@@tiffanysilvera6691maybe the way he phrase it seems a bit off putting, but what he meant is that majority of women if given the choice will choose the guy that they like rather than a man that loves them😁
I am African American man and I lived in Japan for about 12 years. I had a lot of African friends there who got married just to get the visa. And you are right, I know a lot of horror stories about Africans marrying a Japanese woman over there. One story I know is about this one African who got married over there, had one son and then one day he came home from work and his wife and all her belongings was gone from the apartment. All he found from her was a note on the kitchen table which read "Good luck raising your son" That African guy is now raising his son alone in Tokyo.
No matter what cultural norms dictates, if you marry a selfless and understanding female, she'll definitely work with you in any business plans you have. Period!
It’s simply tradition for the Japanese, though this video offers great advice to those glorifying the Black-Japanese marriage. I say don’t cut corners whatsoever as a Black man, you’ve *still* got to earn your respect and dignity out there anyways, so why put your residency on the contingency of the marriage? At that point, you better give her what she wants, less you’ll end up like TechLead.. or worse.
Wow Obi that's wild ...I think a marriage should be equal...you're right marry for Love ,caring and understanding for the man and woman for a good life for both 💖💖💖💖
Hey... don't generalize Nigeria as representing the whole of Afrika. I am Tanzanian and I would never run away from my country. I have been to Europe, America and Asia, but I returned to Tanzania and I prefer living in Tanzania. Nigerians are the ones who love to run away from their country. In Asia when they saw me they assumed I was from Nigeria.
Obi san, your content is so very important! For the union of marriage to be fulfilling, it must be about LOVE, for then and only then can true vision prosper! Thank you so very much for sharing your heart with us. Praying the hearing ear of your people inclined to hear in this hour what you've been called to say! much love my brother!💞
This is how it works in most first world countries. Maybe there's a lesson in that. If you have a wife, house and kids, any money you spend on yourself takes money away from your kids, wife and house hold expenses.
Yes Africa is rich in resource but the people who live on it are poor and unable to utilise their lands. That's the reason why we have been dominated for the past millennia and still are being exploited.
@@IKENAK I get your point as well but we are still blessed within …so hard the continent might be the citizens still survive …we only have problem with bad leaders (fact)
@@travelwith_emmanuel Yes we have misleaders who only serve their own short term interests without having a vision for their nations and are happy to get exploited by foreign nations
Only ones want to marry for wrong reasons will see this as bad!wife stays home do house work man go to work money is for house expenses not that you won't get money to help your family at home you communicate only man who go to other countries for selfish reasons will be alarmed
Hello! I want to come to Japan from Naija. I have lived abroad most of my life but presently living in Naija for almost three years now. I think I'd rather live in Japan comparing my experiences living abroad with my experiences trying to invest here in a country with very high level of scamishy individuals, as well as the ease of doing business That said, my goal is to find a job within my 3 months visa stay. If it doesn't work out for me it's back to Naija. I'm not interested in illegal migration. With an Information Technology Degree from the US, what are my chances of finding a job sponsor within my 3 month visa stay?
European culture is pretty much close. The wives are not domestic housewives but they won't accept you dipping your fat fingers into the family piggy bank to look after parents etc back home. African culture is only closely related to Arabic and Indian culture. Filipinos too......and very different to other cultures
This is part of Japanese traditions for long time. The husbands trust every account to his wife to manage whole household, foods, rent, electric bills. You can talk to your Japanese wife for save money to go to Africa and for visas in the options first, if you talk to them they will understand. Japan is one marriage, one wife and one husbandman policy, instead some African men got multiple wives, this is not works. Remember, 2nd largest groups in Japan are A and B haplogroups which are African gene. The largest one is D haplotype, Jyomon people who are related to DE haplotypes which is E1b1a is West African, E1b1b is East Africans and North. So, you talking about Africa, the 2/3rd of Japanese are African descendants in Haplotypes, D1b, A and B Haplotypes. In Nigeria there is D0 haplotype in Delta States which is identical with Japanese DNA.
@@ifeadiodenigbo9230 Check D2. It is Japanese Jyomon Haplogroup, but also identified in Delta State, Nigeria with local populations. (D0 and D2 are same.)
@@hopehigh845 Yes, Japanese Jyomon Ainu People and Okinawa Ryukyu Islanders are D1b and D2. Majorities are D2. The Nigerian Bantu Populations in Delta States are D0. The D2 and D0 are exact same origin in DNA. I'm not sure which tribe is D0 in Delta State, why don't you find out for me?
It's because you Nigerian. You don't represent Africa. Nigerians want to just leave Africa..somehow the world are fooled about you guys. I am African but know how to represent. You are honest though.
Learn to say no and don't give them your bank acount information and set up your wife on direct deposit. You can't even legally work under marriage visa in most cases so that marriage visa is useless.
My brother that's how marriages really should have been . A man give the money to his wife for the house needs .it only that you are stingy you are married and still want to spend your income like a single man ... there is always a way around that you can get a second job or anything to make your extra income ...
Why don't Nigerians in diaspora start a movement and pour their financial resources into it to resolve Nigerian problems so that Nigerians can stop always wishing to leave their country? Like us south africans. We challenge our gvt. We don't run around all over the world.
um....i dont see any issue with the "problems" you presented. if you married that woman and had children with her....that is your family. you have to take care of them. why would you be looking to leave the marriage? if your wife took the money to go lollygag i would understand your frustration. but shes paying the bills. study, get a skill, and make more money.....this is the way of the world. you cant get away from it. unless you want to live in the wilderness and live off the land, abd even then you still have to work to grow or catch and kill your food and to build shelter and warmth eveeyday... life is work, wether its in civiled society or living in pre-historic times.
UNIVERSAL RULE OF THUMB; DON'T MARRY A WOMAN YOU LOVE, MARRY A WOMAN WHO LOVES YOU!
What sense does that make.. that would make it easier for you to mistreat and abuse the woman… just find your match
@@tiffanysilvera6691maybe the way he phrase it seems a bit off putting, but what he meant is that majority of women if given the choice will choose the guy that they like rather than a man that loves them😁
こんなデマを信じている奴がいることに驚き
Best advice ever!!!
That sounds like a path to failure.. marriage has to be mutual, if love/commitment is one-sided it would fall apart.
I am African American man and I lived in Japan for about 12 years. I had a lot of African friends there who got married just to get the visa. And you are right, I know a lot of horror stories about Africans marrying a Japanese woman over there. One story I know is about this one African who got married over there, had one son and then one day he came home from work and his wife and all her belongings was gone from the apartment. All he found from her was a note on the kitchen table which read "Good luck raising your son" That African guy is now raising his son alone in Tokyo.
Bring a Japanese woman to Singapore, get married there and apply for citizenship.
A deadbeat mom?
In china happens too
at least he got a visa
I was expecting a dramatic history. He's lucky she didn't left with his son.
No matter what cultural norms dictates, if you marry a selfless and understanding female, she'll definitely work with you in any business plans you have. Period!
It’s simply tradition for the Japanese, though this video offers great advice to those glorifying the Black-Japanese marriage. I say don’t cut corners whatsoever as a Black man, you’ve *still* got to earn your respect and dignity out there anyways, so why put your residency on the contingency of the marriage?
At that point, you better give her what she wants, less you’ll end up like TechLead.. or worse.
We don't come from a very poor Continent my brother,Africa is not poor,we just have poor leadership.
Blackmen are in Charge you can't blame feminism for this!
Bro is in denial 🤣
Wow Obi that's wild ...I think a marriage should be equal...you're right marry for Love ,caring and understanding for the man and woman for a good life for both 💖💖💖💖
This is unbelievable and thanks for this information that will help our black guys planning to marry Japanese ladies.
デマだよ
You make 100 clear to me about the horrible dark side of marriage in Japan.
Yes my bro!
Thank you for ur feedback🙏🏿
Hey... don't generalize Nigeria as representing the whole of Afrika. I am Tanzanian and I would never run away from my country. I have been to Europe, America and Asia, but I returned to Tanzania and I prefer living in Tanzania.
Nigerians are the ones who love to run away from their country. In Asia when they saw me they assumed I was from Nigeria.
Yes Nigerians want to run always because they are many and competition at home is high ..
@@jonasannor7566Excuses!
I had to run away from Tanzania as a born and raised Tanzanian. Horrible country, if I could, I'd switch citizenship as fast as possible.
I am so grateful I stumbled on this video
I am African American but I will still use this information
Obi san, your content is so very important! For the union of marriage to be fulfilling, it must be about LOVE, for then and only then can true vision prosper! Thank you so very much for sharing your heart with us. Praying the hearing ear of your people inclined to hear in this hour what you've been called to say! much love my brother!💞
Thanks bro for that information indeed u really tried
This is how it works in most first world countries. Maybe there's a lesson in that.
If you have a wife, house and kids, any money you spend on yourself takes money away from your kids, wife and house hold expenses.
Thank you brother I wish a lot of brothers learn and watch out.
God bless you for this perspective
Then don't marry for a visa. You reap what you sow. Stop being deceptive users. Marry for love and take care of your wife and children
Africans /Africa is not poor please correct that ..
Yes Africa is rich in resource but the people who live on it are poor and unable to utilise their lands. That's the reason why we have been dominated for the past millennia and still are being exploited.
@@IKENAK I get your point as well but we are still blessed within …so hard the continent might be the citizens still survive …we only have problem with bad leaders (fact)
@@travelwith_emmanuel Yes we have misleaders who only serve their own short term interests without having a vision for their nations and are happy to get exploited by foreign nations
I live in africa, and trust me im tryna leave
Depending on situation. From what I’ve heard a lot of people there are having a hard time surviving financially..
Only ones want to marry for wrong reasons will see this as bad!wife stays home do house work man go to work money is for house expenses not that you won't get money to help your family at home you communicate only man who go to other countries for selfish reasons will be alarmed
Thank you very much for useful advice man
Hello! I want to come to Japan from Naija. I have lived abroad most of my life but presently living in Naija for almost three years now. I think I'd rather live in Japan comparing my experiences living abroad with my experiences trying to invest here in a country with very high level of scamishy individuals, as well as the ease of doing business
That said, my goal is to find a job within my 3 months visa stay. If it doesn't work out for me it's back to Naija. I'm not interested in illegal migration. With an Information Technology Degree from the US, what are my chances of finding a job sponsor within my 3 month visa stay?
God bless you my brother you said it all 😎
Thanks for your very big attention alot I appreciate that
Why do you marry because of VISA?Marriage should be love and trust..period...
This people are cold hearted they only know how to use people.
Even if they are married they have extra marital affairs.
Stupid dogs
Yo! Bros
Please, how can someone change tourist visa to work visa/work with in 14 days.
European culture is pretty much close. The wives are not domestic housewives but they won't accept you dipping your fat fingers into the family piggy bank to look after parents etc back home. African culture is only closely related to Arabic and Indian culture. Filipinos too......and very different to other cultures
Thanks, it's educational.😊❤
Thank you brother, please are you in Japan, I need to ask you a little question.
Uuuuuuuhhhhh!!! He who have 👂 let them hear ooooo🙏🏾❤️
Thank you for ur feedback🙏🏿
Thanks for the information
This is part of Japanese traditions for long time.
The husbands trust every account to his wife to manage whole household, foods, rent, electric bills.
You can talk to your Japanese wife for save money to go to Africa and for visas in the options first, if you talk to them they will understand.
Japan is one marriage, one wife and one husbandman policy, instead some African men got multiple wives, this is not works.
Remember, 2nd largest groups in Japan are A and B haplogroups which are African gene.
The largest one is D haplotype, Jyomon people who are related to DE haplotypes which is E1b1a is West African, E1b1b is East Africans and North.
So, you talking about Africa, the 2/3rd of Japanese are African descendants in Haplotypes, D1b, A and B Haplotypes.
In Nigeria there is D0 haplotype in Delta States which is identical with Japanese DNA.
Wow! I just learnt a lot from this ur comment,very educative.Thanks for sharing this ur comment packed with knowledge with obisantvlog🙏🏿
How is Nigerian haplotyoe identical to Japanese I need more context
@@ifeadiodenigbo9230 Check D2. It is Japanese Jyomon Haplogroup, but also identified in Delta State, Nigeria with local populations. (D0 and D2 are same.)
Please which tribe in Delta state? U know we have lot of tribes in Delta?
@@hopehigh845 Yes, Japanese Jyomon Ainu People and Okinawa Ryukyu Islanders are D1b and D2. Majorities are D2. The Nigerian Bantu Populations in Delta States are D0. The D2 and D0 are exact same origin in DNA. I'm not sure which tribe is D0 in Delta State, why don't you find out for me?
Nice one brotherly 💗
It's because you Nigerian. You don't represent Africa. Nigerians want to just leave Africa..somehow the world are fooled about you guys. I am African but know how to represent. You are honest though.
What about black women or African women marrying the Japanese men
african women don’t like japanese men
We ain’t doing that. It’s always the black man and his buffoonery. And the women that do, trust and believe we don’t play that ish baby
No not you, just step back.
God bless you, my brother.
This is true. I live in Japan and heard this from many foreign men who married a Japanese women
Learn to say no and don't give them your bank acount information and set up your wife on direct deposit. You can't even legally work under marriage visa in most cases so that marriage visa is useless.
how about not trying to get a visa the illegal way?
Huh? Marriage visa actually allows you to do pretty much any job.what are you talking about??
Wow, brother. I will prey for you.
My brother that's how marriages really should have been . A man give the money to his wife for the house needs .it only that you are stingy you are married and still want to spend your income like a single man ... there is always a way around that you can get a second job or anything to make your extra income ...
Thank you so much bro,
God bless you bro you
You try for the information.
"If i feel the Vib,
i Vib it"
Nwanne idi too muchly 😅👍
Is it the same way when a Nigerian female married a Japanese man. Just curious
Thank you brother
Why don't Nigerians in diaspora start a movement and pour their financial resources into it to resolve Nigerian problems so that Nigerians can stop always wishing to leave their country?
Like us south africans. We challenge our gvt. We don't run around all over the world.
Because you are fleeing tethers.
Nice content bro. Thank you!
i like your small lecture in the begining of the video with the 23 $ bill
Nothing against noone but i just stick with my own race
Africa is not poor we have lots of resources
Resource all belongs to chinese
Still can't feed yourself
Nice one!
Great video. Please watch out too to a beautiful Japanese woman who wants to get out of Japan...
Africa is not poor... Africa is the source of everything... gold and many more.....
😅
Hallelujah
Bro every where in the world get good and bad persons, if you are lucky u will get the right woman.. not all is bad thanks 🙏
The bottom line is marry a supporter
Bro just marry her outside of Japan. That will solve all your problems.
Igbo kwenu. Once I heard your voice I knew
Love for beauty on the inside and outside.😃🌹
Wow!
Obisan are you married to a Japanese?
Ur video is nice we'll detailed
Why trapped bro? There's no divorce in Japan ?
God bless you
Nigeria and in this case Africa is not poor but it is run poorly.
when in rome etc,etc,etc
Why trapped? Just say you go to the shop to buy milk for the baby and never come back. Like you do in the Western world…
💯
Bro haw do I relocate to Japan
um....i dont see any issue with the "problems" you presented. if you married that woman and had children with her....that is your family. you have to take care of them. why would you be looking to leave the marriage?
if your wife took the money to go lollygag i would understand your frustration. but shes paying the bills. study, get a skill, and make more money.....this is the way of the world. you cant get away from it. unless you want to live in the wilderness and live off the land, abd even then you still have to work to grow or catch and kill your food and to build shelter and warmth eveeyday... life is work, wether its in civiled society or living in pre-historic times.
His right but the way he present the content, Africa as a whole are in deep financial crisis's, you tell me which better AFRICAN country 🤦
classic video
So it's not a trap, it's tradition.
So one dollar can buy all those things you mentioned in Japan?
🙄
Are you married to a Japanese woman??
Stick with you own people
Nah 😂
SO NO JOB FOR WOMEN THERE
There is too much job for everyone living in Japan but mostly “The lazy ones” don’t like to work.
Thanks for ur feedback 🙏🏿
Na wa oo naija
Amazing...😂😂😂😂😂😂tori worwor tori worwor...oooo
No one feel bad your Japanese women left you
Omo japa
How can u be trapped in a marriage that u can divorce?
In Japan the law does not favour outsiders.
she will take your money and children and deport you
I feel no sympathy for them! They know what the Bible said about marrying outside of your race!
Come ad marry me
how old are your 😊
Bro why u are not replying to messages on Instagram