Breakdown Of The Family | Erin Pizzey
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When I was 17 I told my feminist mother that all I wanted was to be a wife and mother. She literally spun to me and screamed in my face that I was a traitor to all she had done and that being a mother was the most degrading thing I could choose to be. My mother told me she hated being my mother. That was my red pill moment.
Wow!
That's so sad.
Wow that is so sad!! See just knowing you went through that really angers me!!😡😡
Omg I'm so sorry...
I'm so sorry! Mothers needed to raise children until school age as their jobs back then, but these days moms need to raise kids until they're grown and keep them out of public school. The things taught now are unacceptable to raising children properly. Poisonous to their psyches. The Gov't will not be supportive of it, ever, I'm afraid
I love this women. She's like a wise grandmother trying to protect her sons and grandsons.
She is a feminist in a red pill suit you dumbass.... wake up! MenGTOW; what part don't you understand?
That lovely old grandmother puts you right back into the matrix...
I'm a woman and I feel protected by her too.
@@PanzerChicken69 she got bomb threats for her opinions, I understand your paranoia, but she is owed the respect.
@Marten Dekker ...and where did I call her sub human exactly? Or wrote her off because of her sex? See, the trouble with virtue signalling (like you seem to do) is, it is based on feelings and asumptions instead of facts and knowledge.. Read a book or at least read the replies you're refering to before you call people idiots. Now you're just making ass out of yourself. Nice try though.
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Oh My God! From 11 minutes to the end explains EXACTLY WHY MEN DON'T WANT TO GET MARRIED! Mic drop moment!
Where is the future in that indeed
GWW take is best, divorce courts will own you.
Im terrified
Sounds like a horror movie, doesn't it? Well it's no movie, especially in Canazuela. Just ask Dave Foley ( ua-cam.com/video/SaC-2lj6HNg/v-deo.html ) Now you understand MGTOW
Any Man would be a fool to get married today. The Family Court is a Kangaroo Court bent on destroying Men.
The way the feminist movement has treated Ms. Pizzey can only be described as a testament to just how deplorable the feminist movement has become. A pioneer who battled domestic violence with such dedication should be lauded as a hero. When an idea is reduced to dogma and one is no longer allowed to examine that dogma without rancour or vilification, that dogma must become suspect. The feminists that have threatened and slandered this woman should hang their heads in shame. I admire her strength in her refusal to not be intimidated by such despicable tactics.
You're absolutely right and it just shows the hold that the feminist movement has on the UK establishment, that she hasn't been honoured with so much as an OBE, when these are dished out like candy to no-mark soap stars.
Paul Jackson
Feminists were saying 50 years ago that a woman could be just as strong mentally as a man. Then they circled the wagons, locked arms and started to cry as one voice and rejected any woman who dared to show the strength of the individual...the very strength they used to claim women have. It doesn't take a lot of strength to go along with the crowd. Ms. Prizzey showed us true strength. She's what feminism should have become.
It's not "what they've become", it's what it was all about from day 1. Remember, Pizzey was around during the early days of the feminist movement. She went to one or two of the marxist/communist "Consciousness-raising" meetings that the early feminists were doing. She knows what she's talking about.
There has never been a time when the feminist movement has been any less reprehensible than it's been now. It's just that people are quick to ignore and forget what's been done.
Feminism 50 years ago was understood by most people to be about securing rights for women in the work place that wasn't specified yet. Women's roles were changing with smaller families, longer and healthier lives, birth control and new opportunities professionally. That's what the ordinary person understood it to be. They knew about Andrea Dworkin, Catherine MacKinnon and Betty Friedan, but they were considered outliers, the crazies of feminism and not taken that seriously by most men or women. When I spoke of feminism of that time, I was talking about the perception the average person had of feminism.
Unfortunately, these women spread their ideas around until it became the mainstream thought of feminism. This is now the ordinary perception and it wasn't that way back then.
To add, this doesn't have anything to do with the way Ms. Pizzey has been treated for speaking out about the facts. That's the meat of my statement.
Become suspect? It is suspect and far more than that.
I don't get the whole "men don't understand laundry" thing. Toss the clothes in the washer and put a tide pod on top. Turn on the machine. Done
Women have to hang on to something. The irony is pretty grand though. "Men don't get laundry" says the average lady while putting her clothing into a washing machine invented, designed, built, and improved decade after decade, by men.
My husband is the one who does the laundry for us. He uses chemicals I've never heard of to make the cleanest damn laundry I've ever feckin' seen. He uses the switches and toggles and knobs on the washer and dryer that I thought were just there for decoration. He folds clothes and towels so meticulously you'd think he was doing renaissance art...he's a master launderer.
He watched me do laundry once and has since been nearly possessive over the chore. I'm happy to let him, since I prefer cleaning the bathrooms and really don't want to hear about how you're supposed to fold towels a certain way.
You forgot "wait for pat on the back"
Ironcally, most of the past women who washed the clothes in rivers were more responsible and less egoistic. But this was before feminist brainwashing. Feminism is nothing more than collective narcissism. And narcissists never see the others suffering. They feel entitled to all.
My mom gifted us a bunch of baby clothes, she spent over 500$. They were a bit big and the kids would have grown into them, except they were 100% cotton and my husband washed them in hot water, and shrunk all of them. They didn't even fit the children anymore. Then a week later he did the same thing with their sheets.
In his defense his closes aren't delicate, so it makes sense. All the same he's banned from doing laundry. I think we are lucky because we can afford it these little mishaps, but it still makes me sick to this day thinking about how much money went down the drain because of a laundry accident.
My ex told me she would accuse me of sexual assault if I didn’t do what she wanted. We have a child together. She does not like that the court gave me legal rights to our son even though she was given physical custody. She laughed as I walked out the door advising me to go the easy route and just realize that’s she’s calling the shots. I’ve never been so thankful for cell phones and laptops. Record everything and trust no one is what I’ve learned needs to be done during today’s feminazi regime!
Nice one. Well played.
Koodoo's mates; ax dat fem'inazi'bitch
As what shes done to you and seeing that dosnt sound right. Family recording each other is something very untrustworthy. It's like scoring point or what Johnny Depp wife did recording his behaviour. A woman and man is very untrustworthy it's very sad. Deep down you want to communicate and say how you feel but it's the strain of knowing the other is not backing down becouse they see it as a contest and in turn which you hurt inside dose the contest to counter the argument.
For those who don' t know who Erin Pizzey is, this is a summary of the intro to her wikipedia page.
Erin Patria Margaret Pizzey (born 19 February 1939) is an English family care activist and a novelist. She is known for having started the first domestic violence shelter in the modern world, Chiswick Women's Aid, in 1971, the organization known today as Refuge. Erin Pizzey focused on removing victims of domestic abuse from their abusers, in an attempt to break the cycle.
Pizzey has been the subject of death threats and boycotts because of her research into the claim that most domestic violence is reciprocal, and that women are equally capable of violence as men. Pizzey has said that the threats were from militant feminists. She has also said that she is banned from the refuge she started.
Here’s the issue with men doing domestic chores...
I was forced to give up my work for a couple of years not too long ago. My wife upped her hours to full time (funnily enough she earned more than I had been) and I stayed home with the kids and housework. Honestly, it was great. I had time to play with the kids, time to teach them, take them to school and nursery, do activities with them, meet friends, sit down with a coffee and a cake, go to the gym (it had free childcare) do all the housework inc cooking, cleaning and laundry. My wife came home exhausted and I expected nothing from her except to give the kids cuddles and kisses and join us for dinner, then help with putting them to bed, which she wanted to do anyway.
It was a doddle. Simple. Easy. Chilled. Relaxed. Fun. I couldn’t have done it forever but for those couple of years, it was total blissful perfection.
So the issue is with men helping with housework... why? They leave at maybe 7.30, get back at maybe 6.30 having been working hard physically or mentally all day. Why should they? Staying at home is fun and easy. Yes, ok, it’s hard and sometimes stressful when the kids tantrum or whatever but on the whole it’s easier than being at work.
Maybe this should be done, its perfect
Totally! Modern housework is trivial: Automatic washing machines, tumble dryers, dishwashers, vacuum cleaners, toasters, timed cook-pots, ovens and rice cookers, hot and cold water at the flick of a tap. The idea that housework requires anything other than a few minutes here and there throughout the day is complete and utter nonsense.
Ill play devils advocate: Woman tend to be more stressed working. And many women want men who earn more than them, which would mean them ineveitably working more and not having as much time with the kid, which is why one parent stays home (typically the mother) And if the woman makes more the marriage is more likely to fail. If you can make the marriage work go for it, but factually it doesnt work for the majority.
bruh, looking after the kids at home is the easiest fucking thing in the world. I find it offensive these clown women try to compare buckets of fun with kids to an actual job.
@@RED6UA women are stressed and worried doing anything. It doesn't matter what the job is. She could be doing math, 1+1 over and over again, but she will still claim it's back breaking labour and she's doing more work than Jeff Bezo's did to get Amazon up and running
That "work around the house" mentality that is so tediously and constantly wheeled out, is actually more revealing than women realise. It points clear as day to the fact that women struggle to see the world beyond their noses or what they touch. Every de-facto relationship I was in, I did all the tool wielding house repairs, all the mowing, gutter cleaning, heavy lifting, vehicle repairs etc etc and on top of that, I was a better cook than all but one of my ex's (She was Italian, I didn't stand a chance) so I did more of the cooking as well. This is after anywhere from 50 to 84 hours a week swinging spanners on site as well. All but two of those ex's (The Italian and a Maori) moaned about the unfair effort they imagined they were putting in, because of this almost universal inability of women to open their fucking eyes and drink the broad view of the world in.
Good on ya Elvick. Civilisation is a team sport after all and there are all sorts of specialist positions on the roster, all of which get to taste the spoils of victory together.
I read an article a while back, one of those ones complaining that men do X fewer minutes of housework than women in all these different categories. When a person took the time to drill down to their actual data, the person saw that some of the things they considered "housework" was crap put in to intentionally skew the numbers. For example, in the 'Home Maintenance' category, it included, 'interior decorating' and in the 'Lawn & Yard Work' category it included 'Houseplants." Because a half hour lying under a sink to clean out a clogged P trap is exactly the same as a half hour spent sitting on the couch wondering what size of vase you should set on that empty space on the shelf. Or 5 minutes walking around pouring water on a bunch of pointless potted plants is the same as going out and pruning tree branches, or spreading crabgrass preventer all over the lawn.
Funny data feminists don't mention is that most of domestic accidents happen to men.
"Who made this rule up?" - Cassie Jaye
I know you've come a long way since making that statement, and i applaud your courage and integrity for publishing these videos.
But I would like to answer this question.
Feminists invented the rule, but men implement it. Men support it, because we have an innate need to give women what they want. Even if that leads to our own suicides, we'll try with all of our might to please women.
It's our instinct and it takes a force of will to deny it. It's ever so easy to just go along and with, and obey a woman's whims.
So us men have to give up on pleasing women, when we do what is beyond reasonable they detest us for being so weak they can manipulate us. Yet tell us if we behave they way they want all will be great. They are equally deluded as to what they need, rather than what they think they want. We need to redefine 'man up'. And get our act together, ie grow the heck up, and take care of ourselves too.
That's Gynocentrism for you
I disagree absolutely with this assessment.
Jack Dingler Mr. Dingler, I could not say it better. Well said/put.
35 years of happy marriage where my wife is told no with frequency. I'm the leader of my home, and she knew exactly what she was getting when she married me. I will please her in any reasonable request and she always gets more and better than I. But when she is wrong and/or irrational she gets told so firmly. No hitting, no screaming, just an immovable fact that the final decision is mine. My wife stayed home for 25 years with our 4 kids. Even now she gets goosebumps when I hug her tight and I get rrspect.
The decay of the natural family is the root cause for a lot more social pathologies than just domestic violence.
Good video, Cassie.
How has Erin Pizzey not been awarded ... a Nobel prize? I don't know ... some kind of recognition-garnering award, anyway.
The effect of giving Erin a Nobel Prize is like disproving the narrative of those gynocentrics and feminists.
It is like carving the history of mankind that feminism and gynocentrism is wrong hence shouldn't be embraced.
It shows how corrupt the establisment and mainstream media are. We like to think that it is only in a communist hellhole like North Korea that you are lied to constantly. However,it is apparent that truth is in very short supply here in the UK,and across the West.
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"I don't like honors. I'm appreciated for the work that I've done.
I don't need anything else - I don't think there's any sense to anything else.
I don't see that it makes any point that someone in an academy decides
that this work is noble enough to receive a prize.
I've already got the prize - the pleasure of finding the thing out;
the observation of it - people use it. Those are the real things."
Because wahmen!
I once had an argument, a loud one, with my ex-girlfriend and she started yelling like crazy, pushing me against the wall and basically slapping. I for one was smiling because, well it did not hurt a bit, she was small so yeah, but when she started yelling at me, I told her to stop yelling that loud since someone might call the cops and she simply yelled louder and said that she did not care at all.
I was so happy when I broke up and got rid of that crazy relationship. It was pure fucking hell. She got to hit me, yell at me and I could basically just stand there and take it, since there was no other option. XD
@natbrownize3815 I feel your pain, bro. My ex has assaulted me, in front of my granddaughter. After all, I was driven to the hospital, for MRI and wounds care, then sent to County Jail, for 65 days. She didn’t have a single cut, or bruise on her body. I did have multiple and then, ( after my release) comes a bill, from the hospital, in amount,of $10.000, then another one for $2.500. Wtf? Btw: my 9 y.o. granddaughter, was a witness, saying, that I was an aggressor.
My divorce was horrendous - I lost everything-. It took another 20 years to rebuild my life. I would rather be shot in the head than ever marry again.
You don't need whores any more. The divorces and radical feminists (naturally not in a relationship) are there so much that you just have to be available.
I look forward to these every monday. Thank you, THANK YOU for all you do. The rhetoric against men seems to only be getting worse. We need you.
Very well said.
Lark Macallan It only looks worse because we don't know how long or hard feminists have striven to cover up domestic violence, divorce or child rearing statistics. I'm not claiming a tin foil conspiracy, but feminism taps into people's natural gynocentrism so effectively we haven't even scratched the surface of things they omit.
That's right. Cassie does humanity an important service by sharing this information and conveying it in a format which is easy to find and view.
Single mother homes are the biggest issue facing America today. It frustrates me to no end that the left does not have much interest in discussing the subject.
Because single mother homes are ideal for the left. They are dependent on government.
The core of feminism is replacing fathers with tyrants.
Every single mother can raise a soy boy or a proper feminist. Coming from a single parent home also makes them more likely to fail educationally making them even more likely to hate the "oppressive patriarchy"
My mom was truly abused by my alcoholic and drug addicted father. We fled Mexico because of him. She always demanded that I respect him and always told us that he loved us in his own way but that he had his demons. She also made sure that we always had positive male role models to look up to. She taught me to be a good man and expected that I should right the wrongs of my father’s past.
This video is heartbreaking. I know I am the exception to the rule. The feminization of our society will bring the culture to its knees if we don’t do something about it
Regarding house work...there is often an accounting gap when the amount of work is tallied by women. So when they talk about men not "helping out around the home" they are only counting tasks women value and not ALL tasks (including work outside the home) in the amount of work men do.
I've had the experience of arriving home from 10hrs of work, 6am to 4pm, and being harangued by a women STILL in her pajamas with complaints about how overwhelmed she was with the kids and all the work she had to do.
This is a difficult thing to navigate as a man you need to appreciate that young kids are a pain, but you do NOT buy into the idea that your work count for nothing and only the woman's work is accounted...you insist the spouse respect and agree that at work, by 6am for 10hrs IS IN FACT WORK! What I told her that day was why didn't she work with the other moms that stayed home to trade off kids. But you must know that women OFTEN have choices and have control of a situation but they choose to abdicate responsibility for their situation and simply blame men.
25 years ago my brother was being abused by his partner. I went to the police. Suddenly both my brother and I were under investigation..... I got him to leave Dodge city with no forwarding address. 10 years later my best friend was being abused by his wife. I told him to on no account go to the police, if he wanted to stay near his children.
Getting to know Erin Pizzey was the best part of my time at A Voice for Men. She's not a perfect person, no one is, but her firm commitment to telling the truth and not allowing abused men to be ignored, and not letting women's violence be ignored--for this alone she was destroyed repeatedly. She's still an inspiration to me, and I miss doing our regular shows.
One of the main whinges you hear about women wanting to get out of the "oppressive family unit" and into the workforce has to do with those self-same chores they discussed.
Feminists complained about all that "unpaid work" (aka chores, housework) women had to do around the home while the husband got to go out and earn money, as if he was living the high life. And when I hear "unpaid work", all I can think is; Unpaid? Excuse me?
Who pays for...
The roof over their heads?
The medical aid?
The food?
The electricity bill?
The water bill?
The car's payments?
The car's insurance?
The life insurance?
The home insurance?
Her pocket money?
Nice things for her?
The holiday?
The kids' clothes?
The kids' tuition?
Etc etc etc?
But do you think, even then, that they'd take out the garbage if they were actually being paid an hourly wage to be a housewife/stay-at-home mom? Not likely.
I could listen to Erin Pizzey talk for hours. She is a first-rate human being, and what a story she has to tell! She has been there from the beginning and has that indispensable insiders view that is necessary for real understanding. I would love for Cassie to eventually put the whole interview with Pizzey up as one piece.
The outrage of Cassie Jaye was perfect. "Who made these rules up?!" Cassie, you're truly a Member of my Generation questioning this foolishness and not simply accepting the status quo. I Love it! :D
UnexpectedWonder same here man
"Who made these rules up?!...you're truly a Member of my Generation questioning this foolishness and not simply accepting the status quo".
-- said every gen-Xer in 1992...every punk in 1977...every hippie in 1968...every beatnik in 1957...every Rosie the Riveter in 1943...every flapper in 1925...every progressive in 1912...etc, etc, etc.
In your actual life actions are you actively contradicting the feminist "rules" that she was talking about?
Adding your ignorance of the recent past with arrogance about Your Generation's unique Rejection of the Status Quo (and then doing exactly what the brainwashers tell you to do) is a loooong American tradition.
I disagree about her evaluation of men doing house work ive yet to see a woman who was any better than me maybe at cooking and im definitelY NOT GAY
Agree Cletus. I've been doing my own shit for decades. I mean, how hard is it to put clothes in a washing machine and turn it on? Pluezzzze the poor suffering oppressed wammens. A bunch of hooey
there are definitely outliers to trends. And i would add the fact that, as she said in the video; a lot of women get angry at men when they do housework because ‘’they are doing it wrong’’. It’s how you stop a person from helping; by punishing him for trying.
Elvick exactly
IDK. The part about women seeing things men don't see is true in my experience. I can sweep the kitchen and clean the counters off. But it isn't acceptable to her standards, so she does it... Even though it looks just as clean when she gets done. I chalk it up to her seeing stuff I can not, and move on.
@ Elvick - Spot on.
Personally I work a 100hrs a week my ex works 35hrs, my favourite quote from my ex as I walked through the door at 23.00hrs was your dinners in the fridge. I was a little surprised because she never cooked, what she meant was the ingredients were in the fridge it was the following comment that boiled my blood. If your cooking can you knock me something up aswell..... Needless to say I cooked my own dinner, she was incredulous that I didn't make her anything. So I'm not likely to agree with coming home and doing more laundry and housework I also paid 75% of all bills. I'm much happier living alone.
Save money and save yourself from this lazy ass evil.
I used to work 70-80 hours a week for my family
Never did me any good wish I'd stayed single and never had children
Erin Pizzey picks apart the notions of what aspects of traditionalism works and yet still supports notions of stay at home dads and gay marriage. This is not an uninformed traditionalist woman to be dismissed. She is very well researched and embraces new ideas that are evidence based, and we'd be a better society if she was listened to more.
Alex Smith Young women do not want to listen to older women.
Birgitta Birgersdatter Older women that make sense. They seem happy to listen to feminist lecturers encouraging them to embrace their teenage tantrums.
This is the sort of "traditionalist" that I am. Rather, I call it familial traditionalism. It's more about family than being gynocentric or child-centric. (e.g. it's not _"it's for the best for the kids"_ ... which can get out of control and turn into family destructive notions. Obviously the kids are cared for, but they are part of the family, and the family also gets care.)
Even if the mother is a stay at home mom, I see a lot of value in what she does, unlike the feminists who think it is slavery, etc...and that the man is more privileged. She has just as much importance in the family as the father. Without either of them, the family falls apart and it becomes more difficult to do the things necessary to give your children a happy life. (E.G. you have to work more and take care of the kids less, or take care of the kids but live paycheck to paycheck in absolute poverty.)
The one thing I sort of disagree on with Erin is the housework aspect. I'd maybe put in 25-33% of the housework, but keep in mind that I also have a job and money to make. It is true though, men in general can be harder workers than women, but not always.
And this is also where feminists fail. They EXPECT that "traditionalist" means wife-home, man-work. But it's just not always like that. Things are flexible.
We use labels to help convey messages, but you have to be able to use them properly.
I get really tired of hearing about how women do all the housework and men should help out more. I never hear about how men do all of the heavy lifting (home repair, car repair, yard maintenance, etc.) and that women should pitch in on that stuff. Women hardly ever help with the "man's work". Hell, women don't often notice it even goes on.
I definitely agree
I'll go out on a limb and say that this was one of the biggest if not THE biggest of the Red Pills for Cassie, just based on her expression at the end. She looks distraught.
I'm sure this was a revelation for her.
Paul Jackson Isaiah 4:1 is still on the way. 😑
She definitely looked like she had her red pill administered suppository after this interview.
@ omg shit for brains Ha Ha! Seems that you're the loser and a sore loser at that. You lost the argument on the wage gap and now you're making a prat of yourself here. FYI, autistic people are very bad at picking up emotional cues. So, er no I'm not.
Paul Jackson To me, it's like a realization hit her. This interview I saw more genuine kindness in her face and acceptable in what she was hearing.
Good lord?? I'm a single man and I do laundry, ironing, clean the bathroom (worst chore), vacuum and hand wash dishes. I'm more than capable of doing all domestic chores. I can also cook and bake. Basically it comes down to the individual and how lazy you are.
When my bride of 27 years starts feeling guilty enough, she cooks. She doesn't mind washing dishes which I do because of flat feet and back problems. I was raised with a dishwasher. She wasn't. But somehow I don't know how to load one.... Tonight I made 9 pints of applesauce which she goes ape over. Yesterday I made pickle relish I use in my own coleslaw which she also goes ape over. Two days ago I made minestrone soup. My birthday has been the only holiday for years I didn't cook.
I wash the laundry. Its 80% done by the time she gets home from her "exercise" at the community center. If she happens to mow the lawn she's wiped out before its half done--about where I was at after severe blood loss from internal bleeding. She cleans the bathrooms because her shnoz works better than mine, but when it gets tough, I do the cleaning. I was raised to know how to do all the house chores. But where do you find a woman who is raised to know how to R&R vehicle brakes, oil changes, battery maintenance, tire care, alignment, coolant leaks, flat tires? Where do you find a woman that knows her way around all the tools required to make plumbing repairs, electrical, tree limbing, soil building, concrete placement, framing, cabinetry? Women ARE lazy as Esther Vilar wrote in 1971. They complain every time they get overwhelmed.
Someday women will be asking men to gestate and nurse....
New DV laws in the UK called coercive control theses include preventing your spouse from maintaining contact with family members , naturally mothers withholding contact father / child has been carefully omitted .
This is what is happening to my boyfriend right now with his ex-wife he's an incredible man and he was married to a very nasty nasty woman and now she's saying that he shoved her I don't get it the guy's never even giving me a dirty look and I've been with them for almost 4 years
It happened to me. The wife(now ex) woke me up at 2am just to start a fight with me. I tried to do as we're trained and leave the apartment, she struggled to stop me, barred my way out and slapped me, then called the MPs and told them I had hit her. They show up, not a mark on her of course, and take me away. I ended up in the barracks with the singles. Luckily the system didn't screw me, charges against me were dropped and the ones against her upheld(eventually). Not that anything happened of course, easier to send her away than to follow through with charges. Dangerous to be married these days, dark times.
Forgive my bad humor, but I suppose they don't train you to leave your position when the enemy starts a fight with you, right? But you're supposed to leave when your wife does it. Honestly, I don't think your personal life should be the army's business anyway, but if it is then why isn't it enough to train men not to use violence? It's not right to tell people to leave their home when they have done nothing wrong. What happened to "my home is my castle"?
Exact same thing happened to me while I was in the army
But if a man Works 70 hours a week and comes home and cleans the toilet you should be grateful especially if you only work part-time or don't work at all
Humanity was a mistake that’s not a real men if I work 70 hours a week and I have to clean up toilet! I wd kick the cow out to deepth of hell good riddance
I remember Cassie saying her conversation with Erin was the turning point for her. And I can see why. This was a very convincing bit. Although I think it would probably not have happened if she hadn't been eased into it by well-spoken people like Paul Elam, Warren Farrell, etc.
Gynocentricism at work. This time it opened someone up to truth and sanity instead of lies and psychosis. That's why I post videos of women MRAs (and not men) on FB.
@@TheMoravians Tragic reality, indeed. Contrary to what feminists say, that men are taken more seriously when promoting feminism - when they are clearly not, female MRA's ARE taken more seriously. Because people are more likely to listen, because the option for the use of shaming language falls away, or at least is limited.
"What have we done to our Men" is the expression I get from Cassie Jaye. It takes a lot to Challenge yourself and allow others to challenge that self, but to broadcast it across the world, to genuinely show that to as many people as you possibly can... Anyone who cant respect that is a despicable human being. These 2 women are what strong, independent women look like... Seriously stepping up to the plate to protect Men and Boys in a time where they have effectively no voice and I will forever respect and appreciate them. Thank you so much Cassie, Thank you so much Erin. I would happily take a bullet for these 2 amazing human beings if it were ever necessary.
I would LOVE to see a complete biographical documentary of Erin Pizzy. An absolutely amazing person with possession of a clarity in her thinking that is rarely found!
Erin Pizzey is one of my favorite people she speaks so clear and concise with a frankness that you don't hear often enough when people talk about Family issues.
Erin Pizzey: the most delightful woman I have ever known. Although we were not close friends, she offered to let me live with her once. She was a great friend and a great person. I miss her dearly...
Feminists are to blame for this mess. I chose to give up my career and stay home with my child and luckily in Canada everyone receives almost a thousand dollars for each child whether working or not. I was looked down for my choice but I never regretted it and raising my child was the happiest time of my life bar none.
For radical feminists it’s always the man’s fault regardless. Sorry to hear you were looked down for a choice that made sense to you but what matters is you never regretted it.
As a guy, I love housework: fixing plumbing leaks, replacing the hot water heater and toilets, replacing all the windows and doors, taking out heavy items to the trash, and trimming overgrown bushes. Everything else, my wife does happily.
This might sound pompous, but I’m a straight western career man, and I do more of the chores than my wife, and “keep a beautiful home”.
I actually enjoy it.
H Holland Why? Does your wife work full time?
Earl Greystone Yes she does, and we make about the same income. But she is very thankful that I do most chores. She helps sometimes as well. If it wasn’t for her I’d probably lean toward MGTOW myself. She is a rare type of woman.
H Holland While you are doing most of the chores what does your wife do?
Earl Greystoke Work and volunteering mostly. My job is more flexible and I don’t volunteer right now. Importantly, she appreciates my efforts greatly. Again I enjoy it so I do most of the chores naturally. Plus my standards are unnecessarily high so it’s up to me to keep them.
It’s a mutual understanding and appreciation at the foundation.
H Holland Who takes care of your children?
This is a great topic, and it should be looked at with a broader lens.
The end of the nuclear family is just the most recent breakdown in the broader collapse of family.
Ask yourself, why is there social security? Why is the expectation that everyone live on their own? Where were we and where have we gone?
The idea that the family is just a mother and father and children is a relatively new one. For a long time it was much broader than that. First, it was the village. The whole community was responsible for upholding the appropriate upbringing of children. Then we grew to distrust our communities and thus turned inward.
After that, the family was all of those who shared a blood relation with you. Grandparents lived with grandchildren, aunts lived among their nieces and nephews. Extended families structured themselves for childcare, eldercare and traditional work. However, that too collapsed as each person turned into an individual responsible only for themselves, their spouse, and their offspring.
Then the coup de grace. the acceptance of divorce as a social norm. While this was necessary for the well being of some, it also opened the floodgates where eternal covenants became delightful fantasy to be lived until one became bored with it and moved on.
Children see the distrust of the community, the distrust and alienation of extended family and the apparent frivolity of traditional vows. To them, the structure of the world is what they make it, and thus they will not learn from the previous generation, but rather tear it down without knowing the nature of the problem they face.
Now you know one of the reasons men commit suicide as well as being afraid to even approach a women in any venue.
as a heterosexual man having a life partner has now become an impossible fantasy rather than a possibility. it is too much of a gamble. until things change I will only be able to rely on the company of friends, family and maybe pets.
Not true. The reality is probably just that you need to move from where you currently live. That's no small thing, as you may need to move countries even. But for something as central to a normal human male as finding a wife and having a family, that is not too extreme of a task either. Sucks that it has come to that though.
Cassie Jaye - beautiful inside and out. Keep up the good work.
Feminism was designed to breakdown the family. It worked.
Wow. Just wow. Thank you for your hard work getting this message out there.
Is it that men don't know how to do housework, or is it that women don't want to relinquish control of exactly how the housework is done?
Most women are controlling. Most men eventually give up trying. Then the women leave.
I love it at 19:00, Cassie looks like she is about to cry. Like the reality of it all has just finally hit home for her. I may be wrong, just how I saw it unfold. This Erin Pizzey lady is 100% on point in this clip.....one of the best Raw File pieces for sure.
Out for almost a year, and only 25K views. We are doomed.
43 radical feminist disliked this. They didn’t like being addressed.
I've got a friend who went through a women's shelter and she didn't like the attitude they had, to her 2 sons, the younger being about 12.
Recently, the SNP (Scottish National Party) and Scottish Women's Aid, got together and wrote out new laws on abuse, I don't think the new laws will bode well for males and the SNP also gave them £160 thousand.
I am so tired of a woman saying the guy doesn't do anything around the home and they mean doing the dishes, laundry, cleaning etc. When I was married I did not do those things my wife was home all day so I felt I didn't have to. What I did do was keep the house running. I did the lawn, snow removal, cars maintained, painting the house and doing all necessary repairs. After my divorce, I allocated four hours on Saturday morning to do my housework. I could do the laundry, any dishes that had to be washed, scrub the floors, vacuum the carpets and dust. I did not sit down once, while the clothes were being washed I was doing the floors or ironing. If you have young children yes, there is a lot more work. I came home unexpectedly one day and I walked into the house and my wife was lying on the couch watching Phil Donahue, she jumped off the couch and started dusting. I told her it really isn't necessary to jump up, do you really think I believe that it takes all day to clean the house and cook dinner? I know some men do not do the things that I did, although most of my male friends did. I also know some women are absolute slobs that don't clean or cook.
Thank you Cassie, it's so refreshing to see real, honest conversations. You seem to be looking for the truth with an open mind. You are a great role model.
Thank you. I mentor young men, and this is gold. I don't know yet how to apply it, but I do have an idea of what not to do.
Dont go to the extreme like feminist we dont want a reactive 180
The last angel I'll ever see. Still numb but seems........bittersweet. When there is almost a 100% chance of a disfunctiional relationship.
Because I I was moving between homes, I just did some 'special' laundry. I had some clothes smelling like mold because they were in a bag for a long time. I first bought some Hydrogen Peroxide but then I remembered and tried the drug store, buying some Sodium Perborate, as it creates Hydrogen Peroxide and Sodium Hydroxide (caustic soda).
This destroys anything organic as, around 80ºC (176F) it has pH 14 (top on the caustic scale). Great for dealing with mold, blood, etc.
I also craft my own laundry soap from a cheap and safe laundry soap bar that has some nice innocuous smell and optic brighteners, not that expensive dangerous shit that if badly rinsed can irritate or sensitize my skin.
I'm only sorry for the laundry machine being way too basic (i.e. designed for dumb clueless womin). I'd like it to allow me to program it myself, working for this time with this temperature with these spinning patterns and centrifuging for this amount of time at these RPMs. My kingdom for an open source programmable washing machine!
Sorry for the Mansplaining! :P
I therefore conclude I must be gay!
Thank you for being the voice of the truth
Effective and long-lasting relationships are built on dutiful commitment, communication, consideration and positive contributions from both parties involved.
OMG this lady truly knows what she is talking about. I know too many underclass women with 3 or 4 kids to different absent fathers. This cannot be good for any of the children
While I agree with this woman's analysis, I have to wonder if she had common sense when she was younger. She said she was married twice; what was her role in the break ups? Further, I don't think men should help out in the house. She wanted to have a career in addition to her role of taking care of the house; not as a substitute.
Sounds like a great way to depopulate the planet.
Now I see why people have such a hard time with Erin Pizzey. Truth that she speaks is uncomfortable.
This didn't make the final cut?
Shows how far we have sunk. :(
she had something like 3 months worth of raw footage
Wow, i needed that. That came at the right time for me.
Erin Pizzey is a gem.
I'm a heterosexual male, stayed at home with my child for 3 years and I never needed a woman for cleaning, laundry or anything else. That's the only point I criticise. Maybe it's not the right choice of a partner if you experience this. A lot of women told me I would be an amazing boyfriend, but then they friendzone me and have some horrbile and/or lazy guys at home.
Why so many single people??
I have giving this so much thought. Today it is not an economically sound decision. The Government here in These United States rewards the Single Mother. They offer food stamps, healthcare, wik, housing, education, child care, phones, child support and a check !!! Now as a Man competing with the Government is very difficult!! If I was married then I would need to at least match the Government!!! How??? How do I offer this security ?? If I lose my job or even my second job everything all is lost !! So what incentive does a woman have to marry???? She can have a different Lover anytime! Why would any man want to have a child with this woman ???Do I believe she LOVES ME THROUGH GOOD TIMES AND BAD?? NOPE!!! I REALLY WANT TO!! If I lose my job and times get tough. She will most likely run to the Government!! Then I am really jacked!!! Now I have child support!! This little job was just barely keeping a roof over our heads and food in the fridge!! Now I can not afford the roof or the fridge and if I don't find another job kwick the Government will take my driver's license and then lock me up!!!!! I Believe in LOVE!! Compete with a steady guaranteed Government support???
This I believe has Destroyed the Family Values we stood for!! WHO PAYS?? Everyone!!! The Children Suffer the most!! With no father in the home they look towards others that appear successful. Tony works nights on the corner and drives a Escalade!! I wannabe just like him!! The newest female vocalist is wearing nothing and making millions!!! I wannabe just like her!!! WHAT ARE WE TEACHING!!!!!!
A working man IS doing his share, he IS pulling his weight. Men work longer hours than women and often at much more physically demanding jobs. Why should such men (the majority of male workers) also work in the house? Child rearing is different, fathers do need to take an active role in their child's lives.
5.05 Wrong, it does have to be. Erin contradicts her own logic at 8.05 when saying, to paraphrase,' its tradition and has worked for 1000's of years, why change it'. The confused post-modern interference in the traditional family model is a dangerous testing ground. Every child is a composition of their Father and Mother and it is their sole and sacred duty to raise their children. This is the best model, supplanted at great cost.
'No money, no kids' was the disgusting words from my husbands ex. 'She must have done something for him to abuse her' at being told I was abused. Goes on and on.. It destroyed the family but she managed to keep sponging off them because she used the kids as ammunition.
Every study has shown beyond doubt that marriage is the central pillar of society. Married couples should be given financial benefits, single parents only bare minimum. A single mother should be given a 2 room flat where the mother and child sleep with each other. A mother with 2 children be given a 3 room flat where two of the rooms are bedrooms. They should never be given a three bedroom house. It is because life is okay for single mums and society says single mums are as good as married couples you will always have this problem. We help single mothers survive, but we give status and support to marriage.
In California, it is not uncommon for a man to spend a weekend in jail because is wife or SO have called in a complaint about him. They not only know the magic words to use ie "domestic violence" but when to call it in, that is Friday afternoons, assuring that the man spends the maximum time in jail before the complaint gets sorted out. All the players know what's going on, but go through the motions. The man is encouraged not to press the issue of a false claim and the woman drops the charge and nothing happens. Break up with a girl friend, or having an argument with your wife can easily land a man in jail.
I would have asked the question : So you also believe men see also things women cant see as well ? Because i see it also all the time that women see serten things better then men do but also the other way around.
Ive always heared this story of the feminist movement but never that it ran this deep.
P.S love the videos keep up the great work !
One of the last conversations I had with my grandmother before she died I told her I hope my then new wife and I would have a girl. She yelled at me “why the hell do you want that”. To me it was obvious, women have such clear constructed advantages in society. That was a big red pill moment for me. How society has changed in two generations.
I love my wife til death do us part, but I am the one cleaning after her, doing laundry, and normal house hold duties for the most part, and she will tell you the same thing. If you view our bathroom and closet, my side is the most organized and cleanest.
5:00 I completely disagree. Children DO need a mother _and_ a father. Two men cannot give a child what a mother can, no matter how "loving" they are or their home is. It's the same with two women. They cannot provide the stability and discipline, especially for boys, that a father can. And little girls most definitely need their fathers. Otherwise, they may very well end up like the women she's talking about: _mothers of children from multiple fathers and no relationship skills whatsoever._ *Children absolutely DO need BOTH parents.* "A loving home" is a good thing, but saying that different kinds of families are equal is a very dangerous thing. Make no mistake. I am not homophobic, and I do know where she's coming from. She wants children to have safe homes (and who doesn't?!) But she is absolutely _WRONG_ on this issue, and the statistics plainly bear this out.
ThingsAreToughAllOver the only way a man can get and keep custody would be to be a gay father. Otherwise you are nothing more than a paycheck to kids who hate you, because of the vindictivness of the ex.
She is talking about making the best of a difficult situation. Making the case that a child is better with a functional dad for egs, rather than a dysfunctional mum. Or maybe a dad is a better care giver than mum in some circumstances and she is better earning the money. It ain't black and white. But the presumption mums always should be favoured over dads is wrong.
ThingsAreToughAllOver....I have to argue with your statement. It's not dependent on the genders of the two parents. As a matter of fact it's not even dependent on the number of parents. It's a question of the people raising these children. As she said a child growing up in a toxic environment is much more likely to become toxic themselves. I've known single parents who've managed to raise the children just fine because they were rational people who were not vindictive and had moral fiber. Hell...I grew up with a girl who we all knew was going to be a lesbian by the time we were in fourth grade. She's married now and her wife has given them two children. As far as I can see those children are perfectly normal. So...it's not the mother and father theory...homosexual couples are perfectly capable of raising perfectly normal children. As I said before...toxicity breeds more toxicity.
KingNicotine and homosexual relationships are more likely to be toxic. For instance, lesbian couples are on average the most physically abusive relationships and gay men are much more likely to suffer from mental health issues like being bi-polar.
The idea that a men or women are interchangeable in the roles of parent is a lie. Men and women aren't the same. The gender binary is real. We as a species are designed to be heterosexual. In rejecting this we are setting ourselves up for more problems in the future.
ThingsAreToughAllOver She was also wrong to suggest men don't know how to use a washing machine.
I don't think that it is that men don't help out around the house. I think the real problem is that it is not done to the exact specification of the woman.
Watching & listening to these two for 20 minutes can undo the male /female relationship damage caused by the 1000s of radical feminists during the last 40yrs .
I sure hope not because suicide rate will increase in the extreme if people will just surrender now.
The answer is for men to stop getting married, don't let women get their sperm, and DO NOT donate to sperm banks.
the last two minutes of this video are brilliant. shes got it!
This is so tragic. I feel terrible sorrow for the many young boys being raised by these feminists. I too know all too well that women are not angelic victims. I grew up with a Mother and Stepmother who were abusive. Men don't tell others about it because it's counter to their identity of being strong and capable.
Is there any wonder that there are thousands of unmarried desperate women and why fertility rates in the west are collapsing
14:10 Erin is right. I offered proof but they didn't want any. They don't question you , they believe you. They even asked for a name
Could you explain what happened a bit?
Albert Balbastre-Morte ex was nasty. Went to domestic violence team to ask for advice and to tell me if they agreed based on his actions which were blatant but he made me unsure of all of my thoughts so needed validation. They scored me at high risk and tried to get me to leave, asked for a name. I said don't you want proof? They said no that's not necessary but we need to make a plan and they were persuading me to give them a name
Interesting, thanks.
Albert Balbastre-Morte don't know why the rest was needed though tbh?
Hi FairyTaz, I'm doing a series of videos on these topics and am looking for potential interviews. Would you be interested?
Cassie I don't know if you will read this but I would love to see a final thoughts video on how you've been treated after making the film, how well the film has done, and your biggest red pill moment. Also any future plans or projects you have in mind.
Fro the record, and as a man, I am very interested in a long term marital relationship with children. I cant fight for it anymore and that is the problem. I can fight, but its a game where the odds of winning are minute. My choice is to build myself up and pursue life so I am happy, an infantile 30 something girl does not fit into that. Women and men have to grow up, but both are discouraged.
The data on gay parenting is very very bad for children - love is not enough
Love 9:40: women won't like what men do with the laundry. I actually do 1/2 (or more) of the house chores but my wife is typically unhappy with what was done (ie: there's no lines in the carpet... did you even clean? or... well, you surface clean.)
Videos like this make me really glad I never got married. I've made many mistakes in life, but I'm not that stupid.
13:50
CJ: "Why arent false accusers being prosecuted?"
EP: "They're not"
CJ: "Why aren't they?"
EP: "Because they're believed."
...Mrs. Pizzey talks about how women are always believed and you don't question someone you believe.
CJ: "Who made this rule up ??"
The "Patriarchy" did.
I'm a heterosexual man who's married and knows how to do things around the house; however, my wife is very traditional and so she prefers to do most of the cooking and housework. If I started doing everything she'd smack me upside the head and tell me to start being a man. That being said, women can complain all they want about what men do or don't do around the house; but very few, if any of us, demanded women go into the workforce and abandon our children to the state in the name of feminism and it's society destroying Marxist ideology.
Lou Scannon Amen
Marxism through the guise of post modernism is infecting much of our daily lives and we are doing nothing to combat it. The family, by that I mean mum and dad, should be the number one concern of our time. It's bloody obvious we need an end to systemic selfishness that manifests itself in feminism, that the woman's feelings trumps everything, however destructive her actions maybe. So many women destroy families in the belief of a better life, this paradigm is encouraged by radical Marxists who would prefer the state to control the upbringing of children. Marxism is evil, modern feminism is.
Erin Pizzey is so awesome and honest.
Great interview. I'm a straight male approaching my mid thirties and not keen on getting married for some of these reasons. I always thought I would get married and have kids, but it seems like there's far too much risk to me in my position.
Wonderful to see this wonderful woman still working on the edge of society and telling us how it is. She was an inspiration to social work and women's services in the 1960's ...This woman changed the national conversation....but the monetization, weaponisation of identity politics and career feminists see her as an enemy...
the interviewer is not up to speed
"Who made this rule up"? You ask the right questions Cassie.
I get on more with my Foster Sister than my real sister.
Our 'Dad' is a Malignant Narcissistic sociopath.
Why do women choose these "Men"
Women wouldn't want men to do laundry? Women see things men can't? Men who see those things are gay or feminized?
That....doesn't make much sense....at all.
I'm a male and I do laundry. And I care about not damaging my clothes. I guess that makes me gay, or at least effeminate.
Huh?
Wow. This is exactly the fundamental problem of our fractured society.
our family story is the most important creation story we have.
yes it is a conspiracy. feminists have taken over the universities and many aspects of society. most are the unsuspecting useful idiots of marxist ideologists, of which there are more than we think in the so-called free world, which itself is becoming less free when you look at the way the free speech debate is unfolding. there isn't one. pretty soon we're all going to be in an enormous shithole created by women, and men will be blamed for it, of course. people like jordan peterson are up against a huge mountain to move, one critical mind at a time.