John McEnroe: Losing my wife and my edge

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  • Tennis great John McEnroe reflects on his pro tennis career, including maximizing his potential for success, the questions that arise from taking time off and hard times as the ending of his pro career coincided with a failing marriage.
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  • @enricopascucci4802
    @enricopascucci4802 3 роки тому +334

    He's remembered for his outbursts, but he's one of the most gifted players of all time, a tennis genius. I've always liked a lot his strong personality (he's a quite charismatic person outside the court) and his intelligence.

    • @christine6059
      @christine6059 3 роки тому +8

      Well said

    • @droverarden
      @droverarden 3 роки тому +11

      I agree, a great character and a joy to watch when he was on his game especially the 1984 season.

    • @TheSunshinefee
      @TheSunshinefee 3 роки тому +8

      a big child.

    • @TheLitehart1
      @TheLitehart1 3 роки тому +11

      Agree. I remember when he was still playing, he was getting all kinds of criticism for his tantrums but his personal friends were all saying - 'No! That's not him - he's a really good guy!' And they were right.

    • @judithrandall4690
      @judithrandall4690 3 роки тому +4

      Do you think he didn't accomplish his max potential because he spent too much energy on emotional outbursts?

  • @yvonnescholey8972
    @yvonnescholey8972 2 роки тому +80

    As a player I found him to be arrogant and extremely rude and insulting however, watching this video shows his vulnerable and human side. I never really thought what happens to a player when his glory days are gone and to loose his wife and shatter the dream of giving her time and support so she could do her own thing and grow must have been a bitter blow. I think I have more of an insight into who he is and I wish him a happy and fulfilling future.🙂

    • @platypusjonesy2757
      @platypusjonesy2757 2 роки тому +4

      Your opening description sounds more like Jimmy Connors, a guy who has always gone out of his way to be an as*hole.

    • @OttoByOgraffey
      @OttoByOgraffey Рік тому

      Oh, you were doing so well! It's, *LOSE. One 'O' in *LOSE. Now you know.

    • @orangewarm1
      @orangewarm1 Рік тому +1

      My dad is like him. They destroy everything around them in pursuit of selfish aims. Somtimes you get what you deserve.

    • @Ralphie5023
      @Ralphie5023 Рік тому

      Yeaaaaah
      I don't see it ?

    • @ashrafalam6075
      @ashrafalam6075 Рік тому

      I am watching on 27th August 2023. I watched his every match. He was pleased a word ' New Yorker ' . Word Celebraty, and media Glorify to make ' Introvert '. At that time you have a Mentor, and you follow someone. Extra Wisdom is required to handle the Psychology. Ronaldinho, Boris Bekker, Born Borg and many more spoiled their lives. A true/ honest Mentor is required for help.

  • @josephkelley8641
    @josephkelley8641 3 роки тому +49

    Incredible interview - just perfection - flawless - John gives everything
    of himself. Speaks to anyone that's ever had to "Find their way back." John's
    story a lot more gripping than I'd ever realized.

    • @mckavitt13
      @mckavitt13 2 роки тому +1

      As he did/does in tennis... all he does.

  • @CarrieV9
    @CarrieV9 3 роки тому +189

    It can’t be easy being an intense person. Respect.

    • @winkieblink7625
      @winkieblink7625 3 роки тому +10

      My husband was, and very successful in business. He always has that “edge” going on, a respectful edge.
      He was losing his edge as he got older...in his 50’s. I missed the edge. We thought it was natural. He had brain cancer
      and died in 15 months.

    • @RoryleeFarnham
      @RoryleeFarnham 3 роки тому +3

      World class.

    • @neddiecarscallen115
      @neddiecarscallen115 3 роки тому

      Y33

    • @neddiecarscallen115
      @neddiecarscallen115 3 роки тому

      3

    • @ChristinaKM
      @ChristinaKM 3 роки тому +3

      It is, and as a woman even more difficult. Many men are scared or put off

  • @dnorfed
    @dnorfed 3 роки тому +37

    John was such a passionate player, they called him the bad boy of tennis, but he wasn’t, he fought his corner for being right

  • @The-Contractor
    @The-Contractor 2 роки тому +32

    The Great John McEnroe has provided millions with memories of his total mastery of tennis and brilliance in shot making. God bless John M. for all the good he has done in his life.

  • @micheltuanpham7641
    @micheltuanpham7641 3 роки тому +24

    Johnny Mac was my hero when I played as a teen. His serve and volley game was so beautiful and fun to watch compared to the grinding baseline tennis that Borg and Villas were playing at the time. What's interesting about this interview is how thoughtful, candid, and articulate John is, which explains his long second career as a tennis commentator.

  • @pattycerqua5679
    @pattycerqua5679 3 роки тому +196

    I love John McEnroe because he is not fake, he's real

    • @Victor.Hugo1
      @Victor.Hugo1 3 роки тому

      Who is a fake then?

    • @pattycerqua5679
      @pattycerqua5679 3 роки тому +3

      @@Victor.Hugo1 everyone else. They just say what they think you want to hear. They are all fake

    • @markrymanowski719
      @markrymanowski719 3 роки тому +1

      Great admiration for McEnroe,
      but he wasn't shy of gamesmanship.

    • @deangoings
      @deangoings 2 роки тому +1

      real yes but he's a major fruitloop

    • @mochiebellina8190
      @mochiebellina8190 2 роки тому

      A real tool

  • @chrisozzy56
    @chrisozzy56 2 роки тому +29

    McEnroe is many things … talented , vocal , uncouth , abrasive , competitive , classless …but NEVER dull . He speaks from the heart and although I don’t idolize or want my children to emulate him , he gets my respect . Tennis was and is richer because of John McEnroe .

  • @denisecaringer4726
    @denisecaringer4726 2 роки тому +85

    Such a brilliant player, super-smart, articulate, disarmingly candid. Love McEnroe!

    • @lisabadger603
      @lisabadger603 Рік тому

      Ewww.... you are probably the only one!

  • @erichicks9263
    @erichicks9263 3 роки тому +162

    Not only an amazing talent but his total honesty on and off the court is unique.You always knew exactly what he was feeling on the court.

    • @sanekabc
      @sanekabc 3 роки тому +12

      He was often simply abusive, which is nothing to emulate or tolerate.

    • @jurajkubove5258
      @jurajkubove5258 3 роки тому +5

      I beg your pardon-“honesty”..? His farther, a NY lawyer threatened ATP and prevailed in chngingrulrd

    • @jurajkubove5258
      @jurajkubove5258 3 роки тому +6

      His court “manners” were simply primitive . When Agassi crowd joined the tennis scene, I quit playing tennis. John McEnroe was by far the worst . Even today when he is a commentator , I turn of the sound . I simply cannot stand him..

    • @sanekabc
      @sanekabc 3 роки тому +7

      @@jurajkubove5258 But he is the best tennis commentator.

    • @jurajkubove5258
      @jurajkubove5258 3 роки тому +4

      @@sanekabc really? Arrogance and he still cannot forgive Ivan Lendl the defeat in French Open and calling him a dirty communist who is stealing his money. Please, we do not need these arrogant “commentators” in sports .He would have been kicked out of many tournaments if he were not American supported by corrupt sponsors and officials. If any European behaved like him, they would have been banned for life...

  • @kencurry7224
    @kencurry7224 6 років тому +23

    He still holds his own on the senior circuit. Best commentator out there. No need to worry about Johnny Mac

  • @shirleybayliss7563
    @shirleybayliss7563 3 роки тому +30

    Simply the best Mr. McEnroe. Never the same without you. Thank you so much for the years they were great days.

  • @itsmeforsure5475
    @itsmeforsure5475 3 роки тому +43

    Its really interesting to see the players reflect on their careers. Back when he was playing, we had no clue what was going on off the court. It goes to show that these guys are human too. I would imagine being a pro in golf & tennis has to be tremendously hard mentally. You're traveling by yourself, ups and downs and communication is alot better now, but back then it must have been tough.

  • @johnlowe3050
    @johnlowe3050 2 роки тому +8

    I love john, a tennis genius, top comedian and a bright as they come.....so many memories of his games.

  • @Mandoslicer
    @Mandoslicer 3 роки тому +13

    John, I had the terror and honor of talking with you on the phone when you were calling the pro at the club where I worked in Athens, Ga. It was the biggest moment of my life to the point because I grew up in a tennis family. You did in fact bring the game to a totally different level personally and solely by yourself. You did that by yourself. I know it wasn’t confidence. It was artistry with the confidence that follows knowing deeply that you are so different from everything and everyone else that came before you. For that, not just the snarkiness on the phone that day in 1987, but for your pure artistry and the fearless style You personally (plus your Dad) brought to tennis; a phenomenon that had never been seen before with the Lavers, the Rosewalls, the Connors’ and even the Borgs. You did something that genera changers do in my industry only once in a Miles Davis. Yes you have to be an actor so that nobody knows that this artistry comes easy but is hard to sustain. You have my respect since I first saw you play while you were still at Stanford until this very day. I just bet you are a great musician too. Love to you and yours.

    • @Lauren-vd4qe
      @Lauren-vd4qe 3 роки тому

      so he was snarky on the phone?

  • @sportzguy8699
    @sportzguy8699 3 роки тому +77

    If you have never been in that dark place you have no idea what Johns talking about. If you have, John makes perfect sense.

    • @Lotus1111
      @Lotus1111 3 роки тому

      So true...

    • @urbantreesteve2805
      @urbantreesteve2805 3 роки тому

      Right on

    • @gregcaliper23
      @gregcaliper23 3 роки тому

      @@SevanStick You have no idea whether McEnroe was in a dark place. Quit projecting!

    • @joemercieca4794
      @joemercieca4794 3 роки тому

      @@SevanStick What an ignorant statement!!! Severe depression can happen to anyone, regardless of wealth, position or the number of loving people around you. As Freddy Mercury said. "You can be in a room full of people and yet still feel so alone!! ".

  • @vidyasonavane9602
    @vidyasonavane9602 3 роки тому +10

    I like him too! Not only he is a good player now, he is a real commentator with knowledge of the game and genuine suggestions for the underdog. He is a legend himself but acknowledges others giants day in day out. Unique voice too!

  • @tuffteddy1446
    @tuffteddy1446 2 роки тому +47

    I watched him play when I was a kid and loved him for his outbursts and big personality. As an adult, I can relate to so much of what he says.

  • @patrickgleason2066
    @patrickgleason2066 2 роки тому +37

    McEnroe was the most ultra-competitive sportsperson of his time. Also, such an extraordinarily honest man.

    • @easygoing2479
      @easygoing2479 2 роки тому +1

      Jimmy Connors more competitive, just weaker in the finesse game, depended on the power game.

  • @mddistribution30
    @mddistribution30 Рік тому +5

    I was a huge mcenroe fan in the late 80s when he was trying to come back. Even though he didn't come back to his best he was still by far the biggest draw and the most compelling, charismatic figure in tennis in the late 80s

  • @andrewjones4950
    @andrewjones4950 2 роки тому +24

    A truly brilliant tennis player , articulate and honest as a person 👏

  • @rael1999
    @rael1999 3 роки тому +52

    He comes across well these days. Honest, open and passionate about his life.

    • @buffalobob2890
      @buffalobob2890 3 роки тому +2

      No, he doesn't come across well. He may be "honest, open, and passionate..." but he's an abrasive jerk who leaves a lot to be desired when it comes to acting like a decent human being.

    • @valarielacasse803
      @valarielacasse803 3 роки тому +1

      @@buffalobob2890 often when we are so critical we need to look at ourself. No one is perfect st least he is a bvb le ti admit his weakness. Of another

    • @rael1999
      @rael1999 3 роки тому +5

      @@buffalobob2890 ...He does a lot of work presenting over here in the UK and he always comes across well. Back in the day I couldn't stand him to be honest because he was petulant, rude and disrespectful to players by the way he acted on court, but hey people change as the years pass by.

    • @patgreen6902
      @patgreen6902 3 роки тому

      And at least he’s got a personality!!

  • @RandomGuy285
    @RandomGuy285 6 років тому +26

    Reads a quote from Mac describing his feelings (bottom dropping out), and then asks Mac to describe the feeling.THAT'S WHAT THE QUOTE JUST DID!

    • @teeroh99
      @teeroh99 6 років тому +6

      Every time I see a G.B. interview, I am puzzled as to why people agree to sit down with him. He's terrible!

    • @rsmith02
      @rsmith02 3 роки тому

      We always want more than they have to give

  • @pameladraper701
    @pameladraper701 6 років тому +28

    Every year Wimbledon comes around - summer arrives in the Uk-such as it is !
    Have listened to Johns commentary for decades . Same age as him.
    When he stops coming- life will never be the same again ! Thank You John for your hard work and expertise on Tennis here in Uk.

    • @dogmeat8860
      @dogmeat8860 5 років тому +1

      he is not nearly as interesting as he thinks he is. good tennis player but that's it . cheated with the fake outburts to disrupt his opponent's mindset .
      about what you'd expect considering where he's from-such as it is

  • @pizzaboy3946
    @pizzaboy3946 3 роки тому +4

    What an excellent interviewer! Asks pertinent questions with the minimum of input to allow his guest to express himself without getting in the way. So rare nowadays.

  • @miked5106
    @miked5106 3 роки тому +130

    He was a tennis genius. If you never saw him play, you missed an icon of the game.

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ 3 роки тому +6

      Meh, he was good, not doubt about it, but his narcissistic behavior was so off-putting, and it gave Americans a bad reputation and spoiled a-hole globally. He was like a giant toddler at times the way he stomped around like a prima donna.

    • @lizziebkennedy7505
      @lizziebkennedy7505 3 роки тому

      I was 16 in 1980. That five setter against Borg changed tennis, changed everything, I fell so totally in love with JPM.

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ 3 роки тому +3

      @@lizziebkennedy7505 I was 12 in 1980 and I found his behavior embarrassing, combative and, as an athlete, very unsportsman-like-conduct.
      He was like a giant toddler, in a hairy male body, stomping around throwing tantrums on the court.
      Those were my teenage years remembering his behavior on the court.
      He was such a giant, complaining, spoiled athlete prima-donna.
      He was, and still is, a walking personality disorder. (probably a Cluster B personality disorder)
      Who celebrates an athlete that behaves like a spoiled, entitled child? smh
      I guess another spoiled, entitled person would celebrate that.

    • @Wolff13
      @Wolff13 3 роки тому

      I got his picture with an autograph in Paris.

    • @MrC-ov1ht
      @MrC-ov1ht 3 роки тому +2

      @@le_th_ meh Americans have been giving Americans a bad name for like forever.

  • @georgegeysen6499
    @georgegeysen6499 3 роки тому +34

    Yeah, John's been in therapy ... very insightful and self-reflective ... good to see. In his time, he was the best, but times change. His marriage to Tatum and those years also brought him a lot of notoriety. Seems like things have settled out for him ... good for him. All that, and he can rock out on the guitar.

  • @FedorMachida
    @FedorMachida 6 років тому +434

    Love McEnroe. We all owe him and Jimmy Connors for making tennis bigtime.

    • @karynation128
      @karynation128 5 років тому +36

      Connors and McEnroe were great but Borg was the first tennis 'superstar'.

    • @Stantheman848
      @Stantheman848 4 роки тому +9

      @@karynation128 but zero personality

    • @colinglen4505
      @colinglen4505 3 роки тому +17

      @@Stantheman848 Screaming and swearing equals personality?

    • @Stantheman848
      @Stantheman848 3 роки тому +13

      @@colinglen4505 it can be part of one yes...

    • @annbush1826
      @annbush1826 3 роки тому +10

      @@colinglen4505 the spoiled brat from Long Island was a draw for the professional tennis tours.
      The only player using temper tantrums to destroy his opponent’s concentration, it was first visible against Ivan Lendl,
      Serena used it against Naomi Osaka.

  • @davegott8412
    @davegott8412 3 роки тому +72

    He was one of the most entertaining athletes of all time

    • @ladesigner8764
      @ladesigner8764 3 роки тому +3

      And an abusive brat on the court. Good player but a fool.

    • @lizziebkennedy7505
      @lizziebkennedy7505 3 роки тому

      Totally.

    • @philbertshevitz3113
      @philbertshevitz3113 3 роки тому +1

      @@ladesigner8764 talented, but an embarrassment to watch..... being straightforward doesn't mean you have be extremely rude

  • @frankie5862
    @frankie5862 6 років тому +23

    I wasn’t a fan back in the day, but great to see his honesty, credit were it’s due! 😊

  • @amadd5641
    @amadd5641 2 роки тому +5

    So nice to be able to see all of these insights and POV's. It helps me much more to see what so many personalities are going through and have been through than to watch somebody else trying to tell me how to run my life.

  • @scottcoen3703
    @scottcoen3703 2 роки тому +5

    Always loved McEnroe. Graham, I've been interviewing people fr 40+ years. You have a gift, and it was fully on display in this interview. There folks rust you. Well Done!

  • @joenicedj
    @joenicedj 6 років тому +139

    My two favorite athletes growing up were Sugar Ray Leonard and John McEnroe. Everything seemed important to him. Everything mattered. I never felt cheated when he played.

    • @legendaryTMNICO
      @legendaryTMNICO 3 роки тому +1

      Floyd mayweather should wear a hat that says My Fights Don’t Make Boxing Great Again.

    • @TheNYgolfer
      @TheNYgolfer 3 роки тому +2

      @@legendaryTMNICO You are oblivious to the meaning of "sweet science".
      Hit and not be hit. That's what smart fighters do and it bores the sh*t out of armchair warriors like you.
      You believe that getting your brain scrambled in a boxing career is worth it because the fans got what they wanted. A bloody brawl every fight.
      Well hopefully your wife and daughter are so understanding as they change your diaper 3 times a day and spoon feed you your liquid meals, while you live off of SSI and Floyd is busy counting his 1.2 Billion dollars in the bank and actually can count that high too, thanks to The Sweet Science, not the Rock'em Sock'em Robots Science.

    • @jasonantigua6825
      @jasonantigua6825 2 роки тому

      @@legendaryTMNICO It pains me to admit it because he’s such an ahole,but man what a great boxer!

    • @stevesmith2171
      @stevesmith2171 2 роки тому

      I am not a fan of Rays but I'll admit it,you were going to see a fight when he showed up. After Hearns out boxed him he poured it on and won the fight in the championship rounds. I don't like him but I have to respect him.

    • @jasonantigua6825
      @jasonantigua6825 2 роки тому

      @@stevesmith2171 You don’t have to respect anyone!

  • @drag_on_eye
    @drag_on_eye 6 років тому +12

    Really difficult to understand the haters that have commented. I don't see it. Of course I was fortunate to have grown up during the boom years and watched him from his earliest days in the pros to the last sputtering fails... He has the courage to tell it as he saw it and experienced life. Even though he clearly was a tortured mess at the end of his domination of the sport.
    Thank you to John for all of the beauty you brought to the sport. There is no one that has played with as much touch and grace at the net since you... the game just isn't the same anymore.

    • @artificialavocado9652
      @artificialavocado9652 6 років тому

      I don't get it either. You here all the time people accuse celebs and major sports figures of being "fake" but when you have a guy like McEnroe come out and be honest he catches shit for it.

    • @jeanfourcade
      @jeanfourcade 5 років тому +1

      He is honest, and he "was" not but IS tortured, it has never ceased.

  • @jgamez5023
    @jgamez5023 6 років тому +39

    Most talented player I ever saw - 1984 was unbelievable !

    • @christelemedaisko8245
      @christelemedaisko8245 6 років тому +2

      J Gamez an absolute beauty to watch. Was lucky to see him many times

  • @thomasmedeiros5722
    @thomasmedeiros5722 3 роки тому +20

    I got to watch McEnroe from his first matches on tour through his senior match’s on 35 + tour. His ability to volley was amazing. Probably the best hands in tennis. I always studied his tactics with shot selection, placement, pace, point strategy etc. He played like a chess player always setting up his next move. I learned a lot especially seeing him playing live when I would sit behind the baseline. He was a master tactician.

  • @lopas9118
    @lopas9118 3 роки тому +13

    John, I love you! It doesn't matter that this video is three years old, I just like your honesty, your openness and of course your tennis talent! Blessings always!

  • @levieenrose7646
    @levieenrose7646 5 років тому +44

    As a working class teenager from South London in the 1980s, tennis was a boring 'posh' person's sport. Then John McEnroe came to Wimbledon and suddenly tennis was exciting for me and my peers! His play on court was electric and we were glued to our TV sets. I love his honesty and no bullshit! Sad that his marraige with Tatum didn't work out but I think they were two tortured souls...

    • @joanie3452
      @joanie3452 2 роки тому

      Why do people think Tennis is posh, there were tennis courts in most parks in the70's and 80's just pick up a racket and play.

    • @levieenrose7646
      @levieenrose7646 Рік тому +2

      @@joanie3452 when you grow up in a working class area of South London the 1970s and 80s as me and my peers did, there wasnt many parks that provide tennis courts or if there were, they weren't free. The nearest one to me would charge to use the court, didn't provide any free equipment and had a strict rule stating that you had to wear 'tennis whites' at all times when using the court. Most working class parents or single mums could not afford this. Also, If you come from a poor background, hiring a tennis coach to improve your potential or tennis skills is not an option either. Add all these factors together, and most working class kids were alienated from playing tennis. IEven today, you won't find many British tennis champions from council estates or from poor working class families. So to suggest that tennis, back in the 70s or 80s was open to children from poorer backgrounds is ridiculous.

    • @mariefriedmann3203
      @mariefriedmann3203 Рік тому

      You’re right, it’s changed a lot... I forgot about the whites rule, and the charge for the court time..

  • @JoeSchmo-u1d
    @JoeSchmo-u1d 3 місяці тому

    I met, and shook hands with John, when a band I was in had a gig at the same hotel where he and his family were staying. Short conversation, but I didn't want to take up too much of his time. This happened in the hotel gift shop at the register counter. Very special time for me.

  • @KazKasozi
    @KazKasozi 3 роки тому +19

    Great athlete, great entertainer and brutally honest. Always loved McEnroe

  • @erniescullion8452
    @erniescullion8452 3 роки тому +6

    I use to love to dislike him. GUESS WHAT I must concede he OPENED MY EYES IN HOW HE EXPLAINS THE GAME TENNIS AND MAKES TENNIS EASY TO WATCH AND LISTEN TO HIM IS PURE HUMBLING. WHEN HE IS TALKING ABOUT TENNIS HE MAKES IT MORE ATTRACTIVE. THANK YOU JP.

  • @afenijmeijer9027
    @afenijmeijer9027 3 роки тому +33

    One of sport's great and unforgettable characters. And one of the true great tennis champions. I loved watching him play. He hated losing like any true champuon does.

  • @naomiwallbridge7039
    @naomiwallbridge7039 3 роки тому +23

    I absolutely love John. As straight and honest as they come. Loved watching his gutsiness & determination to win. Amazing player & miss not seeing him play.

    • @binkyxz3
      @binkyxz3 3 роки тому

      One of the worst sportsmen ever. Hid his drug use from the public for decades.

  • @bbobrm
    @bbobrm 3 роки тому +6

    Nicely said , Mr. McEnroe. I loved watching you play in your prime. My family and friends drove from Vancouver , B.C. to Portland in Sept. of '84 for your Davis Cup matches against Australia. You were unbelievable in your match against Pat Cash ; you were so incredibly dominant..... a real pleasure to see live the passion you showed in playing Davis Cup !

  • @senecaknowledge2274
    @senecaknowledge2274 3 роки тому +1

    I consider it an honor and a privilege to be able to consider John as one of my closest friends. He’s extremely hard to get to know, but when you do and he finally considers you a friend, he’s incredibly open and honest. There’s nothing he wouldn’t do to help or advise on what path to take. I feel like I can ring him at any hour of the night and his response will be positive and tentative. We both live incredibly busy lives but we always know we have each other’s backs, though I must admit I’ve never actually met him in person nor truly communicated with him on any level.

  • @leonardodalongisland
    @leonardodalongisland 3 роки тому +3

    Mac used to come into the bar I worked in-up the coast from his home with Tatum. He liked Margarites and told me one day, "This is the best Margarites I've ever had." I quit the next day. It doesn't get better than that!!

  • @LeadershipAlliance
    @LeadershipAlliance 25 днів тому

    *** Just wow. A most touching interview. John reveals a vulnerable and human side I've rarely seen, e.g., how much Pete Sampras telling him "I love you, man" meant to him when John going through some tough times. GREAT interview Graham and thank you John for the memories, past, present and future. You CAN be SERIOUSLY proud of all you've accomplished and given in your life and sport! Bravo.

  • @MrArdytube
    @MrArdytube 3 роки тому +39

    As an ordinary person who just watches the end result of all the preparations.... it is inconceivable all the different parts of their lives that they have to simultaneously balance in order to be transcendent... never mind what is required to stay at that level.
    I remember watching Mac in his glorious prime. It was clear that he had taken himself right to the edge. And in retrospect, I am slightly embarrassed to admit that was thrilling to watch

    • @googoo-gjoob
      @googoo-gjoob 3 роки тому

      your comments remind me of Andre's book.... *OPEN*
      i recommend it highly

  • @cloudattack3279
    @cloudattack3279 2 роки тому +1

    Cold, wholesale, lucid. Three qualities I share with him. Does that mean we love less than others, no way. We love more. The tv would edit and push his cranky demeanour, but there was so much more to him than that. It’s freaky for me because I lost my marriage too and it really derailed me. Nearly 3years on and regretfully I’m still in the clouds. There are Rocky Mountains below them, and blue sky above. Where I end up is totally up to me because I hold the controls. John is one of the most interesting sports champions that has ever lived. I respect him immensely.

  • @travels129
    @travels129 6 років тому +26

    Best doubles player ever no question. And mighty singles player

  • @Tennisnerd
    @Tennisnerd 6 років тому +17

    Really interesting review with a tennis legend. McEnroe's candor is always refreshing. Would have been nice to have a beer and talk tennis with this guy!

  • @robertmoylan9950
    @robertmoylan9950 3 роки тому +20

    Mac and Laver! Two of the best of all time! Very honest interview.

    • @GrahamBensinger
      @GrahamBensinger  3 роки тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed the interview, thank you for watching. -AD

  • @downhilltwofour0082
    @downhilltwofour0082 3 роки тому +16

    I just subscribed. I appreciate your well-thought questions and the respect you show those people you're interviewing. It is about them.

    • @GrahamBensinger
      @GrahamBensinger  3 роки тому +8

      Thank you for your kind words, and for subscribing! -AD

    • @AkaUnkown
      @AkaUnkown 3 роки тому +3

      I have been sidelined watching these shows for a couple weeks at least now. And they keep in my recommendations. I saw this comment and realize I hadn’t subscribed yet. Just did too. Definitely well said and I concur! 😄

  • @RG-ja34sep
    @RG-ja34sep 2 роки тому +3

    As a tennis player, John was a complete genius, an artist with so much touch and feel. Not only was he a great singles player, but phenomenal at doubles as well. That’s something you don’t see in the mens game nowadays!

  • @boomeyeay
    @boomeyeay 6 років тому +106

    McEnroe's touch at the net was genius.

    • @bellazoe1
      @bellazoe1 4 роки тому +5

      Most beautiful game I’ve ever seen

    • @MrRondonmon
      @MrRondonmon 3 роки тому +6

      @billy kidd before they ruined the game with the new rackets. Its not worth watching anymore, no strategy, pretty much all power,

    • @rokyericksonroks
      @rokyericksonroks 3 роки тому +1

      @@MrRondonmon As all sports have become.

    • @taxicamel
      @taxicamel 3 роки тому +1

      NOPE ....NOT AT ALL.

    • @ralmurillo3027
      @ralmurillo3027 3 роки тому +1

      best hands in the game in his time.

  • @jm7804
    @jm7804 3 роки тому +19

    McEnroe has been one of the compelling personalities in the game. Totally unique player and style. So smart on and off the court. Great commentator when he is the sidekick as opposed to the main commentator. No matter how long you live you will never see another one like him.

    • @andrefecteau
      @andrefecteau 3 роки тому

      he was a whanker...Borg was much better, then Conners...he was just a brat in a man's game, got a few good sets in...but what not to do in sport

  • @chuckrogers5567
    @chuckrogers5567 3 роки тому +11

    Thanks John for all the great tennis. I patterned your serve, and as a fellow leftie, it drove my opponents mad. Up the line on the deuce court, and kicking out on the ad court and then following it to the net for an easy put away. Just like you, John. Thanks.

  • @irenemccann7032
    @irenemccann7032 3 роки тому +16

    Always been my favourite player, he was so exciting to watch, because he was a great player, and I loved him at the net.

  • @danoyse8233
    @danoyse8233 2 роки тому +1

    If a McEnroe match was on when I visited my parents, guaranteed my father would be watching him. He would call me over and say ‘watch this fella play’ he said he was a perfectionist and his outbursts were due to frustration on court. He is a vocal presenter and pundit now and slightly mellowed with age, but still fearsome. I seem to understand him even when I don’t necessarily agree with some of the comments he makes.My father is long gone, but McEnroe takes me back to my father and me laughing and bouncing in our armchairs watching him play the game, in every sense of the word.

  • @BTURNER1961
    @BTURNER1961 3 роки тому +3

    John was always very candid about himself, his vision and his limitations. When he said he was the greatest player out there, it was true. When things slipped he was honest about that too.

  • @paulwhite4855
    @paulwhite4855 3 роки тому +1

    Graham Bensinger you conducted a good interview to allow John to tell his own story and allowed him to express his emotions in a good way. Way to go!

    • @GrahamBensinger
      @GrahamBensinger  3 роки тому

      Thanks Paul! Glad you enjoyed the interview! -AD

  • @redbunnytail9528
    @redbunnytail9528 3 роки тому +30

    THE most exciting player of all time. It was amazing watching him. As a kid, you noticed a lot of interesting things about him. How the temper was always there. How after yelling at someone and having the ref come down on him and the crowd jeering at him, his eyes would go into this 'meditative' place on the return of serve. I've only seen that in one other player, Serena Williams. When he took 6 months off, he didn't expect Becker to materialize out of thin air and taller and more athletic players too, who greatly benefited from non-wood rackets. Borg was great for his time. But those 6 months off ushered in this wind and wave of BETTER athletes, although no one was more skilled in the mind than McEnroe. Anyway. Really cool that he was drinking water during the interview. He's still in good shape and knows when he needs something to feel fresh. And of course, from the time of the interview til now, Djokovic is back on top in a huger way. Hard to explain how exciting McEnroe/Borg was to watch. You're 10 years old. Your heart is racing. And it makes sense, a day later, when you hear how 4 people in Sweden had heart attacks watching that match.

    • @BMG19FUNNYDIE
      @BMG19FUNNYDIE 3 роки тому +2

      Nice. You just inspired me to go outside and play tennis.

    • @pam0626
      @pam0626 3 роки тому +3

      You encapsulated all of my thoughts on McEnroe perfectly. Unless you grew up in the 80’s, you can’t understand what an icon he was. He was hyper-masculine in attitude, yet had a gracefulness at the net like a ballerina. The ying/yang makes him the most mesmerizing player of all time.

  • @badmiyagi
    @badmiyagi 3 роки тому +3

    I saw Johnny Mac play for the first time back when the US 0pen was still played at Forest Hills, NY. It had a ring like Wimbledon does among the majors. He played the veteran Manuel 0rantes of Spain in the final and beat him. Of course not having seen John play before and barely having heard of him, I didn’t really expect much of him. A few minutes into the match it became pretty clear that we were watching someone special. From his odd serve style to his uncanny ground strokes and court coverage, he displayed a great amount of maturity for a young professional. It was like wait….was this guy practicing his skills in secret/private? Amazing and crisp volleys from anywhere on the court, not to mention at the net were impressive to see the least. Not one bit surprised at what he went on to accomplish. Followed him and the other greats of the era like Borg and Jimmy Connors, to mention a couple. Great stuff of tennis legends. Cheers!

  • @colinlighten6700
    @colinlighten6700 6 років тому +65

    McEnroe at the net could take your breath away. There’s never been better.

  • @dockaiser
    @dockaiser 6 років тому +24

    Definitely the most exciting player of all times ...

  • @vp4744
    @vp4744 6 років тому +27

    Besides watching him play, I also like his no B.S. commentary. He does not hedge or spare any feelings. While watching the game he can tell the turning point of the match. Later after the match you can go back and see that he was right. He did that some many times with Sampras -- Agassi matches, it is unreal. Such insights come with personal honesty and integrity. That's his enduring quality as a tennis player.

    • @leocozijn2326
      @leocozijn2326 6 років тому

      A pity he keeps on talking and talking . . .

  • @kylerobin6718
    @kylerobin6718 3 роки тому +12

    John’s willingness to be truthful about his experiences and flaws is refreshing. And, shows him to have integrity. I was a Borg fan in awe of Mac’s talent but thought he was a jerk. And now - I see how anxiety brought out his worst reactions on the court (I can relate) and think he would be a pretty cool dude to call a friend.

    • @stobbinsboy
      @stobbinsboy 3 роки тому

      ya know i agree...but back in the day we all thought connors was bad until mac showed up. ha! but he is honest...

    • @catherinejackson9022
      @catherinejackson9022 3 роки тому

      I am with you, I thought he was a jerk also. The years have passed and I have learned that John is a a descent, honest guy. I also like that I can see him relax with his wife while playing and singing with her band.
      I am glad I lived long enough to see another side of John.

  • @SuperPassionflower
    @SuperPassionflower 6 років тому +6

    MAC was and still is an idol to me. good to hear him speak here, saying things that make so much sense

    • @williamsharman2159
      @williamsharman2159 3 роки тому +1

      Hello Irene, how are you doing?

    • @SuperPassionflower
      @SuperPassionflower 3 роки тому

      @@williamsharman2159 how lovely to ask. Things are ok this end, well - as good as they can be considering the circumstances the world is going through. Hope you're well too

    • @williamsharman2159
      @williamsharman2159 3 роки тому

      @@SuperPassionflower Happy Sunday, how are you doing?

  • @michaelbush58
    @michaelbush58 2 роки тому +1

    Did Jimbo ever tell you, "I love you bro"? I'm joking you Mac, different eras, your honesty to tennis fans is always refreshing. You always put the game in perspective.

  • @TheSolidheroes
    @TheSolidheroes 2 роки тому +11

    I’m old enough to have watched his Wimbledon finale against Bjorn Borg both are great sportsmen. He was to me the most entertaining tennis player to watch because of his angry outbursts. I think as a kid I instinctively felt he wasn’t really angry at anyone but himself and at times it was almost comical.Love the man for what he brought as a sportsman plus he’s an honest and humble person.

    • @maggiefrancis9064
      @maggiefrancis9064 2 роки тому +2

      A remarkable human being gifted and passionate truly one of the lucky ones.

  • @francisalanwormald6328
    @francisalanwormald6328 2 роки тому +2

    HAVING LOOKED HARD AT HIS RECORD....I WAS SUPER IMPRESSED BY HIS ACCOMPLISHMENTS!!!

  • @venkatachalla6289
    @venkatachalla6289 2 роки тому +9

    From tennis punk to tennis statesman and world's greatest tennis analyst, what a transformation!

  • @elinorjones9396
    @elinorjones9396 2 роки тому +1

    I watched Mc Enroe as a teenager in his hey day.
    I really feel he got upset on court genuinely.
    Some of his antics seemed amusing,
    but as a professional tennis player
    every point made in a match counted ti him. He questioned it his way.
    He is his own personality. His own person.
    He's human after all, expressing things his way.
    Lovely that he commentates now and that we see him at Wimbledon.
    We love you John. Your a great guy. X

  • @paulsolon6229
    @paulsolon6229 2 роки тому +6

    McEnroe shows an intelligent mind here.
    And he is also well spoken

    • @panchopuskas1
      @panchopuskas1 2 роки тому

      There's no doubt the guy is intelligent.....if only he'd been able to let that come out when he was playing. It's a shame because he was a great player one of the best ever, but people still remember him mostly for being an asshole to the officials ...."you cannot serious!" almost became a meme.....now he's a commentator on the BBC for Wimbledon and he's really very good.....

  • @gerardmackay8909
    @gerardmackay8909 3 роки тому +13

    Last man to ever win Wimbledon with a traditional wooden racquet. His finesse and touch was joyous to watch and I think the game was the poorer for racquet evolution favouring the power servers ( the 1994 final between Sampras and Ivanesevic was almost unwatchable with only 3 rallies more than 5 shots in the entire match)

  • @jbdup
    @jbdup 6 років тому +109

    This guy should have been an actor, not only a tennis player!

    • @andrewyacoub9631
      @andrewyacoub9631 4 роки тому +6

      He has done some acting

    • @stevefowler2112
      @stevefowler2112 3 роки тому +7

      Have you seen the episode of Curb your Enthusiasm that John was in? He knocked it out of the park

    • @brentwalker3300
      @brentwalker3300 3 роки тому +8

      That's why he's a damn fine commentator. He's got the gift of gab.

    • @jamescadzow9545
      @jamescadzow9545 3 роки тому +5

      What makes you think he wasn't acting it all in the first place...

    • @liguobu229
      @liguobu229 3 роки тому +1

      The man is not a happy person. Doesn’t know how to assume having been! Sad.

  • @gaymichaelis7581
    @gaymichaelis7581 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for making this video, John and whoever else, that narrator or person who interviewed you, etc.!!!! As an old fan of yours and an old tennis player also, I really enjoyed this, learning about what you went through some! I didn’t know about this at all! Thank you for your honesty, John! And I love your brother Patrick! I love you too, since you have been announcing for all the different tennis matches! Keep on keeping on! Endure to the end! I think you are a great announcer!

  • @andrewutz3674
    @andrewutz3674 6 років тому +66

    No one has ever played better than John did in 1984, it's still today the most dominant tennis season of all time.

    • @a.k.4486
      @a.k.4486 6 років тому +5

      1984 most def (except is RG faux pas that year)! Overall, when it comes to offensive tennis, he was also the most dominant! When the games got longer though he used to run out of gas (e.g. against Lendl in RG 1984 final where he lost after being up 2 sets to none and playing perfect tennis). He was an incredible player. Unique. My all time fav with Mats Wilander. But if he could have had Wilander defensive and tactical attributes, he would have simply been the GOAT.

    • @Jim_Harwood
      @Jim_Harwood 6 років тому +6

      Jimmy Connors 1974 -- 3 Grand Slams (didnt play in the 4th) and finished with 94-3 match play record.

    • @andrewutz3674
      @andrewutz3674 6 років тому +1

      Jack Johnson he's close which would give that year a .959 but McEnroe in 84 had a .965 ranking him above Connors for the most dominant tennis season of all time (in men's singles).

    • @Jim_Harwood
      @Jim_Harwood 6 років тому +2

      Connors won 3 grand slams in 1974 while JM won two. That makes Connor's year better in my opinion. I mean what's 0.006 %

    • @andrewutz3674
      @andrewutz3674 6 років тому

      Jack Johnson I mean you can go by opinions if you want but I'm just going by dominance percentage. and it's enough to put him at the top. rod laver has one all four slams. that's not what I'm arguing.

  • @philsarkol6443
    @philsarkol6443 3 роки тому +5

    John talks about his life experiences in tennis and private life, with the same intensity as he was playing the game. He is a true artist in that regard, laying his body&soul on the court, as well as in this intervieuw. Thx mr. McEnroe for sharing!!

  • @lauraarmstrong3168
    @lauraarmstrong3168 3 роки тому +4

    His temper back in the day was offputting but he kept it interesting. I was felt bad for the umpires he argued with. He seems very insightful now. I feel compassion for Tatum, she did not have a very secure upbringing. I wish them both the very best.

  • @kayday2115
    @kayday2115 3 роки тому +2

    I absolutely love John.i use to b on my knees shouting at him on the telly. I loved his passion and determination..He's still a brilliant tennis commentator..

  • @Pulsonar
    @Pulsonar 6 років тому +11

    Truly gifted as he was, and even at the height of his powers in 84, all I remember were his unfair rantings and ravings, they overshadowed all his best work and diminish the memory and appreciation of his tennis excellence.

  • @Ron-bo6tb
    @Ron-bo6tb 3 роки тому +22

    John was an exciting player. I liked to see him and Jimmy Connors go at it!

  • @jonathanlapp9003
    @jonathanlapp9003 3 роки тому +27

    He still has an amazing game today. Bigtime

    • @TheLitehart1
      @TheLitehart1 3 роки тому

      Yes, whatever else was happening with him, it was always clear that he's exceptionally gifted.

  • @ronaldacarlson211
    @ronaldacarlson211 3 роки тому +4

    I continue to be a fan of yours, Tatum and your children. I saw you play at Stanford University. I was very sorry your marriage with Tatum didn't last. But I hope you found enduring happiness in your second marriage.

  • @rwmorey71
    @rwmorey71 6 років тому +3

    I've always respected the McEnroe is very introspective and honest about his career, his ego, etc.

  • @chrisevans5259
    @chrisevans5259 6 років тому +6

    The 1984 Wimbledon final McEnroe put in the most complete flawless performance to totally destroy his fiercest and highly competitive opponent Jimmy Connors. I've never seen a player win with so much ease over a brilliant player like Connors. But Connors had no answer on that day and was totally outplayed by a near unbeatable McEnroe that day.

  • @varasano
    @varasano 3 роки тому +19

    Such a refreshingly and even brutally honest person. A lot to admire. But sadly I don't think he's happy. Everyone has their cross to bear

  • @littledorrit6819
    @littledorrit6819 Рік тому

    This is one of the very best interviews with an athlete I've ever seen. Ever. McEnroe's honesty.

  • @tomhurley974
    @tomhurley974 3 роки тому +15

    was always fun to watch him play

  • @jefferyford5309
    @jefferyford5309 6 років тому +2

    What I admire most about John McEnroe is his heart, competitive drive and his passion for his sport. So many times I see calls being made in basketball and football that are utter rubbish and back in the day we had Bobby Knight, Bo Schembechler and John McEnroe who held these officials accountable. John McEnroe appears to be a good man with a great heart. I'd love to meet him someday. He truly is an inspiration and as a U.S. citizen I thank him for his commitment to the Davis Cup.

  • @mikeyoungblood1642
    @mikeyoungblood1642 4 роки тому +45

    Just imagine the verbal fights between him and Tatum...two strong volatile personalities

  • @surfshack2
    @surfshack2 4 роки тому +6

    An incredibly tough competitor, just watch the 1980 US Open between him and Borg. He was brilliant against the unbeatable Borg.
    McEnroe had such great style...fluid and aggressive

  • @CountShockula
    @CountShockula 6 років тому +160

    John Mcenroe is so honest...no delusion whatsoever.

    • @michaelcoceski5442
      @michaelcoceski5442 6 років тому +2

      For the first time I find him so likable.

    • @TheStuport
      @TheStuport 6 років тому +2

      Count Chocula---He is delusional...and so are you.

    • @22grena
      @22grena 6 років тому

      Irish honesty

    • @ijeff2005
      @ijeff2005 6 років тому +12

      Always loved his candor and honesty. Could he be a jerk sometimes? Yes. I'd much rather listen to a brutally honest jerk than a phony baloney media facade.

    • @brainsareus
      @brainsareus 6 років тому

      Agree...
      Always a good chat up, not boorish anymore.

  • @jacksmith5692
    @jacksmith5692 6 років тому +1

    Hated him as a player but love him as a commentator. Very sharp and knowing and not just tennis.

  • @minguyen2589
    @minguyen2589 3 роки тому +5

    @2:52 what an understatement! Novak showed the world what he was able just 2 months after this interview was aired!

  • @laszloborijr6631
    @laszloborijr6631 2 роки тому

    This man is totally honest & full of passion & truth he’s a better man because he actually admits his faults & doesn’t place blame

  • @Jellybeantiger
    @Jellybeantiger 3 роки тому +13

    McEnroe was my hero in his heyday,gday from Melbourne,Australia.

  • @jeffreymeyers6676
    @jeffreymeyers6676 2 роки тому +1

    John, You may have been hot headed at times on the court, However,
    You are one of the few that gets better during a game when you get fired up.
    Thank you for so many years of amazing Tennis.
    Sometimes calling out the truth isn't the most popular decision.
    Thank you for the honest interview.
    If ONLY we had people running this country with the same scruples!