It's precisely men with these traits that made me check into Islam. I loved watching them bow before ALLAH in humility, I thought it was the most beautiful sight I had ever seen. I'd never seen this in Western men.
Dr yasir qadhi is my favourite scholer....May Allah bless him...i wish to meet dr yasir qadhi....i dnt think dr.yasir reads comments...but still want to say please come to kashmir india....we want to learn from a teacher like you...
Excellent speech. I love how YQ explains that rijaal is not in competition with women but other males. Spiritual discipline, protecting your fellow believers, and being caring and loving are qualities of all real men and women. Screaming, shouting, and being aggressive is being highly emotional. The problem is that people don’t see anger as an emotion. Healthy humanity is the solution because everyone needs to worship, protect, be emotionally intelligent, and show others kindness and respect.
Yes, you nailed it with this comment! And closely related to that sentiment, I have been complaining to my friends for some time that the idea of male standards/ masculinity becoming the what women compete with is actually quite insulting to us. Why do I need to achieve what a man does to prove myself? Are my feminine ambitions not enough? Am I less because I’m not like a man? The irony of it is almost comical. Especially when it came to the sexual freedom movement… women should get to be promiscuous just because men already were? Why would I want to lower myself to reach their standard? Lol.
This is the best lecture on how we should be as Muslims, for men and women. Our youth are in desperate need of strong Muslim leaders and role models! Shaykh Yasir Qadhi is one of these positive strong role models and Alhumdulillah for him!
I also love the explanation of gender roles changing depending on time and culture. In my culture, men and women share in the financial, child rearing, and household duties equitably. It doesn’t make the woman any less feminine or the man less masculine. Both parties are working together to make the household run harmoniously.
00:01 Quran distinguishes between male and man, praising masculinity over being male 02:54 Allah praises men who fulfill their promises and display courage and bravery. 08:22 Real manhood is demonstrated through piety to small details for the sake of Allah. 11:08 Real men prioritize worship of Allah over worldly pursuits. 16:53 Real men prioritize prayer over physical appearance 19:04 Critique of toxic masculinity in the Sunnah 23:33 Toxic masculinity enforces strict gender roles, while healthy masculinity is flexible and understanding. 25:35 Real masculinity involves being able to modify cultural roles and display emotions 29:49 Men should not be afraid to display emotion 31:46 Differentiating toxic masculinity from healthy masculinity 36:13 A real leader doesn't need to boast, but earns respect. 38:33 A real man physically protects his wife during an argument. 42:48 Embrace positive traits and understand gender strengths 45:01 Traditional gender roles promote harmonious relationships
What does Ibadah mean? Some women make twice what their husbands make. Some make 1/5 of what their husbands make. Western culture require duel incomes. But the contribution to household expenses should be scaled to match their income ratios. If she makes 1/5, then she pays 1/5 of expensive. But, really it depends on the couple. Some women say they’ll pay the food bill, but he pays everything else.
So true! So many of our men are very demanding of their "Islamic rights" but completely ignore the rights they owe to their wives, children and families!
They wouldn’t do that if women didn’t need to work. If women didn’t work this wouldn’t be a need as the husband would take care of the wife. But due to our economy and society where being middle class and living recently requires 2 incomes, the woman needs to chip in.
2) Prioritized prayer over business 3) Stood up against their people to speak the truth/defend Islam 4) Not scared of cancel culture or society gossip when following Allah
Excellent advice regarding the over emphasis on physique. There’s practical benefit to having strength, but many young men today are just obsessed with appearance. Young men, instead of wasting all of your time at the gym, go and get a good understanding of basic physics and mechanics. As in, how levers work; how gears work; what are the fundamental types of machines; how to use power tools properly; how to do things and how to make things. Get practical knowledge, so that you understand how the world around you works, and so that you can repair or build things for yourself, without always being dependent on other people. This will serve you much better in life than wasting hours staring at your muscles in the gym.
I liked the lesson until he ruined it in the end by saying and that's how a woman can control the man. No one should have control over the other but mutual consent in treating each other with dignity, love and respect.
Please make one for women, this was so helpful! Especially as a convert who grew up around these toxic Western values.
JazakAllah hair sheikh
Jazak Allah Khair and Hair ya sheikh
I’m also a convert and was JUST thinking this as the lecture concluded!
@@sonjarenae3968 Alhamdulillah! I was blown away by this video.
Also welcome to Islam (: may Allah bless you infinitely
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JazakAllahu Khairan @@Renee529
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So glad to see a scholar as renowned as Sheikh Yasir actually chose to address this. May Allah bless you! Ameen.
It's precisely men with these traits that made me check into Islam. I loved watching them bow before ALLAH in humility, I thought it was the most beautiful sight I had ever seen.
I'd never seen this in Western men.
The modern Western ideology is narcissism and psychopaty which is the exact opposite of Islam.
the leader doesn't need to boast he's the leader , Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi
This is what this generation needs to hear. Best lecture ever👍
Dr yasir qadhi is my favourite scholer....May Allah bless him...i wish to meet dr yasir qadhi....i dnt think dr.yasir reads comments...but still want to say please come to kashmir india....we want to learn from a teacher like you...
I wish scholars like him to be here @Kashmir ❤
EXCELLENT take by Dr YASIR QADHI!
Excellent speech. I love how YQ explains that rijaal is not in competition with women but other males. Spiritual discipline, protecting your fellow believers, and being caring and loving are qualities of all real men and women. Screaming, shouting, and being aggressive is being highly emotional. The problem is that people don’t see anger as an emotion. Healthy humanity is the solution because everyone needs to worship, protect, be emotionally intelligent, and show others kindness and respect.
Yes, you nailed it with this comment! And closely related to that sentiment, I have been complaining to my friends for some time that the idea of male standards/ masculinity becoming the what women compete with is actually quite insulting to us. Why do I need to achieve what a man does to prove myself? Are my feminine ambitions not enough? Am I less because I’m not like a man? The irony of it is almost comical. Especially when it came to the sexual freedom movement… women should get to be promiscuous just because men already were? Why would I want to lower myself to reach their standard? Lol.
بارك الله فيكم. محاضرة جميلة جدًا والله
Alhamdulillah both men women have to hear the best lecture of my dearest brother Yasir quadhi
Maashaallaah! We Love You Yasir Qadhi Saab!
Men fear none but Allah
Allahu akbar
Anyone thinking of marriage should watch this lecture
And especially everybody in marriage
Jazakallahu haira for the powerful message, Dr. Yasir Qadhi. May Almighty reward you.
MAY ALLAH BLESS
JAZAKALLAHU KHAIRAN KASEERA
SHEIKH YAASIR
This is the best lecture on how we should be as Muslims, for men and women. Our youth are in desperate need of strong Muslim leaders and role models! Shaykh Yasir Qadhi is one of these positive strong role models and Alhumdulillah for him!
Honestly amazing.
Excellent lecture. Jazakumullah khayr to Shaykh YQ for shedding much needed light on this issue.
I also love the explanation of gender roles changing depending on time and culture. In my culture, men and women share in the financial, child rearing, and household duties equitably. It doesn’t make the woman any less feminine or the man less masculine. Both parties are working together to make the household run harmoniously.
i pray that one day i'll be able to attend one of your lectures, cheikh yassir
Masha Allah, Best lecture
00:01 Quran distinguishes between male and man, praising masculinity over being male
02:54 Allah praises men who fulfill their promises and display courage and bravery.
08:22 Real manhood is demonstrated through piety to small details for the sake of Allah.
11:08 Real men prioritize worship of Allah over worldly pursuits.
16:53 Real men prioritize prayer over physical appearance
19:04 Critique of toxic masculinity in the Sunnah
23:33 Toxic masculinity enforces strict gender roles, while healthy masculinity is flexible and understanding.
25:35 Real masculinity involves being able to modify cultural roles and display emotions
29:49 Men should not be afraid to display emotion
31:46 Differentiating toxic masculinity from healthy masculinity
36:13 A real leader doesn't need to boast, but earns respect.
38:33 A real man physically protects his wife during an argument.
42:48 Embrace positive traits and understand gender strengths
45:01 Traditional gender roles promote harmonious relationships
Jazak Allah khair Dr. Qadhi for all your good deeds
JazakaAllahu kheiran, very great lecture 🙏
Alhamdulillah. Nice lecture
Our men today are fighting their women to pay 50% of the household finances. And their ibadah is very weak. May Allah guide them
Aameen
What does Ibadah mean? Some women make twice what their husbands make. Some make 1/5 of what their husbands make. Western culture require duel incomes. But the contribution to household expenses should be scaled to match their income ratios. If she makes 1/5, then she pays 1/5 of expensive. But, really it depends on the couple. Some women say they’ll pay the food bill, but he pays everything else.
So true! So many of our men are very demanding of their "Islamic rights" but completely ignore the rights they owe to their wives, children and families!
Stop using your brain !
They wouldn’t do that if women didn’t need to work. If women didn’t work this wouldn’t be a need as the husband would take care of the wife. But due to our economy and society where being middle class and living recently requires 2 incomes, the woman needs to chip in.
فيا ذلي و يا خجلي إذا ما قال لي ربي , اما ستحييت تعصيني ولا تخشى من العتب .
JazakAllah kairan very beautifully presented
1) Bravery charactized by defending Islam and Family till death.
2)
2) Prioritized prayer over business
3) Stood up against their people to speak the truth/defend Islam
4) Not scared of cancel culture or society gossip when following Allah
❤❤❤❤❤❤ beautifully said .. jajakallah khairan
Great lecture. Thank you brother!!
Great talk. Thank you.
Dr Mona Alyedreessy sent me here ❤
I can't wait
Alhamdulillah
Came here from Dr Mona’s podcast 88 | The 3 Golden Chances Narcissistic Man Children Get From God to Transform Their Lives
Me too subhanAllah!
Who?
Please do a video about healthy femininity. Jazzak Allahu khair for this important lecture Dr. Qadhi.
Informative and engaging. Sadakta
“What can I do if Allah has removed all compassion from your heart?”
Keep Allah swt name on the tongue ,
Excellent advice regarding the over emphasis on physique. There’s practical benefit to having strength, but many young men today are just obsessed with appearance.
Young men, instead of wasting all of your time at the gym, go and get a good understanding of basic physics and mechanics. As in, how levers work; how gears work; what are the fundamental types of machines; how to use power tools properly; how to do things and how to make things.
Get practical knowledge, so that you understand how the world around you works, and so that you can repair or build things for yourself, without always being dependent on other people. This will serve you much better in life than wasting hours staring at your muscles in the gym.
Aujubillah aujubillah aujubillah .
❤
Allah hu Akbar
20:21 Mor.Gerald
69- طوروس نومي (موريتانيا ومالي).
19-توجد نسخة أخرى أسفل حراشف الجزيرة (الصمغية) ذات التربة الأسترالية.
14:52 Mor.Gerald
40- برج الثور تنزانيا أولاً زنجبار ثم جزيرة العذراء !!!
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Please read Sura Jinn,72:6.Clearly here,Rijaal word is used in negative way.Kindly please explain this.
I hope there is a solution also on how to fix the issue
95-الميزان من شأنه أن يكتب بواسطة بوسان، لكن كلمة كوريا ليست موجودة هناك - يمكنك الحصول عليها مثل واكوناي وسابورو اليابان.
08:15 Mor.Gerald
113-سمكة بوليفيا أويوني.
جزر مريم-أجانيا ماريانا.
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01:11 Mor.Gerald97-برج الحمل فيلادلفيا أمريكا والفاتحو-ليف دكا الهند..
1 Dakka India.
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where is this other lecture that the Shaykh was mentioning
38:45🤭🥹
I liked the lesson until he ruined it in the end by saying and that's how a woman can control the man. No one should have control over the other but mutual consent in treating each other with dignity, love and respect.
The Prophet (saw) said "If I had to order anyone to bow down and prostrate to another human, I would have ordered the wife to prostrate before her husband"
روى ابن ماجه (1853) عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى قَالَ :
" لَمَّا قَدِمَ مُعَاذٌ مِنْ الشَّامِ سَجَدَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا هَذَا يَا مُعَاذُ قَالَ أَتَيْتُ الشَّامَ فَوَافَقْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِأَسَاقِفَتِهِمْ وَبَطَارِقَتِهِمْ فَوَدِدْتُ فِي نَفْسِي أَنْ نَفْعَلَ ذَلِكَ بِكَ ؟
فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ؛ فَإِنِّي لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ ، لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا ؛ وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ مُحَمَّدٍ بِيَدِهِ لَا تُؤَدِّي الْمَرْأَةُ حَقَّ رَبِّهَا ، حَتَّى تُؤَدِّيَ حَقَّ زَوْجِهَا ، وَلَوْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى قَتَبٍ ؛ لَمْ تَمْنَعْهُ " وقال الألباني: حسن صحيح
@@AbdullahMohammad-mg2tt Liar. It doesn’t say that anywhere. Proof of Hadith manipulation.
@@uslee19 روى ابن ماجه (1853) عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى قَالَ :
" لَمَّا قَدِمَ مُعَاذٌ مِنْ الشَّامِ سَجَدَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا هَذَا يَا مُعَاذُ قَالَ أَتَيْتُ الشَّامَ فَوَافَقْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِأَسَاقِفَتِهِمْ وَبَطَارِقَتِهِمْ فَوَدِدْتُ فِي نَفْسِي أَنْ نَفْعَلَ ذَلِكَ بِكَ ؟
فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ؛ فَإِنِّي لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ ، لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا ؛ وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ مُحَمَّدٍ بِيَدِهِ لَا تُؤَدِّي الْمَرْأَةُ حَقَّ رَبِّهَا ، حَتَّى تُؤَدِّيَ حَقَّ زَوْجِهَا ، وَلَوْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى قَتَبٍ ؛ لَمْ تَمْنَعْهُ " وقال الألباني: حسن صحيح
The Hadith is authentic and actually says alot more than that like "by the one in whose hand is Mohammads soul a woman does not fulfil her lords rights until she fulfils her husbands"
@@uslee19روى ابن ماجه (1853) عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى قَالَ :
" لَمَّا قَدِمَ مُعَاذٌ مِنْ الشَّامِ سَجَدَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا هَذَا يَا مُعَاذُ قَالَ أَتَيْتُ الشَّامَ فَوَافَقْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِأَسَاقِفَتِهِمْ وَبَطَارِقَتِهِمْ فَوَدِدْتُ فِي نَفْسِي أَنْ نَفْعَلَ ذَلِكَ بِكَ ؟
فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ؛ فَإِنِّي لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ ، لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا ؛ وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ مُحَمَّدٍ بِيَدِهِ لَا تُؤَدِّي الْمَرْأَةُ حَقَّ رَبِّهَا ، حَتَّى تُؤَدِّيَ حَقَّ زَوْجِهَا ، وَلَوْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى قَتَبٍ ؛ لَمْ تَمْنَعْهُ " وقال الألباني: حسن صحيح
@@uslee19روى ابن ماجه (1853) عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى قَالَ :
" لَمَّا قَدِمَ مُعَاذٌ مِنْ الشَّامِ سَجَدَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا هَذَا يَا مُعَاذُ قَالَ أَتَيْتُ الشَّامَ فَوَافَقْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِأَسَاقِفَتِهِمْ وَبَطَارِقَتِهِمْ فَوَدِدْتُ فِي نَفْسِي أَنْ نَفْعَلَ ذَلِكَ بِكَ ؟
فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ؛ فَإِنِّي لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ ، لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا ؛ وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ مُحَمَّدٍ بِيَدِهِ لَا تُؤَدِّي الْمَرْأَةُ حَقَّ رَبِّهَا ، حَتَّى تُؤَدِّيَ حَقَّ زَوْجِهَا ، وَلَوْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى قَتَبٍ ؛ لَمْ تَمْنَعْهُ " وقال الألباني: حسن صحيح
@@uslee19i just added the authentic hadith in arabic. You should delete your comment
Something related to this topic please watch " are you a man or a rijaal" by brother mohamed hoblos.
10:21 مور. جرالد. 69-نسخه دیگری از سرطان پاکستان گوادر وجود دارد!!!
No real men these days
Alhamdulillah both men women have to hear the best lecture of my dearest brother Yasir quadhi