the best dads in the world. Your dad has lost two good sons then. Very sad..

    • @AKing99
      @AKing99 3 роки тому +8

      Grow beyond the smallness of those around you and keep going

    • @imranbaloch4917
      @imranbaloch4917 3 роки тому +7

      Good on your brother

    • @sophia3702
      @sophia3702 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you guys

  • @robcoop2125
    @robcoop2125 3 роки тому +103

    Farther: *tries to hit wife *
    Rest of family: *group hug mother *
    Farther: *puts hands on face * "im so disappointed with these kinds trying to act like women aren't property

  • @liiporta7964
    @liiporta7964 23 дні тому

    ...and that's why I like the father of this family. I never saw him being abusive towards any familymember. So nice to see him being a good father and husband😊

  • @liiporta7964
    @liiporta7964 23 дні тому

    ...and that's why I like the father of this family. I never saw him being abusive towards any familymember. So nice to see him being a good father and husband.

  • @charact6165
    @charact6165 3 роки тому +956

    “It’s not okay to be abusive!!”
    Abusers: *understandable have a great day*

    • @kira2646
      @kira2646 3 роки тому +9

      Where is the last line from

    • @charact6165
      @charact6165 3 роки тому +12

      @@kira2646 a meme template

    • @thaty3jgurl
      @thaty3jgurl 3 роки тому +3

      This man is very eveil and she's people are good kids a don't know what's it is put is good people

    • @sunny-9246
      @sunny-9246 3 роки тому +12

      @@thaty3jgurl What?? -☠️

    • @alex-bj1il
      @alex-bj1il 3 роки тому +16

      @@thaty3jgurl r/ihadastroke

  • @yungplague5534
    @yungplague5534 3 роки тому +121

    Meanwhile people actually dealing with this suffering
    These people : $$$

    • @greg2601
      @greg2601 3 роки тому +13

      it may not be happening to them but they tryna teach you a lesson damn

    • @ResolvedMC
      @ResolvedMC 3 роки тому +12

      @@greg2601 there's no lesson here. This won't change wife beaters anywhere. You think the guy is going to magically apologize to his family for being an asshole to them? I don't think so. People know that, and most aren't like the wife beater s out there, and stuff like this is taken seriously. Why not talk about how divorced women take advantage of the bias family court to to get all the money his ex husband makes to go on vacations, to pay for massages, spa and other unnecessary stuff while staying at the house that her ex is paying. But no, let's all talk keep on talking about wife beaters for the millionth fucking time so that, you know, didn't get the memo.

    • @leya2215
      @leya2215 3 роки тому +2

      @@ResolvedMC it might not change any abuser. But it raises awareness for the people around the ones being abused. A lot of people Don’t see the signs, while the people that surround someone That’s being abused usually are the ones that help them get out. Why do you think abusers try to cut contacts?

    • @ResolvedMC
      @ResolvedMC 3 роки тому +2

      @@leya2215 so why keep beating over the head? Most people are aware of that, they don't need to a daily reminder of that. If anything, people should be aware how biased the family court is towards women. How many divorced men have to keep paying absurds amounts of money to a woman so that she can go out and have fun, while the men lose the house and custody of their kids. And if you care about victims of abuse, then you should consider how much kids are abused by their single moms.

    • @arampathkushan2861
      @arampathkushan2861 3 роки тому

      Fr

  • @user-wm9xg8vk8x
    @user-wm9xg8vk8x Місяць тому +1

    A husband or brother should never hit a girl

  • @devisri2754
    @devisri2754 9 місяців тому

    When I was younger this is how my dad treated my mom ... He was very abusive physically , emotionally and in every way possible .. I felt soo helpless .. No body came to help .. My relatives were right next to our house but no-one came to help .. Now I'm 22 years old and ive grown to have social anxiety ... I pray no one should go thru these type of childhood 🙏

  • @KatieT97
    @KatieT97 3 роки тому +67

    Remember that abuse isn’t just physical, there are many different types especially ones that go “unseen”

  • @stephaniehardwall9839
    @stephaniehardwall9839 2 роки тому +529

    I love how boys protected their mom in the end

  • @dennymartin18
    @dennymartin18 9 місяців тому

    Abuse is not only toxic, it's also contagious. Think of the lost grandchildren when you are 🤔😭raising your own children.

  • @JaydenWilhite1
    @JaydenWilhite1 9 днів тому +1

    Abusive fathers are just weak hurt men

  • @ThePixelisHere
    @ThePixelisHere 3 роки тому +113

    If the word “cringe” was in physical form.

    • @voltron42o
      @voltron42o 3 роки тому +5

      Family is literal aids

    • @ozymandias6644
      @ozymandias6644 3 роки тому +2

      @@voltron42o
      Cmon that's a bit too far fetched... It's okay you don't like their content but calling someone aids? That's not done man

    • @frenchdoge5025
      @frenchdoge5025 3 роки тому +2

      Its cringe but that maximillianmus shit is so much more cringe

    • @Rose3333___
      @Rose3333___ 3 роки тому

      Yes

    • @luidong12yearsago91
      @luidong12yearsago91 Рік тому +2

      So someone telling sending a very good message and you're saying its cringe? Wowwwww

  • @ryanhumphreys6147
    @ryanhumphreys6147 3 роки тому +546

    My parents never said I love you or showed any type of affection to me and my siblings. Now I'm grown with my own family and I show my kids so much love and affection on a daily basis and they are my best friends. Growing up like that taught me to change and be the opposite.

    • @corn5309
      @corn5309 3 роки тому +12

      You. Now you are a good person!

    • @hazztv6317
      @hazztv6317 3 роки тому +12

      I’m so proud of you😊♥️♥️

    • @draxkenta2045
      @draxkenta2045 3 роки тому

      I don't think you should befriend your children

    • @abhishekpatnaik464
      @abhishekpatnaik464 3 роки тому +5

      That's a sweet story and sorry about your mom and dad :/

    • @CLUCKBAUCKUHH
      @CLUCKBAUCKUHH 3 роки тому +3

      @@draxkenta2045 you can

  • @edithgomez8092
    @edithgomez8092 8 місяців тому

    This is a great teaching video !!! Impact of abuse effects the whole family ! Momma's son 's will not let Pop get away with any kind of abuse. I know Pop loves and adores Momma Alot.

  • @FlexSTS
    @FlexSTS Місяць тому

    In real life Pops isn't abusive he is a fun and caring dad😊

  • @GhostySweep
    @GhostySweep 3 роки тому +915

    "it's not okay to be abusive"
    "it's illegal to kill"

  • @jadestone2118
    @jadestone2118 3 роки тому +30

    I grew up with abusive parents, using fear and threats to control. They also took pleasure in my pain in order to make themselves feel powerful. I still am in therapy today to deal with all their mental manipulations and their aggressive volatile explosions during my youth. My body keeps the score.

    • @dr.areebakhan141
      @dr.areebakhan141 3 роки тому +3

      Same here

    • @Mtz2604
      @Mtz2604 3 роки тому +4

      I'm sorry that you had to endure this awful and cruel treatment. Some people should not be allowed to have children. I'm glad to see that you're seeking help to heal from the abuse and neglect from your parents. Sending a big hug.

    • @marcustuuhetoka1340
      @marcustuuhetoka1340 3 роки тому

      I pray for all of you 🙏🏽

    • @Mtz2604
      @Mtz2604 3 роки тому

      @@marcustuuhetoka1340 thank you for having us in your thoughts and prayers.

    • @marcustuuhetoka1340
      @marcustuuhetoka1340 3 роки тому

      @@Mtz2604 , you're very welcome. 🙂

  • @henryayala7174
    @henryayala7174 Місяць тому +1

    I started a cry! It was adorable! It just showed me so much love

  • @ZaraAlapini
    @ZaraAlapini Місяць тому

    I love the way the boys protected their mother

  • @LaRraa_
    @LaRraa_ 3 роки тому +114

    Yes,i am girl and i watched my dad abuse my mother with only 4 years of my life,i cryed every time,now im 14 years old and im waiting for perfect age to get him back,thank God they are divorced and my mother found very nice husband that isnt abusive to me or her ❤

    • @nataliemedrano9909
      @nataliemedrano9909 3 роки тому +5

      I'm very sorry to hear that especially since I'm your age. 🥺

    • @strawxberry_9815
      @strawxberry_9815 3 роки тому +11

      I am also a girl I am Aakuleena and I am 9 years old I am 5 years smaller than you and me and my family is a very good and a very happy family ☺️

    • @LaRraa_
      @LaRraa_ 3 роки тому +4

      @@strawxberry_9815 ❤

    • @strawxberry_9815
      @strawxberry_9815 3 роки тому +3

      @@LaRraa_ 😊

    • @alexiswalker2711
      @alexiswalker2711 3 роки тому +5

      I'm 13 and thankfully I don't have to deal with that, I'm praying for you

  • @sophiablob_head
    @sophiablob_head Рік тому +217

    I love how the boys protected their mother

  • @sinatalaahping6522
    @sinatalaahping6522 8 місяців тому

    A father is a role model and sacrifices for his family all fathers protect his family even though if he has to risk his life

  • @user-pk8tf4zh2m
    @user-pk8tf4zh2m 5 місяців тому

    I left him ages ago best thing I did for myself and kids great message ❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @shivkaransingh2976
    @shivkaransingh2976 3 роки тому +107

    Father: Imma hit this women
    Boys: PROTECTION MODE ACTIVATED

    • @scrumptiousu8832
      @scrumptiousu8832 3 роки тому +6

      Father: emotional breakdown

    • @rp8960
      @rp8960 3 роки тому +6

      Father : Imma hit this woman.
      Boys : Imma end this man's whole career

    • @Biurus
      @Biurus 3 роки тому +1

      Proceeds to become a megazord

    • @user-om2gq6xk9i
      @user-om2gq6xk9i 3 роки тому +1

      Boys: Simp mode activated

    • @user-om2gq6xk9i
      @user-om2gq6xk9i 3 роки тому

      @Marsdyn WATERHOUSE YEEEE

  • @Pumpkin_Ratatata
    @Pumpkin_Ratatata 3 роки тому +25

    It’s a blessing to have a good dad but a blessing not many get…

    • @samuelhenryguzman-santamar5258
      @samuelhenryguzman-santamar5258 3 роки тому +2

      You sure about that? I see many happy kids spending their time with their father

    • @bizzz5547
      @bizzz5547 2 роки тому

      @@samuelhenryguzman-santamar5258 not all father's r good.. They may act to be good in public but r abusers in private

  • @deepasasan3707
    @deepasasan3707 Місяць тому

    They teach us lessons better than what our school teaches. Amazing

  • @anniemccormick3339
    @anniemccormick3339 9 місяців тому

    my heart hurt when the boys protected the mom, it's so heart-meltinggg 😭

  • @astroboy974
    @astroboy974 3 роки тому +140

    It’s not okay to be abusive
    What an idea, why didn’t I think of that.

    • @tony_seroka
      @tony_seroka 3 роки тому +3

      Underrated

    • @unouloveme5495
      @unouloveme5495 3 роки тому +5

      I was thinking the same thing lol

    • @kdiallo00
      @kdiallo00 3 роки тому +1

      on the bright side in the end you get the attetion when you say somthing the power of snicthing

    • @nopeycraft74
      @nopeycraft74 3 роки тому

      Yes

    • @solidfarts8965
      @solidfarts8965 3 роки тому +1

      Its ok to be a little abusive. If a wife gets too high up on her horse, its fair game to knock her down a few pegs. Keeps the household even.

  • @lyonvastia9443
    @lyonvastia9443 3 роки тому +148

    As a child who grew up with an abusive father, I can confirm that any boy who grew up in such environment could turn up to be the same, like my grandfather (R.I.P Grandpa, despite what you did you were such a great man) who abused my late grandmother to the point that it had caused her to get really sick and unfortunately, die. And my grandmother told my mother that she'll just end up like her with an abusive husband and my mom didn't seem to get it until she ended up the same, yesterday my dad broke her arm and she we could only just listen to their loud 'discussion' with my sister crying beside me..
    "Violence is never the answer, until it's the only answer. Victory attained by violence is tantamount to a defeat, for it is momentary." - MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR.
    I don't encourage kids to stand up for their abused parent like I did with my mother because it always makes things worse and instead talk to their parents against it, it might be hard but it's not impossible.

    • @ghxsty2895
      @ghxsty2895 3 роки тому +5

      Yeah my dad verbally abuses my mom and he broke her foot to the point she needed surgery...

    • @kimichhakchhuak4677
      @kimichhakchhuak4677 3 роки тому +5

      But I think we should stand up for them 😶

    • @outlaw3950
      @outlaw3950 3 роки тому +2

      Ait i read halfway through i advise you see a witch doctor for your family has been cursed👌

    • @beautifulrose3038
      @beautifulrose3038 3 роки тому +1

      You must be CRAZY! IF YOU LOVE YOUR PARENTS YOU STICK UP FOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT!! I'm gonna go down fighting if a man EVER put his hands on my mom....EVER!!

    • @jpw1237
      @jpw1237 3 роки тому +1

      .

  • @tyseanjennings5742
    @tyseanjennings5742 Місяць тому +1

    The ending is so wholesome

  • @elysagoodson4274
    @elysagoodson4274 4 місяці тому

    Im going through this right now and don’t know how to get out of it. I’m abused mentally everyday. It’s his way or no one’s way and we have three kids. I fight with depression all the time.

  • @georgiaacothley724
    @georgiaacothley724 Рік тому +512

    This brings back memories 🥺😭 and we couldn’t do anything because we were still very young. 💔💔

    • @Taylorsversion13586
      @Taylorsversion13586 Рік тому +18

      Oh I’m sorry

    • @manishasonkusale6037
      @manishasonkusale6037 Рік тому +24

      Same happening with me 😢💔💔

    • @Opticalillusions870
      @Opticalillusions870 Рік тому +15

      I relate to you both of my parents are abusive first off my mom drinks a lot (good thing she doesn't drink anymore) whenever I would tell her to stop drinking she would slap my face and leaves the house every month she takes my baby brothers and ttakes them to the party (there are usually bad people there) so I get worried because I want to know if the babies are ok whenever she wants to come home my dad forces me to call her and he said he would slap me if I don't my dad gives me bruises and whenever my mom isn't drunk she is nice to me And my mom hits my baby brothers Edit: I told my dad to stop being rude and he said: stop being an idiot. Btw how do i make my parents stop

    • @anandkeshri4382
      @anandkeshri4382 Рік тому +9

      ​@@Opticalillusions870 Try your best and please focus on your goals. I know it must be very hard.. Extremely hard.. But you got it, you're an amazing person and when you're 18 move out with a goal you've to fulfill.. Maybe that way.. Btw what's your age..

    • @lex-is9ge
      @lex-is9ge Рік тому +4

      do what i did. put some heavy metal salt like PbOH2 in my dads food and he had abdominal pain for a month. my moms a chemist so we have chemicals in the house but u can get them in shops

  • @thandarzzz6487
    @thandarzzz6487 Рік тому +141

    Even tho this was staged
    It really shows how we feel when someone we know well, gets abused Infront of our eyes.
    It's really sad.

    • @mrmemphis2055
      @mrmemphis2055 Рік тому

      Obviously it’s staged what do you expect some guy to walk around recording abuse

    • @srs21111
      @srs21111 Рік тому

      What do you mean by “even though it is staged” like do you want it to be real
      Its just a skit

    • @thandarzzz6487
      @thandarzzz6487 Рік тому

      @@srs21111 THATS NOT WHAT I MEANT IDIOT
      What I meant was that this skit shows how abusing really is like
      I didn't mean that "oh I know this isn't real and all but abusing is bad"
      Use your brain.

  • @browneyestrini1
    @browneyestrini1 4 місяці тому

    Yes I like the message you are sending to the world. Men endure a lot but the wife is truly the backbone to the home. She takes on not just one roll but many. Don't break us down the entire home can fall apart.❤

  • @user-ow5pj7hr9b
    @user-ow5pj7hr9b 5 місяців тому

    I love this family the boys are protecting their mom

  • @TheRealZ9000
    @TheRealZ9000 3 роки тому +243

    And so you see, his wife now carries around an uno reverse card

  • @andreajones4909
    @andreajones4909 3 роки тому +535

    Can I just say that the part where all the bothers protected their mother was the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen about a family who cares for each other ✊🏾😭❤️

    • @tyrannyblackthorn5023
      @tyrannyblackthorn5023 3 роки тому +17

      I agree that was the most beautiful part, I got a little teary, 5 boys must have been a handful to raise. I feel sorry for anyone who would really try mom, I have a feeling those boys would be more then protective 🥰

    • @andreajones4909
      @andreajones4909 3 роки тому +3

      @@tyrannyblackthorn5023 agreed. Gurl I cried the whole video that’s so beautiful to see something like that

    • @tarekmohamed9190
      @tarekmohamed9190 3 роки тому

      ااثلصيغثغ

    • @tarekmohamed9190
      @tarekmohamed9190 3 роки тому +2

      غيغياي

    • @tarekmohamed9190
      @tarekmohamed9190 3 роки тому +3

      🌈🌈😚😚😚😚😚☁️☁️☁️☁️⛄️🥰🥰🥰🥰🦄🌞🌈⛄️☃️❄️🌨💨🌊☂️☔️🥝🍉🍓🍐🍏🍈🥦🥦🌽🌽🥔🥖🍗🧈🍉🍒🍠🍠🍐🍇🍑🥒🍅🍅🥝

  • @NessaW777
    @NessaW777 4 дні тому

    Kids watch their parents more then theu think especially with their behavior or words and then to what ive witness the child will start the same behavior. Its so important for parents to be examples and role models with their kids. It does have impact on their behavior and how they act.

  • @siddyhod1974
    @siddyhod1974 Місяць тому

    The end was cute they protected mum ❤

  • @jennig7543
    @jennig7543 Рік тому +345

    Love how the sons are very protective and loving to their mother!❤ Prince’s always protects their Queen.

  • @jessicareboucas7364
    @jessicareboucas7364 3 роки тому +356

    Moral of the story: if you are ungrateful you end up being alone

    • @anjumraja3812
      @anjumraja3812 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly, but i am confused 😕 everything i feel is important to me dissappear

    • @user-vq3wm2ue2j
      @user-vq3wm2ue2j 3 роки тому +4

      Holy fuck that's so true

    • @qk_234
      @qk_234 3 роки тому +2

      Very TRUE

    • @XtinaRageMachine
      @XtinaRageMachine 3 роки тому +2

      My papa is insane when we went to the beach on the back he got mad and jumped. Out of the car on the high way and died

    • @JustBecky188
      @JustBecky188 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah True

  • @docdugo1409
    @docdugo1409 7 місяців тому +1

    My brothers protected my mom. But no one protected me. It made me strong … but sad sometimes

  • @Queen_Valeria.
    @Queen_Valeria. Місяць тому

    The last one made me cry 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @edithheckman999
    @edithheckman999 3 роки тому +66

    My 14 years old save my life.... his father hit me so bed left me unconscious in the floor, my son pull me out the house and ask for help, while his father was looking for his gun, my poor son , I feel so guilty , that he has to go through that trauma, thank God we are now free and save.... .....
    abuse will take you at the end with permanent injuries physically and psychological or dead.....

    • @leesharkie58
      @leesharkie58 3 роки тому +6

      I understand your story my father made me an alcoholic in a drug user and then he came crying back to me asking me for forgiveness but I didn't give him the satisfaction of hurting me again

    • @phloats.
      @phloats. 3 роки тому

      You can tell this is not fake because some of the words are wrong. [Edit] I feel so bad for you, hope your safe now.

    • @sadcardboard7067
      @sadcardboard7067 3 роки тому +1

      @John Jones It was the son's choice wasn't it? Risking your life for another's I dare say not many people would do that.
      I'm sorry if you can't understand that the son did a wonderful thing.

    • @justjake9047
      @justjake9047 3 роки тому +1

      Hello, I'm also 14. I hope you and your son are okay. Best of luck.

    • @barbarajones172
      @barbarajones172 3 роки тому +1

      @John Jones what 😳 a terrible thing to say. You blame the mother who is being abused instead of the bastard dad that was doing the abusing. It's obvious that you have never been in this hell of a relationship. To say the mother almost got the son killed is very warped thinking. Shame on you!!!!

  • @lisaandhertwolittles515
    @lisaandhertwolittles515 3 роки тому +10

    It's a struggle to come back up after being with an abusive man. Nine years I never thought he would be the way he was. I get scared to be in a new relationship. Scared it may happen again. My kids don't need that in their life.

    • @Freespiritedqueen
      @Freespiritedqueen 3 роки тому +2

      Been going through it for 22 years..can testify. Product of it of both parents. Don't fool with them. When you get free of them, lock your access from them. You deserve the BEST!

    • @KingsCrossVIP
      @KingsCrossVIP 3 роки тому +2

      Keep your kids safe from potentially harmful stepdads...just focus on kids they will love you for it.❤️

    • @Freespiritedqueen
      @Freespiritedqueen 3 роки тому

      @@KingsCrossVIP and abusive stepmoms too! Agreed.

    • @lisaandhertwolittles515
      @lisaandhertwolittles515 9 місяців тому

      ​@@FreespiritedqueenI've been happily single for three years both myself and my kids are doing great without the ex. I've met a wonderful friend who loves my kids and me and enjoys everything we do together as friends.

  • @cbanana882
    @cbanana882 Місяць тому

    I love the ending of how they all protect her

  • @jennthearies5743
    @jennthearies5743 4 місяці тому

    These videos break me, I lived that way for 8 years, , finally found a way out for me and my 4 children......life is good now, but no this should not happen to a man or woman or child or animals....abuse lasts forever, even when you get out it follows you and you fear so much for so long...plz if you need help there is always a way..stay strong ❤❤

  • @shahriarshourob442
    @shahriarshourob442 3 роки тому +21

    The holy prophet Muhammad
    Peace be upon him said
    "Never abuse ur wife mentally or physically "
    He said "if u have a daughter and son and if u treat them equal
    U will go to jannah "
    He in his deadbed
    Requested his followers for 2 things
    1.perform 5 daily prayers
    2.always respect women
    He said "fear God in regards to deal with women "
    And still he is called a women abuser
    Bruh
    Proud to be a muslim
    Proud to be a follower of him

    • @natevic1867
      @natevic1867 3 роки тому +2

      The idiots who don’t understand Islam or are easily intimidated by it are the ones who are quick to insult it. Only the educated ones know that our beloved Prophet was the image of strength, nobility and a real man ❤️

    • @bspitler0
      @bspitler0 3 роки тому

      Thats because he married and slept with a 9 year old, struck his wife at least once, and wrote the book that allows terrorists, bigots, and sexists to be...well...terrorists, bigots, and sexists. Yeah, Islam is great if you're a guy. I'm sure its easy for you to praise Allah, after all, you don't have to wonder if you're allowed can drive a car in any Islamic country. You don't have to cover your hair for your entire life. You don't have to cover every inch of your skin. You don't need a male escourt to go out in public. And if you go out in public alone and get raped, it isn't your fault. Tell me, how does Islam deal with a gay man? How about a woman who doesn't want to marry the man her dad picked? How about a woman who admits she's not a virgin before the wedding?
      Islam is the sexist, abusive father of religions.

    • @bspitler0
      @bspitler0 3 роки тому

      @@natevic1867 So either people agree with you or they're uneducated? Lol great logic 🤣

    • @natevic1867
      @natevic1867 3 роки тому

      @@bspitler0 people who don’t understand the true beauty and essence of Islam are uneducated

  • @-Delos-
    @-Delos- 3 роки тому +547

    Of course, if my mom is about to be hit my dad a bunch of random men's in black shirts will pop out of existence and make a human barrier for my mom and then my dad will regret all the bad actions that he has made through his entire life
    Edit: Yes I know now that they are their kids you don't have to repeat it to me 5 times

    • @pahrum
      @pahrum 3 роки тому +4

      @Gabriela yes, they will.

    • @yordanissuarez6532
      @yordanissuarez6532 3 роки тому +17

      Those aren't random men, they are their kids. Everything else you wrote holds up to a degree.

    • @pahrum
      @pahrum 3 роки тому +6

      @@yordanissuarez6532 or coffin dance men
      hehe
      coffin dance bouta take her away

    • @shylakaai-montgomery1925
      @shylakaai-montgomery1925 3 роки тому +1

      stupid

    • @Nikon_GoPro.
      @Nikon_GoPro. 3 роки тому

      Beep bop bop

  • @Aidanagarcia9806
    @Aidanagarcia9806 9 місяців тому

    This behavior is the worst that we children suffer daily, unfortunately my father is like that and that is why I am very afraid of getting married, to me they can all seem like little angels, but after a while. They become tyrants, my greatest wish is that my father changes and I stop being cruel to my mother, I don't know how she can bear so much.😔

  • @Sona_playzz
    @Sona_playzz 23 дні тому +1

    Who else cried👇

  • @timeforkpop_yt
    @timeforkpop_yt 3 роки тому +380

    Why did I read this as "it's okay to be abusive" and I was like: 👁👄👁⁉️

  • @mimica1314
    @mimica1314 3 роки тому +41

    I wish I had someone to protect me when I was little from a father like that..

    • @Fluttershy_is.c00l
      @Fluttershy_is.c00l 3 роки тому +8

      Hey its ok i'll protect you😯😯😟😟☹☹😌😌🤕🤕

    • @13foxwife1
      @13foxwife1 3 роки тому +3

      Same here sister my dad has anger isusse's.

    • @mimica1314
      @mimica1314 3 роки тому +5

      @@13foxwife1 yeah my dad was anger, alcohol and narcissistic issues not a great mix. I ran away when I was 12 years old never looked back

    • @mimica1314
      @mimica1314 3 роки тому +2

      @@Fluttershy_is.c00l haha thx that is sweet of you

    • @13foxwife1
      @13foxwife1 3 роки тому +4

      I would do the same thing my mom aways told me when your dad is being mean do not listen to it they are just saying it because they are mad.

  • @MarciYassi
    @MarciYassi 4 місяці тому

    I love these boys when they protect their mother ♥️

  • @vidyashautecuisine720
    @vidyashautecuisine720 6 місяців тому

    An abusive dad can ruin a beautiful family😢

  • @xRay_x320
    @xRay_x320 2 роки тому +282

    I love the end when the boys protect their mom🥰