From Hot And Cold To Committed

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  • Опубліковано 6 лис 2024

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  • @createwithcorri
    @createwithcorri  2 роки тому +18

    Just wanna make it clear that if this resonates then that’s great, but if it doesn’t feel like it fits for where you are at in your situation, then listen to that. You know best. I am sharing my experience and maybe some people will resonate ❤️

    • @thehealingfairee
      @thehealingfairee 2 роки тому +2

      I can't get over how nice it is that you're mindful of all different situations instead of giving blanket advice!
      I really hope your channel goes viral, because your content is so healing after watching toxic LOA coaches online

    • @daisy_scream9411
      @daisy_scream9411 2 роки тому

      I set boundaries but se have a boy and we continue seeing for the baby, and he continues saying me is only for the boy, i feel terrible honestly i feel he is more distance day by day 🥹 dont know what to do. It breaks my heart everytime I see him

  • @Emesc2326
    @Emesc2326 8 місяців тому +3

    You’re so eloquent 👏🏻

  • @RhapsodyofDreams
    @RhapsodyofDreams Рік тому +2

    Totally can relate to this. I walked away from a situation which was the hardest for me to do to break off with someone I love and friends with. I know we had an awesome connection and compatible. He knows it as well. I told him that I respected his feelings and can't force him to do things. I felt empowered despite crying for months after doing it. Like you, I caved as well, initiating conversation but he responded well and we were back to our normal selves again. We are still figuring out with this new chapter will be and I feel ok sitting in the unknown for now.
    Setting that boundary was very powerful for me because I know I deserved more and all the amazing things. Laying everything out on the table, being vulnerable feels good.

  • @ralsumaaji
    @ralsumaaji Рік тому +1

    The night I told my SP I needed a time out, I went home feeling so exhausted. I was trying to cheer myself up but suddenly I told myself, "you don't have to be strong for me right now, I know it's hard on you too," I cried so hard that was the most compassionate thing I ever told myself. Thank you so much for this video Corri

    • @createwithcorri
      @createwithcorri  Рік тому

      Proud of you. I really feel for you here. Learning to put yourself can feel incredibly difficult at first, but you did an empowering thing and will grow in confidence and self love because of it xx

    • @ralsumaaji
      @ralsumaaji Рік тому

      @@createwithcorri thank you so much Corri, been binge watching your video and it does really brought comfort and hope for me, thank you for being so kind and gentle.

  • @blondesparkle7885
    @blondesparkle7885 2 роки тому +6

    This totally resonates for me. I've known my SP for 3 years now, and we never had a label...it was a kind of friends with benefits at first, then when I found out about manifesting a year later it changed and we actually started seeing each other more often and it was obvious that he had developed feelings for me...then a year and a half went by without us seeing each other but he continued to contact me...we saw each other again in Easter and since then he's only spoken to me once at the end of June and nothing since. Its been very hurtful for me that he didn't answer my last message (the day after he wrote to me), and I've decided to never contact him again and when he does I won't keep quiet about how I feel and what I want. I do struggle with anger and resentment and feeling let down...and fear that "its over, he doesn't want me anymore ", and EIYPO (that's it, you're creating him to not want you because you're thinking he doesn't want you, he doesn't)...so much confusion.

  • @Nishasquisha
    @Nishasquisha 2 роки тому +2

    "Neville Goddard ain't shit" is basically what you said 😂😂😂 lmao I love you so much Corri xx

  • @hallow_yelloww2874
    @hallow_yelloww2874 2 роки тому +2

    I resonate with this. I just did this yesterday, again. I feel like I need to honour myself first bcause I know what I want and what I deserve and like you, I know the potential we have (he and I are in different countries too). I know he feels the connection we have. I've set my boundaries over and over again with my SP and he always comes back. Sometimes it's like he comes back as if nothing had happened. I'm not afraid of it...we are meant to be together.

  • @sandram544
    @sandram544 2 роки тому +3

    I was looking for a video earlier today on this topic. My Sp and I are right in the middle of this. He speaks when spoken to which drives me nuts. I feel like I’m on the edge of the cliff in our situation. This LOA community leaves you conflicted. Most advice is to go within and work on self concept, every one is you pushed out. Which I get, however we still need to talk and be present in the 3d, and set boundaries.
    When I expressed myself to me Sp, I exploded on him, because I held so much in. He could not handle it, so he shut down and didn’t speak to me for days. So it’s important to sit boundaries and be communicative but in a soft and healthy way. While still affirming for the desires.
    I do agree with your prospective about Neville, I think the way he explained the Law was great, but some of the principles he teaches are lost on me. I do not agree that I am god. I do believe that we have way more power then we are aware of. And our thoughts creating is definitely true.
    Finally, Corri Thank you for you. I love your content and will book a session soon.
    Xoxo

  • @elizabethbachman669
    @elizabethbachman669 2 роки тому +1

    Really good advice. I was too scared to set my boundary because I was afraid to loose him. He's a workaholic and I knew that work was his priority. This back and fourth went on for years. I'm strong enough now to make myself a priority.

  • @Snale24
    @Snale24 Рік тому +1

    Once upon a time when I unconsciously (I tried to go out with other people but I couldn't because I didn't like anyone like him)manifested my boyfriend, after years of strange behaviour or no contact at all, I set some boundaries because at some point you just can't keep s...any more. The boundary was on an energetic level but had the same impact as If I had said it... I forgot about this boy and got on with my life and suddenly i found out I have to go with my friends on this trip where he would be as well. So I talked to God and said to him; listen, I'm done with this. If I have to go there please let me not like this man, please. I don't want anything more with this man, I just wan't peace in my life🙏 I don't wantbanxbody...I was so determent to it and then plot twist happened. He was so into me, sitting with me on the same stone wall where we met 5years ago, where he said we could just be friends, holding my hand now saying to me he wants us to be together, that he as a fool...We started dating and he was acting strange again, like he wasn't fully commited so I talked to him, prepared to leave, said that there are thousands of people out there,we don't have to waste each other's time if he's not that into me... And then he said he doesn't want that and completely changed and fell in love even more than me, at the end...
    I didn't know at that time about LOA nor the law of assumption, I would just think of him and daydreaming... Even now I don't think in words, somehow like all in pictures and visions, but I'm trying to implement the law of assumption

  • @Vaness319
    @Vaness319 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks for sharing your story Corri T 🖤

  • @VibeWithMerc
    @VibeWithMerc 2 роки тому +2

    I just did this yesterday and it was such a good talk, I felt loved again by him and myself. Feels so good we agreed to not see each other for a while.

  • @mamathemeat
    @mamathemeat 2 роки тому +1

    You are a blessing 🌸

  • @Tam438
    @Tam438 2 роки тому +1

    Brilliant, Corri, thank you 🙏

  • @aldeefaithdenuyo4513
    @aldeefaithdenuyo4513 2 роки тому

    I was in an exclusive relationship with the person whom I want to grow old with. Unfortunately, he call it quits. And it's been 5 months already. So yes, we've been acting like we're officially together for almost a year. He mentioned that he liked me a lot but there's always a but, misunderstandings. Anyways, it's been 3 months since I started manifesting my SP (which was him) because I know that we have this great connection. So looking forward to whatever happens to us in the future. And thank you Corri, you've been a great help to me.

  • @miriamw4864
    @miriamw4864 2 роки тому +1

    If you want a laugh, we’ve been having trouble syncing our schedules to meet so I told him that because our schedules weren’t working out that I would just manifest a way to see him. 😂

  • @nunya143
    @nunya143 2 роки тому +2

    I recently had a phone call with my SP where I said something very similarly. I felt good about it but I haven’t heard from him since so I’ve been second guessing myself a bit. Thank you for this reminder.

    • @leont4062
      @leont4062 2 роки тому

      He has to conform. He’ll be back and want you.

    • @leont4062
      @leont4062 2 роки тому

      He has to conform. He’ll be back and want you.

  • @Jayati_dey
    @Jayati_dey 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Corri, I am a big fan of you ❤ and I have been following you since last few months. I have one question;
    Is it important to give feelings to all of your affirmation or thoughts?
    Is it necessary to have feelings to your belief?
    Much love to you girl ❤

  • @infullbloommonica
    @infullbloommonica 2 роки тому

    So I did this, didn’t feel empowered or anything I think it just got to a point where I had to say it, but I totally regretted it especially when he said he agrees but thinks I was reading too much into it.

    • @infullbloommonica
      @infullbloommonica 2 роки тому

      And then he said he thinks we should just be friends and we haven’t had contact since. It’s honestly been so much more painful after

    • @infullbloommonica
      @infullbloommonica 2 роки тому

      I will definitely try to implement your advice

  • @rafaelag7967
    @rafaelag7967 2 роки тому

    I'd like to ask you a question.
    I just broke up with my boyfriend the second time. Last time I was the one who contacted him for a coffee, he was the one who said let's try again. So we tried again. At first he was helping me study and showed that he wants to be helpful. But he wasn't consistent, although he said he's trying. I still felt like I need him more than he needs me. He has two days off and he only wants to see me once a week, althoughwe can see each other twice. After I broke up with him the last time, I thought that if he loves me he'll try to show that he really does care, but it seems that he preferred to go have some fun with his friends. A day after that I called him to get some answers and said some tough stuff, also cried a bit and showed him how hurtful I am. But he couldn't say anything that'll prove that he care the way I do. Said he does love me and it's all within.
    Does that mean he doesnt love me and was trying because he saw that I love him? Is there a chance that he really want that in the future or am I fooling myself?

  • @aya123444
    @aya123444 2 роки тому +2

    6 and a half YEARS? JESUS

    • @createwithcorri
      @createwithcorri  2 роки тому +3

      Yes but I wasn’t thinking about him and manifesting him the whole time so it wasn’t like that. But we had known eachother a long time before we finally got together. Lots of years of silence too x

    • @createwithcorri
      @createwithcorri  2 роки тому

      @@beyourself9162 i was not manifesting him consciously for the whole time. Only really 6 months x

    • @createwithcorri
      @createwithcorri  2 роки тому +1

      @@beyourself9162 believe whatever empowers you. On my channel you’ll find my story and my beliefs. Take what resonates! X