How To Attract More Women As An Introvert

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  • @AustinDunhamVlogs
    @AustinDunhamVlogs  Рік тому +15

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    • @Live_for_God123
      @Live_for_God123 11 місяців тому

      I end up doing a dare my freinds did, and up asking two girls out one the other day. got rejected twice. the weird thing is, is tht am still kind of nervous to go for the third

  • @gregoryk6279
    @gregoryk6279 Рік тому +229

    I’m a half introvert myself, it can make you be more mysterious and woman will value your time more when y’all finally talk

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 Рік тому +14

      half introvert?

    • @KingofNewYorkkk
      @KingofNewYorkkk Рік тому +13

      @@Sheed96 ➡️Ambivert. I’m the same way too

    • @jhinthevirtuoso4886
      @jhinthevirtuoso4886 Рік тому +12

      ​@@KingofNewYorkkki dont think ambiverts exist.
      of course you can be balanced, but cognitively speaking you can only be introverted or extroverted.

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 Рік тому +5

      @@KingofNewYorkkk no in aware of the term but that's some bs

    • @A.I_SIGMA_TV
      @A.I_SIGMA_TV Рік тому +19

      It only makes you more mysterious to women if they find you attractive

  • @williammedleyiii3144
    @williammedleyiii3144 Рік тому +21

    I'm only an Introvert because I struggle with communication sometimes, my mind might go blank or I forget what I want to say then I just look stupid and I don't bother

  • @handsomeX
    @handsomeX Рік тому +40

    I can be an introvert OR an extrovert. Depends on the day and the situation.

  • @44utuber
    @44utuber Рік тому +125

    Also a positive, when an introvert tends to open up and form a relationship, it is most likely a very deep and strong one. Ladies give us a chance😂🎉 great tips and vid

    • @dudejoe8390
      @dudejoe8390 Рік тому +6

      Yeah, I'm not a serial killer cause I'm organized and quiet. 😅

    • @DejiDigital
      @DejiDigital Рік тому +1

      You guys sound so pathetic lol. Most of y’all aren’t introverted. You’re antisocial.

    • @johannsebastianbach3501
      @johannsebastianbach3501 Рік тому +27

      “Ladies give us a chance” stop looking for validation. That’s low value behavior.

    • @44utuber
      @44utuber Рік тому +12

      @@johannsebastianbach3501 trust me I meant that in a poking fun/joking tone, I agree with you

    • @gavinoprimo2535
      @gavinoprimo2535 Рік тому +6

      @@johannsebastianbach3501 chill out. You’re overcompensating

  • @baileyking4535
    @baileyking4535 Рік тому +16

    I generally get the comment ‘you have a quiet confidence’ but yeh I don’t like the attention and would rather people just leave me alone to do my own thing🤣

  • @icarus387
    @icarus387 Рік тому +47

    Im 23 and I've always been an introvert throughout my life and I'm still one. From grade school to high school, I've always been a quiet black guy but I always noticed that some women took interest in me. They would always try to bump into me or try to physically interject themselves into my view. I didn't get much attention from girls at the time until my early 20s is when i started learning how to groom myself with a skincare routine and grooming products. I noticed more glances and atrraction towards me from so much women. It makes me uneasy sometimes 😂😂

    • @kxfromga5359
      @kxfromga5359 Рік тому +1

      Keep walking bro and u must have those dreamy eyes like I do because people tell me I look tired or bored

    • @icarus387
      @icarus387 Рік тому

      @@kxfromga5359 My eyes are big and has feminine features. When I curl my eyelashes, it makes my eyes look pretty. Having nice eyes and clear skin is a good combo for looksmaxxing.

    • @kxfromga5359
      @kxfromga5359 Рік тому

      @@icarus387 I never heard of lash curling

    • @icarus387
      @icarus387 Рік тому

      @@kxfromga5359 It's basically a eye curler that makes your eyes stand out. There's loads of videos that discuss about eye curling and how your eyes are one of the most important features for facial attraction.

    • @kxfromga5359
      @kxfromga5359 Рік тому

      @@icarus387 the closest I can do is eyeliner or see thru shirts but I will check some videos

  • @boeingfan2479
    @boeingfan2479 Рік тому +66

    Really good video Austin being an introvert and everything you said I completely relate to. For me though to be honest, I have kinda just accepted that my dating life won’t be the same as a similar guy to me who is more extroverted and I think that is totally ok. I find it is really important to put your energy in the right places and trying to be something you are not is exhausting to say the least. You can still have a good dating life as an introvert absolutely and being attractive helps, but for me at least it takes a lot out of me to try and be something I’m not and it makes me feel worse.

  • @Understandme44
    @Understandme44 Рік тому +20

    Good tip: before making ur presence online make sure ur at ur highest potential before u present urself because the average man ain’t cutting it! Ur fashion, ur body, ur grooming, and ur pictures have to all be on point!

  • @shaiqahmed1047
    @shaiqahmed1047 Рік тому +5

    Facts bro! Your Extroverted friends are your gateways to meeting new people.

  • @Saphoria-d2j
    @Saphoria-d2j Рік тому +34

    I’m introverted as fuck but fit…so I’ll get the choosing signals but I don’t follow up on them. It’s only when I’m drunk that I start hooking up with multiple chicks in the club in one night

    • @GLIMPSE_00
      @GLIMPSE_00 Рік тому +16

      Foreal! That’s alcohol have you feeling like Jesus 😂

    • @Smoothcarries
      @Smoothcarries Рік тому +3

      Felt this in my soul. Ill be looking away from the choosing signals bc I’m not as comfortable with in person pick up I usually stick to dating apps. But once that liquid courage is in you……😂

    • @kxfromga5359
      @kxfromga5359 Рік тому

      Seems interesting

    • @kxfromga5359
      @kxfromga5359 Рік тому

      @Nocapper why the haircut explain?

  • @TooDirty
    @TooDirty Рік тому +33

    This is the right video for me cause I don't seem to care if I'm lonely or not. It would be nice to interact with people/ women every once and a while even though I don't really care lol.

  • @nasty3280
    @nasty3280 Рік тому +22

    Being an introvert sucks asf .... In the past few months I've been forcing myself to be social

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 Рік тому +26

      never force yourself to do anything if they don't want you they can stay where they at

    • @KingofNewYorkkk
      @KingofNewYorkkk Рік тому +19

      Being an introvert is a blessing. Women are attracted to mystery

    • @Thomzz95
      @Thomzz95 Рік тому +18

      @@KingofNewYorkkk only if you have the looks to go with it.

    • @lookunderyourtable8503
      @lookunderyourtable8503 Рік тому +2

      @@Sheed96 what’s wrong with forcing yourself to be social? It’s important to get out of your comfort zone

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 Рік тому +1

      @@lookunderyourtable8503 only if you're doing it for others not because you want to be social and talk but... do you fr

  • @frosinone7841
    @frosinone7841 Рік тому +9

    When I needed this the most ! Being a full introvert . I can say Austin is stating facts!! Hopefully this info will help me now henceforth

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 Рік тому +8

    Austin Gang 💪💪

  • @promiseuzu6620
    @promiseuzu6620 Рік тому +6

    Nice Man,Really really nice Austin,in a way, you're making me more comfortable being an introvert not because of the lazy part but because now I understand I can make moves to get what I want even being introverted

  • @revmeno4572
    @revmeno4572 Рік тому +7

    Great video Austin. Can make a vid on overcoming anxiety. I have trouble controlling my breath in social situations.

    • @brayanvacosta
      @brayanvacosta Рік тому +2

      Meditation and taking time to breathe will help you out

  • @davidchung3923
    @davidchung3923 Рік тому +6

    I wish I had guidance like this when I was younger, since I'm a natural introvert myself. Struggled to actually have a dating life back then.

    • @XxMirrorFlashxX
      @XxMirrorFlashxX Рік тому

      Don’t know your age but it’s never to late brother

  • @rattlesnakestudios8885
    @rattlesnakestudios8885 9 місяців тому +1

    0:24 "there are two coins to the side" lmao

  • @juniortate2373
    @juniortate2373 Рік тому +7

    Im an introvert but have no issues socialising when i feel like it lol

  • @anthonyhill4639
    @anthonyhill4639 Рік тому +14

    Introvert here, I've been struggling to reconcile my love for solitude with my desire to socialize with women and just people in general, it's rough

    • @dooniegragg4924
      @dooniegragg4924 Рік тому +2

      Just go out and see things you’ll eventually run into women u don’t even gotta go out ..

    • @LoveyouMinsk
      @LoveyouMinsk 10 місяців тому

      There are women for whom it is also important to have time for solitude. You will probably be in harmony with this one. You've just met the wrong ones so far.

  • @DopeKingCastro1199
    @DopeKingCastro1199 Рік тому +10

    Being a introvert makes you more mysterious to women like AMS said the less you say the better

    • @JBMorris9
      @JBMorris9 5 місяців тому

      ***if you are attractive.

  • @TRUTHnLIESPodcast
    @TRUTHnLIESPodcast Рік тому +8

    This makes alot of sense 💯

  • @durodesduvo8424
    @durodesduvo8424 Рік тому +4

    “There are two coins to the side” 😂😂😂
    Was that by accident?

  • @diegocaballero59
    @diegocaballero59 Рік тому +2

    3:57 10000% relatable, I don't even use social media, great advise, I'm gonna step up my social media game

  • @pederbrokke
    @pederbrokke Рік тому +8

    theres two coins to the side. Gotta remember that

  • @ScorpioNy6
    @ScorpioNy6 Рік тому +9

    Another tip is overtimre create your own world full of the type of ppl you want around .

  • @farraribeats
    @farraribeats Рік тому +48

    Hanging around extroverted people help you become an outgoing introvert and that Yin Yang analogy is so true. I find extroverted women more attractive than introverted women even if she might be a 9 or 10.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Рік тому +5

      But probably more trouble

    • @loverofhumanity
      @loverofhumanity Рік тому +24

      @@dennisrobinson8008 yeah for me an extroverted women is just annoying and a red flag.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Рік тому

      @@loverofhumanity lol. I heard you.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Рік тому +11

      @@loverofhumanity You like an attractive but quiet woman who doesn't need or want extra attention. She's probably very thoughtful and kind.

    • @loverofhumanity
      @loverofhumanity Рік тому

      @@dennisrobinson8008 exactly 💯💯.

  • @egypt8904
    @egypt8904 Рік тому +2

    Its so funny you said this because literally yesterday I was thinking about everything you said lol

  • @mosesp1009
    @mosesp1009 Рік тому +1

    Yes dude that’s exactly how I feel when I ever hang out with a gym bro and after we hung out I’ll go home and I won’t see them until a few months have past by is not a whole year for me to get my mind ready for the next meet up. Pisces are like this I don’t believe is z signs but some things of what read about my sign which is Pisces I LOVE being alone.

  • @Moneymyke404
    @Moneymyke404 Рік тому +7

    In was an introvert as a kid, as an adult I'm definitely an extrovert or ambivert. I like going on but sometimes I'm out and enjoying the vibe and don't want to socialize

  • @jantjearu1493
    @jantjearu1493 Рік тому +2

    Austin , you’re really a G. And you’re still young bro.💯💯👊🏾

  • @kso-kingshiponly
    @kso-kingshiponly Рік тому +5

    Great video Dunham. I like these types of videos over the reaction ones- these informative vidoes help out your game 1000× more. Thanks peace and prosperity guys.

  • @Chameleon_daddi
    @Chameleon_daddi Рік тому +2

    Great Video. This will be my bible to networking and people shopping

  • @kevdoesit55
    @kevdoesit55 Рік тому +11

    My problem is that whenever I attract a female I like, they send me choosing signals but I overthink and never make a move. The girl eventually gets bored or gets approached by another dude. How can I overcome self doubt?

    • @dooniegragg4924
      @dooniegragg4924 Рік тому +5

      Stop being afraid of rejection it’s gone happen get comfortable with it

  • @elishanana4469
    @elishanana4469 Рік тому +3

    The last explanation is definetly me I used to be a introvert but I learned how to talk to people and they think I am a extrovert

  • @henryabang6732
    @henryabang6732 4 місяці тому

    U are a big inspiration bro keep doing what you doing

  • @tantra4961
    @tantra4961 Рік тому +2

    Well explained Austin...

  • @Gemalotta
    @Gemalotta Рік тому +5

    It comes down to being a hybrid nowadays, you’ll waste countless opportunities with potential dates because you can’t convey how you feel to women which in turn keeps you locked to yourself for the foreseeable future unless you learn to unlock the mental burden keeping you at bay.

  • @zee7090
    @zee7090 Рік тому +3

    Notification gang

  • @chilldellnyc
    @chilldellnyc Рік тому +4

    That’s a fact too if you have a good presentation wit how you dress/smell/act people will approach you, women be looking even when you think they not

    • @dw3134
      @dw3134 Рік тому +3

      If you're actually good looking, yea lol

    • @Ronin-kk4bt
      @Ronin-kk4bt Рік тому

      They will definitely look yeah

  • @claudiaclaudia8599
    @claudiaclaudia8599 Рік тому +2

    I would have never guessed you’re an introvert 😮

  • @Mamba-2408
    @Mamba-2408 9 місяців тому +1

    '2 coins to a side' huh 😂

  • @Alexanderthetitan
    @Alexanderthetitan Рік тому +1

    2 coins to the side is now the new way of saying it let’s go

  • @houseofhoopshighlights6228
    @houseofhoopshighlights6228 Рік тому +1

    Austin with another banger 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @jwill9877
    @jwill9877 Рік тому +9

    8:15 straight facts. You are literally casting a wide net with a filter weeding out the women who dont genuinely desire you. The ones that do come to you or show signs. Its on us to act!

  • @drezarom3627
    @drezarom3627 Рік тому +1

    Video I never thought I needed.

  • @theone7216
    @theone7216 Рік тому +3

    Thats me i dont mind being alone.

  • @doublecommenter5161
    @doublecommenter5161 Рік тому +3

    They don't just get drained in social gathering. It is draining to be online as well.

    • @WinterFlare
      @WinterFlare Рік тому +3

      Nah online is super easy, I can just do whatever I want and just say a few words and not worry about anyone looking at me.

  • @alfordromney9080
    @alfordromney9080 Рік тому +2

    Awesome content.

  • @dmonk926
    @dmonk926 Рік тому +1

    Please do a vid about going out to clubs etc solo. I always feel weird, including like an actual weirdo, doing it

  • @dante340
    @dante340 11 місяців тому +2

    Wow this was actually very helpful and insightful advice. Thank you for this 💯I was legit expecting the video to be:
    "How To Attract More Women As An Introvert:
    Step 1: Stop being introverted
    Step 2: Be extroverted
    Done."
    🤣 Like just about every other youtuber who speaks on this topic.

  • @memerg42
    @memerg42 Рік тому +5

    Step 1: be attractive

    • @Ronin-kk4bt
      @Ronin-kk4bt Рік тому +3

      Yup even with being introverted that still applies I’m afraid

  • @edonactive
    @edonactive Рік тому +1

    Man!!! you speaking to me.

  • @chihebdiffel4101
    @chihebdiffel4101 Рік тому +2

    always here

  • @dramasama752
    @dramasama752 Рік тому +2

    Austin Whaddup!

  • @oaka7616
    @oaka7616 Рік тому +2

    Much of the time we are not as introverted as we actually are, but our brain needs a dopamine detox. We favor much faster pleasure sources compared to more long term and more rewarding ones. When we are getting fast dopamine, chances are we are not going to be interested in socializing. Cut out fast dopamine hits.

  • @BastianSteffens
    @BastianSteffens 8 місяців тому

    Its interesting. I like your content really much. In the past i dont connect to such content. I m introverted too. Maybe kind of the same view on the world. Keep up your good work.👍

  • @nukesnipa1
    @nukesnipa1 Рік тому

    This beat go hard!

  • @nfelisshia
    @nfelisshia Рік тому +19

    It’s interesting to hear the pov of a man who’s an introvert. As a woman, I’ve definitely experienced some of the same things. Anyways great video!

  • @Coexistwithmyfist
    @Coexistwithmyfist 8 місяців тому

    I put myself out there, and I got SA'D by two guys. I also have CPTSD which makes me think everyone wants to attack or hurt me except for like two people or they really have evil intentions. I might go to my bootcamp for fitness and work and that's about it. It sucks, but I've learned to cope and live my life to the fullest the best I can.

  • @ryleigh6488
    @ryleigh6488 Рік тому

    Really good video, Im Ready

  • @ariangatollari3423
    @ariangatollari3423 3 місяці тому

    So here's the thing. I'm introverted, but I hate drinking (I need 6 to 8 drinks within an hour just to get a buzz) and I don't like most clubs (the music is shit) Raves and concerts are more my vibe. What would be an optimal online strategy for someone like myself?

  • @smasherjosh5000
    @smasherjosh5000 Рік тому +4

    In your experience Austin do you have a better experience with introverted women or extroverted women?

  • @dennisg7709
    @dennisg7709 Рік тому +16

    Step 1: Be Attractive
    Step 2: Don't say anything
    Step 3: ?
    Step 4: profit

  • @xdscgiefkeef8208
    @xdscgiefkeef8208 Рік тому

    Keep it up bro you talking to a lot of souls there are 2 sides to every coin not all humans are extroverts and it's not a bad thing that's what makes the world

  • @a.tfitness_
    @a.tfitness_ 7 місяців тому

    My extroverted friends damn near used to scoop girls for me 😂 my boy would really throw alley oops all I had to do was finish

  • @patplayz474
    @patplayz474 11 місяців тому

    0:24
    "There are two coins to the side." 🤫

  • @JoyMunene
    @JoyMunene Місяць тому

    Keeping tabs

  • @sausagebrownie7262
    @sausagebrownie7262 Рік тому +2

    "in order to acquire woman" nice

    • @itsbeyxnd
      @itsbeyxnd Рік тому

      Shit made me laugh lmao

  • @juanmartinez4506
    @juanmartinez4506 Рік тому +2

    Shout out to the Introverted Extroverts!

  • @swishask8875
    @swishask8875 Рік тому +4

    Mf said “there are two coins to the side” 😂

  • @M0RN1N6_5T4R
    @M0RN1N6_5T4R Рік тому +1

    Two sides of the coin****. You said two coins to the side lol. But I gotcha.

  • @christiansnaturestudio6599
    @christiansnaturestudio6599 Рік тому

    Me having a limited social battery sucks and im an introvert who wants to meet more women. I just need to find them in the right places

  • @1matim
    @1matim Рік тому

    Thank you, good video

  • @itsbeyxnd
    @itsbeyxnd Рік тому +2

    I love the way you talk bro, “acquire women and I’ve master it” lmao

  • @dschaydschee
    @dschaydschee Рік тому +3

    Step 1: look like a supermodel

  • @ScorpioNy6
    @ScorpioNy6 Рік тому

    Snapple facts again

  • @ralpherl5657
    @ralpherl5657 Рік тому +1

    Austin, I live in Tampa, how do we meet up and chill in Orlando?

  • @marcelchalobah7946
    @marcelchalobah7946 Рік тому

    Do a live Q and A

  • @guskisomalia
    @guskisomalia Рік тому +1

    27 years 2 body count only, i look good and have a insanely goos body, but idk where to start, my problem is since i was a kid i was kept away from people and never really did socialize as a kid and when i grew upp i had the mindset i need nobody, sometimes i feel like a huge loser maybe I am :(

    • @bratstar0005
      @bratstar0005 Рік тому

      how did you got a gf ?

    • @28yearsoldd
      @28yearsoldd Рік тому +1

      27 years and never ever had a girl... So dont be sad.

  • @Empirebusinessinsights
    @Empirebusinessinsights Рік тому +1

    Here early

  • @breakingthehabit
    @breakingthehabit Рік тому +6

    handsome introvert here
    my only friend doesn't invite me anywhere anymore cuz all the girls like me so no number 2 for me😅

    • @BrandinRrr
      @BrandinRrr Рік тому +1

      You have to hang with ppl in your tribe other comparable men or women

    • @KingofNewYorkkk
      @KingofNewYorkkk Рік тому

      😅Enjoy

  • @rodrickheath8207
    @rodrickheath8207 8 місяців тому

    He right I’m introvert I need extrovert friends

  • @Jacob-nu4nd
    @Jacob-nu4nd Рік тому +5

    Just be confident Bro

  • @daddyrobinson6940
    @daddyrobinson6940 Рік тому +2

    How to attract as an introvert and just an average guy without looks like Austin?
    Here is everything that you need to know.
    The art to Attracting women by james Francis

  • @gabrielascensotomas
    @gabrielascensotomas Рік тому +3

    I tell you my million dollar strategy for free:
    You only live a few more years before you die, forever.

  • @munano6930
    @munano6930 Рік тому

    10:06 Words of wisdom

  • @WinVault
    @WinVault Рік тому +2

    whats your MBTI personality type Austin?

  • @jmoser2158
    @jmoser2158 10 місяців тому

    Thanks

  • @leonardo2108
    @leonardo2108 Рік тому

    I don't know why im watching this,but i still do

  • @fabiodossantos920
    @fabiodossantos920 Рік тому +1

    Have you ever done a video talking about darkskin man?

  • @ryanwilliams4561
    @ryanwilliams4561 Рік тому +1

    “I know some biddies in Cali, they all be calling me daddy”

  • @Mysticmystrioe
    @Mysticmystrioe Рік тому

    Swag check ✅

  • @BulkierEmu050
    @BulkierEmu050 Рік тому

    💯🔥

  • @NoOneBut_Shaun
    @NoOneBut_Shaun Рік тому

    Oh shoot? He knows FitXfearless

  • @ryanmerkle7892
    @ryanmerkle7892 Рік тому

    Where did youget your polo shirt from ?

  • @jackuzi6468
    @jackuzi6468 11 місяців тому

    So all of a sudden, everyone is an introvert 😂😂😂

  • @swagsukeuchiha7599
    @swagsukeuchiha7599 Рік тому +1

    Be attractive.

  • @TexxVlogz
    @TexxVlogz Рік тому

    Didn’t realize how quite you were until the last time you were on fresh and fit 😂 nothing wrong with that just an observation I would of loved to see you spit some game to the women becuase you seem smart