This Manager Judges Her Asistant From Her Looks | Nijo Jonson | Motivational Video
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- Many times, people judge the person by observing their appearance, it often can be misleading. So try not to judge a person by their appearances.
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Shalu
This happens only in short movies or videos like this, no karma comes to anyone, such people live comfortably without any regrets!!!
No, it does one day
They do suffer karma is real
It happens for sure.. it may take time, it may not, but it happens that's for sure
Very well said
Yes, it happens in movies only. Regularly am facing this issue with my manager.
It's sad but true, appearances matter in the workplace. People who look good and well dressed and classy get scolded less
Even if they are hollow and incompetent?
Pooja was modestly but well dressed for the boss who has the values of equality and work ethics not for her body's attractiveness.
@@abbasabdeali3239 most people have some level of competence at the workplace. But people who look fit, slim and attractive, and dress well are seen as more competent.
Sadly, Appearances matter even in social life not only in offices 😢
@@rajapola6099 right.. I have always experienced it.. People make selection while going anywhere.. Even many people finds me incompetent.. But when i tell them about my marks and achievements.. They don't believe.. One of my friends always used to get less marks than me but no one bothers.. But when i used to tell other about my marks.. They use to seee me with a different view.. Ask me how i get it.. Cheating.. This that.. And many more.. I have felt the discrimination many times..
As a teacher I try my best to choose the humble looking students for any activity first to boost their confidence coz I know their personality development is way more important than their looks.
We need more teachers like you✨👍
@@Natalia-cm8ez thank you!
Speaking as a victim of bullying in the workplace, I can categorically state that karma just doesn't come into it. The perpetrator who cost me my job, financial security and mental health, is still enjoying his life to the full. Those of us without the power and money are completely expendable. We mean nothing and are treated as such.
u r in hurry to see it but God is relaxed... each n every entity will face Karma as per devine timing. u just experience ur journey this life time and move on.
Very true.
This is so true in my country, but the is a part in the bible or parts there of . In the ten Commandments God say he will visit the 3rd and 4th generation, talk about generational curses. Also God says he punish us through our spirit. Imagine the agony, fear and anxieties these person ate going through because of their sins. I know it will take a long time to see the results of their evil but, they will pay. Remember prayer is what keeps us alive.
I don’t agree… karma always hits back!!!
Thank God...u made it real and practical.. not like in movies..where the person suddenly becomes great looking by getting a makeover to flaunt it for revenge
Right I was thinking halfway ‘please don’t give her a makeover. It will make the point opposite of what the video is trying to convey ‘
True
Dhar Mann was not harmed here
It all starts right from the school. Only good looking fair girls are selected for cultural programs . Only pretty faces are selected for lead roles in Dramas etc. If you are a dark skin girl its impossible to grab a chance of performing in school programs.. After school when you enter in college there also people will prefer good looking people for making friends. Looks definitely matters but only to a small extent. You are beyond your looks . Just judging someone only on the basis of their looks is really very sad !!
Looks are important and are a part of nature.
Just see whom you are attracted to.
Unwillingly your human nature will make you attract to hot girls if you are a male
yhi chlta h ajkl .. Dark skinned hona is like a sin .. 🙄
@@adityanayak872 I agree. The reason for this lies in the human ancestry. Light coloured, glowing skin was considered better resulting in better offsprings which made the mind adapt to the idea that fair skin = better.
But we no longer live in jungles now and are 1000x more knowledge than our ancestors so we should use brain and focus what someone is like from inside. 🙂
@@worldrecord7344 looks do not mean white skin.
It means
Toned body, pimple free face, proper body balance, biceps( just little), v shaped core(for male).
Or better waist hip ratio in female
It is applicable whether you are black or white.
And it is important even in modern civilization as it is nearly impossible to turn back the long evolution of humans attracted to stauch persons( majorly for mating in ancient times.)
Just take example of meat. Can you stop eating meat? No.. maybe never as some meat proteins are now essential for body.
Similarly your mind can never overlook a person with above characteristics
@@adityanayak872 affirmative.
Lesson- jinka dhyan apni looks pe hota hai, unka dhyaan kaam pe kamm hota hai.
its not the looks but the sincerity and skills that are shown in their work..
Disagree
This is a sad reality of the private sector in India. Emphasis on looks rather than talent and utter lack of job security. And such happy and positive endings are rare.
What a great Manager ,He realised his mistake , Companies needs such Managers ..
Yes, because they usually applaud themselves for being mean to get rid of someone with talent.
Looks dressing sense and a lot of smooth talk matters a lot in this society. No matter where you are. I was that girl a long time ago. Despite being good at my work with the right attitude I was called into the GM's cabin and lectured about how I dressed up and how bad I looked to people around me. My Boss gad to defend me every time and it wasn't the men but the women especially in the management who treated me badly. I was going through a bad marriage abuse at that time and that was another reason I had no time or energy to think about how I looked. This repeated in every company I went to. But I made sure my work spoke for me. It is true that looks plays an extremely important role in this world. Don't believe people who deny it. In one of the company I worked in the CEO asked for fair and slim good looking girls because that apparently motivated the guyz for coming to work. That's how this society is. It's not easy!
I have faced a similar situation. I say don't judge someone by their looks. Because there are those who have good talents but do not look good. Appearance is not important. We can look beautiful in our 20s and 30s. But if we think about a person in their 60s, they may not look good. Everything changes one day. We must be content with what we already have and what we already gained. This applies to our life journey. People need to remember that we are on a journey. It is called the journey of life. We can save more money and we can have more friends and we can have a husband or wife. But the main thing is that we can't take them away when we die. All we have is karma ... I want to say again, do not judge a book by its cover.
Hnng Di sahi kaha aapne 🙏🙏
@@bhanunikhil1510 Actually i cannot understand hindi. Can you say it in English please
@Thankful Calming Audio Thank you dear
Its also held with me .... It hurts a lot.... When anyone ditches you for your looks ... But I thank God He always protects me and care for me.... My parents, My God and my my family( husband and my kids. My friends ,) are my strengths... Thank you God for everything ,
Long years ago I saw a serial Jassi where I saw the psychological issues people go through bcas of the judgements made based on outerlook helped me work on myself.....I feel good to see the same again short & smart like this. You are doing great putting spotlight on the social issues which become normal where people silently accept everything....this initiative is too good and too helpful
@Nishika mne b dekha h wo serial
एक श्रेष्ठ व्यक्ति कथनी में कम, करनी में ज़्यादा सफल होता है ।"A great man is less successful in speaking, more successful in action."
Stop giving your gyans . Keep your gyans to yourself
Finally at the end looks doesn't matter.. But working ethics, knowledge, honestly, sincerity, management skill punctuality matters in office.. Always
M so glad that she didn't change her appearance.
Thank you for such a beautiful story.
Successful people are not different from others, but their thinking is different from others
Very true, people go by looks not by hardwork nowadays. Managers like only smart people who don’t work. But only these kind of people survive so well in the offices
Never judge anyone from their looks instead see their talent.
No matters whether it is good looking or a ugly. Every industry should understand the talents only.
It is very important to make small changes to achieve big success."
I disagree. They pay salary for the work done, not for looks
@@rubiyaparvin yes exactly.
Sister Farida remember our main success is to please Allah swt. Whatever changes we need to make to please Allah only...
I think 🤔"It is very unimportant to make big changes to achieve small success".. because big success never ties up with looks👀
Never judge a person how he or she looks by nature behave good to everyone.
Always judge people, koi tumhara saga nahi yaha.p
Judging others makes us blind, whereas love is illuminating. By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are.
Never judge someone by their looks
Since birth to whole life physically unattractive ppl faced criticism so they automatically become looser .... they accept it and compromise with that
Everyone does that.. you can't change it. It's human behaviour
Good to expose these types of work behaviors! Co. leaders should have open door policies to hear out from their employees! In this story he was violating all US HR codes!!!!!
Its not from America, where everything is fair and just..
The best thing about this story is that there was no unnecessary makeover and then revenge...etc. short and original .
This is so truee.... Why is work and appearance linked unnecessarily.. As an Introvert i have always been judged so hard by many people even before they see how i work
Yes, Tallent n sincerity can make a person most powerful👌👌👌
This is because of the way society brings up kids starting from parents, relatives and the friends. It's just not about looks, everything in a lady has to be in a certain way. Let's start looking at the capabilities and help our juniors succeed.
Just ignore them
So moral of the story for all never underestimate yourself be confident. ❤️
Thankful for this video.
This incident happened with me also where the boss judged by their looks. But in this world there are good people who believe on hard work.
One of the skills of a manager is to look for hidden talent in people & not focus on just virtual things
Very nice content & message. I really appreciate about how in this video, the girl did not try to change her looks of who she was, she after so much disrespect stood for herself & her self respect. Also at the same time she used her kindness which taught his boss a life learning lesson. Great content 👍👍
Hi Niko bro, I suggest you should do something on the situation of school teachers. Nowadays, Indian school teachers bear the brunt of parents criticism unnecessarily if their students grades fall, which is absurd. Also, teachers who do their duty sincerely, like punishing dishonest students who do not do fair play in exams are often bad mouthed by students as well as parents.
Sorry I meant Nijo bro
May karma punish such ignorant students and their even worse parents aameen summa aameen
true
My parents never do that. If I get bad marks or anything, they smack me not my teachers
👍🏼
Great message for society...💞💞👌👌
Looks are only temporary 😏 but
Talent and sincerity are for a life time 😇
This happens with me everytime not only in workplace , everywhere.
Very sad
Ignore those negative mindset people and move on. This world is for you
I can feel you. Literally everywhere
Wid looks comes ego which can destroy much
I was fortunate to have worked with good bosses in the corporate world inspite not having a sales and business development background.
India is the only country in the world where one is considered lesser human being if he eats Indian, speaks Indian and dress Indian. Subramaniam Swami said: if an Indian man wears a suit, he looks like a waiter in a restaurant. And he is right.
Ram Ram Sita Ram from Surinam
❤️❤️👏👏
Agree with the first half, disagree with the second. Indians or really anyone should wear whatever they want. Traditional dress if they like that and suits if they prefer that. Considering all suit wearing Indians as 'looking like waiters' is a bias in itself and honestly simply not true. We actually look amazing in suits too. Just look at Sundar Pichai, Indira Nooyi, Satya Nadela, & all suit wearing Indians rocking the world.
100% true 👍
Spot on 👍👍👍👍👍👍!
Still We are mentally slaves of Britishers!
😂😁😆
That's a good message in this video
Looks doesn't work,talent and hardwork will really earn our reputation in this world
There was time when intelligent efficient people were respected and people looked upon to them and wanted to be one among them….looks never mattered for work except in movies/ screen!!
Unfortunately this is the era of looks and only looks ….people with money , without money, people beautiful or ugly ….all are constantly trying to Imitate celebrities, film stars …….stars on social media….pure showoff …
For this generation people ……please note Just looks don’t work everywhere!!
Confidence in whatever you wear, how well you can carry yourself and confidence in how efficiently you can handle the work…. is the real YOU
True.
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.”गलतियाँ करते हुए बिताया गया जीवन न केवल अधिक सम्मानजनक है, बल्कि कुछ न करते हुए व्यतीत जीवन से अधिक उपयोगी है।"
most women tend to put on weight after marriage and having a child. but with age comes experience. body shaming of any kind is bad. they may be better experienced than their looks..
🚫 Bullying or shaming is wrong to the point that even *Pre-K or Kindergartners* should to know it lol!
Good message given
I loved this video it was such a video which teaches those people who judge us by our outfit or our outer world
Not our inner talent and inner world
Luck का तो पता नहीं लेकिन अवसर जरूर मिलती है मेहनत करने वालों को I"
Exactly...
One knows the value of the other person only in their absence...
So time n timing are very important for a better n successful business or life.. but not the other unnecessary things..
As Puja responded timely to their clients by quoting right quotation, her company saved their client number ..
So be empathetic n react accordingly n timely when someone needs u in their times of need.. either in company or in life .. It really saves that required situation..
Else, some situations or lives become upside down, even.. 😔😔😢😢😢😢
An employee who is showing interest in the work which has been assigned to her putting her heart / soul in the work is very important, above all should be polite having charming manners that's all that matters. Good looks/dress code should not been given importance at all.
Besides she should be punctual and regular in attending Office.
Make up is a choice..grooming urself n presenting urself wid confidence is much needed..confidence z d best accessory u cn wear..carry urself wid confidence good communication skills..
I faced this with a senior lady and not she is out I am happily here. Karma does hits hard. Always believe in God.
There is something called power dressing, every situation you are in one has to dress up accordingly. One cannot dress up shabbily and go for a wedding or full decked up for a funeral.
Then what's the problem dressing up and we'll groomed for work. One's attitude and personality shows in dressing up, the lousy way one dress up themselves they will behave the same. No marks or positive attitude towards life will help then.
What you said is true. But we cannot judge someone's calibre or work based on their looks. The beauty bias is so ingrained in our brains that we are not able to differentiate work and dressing. No matter how much we dress up, there are some days we cannot get ready as much we used to. That doesn't mean we'll work the lousy way those days.
Agree with you .
But there are certain people who are just not interested in dressing or looks.
I remember our head of department of physics in college.Everyone use to make fun of him but he was MS/MSC dual in nuclear physics from IIT .And he use to come to lectures in slippers .
@@sandeeptiwari7157 professors (esp male ones) are excused for being absent-minded and sloppy dressers if they teach well. Then their sloppy dressing becomes a cult thing. But this does not apply to other professions
I left one of my job just because my senior thought i am not enough good looking and my dressing sense is not good for the job. She told me on my face and insulted me infront of all my colleagues. That incident causes me great deal of trauma. I lost my confidence and didn't want to do any job after that
See in the class has good student and bad student also at the same time some times class has teacher also don't stop yourself who dis igniting you be more productive
Second love from Nepal 🇳🇵🇳🇵
Yes... It's true... When people reach to certain position... They feel powerful... N thought they have authority to humiliate people..... Disrespect, arrogancy, letting down their employees....but if you're treating others so... There is no use of highly education....u should always be humble n helping hand to others....bada woh hota hai... Jo dusaronko chota mehsus na karaye... It's today sad reality that people judge others by their physical appearance...they don't see the inner qualities....appreciate the girl in the video... That she refused to change her outer personality....hum jaiise comfortable lagata hai waiise hi rehna chahiye....one should never change their original personality...Haan bahari dikhavese kuch der attract kiya ja sakata hai... Per jyada der tak nahi... U good nature should be above everything....
Your content is always awesome 🤩
I have more than 2 decades of experience in hugely diversified sectors and plenty of cross functional know-how. I can say confidently that; looks have got nothing to do with getting the projects done efficiently and profitably executing projects..be it for men or women.
It may work in a couple of industries related to fashion, glamour ...etc; but even there too ; a certain level of industry specific knowledge and skills are expected..!
Thank u sir for making this type of motivational video. Again more thanks that it is free from any blind believe, castism, communalism and political inclination.
Greate thing. Carry on
sir, really u r doing a great job. your videos are very informative and clear msg to our community ......thanks for sharing ........
It is sad but we should look at the positive point also. If we are working somewhere we should have some dressing sense. I have experienced it. When I used to work my all the coleuges used to pay attention on their dressing sense. And I used to not. The result was I used to look really wierd among my staff member. I know people will take me wrong but it's true. I'm not saying that we should apply lots of makeup and wear expensive dresses but at least we can wear some good cloths if we are working somewhere. It will boost our confidence.☺️☺️
Please care to edit correct spellings.
You know how to motivate students and people. Thanks for your positive activities.
Loose the job× lose the job.✓
Did a mistake× made a mistake.✓
Dude you r so underrated.....love your content
He's not underrated. He's growing. People love him and his context. It's just a matter of time. He'll surely gain more subs and touch 1 million and plus.
I thunk u misspelled overrated
@@Shrine_of_Karma overrated??
@@shibani1111 yes
@@Shrine_of_Karma with he is not at all overrated how is he overrated ??
This teach us never judge a book by its cover
Thank you for not turning her into some kind of diva
Wonderful video. I went through the same thing in my career but not giving up and directing myself in the right direction excelled me. Never give up.
Looks are important I can understand those people suffer from this type of sistution they become depressed or many people become warrior more than Looks compatibility, personality,knowledge, wisdom is matter no one break this type of mindset only we can only do this intelligence always make person different from others this body is not ours everything is temporary in this world never influenced by anyone use your brain you all are beautiful soul God bless you all
The title of this great video - This manager judges 'his' assistant from her looks would have been more 'correct'!
काम प्यारा होता है तन नहीं 🙏
Karma affects only to good people....bad ones never gets punished for their deeds
Very nice story. There is a lot of truth in this skit. Well presented. 😉👍🏽
Also, you've got a new subscriber. I'll be binge watching a few of them soon.
This is true face of corporate world. Not only this, Group politics is the root cause. Sometimes biased based on culture, language and regional politics.
There is no respect for talented people.
U r treated badly even if u are good looking. If u have model like looks, style or dresses, they will definitely put u down if you don’t fit into their group.
Yes consulting with psychiatrist is essential but honestly, this will not help.
We need courts, laws , lawsuits where employment related issues, cheating in salary packages, cheating in promotions, most importantly, MANAGERS BEHAVIOR AND PERSONAL POLITICS. All these things should be reported and those managers needs to be taken strict action by the law.
Once u get caught in wrong side of your managers, his/her opinion is what HR will be considering. If u leave the company, then they mark ur profile and make sure u don’t get hired by other companies. They will make u report to people who are less qualified/experienced and give u low level job. If questioned, they threaten n say, u r getting salary do u want to be jobless forever??? They will cancel onsite job offers and play with us badly.
For these kinds of people, we need strict rules and regulations and laws so that we can take them to court.
Our society needs employment court like the way they have family court, civil court etc…
Your content are ohsum really it's teach us lesson 🤗
Even I hv FC many things when I was in Abpbank, Allah Hafiz
Don't change yourself for anyone......just ignore it😏😒
I know few girls who have benifitted and taken good salary on others effort. This is common here. Because system is like that.
Good video
So girls it's ok to hurt ...
It's ok to cry ...
But then get up, dress up,
Better yourself, be confident
And move on life goes on
Look forward and grab new opportunities 💖💖
Be the best version one can ever imagine
Its not all about looks ... no matter how you look but it matters how you cary yourself....
It's really a heart touching scenario happening in the corporate world. They don't worry about the employee who work with dedication. But, one day that organisation will loose everything and come to the starting point.
Organization must have the positive approach towards their employees and talks must be in positive way though the situation is difficult.
Attitude determines culture of a person or people, not looks or customs!!!!!! People who have attitude problem need crash course on attitude management
Yes , I m believe same I doing from last 8 years with honesty & dedication my job & duties but my new principal said I'm not fluent in English & pressured me to leave the job even I support my school in pandemic time as my Moral duty. But today I m searching a new better opportunity.
🙏🙏🙏🙏
GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER. THANK YOU.
This is also true in case of women in hijab.
People are used to see pretty faces and not talent which ultimately results in loss to organization.
As a european woman who is not wearing a hijab I must say there are very beautiful hijabs existing which you can wear in the office. Must not be the last towel in the flat.
Really an heart touching videos love from Russia
Good evening nijo bhayya. This video is so good. I wish you success throughout your life with your career and also family. 💝
I'm so happy that Dropaudi murmu is president. She proved that talent finally wins not looks. In my opinion she is very beautiful but many people may not think so💕🙏
Happy to see nijo u come up with unique ideas to create awareness..
Bt why every time dusky and dark skin is shown in bad light?
that's because that's how the society perceives them. He also used her to convey that skin color has nothing to do with talent and intelligence.
Yes, even if a fair girl is shown with messy hair/ specs/ scars/ dark circles etc Then people will say atleast she's fair so she can look good if she maintains her looks. Only dark girls are considered unattractive to many of us in our indian society. This need to change.
ये एकदम सही है मैंने अभी गवर्मनेट कॉलेज में एक PA की पोस्ट पर ज्वॉइन किया है और मुझे भी मेरे सीनियर से कुछ ऐसा ही सुनने को मिला है।
Very nice and Impressive.
This is not in jobs , personal life is also suffer due to beauty
Amazing as always! Sir what should be our attitude towards hijab?
I heard a lady saying that turban is the part of Sikhism so we can allow that but hijab is a part of culture but sir actually its not.
It is the part of our religion as already mentioned in our holy book.
It's true . People actually understand when they loose that person without understanding their skill . After loosing they realise what they lost . It also takes place with me my supervisor was too rude wid me.
Very good corporate story. Do not judge the book by its cover
Any judgement of any person by Nama (name), Roopa (looks), Rasa (the expressions), Sparsha (sense of touch), Gandha (smell), will mask the recognition and identification of true potential of the person and is sinful.
I don't believe we should judge others by the way they dress as long as it's appropriate for the work place it's what on the inside of the person that really matters .
This is your first video I have watched and I must say that you have done a tremendous work.
Great.... And very much practical.. Incidents and experiences.... 👍
Mujh bht sunna pdta h always looks ki wjh s family 😔 s bi society s bi I knw wqt k sath bdlna jruri h bt meri bi kch choice h 🙄 zindagi sirf ek bar hi milti h hr ek k apna treka hota h zindagi jinne k 😔
Simple looking people has to work extra hard to prove themselves
The video is good.but there is nothing wrong in grooming ourselves. No matter how fat or thin we are,but we can at least mend ourselves better. It increases our self confidence.Also,it is not necessary that the employees wearing jeans are always bad at work.
So true, nowadays too much discrimination based on language, caste, last name, looks, etc.... Prejudice.... Why not simply be supportive and get the job done? I don't know why it's soooo difficult for seniors or top level employees to be kind to their peers or juniors?
Not just now a days history has evidences that this is a forever thing lasted in every part of the world in every century
I liked this story which is really hurt anybody, who do work with honestly and on time. Everybody hv respect in his own way. Never misunderstanding to others, whose staff are working with u sincerely with five years. No staff head can tell this thing. One month notice shd be given by manager or one month salary with others benefits like gratituty, PF, and others facilities and if staff wants to leave if he gets new job, then staff shd be given advance one month notice or one month salary to be paid his earlier office manager. Our manger always told that " Office is our first home, wherein we live, talk, work in one office in 8 to 10 hrs. Therefore, office atmosphere shd be like our family members.
Beautiful people r lucky they get everything in this world
Pooja is looking so different here. I have seen her in many videos and her acting is amazing!!