Breaking Down Masculinity: Stereotypes, Culture, and Identity Ft Zama Naomi

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  • @ZamaNaomi
    @ZamaNaomi 2 місяці тому +206

    Best podcast team !! I love having conversations with open minded people !
    Thank you for having me 🤭

    • @vuyiswamandyu4488
      @vuyiswamandyu4488 2 місяці тому +3

      Make sure you come back! Loved having you❤

    • @philiswasithole1604
      @philiswasithole1604 2 місяці тому +7

      So soft spoken and her aura man 🥹😍
      She’s definitely the girl she thinks she is👏🏽

    • @salifyanalwamba8978
      @salifyanalwamba8978 Місяць тому +1

      I really enjoyed it and you smashed it girl, can’t wait to see you again soon 😍

  • @Geegee-r1n
    @Geegee-r1n 2 місяці тому +87

    Lebo is an intellectual,emotionally mature,has a dazzling sense of humour that i really love .A great woman would be able to receive and enjoy his uninhibited inner child ! He is the kind of man who is going to be a great dad& husband. And this is from a 40 yr old woman😂😂😂

    • @WorthyOfAbundance
      @WorthyOfAbundance Місяць тому +4

      I just love everything about Lebo😍🙌

    • @keletsohou4531
      @keletsohou4531 Місяць тому +5

      I agree 100% his everything and more ....men with a sense of humor are the best

  • @nnonhle
    @nnonhle Місяць тому +32

    I don't feel like Lebo is childlike persay, i just feel like he has a really great sense of humor and everyone who doesn't know him would think he doesn't take things serious. I feel like even in serious situations he tries to becalm & not feel overwhelmed or like they're overreacting. I also like the fact that even in uncomfortable situations he remains content. He's not easily shaken, lol that's how i see it right now 😂

  • @_snakho9717
    @_snakho9717 2 місяці тому +80

    Guys sex is a gift from God, made specifically for marriage, because look what happens when it's takes place outside of it😭😭

    • @givenmabussi
      @givenmabussi 2 місяці тому +8

      Unfortunately so. It's been cheapened.

    • @MoosaGrace
      @MoosaGrace Місяць тому

      Exactly 💯

    • @kwannele
      @kwannele Місяць тому

      Yes, I agree with you

  • @JBD-007
    @JBD-007 2 місяці тому +100

    She and Caiah have a strong resemblance, especially their demeanor, they exude softness. I'm here for it.

    • @annie_natty
      @annie_natty 2 місяці тому +2

      Exactly what I thought when I saw her first time on Majita channel🤌 they even kinda look alike🤭❤️

    • @lisi4502
      @lisi4502 2 місяці тому +4

      I thought it was Caiah when I saw the thumbnail.

    • @annie_natty
      @annie_natty 2 місяці тому

      @@lisi4502 they really look alike 🥹 it would nice to see them together at thought digest 🤭

    • @kwannele
      @kwannele Місяць тому +1

      Yes, even in the way she was able to articulate herself.

  • @Yaandah
    @Yaandah 2 місяці тому +122

    Lebo ATE when he said that people love the finished products and its a huge factor when it comes to relationships whilst in reality non of us are finished products , we are all just developing ourselves💯👌 I wish that could sink into peoples minds and really be realistic in the expectations they set for both genders❤

  • @asanelekoyana
    @asanelekoyana 2 місяці тому +34

    The sexual intercourse part is deep. Wonder why there are so many single mothers and children in broken families? When God gives you the right partner, She’s gonna come with everything you need in her including sexual compatibility. The world has inflicted so much fear in us that if we don’t have sex…blah blah. But all of that is crap. Some people don’t realise that they use intercourse as an excuse to run away from commitment (marriage). If you have no desire/plans to marry somebody you shouldn’t be engaging in sex with that person. That’s just my 2cent.

  • @rnm9433
    @rnm9433 2 місяці тому +24

    I think Lebo is just very humourous and is very intact with his emotions.

  • @rudzanimulaudzi152
    @rudzanimulaudzi152 2 місяці тому +77

    Zama must come back please and thank you

  • @silindokuhlemabena4437
    @silindokuhlemabena4437 Місяць тому +12

    I honestly think Lebo is fine. He knows how to behave in certain things. Nothing about him is childlike. No one wants a guy who's ALWAYS serious. Him being funny is actually the cherry on top ❤️🌹

  • @Lunga_v33
    @Lunga_v33 2 місяці тому +33

    Zama should be a friend of the podcast.

  • @kanegomoima2138
    @kanegomoima2138 2 місяці тому +32

    Her manner of articulation is on another level, very much expressive..loved the episode❤🤘🤘

  • @Phum_la
    @Phum_la 2 місяці тому +16

    There is a guy called Preston Perry here on UA-cam. I believe he explains submission and leadership so well in a biblical way.

  • @nnonhle
    @nnonhle Місяць тому +10

    Lebo is definitely in touch with his emotions!

  • @tshegofatso16
    @tshegofatso16 Місяць тому +10

    Take care of Lebo cuz he’s doing so much for this podcast and he also makes our day..what a lovely gent ..he’s the reason why we always here..may God bless you poi!

  • @VictoriaMusonda-h3b
    @VictoriaMusonda-h3b 2 місяці тому +38

    I love love love this podcast❤
    Some criticism: The timing of the ads is kinda odd, I feel like it would help for them to come in after the person speaking exhausts there train of thought right before a follow up question or before the other person jumps in and takes the mic.
    I recommend watching the diary of the CEO and see how he transitions from speaking to advertising because he has quite a number of ads in his videos but the transitions are smooth.
    Love this conversation nontheless and everything us perfect

    • @kaonehunyepa
      @kaonehunyepa 2 місяці тому +2

      Yes! 🙇🏽‍♀️🙇🏽‍♀️🙇🏽‍♀️

  • @asiveangel4940
    @asiveangel4940 2 місяці тому +4

    She's so on point with her analogy of introspecting and asking yourself whether you would be happy with a partner like you. That's my analogy as well, that's why I'm single. I need to work on myself for myself so I can be happy with myself and fill my cup.

  • @zizondzimande
    @zizondzimande 2 місяці тому +10

    I do not think soul ties are a thing . In a context of it's always associated with it coming and still your luck or weigh you down
    I think there is always going to be energy clash or spiritual imbalance which can weigh down on someone because you're just not meant to connect with a certain person that way.
    Also I don't think Lebo is childlike ,I think he is very guarded and humor is a safety measure for him because he is very InTouch with his emotions 😊
    @Thato seems very strict, (and this is an observation from another first born )hence his need to always want thing to get done and done right.
    ❤❤ You guys have really good topics by the way

  • @Boitshepo_mpele
    @Boitshepo_mpele 2 місяці тому +15

    she must come back i feel like she didn't answer what femininity she exudes in a relationship/what makes her feminine. she only answered from what would make her feminine from a man, not what her feminine attributes are. please she must come back to answer that one🥲. and also extend the topics, she was amazing. I think we would love to get more of her and her mind.😘 beautiful episode❤

  • @LethoMbonane
    @LethoMbonane Місяць тому +4

    I hear Lebo 😭😭😭 I have so much love and I don’t think anyone deserves it and I’m to kind and soft and the world is not ready to receive me and what I have to give when it comes to love so I’ve decided to not date until 30 👀👀 because the dating scene is insane, dry and broken so no thank you

  • @lethukuthulamtshali906
    @lethukuthulamtshali906 Місяць тому +2

    Simping is when you keep giving her the princess treatment even after she disrespects you because you know you can't do better than her. Taking care of your girl isn't simping, but tolerating disrespect is.

  • @Dollykgakishe
    @Dollykgakishe Місяць тому +1

    I think the issue is that we look at basic human characteristics such as sensitivity and assign them to gender. Anyone, whether male or female, can be sensitive (for example). The extend to which you exhibit that character will vary naturally between man and women. I personally don't think that a man can be more feminine than a woman or the other way around. it doesn't matter how far you lean in to that character, it will never compare. Perhaps the best thing would be to align yourself with someone who shows the specific characteristic to an extend that is preferable for you because one man who you deem "not masculine enough" can be a man who is extremely masculine to someone else. It is all subjective and about preference.

  • @TRlNlTY-NATION
    @TRlNlTY-NATION 2 місяці тому +61

    i didn’t think id cheat on Caiah M 😐 but now theres Zama also

  • @LebogangRampedi
    @LebogangRampedi 2 місяці тому +77

    Loving this 👌

    • @lungisamukelo8074
      @lungisamukelo8074 2 місяці тому +4

      Come back on UA-cam dawg💔😭😭😭

    • @abigailpebane
      @abigailpebane 2 місяці тому +3

      You're such a funny guy 🤣lol your facial expressions took me out the whole episode especially the part where you guys were talking about having celibacy into the relationship when you and your partner feel like you lack connection, you were not having it! ohhhhh Lebo🤣🤣🤣

    • @Nolo.Maputla
      @Nolo.Maputla 2 місяці тому +2

      Loving you❤

    • @karabodikobe
      @karabodikobe 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Nolo.Maputla took the words right out my mouth

    • @tshegofatsomatsimela269
      @tshegofatsomatsimela269 Місяць тому

      STOP INTRRÙPTING THE GUEST THOU

  • @lulamisela
    @lulamisela Місяць тому +1

    I love how Thato and Lebo are actually open to learning from Zama🙌🏾.

  • @tgema7787
    @tgema7787 2 місяці тому +9

    “Please awuyi laphooo…” 😂😂
    Also who gets to be on the podcast? Love to come. 😌

  • @JBD-007
    @JBD-007 2 місяці тому +13

    She is so sweet, omw. Loving the interactive conversation.

  • @cfeditzz6270
    @cfeditzz6270 2 місяці тому +15

    feminity is more about who you see yourself as a women/lady . what traits do you have and whether they are bad or good. how do you show up for yourself and receive yourself away from other people's opinions and assumptions

    • @MelvineWatch
      @MelvineWatch Місяць тому

      Love this, gonna use this😂❤

  • @BoikgafoNatasha
    @BoikgafoNatasha 2 місяці тому +19

    I was waiting for “hawaa youuuu” 😭😭 but this was amazing omw ❤️

    • @anelle05
      @anelle05 2 місяці тому

      me too😭❤

  • @simply_sylvia
    @simply_sylvia Місяць тому +2

    ALSO, staying away from sex is absolutely important although it makes it harder to be in relationships in our generation but I say the right one will wait

  • @thanditracy9275
    @thanditracy9275 2 місяці тому +15

    Loved this episode soo much❤Zama should definitely come back!

  • @pheletsomodise6117
    @pheletsomodise6117 2 місяці тому +14

    Zama needs to come back please 😂❤

  • @katlegokeotshepile4606
    @katlegokeotshepile4606 2 місяці тому +7

    This was really a good episode man, i enjoyed it sm😮‍💨. And of course you guys need to bring her again, invite Caiah please!!!🙇‍♂

  • @jer_nayy
    @jer_nayy 2 місяці тому +4

    I love that you guys touched on the bible to try and answer some difficult questions. It truly does give wisdom and guidance. 👌❤

  • @annie_natty
    @annie_natty 2 місяці тому +6

    Love this! Zama is so wise OMG😮❤ love her so much and of course we would love to see her again 😊

  • @seee.naaa_
    @seee.naaa_ 2 місяці тому +19

    I was waiting on the "How are youuuu" 😔

    • @tebohonkgadima1774
      @tebohonkgadima1774 2 місяці тому +1

      Me too😢😂

    • @Esapeta
      @Esapeta 2 місяці тому +1

      Saaaame 😭

    • @kimmakalima4396
      @kimmakalima4396 Місяць тому +1

      they don't care how we feel when there's people around 😭😭😭 Hao bona batho onale show off nyana

  • @DJ_SIISH
    @DJ_SIISH 2 місяці тому +3

    Loved it gents, Lebo was awesome Zama was dropping Gems and Thato held it down. Leant alot you guys should have her back 💪🏾

  • @lethabolekalakala6652
    @lethabolekalakala6652 Місяць тому +11

    abstaining - choosing not to have sex for a period of time
    celibacy = strictly waiting for marriage
    very difficult journey but lets go 💃💃💃

  • @Barista_Skills28
    @Barista_Skills28 2 місяці тому +9

    Lebo is just funny man finish and klaar🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Eugoleope
    @Eugoleope Місяць тому +1

    Exactly how she described Lebo... That's who IAM 😂😂😂❤

  • @nkaliphomaimela3088
    @nkaliphomaimela3088 Місяць тому +3

    Awuyilapho awiphi😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ChrisMthombeni
    @ChrisMthombeni 2 місяці тому +3

    Zama must come back and stay on the podcast yh👀 because her vibe blends well with y'all guys, and her level of intelligence in on another level. The question got me rethinking my life yh😂😂

  • @kabeloignatious3815
    @kabeloignatious3815 Місяць тому +2

    Zama Naomi, I can listen to you speak the whole day😫

  • @nyasha4964
    @nyasha4964 2 місяці тому +4

    Been hoping to see Zama again since that game episode. We want to see more of her!

  • @thandekarabe6011
    @thandekarabe6011 Місяць тому +1

    Thoroughly enjoyed this 👏

  • @sibusisomdaka5228
    @sibusisomdaka5228 Місяць тому +1

    anybody who ends up with lebo is gonna be the luckiest girlie ever!

  • @AndyKanv
    @AndyKanv 2 місяці тому +3

    Zama can come back again👌👌👌🙏

  • @ThamiWorld
    @ThamiWorld Місяць тому

    this was a pretty cool episode. i find it interesting tho how she had so much detail on what masculinity is, what it should look like and what it entails but only barely scratched the surface on what femininity is and what it looks like

  • @Ginny862
    @Ginny862 Місяць тому +2

    can she also visit thought digest, i think a Zama,Mammie and Caiah episode would really be interesting.
    I am for her coming back to seated too❤

  • @_Montlenyana22
    @_Montlenyana22 Місяць тому +1

    Zama was such a lovely guest❤😊really insightful episode guys!

  • @Lungelo_
    @Lungelo_ Місяць тому +1

    The conversations were great, I enjoyed the episode

  • @thandi_khesa
    @thandi_khesa 2 місяці тому +1

    Zama is amazing, you guys should have her on the pod once in a while.❤

  • @rethabilemashaba5175
    @rethabilemashaba5175 Місяць тому

    You three are profound thinkers. I love how each of you are evolving man, we love to see it ❤

  • @queenbkhasebe3904
    @queenbkhasebe3904 Місяць тому

    Zama is very intelligent , I love how this episode wasn`t about the guest`s bio but about their intellect and that is exactly how you get to know a person by the way they think

  • @MeisyKhonari
    @MeisyKhonari 2 місяці тому +4

    Such a breathtaking conversation 😊

  • @JiggyJigs
    @JiggyJigs Місяць тому

    I would love to hear this from multiple girls with different opinions or lifestyles. As much as Lebo and Thato are different please give us two ladies who are different

  • @simply_sylvia
    @simply_sylvia Місяць тому +1

    Love love Lebo btw 😭😭😭❤

  • @Lunga_v33
    @Lunga_v33 2 місяці тому +2

    Nice, loved Lebo's questions.

  • @Bonichle
    @Bonichle Місяць тому

    Hi
    I enjoy this podcast so much because I keep learning new things and some of them I was not aware of them until I starting watching you guys. I would definitely love Zama to come back, she can hold conversations and she is very outspoken. I love Lebo and Thato, can't wait for 200K subbies!🥰

  • @bokamosomorema949
    @bokamosomorema949 2 місяці тому +1

    we want her backkk!

  • @mollynkhabanhle
    @mollynkhabanhle Місяць тому

    This was powerful….definitely need to see her again(BTW I never comment so it shows that it was that good)

  • @deboramakungu6909
    @deboramakungu6909 2 місяці тому

    This was such a good conversation👌i wouldn't mind having her back probably one of my favorite seated episode.

  • @NorthDladla
    @NorthDladla Місяць тому

    i wanted to say something then i saw a comment saying sex is a gift from God specifically for married people🤣thina saybhubhudla igift ka God yomshado singako fiki lapho nevertheless great episode and supa s/o to the Rampedi brothers yall have contributed immensly on my personal growth and developememt through these mindful conversations .

  • @iamtroymg8491
    @iamtroymg8491 Місяць тому

    You don't need to rethink or redefine anything, 1 women will always respond to their innate triggers regardless of the conditions, these triggers can become weaker or stronger depending on the conditions. 2 The conditions will change and all the things you deem unnecessary now will be necessary, you just have to be mindful that you don't necessarily know better you are just acclimating to your conditions.

  • @nomajwaranoma3099
    @nomajwaranoma3099 Місяць тому

    Lovely episode❤️🔥 Zama should come back nakanjan🔥🔥

  • @thembakazimabutyana239
    @thembakazimabutyana239 Місяць тому

    Loved the prodcast she must definitely comeback ❤❤

  • @myspce
    @myspce Місяць тому

    I love Zama. We need more of her ❤

  • @nnonhle
    @nnonhle Місяць тому +1

    I love lebo. He's so funny & relatable.

  • @simply_sylvia
    @simply_sylvia Місяць тому

    Love love it to see you guys with women more, Zama was /is amazing but maybe different women here and there because is as women too have different views on different topics!

  • @Lunga_v33
    @Lunga_v33 2 місяці тому +2

    Thato has great ideas.

  • @MadjadjiMabidilala
    @MadjadjiMabidilala Місяць тому +1

    You forgot the main question of the podcast
    How are you

  • @thedominant_sa1483
    @thedominant_sa1483 Місяць тому

    This hun is so smart

  • @Berryblue85
    @Berryblue85 Місяць тому

    Love Zama! Would love to see her here again

  • @IviweMaqwazima-gi3lp
    @IviweMaqwazima-gi3lp Місяць тому

    we would deff love to have her again it was amazing

  • @Freckled.Mooiii
    @Freckled.Mooiii Місяць тому

    Enjoyed this to the tea 👌🏼

  • @shamisoncube770
    @shamisoncube770 Місяць тому +3

    So here we accept God's view on masculinity and gender roles, but not about His view about sex outside of marriage (fornication)??Ay...it's not balancing. It's either you're hot or you're cold.Let's not be lukewarm Christians.

  • @Esapeta
    @Esapeta 2 місяці тому

    Loved Zama on here! ❤️‍🔥

  • @KamoEverythingSA
    @KamoEverythingSA 29 днів тому

    24:27… beautiful conversation, and it’s great seeing Zama on this other side.
    Talking about relationships neh…!? Hai, ha re bone ko pele and begin as, friends? Time will tell w/ being fully equipped individually, then move forward with being closer in our friendship and fellowship… 😅

    • @KamoEverythingSA
      @KamoEverythingSA 29 днів тому

      33:55… first of all, I do believe that submission does not mean to leave your brain at the alter. Uhmm, and it mostly comes w/ maturity and understanding that people are fallible…, and God isn’t.

    • @KamoEverythingSA
      @KamoEverythingSA 29 днів тому

      42:20… And that question, neh! Very important that one 👌🏾

    • @KamoEverythingSA
      @KamoEverythingSA 29 днів тому

      49:54… 😩🙆🏽‍♂️

  • @letlhogonolosekati3493
    @letlhogonolosekati3493 Місяць тому

    educational, funny as hell nd definitely worth watching🤣💯

  • @ofentsemaleka9346
    @ofentsemaleka9346 Місяць тому

    ok i am saying this for the people at the back. DONT SLEEP ON LEBO

  • @AnnahChego
    @AnnahChego 2 місяці тому

    I really enjoyed this podcast ❤👌Zama should visit again, she's so amazing

  • @anelejiyane6414
    @anelejiyane6414 Місяць тому +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed this, Lebo’s articulation combined with Zama’s emotional intelligence..wow🥹

  • @Seeynoh
    @Seeynoh 2 місяці тому

    Oh Loved This❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Kale-y2d
    @Kale-y2d Місяць тому

    🔥🔥🔥🔥 as always

  • @Lello.ndaba_x
    @Lello.ndaba_x Місяць тому

    really enjoyed the chat with Zama invite more

  • @Madii_65
    @Madii_65 Місяць тому

    She should definitely come again 😊

  • @thandekabhengu3313
    @thandekabhengu3313 Місяць тому

    I like Zama. And it was a really good episode ❤️

  • @khomotsomatsena2966
    @khomotsomatsena2966 Місяць тому

    Loved having her loved the conversation her brain mmhhh❤

  • @ChrisMthombeni
    @ChrisMthombeni 2 місяці тому

    First time listening to y'all in a podcast space and I enjoyed so much ❤

  • @chrisvic1125
    @chrisvic1125 2 місяці тому

    this was amazing 👌💯

  • @Khomotjo_Maifo
    @Khomotjo_Maifo Місяць тому +1

    #Ledombolo #Rampedi Lebo is so funny 🤣🤣

  • @ezilematu2015
    @ezilematu2015 2 місяці тому

    I loved this👌🏾❤

  • @mupangurekandetu5703
    @mupangurekandetu5703 2 місяці тому

    Loved it ❤️❤️

  • @ThandiswaRejoy
    @ThandiswaRejoy 2 місяці тому +3

    Where’s “Hawa youu”😔😔😂

  • @BotsheloMolaolwe-c8w
    @BotsheloMolaolwe-c8w Місяць тому

    We need longer episodes🥹

  • @nnonhle
    @nnonhle Місяць тому

    I love this podcast!

  • @chiwonisosewera7743
    @chiwonisosewera7743 Місяць тому

    Zama cooked😩😩😩

  • @Youngandunfiltered
    @Youngandunfiltered 2 місяці тому

    I loved these sit downs ❤

  • @mamitselamakhothi7215
    @mamitselamakhothi7215 2 місяці тому

    Great episode 🥰

  • @Rinee-ty6ik
    @Rinee-ty6ik Місяць тому

    More Zama, please