Why Can’t I Find a Godly Man? Here’s What You Need to Know...

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  • @daniellashamarose
    @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +6

    Subscribe for more encouraging Christian content! 🩷

    • @assyrianrelief
      @assyrianrelief 2 місяці тому

      I think you shouldn’t be giving false hope to Christian women. I know MANY middle aged and older Christian women who never got married when they desired to. They prayed, they did all the right things snd still never got married. In reality many Christian women won’t get married no matter how hard they hope and pray. Just like not everyone gets healed after being prayed for. So please STOP the false hope and be more realistic or practical.

  • @arlenelovelace18
    @arlenelovelace18 2 місяці тому +33

    I have been on a couple of Christian dating sites, and I’ve discovered that most of the men on there talk the talk, but don’t walk the walk. I’m still waiting on God.

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +3

      Yes and it can be frustrating! Keep your eyes on Him and all will fall into place🙏🏻🩷

    • @jasminealexia
      @jasminealexia 2 місяці тому +1

      Me too! I’ve encountered wolves in sheep’s clothing on there trying to prey on Christian women

  • @ZendelAtkinson
    @ZendelAtkinson 2 місяці тому +206

    Relationships often face challenges, but there’s always a way to move forward. My marriage had its share of significant problems, but with the right help, my wife and I managed to resolve them and strengthen our relationship. Solutions are available if you’re willing to put in the effort and collaborate. Keep hope alive-answers are possible.

    • @BruceKnapp-n4q
      @BruceKnapp-n4q 2 місяці тому

      I’m struggling with serious issues in my relationship and can’t bear the thought of losing her. My love and desire to have her back in my life are immense. I’m willing to do whatever it takes and would be very grateful for any guidance or suggestions.

    • @ZendelAtkinson
      @ZendelAtkinson 2 місяці тому

      Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @BruceKnapp-n4q
      @BruceKnapp-n4q 2 місяці тому

      I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.

    • @ZendelAtkinson
      @ZendelAtkinson 2 місяці тому

      Great

  • @joaniedabalsky6539
    @joaniedabalsky6539 2 місяці тому +35

    Thank you!! Most people say that if you want something you have to go out and "take it yourself." But when it comes to relationships, I disagree. Only God can make it happen, you cannot make it happen yourself!

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +11

      Amen sis! He is in control and He will make it happen in His perfect timing🩷

    • @johncannady9255
      @johncannady9255 2 місяці тому +7

      This is really true, loss of peace, anxiety and heartache comes from taking things into your own hands.

    • @zhaba24-pw7lf
      @zhaba24-pw7lf 2 місяці тому +2

      Amen! A lot of my friends did not understand this principle. I have been egged to go online which I refuse to do. I believe the right man will find me when I least expect it! In God's time!

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому +1

      @@daniellashamaroseDaniella and Joanie, wrong. That’s called apathy and laziness. God gave us hands to work, did he not? You can ask for something, but if you don’t work for it, don’t expect it. Too many women think they don’t have to do anything and the perfect man will plop right onto their front door step. What’s gotten into women?!

  • @limitless7415
    @limitless7415 2 місяці тому +8

    Ladies, you guys aren’t the only ones asking those questions! I, too, want to know where my godly bride is!??? I live in New Orleans and the landscape with good, godly women here is horrible… but I’m trusting God that He has just one left for me!!! God bless. 🙏🏻

    • @kirstenwinch848
      @kirstenwinch848 2 місяці тому +4

      Hiya! I live in Scotland but open to distance gor the short term! 😂 Praying you find your wife as I pray for my husband

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  28 днів тому +1

      Maybe God has a move in store brother? I’ll be praying that God helps you find her! Blessings🙏🏻

  • @judymbuthia6628
    @judymbuthia6628 2 місяці тому +7

    My future husband is worth the wait!! Thanks dear sis for the encouragement

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +2

      You are so welcome! And I promise, he will be🩷

  • @annette1982
    @annette1982 2 місяці тому +8

    waiting on the lord...i will not get ahead of the father....trusting the lord he will present me to my future husband in His perfect timing. Thank you Lord for preparing us.

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +3

      Amen sis! 🙌🏻🙌🏻💕🫶🏻

    • @renewewers4094
      @renewewers4094 2 місяці тому

      Amen

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому +1

      Annette, that’s called lazy. Put yourself out there, can’t expect to be found if you do nothing.

  • @NancySharapata
    @NancySharapata 2 місяці тому +5

    Thank you Daniela for the video. I can't tell how many times I have heard the enemy telling me that I was not good enough pretty enough or smart enough

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +3

      I’m praying for you sis! Remember He is a liar - straight back to the garden of eden, and if it was true what He was saying - you wouldn’t hear it coming out of His mouth, that’s for sure!

  • @bobbiemichaelsNyc86
    @bobbiemichaelsNyc86 2 місяці тому +5

    What are we going to do😂😂😂 he got Sally covered. I love it

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +4

      😂 I’m glad you enjoyed that lol🩷🩷🩷

  • @minamartina254
    @minamartina254 2 місяці тому +12

    I'm too tired, I'm 42... I just want to live...

  • @itsbeeva
    @itsbeeva 2 місяці тому +19

    "He who finds a wife finds a good thing" - Proverbs 18:22 HE who FINDS. A woman shouldn't even be seeking a husband, but focus on her purpose and make herself available, show interest when approached. "But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." - Matthew 6:33.

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +4

      Exactly sis 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 2 місяці тому +1

      Right. Ladies, don't seek a husband.

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому +2

      What on earth?! Women should definitely be seeking husbands. The replenishment rate worldwide is so low the human race will die off. Thanks for that. Women simply don’t prioritize marriage until much later than they should and it’s too late.

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +2

      @ I’m talking to women who are waiting on the one who God has for them, women who have values and are not looking to marry any random man out there for the sake of “replenishment” as you put it. Thank you for your comment.

  • @allisonemig8578
    @allisonemig8578 2 місяці тому +2

    Excellent message Daniella! You are a joy! 😊🕊️💖

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for the sweet message 🫶🏻 God bless you sis!

  • @UnaVictoria93
    @UnaVictoria93 2 місяці тому +2

    You’re so Holy Spirit filled! These words are so centered on the truth / Gods word! 🤗

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +1

      🩷🩷 He is SO GOOD! Thank you so much for watching!

  • @sankhar2484
    @sankhar2484 2 місяці тому +2

    So encouraging and timely. God is awesome and the Holy Spirit has led me to this video. Thanks. Blessings in abundance.

  • @NancySharapata
    @NancySharapata 2 місяці тому +6

    He sent so much confusion and frustration.. Please pray for me please. I don't want to jump into a relationship just because I want to be the right time and the right person and God's timing not mine

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +5

      I hear you, He will bring you the right man in His time, don’t worry, don’t stress, He’s in control. Lord we ask that you would shut the door to any relationships in Nancy’s life that are not of you, and open the door to the ones that are. And I take authority over the enemy telling her lies like she’s not good enough… not pretty enough, etc. I rebuke the enemy’s lies, I bind those lies, and I cast them to the pit of hell in Jesus’s mighty name. Father I ask for your truth of who Nancy is in You to be spoken to her today by your Holy Spirit, in Jesus’s name we pray, amen. God bless you sis!

    • @NancySharapata
      @NancySharapata 2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much
      You. Are truly amazing

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      @@NancySharapataWhat?! It’s called working for it. If you don’t approach, be approachable, etc, then don’t expect it to happen. Should’ve prioritized it much earlier.

  • @sukiglass9776
    @sukiglass9776 2 місяці тому +2

    Amen! Thank you for these words of encouragement! God bless you. 😊

  • @divineanne5661
    @divineanne5661 2 місяці тому +2

    This encouraged me! ❤.

  • @belindaputnam7353
    @belindaputnam7353 2 місяці тому +4

    Amen. Waiting ❤

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +3

      Love it! You won’t be disappointed🩷

    • @belindaputnam7353
      @belindaputnam7353 2 місяці тому

      @@daniellashamarose You are a blessing in my life.

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      @@belindaputnam7353Waiting for what, a man to approach you, sweep you off your feet, take care of everything, etc? Someone’s watched too much Disney and not living in reality. Men are not approaching anymore and for good reason, do the work, or don’t have one.

  • @tracystreet8338
    @tracystreet8338 2 місяці тому +2

    Amen i am waiting for my Kingdom husband to arrive, waiting on the Lord Jesus to make a way in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen 🙏 🙌 ✨️ ❤️

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  20 днів тому

      Amen sis, He will make a way! I’m praying for you and him🩷🙏🏻

  • @NancySharapata
    @NancySharapata 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much. You are truly amazing for all that you do

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  16 днів тому

      You are the sweetest🩷, you are so welcome, I am so blessed to get to do what I do!

  • @jhamilton1007
    @jhamilton1007 2 місяці тому +2

    It's actually harder for us men to find a Godly woman.

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +1

      I believe it can be hard on both sides! I sympathize believe me!

  • @AK-mf2up
    @AK-mf2up 2 місяці тому

    Amen and Amen sister. Your videos are great Daniella. I have the exact mindset as you do. Unfortunately even christians mock our way of thinking and they have subscribed to the worldy ways of living and being such being a go getter and life is what you make it mentality. But what about God I ask? His plan and will? Some Christians' answer is that we are co creators with God. Truth is we are co-operators.
    Serious talk aside, I am intrigued by the bowl of garlic as decor. Never thought of it. Nice

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  20 днів тому

      Yes exactly, what about God and His plan/will! lol the garlic bowl is my husbands touch 🩷 I’m so glad you are a sister with the same mindset - God bless you!

  • @yzma6142
    @yzma6142 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @queenriri9393
    @queenriri9393 2 місяці тому +1

    This is wonderful advise, thank you❤

  • @renewewers4094
    @renewewers4094 2 місяці тому +1

    Amen and amen and amen 🙏

  • @jessicaritter1596
    @jessicaritter1596 2 місяці тому +2

    Heaven yea.

  • @kevindavis4709
    @kevindavis4709 2 місяці тому +1

    May I add something here. I can’t speak for other fellas maybe some guys may relate. Nothing wrong with a cute woman of God. But her personality is the main attraction meaning. How does she act can you agree together work things out without a blame game name calling game? Will she show mercy toward him as the Godly man does for her? How much patients do they have for each other says a whole lot right there in itself. I can name allot of things these is the importance surface level requirements in a relationship. Problem with Christianity they tell people get married. Don’t say how to stay married though.

  • @nancywelander2877
    @nancywelander2877 2 місяці тому +2

    I have been told I already know my Boaz . And I don't know who it could be.

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +1

      That’s exciting! I’d pray into that for sure!🩷

    • @nancywelander2877
      @nancywelander2877 2 місяці тому

      @@daniellashamarose there only one it might be but it makes no sense.

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      @@nancywelander2877You know who your Boaz is but don’t know him, yea .. that makes complete sense. Get out there and approach some men and make it happen. It should’ve been prioritized much earlier.

    • @nancywelander2877
      @nancywelander2877 2 місяці тому

      @Garrett799 reread what was said

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      @@nancywelander2877 I did, and it still sounds like a contradiction.

  • @josiesublett9490
    @josiesublett9490 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for the new video and I love it! Should I keep praying God to bring me a husband in his timeline everyday? I do have the desire to get married someday. How come Lord brings a husband to others in their late 20’s and 30’s? I am only 27 and never dated anyone and never went on a date. Will God bring me a special person? All of my friends are married.

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +4

      You are so welcome🫶🏻! God has an amazing plan for all his kids and every plan is unique, that’s why sometimes people have to wait longer. I met my husband at 30 after waiting around 10 years for him. I absolutely believe if you have the desire to be married God has someone special for you. As for praying for your future husband everyday, I did. I loved doing it and it made me feel so close to my husband even though we hadn’t met yet. I believe it is important to let Holy Spirit lead you in your prayers. I certainly don’t think it’s bad praying for your future husband everyday, and I think it is awesome to combat the plans of the enemy. Sometimes Holy Spirit would nudge me to pray for my husband and I just knew He was going through something at that time. Always be Spirit led. I hope that helps🩷

    • @josiesublett9490
      @josiesublett9490 2 місяці тому +1

      @ It did! Thank you so much for the responses.

    • @josiesublett9490
      @josiesublett9490 2 місяці тому

      How often are you going to make a new video? I love watching all of them!

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +1

      @@josiesublett9490 Right now I’m uploading a new video every Saturday around 10am🩷

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      Josie, 27?! It should’ve been prioritized at 18. Good grief, get out there and start approaching men. Men are retreating from relationships and for good reason. What on earth did you think would happen?

  • @luckyfriend82
    @luckyfriend82 2 місяці тому +3

    29 - I am exhausted in this area of life lol

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +4

      I hear you! I met my husband at 30, your person could be just around the corner🫶🏻

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 2 місяці тому

      Join the club. I still believe God can do anything.

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      Lucky and Danila, you’re exhausted?! Women have the options earlier on, use them! Stop complaining and get out there and approach some men. It smacks of laziness. Men are retreating from relationships and for good reason.

  • @isabellafiorito316
    @isabellafiorito316 2 місяці тому +1

    Amen!

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +1

      🙏🏻🙌🏻💕💕💕

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      I hope you get a second opinion, not this.

  • @GodsDaughter_89
    @GodsDaughter_89 6 днів тому

    So does this mean that you don't believe in the "drop the hanky" thing going around?

  • @josh58784
    @josh58784 2 місяці тому +6

    I wish there was good advice like this for men of God seeking a wife, its so complicated

    • @analuizadossantos9041
      @analuizadossantos9041 2 місяці тому +1

      Look at the Apply God's Word
      It's an youtube channel.
      Actually, I think there are two: Apply God's Word (AGW) and Apply God's Word for Men.
      And...most important
      Read Proverbs 😊

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 2 місяці тому +1

      There are videos for men seeking a Godly wife. Check out Mark Ballenger. Isaiah Saldivar. There's more. Google or UA-cam.

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +3

      I will be doing an advice video for men at some point, I’m sorry I’m still praying about it!

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      Josh, focus on your vision and drive, they will come. If they don’t, their loss. Don’t fret, enjoy watching them swim in delusion.

  • @jonesmorales-tu6kq
    @jonesmorales-tu6kq 29 днів тому +1

    Im 38 years old looking for a christian woman in .montreal Canada ❤

  • @Faithchannel45
    @Faithchannel45 2 місяці тому

    My ‘Christian’ wife divorced me just before we were about to plant a church, maybe these stories are way men don’t want marriage anymore

    • @fakadaapada
      @fakadaapada 2 місяці тому

      was she a 'born again virgin' type of a christian ?

    • @GodsDaughter_89
      @GodsDaughter_89 6 днів тому

      Don't grow weary my brother in Christ. Speak life not death into your life.

  • @joglynn602
    @joglynn602 8 днів тому

    The things is in our days women can’t take accountability weather godly or not most of them hide behind the bible I’ve had two in a row ment to be Christians god showed me they were both narcissists take take take and don’t want to meet you half way like normal godly couples just breadcrumb you fact 🙏🔥

  • @tonyperek7292
    @tonyperek7292 2 місяці тому +1

    Too many times women want men who make a lot of money first and far most above anything

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm a woman. I'd pick purpose over money. The brother I like isn't rich. Your trippin.

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +1

      I think that is a generalization of all women and I don’t think that’s really fair.
      These women put faith first and have class, they are women of purpose and follow the Lord, that is where their priorities are.

  • @maitlandsinalice
    @maitlandsinalice 2 місяці тому

    If you found the perfect loving providing man and he was an atheist would it matter?

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 2 місяці тому +1

      The Bible is clear to never marry an unbeliever. It won't work.

    • @cryptojihadi265
      @cryptojihadi265 2 місяці тому +1

      Never, ever do that.

  • @Audrey-k2h
    @Audrey-k2h 2 місяці тому

    Bc there are very few Godly men

  • @darnelljones6607
    @darnelljones6607 2 місяці тому +2

    I am a godly man I just can't find a woman

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      Join the club, but learn to live without. They brought it all on themselves. Rest brother.

    • @lilacscoffee9360
      @lilacscoffee9360 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Ranger1991If you are also a godly man, and you can't seem to find a godly woman, how do you suppose you might find one when you are discouraging and putting down Christian women in this comment section? If you have a negative view of women waiting on God for their husbands, or perhaps just a negative view of women in general, then how do you expect to be ready to receive the blessing of meeting a godly woman yourself?

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      @@lilacscoffee9360 I do not pretend to be perfect. I know the Rapture is near as well as chaos. It is not men’s job to find women, they can make themselves known. If they’d rather pursue a career, put off family, etc, then they weed themselves out. It’s not putting down, it’s telling the truth, something no one seems to want to tell them in favor of sparing their feelings. “Christian” women will know soon enough that without a man of their own, not even here will be safe, but they are strong and independent women now, so they want to defend themselves. If that is their wish, then they should not seek men’s help nor blame them for not offering it when it could harm them and/or their families for doing so.

    • @Ranger1991
      @Ranger1991 2 місяці тому

      @@lilacscoffee9360 Putting them down or telling them the truth?

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  28 днів тому +1

      Keep praying my friend. I will be praying that God opens your eyes to her in His perfect time. Do not lose hope!

  • @alejandrofigueroa6958
    @alejandrofigueroa6958 2 місяці тому

    You can't find. You can't test hearts. The wheat and the chaff grow together. God has to do the matching and I am 100% certain it will be someone you will dislike.
    And the stronger your faith is the more likely you will be matched an unbeliever by God. Check God's matchings in Scripture

    • @Elfling26
      @Elfling26 Місяць тому

      Sounds like you need to check scripture! The bibke is VERY CLEAR that believers shiuld NOT marry non Christians

    • @alejandrofigueroa6958
      @alejandrofigueroa6958 Місяць тому

      @Elfling26 where?

  • @assyrianrelief
    @assyrianrelief 2 місяці тому +2

    I think you shouldn’t be giving false hope to Christian women. I know MANY middle aged and older Christian women who never got married when they desired to. They prayed, they did all the right things snd still never got married. In reality many Christian women won’t get married no matter how hard they hope and pray. Just like not everyone gets healed after being prayed for. So please STOP the false hope and be more realistic or practical.

    • @daniellashamarose
      @daniellashamarose  2 місяці тому +11

      There is enough discouragement in the world, God has asked me to bring encouragement. There is no false hope when you are a believer, and hope deferred makes the heart sick. I truly believe for those that love God, if it is a desire of their heart, He has marriage for them. We do not know the hearts of people, but God does. He has a perfect timing for everything and just because those women you speak of haven’t met anyone yet does not mean they will never meet anyone - unless maybe they believe that to be true. Faith is what moves mountains. I’m sorry you disagree but I answer to God, and if he’s asked me to bring the encouragement and strengthen people’s faith - that’s what I’m going to do! God bless, thank you for your comment.

    • @johncannady9255
      @johncannady9255 2 місяці тому +4

      Hebrews 11:1 Now Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. Romans 15:13 Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope through the power of the Holy ghost.
      Isaiah 26:3 thou wilt keep him in perfect peace who's mind is stayed on thee because he trusteth in thee.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 2 місяці тому +5

      I believe God is the God of the impossible.