Wow Samke l am sooo sorry sisi for what you went through. Your story has given me hope that no situation is permanent. Well done and keep on shinning. One day your daughter will realise that you have always been a Good mum. You owe us a book and l know many people will be healed by your story 🙌🙌
Samke my sis you are the adult in this situation,please u need a family therapy together with your daughter. Individual therapy sessions first then joint therapy ❤. Your daughter is still a minor ,she might be abused , or going through trauma. Please reach out and work your relationship out. Your relationship has been strained but it can be recovered, Love and Light to you my sister ❤
I think Samke approaches parenting differently because that’s all she knows and that maybe what’s causing the rift with her daughter. She had to fend for herself since she was 10 so to her a 14 year old can make her own choices but that’s not how her daughter grew up. I think they need intensive therapy together so they can understand each other
I can relate to this my daughter only see me as atm other than that she is more on my aunt side I can’t reprimand or say anything she only listen to my cousins and aunt so I can relate 😢
I find it interesting that she refers to her as "the child" and not my daughter. Is it possible that she is also somewhat emotionally distant from her daughter from all that has transpired. Both pf them need intensive therapy to undo a lot. All the best in your future. God be with you.
I hope she will do that. She is so detached from the child that she never refers to her as "my daughter" or "my child". Kudos to her for choosing herself but she's perpetuating a cycle of broken mother to daughter relationship. Anyway, good luck, mama. ❤❤
And I hear you say you don’t want to go to court and fight for your child because you feel she is an “adult” but she’s still so young she still needs you to fight for her 13 is very young !!! Fight for your child get your child with you and take your child to therapy !!
I love her ultimate message, when we reunite they should find you in a better place so that it doesn't change to oh look where I am waiting or fighting for you. So bo mommy phelang
Please take your child to therapy @Samke your child needs serious professional help . You keep on mentioning that she’s not happy and that can be unpacked in therapy please plesse please do not give up on your child!!!!!
😢😢😢iyooo this is painful, I am going through this at the moment, on this Thursday I had heart attack 💔 and pains,i was seing my self in hospital on that day but the grace of God I'm okay Don't forget that I'm the one who raised her from 9 yrs still in primary till last of last year doing grade 12,and I was the only one paying school fees, the dad was enjoying his life,I am even asking my if I'm a bad mother,and even if I wants cheats for us she will just answer one question, just imagine now I'm the one who is fighting for to go to university, I really don't know if she can see the important of having a mom
I think this evil grandmother not only poisoned the child against you but she bewitched her. Bayqedile lengane ngemithi ngeke🤞Please fight for your child and don't stop praying!
Listening to her full story now I can tell that Samka is a narcissist and pity most people will realise later but I think the father of her babe saw that
But what if the child is being abused where she stays? Maybe she gets quiet cause she doesn't know you and doesn't know how to open up to you? And the more you don't take charge, the more the other family takes advantage of your child, manipulating her and using her for their gain, using her to get back to you and you are allowing all that.
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Wow Samke l am sooo sorry sisi for what you went through. Your story has given me hope that no situation is permanent. Well done and keep on shinning. One day your daughter will realise that you have always been a Good mum. You owe us a book and l know many people will be healed by your story 🙌🙌
Oh Samke my best friend.. I’m super proud of you ❤❤ngyazi usukaphi ne mpilo
Your interviewing skills Promise!! 💯💯💯
She's good neh❤
Samke my sis you are the adult in this situation,please u need a family therapy together with your daughter. Individual therapy sessions first then joint therapy ❤. Your daughter is still a minor ,she might be abused , or going through trauma. Please reach out and work your relationship out. Your relationship has been strained but it can be recovered, Love and Light to you my sister ❤
I can relate with ur situation... families put us through the most.
Promise our fighter, i have always been interested in samke's story.
The baby daddy is such an opportunist
I think Samke approaches parenting differently because that’s all she knows and that maybe what’s causing the rift with her daughter. She had to fend for herself since she was 10 so to her a 14 year old can make her own choices but that’s not how her daughter grew up. I think they need intensive therapy together so they can understand each other
I can relate to this my daughter only see me as atm other than that she is more on my aunt side I can’t reprimand or say anything she only listen to my cousins and aunt so I can relate 😢
Samke❤❤❤❤love n light 🕯️
As a mother of a daughter, I feel ur pain
I find it interesting that she refers to her as "the child" and not my daughter. Is it possible that she is also somewhat emotionally distant from her daughter from all that has transpired. Both pf them need intensive therapy to undo a lot. All the best in your future. God be with you.
I thought the same..weird that She is not attached to this child ..
Look at how God works! 😭👏You are an inspiration Samke.
Next time take the kid to a therapist please
I hope she will do that. She is so detached from the child that she never refers to her as "my daughter" or "my child". Kudos to her for choosing herself but she's perpetuating a cycle of broken mother to daughter relationship. Anyway, good luck, mama. ❤❤
And I hear you say you don’t want to go to court and fight for your child because you feel she is an “adult” but she’s still so young she still needs you to fight for her 13 is very young !!! Fight for your child get your child with you and take your child to therapy !!
Wow Samke your story is painful my sister, may God give you strength ❤
Concerningdark inner parts - some of it is glucose intolerance and a very good sign to start thinking diabetes etc. So dont just rush for products
I love her ultimate message, when we reunite they should find you in a better place so that it doesn't change to oh look where I am waiting or fighting for you. So bo mommy phelang
Promise can you please link her channel
Samke ❤
Please take your child to therapy @Samke your child needs serious professional help . You keep on mentioning that she’s not happy and that can be unpacked in therapy please plesse please do not give up on your child!!!!!
Thank you @ Mrs Law and the lady my kind of a situation a bit
I can relate girl, so sad
I feel like giving Samke a HUGE HUG, I can not even begin to imagine the pain of being treated so badly by your own child😢
Love and light mommy ❤
😢😢😢iyooo this is painful, I am going through this at the moment, on this Thursday I had heart attack 💔 and pains,i was seing my self in hospital on that day but the grace of God I'm okay
Don't forget that I'm the one who raised her from 9 yrs still in primary till last of last year doing grade 12,and I was the only one paying school fees, the dad was enjoying his life,I am even asking my if I'm a bad mother,and even if I wants cheats for us she will just answer one question, just imagine now I'm the one who is fighting for to go to university, I really don't know if she can see the important of having a mom
I think this evil grandmother not only poisoned the child against you but she bewitched her. Bayqedile lengane ngemithi ngeke🤞Please fight for your child and don't stop praying!
They do vele 😢
She didn't bewitch her the child just bonded with granny that's all once she grows up she ll go to her mom
Promise, please check your guests microphone, it's too low
Maybe it was ur phone, mic is louder
Very low
I agree with Samke,as painful as it is,Koki should take a step back and let God lead because her issue has been turned into a circus.
What a sad story Samke😢
Listening to her full story now I can tell that Samka is a narcissist and pity most people will realise later but I think the father of her babe saw that
God is the father of fatherless yoooo
Shes just a child, they get manipulated easily. She'll come around. Even if she doesn't, try and move on with your life, you've tried.
You always say you will your link your handle but you never do
youtube.com/@samke_mahlanze?si=UL8I9TYIUMzWYYH-
Oh Samke, I'm sorry darling
Samke the child just last week year September, you should have taken it from there and be patient even involve psychologists
What about the granny that raised you for 5 years, did you ever acknowledge her or appreciate her
Why?
She doesn't acknowledge anyone who contributed to her life
"I cried from April until I gave birth" 😂😂😂😂😂🤣⚰️😭💔
Banna ba sehlogo ene ga ba re rate re ikgapeletša bona😂😭
But what if the child is being abused where she stays? Maybe she gets quiet cause she doesn't know you and doesn't know how to open up to you? And the more you don't take charge, the more the other family takes advantage of your child, manipulating her and using her for their gain, using her to get back to you and you are allowing all that.
It is highly possible, this girl need to fetch her child and build the relationship with her take her fulltime she will get used to you
Modimo 😢my baby girl is 11, I can't imagine what ypu going through. I console myself with you saying the father has always been reponsible for her.
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Samke, don't you think counseling will do your child some good
Definitely she will get it once we are re-united
But why does she refer her daughter as 'the child' instead of my daughter 😮
It doesn't matter we get the context.
Painful
The step mom is evil 😮
As always but we never look the wrongs of biological mother,funny part is that this lady is a narcissist and u guys don't see it
@@whatislove-ur8ifhow is she a narcissist?
Am looking for samke’s link
Me too
Hi guys it is me…
youtube.com/@samke_mahlanze?si=UL8I9TYIUMzWYYH-
It's painful