I'm giving birth in less than 20 days!!! Scheduling our induction for baby #2

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • Business Inquiries: collab@maddielambert.com
    Follow us:)
    Instagram- @maddieelambertt
    @EverlyJoyLambert
    TikTok- @Madslamby

КОМЕНТАРІ • 526

  • @Nikkif1013
    @Nikkif1013 6 місяців тому +214

    I think it’s great you keep your daughter home when she’s sick, I do the same. A lot of parents don’t care and send their children to school with fevers and all, it’s sad. I worked on the PTA at my son’s school and have seen soooo much.

    • @mione134
      @mione134 6 місяців тому +7

      Agreed

    • @IzabellaHaberski
      @IzabellaHaberski 6 місяців тому +13

      Just want to add that a lot of parents can't afford to miss work with a sick kid and it's a difficult choice.

    • @iamconeh
      @iamconeh 6 місяців тому +8

      I've been told that sending sick children to school is seen as both abuse and abandonment

    • @Nikkif1013
      @Nikkif1013 6 місяців тому +5

      @@IzabellaHaberski what do they do when kids have days off or when schools out? Yeah….

    • @IzabellaHaberski
      @IzabellaHaberski 6 місяців тому +2

      @@Nikkif1013 oh. You mean planned days home/at childcare. Yeah

  • @MarieEnglish
    @MarieEnglish 6 місяців тому +219

    Throw her toothbrush away after treatment from strep

  • @delicateds
    @delicateds 6 місяців тому +61

    im so excited!! baby Ryder is almost here!

  • @nicholepatterson6767
    @nicholepatterson6767 6 місяців тому +49

    Aww congrats I have followed you since you first had Everly and crested your page even watched you through your journey of getting your first home I have had a lot going on over the past year and kind of fell of from watching you but I'm so excited for you you are an amazing mama and I bet Everly is so excited

  • @terrinew9474
    @terrinew9474 6 місяців тому +33

    I'm so excited to see Ryder, I'm so happy for y'all. Hope Everly feels better. Thank you for sharing.😊

  • @brendad940
    @brendad940 6 місяців тому +10

    I'm so excited for you guys, he's almost here! My youngest son was born 3/26 @ 36 weeks, andxweighed 5lbs 15ozs. He was my only vaginal birth, my first two were emergency c-sections. Can't wait to meet little Ryder 😍. Much love from Wilsonville Oregon

  • @mariasvlogs1503
    @mariasvlogs1503 6 місяців тому +9

    Omg you must be so excited I was excited for the both of my babies at the end of pregnancy I was induced at 36 weeks with both and I couldn’t wait to meet them I was literally counting down the days so happy for you your a good mommy love your channel and can’t wait to see Ryder on your channel as well good luck!!!

  • @kathleenharrison5023
    @kathleenharrison5023 6 місяців тому +6

    Praying that you have a safe delivery and don’t need to get induced. Second baby usually comes faster and “easier” than the first. You
    are strong and brave and I know you will do fine.
    Definitely change out Everly’s tooth brush each time she is sick! Hope she is feeling better soon! Take good care.❤❤❤

  • @luv_dalia
    @luv_dalia 6 місяців тому +8

    I love how Everly is so funny all the time and can't wait to meet Ryder 💖💖💖💖

  • @janicefreeman6932
    @janicefreeman6932 6 місяців тому +18

    What an inspiration you are Maddie, being such a young mum. My grandson is due at the same time. Love from New Zealand.

  • @sashaparker3065
    @sashaparker3065 6 місяців тому +11

    Baby almost there! I feel like the days are going too fast today! Congrats 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @Kreatyve1
    @Kreatyve1 6 місяців тому +8

    I think Ryder is going to make his appearance in the next couple weeks, lol. Can't wait! So excited for Maddie, Randy, and Everly!

  • @TiaMunroe
    @TiaMunroe 6 місяців тому +3

    I love you and your family, Maddie. Been watching since the beginning. I love watching you guys grow ❤

  • @69kat69
    @69kat69 6 місяців тому +7

    That title got me so excited Maddie I’m so happy for you !

  • @deltasrage97yt
    @deltasrage97yt 6 місяців тому +10

    Congrats Maddie! Subscribed due to the video when you brought Everly in to talk to Hiho Kids. You're amazing!

    • @Nata-12q
      @Nata-12q 6 місяців тому

      In which video

    • @deltasrage97yt
      @deltasrage97yt 6 місяців тому

      @@Nata-12q Kids Meet: A Teen Mom

    • @Nata-12q
      @Nata-12q 5 місяців тому

      @@deltasrage97ytthanks

    • @deltasrage97yt
      @deltasrage97yt 5 місяців тому

      @@Nata-12q No Probs

  • @mione134
    @mione134 6 місяців тому +11

    How is the mold situation going on? Did your landlord fix it all? That could be making y'all sick.

  • @mackenzieternes5693
    @mackenzieternes5693 6 місяців тому +4

    just a warning, I have seen so many births in my career. many many times elective inductions end in having to use forceps or vacuum, or even end in csection. if your body is not ready it is sooo much harder on mom and baby. just think about it, if theres not a good medical indication for induction I 100% advise against it from my experience

  • @chelseabaker
    @chelseabaker 5 місяців тому +1

    I love your happy little family so much! So glad you’re happy! Can’t wait to see Ryder!

  • @AvaGeving
    @AvaGeving 6 місяців тому +12

    i love your channel so much ❤you are very inspirational and so kind

    • @paulafamularo5001
      @paulafamularo5001 6 місяців тому +3

      Inspirational??! 😂🤣🤡

    • @Nanax3.0
      @Nanax3.0 6 місяців тому +6

      ​@@paulafamularo5001do you just troll her comments all the time? I get it your jealous and have to much time on your hands so you have never given this girl anything positive 100 comments that says it all. Mean girls are so ugly.

    • @paulafamularo5001
      @paulafamularo5001 6 місяців тому

      @@Nanax3.0 , I’m jealous of a broke teen mom???? You’re laughable. Child exploitation, doesn’t deserve positivity. Clearly, you’re also a broke failure!! Bless your pathetic heart. Maybe, you can get pregnant when you’re a baby, and exploit and monetize your child. Then you can be just like Maddie. 🤣🤣👋🏼

    • @paulafamularo5001
      @paulafamularo5001 6 місяців тому

      @@Nanax3.0 , your use of benzodiazepines, in your handle, isn’t lost on me!!! Your comment has @ddict written all over it. Get help. You delusional thing.

    • @mmeadows1014
      @mmeadows1014 6 місяців тому +3

      @@paulafamularo5001so she had a baby at a very early age? Have you paid attention to what she’s accomplished and how much she’s grown to be such a wonderful mom? She’s amazing and still so young

  • @sydneyfriday8119
    @sydneyfriday8119 6 місяців тому +3

    The raspberry leaf tea isn’t supposed to induce labor it’s supposed to soften your cervix making it for a shorter labor time!

  • @sharonanderson346
    @sharonanderson346 6 місяців тому +2

    So excited and happy for you and Randy! Everly is going to be a fantastic big sister!

  • @PiperBailey160
    @PiperBailey160 6 місяців тому +9

    Ahhhhhhhhh so excited for y’all!!!!

  • @Sunnydreamer1470
    @Sunnydreamer1470 6 місяців тому +7

    I can’t help but think that at 13 you could have easily not had your adorable Everly . You brought her into the world and for that you are a hero young mom in my book! You are raising her so well 🥰 she will be a great big sis and such a help! My daughter was around her age when I had my second and it was so easy she wanted to do everything. Everly is very mature and smart .

    • @mandymorrow5473
      @mandymorrow5473 6 місяців тому

      Are you watching the same child I am? She's definitely not mature!

    • @hawaii3231
      @hawaii3231 6 місяців тому

      @@mandymorrow5473for a 6 year old…

    • @Sunnydreamer1470
      @Sunnydreamer1470 5 місяців тому

      I think she’s very smart for 6 , we can’t expect kids to be perfect all of the time but I don’t see her as bratty at all .

  • @Miapetdragon69
    @Miapetdragon69 6 місяців тому +32

    Well one, she's sick... Two she has a mom that can go into labor at any time... So it's kind of hard to predict what's going to happen, especially if your husband's working.

  • @Beemarie1974
    @Beemarie1974 6 місяців тому +5

    Maddie, you're a beautiful mother. I've watched your videos since Everly was a baby. You've done such a great job raising her, she is a cute little girl. I'm so excited for you to have baby Ryder. Blessings to your family!!

  • @bubblegumgirl89
    @bubblegumgirl89 5 місяців тому

    So happy and excited for u Maddy! I remembr watching ur vids years ago. Im wishing u a safe delivery and healthy baby

  • @aliyah_100
    @aliyah_100 6 місяців тому +3

    He’s ALMOST HERE 🤍🤍HOW EXCITING

  • @Nikkif1013
    @Nikkif1013 6 місяців тому +7

    You can stay 2cm dilated for a while or it can happen quick. I was 2cm for 2 weeks and then they ended up inducing me at 41 weeks.

  • @DarlingDaphneGrace
    @DarlingDaphneGrace 6 місяців тому +2

    I laughed so hard when ev said “not me, I love junk food.”

  • @user-ix8qy2zq1u
    @user-ix8qy2zq1u 5 місяців тому

    I havent seen this channel on my fyp in forever im so happy it showed up i started watching when everly/everleigh was so little now shes like so old like im gonna cry

  • @Ally_964
    @Ally_964 6 місяців тому +3

    Here’s some things I’ve noticed paying attention to pregnant people. You can tell when they are gonna give birth or they are getting closer bc they begin to get really tired and sleep more and start to feel nauseous. Not always the case but my sister was pregnant and I was saying to my sister that I noticed that she was sleeping a lot more and all this stuff and that she was gonna have her baby soon and then a week or less later she gave birth to her baby boy. He was a few weeks early tho. I did the same thing and went in to get induced but ended up already being in labor bc my water broke 3 hours before and was slowly releasing.

  • @Colleys_maddens
    @Colleys_maddens 6 місяців тому +1

    Omg the bump is huge now!!! It must be coming soon!!! Can't wait to see him when he is born!!!❤❤❤

  • @alexisreyes4179
    @alexisreyes4179 6 місяців тому +2

    Awww hope you enjoy your last few weeks of your pregnancy hoping you have a safe labor and delivery

  • @moneysports1793
    @moneysports1793 6 місяців тому +3

    In Australia you have to get your child a drs certificate to say what’s wrong and how long they need off. When I had my babies I ate a lot of small meals all day. When I had a big meal throughout the day it made me soooo tired.

  • @alexgordon14
    @alexgordon14 6 місяців тому +1

    I LOVE EVERLYS SHIRT!!! IM THERE RN!

  • @AlexKatrina21
    @AlexKatrina21 6 місяців тому +1

    FOR DIAPER BAG a pillow a blanket 2 shirts 1 pants 1 lose shorts snacks charger and soap and adult diapers for baby pacifier bottles and 3 outfits and some socks bring dish soap and a bottle brush to wash bottles just n case bc we didn’t have that and needed it other wise that’s all we used hope this helps ❤

  • @crisemm5207
    @crisemm5207 6 місяців тому +2

    YAY! BABY MONTH!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @amberdubrutz5735
    @amberdubrutz5735 6 місяців тому +1

    Prayers for a safe delivery with Ryder. 🙏

  • @abbytaylor9948
    @abbytaylor9948 6 місяців тому +3

    I’m 37 weeks tomorrow and that is considered full term and we will be talking about if we need to schedule an induction at our next appointment

  • @Mars_thesalad
    @Mars_thesalad 6 місяців тому +6

    I don't have a Roblox Ipad that has gotten a no internet notification but man, I gotta comment Roblox for my girl ev.

  • @InvisibleVicky
    @InvisibleVicky 6 місяців тому +2

    My second was born at 37 weeks. I was walking round 3-4cm for weeks. It’s normal with 2nd pregnancies to be dilated earlier

  • @amberd2268
    @amberd2268 5 місяців тому

    Love how you listen and talk to her ❤

  • @69kat69
    @69kat69 6 місяців тому +36

    One thing that I’ve always noticed about everly and I personally would go about it differently with my kids, is that she interrupts a lot. Yes she is little but if she doesn’t learn that interrupting someone is rude then when will she learn yk. I think maybe you want to make sure she never feels ignored but but you can make sure of that while telling her “ hey so, I will listen to what you have to say and I will let you talk but when I’m talking, let me finish talking please”
    My niece is 9, and since she was maybe 5ish I started teaching her the same thing.
    of course it’s not horrible if you decide not to teach her this and I’m sure it doesn’t affect life too much, but it is something that I think is valuable to learn at a young age. To respect when someone is talking and to not interrupt. I think I’m saying this because I’ve noticed that adults who were never taught this as kids, still interrupt and don’t let people speak. For example, my mom, my dad, so many of my ex teachers from when I was still in school, just so many people including myself and I’m still trying to work on it because I don’t like that quality of myself since i know how it comes across when someone is constantly interrupting? Anyways, like I said it’s not a big deal if you don’t wanna help her learn that I just think it’s something that’s worth teaching.
    I have adhd, I know that it could be that. However, if you go about it and say “ oh well I have adhd I can’t change anything about it “ and don’t try , you won’t get anywhere ever. Believe me I’m aware how hard things can get for us. And I also know that it’s harder for us to learn when we are adults. So why not take the opportunity to teach her now so that she grows up knowing this and it’s not something she has to learn when someone tells her something about it when shes an adult ? Like I said if she chooses not to teach her this it doesn’t make her a bad mom dude and it doesn’t make everly a bad kid. some of you guys are taking it completely the wrong way.

    • @ryders_mom
      @ryders_mom 6 місяців тому +9

      Well said.

    • @rosemaryheinrich2016
      @rosemaryheinrich2016 6 місяців тому +11

      Absolutely, I want to watch Maddie not listen to a kid all the time.

    • @boogie_lollipop4421
      @boogie_lollipop4421 6 місяців тому +8

      @@rosemaryheinrich2016why are you guys so angry about a 6 year old talking. its literally her kid. and her kid is apart of the youtube channel.

    • @boogie_lollipop4421
      @boogie_lollipop4421 6 місяців тому +7

      okay but like lowkey i dont think its appropriate to be lecturing her parent in a youtube comment section. shes talking because thats her mom and im pretty sure all kids yap to their mom.

    • @sarahpalmer411
      @sarahpalmer411 6 місяців тому +5

      @@rosemaryheinrich2016Then this is not the channel for you. This channel was created for Maddie and Everly, it’s the whole point. I watch it for Maddie myself, but she’s a mom, of course her kid will be included.

  • @alexisreyes4179
    @alexisreyes4179 6 місяців тому +3

    Yayyyy baby Ryder wants to come soon but he needs to stay in a little longer

  • @jennifercloar9319
    @jennifercloar9319 6 місяців тому +2

    I'm so happy for yallll❤

  • @Leighannacc
    @Leighannacc 5 місяців тому +1

    Eve said oh no😭🤣

  • @Gmahillx5
    @Gmahillx5 6 місяців тому +1

    I am so happy for you. You look so good even though you gained your weight. ❤❤❤❤

  • @Lvqssrxses
    @Lvqssrxses 6 місяців тому +6

    cant waittt

  • @franniebear777
    @franniebear777 6 місяців тому +1

    I've been sick for 2 months and I still feel miserable. Flu then sinus infection, then bronchitis, currently on my 3rd round of steroid medication. I hope EV feels better soon! ❤

  • @amydevlin3509
    @amydevlin3509 5 місяців тому +1

    Omg she’s grown up so much 😭

  • @Sonicphantom47
    @Sonicphantom47 6 місяців тому +1

    I can't wait for baby Ryder!!!

  • @bethgarland8401
    @bethgarland8401 6 місяців тому +8

    congrats prayers all goes well maddie

  • @reidhayley
    @reidhayley 6 місяців тому +2

    Roblox terrifies me. The seminars I've attended all say keep you children off Roblox especially the very young ones.

  • @alexisreyes4179
    @alexisreyes4179 6 місяців тому +2

    Omg I hope everly gets better soon

  • @bellasalas970
    @bellasalas970 6 місяців тому +6

    so cuteeeee

  • @elainefargo2570
    @elainefargo2570 5 місяців тому

    Good job keeping her home. You are right and responsible. The eight ball really doesn't have the power as God to lead you into truth, just saying kindly. I am super excited for you and your sweet family!!! I am new to your channel. I saw a couple other videos. I am seeing the whole process. Your daughter is beautiful. I am so excited for you too. Maybe you have had him by now, not sure. I'm still watching your video. :)

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 6 місяців тому +1

    Hi Maddie good Saturday afternoon and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing

  • @RedMouthSmileAndFreedom
    @RedMouthSmileAndFreedom 6 місяців тому +2

    Im spanish and its such a cultural shock that corn dogs are the "healthy food" 🤣🤣🤣 my mom woulve NEVER let me eat so many fried things in a row

  • @hammettgirl
    @hammettgirl 6 місяців тому +3

    So exciting!!

  • @ShayalAhmednaseem-pi7tv
    @ShayalAhmednaseem-pi7tv 5 місяців тому

    Is it just me or she looks gorgeous pregnant and it's an amazing bump 😍

  • @mango_11_12
    @mango_11_12 5 місяців тому

    Youre dauhter is so cute and sweet and you are a sneet person to ❤

  • @fantasyprincessgirl
    @fantasyprincessgirl 6 місяців тому +3

    I can’t wait to meet him!

  • @mothernature5237
    @mothernature5237 6 місяців тому +2

    can u do baby clothes and nursery haul?

  • @kathypotter1323
    @kathypotter1323 6 місяців тому

    U and ur daughter so cute yall do good together god bless u and ur newborn to

  • @AussieCeleste-qq7sn
    @AussieCeleste-qq7sn 6 місяців тому +3

    Hope it goes well

  • @julieboeckmann797
    @julieboeckmann797 6 місяців тому +2

    You have posted several times, where Everly missed school when she was well. Maybe that is the problem instead of being sick.

  • @bannaanlana
    @bannaanlana 6 місяців тому +1

    With my second, I "dilated" by the time they checked at 32 weeks but the nurse told me after the first baby it's common for the cervix to never fully close again aka stay at 1 cm forever

  • @QueenSpicyMama
    @QueenSpicyMama 6 місяців тому

    Everly is so funny, she will be an actress 😂😂😂💓

  • @paulah4476
    @paulah4476 6 місяців тому +2

    I wish you all well❤

  • @AvaGeving
    @AvaGeving 6 місяців тому +4

    i’m excited our sons might be born about the same time since i’m being induced most to happen due to medical reasons not that i have to explain but people often judge and assume 😅❤ i love y’all so much take care :) i would originally be due april 8th!!! to add to my comment: just came back to comment cause i’m excited for you and excited to meet my beautiful boy oliver which i’m planned induced/ have a c section not electively but because i am high risk and have complications hypertension and my baby is breech and won’t flip head down! this is planned to be around the same week you’d be induced late march before april 1st!!! well i wish you the very best of luck! and sending positive vibes!!! i’ll be 38 weeks on march 25th and planned to be induced / have the c section towards the end of march around 25th-31st my the date is tbd right now my OB is checking with the hospital an exact date to schedule me but yeahhhhh it’s so exciting ❤ 🎉

  • @roar44879
    @roar44879 6 місяців тому +7

    Girl, I would never again have an induction.

    • @mackenzieternes5693
      @mackenzieternes5693 6 місяців тому +4

      yes this! elective inductions increase risk of birth trauma for mom and baby and higher risk of csection !! terrible choice if not medically indicated

    • @roar44879
      @roar44879 6 місяців тому +1

      @@mackenzieternes5693 yes, I only had it done because I was pushed for it being 10 days past my due date. I'm honestly shocked at how many women schedule inductions to, I guess "plan," which day the baby will arrive.

  • @mione134
    @mione134 6 місяців тому +3

    Make sure you have a doctors note and send it to the school. That way the school cant say anything.

  • @nettycastillo1822
    @nettycastillo1822 6 місяців тому +19

    Maddie you're too cute because corn dogs are junk food 😂

  • @anisayeasmin8462
    @anisayeasmin8462 6 місяців тому +1

    What happened to Allie Brook? Does anybody know?

  • @adrijanacernjajev
    @adrijanacernjajev 6 місяців тому +4

    My youngest cousin is birthday on April 3th but he die 3 years ago

  • @toshy3611
    @toshy3611 6 місяців тому +1

    Didn’t anyone notice her saying “Jesus Christ” 😂😂😂😂

  • @vernievlogs2921
    @vernievlogs2921 6 місяців тому +1

    Can you do a updated nursery tour

  • @danamiracle
    @danamiracle 6 місяців тому

    Yes Everly that does happen to me on Roblox all the timeeee and I agree with you girly it is so annoying!! 😭🫶

  • @ZacharyJay-i3j
    @ZacharyJay-i3j 6 місяців тому +1

    I know what Everly going through, I get sick all the time

  • @oliver_theoil223
    @oliver_theoil223 6 місяців тому

    Can't wait to see the baby!!!!

  • @MargaritaBurnias
    @MargaritaBurnias 6 місяців тому +3

    yayy its baby month , Cant wait . have you took any maternity photos yet ? I feel like that's what your nursery could be missing :)

  • @lornatw
    @lornatw 6 місяців тому +1

    Why are schools not sending home-work or videos or Even live zooms the kids can keep up with if sick but functional? Esp after the pand, resources are more than avaiable and adaptable!

  • @courtneysimsgameplay8217
    @courtneysimsgameplay8217 6 місяців тому +11

    I suggest a new tooth brush might help

  • @simaonsunda4547
    @simaonsunda4547 6 місяців тому +2

    March 29

  • @kmoore5976
    @kmoore5976 5 місяців тому

    Everly is so big now I watched one of y’all’s videos right now and it said it was two years ago. It was when you went through the iPad.🎉❤

  • @awakened3651
    @awakened3651 6 місяців тому +8

    Since when are corndogs 'healthy'? Pineapple naturally has a lot of sugar but can still be healthy, but not with unnecessary added sugar.

  • @kmoore5976
    @kmoore5976 5 місяців тому

    I’m so happy for you❤

  • @dianachandler1543
    @dianachandler1543 6 місяців тому +3

    I love how you stop and let her speak. Giving her a chance to express herself.

    • @amymorrill4647
      @amymorrill4647 6 місяців тому

      There is a difference between " giving her a chance to express herself" and rudely interrupting someone that is talking. Everly constantly does this. She needs to learn that this is rude and be shown the proper way "to express herself."

  • @meerachakkera9968
    @meerachakkera9968 6 місяців тому +2

    I'm excited for ya

  • @BellaBeHappy
    @BellaBeHappy 6 місяців тому +2

    My birthday is march 19th!! We could be bday buddies!!❤

  • @Macyyyjnm24
    @Macyyyjnm24 6 місяців тому +2

    I'm 38 weeks and two days I will be having a c section this Thursday 😢❤

  • @jellybean271977
    @jellybean271977 6 місяців тому +3

    Maddy ur cute as a button ever can't believe it's almost time to meet baby boy. Been with u from when baby girl came til now can't wait for many more. After baby boy is born try chiro for nasal path crack it will open u up. Good luck on baby boy praying for u n him during his birth coming soon

  • @brendacarson332
    @brendacarson332 6 місяців тому +4

    So piticler ❤

  • @sherrychapman9851
    @sherrychapman9851 6 місяців тому +1

    Just popped back in on this video to see ifcwe have a Ryder yet. ❤️

  • @alyssamatter3223
    @alyssamatter3223 6 місяців тому

    There is some great options on Amazon and Target

  • @alexisreyes4179
    @alexisreyes4179 6 місяців тому +5

    You should definitely do a pregnancy belly cast of your belly so you have a mold of your belly that you can paint it and then hang it up in your baby boy’s nursery once it’s dried

  • @emmathomas7211
    @emmathomas7211 5 місяців тому +2

    I just watched her story about getting pregnant at 13 and now she's expecting a second one?!?

  • @susanemery2310
    @susanemery2310 6 місяців тому +4

    Randy being diabetic, can the baby have it to.?

    • @KH10118
      @KH10118 6 місяців тому +2

      If he has type 1, then yes it can be genetic

    • @susanemery2310
      @susanemery2310 6 місяців тому

      @@KH10118 I'll pray my prayers that Grama prays. I wan

  • @mimiluna4
    @mimiluna4 6 місяців тому

    my daughter and i are both april first babies! 🌻

  • @KelseyGray-vg6rx
    @KelseyGray-vg6rx 6 місяців тому +2

    My birthday is on the 19th. I wonder if Rider will share a birthday with me.