Losing Our Baby | COUPLES IN THE RING (Part 2)

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 69

  • @STP981
    @STP981 Рік тому +50

    I studied biology in college. This is all SO interesting. I had never heard about this gene. I could listen to you guys talk about this all day.

  • @brookem9192
    @brookem9192 Рік тому +23

    Karlee’s intelligence has always impressed me. You are going to excel in school karlee!!!!!

  • @amycolucci6769
    @amycolucci6769 Рік тому +49

    I’m really proud of you for figuring stuff out on your own and being your own advocate I’m in the medical field, and I always tell my patients to be their own advocateS

  • @daynachapin7916
    @daynachapin7916 Рік тому +14

    No one noticed him touching the mic I promise you lol

  • @smpricepdx
    @smpricepdx Рік тому +44

    What I've learned is sometimes it's best to say nothing at all. Just show up, be present, ask how can I help, or sit in silence as the person cries on your shoulder.

  • @brittanylapointe
    @brittanylapointe Рік тому +15

    babe, i cannot express the sympathy and heartache i feel for you. i hope you know by sharing your story, you are helping so many people dealing with grief and helping educate the rest to know the itty bitty things to look out for. your time will come, and you and Josh will be amazing parents. the term "everything happens for a reason" is so cliché, and doesn't make sense for this. there's no reason y'all should feel something so devastating. you are blessed with a perfect angel. i hope you feel peace, happiness and comfort when you're ready. many blessings and love sent to you both. 🤍

  • @kirstencuthbert3114
    @kirstencuthbert3114 Рік тому +26

    You are incredibly smart karlee such a amazing advocate for yourself most ppl would never even look into this or even know how too. You retain information so well, very interesting thanks for sharing ❤

  • @Bredelao
    @Bredelao Рік тому +5

    100%. I thought pregnancy was “rainbows and butterflies” until I found out at my 12 week ultrasound there was something wrong. We were told to expect to lose her any minute during the pregnancy and We lost our sweet girl at 20 months.. it’s definitely hard seeing some parents not appreciate having a healthy baby etc. I’d never wish this feeling on anyone.. and I absolutely hate that you guys have had to experience this and go through this as well. 💔 sending you guys so much love and strength.

  • @makaylaelizabeth7502
    @makaylaelizabeth7502 Рік тому +7

    I really want a podcast about karlees feelings after the loss of Luca, I too struggle with infertility and have lost a child and hearing all of this has helped me not feel so shitty with how I grieve, it just gives me a sense of comfort and I love it so much. Thank you both for everything❤️

  • @margRose
    @margRose Рік тому +4

    Wow!! 40% of women to gave this gene is a lot!!! You could be a spoksperson!

  • @julieboo1447
    @julieboo1447 Рік тому +3

    My brother was murdered and I'm having a hard time it makes me mad because someone took his life and it's unfair I won't be able to see him & thanks for sharing it brings awareness and it helps a lot sending much love ❤

  • @taylormelone
    @taylormelone Рік тому +5

    You def do not need to apologize for sharing this! It is so real, raw and relieving to see people who share the hard parts of life on social media. Life is not all rainbows and butterflies all the time and there's no need to pretend it is.

  • @Tahhliia
    @Tahhliia Рік тому +4

    I didn't even notice he touches the mic a lot. Until Karlee called him out.

  • @iRawrDinosaurx3
    @iRawrDinosaurx3 Рік тому +5

    I am amazed by how knowledgeable and smart you guys both are for your age ! I’m older and i’m learning so much from yall. Thank you for educating us on this subject :)

  • @KatChickVlogs
    @KatChickVlogs Рік тому +2

    Pregnancy is scary and people don’t get it. It’s not fun at all, you’re always worried about something. I’m so scared to get pregnant again

  • @emmamyers6152
    @emmamyers6152 Рік тому +4

    ADD is Generally Genetics some in rare cases are Gene mutations. I don’t know i don’t like to compare ADD to Cancer as someone with it. Just a thought before this vid premieres i’ll watch and see if i change my mind 😂

  • @fernandesfamily5167
    @fernandesfamily5167 Рік тому +3

    You two are so perfect together!! Please don’t base your first experience on what is to come, now Luca will always be able to protect their sibling or siblings, he is always with you guys! ❤❤

  • @kourteniemclean1379
    @kourteniemclean1379 Рік тому +2

    “You did the best you could, with the information that you had at the time.” ❤️ ~Mama Doctor Jones here on UA-cam

  • @irenesalas8406
    @irenesalas8406 Рік тому +2

    I believe this podcast should blow up! Super informative Karlee thanks for sharing your story! This is why you been one of my favorite UA-camrs all these years!

  • @saraidancy4958
    @saraidancy4958 Рік тому +4

    I completely agree that having a healthy full term baby is a miracle. It took 2.5 years for me to get pregnant and I did everything “right.” I walked, I avoided the foods you shouldn’t have, I ate well, I reduced stress, and still lost my baby to a concealed placenta abruption at 32 weeks. I get so angry when I hear about pregnant people that drink or smoke or take their baby for granted. I can’t take anyone complaining about anything or talking about something “stupid.” My heart breaks for you two grief is so so hard 💔

  • @zazu2958
    @zazu2958 Рік тому +1

    All this intellect- yeah that’s what makes us Libras SO exhausted. Wow- Karlee- hats off to you- being a Libra and LITERALLY considering EVERYTHING-it’s exhausting. I am going and have gone thru a slither of what you did and wow…Love you!

  • @iRawrDinosaurx3
    @iRawrDinosaurx3 Рік тому +2

    I wish you guys kept the old couples in the ring videos 🥺 I used to watch them as background noise when doing housework

  • @awesomeadamfrom2099
    @awesomeadamfrom2099 Рік тому +4

    Awe job with the podcast.

  • @lilypowder1
    @lilypowder1 10 місяців тому

    The way I’ve suffered from severe migraines since I was a child & have PCOS…. I’m seriously gonna look into this…

  • @btvisuals9761
    @btvisuals9761 Рік тому

    Yup ... I have 2 mutations of it. This explains so much now.

  • @tinat8162
    @tinat8162 Рік тому +1

    I don’t know if you both realise or not how much helpful information you shared. When you said “if this helps one person”, you guys really did. I , like many others I’m sure, had no idea about the folic acid part and really agree with josh in that it should be brought to mothers and fathers attention as early as possible. Thank you

  • @kingfrostice
    @kingfrostice Рік тому +1

    I think it's amazing you brought up this gene mutation. A lot of people like to say it doesn't exist when it very much does. Thank you for bringing awareness to it!

  • @jessirose1500
    @jessirose1500 Рік тому +2

    Wow I am SO interested in doing further research on this!! I have so many issues and infertility ! thanks for this ❤

  • @Jewpacshekur
    @Jewpacshekur Рік тому +1

    Kappa can’t take anything seriously 🤣

  • @karenchiusano8370
    @karenchiusano8370 Рік тому +2

    Karlee
    can you do a video or couples in the ring on what happened to your friend who was murdered
    That’s so sad ❤🙏

  • @monkey92ag
    @monkey92ag Рік тому

    I didn't notice the mike lol.. he was right

  • @FragranceEuphoria
    @FragranceEuphoria Рік тому

    So sorry for your loss Karlee. I also have MTHFR gene. I take folate vitamins and supposedly it helps with mood too.

  • @JaeC567
    @JaeC567 Рік тому

    yo that is INSANE about the folic acid thing!!!! wow..... i can't believe thats a thing! you are really raising awareness for these issues and advocating for ourselves in healthcare... like WHY did no one else tell you that???? why did you have to GOOGLE it to know!! shouldnt doctors be doing their due diligence?????? it is NOT your fault karlee.

  • @maddydutcher8035
    @maddydutcher8035 Рік тому

    I love you guys so much. I feel so sorry about Luca.. I have been A subscriber for years now & i’m so proud of you both & this really made me open my eyes.. I had a miscarriage back in march ):

  • @havenback8505
    @havenback8505 Рік тому

    Y’all are so strong and amazing honestly! Love watching your videos ❤

  • @averiegirlsdream4247
    @averiegirlsdream4247 Рік тому

    You don’t need to explain yourself to others. They don’t need to understand and most don’t even try. You guys are so strong. I’m praying for healing and peace for the both of you

  • @averiegirlsdream4247
    @averiegirlsdream4247 Рік тому

    You definitely are helping me guys. I will be doing 23 and me to heal myself.

  • @juliannaburnett6207
    @juliannaburnett6207 Рік тому

    I love that y’all talk about the science and stuff behind up it I hope you’re doing okay Karlee and josh

  • @Alainapar
    @Alainapar Рік тому +1

    My sister and i both have different forms of the MTHFR gene

    • @Alainapar
      @Alainapar Рік тому

      If you have ever heard of the multivitamin brand smartypants the prenatal has methylfolate instead of folic acid

  • @KathyB519
    @KathyB519 Рік тому

    ARE YOU TAKING THIS Now and can i take it to help me i cant find 5000m only 1 is that ok i need this i have the gene

  • @Berrybloom7
    @Berrybloom7 Рік тому

    I am definitely going to look into my genes on 23 and me. I have a lot of cancer in my family all my siblings have had it so if there more things to prevent.

  • @katmeyer1691
    @katmeyer1691 Рік тому

    You’re so strong Karlee thank you so much for sharing you and Joshs story about your son ❤️ Luca is and will always be with you

  • @brookerobbins3535
    @brookerobbins3535 Рік тому

    I lost a pregnancy due to a tubal pregnancy about a month ago after trying to get pregnant. Can you speak about how seeing other people pregnant at this time and how hard seeing that is? I feel guilty feeling resentment.

  • @Ashley-xh4xc
    @Ashley-xh4xc Рік тому

    Right there with you Karlee in those feelings and I never experienced those feelings before my loss and Then we lost everything from Hurricane Ian and having everyone around us family complain about gutters being messed up. An I had zero empathy for people because we were in such a different situation one that unless you’ve been there you just can’t understand it. It’s been rough to work through those feelings and while they definitely aren’t as often they still pop up. Grief and loss is so tough
    I am so happy your both opening this conversation up thank you for being vulnerable an doing this.

  • @chinitac9762
    @chinitac9762 Рік тому

    My infertility journey wasn’t as invasive as you I was lucky to only do IUI, and the anxiety that comes with the fear of anything happening to the baby in those 40weeks takes from the most joyful moment that it actually should be

  • @laura4686
    @laura4686 Рік тому

    I was waiting to say something about diet and lifestyle. Almost everything is based on that and everyone can control there life with the Fact what u put inside of you

  • @GabryelleSychtysz
    @GabryelleSychtysz Рік тому

    My sister showed my whole family how to look up our raw data on 23andme a couple of months ago and it was really helpful! I haven’t heard anyone really talk about it on social media and I’m betting a lot of people listening had no idea it was a thing!

  • @rebeccaxx760
    @rebeccaxx760 Рік тому

    Wow this is very informative! I think it will help a lot of people for sure, thank you for sharing your story!

  • @fernandesfamily5167
    @fernandesfamily5167 Рік тому

    I love hearing about your experience n hearing everything you have been thru, feel free to let your feels out about Luca n your experience, I’ll listen, you can vent on here anytime

  • @yasminarroyo6789
    @yasminarroyo6789 Рік тому

    I love you guys so much I’ve been following you since you started UA-cam ❤️ thank you so much for the information that you have given us. It’s so fucked up that no one knows about those things.

  • @Lilshaggy-07
    @Lilshaggy-07 Рік тому

    Much condolences Karlee and Josh❤ many hug!

  • @christie8822
    @christie8822 Рік тому

    Im so sorry this happened to you both. I still hope you will keep trying once you both are ready. You are so loved Luca ❤

  • @cassygoertzen
    @cassygoertzen Рік тому

    Love you guys very much

  • @lacyndapeloquin1332
    @lacyndapeloquin1332 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @jenlobbins4952
    @jenlobbins4952 Рік тому

    love you karlee & josh.

  • @Brian-rh2xd
    @Brian-rh2xd Рік тому

    loved this video

  • @siennakay3922
    @siennakay3922 Рік тому

  • @amybarrett5202
    @amybarrett5202 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @katesfam6644
    @katesfam6644 Рік тому +4

    Y’all talk crap about other people every single time you do an episode. Most people don’t neglect their kids. Most people don’t treat their kids like crap. Most people love their kids beyond anything else.

    • @xenial8425
      @xenial8425 Рік тому +4

      Don’t think she said most people. Just out of the millions of people in the world abuse and neglect exists

    • @Ct-vv6vn
      @Ct-vv6vn Рік тому +3

      Why is this what you got from the episode🤩

    • @StellaRose.
      @StellaRose. Рік тому

      Karlee is right

    • @StellaRose.
      @StellaRose. Рік тому

      @@xenial8425 facts!

  • @midnightangel1048
    @midnightangel1048 Рік тому +8

    Thanks for this info 💕 I have a lot of the same issues as you and I’m gonna check my raw dna now too.

  • @terriesparza2626
    @terriesparza2626 Рік тому

    I’m gna look up 23andme rn thank you so much ❤

  • @midnightangel1048
    @midnightangel1048 Рік тому +2

    Love you guys 💕💕 really interested about this topic