The Real Reason Why BTS Never Had A Real Dating Scandal

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  • @choombada8324
    @choombada8324 2 роки тому +8665

    Let's be honest, dating shouldn't really be considered a scandal in the first place

  • @carmenhernandez1508
    @carmenhernandez1508 2 роки тому +5974

    I’m here for their music. If they’re dating, get married or have children I will still support them.

    • @multi.kpopppp9708
      @multi.kpopppp9708 2 роки тому +37

      Same

    • @nishilee3029
      @nishilee3029 2 роки тому +51

      I'd be happy if they are happy

    • @MBella123
      @MBella123 2 роки тому +15

      Preach!!

    • @moonchild6583
      @moonchild6583 2 роки тому +20

      You are the BEST person in the world

    • @WE__BTS
      @WE__BTS 2 роки тому +5

      Why are you following this manti channel if you are ARMY??

  • @heider9779
    @heider9779 2 роки тому +4381

    "We can date anyone tf we want. We ain't kids." Jessi queen

    • @Jiguvirus51
      @Jiguvirus51 2 роки тому +58

      So true

    • @himaririku9254
      @himaririku9254 2 роки тому +8

      G DRAGON KING

    • @whatever_itis
      @whatever_itis 2 роки тому

      @JJK The Oligarch. MingYu The Louvre Work Of Art. Ok? No one wants your Jennie lol

    • @heider9779
      @heider9779 2 роки тому +1

      @JJK The Oligarch. MingYu The Louvre Work Of Art. lmao shut up and stop embarrassing yourself. Do you think g dragon doesn't smoke?? literally half of the industry does. lemme break it to you delulu kiddo.

    • @heider9779
      @heider9779 2 роки тому +82

      @@himaririku9254 its really funny how people have started speculating that gdragon and jennie have broken up when they weren't even confirmed to be dating in the first place. Also, it's STILL not confirmed if jennie and V are dating. When V was on jeju, jennie was in newyork with ORANGE HAIR. And there are a lot of proofs for the pic to be edited. Even if they were dating, stay your ugly nose out of it y,all.

  • @o.o5388
    @o.o5388 2 роки тому +3133

    Literally when fans get too much protective to the idols , I get a major second hand embarassment 💀

    • @Rosieee65
      @Rosieee65 2 роки тому +15

      Fr

    • @chogiwhy7472
      @chogiwhy7472 2 роки тому +18

      Yes! I can relate 💀

    • @jendeug3011
      @jendeug3011 2 роки тому +28

      Frrr like it’s their personal life lmfao

    • @armoaeongene5163
      @armoaeongene5163 2 роки тому +38

      I also get ashamed of this reason and always cry wondering if bts thinks that all the armys think the same. I want to yell on top of my voice and scream that we army really don't care about dating.

    • @ayohitmanbang9910
      @ayohitmanbang9910 2 роки тому +5

      Yeah same

  • @ellysan08
    @ellysan08 2 роки тому +1734

    Let me be honest here, reading comments from the real fans makes me feel so proud of being a part of a great fanbase and stanning such great idols.

    • @coco_1002
      @coco_1002 2 роки тому +22

      My thoughts :)
      I mean, there will always be these crazy toxic people but I believe that most of the fandom are mature people who´d be only happy for their idols to date and get married. Of course, I´m curious and kinda hope that they are seeing someone in private since they are in their prime.
      But it´s neither my nor someone else´s business (who are not their family and friends). True fans will only support their idols 💜

    • @ellysan08
      @ellysan08 2 роки тому +5

      @@coco_1002 totally agreed🫶🏼💎

    • @cheese-wg7qw
      @cheese-wg7qw 2 роки тому

      The r racist

    • @_ak4zaas
      @_ak4zaas 8 місяців тому

      frrr same

    • @Theemosthigh1
      @Theemosthigh1 4 місяці тому

      Exodus 20:4-5 "You must not make for yourselves an idol that looks like anything in the sky above or on the earth below or in the water below the land." "You must not worship or serve any idol, because I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God.

  • @baby.blue_b
    @baby.blue_b 2 роки тому +2287

    To be honest, whether they are in a relationship or not we should respect and accept them. Its their own life anyways and we are just fans who engage in their shows and music. Also, something I am scared about though if they ever had a dating "scandal" or some sort is that delulus thinking they own the members will do such bad things like the cut for kookie thing before..and I bet that person whose BTS is dating might get a lot of HATE.

    • @mihaelj6880
      @mihaelj6880 2 роки тому +65

      The only time dating should be concidered a scandal would be like cheating and toxic relationships probably. IDK why everyone associates the word scandal with every single dating case or rumor.

    • @jisoo_is_my_life5796
      @jisoo_is_my_life5796 2 роки тому +31

      We should have no problem if they date because it's their personal life

    • @Anonymous-iu5hh
      @Anonymous-iu5hh 2 роки тому +22

      It’s sadly not even a might they WILL get hate, there’s too many delusional fans

    • @himaririku9254
      @himaririku9254 2 роки тому +1

      G DRAGON THE KING

    • @epiphanyx426
      @epiphanyx426 2 роки тому +13

      Agreed! This video shall be an eye opener to those toxic fans that they're no different from what they dispise called saseng fans. The boys shall be respected not obsessed with. After all, they're still human beings who needs privacy and shall not be striped from they're personal life just because they're idols.

  • @jaxxo.397
    @jaxxo.397 2 роки тому +462

    Perhaps, we should normalize NOT calling the act of grown, consenting people being together a "scandal." It really does disservice to the word.

    • @cecileroy557
      @cecileroy557 5 місяців тому +2

      In pretty much the rest of the world no one cares if "idols"/singers/bands are dating someone. 😉

  • @teumoangene2847
    @teumoangene2847 2 роки тому +996

    More than a decade of being a kpop fan, and I still don't get why dating is a "scandal"...

    • @roses_are_rosee6676
      @roses_are_rosee6676 2 роки тому +10

      There’s actually a story behind that
      but yea it’s not a scandal

    • @teumoangene2847
      @teumoangene2847 2 роки тому +15

      @@roses_are_rosee6676 yeah I know the story but still..

    • @miakayuki1068
      @miakayuki1068 2 роки тому +2

      Maybe your a baby kpopfan. Because you dont know the REAL reason why dating is banned in kpop groups. I'm a kpop fan since Wonder Girls era. This happened to wonder girls one get inlove and married and the whole group fall down and they are just starting to be on top and worldwide when this happen. So kpop agency now avoided that to happen again. The very first kpop group sensation fall down because of lovelife priorities. And because of dating the whole group can be affected. If one member left the group because for example get pregnant or married or choose they love life first than the whole group will fall. In real life you can't prioritize both career and love life!, you'll need to choose. And they know it, since they prioritize their career first because it's not an opportunity that not anyone can have, one wrong move can affect the whole members, company, the employees not only the one dating, so they are very careful. And dont compare korean to west entertainment because they are very different. You can blame the agency too, because they can set up rules because they invest big amount of money to this idols, it's their right to have rules. And these idols accepted it. And what the different to BTS is that they have discipline the reason why they successful kpop group.

    • @teumoangene2847
      @teumoangene2847 2 роки тому +12

      @UC4wPwTH2Grv85MJfwu81nGA I'm not a baby fan babe (well compare to you maybe) and I don't compare them to western artists. But I still believe dating should not be a scandal.

    • @hllllo7182
      @hllllo7182 2 роки тому +2

      @@roses_are_rosee6676 can i please know that 'story'?

  • @etherealgirl394
    @etherealgirl394 2 роки тому +1102

    please, when the day comes, let's protect them from malicious comments and let's wish them and their partners the best... let's not make things any harder than they already are. they have the right to date whoever they want.

    • @megami.x
      @megami.x 2 роки тому +13

      it might start with Taehyung! I’m not really a fan of Jennie but if it ends up being true I will still support them ofc. It could also be two friends hanging out, who knows.

    • @etherealgirl394
      @etherealgirl394 2 роки тому +12

      ​@@megami.x apparently they edited the photo and it's fake, but I agree, if it was real we will be there for them... people can get so cruel behind a screen.

    • @himaririku9254
      @himaririku9254 2 роки тому

      G DRAGON KING

    • @mellowedeye
      @mellowedeye 2 роки тому +1

      @@megami.x it's an edit, but yeah if on some planet they ever were to date people should be supportive, but it also shouln't be our place to assume

    • @megami.x
      @megami.x 2 роки тому +8

      @@mellowedeye Edit confirmed by who though? As far as I know neither company has made an official statement yet

  • @janelleslayss
    @janelleslayss 2 роки тому +385

    If you call dating a scandal, then you can’t date, if others can’t.

    • @l0vet075
      @l0vet075 2 роки тому +9

      In knetz eye's dating is scandal. You can learn why they called dating is scandal.

  • @Charlotte-pk5yf
    @Charlotte-pk5yf 2 роки тому +1483

    is it just me or why am I so freaking exited to see them with a partner someday soon?

    • @nenadcacic3105
      @nenadcacic3105 2 роки тому +6

      She is not his tattoo artist and however she is dating her actual boyfriend NOT Junkook don't have NOT girlfriend JK has nothing to do with her,No, you just seem to ignore the countless proof that was put out to the public
      You sound just like the antis that couldn’t accept that they were wrong about the whole thing, or why else would you try so hard to act like they were dating. They weren’t, she even specified that they didn’t hook up, since people were taking it in every direction, and that should be that. It’s not a big deal to keep bringing it back, when we’ve already known what happened. If they would’ve had even a fling, sasaengs would’ve probably already leaked something else, sadly. There was nothing else to it thonews is fake Because some ‘fans’ are trying to use this for fan wars and to hurt him. There’s no point spreading false information and a fake rumour that was already denied, if they said they’re nothing then that’s that and no one should be trying to prove the opposite and calling him a liar.She’s not his gf wtf are you on about. “why composers are to close to artists” are you hearing yourself. Also not every girl close or sitting next to Stop with this gossip! rumors about that's not even 100% true and it's affecting their social statusnews is fake Because some ‘fans’ are trying to use this for fan wars and to hurt him. There’s no point spreading false information and a fake rumour that was already denied, if they said they’re nothing then that’s that and no one should be trying to prove the opposite and calling him a liar.She’s not his gf wtf are you on about. “why composers are to close to artists” are you hearing yourself. Also not every girl close or sitting next to Stop with this gossip! rumors about that's not even 100% true and it's affecting their social statusnews is fake Because some ‘fans’ are trying to use this for fan wars and to hurt him. There’s no point spreading false information and a fake rumour that was already denied, if they said they’re nothing then that’s that and no one should be trying to prove the opposite and calling him a liar.She’s not his gf wtf are you on about. “why composers are to close to artists” are you hearing yourself. Also not every girl close or sitting next to Stop with this gossip! rumors about that's not even 100% true and it's affecting their social statusnews is fake Because some ‘fans’ are trying to use this for fan wars and to hurt him. There’s no point spreading false information and a fake rumour that was already denied, if they said they’re nothing then that’s that and no one should be trying to prove the opposite and calling him a liar.She’s not his gf wtf are you on about. “why composers are to close to artists” are you hearing yourself. Also not every girl close or sitting next to Stop with this gossip! rumors about that's not even 100% true and it's affecting their social statusnews is fake Because some ‘fans’ are trying to use this for fan wars and to hurt him. There’s no point spreading false information and a fake rumour that was already denied, if they said they’re nothing then that’s that and no one should be trying to prove the opposite and calling him a liar.She’s not his gf wtf are you on about. “why composers are to close to artists” are you hearing yourself. Also not every girl close or sitting next to Stop with this gossip! rumors about that's not even 100% true and it's affecting their social status NOT caught NOT dating JK has nothing to do with her, she already said last year that they weren’t in touch after the rumors, and he didn’t even go back to the tattoo shop to touch-up his tattoosHi. I’m here to FINALLY announce to people, specially j/k antis, that mj has a new boyfriend and of course, is not j/k. Her and her bf got couple tattoos and the tattooist who did them confirmed it.
      Here i share mj’s hand before and the post of hers and his bf’s hand.

    • @joywhitney1484
      @joywhitney1484 2 роки тому +9

      same.😊

    • @thatbtsfan8784
      @thatbtsfan8784 2 роки тому

      ??

    • @Rosie-rt5tm
      @Rosie-rt5tm 2 роки тому +78

      @@nenadcacic3105 that's not her point tho. You just wasted your time typing that😂

    • @hydexangel4937
      @hydexangel4937 2 роки тому +3

      samee

  • @Sea_witch_
    @Sea_witch_ 2 роки тому +751

    As a fan, living in denial & trying to do damage control is worse, where you could just be silent, respect, not engage and move on is the best and most mature way to show love and support to the artists you stan. Let's remember that we become an artist's fan for precisely that, the artistry, the rest is a plus. And we remain as fans.
    Denying gossip with posts claiming X member to only like men (if the gossip is related to a woman) is not only internalized misogyny, but also adds more fuel to the fire.

    • @Sea_witch_
      @Sea_witch_ 2 роки тому +29

      On that last part I wanna make it clear that this is only related to chaotic drama on twitter, where I read so many posts saying "He would never date those *gly women, have you seen how he behaves with JK/Jin/etc???"
      I myself belong to the LGBTQ+ community and feel deeply hurt when people online token stan LGBTQ+ to "save" their artist from gossip.

    • @HopeeInk
      @HopeeInk 2 роки тому +6

      Exactly! You gonna defend them against a mob of Knetz that are known to be misogynistic and homophobic, by telling them this dating rumor ain’t real because he’s gay?? I never understood this thought process.

    • @HopeeInk
      @HopeeInk 2 роки тому +2

      Btw I’m not saying that all Koreans are like that, but look who they elected to their president and what he said to even get to this place, yees it was a tight race, but enough people voted a radical populist, so it’s not far fetched to assume that many share his views.

    • @nenadcacic3105
      @nenadcacic3105 Рік тому +1

      @@Sea_witch_ Stop with the fake dating rumors is from 2019 and Bighit and Jungkook both denied she is not not his girlfriendThey are not a couple she has a boyfriend and It is not Jungkook has nothing to do with they said that someone else jungkook was never with her, and she has a boyfriend that has actual couple tattoos with her
      Jungkookaren’t couple tattoos, a lot of people got those same ones done
      Jungkook never dated her, and she has a boyfriend NOT Jungkook

    • @nenadcacic3105
      @nenadcacic3105 Рік тому +1

      @@Sea_witch_ Stop with the fake dating rumors is from 2019 and Bighit and Jungkook both denied she is not not his girlfriend They are not a couple she has a boyfriend and It is not Jungkook has nothing to do They made it clear that they are not dating… they said that someone else Jungkook was never with her, and she has a boyfriend that has actual couple tattoos with her
      Jungkook aren’t couple tattoos, a lot of people got those same ones done
      Jungkook never dated her, and she has a boyfriend NOT Jungkook
      She said that Jungkook and her were nothing, and that they weren’t in contact ever since the rumors. She even said that he never went back to touch-up his tattoos. He started going to another tattoo shop She’s had a boyfriend, for awhile, and it was never JK
      His song was clearly about himself, Idk how anybody Jungkook has nothing to do with her, she already said last year that they weren’t in touch after the rumors, and he didn’t even go back to the tattoo shop to touch-up his tattoos
      She also said that she didn’t like him, so there was never any romance
      It was just blown out of propornews is fake Because some ‘fans’ are trying to use this for fan wars and to hurt him. There’s no point spreading false information and a fake rumour that was already denied, if they said they’re nothing then that’s that and no one should be trying to prove the opposite and calling him a liar.She’s not his gf wtf are you on about. “why composers are to close to artists” are you hearing yourself. Also not every girl close or sitting next to Stop with this gossip! rumors about that's not even 100% true and it's affecting their social statusnews is fake Because some ‘fans’ are trying to use this for fan wars and to hurt him. There’s no point spreading false information and a fake rumour that was already denied, if they said they’re nothing then that’s that and no one should be trying to prove the opposite and calling him a liar.She’s not his gf wtf are you on about. “why composers are to close to artists” are you hearing yourself. Also not every girl close or sitting next to Stop with this gossip! rumors about that's not even 100% true and it's affecting

  • @KritiSaxena-gl8lr
    @KritiSaxena-gl8lr 5 місяців тому +105

    To be honest, when one of the BTS member gets officially married or is confirmed 100% dating, it will be one of the best days of my life😌😌😌 and I am sure that there are many more fans like me who will agree because we will support them no matter what💜💜💜
    OMG 😱 thank u soooooo much guys this is my first time getting this many likes😊😊😊 Borahae💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @anshisachan6377
    @anshisachan6377 2 роки тому +484

    it really bring tears to my eyes that BTS will possibly never publicly announce their relationships just because of some toxic and delelulu fans . I get so happy when i think about BTS Members having partners and having a family where they can find peace in their loved ones embrace. But its just breaks my heart that army who really love and appreciate them will never get to know about BTS's better half and respect them for making our boys happy. I Just really they hope they find or have ssomeone who they can love and spend their life happily without any hindrance by their so called toxic fans.

    • @potstickers2883
      @potstickers2883 2 роки тому +20

      Right!? Being an idol means going through all kinds of sacrificing, hardships, lack of privacy, etc. knowing that they have someone who really brightens their day should be good news to real fans. I hope they all have someone they can rely on, whether it’s someone their dating or not.

    • @gamorapotter1643
      @gamorapotter1643 2 роки тому +6

      It's not really some when it comes to army's it's actually more like 50 percent go look at the comment section of v "flirting " with rodrigo it's almost annoying how childish they are.

    • @jkistrusfratedcauseofword2008
      @jkistrusfratedcauseofword2008 2 роки тому

      Yep

    • @verkyjeonsel
      @verkyjeonsel 2 роки тому +5

      @@gamorapotter1643 unfortunately BTS attracted a lot of kinds to the fandom in last years. Like literally kindergarten kids are listening to them so the medium age of a fan is now lower than it was before :/

    • @iraidushka
      @iraidushka Рік тому +1

      @@verkyjeonselYou’ll be surprised how many grown up women and men shipping k-pop idols and insist are definitely involved in homosexual relationships. There are a LOT of mature ass people as old as 70 who promulgate romantic relationships between idols.

  • @pwqdon
    @pwqdon 2 роки тому +650

    remember the "cut for kookie" hashtag?
    it happend when jk was in the controversy with the tattoo artist. fans were cutting themselves like it will help in solving the situation...
    it was very scary...
    IM NOT TRYING TO MAKE ARMYS LOOK LIKE BAD GUYS PLS YALL-
    i swear to god yall. it happend. its on google, yt, twitter. dont call me a liar.

    • @baby.blue_b
      @baby.blue_b 2 роки тому +58

      Omg yes that one..it was so scary dude

    • @sskdkpop468
      @sskdkpop468 2 роки тому +97

      .........they did WHAT

    • @exp-io853
      @exp-io853 2 роки тому +29

      Wtf did they do-

    • @exp-io853
      @exp-io853 2 роки тому +20

      How dod i nor evem know this. Oh but I'm glad i didn't witness any of it

    • @pwqdon
      @pwqdon 2 роки тому +36

      @@exp-io853 i saw few posts.... pretty disturbing..

  • @Zoxeo
    @Zoxeo 2 роки тому +164

    How can you expect artists to sing about love if you don't allow them to experience it ? One of the greatest hypocrisy of kpop imo.

    • @seulgislove
      @seulgislove 2 роки тому +11

      ITS SO IRONIC LIKE WTFFF..

    • @Zoxeo
      @Zoxeo 2 роки тому +15

      @@seulgislove It really is... Same thing with singing about loving yourself when they're constantly judged on their appearance both by the public and their companies etc. I love Kpop but sometimes this industry takes the piss

    • @Skogarmaor110
      @Skogarmaor110 2 роки тому +1

      Then don't expect artists to sing abt love-

  • @kuku0113
    @kuku0113 2 роки тому +210

    The day BTS members come out with their significant others to the fandom it would be a day of fandom cleanse which is much needed

    • @yoongiloml
      @yoongiloml 2 роки тому +22

      The fandom is already in cleansing process from the holy trinity,
      dynamite
      butter
      permission to dance

    • @rikhmjustsomeguywithmousta4971
      @rikhmjustsomeguywithmousta4971 2 роки тому +8

      @@yoongiloml agree the fake fans are leaving now

    • @FGest.07
      @FGest.07 2 роки тому +16

      @@rikhmjustsomeguywithmousta4971 just because fans does not like a song they ate automatically "fake fans"?
      Do fans HAVE to like all the songs a group releases to be called true fans?

    • @hllllo7182
      @hllllo7182 2 роки тому +1

      @@FGest.07 i dont think they meant that, it's the amount of people who said BTS are getting too westernised and aren't making real music anymore...

    • @mikaelaw9983
      @mikaelaw9983 9 місяців тому +2

      Eh, my friends and I don't like these songs and some of us have been armys since their early days. We just like more hip hop and not poppy, that's all. We're still HUGE fans. We just don't go out of our way to listen to their English pop songs. In my dance studio, I danced to Dynamite and Permission to Dance because I'm not some obnoxious hater who'd pull a Karen by skipping my dance classes because of a few pop songs. Also, they still make hip hop songs. Their latest ones (Run BTS, Di-sease) are heavily hip hop@@yoongiloml

  • @scarachuu
    @scarachuu 2 роки тому +279

    It's so pathetic how some fans react and try to find every reason to prove their favorite idols are single. Honestly everyone should have the right to love and just because an idol or artist is in a relationship doesn't mean their fans don't mean anything to them anymore.

    • @dianamasters687
      @dianamasters687 2 роки тому +5

      Exactly! It’s just that the relationship fans have with the idols is different. It’s still special but it isn’t the same as the relationship between them and their real life partner. It’s honestly heart breaking that the members of BTS probably can’t ever reveal their partner to the army when they have one because their partner would risk being in actual danger from the toxic fans. I really wouldn’t even describe them as fans.. more like obsessive stalkers.

  • @kirabealer7623
    @kirabealer7623 Рік тому +104

    I WANT them to confirm that they're in a relationship because we need the fandom cleanse.

    • @Z5Z5Z5
      @Z5Z5Z5 9 місяців тому +5

      i fear for people hurting themselves. so I take cleanse in a different way than you meant it

  • @WhippedForJeonJungkook
    @WhippedForJeonJungkook 2 роки тому +177

    BTS are very well protected from any major dating scandal by their company and all that surround them. They do and have dated, it's naïve and unrealistic to think otherwise but you will never hear about any of that unless and when they reveal it themselves. Everything is kept well hidden & private whilst they still have successful careers as idols because of the obsessive fanbase

  • @jessicahergz5171
    @jessicahergz5171 2 роки тому +113

    I don’t get why some “fans” get upset when K-pop artists date. I’m a fan of artists because of their music, talent and performances, I don’t care who they choose to date or be involved with romantically.

  • @anabhousen7159
    @anabhousen7159 2 роки тому +43

    they need to stop the whole "army is my girlfriend" narrative because it's dangerous. never in my life would I think dating could be a scandal.

  • @beyourself9032
    @beyourself9032 2 роки тому +65

    If you're someone who would get jealous if BTS are dating, you have to be either :
    1) a seven year old
    2) someone who has a problem

    • @BTSbaby_army
      @BTSbaby_army 5 місяців тому +2

      What's even the point of getting jealous
      It's not like these fans can have them as theirs or anything 😂😂

    • @aesthetiphile_973
      @aesthetiphile_973 3 місяці тому +1

      @@BTSbaby_army exactly they aint marrying you

    • @BTSbaby_army
      @BTSbaby_army 3 місяці тому +1

      @@aesthetiphile_973 😂

  • @sourjellies
    @sourjellies 2 роки тому +96

    It’s ridiculously embarrassing how ‘fans’ react to dating rumours 😭 like dating is a normal thing that most people will do at some point in their life

    • @Iambillianire1111
      @Iambillianire1111 8 місяців тому +1

      Normal people date but they are not normal 😂

    • @CheriS33
      @CheriS33 5 місяців тому

      @@Iambillianire1111 They're 100% NORMAL. It's the crazed stalkers who are not normal.

  • @crystalsnow1138
    @crystalsnow1138 2 роки тому +81

    Dating should never be a scandal. If they don't want to do date fine. If they do want to date in private or publicly fine. They are grown men, let them do what they please with their love lives. I'm 34 but even when I had childhood crushes on celebrities I never cared who they dated or married, it's none of my business. All I cared about was their health and happiness.

  • @beauregarden
    @beauregarden 2 роки тому +422

    As someone who's been here a long ass time, this is a two-way street between the company and the fans.
    Fans: Being a fan is exciting. There's a shared consciousness. You get to know your idol and you feel like they're your friends, or more. This can feel like a two way relationship; you start to feel that you are owed certain behaviours or things from idols because you're such a loyal fan and you've given over so much money and time to support them.
    Companies: well, you want to turn a profit, right. So you give as much of the idol away as you can. Reems of backstage footage, fansign events, fanservice at every corner. Anything to make them as likeable as possible. You have to optimize your product so you tell the idols to act a certain way, look a certain way, anything that'll squeeze the fans for cash.
    The thing is, in between the fans and the company are the idols. Who have thoughts and feelings and deserve to be treated as people, not products.
    I'm not saying no companies or fans respect idols as people, but some companies and fans feed off each other in a negative way that makes it impossible for idols to date without backlash. Because they are seen as both too close and too distant to be treated like actual people.

    • @The_sass_bean
      @The_sass_bean 2 роки тому +13

      Very true and exact the korean media is also responsible for this

    • @LiveforHM
      @LiveforHM 2 роки тому +13

      Also known as a parasocial relationship. Online live streamers face the same issue.

    • @neelimachebolu8344
      @neelimachebolu8344 2 роки тому +13

      I totally agree with you .In fact, fans stopped loving the music produced by the artists and start concentrating on their looks..moreover, it looks like big hit entertainment has squeezed all the talent from one group..so they now want to make business from other groups .They exposed their idols to fans so much that people actually started thinking that they are really with them..online stremings and platforms like instagram made it even worse. There are lots of fake accounts on Instagram on the members name and neither instagram as a co nor BTS as group have taken any action. Now the situation is that BTS has become their entity..they own the members and everyone wants to marry them.In this situation one member dating rumors are so dangerous for the person they want to date that these guys cannot handle.. And honestly speaking even those fans who have been with these groups for 10years, won't they feel betrayed??? This is a practical situation..The fandom was created to earn money, but the losers are the members and their fans..No one will be happy end of the day.

    • @makesmewannadie647
      @makesmewannadie647 Рік тому +1

      Also this is more spread in asia

    • @makesmewannadie647
      @makesmewannadie647 Рік тому +2

      In america artists are free musicians

  • @New_bunniezz
    @New_bunniezz 2 роки тому +64

    I wouldnt really mind if HYBE paid dispatch for all such things . The unnecessary hate that BTS and people associated with BTS in any way get is very overwhelming and traumatizing. Those toxic fans wouldnt mind to cross the line and ruin people's carrier and life just for the sake of their own fantasies. Its the best that bts and dispatch work as a business team otherwise BTS wouldn't be able to forgive themselves even if its not their fault at all .

  • @Raya-pz6nb
    @Raya-pz6nb 2 роки тому +19

    dispatch : FINALLY A DATING NEWS !!!
    jungkook : *banana milk*

  • @Fourthflower7
    @Fourthflower7 2 роки тому +58

    Their private lives should be just that, private! Delusional fans think they have a chance to date idols is irrational and can be so dangerous with hate and social media. Sickening, I hope for a future where dating for idols is no longer considered a scandal or problem.

  • @moonlight_orange
    @moonlight_orange 2 роки тому +87

    I'm at the phase where I want to see the groups I stan get married --

    • @Skogarmaor110
      @Skogarmaor110 2 роки тому +2

      I wanna hear a dif opinion now-

    • @mikaelaw9983
      @mikaelaw9983 9 місяців тому +1

      omg yess same here!!! That would be one of the happiest news I'd hear

  • @kaede1_346
    @kaede1_346 Рік тому +16

    my favorite dispatch photo is jungkook getting banana milk on a scooter🤣

  • @Victoria-yo6pm
    @Victoria-yo6pm 2 роки тому +57

    Bro I will be so happy the day bts members come out and say “actually yeah I’m dating/have been” like, I want them to be happy. It’s sad that all these “army’s” claim to love and care for the boys and then go and threaten any person who’s involved in a dating rumor…it’s too much

    • @_fullsunzen25
      @_fullsunzen25 2 роки тому +9

      Couldn’t agree more, if you’re truly a fan of an idol, you should be happy when they are happy. I don’t understand any point of view of hate for an idol minding their own business and dating someone as long as they are happy

    • @victonoprin
      @victonoprin 2 роки тому

      they probably will never reveal their partners

    • @Victoria-yo6pm
      @Victoria-yo6pm 2 роки тому

      @@victonoprin I hope for their partner sales they don’t. I don’t trust some of armies that claim they’ll be chill. But that day will come and I’m hoping everyone will be supportive of them

  • @moamidzymy1809
    @moamidzymy1809 2 роки тому +104

    I'm not an Army but even I want to see BTS happy and at peace with whatever relationship decisions they make.👍😔

    • @Skogarmaor110
      @Skogarmaor110 2 роки тому +1

      I wanna hear a dif opinion now-

    • @Ainurkins
      @Ainurkins Рік тому +3

      They’re def dating, hooking up, and some of them are probably in a 3+ year long term relationship. There’s nooo way those 7 men aren’t socializing with the opposite sex - first off that’s unhealthy and not in a man’s nature. They’re obviously attracted to females. And I think they’re either with one of the dancers, translators and or other staff members. ☝🏿☺️

  • @WhippedForJeonJungkook
    @WhippedForJeonJungkook 2 роки тому +91

    It's about time they all start openly dating now without fearing backlash from some "fans". These are adult men who have a right to have relationships and love who they want. It's their own lives they are living. If you truly care about your idols & you support them, then you should only wish for their happiness always xoxo

    • @thatbtsfan8784
      @thatbtsfan8784 2 роки тому +3

      Exactly! They are grown men they should be free to date whoever they want

    • @asmrslol848
      @asmrslol848 2 роки тому

      Yeah, just those can be targeted if they get open about it. Life is is not rainbows and unicorns

  • @dianalest553
    @dianalest553 2 роки тому +30

    I honestly don't care if they are dating, I just like their music. Level of toxicity in kpop community must stop, they are humans like the rest of us, just let them be!

  • @suchanddrama
    @suchanddrama 2 роки тому +66

    How is dating even a scandal? They are human and they have all the rights to do all the normal human stuff.

    • @miakayuki1068
      @miakayuki1068 2 роки тому +2

      Maybe your a baby fan. Because you dont know the REAL reason why dating is banned in kpop groups. I'm a kpop fan since Wonder Girls era. This happened to wonder girls one get inlove and married and the whole group fall down and they are just starting to be on top and worldwide when this happen. So kpop agency now avoided that to happen again. The very first kpop group sensation fall down because of lovelife priorities. And because of dating the whole group can be affected. If one member left the group because for example get pregnant or married or choose they love life first than the whole group will fall. In real life you can't prioritize both career and love life!, you'll need to choose. And they know it, since they prioritize their career first because it's not an opportunity that not anyone can have, one wrong move can affect the whole members, company, the employees not only the one dating, so they are very careful. And dont compare korean to west entertainment because they are very different. You can't blame the agency too, because they can set up rules because they invest big amount of money to this idols, it's their right to have rules. And these idols accepted it. And what the different to BTS is that they have discipline the reason why they successful kpop group.

    • @suchanddrama
      @suchanddrama 2 роки тому +3

      @@miakayuki1068 no I know. I've been a fan since 2013. It's just doesn't seem right. They have all the right to be human. Just because they are idols doesn't mean they can't have a love life. I hope fans respect that.

  • @sarah311979
    @sarah311979 2 роки тому +141

    I just think hybe is smart and disguise gfs as staff they have a lot of areas for them in hybe too so they probably spend time in there. There's no way they aren't dating and when asked of they're dating Namjoons " we're too busy" has got more sarcastic over time 😂 I really hope they're dating and happy

    • @graziadimicenesagitter8932
      @graziadimicenesagitter8932 11 місяців тому +1

      age has nothing to do with it, even if they are not engaged, let them say it and don't let those who say untrue things speak and then we don't even know their sexuality, whether they want to get married, have children etc. ...

    • @CheriS33
      @CheriS33 5 місяців тому

      @@graziadimicenesagitter8932 That's exactly right... we don't know. So implying anything else is not only stalking, it's defamation of character. If you're a fan, why would you do that to them? It's Crazy!

    • @mdyounusalibiswas-k4u
      @mdyounusalibiswas-k4u 5 місяців тому

      They are surely dating(without jk😢😢

  • @o.o5388
    @o.o5388 2 роки тому +108

    I swear many Fans who says they don't care if the idols or especially BTS date anyone
    But then turnsout they are the one who is starting some stupid hastags to ruin their life
    As you can take example of #cutforkookie
    It's totally insane
    JUST NORMALIZE THE DATING THING IN KPOP

    • @SunhaJae
      @SunhaJae 2 роки тому

      What’s that?what happened?

    • @mihaelj6880
      @mihaelj6880 2 роки тому +1

      I don't know why they thought cutting themselves would do anything. It was pretty messed up. I remember seeing someone cut an entire sentence into their arm.

  • @MirueYT
    @MirueYT 2 роки тому +71

    Honestly, I’m tired of them evading the dating questions by saying “we’re busy” or “we date army” because realistically, the members express their want for a relationship. Hobi has said before in a vlive that he wanted to be in a relationship & wanted to do cutesy stuff with someone. And other members mention things like wanting to be fathers when they’re older or even the lyrics to some songs that are extremely intimate seem like they’re written FOR someone & not their fans. BTS love army of course, but they aint in love with us. I’m sure they’re dating or probably even married. At the end of the day, its not our business.

    • @pao94
      @pao94 2 роки тому +3

      honestly i'm tired of people like you, who believe that bts owes us something more than music, they don't owe us any explanation about their private life, they don't have why, they have always been private people and if you don't like it follow other idols

    • @dianamasters687
      @dianamasters687 2 роки тому +16

      @@pao94 I don’t think she meant they owe us an explanation I think she’s expressing that it’s quite sad they have to hide their relationships because of how some fans might react. They shouldn’t have to hide it but the reality is that they do have to because their partners would risk being in actual danger and receiving death threats from the toxic fans. I do wish BTS would stop saying things like “we date army” because although they mean that innocently, there are toxic armys who will hear that and take it to heart. It perpetuates the idea in their mind that they do have a chance with dating a member of BTS or that they have some type of authority over them and their relationships.

    • @graziadimicenesagitter8932
      @graziadimicenesagitter8932 11 місяців тому

      ​@@dianamasters687age has nothing to do with it, even if they are not engaged, let them say it and don't let those who say untrue things speak and then we don't even know their sexuality, whether they want to get married, have children etc. ...

    • @mikaelaw9983
      @mikaelaw9983 9 місяців тому +5

      Awww I remember watching Hobi's birthday live and he told his viewers that one of his goals for that year was to find someone special to him, and said something like "wouldn't that be truly amazing?". That made me emotional. I hope he found/finds his ultimate soulmate. I'd be so happy. There's also this interview where RM said he wants to be a dad. I was like awwww he'd be a wonderful dad. One of my only wishes for BTS is for them to be content with where they are with with their situation and who they are with.

  • @elyriabn3468
    @elyriabn3468 9 місяців тому +13

    As someone working in PR, here’s my theory: 1. They have a very competent, reliable PR team 2. They do have a contract with Dispatch to not covers any dating stories.

    • @INSIAGHT
      @INSIAGHT 3 місяці тому

      I'm an old ARMY but I have an question aren't kpop idols restricted by company rules of maintaining Idol image and private life so during station head live why he revealed of not having gf at the moment then said he felt an relief saying it according to my experience no Idol has done 😅 I know he has became straightforward still cus he was accused of lying 😔 so asking 🙌 like you work in PR so you must probably know ?!.

  • @amym7553
    @amym7553 2 роки тому +15

    We'll get major deep cleansing in the fandom the day they decide to share about their dating and relationship and i seriously want that

  • @yaryawoleng4154
    @yaryawoleng4154 2 роки тому +20

    Bts haven't had any dating scandals so far because bang sihyuk is a freaking genius stan hitman bang for clear skin

  • @gpgengen
    @gpgengen 2 роки тому +149

    I hope a day will come when BTS doesn't have to worry about revealing their dating lives, because a lot of us ARMYs would really love to know that they are loved, taken care of, and happy. ❤️

    • @crystalsnow1138
      @crystalsnow1138 2 роки тому +10

      But it's also understandable if they want to keep it private. The members of BTS might not mind sharing about their love lives but their partners might care being thrusted into the spotlight and might want to keep the relationship more private. Especially when first getting to know each other, who needs all the unwanted stress from public opinions. Personally I don't really care knowing too much about a person's dating history. I like when people just come out of nowhere and saying we're engaged what are you all going to do now. People can either support their relationship or act like babies and whine because it's not them, as if they had a chance in the first place.

    • @asmrslol848
      @asmrslol848 2 роки тому +1

      Only possible time that day would come is if they came out of the army and didn’t return to fame being idols

    • @barshana6231
      @barshana6231 11 місяців тому

      Exactly

    • @graziadimicenesagitter8932
      @graziadimicenesagitter8932 11 місяців тому

      ​@@asmrslol848what do you mean

  • @purpleworld2579
    @purpleworld2579 2 роки тому +218

    Even if they are/were/will be in relationship I would be very happy it's their life and whatever they'll do I'm still an army and will love them forever 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

    • @desmeisme
      @desmeisme 2 роки тому +4

      Same

    • @tired_af4730
      @tired_af4730 2 роки тому +6

      Yeah ARMYs let's promise no matter what they do we will never leave them and we will still love them and always be by their side 🤞💜

    • @taegiarestillsavage9561
      @taegiarestillsavage9561 2 роки тому +4

      I feel like deep down we as Army will be comforted knowing they mite have someone who loves them just like we do, someone who makes them happy just like we do.
      even if they are dating or will in the future true Army will support them and be happy for them 💜

    • @Skogarmaor110
      @Skogarmaor110 2 роки тому

      I wanna hear a dif opinion now-

  • @bubble313
    @bubble313 2 роки тому +33

    honestly i feel bad for them.. u really can't have it all i guess.. like imagine yourself in this situation where ur passion is sharing music and art but u also wanna have a personal life like everyone but can't.. if u finally found someone to love u should feel calm, happy and loved.. but here you'll feel anxious and stressed more bc of it..

    • @geeloxoxo2574
      @geeloxoxo2574 2 роки тому +3

      Yes like imagine the cost of being an idol. Especially idols as big as bts

  • @dasiahranelle
    @dasiahranelle 2 роки тому +18

    It’s so weird how in the Western Industry people are okay with relationships, but in Kpop, fans literally act like the idols don’t wanna have a life outside of music😐

    • @CheriS33
      @CheriS33 5 місяців тому +2

      I think it's because they [Korean fandom] see romantic love differently from how we in the West see it. It's normal to see people expressing and showing love in any form in the West, but I think the Korean culture sees it as more of a sexual thing and they are almost obsessed with being "pure". Their KDramas are very romantic but in their real life, they laugh at that as being just an unrealistic fantasy.

  • @lavenderbloom1805
    @lavenderbloom1805 2 роки тому +25

    jungkook getting the banana milk and dispatch trying to catch him will forever be iconic 😂

  • @fridaoropeza8965
    @fridaoropeza8965 2 роки тому +20

    people are crazy; if you actually loved and respected them you would want them to be happy, healthy and safe; so the people who get angry are out of their minds

  • @Kookeuphorics
    @Kookeuphorics 2 роки тому +76

    I can't understand why kookilet's news is including BTS everyday now.. not for hate tho... But still i m seeing each day one of the segment always mention BTS.. no hate anyone lol

    • @divakaranchandrahasan7249
      @divakaranchandrahasan7249 2 роки тому +12

      These vultures @ online bullies always post made-up controversies when there is a comeback near. She did the same to seventeen

    • @Kookeuphorics
      @Kookeuphorics 2 роки тому +6

      @@divakaranchandrahasan7249 dissapointed but not surprised lol 😀

    • @siisoopedit7655
      @siisoopedit7655 2 роки тому +19

      Because they're the hot talks of the town fam🥲
      U can see thousands of news every min popping here n there🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @ia8121
      @ia8121 2 роки тому +9

      I mean I believe it's obvious cause bts are the most known kpop group and you there are sadly many obsessed fans so making videos with BTS titles it will bring attention. Also the news from the previous video were recent so yeah...

    • @SocratesCrime
      @SocratesCrime 2 роки тому +6

      comeback's near what else 😒....not that clever

  • @Nicy123-45a
    @Nicy123-45a Рік тому +12

    Jungkook went to get banana milk😂😂

  • @rod1320
    @rod1320 2 роки тому +18

    Do people seriously think they can date BTS members? I mean, I joke about dating Namjoon as much as the next person but who the hell would I or anyone else be to throw a hissy fit over them dating? They’re grown men, they’re attractive, successful, charming and have everything going for them so why be upset over them being with someone? Let them be happy with whoever they please and be happy for them. They’re not dolls, we don’t own them.

  • @romyfactory8009
    @romyfactory8009 2 роки тому +18

    I'm watching Soothing stars currently so I think they have a very good PR team hahaha! But on a serious note I worked in the industry for some times and big celebrities who can travel easily are generally doing their things outside their country, it's easier and safer especially for Koreans to avoid some crazy sasaengs!

  • @hiiniidhee
    @hiiniidhee 2 роки тому +12

    no but it’s crazy how bts being as famous as they are with them gaining more popularity by the minute, they and bighit have managed to keep their personal life pretty discreet and that’s quite impressive.

  • @agustdrip1960
    @agustdrip1960 2 роки тому +11

    Dating should not be a scandal in the first place

  • @OddOlivia
    @OddOlivia 2 роки тому +8

    tbh even if they are dating i don’t think that they’d tell us about it until they are married or have a child but even then im sure we’d never find out their identities simply for privacy and safety reasons

  • @vii8140
    @vii8140 2 роки тому +18

    Yalll imagine not being able to date someone you like just because there are other people obsessed with you... idols are real people with real feelings. They dont deserve this. Imagine how awesome it would be if every idol could be public abiut their relationship. Imagine how many more collabs we would have.

    • @asmrslol848
      @asmrslol848 2 роки тому

      I know it’s hard to face this, but this is what they signed up for. They should’ve already known to some degree that this would happen. But it shows that even being amazing and good looking has its brutal downfalls.
      Though this is why I don’t really try to connect with the fandom, they’re so overall toxic and dangerous

  • @Hypagemie
    @Hypagemie 2 роки тому +19

    I mean they have not been ‘busy’ since 2019… so they had alot of time to date!
    But let them date who they want if they want they have been a group for a long time so… :/
    Why do psychopath’s harass the ‘women’ they are rumoured to be ‘dating’ its soo pathetic.

  • @RiotGrrrl10
    @RiotGrrrl10 2 роки тому +34

    I don't care if they are dating, I just want them to be happy. I don't think their love for army would be diminished if they fall in love with someone because it's a different kind of love. Some armys need to understand that they are not our boyfriends, and that doesn't mean that they don't love their fans, it's just a different kind of love that is non romantic, but it's love either way.

  • @eva5370
    @eva5370 2 роки тому +11

    I remember at a fansign a fan got Jhope’s number and a bunch of toxic fans made her shut down her social media. Even with the way fans treated Olivia Rodrigo simply because she was talking with V. Because of crazy delulus I believe bts relationships have been and will remain private. Which sucks because they’re grown men and should be free to date.

  • @kz97kj04
    @kz97kj04 2 роки тому +16

    No matter what we love BTS💜

  • @cameliab6946
    @cameliab6946 2 роки тому +11

    If there is any official dating...we need to support them and let them live their life. Either bighit allows them to date but it's extremely private ....so we will never know ...and thats great because considering the sasaengs and the toxic fans ...its just gonna be a messed up war

  • @winterbear2155
    @winterbear2155 4 місяці тому +3

    One reason could be, that all 7 of the members are VERY serious about their music career. They worked so hard for it and they maybe want to live in the moment before finding the one for them. They cant be alone for the rest of their lives now can they?? They should have their significant other with them at some point in life but maybe not right now, who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️
    But Its 2024 now and in 2023 Jungkook and Namjoon have admitted on livestreams recently that they arent dating or have gf's. And it was a pretty comfortable talk between army and the 2 of them, army asked them politely and they both denied pretty comfortably too, as if it was best friends talking which was so wholesome ngl.
    But lets be fr, we should be here for their music and their hardwork since 12 years now and counting. They have sacrificed so much in these 12 years, their youth, family time, privacy and much more so the least we could do for them as a payback is give them back the same amount of love or more through supporting their career, private life including dating and marriage, if they do find the one for them someday.

  • @sharonlahaye5803
    @sharonlahaye5803 Рік тому +5

    After 10 years, they should no longer hide the fact that they’re dating or in a relationship.

  • @Yoongisayshajima7
    @Yoongisayshajima7 2 роки тому +7

    I cant wait for them to announce that they are dating, married, having children etc... these guys deserve to be happy with the one they love the most! And i would be grateful to that person for making them happy.

  • @robinbragg5585
    @robinbragg5585 2 роки тому +9

    I really wish dating wasn't considered a scandal. We need to normalize dating for kpop idols. They are human beings and should be allowed to date without it garnering ridicule and hate toward them or their date. As for BTS, the guys have grown up almost fearing any public reaction to dating so yes they probably keep it very quiet and private.

  • @Allilolly1971
    @Allilolly1971 9 місяців тому +5

    No one else's business but theirs. I adore then, and I'm a proud Army. I love them as people and as performers nothing more, nothing less. Just because they are as famous as they are, they also have a right to a private life.

  • @Cierrastyles94
    @Cierrastyles94 9 місяців тому +3

    I’ve never really understood why idols can’t date, aren’t you supposed to love your idols for who they are and their talents no matter if they are available or not

  • @deathrockfairy1290
    @deathrockfairy1290 9 місяців тому +3

    The situation is undoubtedly a curious one when we take into account that other kmedia outlets also struggle to find dating info on BTS as much as Dispatch. If some or all members have girlfriends (which they deny) or date (which they don't exactly deny), they must be very lowkey, maybe by dating locals in lieu of fellow celebs or fans.
    Also, I find the argument if "BTS never date" to "BTS all date" to be ridiculously extreme. Reality tends to be somewhere in the middle. BTS are seven very different men. Some of them may date a lot. Some of them may struggle to find people they
    want to date. Some may have girlfriends. Some may date around. Some may be single. We don't know for sure. All we know is that they have said dating is difficult for them, and that is obviously true in more ways than one.
    I just hope for their happiness. That they find or already have found the love story each of them uniquely desires. And that one day fake fans will finally drop out of ARMY and leave BTS free to show their loves to the world without fear.

  • @lidisfernandez4595
    @lidisfernandez4595 2 роки тому +8

    I can't wait till share who they wanna be with! As an army for 8 years, nothing would make me happier than seeing them happy with who they want to be!
    I'll support them and protect them from toxic shits💜

  • @LovelyKissess
    @LovelyKissess 2 роки тому +18

    Idols and staff be having their secret relationships. And there's actually some good women out there that's not looking forward to ruining an idols life or gain fame from his name, so she's worth dating and loving without having to receive hate or career change. Kudos to those women who don't have big mouths 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @tobeeoh
    @tobeeoh 2 роки тому +5

    i've come across a shit ton of toxic stuff related to bts. it all got me so hurt, overwhelmed and pissed at and by the toxic fans that i couldnt even bear keeping up with them. leaving the ARMY fanbase was the best decision ever. seeing my idols being happy in an ig post and then suddenly seeing numerous toxic fans commenting bad stuff...all of it messed up my mental health so much..im literally tearing up as im writing these...
    i am now a carat. it's the fanbase of another famous boy group called seventeen. who're also under hybe now. it's honestly one of the most peaceful fandoms ever and i have no regrets...
    i do still love and support bts but thanks to the insane amount of toxicity in the fandom that has scared the shit out of me to the point where i cant even stan them in peace.

    • @patlollaharshitha2882
      @patlollaharshitha2882 Рік тому +2

      Same carat fandom is amazing.i am waiting for the day when bts announce their relationship so that our fandom will be cleansed

    • @tobeeoh
      @tobeeoh Рік тому

      @@patlollaharshitha2882 true. im very scared cuz of how toxic fans may react when they announce their relationsips. they threw garbage and got jungkook's friend fired when they saw her close to jungkook

    • @patlollaharshitha2882
      @patlollaharshitha2882 Рік тому +1

      @@tobeeoh actually I believe things will change if one member announce relationship .fans will support them mostly

  • @pieeeeeeee
    @pieeeeeeee 2 роки тому +21

    while I do agree fans are wrong in this they're not the only ones to blame, as you stated the company intentionally promoted them as "available" "husband/boyfriend material" (as the case for most kpop idols) and when you think about it, which one holds the bigger responsibility, the teenage fans who don't know any better, or the marketing experts and companies who know exactly what they're doing, I know they're just doing their jobs, but all Im saying is that both parties hold responsibility, even the idols hold responsibility for cooperating with it

    • @harshaliygadgil
      @harshaliygadgil 2 роки тому +2

      OMG!! Say it louder. I agree with you 💯 While I love and enjoy K-pop, i have understood that the industry is messed up as hell. There are so many problematic things. Coming back to your point, there are absolutely no boundaries whatsoever between a fan and an idol hence putting them on a pedestal. Also unpopular opinion but the "fanservice" as they call it is sooo problematic. It plays a significant role in making people delusional and obsessive. Majority of the people don't know where to stop crossing the line and this gives rise to such issues. The first thing that is needed in K-pop is clear boundaries between a fan and an idol. These idol girls and boys are fu***** human beings like all of us at the end of the day. That's a problem that unfortunately persists K society. I hope as they now get more exposure to outside world and more people visiting SK, they start becoming more welcoming and open. Even the whole Yoongi marry me became cringe AF after one point.

    • @The_sass_bean
      @The_sass_bean 2 роки тому

      Yaaaaassas so true

    • @poonamrathee1552
      @poonamrathee1552 2 роки тому +1

      While I do agree with your comment but I don't think so all the so called delusional 'fans' are teens. There are a good amount of adults as well who portray such toxic behavior and the whole blame goes to teen fangirls. Due to this a lot of teen armys get assumed as the typical 'crazy obsessed fangirl' even if we are just as respectful as the other elder fans. (Including me)

  • @Lizbeth1203
    @Lizbeth1203 2 роки тому +10

    This comment may not be well received, but I'm old, have nothing to lose & won't argue with anyone anyway. I think only a couple of the guys are completely straight & I believe that's a big part of why they haven't disclosed anything. One of the payoffs to being a big celebrity is that everyone will speculate & that's just part of it, but it's still none of our business unless they want it to be. Maybe that's part of why they needed some time away to work on themselves. I just hope they're all happy & have a loving partner to hold at the end of the day, & that ARMYs will support whoever that may be. They're grown men & deserve to be in happy adult relationships if they choose to be.

    • @ocean-mist
      @ocean-mist 2 роки тому +9

      As another old 'un with nothing to lose, I agree with you and appreciate your comments which typically don't go over well with fans! From what I've heard from various sources (and of course, we have to take it with a grain of salt), only one or two members at most are entirely straight. I used to wonder why, in addition to not seeing pics of them on dates, how come I don't see pics of them even hanging out with friends or doing mundane things like driving and shopping. I was told that the K-media won't out non-hetero relationships AND that the members' personal lives are all highly protected in SK. Their major fansites, especially in SK, Hong Kong, and Japan, know who's dating who, but they also protect them. In addition, the members themselves are careful about where and when they're seen and with who.
      It seems that now they're being more open during this "hiatus" or whatever it is we're calling it. I long for the day that these grown men can comfortably live their lives as openly as they choose!

  • @Yorbelize
    @Yorbelize 2 роки тому +6

    BTS has a large Fandom that can survive any dating news. There are many fans out there that just want the boys to be happy and don't see them as pets.
    Also I hate that companies promote this culture that idols need to appear available to fans, this promotes obsessive fans. At the end of day, I just want them to be happy and find good partners, both V and Jungkook have shared that they want to start a family when they leave the idol life and we should respect that when the day comes.

  • @kasilagsofiastem1-p730
    @kasilagsofiastem1-p730 2 роки тому +14

    I remembered being so sad abt wut happened to mj(the girl) toxic armies hating on her, toxic k armies throwing trash in front of her tattoo shop, and because of that she got fired. Till this day ive always wondered how i she right now, is she ok?

  • @wennelynparedes3244
    @wennelynparedes3244 9 місяців тому +1

    That joongkook buying banana (cutely riding his scooter) news is the most funny.. 😂😂😂so reporters what you get?

  • @Roseiee206
    @Roseiee206 2 роки тому +12

    Bro i really want them to get married and have kids.... Like come on they are humans too and they have worked so hard through all these years and they do deserve to be loved and cared by someone 🤌

  • @sublime_star
    @sublime_star 2 роки тому +6

    Dispatch has an agreement with BigHit to not release BTS photos/information!

  • @heathernile4700
    @heathernile4700 8 місяців тому +4

    At 30, I would expect the guys to date, marry, have kids ... if they wish to. It would be exciting to see baby bangtan crawling, walking, or dancing around😊💜🇺🇲💜

    • @Sisima13
      @Sisima13 8 місяців тому

      Unfortunately because of these toxic fans, BTS won’t be doing any of that until they retire from the industry 😢

  • @yung9149
    @yung9149 2 роки тому +3

    Sorry, I laughed so hard when the part Dispatch just witnessed JK goes to grocery store to buy some banana milk😂

  • @Devilangel-777
    @Devilangel-777 2 роки тому +3

    7:30 lmao it's best shit I've ever heard the way he riding his scottie too 😂

  • @dorothycelly
    @dorothycelly 2 роки тому +9

    Dating is not wrong. Stalking people however, is very wrong.

  • @MlRRAS
    @MlRRAS 2 роки тому +4

    jungkook getting banana milk makes me laugh so much cuz how cute he is on his scooter and how "innocent" he is

  • @lina7928
    @lina7928 2 роки тому +20

    HYBE is slow in responding to V and Jennie's rumor bcs they are trying to divert attention from Garam's bullying case... forgetting it affects V right ahead of the comeback
    They have gone too far!!

    • @karthu2179
      @karthu2179 2 роки тому +4

      Yea imagine trying to defend a bully and tarnish bts reputation even when they are the biggest money maker for hybe. Something is wrong with hybe

    • @ratangarg3821
      @ratangarg3821 2 роки тому +1

      Why would hybe respond to a fake photo

    • @moonlightest
      @moonlightest 2 роки тому +1

      @@ratangarg3821 bc its causing controversy- if its fake why not say its fake, bc delulus are believeing it

    • @MissP-yw5mx
      @MissP-yw5mx 2 роки тому

      @JJK The Oligarch. MingYu The Louvre Work Of Art. imagine Jennie leaving V! The finest boy in K-pop.. lol..

  • @2ndMostUnoriginalUsernameEver
    @2ndMostUnoriginalUsernameEver 2 роки тому +14

    i think hybe just bought dispatch, or at least are paying them. btw how is dispatch still operating, if they are doing illegal activity like spying?

  • @aestheticcat8976
    @aestheticcat8976 2 роки тому +21

    I'll never understand why certain fans feel a sense of entitlement towards knowing every single thing about idols personal life, they're adults most of them. If they wanted to date they would, we have numerous instances of this and then suddenly we hear they're going to be a parent. It's also gross to assume a person's s*xuality (shippers), imagine how uncomfortable they could be because I mean it's not like they're closed off from the world. I've learned idols have burner accounts, or fake ones so they're aware.

  • @Tanya-fk8ff
    @Tanya-fk8ff 5 місяців тому +4

    If one of them comes out to be married i wouldn't even be shocked. It's their life 🤷🏻‍♀️ none of my business. And being a fan shouldn't I be happy that they're happy and have a life of their own.

  • @princey2637
    @princey2637 2 роки тому +11

    when i wasn't an army i used to think that bts has alot of fans but when i entered fandom then i actually realised that there are like 60%of people who love them as their boyfriends ,rest of the people are actually fans sad that this fandom has soooo many toxic stans,saesangs which really thinks that they will marry their idols i mean u know i thought bts has fans like how ariana, selena,harry styles has but because of kpop having dating ban and kpop making idols dedicated to fans there are less fans and more toxic obsessed stans its disgusting but its okay bts has alot of real fans too we real armies will love them till our last breath even after their marriage,kids we loved them and will keep loving them more every day 💜💜💜💜💜✊

    • @hllllo7182
      @hllllo7182 2 роки тому +4

      i don't think "MOST" of the fandom is toxic. BUT i feel like the LOUD part of the 'fandom' who are very active on social media like twitter are obviously the ones that 'do' a lot of damage. Most of ARMY truly love them and their music but the minority that are toxic and actually delusional are the ones that have way too much time on their hands and zero shame. it's very sad. but when the day comes that they do confirm rumours or publicize it, that we do our best to wipe out the hate and support them

  • @MeAmLoveU
    @MeAmLoveU 2 роки тому +4

    actually... people in Korea knows when they date sometimes but keep it quiet to keep their bias's single image

  • @SarahIsrath
    @SarahIsrath 2 роки тому +3

    Been stanning just one group, BTS, for 5 yaers now. Nothing in the world would make me happier than getting to know that they are in love and are happy in their relationships.

  • @kendalledwards6898
    @kendalledwards6898 2 роки тому +9

    YG saids: "It's their private lives"

  • @CheriS33
    @CheriS33 5 місяців тому +6

    WTF, THREATENING women who might be involved with them, while shipping gay relationships? These guys don't stand a chance at real love and this is NUTS! It's the reason why I don't say I'm "ARMY". These people think they OWN BTS, lifes and souls. If you love them, why wouldn't you want them to be Happy, in Love, and eventually having babies and a family of their own? This fandom isn't loving these idols, it's TOXIC and NAUSEATING to watch it explode. Get a Life... leave them alone and let them have a NORMAL life. Stop smearing their reputations online, too. SMH!

  • @Koakoa45
    @Koakoa45 8 місяців тому +5

    Well in 2024 that is different. BTS does date! Before Taehyung went to the military the Korean media reported that he and Jennie broke up. BTS has really, really good handlers. I mean really good ones! Looking at Jin's age I would not be shocked if he isn't dating someone. J-hope, Jungkook and RM have stated they do not ever want to get married or have children. Jungkook on a live said about his songs being adult, "I am a grown man, I know about those things, I am not so innocent." meaning he is a normal adult male! So what they drink, smoke, date, bar hop, have sex, maybe a girlfriend. As a fan it is not my business, my job as a fan is to support their music, their entertainment and whatever they decide to tell us about themselves. I hope they all find happiness be it with someone or staying single.

  • @nia36
    @nia36 8 місяців тому +4

    Jungkook is in a serious relationship with banana milk

  • @micasajoonie9613
    @micasajoonie9613 2 роки тому +7

    i'm literally waiting for the day rm announces his marriage date.

  • @aseelelkhabir2447
    @aseelelkhabir2447 2 роки тому +12

    If we wanna be called a real army then u have to always respect and give space and understand they are human beings too you know its impossible to not love someone 💜 ❤

  • @avnisharma9623
    @avnisharma9623 2 роки тому +4

    *Tbh Bighit making a deal with dispatch is a pretty smart decision as the company is trying to protect their idol's privacy. But from the time Bang PD had resigned from the Ceo's post, the company is going downhill. I just wish them the best.*

  • @Truefeministbyheart
    @Truefeministbyheart Рік тому +2

    its high time that dating rumors should not be considered scandal. Everyone go on dates, experiment, fall in love, get married and have children. Its not a unusual thing. As said in video, they are grown men who can do whatever they want with their life. They made name for themselves and enjoyed great success but at the same time went through a lot emotionally and mentally and experienced loneliness too. If finding love can make make them happy, let us all as a true and genuine fan should support them. Its high time that haters should grow up from their mindset of possessiveness towards idols because one day karma will truly strike back.

  • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
    @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 роки тому +4

    Dating should be something normal for their age. Not just dating but marriage too. Also, keep in mind that some of them they may even be in same sex relationships(yes not everyone is straight) which is something they truly have to hide as many are still homophobic. But I wish them all the best regardless of what happens.

  • @MoMo-wd6vu
    @MoMo-wd6vu 2 роки тому +2

    So I saw this comment somewhere, it said if all the kpop agencies come together and reveal all the relationships of all the idols all at the same time, then this no dating thing can come to an end. It really would be a good idea.