And people who choose child-free life are looked down and told "Ew thats bad no kids whats wrong with you hurry up menopause is coming soon get a bun in your oven quick"
My wife and I love kids, and teens that are in our lives, but never had children. I like about any child, but suspect that if I had children, all the rest would be seen as competition.
They're not horrible parents in my opinion, they just cant help it, emotions are something very hard to control, even if you want to, you cant make yourself feel something artificially. Sadly, that's how life is.
What sucks about people who don’t want kids always seem to have them, and then their kids turn into garbage parents, and the cycle continues. I’ve never seen such selfishness and disgusting behavior written on the internet about kids like that in my life. Imagine thinking your time is more important than some kid who has no way of taking care of themselves.
@@bigNo13 not if the women goes off the pill secretly, pokes holes in the the condom, drugs her boyfriend. A women is in an abusive relationship or has an abusive family.
@@theultimatereductionist7592 I know this is an old comment so I apologize, but I’ve been begging my partner to get a vasectomy because it’s going harder and harder to have safe abortions. I’m 42 Ann’s absolutely don’t want more kids. Shoot, my body is barely hanging on…. But he just won’t. I think he’s scared, but I had THREE babies tear my vagina YO SHREDS. I’m tired of the “I’m scared” excuse. You rock and I am absolutely passing this comment on to my husband.
These people are disgusting. They have no damn sympathy or understanding of anything. I completely understand, it isn’t fair to be born into parents who didn’t even want kids. To be unloved throughout your entire childhood and into adulthood. The people who are being assholes just will always have a silver spoon in their mouths. Kids like us will try to find that love elsewhere and usually just get hurt or taken advantage of. Humanity is unforgiving.
@@myrielt For men it is a bit easier to get sterilised (but still not the most easiest if you have no children), good luck getting sterilised if you are a woman even if you have 50 kids.
Do you have any idea how next to impossible it is to get sterilized? Even if you have kids doctors will give you a very hard time,and if you have no kids they will outright refuse.
The one where the wife went off her birth control and the husband didn't know... She forced him to be a father, that's so gross. He told her he didn't want kids and she went and did that? I would've walked right out
No, he knew. He literally says he knew she was going off, he just didn’t think she’d go off so soon. She still told him that and he knew. Sure, they should have talked about it more, but ultimately he should have left if he didn’t want children that badly.
15:00 what was the purpose of forcing their son through school? They would have caused themselves so much less stress had they just made their kid get a easy job and have a simple life.
not having energy to do art about six minutes in: what did the darn woman expect ? at least i got a lesson way early in life hving to help my mother care for my two younger sisters. too much damn work.
@@kittenmimi5326 yeah did you know there's an operation you can have if you never want kids? Very important to have that operation if you're a man who never wants kids because once a woman is pregnant, it's out of your control.
Coming from a child that was made to feel like a burden instead of a blessing, listening to these people with kids talk about how much they don't like them and feel no love for them really breaks my heart......these parents are being so selfish and don't think once about how its affecting the child and what it will be like to grow up with the 2 people who are supposed to love you more than anything in the world doesn't have any love for you at all!!!!
Wow, not taking care of a kid because you hate the father, not getting an abortion or giving up for adoption because the "family freaked out", what a childish fool. She should be berated for neglect, not praised. What a monster. Also curious, if a guy removes the condom during sex without permiasion is considered rape, can we consider women who drop off their birth control without letting her partner know, rape too?
I mean realistically it should be considered a _kind_ of rape by deception. Secretly trying to essentially force someone else to get you pregnant isn't okay in the slightest, and I would say that if you made someone else get you pregnant against their will, they should be legally protected from having to pay child support, since they never agreed to the arrangement in the first place.
In some states, if you don't sign the birth certificate and run out the statute of limitations (with no visitation), you aren't forced to pay child support. So if you don't want a kid, stick to your guns. Keep the relationship with baby momma hostile! Run out the clock with her not wanting to contact you. CHECK YOUR STATE LAWS ON "ABANDONMENT" AND IF THERE ARE STATUTES OF LIMITATIONS!
Well they never planned or acted on having one. They never wantedthe birth control to fail, the condom to fail or their shitty partners acting behind their back and if they could prevent that they would
Kitten Mimi abstinence is an option. Not a popular one, but still an option. I never wanted children and no birth control is 100%. I chose a celibate life because no matter much fun sex is, the resulting pregnancy and baby aren’t worth it to me. Saw my father turn into a miserable, abusive a-hole full of regret over having a family. Broke my loving mother’s heart. Didn’t want to become like him and ruin so many lives. That’s my story. Just one opinion to add.
I don't think they're horrible people. You can't force yourself to love someone, and a lot of these were accidental. I think we're just at the point where we need to accept that we all need to _think_ about whether we're going to have children or not, and that "hell no" should be the default option. Unless you feel like it's your one all-consuming calling in life to make the babies, you shouldn't make the babies. Personally, I have no energy, I like having free time, and most importantly I would never be able to love a child the way a child deserves to be loved, so I will not have children. People gotta be honest with themselves.
Marcar9 Marcar9 There are people that are simply incapable of loving children, those people are better off aborting or putting them out for adoption. Like me. I absolutely caw for kittens and puppies, but babies are unredeemable.
If you don't want kids then don't have them, there are numerous ways to avoid it. And seems like more and more kids are being born with big physical and or emotional disabilities. That's also something to take into consideration. And P.S. I never cared for little boys either.
tbh the story at 0:36 sounds more like these folks had some weird ass breeding kink, and instead of keeping it to juicy foreplay dialogue, they decided to drag two whole kids into the world. like, overall it sounds more like a surrogate situation, which is better than having kids just to resent them, but still
I am older and childless by choice, but I've seen some parents love their ungrateful, cruel offspring through thick and thin. These stories are about parents that simply are unable to love their innocent children from the get go.
I feel weird about this subject because I really want to have kids and a family someday, but I'm afraid that I'm not mentally prepared to handle the responsibility. I have hobbies that I love dearly, and I'm afraid that either I'll have to give them up and render myself depressed (which has happened before in a relationship where my GF had a really hard time being alone and so demanded my attention quite a bit), or else I'll end up resenting the kids due to how much time they take away from my personal time. I don't want to put a kid through either scenario, so I think it's best just to not have kids for now.
The one where the guy kept trying to get his sex partner to abort bothered me... if you don't want to be a father you don't have to but if she wants the kid let her have it. You don't have to help or see the kid. I know it's a hard situation where you lose any way and I don't understand but still kinda unfair to ask her to get rid of it because you don't want it
Their relationship was illegal anyway, he was underage and she was 22 so you can't blame a child for wanting an abortion when they're still a child themselves 🤷🏽♀️
And now he wants to be in the kids life again after 6 years of not wanting her because he’s had an accident and is now deemed unattractive. If you’re not there for them from day one you don’t deserve them, you don’t get to pick and choose when you want to be a parent to the child you created, he doesn’t deserve to be in her life
@@aislinlindsay3950 he never expected the kid to be there in the first place. And he never knew bc the wife said nothing, but if he knew what happened then he wanted to at least try to do what he can
I was the planned child but at the age of 15 my mother was going to place me on foster homes just because i was a bad child. So my family including siblings would always call the cops on me. So everyday from that time I feel lonely and I feel like the stranger in the family. I don’t feel like I’m part of the family.
I love my kids fuck all that… they mine and I want the best for them always… I’m active in they life too.. kids are fun and keep you youthful but it does take a village to raise them… they are an extension of me… people forget that we are here to procreate for the survival of our species
I’m surprised my parents still love me. I’m surprised they loved me as a teenager. Maybe I should ask them if they did. They would probably tell me now.
I'm a young teen, but i feel like my parents don't love me anymore since I became a teen, lately our relationship has been toxic and abusive but there's nothing I can do about it so I just isolate myself until I don't care anymore
Me, my kids were taken from me, and my ex is manipulating, told me to leave her alone kids don't love me, lot more to the story, but I don't want to deal with it emotionally, kids are going to be fine, getting a new home, miss them, but I don't want to be apart of their mothers life being manipulated all the time,is what it is they very little why does it matter
Won't happen. Too many Pro-Life freaks who care only about the baby before it's even born and don't give a shit if that child grows up in abusive family or if ends up half dead in a dumpster. Tho, I believe that abortion should be legal and if it's against your beliefs/personal opinion/religion then just don't do it... but something tells me those people would be first in line....
3:28 I have the same feelings. I just have NO desire to have kids. I don’t hate kids. I actually like kids and am quite good with them. I just know that if I had my own, I would not love them. Luckily I am young and am planning on having a vasectomy as soon as I move out which will be within the next year. I think I am just not capable of love. I don’t feel it anymore even toward my parents. I am not good at dealing with my emotions so I’ve basically just tried turning them off. Would not recommend doing them same, as the negative ones just end up slipping out and the positive ones stay mostly buried. Weird thing is though, I still have always never wanted kids and knew I couldn’t love them even before turning my emotions off. Also not even sure why I’m posting this. I guess it’s to see if anybody has any similarities to my case. Maybe some AP psych kid will give me a diagnosis lol.
The one who gave kids to the lawyer is disturbing and I don't think it was a positive story because she's created children who will never have the experience of growing up with a mother and this might affect them poorly when they're older and realize their doesn't care for them as a mother.
Doesn't she visit them and planned to tell them at one point that she technically is their biological parent I don't really see anything un healthy about that considering there are tons of single parents because people leave them and it all depends on how that one parent raises there child my mom manipulated me so I have resentment for her but some other single parent may be really close to their kid and have the child grow up very happily. (Sorry for the paragraph I'm just trying to say why this could be fine.)
Have two nephews. As kids one was always a whiny life-sucking baby, that kept them from having a normal peaceful life. The younger was a normal kid. I know my BIL. felt cheated out of a good family life.
It sounds like some of these parents are highly narcissistic and are unfit to have children. The most loving thing a narcissist parent can do is to give the child up for adoption. However, the best thing a parent can do with a narcissistic adult child is to wash their hands of such a toxic person. I did this to my selfish narcissistic children 7 years ago and I have no regrets or guilt for having a peaceful life for a change. I’m leaving them exactly nothing.
15:00 .....maybe you should let him fail and fail hard if he can't manage himself and his schedule and then hell learn to just fucking do it. (rolls eyes).
Nope... I only made it halfway through this vid.. I dont understand it. My daughter could slit my throat in my sleep and if I survive it, I'm testifying on her behalf. None of this would make me stop loving my kid. Nothing she could do will change that. Flat out. I only have 1 kid, and shes all I have. So, I guess it's just "to each its own" because i dont understand any of this. You MADE this person but then you hate them now because they stole from you???? Wtf? Are we being serious? I have never even been annoyed by my kid, let alone not loving her! Jesus christ people
No disrespect to any of the parents but the word 'love' is used to much in this video. One thing is 'liking' them, another is 'loving'. There's a huge difference there.
Well, lead-poisoning, abuse related ptsd and two mild concussions before the age of ten made me essentially incapable of feeling love. About I can really grasp about love and affection is that it is a lot quieter and much less scary than other ways to be. I understand some aspects of loving relationships, but flow-charting your way through life aint it, boss. So, what kind of Dad was I who couldn't love his kids anymore?
The woman who gave the lawyer kids is a psycho. If you can carry two babies and feel nothing for them, you are insane. I absolutely loved being pregnant and bonded with my baby way before he was born. Feeling him move & kick .. amazing!
Out of all of the stories, this one was probably the best. Not every woman wants a child, she had them to give to their dad who really wanted children, she managed to use her gift of having children to give someone else what they truly wanted, they are loved and she still sees and has a relationship with them, that’s all that matters
Holy shit, I just cannot understand or believe the shitty way most mileanils treat SO , and how kids are not as important as they were to boomers. But most , same % as boomers are great parents and will do anything for there children.
Their kids watching this like
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Wah!
Cry!
Wah!
Cry cry!
Cry cry cry!
Cru cry cry!
Uhhh wah!
Never going to get a kid after this video
@@_JustAnotherKid__ MY daughter don't love me, what should I do❓
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Sounds like a lot of people are blaming the kids for their own choices/manipulating partners. So sad.
Not blaming the kids. Just blaming the partners and don't feel attached to whatever their partner is attached to anymore
*me looking to see if my parents somehow made it into the video*
This is just pitiful!
Mood
Susan Davis 👁👄👁
Musikenna 😞 maybe
Take this little buddy 🦎
And people who choose child-free life are looked down and told "Ew thats bad no kids whats wrong with you hurry up menopause is coming soon get a bun in your oven quick"
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Idk why I read that last bit as “menopause will burn your crack” wtf 🤣😭 I need sleep
If some humans dont want to reproduce, they dont have to, I would think that's how natural selection works
My wife and I love kids, and teens that are in our lives, but never had children. I like about any child, but suspect that if I had children, all the rest would be seen as competition.
Misery loves company
i was looking for crimnal kids, found degenerate/horrible parents..
Nope. You are FOS
Many people shouldn't even have children.
They're not mutually exclusive, give the kids a few years tops
They're not horrible parents in my opinion, they just cant help it, emotions are something very hard to control, even if you want to, you cant make yourself feel something artificially. Sadly, that's how life is.
Which one
What sucks about people who don’t want kids always seem to have them, and then their kids turn into garbage parents, and the cycle continues. I’ve never seen such selfishness and disgusting behavior written on the internet about kids like that in my life. Imagine thinking your time is more important than some kid who has no way of taking care of themselves.
This just goes to show there are a LOT of terrible and selfish people who shouldn't be parents in any way.
Which one? OP's partners?
Yikes there's a lot of people that got forced into being parents here...
Nobody forces them to be parents it's their careless sex that did it.
@@bigNo13
not if the women goes off the pill secretly, pokes holes in the the condom, drugs her boyfriend. A women is in an abusive relationship or has an abusive family.
@@bigNo13 not their fault if the pill fails
@@Handsomegargoyle04 No excuse for the male breeder to not get a vasectomy. I got one. Cheap.
@@theultimatereductionist7592 I know this is an old comment so I apologize, but I’ve been begging my partner to get a vasectomy because it’s going harder and harder to have safe abortions. I’m 42 Ann’s absolutely don’t want more kids. Shoot, my body is barely hanging on…. But he just won’t. I think he’s scared, but I had THREE babies tear my vagina YO SHREDS. I’m tired of the “I’m scared” excuse. You rock and I am absolutely passing this comment on to my husband.
I don't have children and I already love them, hell I might not even have any.
Get a pet like a dog or a cat
I feel bad for the children born into that situation. It's not hard to figure out if you're loved or just tolerated by people.
These stories are fake
Because i am the child. i dont like myself-
Crystalsnow of Thunderclan alright love?
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r/I'm14andthisisdeep
You won't find it elsewhere. Find a new adoptive family & start over.
These people are disgusting. They have no damn sympathy or understanding of anything. I completely understand, it isn’t fair to be born into parents who didn’t even want kids. To be unloved throughout your entire childhood and into adulthood. The people who are being assholes just will always have a silver spoon in their mouths. Kids like us will try to find that love elsewhere and usually just get hurt or taken advantage of. Humanity is unforgiving.
"I didn't want to be a parent"
(doesn't bother to get sterilised)
(stays in relationship with someone who really wants kids)
The number of people who say “I don’t want and never want kids” and then refuse to get sterilised are astounding
@@myrielt For men it is a bit easier to get sterilised (but still not the most easiest if you have no children), good luck getting sterilised if you are a woman even if you have 50 kids.
Do you have any idea how next to impossible it is to get sterilized? Even if you have kids doctors will give you a very hard time,and if you have no kids they will outright refuse.
The one where the wife went off her birth control and the husband didn't know... She forced him to be a father, that's so gross. He told her he didn't want kids and she went and did that? I would've walked right out
No, he knew. He literally says he knew she was going off, he just didn’t think she’d go off so soon. She still told him that and he knew. Sure, they should have talked about it more, but ultimately he should have left if he didn’t want children that badly.
Got to say I was surprised by the number of not morally disgusting stories here
the amount of times "love" was said in this video annoys the hell out of me
It's almost like they tried to convince themselves that they love their kids. It's subconcious
15:00 what was the purpose of forcing their son through school? They would have caused themselves so much less stress had they just made their kid get a easy job and have a simple life.
Most of the ppl ib reddit sounded like they blame the child for their chioces
not having energy to do art about six minutes in: what did the darn woman expect ? at least i got a lesson way early in life hving to help my mother care for my two younger sisters. too much damn work.
all I could think was "maybe if you got off your ass and helped out with the kid she might have energy"
@@LauraGrrrr5370 he doesn't want kids but she had it anyway
@@kittenmimi5326 yeah did you know there's an operation you can have if you never want kids? Very important to have that operation if you're a man who never wants kids because once a woman is pregnant, it's out of your control.
Yikes to the first one.
Everyone in this thread needs tharapy
Anyone else feel cheated about the number of "I didn’t want a child" stories?
Coming from a child that was made to feel like a burden instead of a blessing, listening to these people with kids talk about how much they don't like them and feel no love for them really breaks my heart......these parents are being so selfish and don't think once about how its affecting the child and what it will be like to grow up with the 2 people who are supposed to love you more than anything in the world doesn't have any love for you at all!!!!
They knwe the shpuldn't have a child so they shouldn't be forced into having one?
"Why don't you love them anymore?" I don't think my parents ever did lmao
There is nothing my children can do for me to stop loving them. I may lose respect, stop being proud, remove support... But I will always love them.
Wow, not taking care of a kid because you hate the father, not getting an abortion or giving up for adoption because the "family freaked out", what a childish fool. She should be berated for neglect, not praised. What a monster.
Also curious, if a guy removes the condom during sex without permiasion is considered rape, can we consider women who drop off their birth control without letting her partner know, rape too?
I mean realistically it should be considered a _kind_ of rape by deception. Secretly trying to essentially force someone else to get you pregnant isn't okay in the slightest, and I would say that if you made someone else get you pregnant against their will, they should be legally protected from having to pay child support, since they never agreed to the arrangement in the first place.
There are laws on this (varies from state) but the man could sue her bc of this.
In some states, if you don't sign the birth certificate and run out the statute of limitations (with no visitation), you aren't forced to pay child support.
So if you don't want a kid, stick to your guns. Keep the relationship with baby momma hostile! Run out the clock with her not wanting to contact you.
CHECK YOUR STATE LAWS ON "ABANDONMENT" AND IF THERE ARE STATUTES OF LIMITATIONS!
@@morganwilliams5591 Thank you for your respsonse, I was wondering about that for a while
UA-cam deleted my comment UGH. NEITHER is rape though.
Take Home Lesson: don’t have children if you don’t want them. Parental love doesn’t always come.
Well they never planned or acted on having one. They never wantedthe birth control to fail, the condom to fail or their shitty partners acting behind their back and if they could prevent that they would
Kitten Mimi abstinence is an option. Not a popular one, but still an option. I never wanted children and no birth control is 100%. I chose a celibate life because no matter much fun sex is, the resulting pregnancy and baby aren’t worth it to me.
Saw my father turn into a miserable, abusive a-hole full of regret over having a family. Broke my loving mother’s heart. Didn’t want to become like him and ruin so many lives. That’s my story. Just one opinion to add.
*me checking if my parents said anything about me*
These people are horrible I feel really bad for the kids
Omg same
I don't think they're horrible people. You can't force yourself to love someone, and a lot of these were accidental.
I think we're just at the point where we need to accept that we all need to _think_ about whether we're going to have children or not, and that "hell no" should be the default option. Unless you feel like it's your one all-consuming calling in life to make the babies, you shouldn't make the babies.
Personally, I have no energy, I like having free time, and most importantly I would never be able to love a child the way a child deserves to be loved, so I will not have children. People gotta be honest with themselves.
Tamar H. If you have a kid it’s your duty to love them or set them up with people who will, that simple
@@tamar7065 Nice words to live by.
Marcar9 Marcar9 There are people that are simply incapable of loving children, those people are better off aborting or putting them out for adoption. Like me. I absolutely caw for kittens and puppies, but babies are unredeemable.
Interesting title, I’ll enjoy this
Some people should never be parents. It's not in their nature. Parenthood should be a planned, loving choice. It's too bad so often it isn't.
I would rather have my parents understanding than their love.
Well, for them to love you they have to understand you.
Yea this makes me scared my parents dont love me
If you don't want kids then don't have them, there are numerous ways to avoid it. And seems like more and more kids are being born with big physical and or emotional disabilities. That's also something to take into consideration. And P.S. I never cared for little boys either.
pregnancy is not 100% avoidable unless you’re unable to get pregnant, the person you’re having sex can’t get you pregnant, or you go through surgery
I agree but people just want the pleasure of you know what
very candid honesty
Dam I have a 9 month old son and a another child on the way I love my son so much and I don't think anything could stop that
Wrong thread
@@funtime1778 ^
I don't blame the first father for hating his kid. Imagine coming home to find out your grown kid completely robbed you.
Wish my dad was still alive to answer this. Would like to know why he didn’t love us.
tbh the story at 0:36 sounds more like these folks had some weird ass breeding kink, and instead of keeping it to juicy foreplay dialogue, they decided to drag two whole kids into the world. like, overall it sounds more like a surrogate situation, which is better than having kids just to resent them, but still
My parents don't even need to confess this to reddit, they already confessed to me
Imagine disliking your child because you chose to sleep with an asshole and the baby "reminds" you of him? Wow
I am older and childless by choice, but I've seen some parents love their ungrateful, cruel offspring through thick and thin. These stories are about parents that simply are unable to love their innocent children from the get go.
I hope my parents still love me
Shrek you dont even have parents, what do you mean?
@@mickeymousewithouttheclubh6584 they didn't want to be seen on camera with me. They are real I promise....
We love you, Shrek -
@@shrek562 sad
@@seepaw9191 ahh thank you thank you
This is what happens when abortion isn't allowed. A lot of unloved children that only exist to be a burden.
In what case isn't it allowed?
I am learning things about life from these threads that I never imagined.
Anyone else watching this and think
Oh god this is my mum/dad
This is so depressing.
3:41 😂 😂 😂 how ironic
I feel weird about this subject because I really want to have kids and a family someday, but I'm afraid that I'm not mentally prepared to handle the responsibility. I have hobbies that I love dearly, and I'm afraid that either I'll have to give them up and render myself depressed (which has happened before in a relationship where my GF had a really hard time being alone and so demanded my attention quite a bit), or else I'll end up resenting the kids due to how much time they take away from my personal time. I don't want to put a kid through either scenario, so I think it's best just to not have kids for now.
The one where the guy kept trying to get his sex partner to abort bothered me... if you don't want to be a father you don't have to but if she wants the kid let her have it. You don't have to help or see the kid. I know it's a hard situation where you lose any way and I don't understand but still kinda unfair to ask her to get rid of it because you don't want it
Their relationship was illegal anyway, he was underage and she was 22 so you can't blame a child for wanting an abortion when they're still a child themselves 🤷🏽♀️
And now he wants to be in the kids life again after 6 years of not wanting her because he’s had an accident and is now deemed unattractive. If you’re not there for them from day one you don’t deserve them, you don’t get to pick and choose when you want to be a parent to the child you created, he doesn’t deserve to be in her life
They don't want a kid to be brought into a world where they are unloved and don't have a father figure in their life?
@@aislinlindsay3950 he never expected the kid to be there in the first place. And he never knew bc the wife said nothing, but if he knew what happened then he wanted to at least try to do what he can
The guy who doesn't love his son. Makes me Sick.
When was this?
Durr, the video is parents who don't love said kids
Imagine saying “first”
First lmao
First even though I'm second
tsriF
First even though I'm actually 19,000th 🙊🙊🙊🙊
No excuse for the male breeder to not get a vasectomy. I got one. Cheap
My daughter told me she don't *LOVE* me and I got it on VIDEO!!
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Its so *SAD!*
@@tumarbongrox6074 HAHAHA! Your daughter is funny, but I really don't think that she loves you
I was the planned child but at the age of 15 my mother was going to place me on foster homes just because i was a bad child. So my family including siblings would always call the cops on me. So everyday from that time I feel lonely and I feel like the stranger in the family. I don’t feel like I’m part of the family.
are you ok ?
I love my kids fuck all that… they mine and I want the best for them always… I’m active in they life too.. kids are fun and keep you youthful but it does take a village to raise them… they are an extension of me… people forget that we are here to procreate for the survival of our species
I’m surprised my parents still love me. I’m surprised they loved me as a teenager. Maybe I should ask them if they did. They would probably tell me now.
I'm a young teen, but i feel like my parents don't love me anymore since I became a teen, lately our relationship has been toxic and abusive but there's nothing I can do about it so I just isolate myself until I don't care anymore
Me, my kids were taken from me, and my ex is manipulating, told me to leave her alone kids don't love me, lot more to the story, but I don't want to deal with it emotionally, kids are going to be fine, getting a new home, miss them, but I don't want to be apart of their mothers life being manipulated all the time,is what it is they very little why does it matter
This is why abortion needs to remain legal.
Won't happen. Too many Pro-Life freaks who care only about the baby before it's even born and don't give a shit if that child grows up in abusive family or if ends up half dead in a dumpster. Tho, I believe that abortion should be legal and if it's against your beliefs/personal opinion/religion then just don't do it... but something tells me those people would be first in line....
Escape.plan.no27 I agree with you 100%,
3:28 I have the same feelings. I just have NO desire to have kids. I don’t hate kids. I actually like kids and am quite good with them. I just know that if I had my own, I would not love them. Luckily I am young and am planning on having a vasectomy as soon as I move out which will be within the next year.
I think I am just not capable of love. I don’t feel it anymore even toward my parents. I am not good at dealing with my emotions so I’ve basically just tried turning them off. Would not recommend doing them same, as the negative ones just end up slipping out and the positive ones stay mostly buried.
Weird thing is though, I still have always never wanted kids and knew I couldn’t love them even before turning my emotions off.
Also not even sure why I’m posting this. I guess it’s to see if anybody has any similarities to my case. Maybe some AP psych kid will give me a diagnosis lol.
Does anybody not love their parents? I feel like I’ve never loved mine that I can remember. Don’t hate them, I just don’t like them as parents.
The one who gave kids to the lawyer is disturbing and I don't think it was a positive story because she's created children who will never have the experience of growing up with a mother and this might affect them poorly when they're older and realize their doesn't care for them as a mother.
Better that than to raise the children and building up resentment. When they learn, they might old enough to understand
Doesn't she visit them and planned to tell them at one point that she technically is their biological parent I don't really see anything un healthy about that considering there are tons of single parents because people leave them and it all depends on how that one parent raises there child my mom manipulated me so I have resentment for her but some other single parent may be really close to their kid and have the child grow up very happily. (Sorry for the paragraph I'm just trying to say why this could be fine.)
Have two nephews. As kids one was always a whiny life-sucking baby, that kept them from having a normal peaceful life. The younger was a normal kid. I know my BIL. felt cheated out of a good family life.
The guy never heard of male protection
It sounds like some of these parents are highly narcissistic and are unfit to have children. The most loving thing a narcissist parent can do is to give the child up for adoption. However, the best thing a parent can do with a narcissistic adult child is to wash their hands of such a toxic person. I did this to my selfish narcissistic children 7 years ago and I have no regrets or guilt for having a peaceful life for a change. I’m leaving them exactly nothing.
Because I don't lve them any LESS either!
All these people not wanting kids and my fiancée and I do want them and we can’t. This world is fucked
I dont want children because of the fear that I won't love them back. Or they might be born with issues, its scary.
15:00 .....maybe you should let him fail and fail hard if he can't manage himself and his schedule and then hell learn to just fucking do it. (rolls eyes).
Somehow I exist even though Spermicide and birth control were involved.
A lot of these people would probably feel a lot better with some therapy tbh
I'm glad I decided to never procreate lol
Daaaamn, and I thought I was bad!
What a selfish person? She sounds like my parents, aunts and uncles.
5:36 - 6:03 what a simp
I know my dad (whoever tf he is) doesn't give a shit about me at all, my mom does tho.
7:55 why did you have a kid then?
This only solidifies the fact that my only kids will have fur
So only kids with werewolf syndrome?
Nope... I only made it halfway through this vid.. I dont understand it.
My daughter could slit my throat in my sleep and if I survive it, I'm testifying on her behalf. None of this would make me stop loving my kid. Nothing she could do will change that. Flat out. I only have 1 kid, and shes all I have. So, I guess it's just "to each its own" because i dont understand any of this. You MADE this person but then you hate them now because they stole from you???? Wtf? Are we being serious? I have never even been annoyed by my kid, let alone not loving her! Jesus christ people
It seems like you're distegarding the magnitude of the stolen property. Not everyone is that willing to accept human garbage
Why I don't want kids.
my parents love meh and my sisters :)
I am here to find a solution. I wish i cared more
Shit y'all were loved??? I never was by both parents in my childhood just trauma.
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No disrespect to any of the parents but the word 'love' is used to much in this video. One thing is 'liking' them, another is 'loving'. There's a huge difference there.
Well, lead-poisoning, abuse related ptsd and two mild concussions before the age of ten made me essentially incapable of feeling love.
About I can really grasp about love and affection is that it is a lot quieter and much less scary than other ways to be.
I understand some aspects of loving relationships, but flow-charting your way through life aint it, boss.
So, what kind of Dad was I who couldn't love his kids anymore?
Anhedonia?
The woman who gave the lawyer kids is a psycho. If you can carry two babies and feel nothing for them, you are insane. I absolutely loved being pregnant and bonded with my baby way before he was born. Feeling him move & kick .. amazing!
Jack Mehoff something seemed off about her. Their whole relationship seemed like a massive red flag
not insane... honest. its seems like the dad really wanted children and it was pretty amicable
Out of all of the stories, this one was probably the best. Not every woman wants a child, she had them to give to their dad who really wanted children, she managed to use her gift of having children to give someone else what they truly wanted, they are loved and she still sees and has a relationship with them, that’s all that matters
It’s the opposite for me
I feel for the parents. Birth control issues.
lol suprised i havent seen any first comments yet
My dad doesn’t love me because I am transgender 😢
most of these stories is just a simple lack of using your intellect.
6:38 I hate this guy soooooo much
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How does I-. do parents really feel this way 😔
I dOn'T WaNt kIdS bUt I sCrEw LiKe RaBbIt
Well then help yourself and get sterile!
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Long story short: don't have children if you don't want to have children
If only they could prevent that they fucking would, man.
Holy shit, I just cannot understand or believe the shitty way most mileanils treat SO , and how kids are not as important as they were to boomers. But most , same % as boomers are great parents and will do anything for there children.