I’m 37 and my parents fighting still breaks my heart. I love them both but I can’t understand why they hate each other so much. And why, if they hate each other so much, why are they still together? I don’t want them to get divorced, but they are so mean to each other, sometimes I think it would just be better for them to not be together. I remember knowing that my dad was going to be mad at my mom and wishing that she would stop certain behaviors as a child and I remember begging my dad to be nice to my mom as a young teenager. It really hurt me and still hurts me. Why are people so intent on ruining their own lives and the lives of those around them? Why can’t people just be decent? Why do people intentionally break the hearts of the ones they are supposed to love and care for? I still wish that my dad cared enough about me to treat my mom like he loves her. I know his dad was mean to his mom, but did he think that was ok? I’m sorry you guys are going through this. It is so hard. It’s hard on me still. I just want to fix it, but I can’t. FYI, it is NOT your fault. Your parents are adults and should be striving to improve their relationship with each other and you. I hope that some day soon all of our parents start acting like adults and learning how to communicate effectively and solve problems. I love you all and care about you. I have been where you are. You are not alone. I am praying for all of you.
I literally just woke up and realized I woke up because my parents were literally screaming at each other. They’re throwing things and stomping around. Usually its that my mom is very angry and upset and my dad is trying to stop the fight and be reasonable but this time both are shouting and are very mad. I’m in tears and too scared to leave my room although I’m hungry and want to eat breakfast
Omg same that happened when I was eating I heard somthing then I went to there room. Usually my dad is calm but now they are both fighting. It’s really unusual
same actually they just had a fight earlier then im the one stopping the two of them its so hard so tiring and also depressing im just crying between them.
hiii it's 11:46 AM and im starving for breakfast so im distracting myself until my friend throws a subway sandwich into my window cause i asked her to!!
my parents fighting are worse. i need real advice. my parents are very loud, they keep throwing stuff at each other, and it just makes me sad. they had been fighting ever since I was a newborn. they even physical fight each other with kicks. and they even call each other cuss words. very bad cuss words. but my parents aren't like others. if I tell them to stop, or its getting to me. they just say "shutup, f*ck" and I'm only 9 years old so hearing this can break and melt my heart.
Thanks. I'm currently 11 struggling with this problem. My parents drink a lot, and they end up in arguments. I had a lot of problems with school because i was dealing with them. I thank you from the bottom of my heart 🙏
I always have to intervene. It hurts knowing that they don't care about fighting right in front of their kid and making me choose a side. And it's even harder since my mom is suicidal and most of the time it's her fault. I just wish I could run away. Thank you for the video by the way
My parents were fighting but then my mom just left - I’m really scared right now and I don’t know what to do get her coming back ... I called her and she said she doesn’t know where she’s going, I’m only 12 and I’m freaking out crying in the corner this is the only way I feel safe communicating right now
Don't worry, she will be back. She just needs some time to get away from your dad, clear her mind, and think of what to make of this whole situation. I'm hoping when she returns they will talk it out.
hey! ik how you feel, i’ve had it before, sometimes it’s nice talking to ppl who relate, for me it was, it was reliving knowing i wasn’t alone, lmk if it happens again, i’ll be here if you wanna talk (i’m 12 too )
Its ok I'm 12 also and my parents hit eachother and scream and alot of other stuff they bring my into it alot so i understand what you mean but you can get through this its ok
My mom and dad sometimes fights and I sit in my room and praying to God that this shouldn't happend and I say to God that I want my mom and dad to get along and be happy with each other but listening makes my feeling go crying and when mom calls if am hungry I say no because im so scared that I would cause a problem by saying that hey dad and mom why you fighting and I am so scared to ask that because ill think that my dad or mom will slap me and or hit me or something and I am 12 year talking rn I just every mom and dad to get along when I am adult ill ask them hey why you are guys fighting back in those days I was so scared to ask you guys because you were fighting alot and I thought my family was a broken family and I wish my mom and dad could get along rn because there fighting rn well commenting this pls I just wish to God that no fighting between your mom and dad going to this message to every mom and dad that sees my comment pls take care and love my mom and dads and hearts goes to all mom and dads in the world and one day I think as a kid like me I should run away start my own life because that puts me in way that makes want to run away from my mom and dad I should think getting a job when am 13 or 16 or 19 just earn money and stay away my mom and dad to figure out stuff
I just turned 13 last month and today my mom and step dad had an argument and I wanted to find a way for them to both agree on eachothers flaws but I don't want to say anything about either of them because my mom has few flaws to point out but my step dad has a few that if I point out I'll get grounded. I've asked my mom about jobs so I could earn money to help with their bills because that's one of the top two things they argue about but I have to wait two more years.
The only thing I don't like about being home is my parents fighting over the most retarded stuff in the world 😒 I only have 3 more year til I'm an adult so hopefully I can get through it, my parents relationship will survive, and I'll get them both the help that they need. 💙
thanks for that, but the problem is I just can't leave them alone cs I hate seeing my mom suffering from his abusive talks, and his insults so I always stand next to her and u try as much as I can calming her I just can't distant myself from that you know..
Hi Evie, I’m am happy that you are standing next to your mom. I’m hoping that your father doesn’t direct his abuse towards you. If he does, stand firm and tell him that you don’t agree with him but you still love him.
@@Uncledrewzzy I'm now 30 and will never have kids. They have mentally affected me, and hurt me I don't have a relationship with them. They argued all through my life, my kid years teen years and in my 20s when I was 30 I said enough is enough
Hey this video really helped I just want to say thank you it was hard for me cause I had no sister or brother to help me through it but you did thank you
This helps me a lot, I just watched this because today they were fighting and it affected my mental health a lot and I actually went into my room to cry because I don’t want a divorce to happen I tried convincing them to talk it out and we’ll, it sorta worked because they don’t really talk much, im not gonna talk about what happened but I wanted to thank you for this video and it helped a lot I am anti social and this affects me a-lot every-time my mom and dad have a argument. My parents don’t fight everyday just when they got something wrong, or something but this still really helps for some people for the people who just stay silent like I used to it’s better to go up to your mom and dad and convince them to talk it out, and maybe just try make them fight in there room, in a more quiet way. But if this happens everyday, just maybe give them a text message or write a note or in gmail or something because that worked for me when I wrote a note, everyone has emotions, but it’s pretty normal to at least fight once in your life I still wish I did this when I was younger as-well but this really helps and they don’t fight much anymore. But they still fight even my mom and dad have a fight with me sometimes but it ends pretty quickly but not as my mom and dad fight they take 1/3 days to calm down they smashed plates and broke the curtains once, I was screaming inside and I just payed on my bed hugging my plush toy crying for 3 hours, but after convincing them it helped. mental health issues are pretty strong for some people like I do and some people might me scared to convince their parents but it’s the best to convince them still, if they end up using there anger all on you, it’s a sign you should run away only if they end up hitting or kicking you but watching this can calm you and give you ways to calm your parents down
sorry to hear what you're going through. I'm having flashbacks just reading this. hang in there and keep reminding yourself that you will never act like them in your own relationships.
my parents fight like every night and in the day too, idk its like their days just cant start or end without them not fighting. my mom starts the fight by bringing up the past and then my dad starts up with his cussing and emotional abuse. honestly, i don't let this get to me in any way and so far, I've never dwelled over their fights etc but I'm just scared that this all might affect my younger siblings. they both are just primary school kids and i don't want them to get overwhelmed with all this negative energy that surrounds us. currently, neither me or my two younger siblings are attending school bc of some issues that had been going on for so long but my other two elder sisters are going to their universities. meanwhile, while we three are at home, my parents just go off all of a sudden. and you said that maybe i should sit down and talk with them but none of them are ready to listen in any way. besides, i don't even have that frank relationship with my dad where i can just tell or ask him anything freely and moreover, where i live, there's no system of moving out when a person is 18+. im just tired of them fighting everyday and not even caring a bit about any of their children's mental health. they don't even care whether anyone of us is asleep or not, they still yell and the noise makes us all to wake up all of a sudden. i distract myself from all this. idk i just want peace.
@@likhita6261 :( thank you, dont let this get to you either, okay? i hope everything goes okay for you soon. my parents made up last night though but i wonder how long that will last lmao,, stay strong
my parents had a really big argument 3 days ago, they won’t talk to each other am 14 btw turning 15 in 3 months or so, my mom went to try and fix things up with my dad yesterday but it just turned into a bigger argument right infront of me, in 2 days there’s gonna be this thing we’re I guess u could call it “Christmas” but in my religion/culture, am afraid that me and my siblings won’t celebrate this year just because of they’re fight, they hadn’t planned anything, or anything I know of but they just haven’t communicated at all my dad kind of makes the argument I guess by adding things that have nothing to do in the argument or when they even just try to fix things up, starts getting into politics n stuff with my mother because her father was a mayor, the minority of people hated him and my dad was one of them, my dad never had good ties with my mothers’ family, I feel really bad for my mom because she’s the one who gets hurt the most and doesn’t bother to say anything to the lengths that my father says to her just so the quarrel doesn’t get any bigger for me and my siblings, in 2 days it’s gonna be a really special day where we always celebrate but just don’t think that’s the case for this year. am afraid to say anything since my father will blow up and say hateful things, happened many times before, don’t bother trying again because it’ll only make matters even worse, I just think sometimes does my father really care about my and my siblings’ feelings. Has he ever thought that this will affect me or my mental state, that maybe I won’t even be able to look at my father when I grow up, really worried honestly, I don’t know what to do at this point.
Write down 4 good things you like about your dad. Whenever times get tough, think of these 4 things and reject all the negativity that's happening in that moment. Go up to him and tell him the 4 good things you love about him, nothing else. Then walk away. Or you can also write it in a letter and give it to him. I wish you and your family happiness.
Dam man I'm very sorry this exact same thing is happening with my parents my father doesn't like my mother's family he adds more drama and at the end of the day my mother is the one that is getting very hurt sometimes she even cries
Hey I’m sorry to hear that. My daughter is wise for her age (because I never thought of this when I was a kid) so whenever my wife and I fought she would cover her hears and yell “ITS TOO LOUD ITS TOO LOUD” over and over and it got us to stop and realize what we’re doing. Try that and see if it helps.
I love my parents so much and they actually stopped fighting a lot but when they do it's intense cus after they fight they don't talk anymore and i just want everyone to be happy and they usually don't fight but they used to fight a lot in our old house in this house they don't fight a lot but a couple days later i went to work mowing the lawn for the first time ever in my life and i earned 40$ and i also had saved up a lot of money too (I'm 15) and then i after a couple days it was night and i went to sleep until like 4 or 5 am so i was really tired and ended up waking up at like 2 or 3 and my day was great and everything was fine and my mom was at home and my dad was working the whole day and night too but then since i got some money right i wanted to buy a game and then i decided to call my dad and asked him if he could take me but then my brother stopped me and told me dont ask for too much to dad cus he's a little stressed today and i was like why what happen and he was like they fought in the morning and i didn't know why and i asked him why and he wouldn't tell me but then the day went passed and my dad ended up getting home and I watched a movie with my mom and brother but my dad said he didn't wanted to watch the movie then i started worrying and then after everything was done my finished eating in his room and my mom room and my mom ended up sleeping on the couch and she told just for a little minute because i don't wanna smell the food and i was like okay and then it went a couples minutes by and fell asleep so i feel like she lied to me i think she was just trying to avoid my dad and then i went to my dad and told him that i felt sad cus my mom was alone and he told me he couldn't do anything about it cus he tried a lot but he came to the conclusion that he couldn't get in their heads and change their minds so if she wanted to sleep in there she can and then my brother got mad and started fighting with my dad and I know how to control my emotions and I don't get mad easily i basically never get mad but my brother is the opposite he got very short temper so he started fighting with my dad saying he was tired of everything all the fighting and stuff he told me he was gonna beat me up which is normal cus we brother and then my dad said his last words and told my brother go to your room and he left and I just started crying even tho I used to cry a lot but I learned how to control my emotions but this one i couldn't control cus all i wanted was everyone to be happy but i decided to open my mouth and make everything worse but now this is where the 40$ come in i decided to make a note card of acting like I'm mom and dad and then made a note for both of them and put i apologize and a lot more and then put the 20$ dollars in each card so i spend all my money I hope they are good tomorrow I'm going sleep
I know this is for parents fighting but my aunt and mom are always fighting. I try to calm myself but I can't help but cry. I know all siblings fight but they know better now that they are older. I always just put on headphone s and listen to calm music or plug my ears with my hands and say this prayer. " Dear God, please protect my aunt and tia from this fight. I demand nothing bad happens to them. I demand this will stop in jesus's name." It always just helped a little :) I would ask my grandparents to take me to another trusted adult while they were working so I wouldn't be in their presence while they were fighting. Today I was in my room after eating and I heard my aunt say "stop grabbing my clothes or im gonna BEAT YOU UP" and my mom came out and started protecting herself. That is when I slammed my door and locked it because I knew what was happening next. All I heard was screaming and stuff falling down and moving. I covered my ears and screamed my prayer. Then I screamed as loud as I could about 4 times to try to get them to stop. After they were still fighting my grandpa told me to unlock the door and he brought me to my fighting aunt and mom. I screamed very loud to stop. I think my mom had broken a tooth because there was blood coming from her mouth. Then he told me to come in the backyard. He brought me a jacket and my shoes so while they were fighting I can be outside. He went back inside with my grandma and stopped the fight and they brought me in after it stopped and I talked about it to my grandma why they were fighting over some fabric that you wear it was so stupid and now im in my bed spending 5 minutes talking about it because I feel like I need to.
Thank you it's hurting my mental health I got depression some other mental illnesses and they are fighting right now and I'm scared it's just been hard on us we lost our house before and had to live with my grandma house and my dad drinks alot but kinda stopped and my mom started and we moved out into a apartment and it's just scary.
My parents always fight and at this point it becomes a regular thing. I'm scared that one day someone is going to get hurt. They always shout and scream at eachother and i always tried to make them stop while bawling my eyes out everytime. They always tell to stay out of it. My older brother seems to be used to it since he doesn't care. My mom keeps on complaining about my dad to me and how much she hates him. My dad says my mom is crazy. Bacause of this i always cry even if someone slightly raises their voice. They think I'm a baby. My sister passed away few years ago and my mom blames my dad for it. I dont know what to do, i love my parents. I can't ignore the fighting like my brother, i always get too scared something might happen, i dont wanna lose them. I told my mom if they are unhappy with eachother they could get a divorce (i obviously don't want that to happen but what else can we do). but of course, its not that easy. She says that divorce is 'bad'. And since I'm still young i need both of them. My brother seems to be alright (he's 21 and has a job but he still lives with us) but that doesn't mean he doesn't need his parents as well.
I understand. I'm 14(no siblings) I would honestly try to reach out to your older brother. Maybe he is hurting and you just don't know. Same with the divorce thing my parents say it's to expensive.
Just yesterday my mom and dad had a physical fight and I'm 18 but I can't say anything cause my dad will reprimand me, I just wish I could go away from all of this 😭
My parents are fighting since yesterday because my dad was about to punch me and my brother but my mom stop him and she told him to stop doing that to us and she told him to leave because its very stressing that my father is still here..Mom said “Less Talk, Less Mistakes“ and they did that for a couple of hours then my dad started fighting again..They keep fighting for years now even when we already read the bible every day and night to stop thwm from fighting and worshiping God..
Hello I know I'm late but I'm really scared I'm in my closet corner crying my parents are yelling and I so scared my dad hit my mom because he was angry. I'm scared of what might happen if I stay quiet. I don't want them to divorce because I love them both very much but its sadly the best thing is also hurts that it is my moms fault I will never admit it to her but it is. I'm way to scared to go up to them rn. I read some comments and it made me feel less alone because I thought this was just me so I'm writing this to hopefully give someone some comfort knowing they are not alone. I'm also glad my younger siblings are asleep I don't want them to hear this I'm shaking and scared rn. I hope this ends soon.
I SWEAR TO GOD!!! PARENTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT THEIR KIDS AT ALL IF THEY ACT LIKE THIS IN FRONT OF THEM. I'M CRYING SO BAD AND THEY DO NOT CARE!!! THEY JUST YELL AT ME FOR CRYING. IT"S SO SCARY
my family fights like crazy I just do something I like often so im too scared to tell them to stop and I have a fear of them divorcing so I actually dont really care now I care about my future so I study real hard, and tysm ur really helpful new sub btw
I know I’m late but this is going to be helpful. I’ve already tried telling them how I feel and it just doesn’t work or try telling them there is other solutions but I’d just get in trouble for “butting in” which yes I do a lot but I’m just tired of it .
yes, every parent is different. it's often best to wait a day or 2 until things have cooled down before having the talk. Having a discussion will only work with the parent who's more emotionally mature.
jts literally christmas and they’re fighting again. i had to comfort my little sister and give her earbuds so she doesn’t have to experience this. i’m actually heartbroken this is the worst christmas ever i hope it gets better
Can you do "How to stop a mom and sibling stop fighting" please? My mom and sibling never stop fighting and I'm getting upset they are fighting right now...
Today, My parents Fought In the morning just a little, and well, since my mom Gets mad at my dad or brother or even me alot, She starts to get more angrier which We keep having right Things what we are actually saying. They both fought today and My mom was furious and keeps telling me how annoying he is. I feel bad for him because he literally came out of the hospital and Have his leg cut off, cant walk but could be on a wheel chair. I wish I could tell her how annoying and Sad to see or listen their fighting almost every weekend. Even my brother is Older, He feels my Pain how they keep fighting even since he was younger, I'm 14, and Yet I'm trying To make myself go back up to go to highschool this year.
im sorta in the same boat bcuz when they argue like its not even a argue its like a argue but since im wit them or near them they keep low but my mom is depressed i can tell by the way she talks she has many things wrong wit her back and has realy bad insomnia to where she can be up for almost 3 days n 24/48 hrs least so she sleeps alot durring the day she can barley stand for 30 mins and a stay at home mom so my dad does both parenting n i help my mom wit my brother after school hes 5 im 14 ill be 15 tomorrow n i was raised around older people so mentally im like 17 so like all day till my dad gets home idk when he gets her when he does n my dad he works alot he cooks i try to help me n him dont realy have a relationship because he pushes me away cuz he gets mad about me asking questions about what hes doing it feels like he only hears me talking to him with and attitude so i half to talk like a lil kid so he dont get mad i can barley make jokes wit him n i half to watch what i say around him whats ur advice on my situation or how do you feel about it i want a diffrent perspective
I'm 15 and my parents actually fight not very often, but when they do fight its really hard to the point of saying things like, I AM LEAVING THE U.S. over incredibly stupid stuff like, *oh why did you say this to our neighbor* and I believe it is because of my mother's declining mental health and my Father's patience running out when he is trying to have a beer after a long day.
My parents argue very morning, very evening & every night! I get woken up by arguing and then when i say something my mother tells me to fuck off! The only way i get away is stay in my room all day, no food, no water nothing. Also i have to either listen/watch ASMR or listen or sing to music And then my parents ask why i stay in my room all day i should come down i’ve told them several times the reason why! My dad is the voice of reason My mother is the voice of anger
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My parents were just fighting and then my mom sent my dad away for the 3rd time I think. I wanted to go to them and tell stop. My mom said she doesn’t want to be married to my dad and I cried hard at that.
I know im late but i need tips to calm my mom down. She throws things around the house, my dad usually is the main reason that disappoints/angers her.. i did my best to calm my mom down but i still feel uneasy.
As a 9 year old kid, I fight with my parents and I'm like "please stop fighting with me", "pinky promise to stop fighting" and their like "NO" I'm also like "why do u have to compare my baby sister against me", " why do never want to understand about me" and their like "I'LL GO LET U ON THE STREETS TO BE HOMELESS" I'm just locked my parents bathroom and have my phone. Please be viral or I'll cry so much. P.S. I'm trying to comment this to every type of this video.
My parents are fighting and im the sensitive on and im shaking. My mum is sick so she is really stressted and screaming alot.THERE FIGHTING ABOUT WHAT TO EAT FOR DINNER 😩
My parents fight not too much but when they do it’s pretty bad and they don’t know I hate to see my parents hate each other and now I’m crying and I just told my bff id rather not have any thing than to see them fighting
I tell them to stop and chat with my mom. She cools down and is convinced, but the next day she goes crazy again. I'm tired of this shit, and hopefully she gets her sanity back.
Shit. Since I was tottaly born.. my dad and mom loved me. But I loved my dad and mom… I can tell my dad was so sweet to me.. and I was a boy. But my mom is taking me away from him.. i just want this to stop. My dad wasn’t bad. He’s innocent. I can tell he’s a Angel dad. My dad threw a glass bottle at mom but the glass didn’t break.. he didn’t abuse me tho.
Well, yesterday evening I went out with my family, but nobody actually walked with me, or even bothered saying something (I could start a conversation, but I didn't want to be always the first to talk), and then the whole evening went down like hell, and now they're probably so mad at me, that I'll have to survive for the next two months of summer, I don't know what to do, because even if I excuse (I don't know if I really did something so bad)
The thing is the next day after the fight they will ether not talk or tell you to go away or some thing like that but I am going to school tomorrow. Good luck to all of you guys who have parents that fight.
I literally hate when my parents fight , it makes me feel like why am I even here. It’s much better when they get along I feel .. whole. I don’t want them to divorce but I want them to stop arguing. And it’s so awkward they want to act like a therapy session with me when they make up, like I have to prove both of their points and talk about my perception and my mom will pin it on my dad and my dad will pin it on my mom. That’s why they’re made for each other lol. This really sucks ass they’re arguing before Valentine’s Day
I'm 13 year old my parents are fighting a lot from a few days and I don't know what to do they always blame me for everything maybe because I'm the eldest.
I’m sorry to hear they’re blaming you. If you feel and know it’s not your fault, reject their opinions and theories. However, do you feel you can improve in any area? It’s one thing if one parent blames you but it’s another when both of them are blaming you.
My mom were arguing with my dad this morning over text about my mom saying to my dad that she’s tired of him from 20 years ago till now and that she wants another baby
I'm now 30 and will never have kids. Adults They have mentally affected me, and hurt me I don't have a relationship with them. They argued all through my life, my kid years teen years and in my 20s when I was 30 I said enough is enough
I don’t care how long I’ve been living with my parents, I don’t care if they pay bills, I don’t care if they are raising me, I don’t care if they are talking care of me. I don’t give a fuck about that shit. I’m an adult and I’m 20 years old. I should be able to do the things I want to do. If my parents wanna boss me around let them who cares? It’s my life and I’m gonna do what I want period. My parents may feed me and put clothes on my back and buy me stuff but that doesn’t mean they can tell me what to do. My parents be getting mad when I get mad because when they tell me something I just walk away.
what I hate the most is that whenever my mums friends come over, my parents always act like we’re just a regular happy family. Like no we’re not, they argue weekly and the only time they don’t fight is to keep up this fake fantasy of a happy family in front of others. My mum is especially so fake and manipulative and can change from being all jolly and laughing then becoming grumpy and frustrated once they leave the house.
Sir can u plss help me My parents have been constantly at odds with each other for almost a monththey have been constantly fighting over small things...and It is being mentally affecting me a lot...and I am not able to study for a few days now..😭...my father gets angry on little things.and have been skipping meals recently..and my mother went to my granny's bcz granny had an operation recently....they release their anger by yelling at me nd my younger brother.my mom dad nd grandmother rarely talk to each other...when made a small mistake they scold me by making very taunty compliments towards each other and me....my finals are staring in2 days and i am not able to study...whenever i open my books their fights and taunts come to my mind....nd i am not able to to concentrate ...i always think about how to make peace between them but none of the 3 ever listen to me and ignore like i am just a chindl..i am 18 now and i understand every thing...and it is mentaly affecting me a lot... sir can u pls help or advice something🙏🙏
You need to think and keep telling yourself that you are a very strong, smart and confident person no matter what comment they say/yell about you. Just because they are your parents, doesn't mean everything they say its true. Just like the mean kids at school, it's no different. You know in your consciousness what is true and what is not and stick with the truth. If you do that, their quarreling will not effect you. There are noise cancelling ear plugs for sale online that you can buy and that will help you block out all the noise. They're not too expensive. Good luck Nupur.
don't worry, we're all in this together. you're not alone. my parents keep fighting too. keep praying cs GOD is above everything and will get you through this. put some earphones on, close the door, put some calm music and just start studying. YOU WILL WIN. OK?
Honestly I don't know what to do. I don't know why I'am writing this comment, but I'am afraid. My parents won't stop fighting and they don't think about how it affects me, I tried to intervene but they didn't care at all. I'am scared because I think my father has some problems, evrytime they have a big fight My father cuts his arm with a knife so deep that the scars remain there. Everytime they fight I see his arm bleeding from the same place everytime. And I'am afraid that is he going to hurt me or my mom. I just want to talk to someone
The most depressing part at home, is parents fighting like crazy.
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Hope we all witness peace in our families ASAP!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Yep they fight like dog and cat even in middle of night
True cuz my mom literally said shes gonna kill my dad and rip off his neck- 😭😭
I’m 37 and my parents fighting still breaks my heart. I love them both but I can’t understand why they hate each other so much. And why, if they hate each other so much, why are they still together? I don’t want them to get divorced, but they are so mean to each other, sometimes I think it would just be better for them to not be together.
I remember knowing that my dad was going to be mad at my mom and wishing that she would stop certain behaviors as a child and I remember begging my dad to be nice to my mom as a young teenager. It really hurt me and still hurts me.
Why are people so intent on ruining their own lives and the lives of those around them? Why can’t people just be decent? Why do people intentionally break the hearts of the ones they are supposed to love and care for?
I still wish that my dad cared enough about me to treat my mom like he loves her. I know his dad was mean to his mom, but did he think that was ok?
I’m sorry you guys are going through this. It is so hard. It’s hard on me still. I just want to fix it, but I can’t.
FYI, it is NOT your fault. Your parents are adults and should be striving to improve their relationship with each other and you. I hope that some day soon all of our parents start acting like adults and learning how to communicate effectively and solve problems.
I love you all and care about you. I have been where you are. You are not alone. I am praying for all of you.
U are Soo old how are they fighting ;-;
Hope everything will calm down soon and let their be peace ❤❤❤❤❤
@@maxy8999 maybe he/she type it wrong i guess its 17
Im in one rn
Im only 14 but its at a point where i would be happier if they divorced
I literally just woke up and realized I woke up because my parents were literally screaming at each other. They’re throwing things and stomping around. Usually its that my mom is very angry and upset and my dad is trying to stop the fight and be reasonable but this time both are shouting and are very mad. I’m in tears and too scared to leave my room although I’m hungry and want to eat breakfast
Omg same that happened when I was eating I heard somthing then I went to there room. Usually my dad is calm but now they are both fighting. It’s really unusual
same actually they just had a fight earlier then im the one stopping the two of them its so hard so tiring and also depressing im just crying between them.
hiii it's 11:46 AM and im starving for breakfast so im distracting myself until my friend throws a subway sandwich into my window cause i asked her to!!
Mines the opposite my mom is trying to stop the fight but my dad keeps fighting and hitting...
@@zezeuw hitting?!
my parents keep fighting and i don’t wanna talk to them cuz i’m scared of them, like they’ll punish me, you know?
Yes, I understand. However, you will never know unless you try. If you do, do it calmly and polite. You will get back what you put out.
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My parents have been fighting for 4 hours. I can’t sleep they keep screaming 😞😔
Go to where they are, cover your ears and keep on saying “ITS TOO LOUD!” Until they stop fighting. Let me know if it helps
Uncle_drewzzy they stop fighting. I might use this in the future. Thanks
And my Dad is breaking plates and my mom keeps screaming at him
my parents fighting are worse. i need real advice. my parents are very loud, they keep throwing stuff at each other, and it just makes me sad. they had been fighting ever since I was a newborn. they even physical fight each other with kicks. and they even call each other cuss words. very bad cuss words. but my parents aren't like others. if I tell them to stop, or its getting to me. they just say "shutup, f*ck" and I'm only 9 years old so hearing this can break and melt my heart.
@@vast_aka you shouldn't have to go through that
THANK U my parents scream an I scream I just hope they stop
Hang in there brother, good luck to you!
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Thanks. I'm currently 11 struggling with this problem. My parents drink a lot, and they end up in arguments. I had a lot of problems with school because i was dealing with them. I thank you from the bottom of my heart 🙏
I always have to intervene. It hurts knowing that they don't care about fighting right in front of their kid and making me choose a side. And it's even harder since my mom is suicidal and most of the time it's her fault. I just wish I could run away. Thank you for the video by the way
same situation here. i hope youre okay! im trying to do my best honestly but i cant seem to do anything , its just sad
@@likhita6261 I hope things get better for the both of us. But stay strong :)
@@leilaschwartz4104 you too!
@@likhita6261 aw thank you and same to you if you need anyone to vent to I'm usually online :)
@@leilaschwartz4104 alr
My parents are fighting now, like right now and I needed this
My parents were fighting but then my mom just left - I’m really scared right now and I don’t know what to do get her coming back ... I called her and she said she doesn’t know where she’s going, I’m only 12 and I’m freaking out crying in the corner this is the only way I feel safe communicating right now
Don't worry, she will be back. She just needs some time to get away from your dad, clear her mind, and think of what to make of this whole situation. I'm hoping when she returns they will talk it out.
Uncle_drewzzy thank you! I overheard my dad and my mom on the phone apologizing so I think it’s getting better but they still are mad
hey! ik how you feel, i’ve had it before, sometimes it’s nice talking to ppl who relate, for me it was, it was reliving knowing i wasn’t alone, lmk if it happens again, i’ll be here if you wanna talk (i’m 12 too )
Simply Crybaby thank you 😊
Its ok I'm 12 also and my parents hit eachother and scream and alot of other stuff they bring my into it alot so i understand what you mean but you can get through this its ok
My mom and dad sometimes fights and I sit in my room and praying to God that this shouldn't happend and I say to God that I want my mom and dad to get along and be happy with each other but listening makes my feeling go crying and when mom calls if am hungry I say no because im so scared that I would cause a problem by saying that hey dad and mom why you fighting and I am so scared to ask that because ill think that my dad or mom will slap me and or hit me or something and I am 12 year talking rn I just every mom and dad to get along when I am adult ill ask them hey why you are guys fighting back in those days I was so scared to ask you guys because you were fighting alot and I thought my family was a broken family and I wish my mom and dad could get along rn because there fighting rn well commenting this pls I just wish to God that no fighting between your mom and dad going to this message to every mom and dad that sees my comment pls take care and love my mom and dads and hearts goes to all mom and dads in the world and one day I think as a kid like me I should run away start my own life because that puts me in way that makes want to run away from my mom and dad I should think getting a job when am 13 or 16 or 19 just earn money and stay away my mom and dad to figure out stuff
Thank you to help me by family fighting my parent fight and it made me and my sister cry
I just turned 13 last month and today my mom and step dad had an argument and I wanted to find a way for them to both agree on eachothers flaws but I don't want to say anything about either of them because my mom has few flaws to point out but my step dad has a few that if I point out I'll get grounded.
I've asked my mom about jobs so I could earn money to help with their bills because that's one of the top two things they argue about but I have to wait two more years.
Thank you ❤️ my parents fight more often now ;( I'm scared that they are gonna break up 😭 I just want my family to be happy all the time 😔😭🥺
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Thank you so much bro have a good life you made my mom and dad stop fighting thanks I love you bro❤❤😢😢
The only thing I don't like about being home is my parents fighting over the most retarded stuff in the world 😒 I only have 3 more year til I'm an adult so hopefully I can get through it, my parents relationship will survive, and I'll get them both the help that they need. 💙
It's really hurting that 1.7 k ppl suffering from this🥺🥺 I am too
Let's cry together army🥺
thanks for that, but the problem is I just can't leave them alone cs I hate seeing my mom suffering from his abusive talks, and his insults so I always stand next to her and u try as much as I can calming her I just can't distant myself from that you know..
Hi Evie, I’m am happy that you are standing next to your mom. I’m hoping that your father doesn’t direct his abuse towards you. If he does, stand firm and tell him that you don’t agree with him but you still love him.
@@Uncledrewzzy I'm now 30 and will never have kids. They have mentally affected me, and hurt me I don't have a relationship with them. They argued all through my life, my kid years teen years and in my 20s when I was 30 I said enough is enough
Hey this video really helped I just want to say thank you it was hard for me cause I had no sister or brother to help me through it but you did thank you
That’s awesome thank you for sharing!
This helps me a lot, I just watched this because today they were fighting and it affected my mental health a lot and I actually went into my room to cry because I don’t want a divorce to happen I tried convincing them to talk it out and we’ll, it sorta worked because they don’t really talk much, im not gonna talk about what happened but I wanted to thank you for this video and it helped a lot I am anti social and this affects me a-lot every-time my mom and dad have a argument.
My parents don’t fight everyday just when they got something wrong, or something but this still really helps for some people for the people who just stay silent like I used to it’s better to go up to your mom and dad and convince them to talk it out, and maybe just try make them fight in there room, in a more quiet way.
But if this happens everyday, just maybe give them a text message or write a note or in gmail or something because that worked for me when I wrote a note, everyone has emotions, but it’s pretty normal to at least fight once in your life I still wish I did this when I was younger as-well but this really helps and they don’t fight much anymore.
But they still fight even my mom and dad have a fight with me sometimes but it ends pretty quickly but not as my mom and dad fight they take 1/3 days to calm down they smashed plates and broke the curtains once, I was screaming inside and I just payed on my bed hugging my plush toy crying for 3 hours, but after convincing them it helped.
mental health issues are pretty strong for some people like I do and some people might me scared to convince their parents but it’s the best to convince them still, if they end up using there anger all on you, it’s a sign you should run away only if they end up hitting or kicking you but watching this can calm you and give you ways to calm your parents down
sorry to hear what you're going through. I'm having flashbacks just reading this. hang in there and keep reminding yourself that you will never act like them in your own relationships.
my parents fight like every night and in the day too, idk its like their days just cant start or end without them not fighting. my mom starts the fight by bringing up the past and then my dad starts up with his cussing and emotional abuse. honestly, i don't let this get to me in any way and so far, I've never dwelled over their fights etc but I'm just scared that this all might affect my younger siblings. they both are just primary school kids and i don't want them to get overwhelmed with all this negative energy that surrounds us. currently, neither me or my two younger siblings are attending school bc of some issues that had been going on for so long but my other two elder sisters are going to their universities. meanwhile, while we three are at home, my parents just go off all of a sudden. and you said that maybe i should sit down and talk with them but none of them are ready to listen in any way. besides, i don't even have that frank relationship with my dad where i can just tell or ask him anything freely and moreover, where i live, there's no system of moving out when a person is 18+. im just tired of them fighting everyday and not even caring a bit about any of their children's mental health. they don't even care whether anyone of us is asleep or not, they still yell and the noise makes us all to wake up all of a sudden. i distract myself from all this. idk i just want peace.
man,i hope you are doing well
@@likhita6261 :( thank you, dont let this get to you either, okay? i hope everything goes okay for you soon. my parents made up last night though but i wonder how long that will last lmao,, stay strong
@@cherrie9618 aww
@@likhita6261 u seem pretty sweet and nice urself
@@cherrie9618
my parents had a really big argument 3 days ago, they won’t talk to each other am 14 btw turning 15 in 3 months or so, my mom went to try and fix things up with my dad yesterday but it just turned into a bigger argument right infront of me, in 2 days there’s gonna be this thing we’re I guess u could call it “Christmas” but in my religion/culture, am afraid that me and my siblings won’t celebrate this year just because of they’re fight, they hadn’t planned anything, or anything I know of but they just haven’t communicated at all
my dad kind of makes the argument I guess by adding things that have nothing to do in the argument or when they even just try to fix things up, starts getting into politics n stuff with my mother because her father was a mayor, the minority of people hated him and my dad was one of them, my dad never had good ties with my mothers’ family, I feel really bad for my mom because she’s the one who gets hurt the most and doesn’t bother to say anything to the lengths that my father says to her just so the quarrel doesn’t get any bigger for me and my siblings,
in 2 days it’s gonna be a really special day where we always celebrate but just don’t think that’s the case for this year. am afraid to say anything since my father will blow up and say hateful things, happened many times before, don’t bother trying again because it’ll only make matters even worse, I just think sometimes does my father really care about my and my siblings’ feelings. Has he ever thought that this will affect me or my mental state, that maybe I won’t even be able to look at my father when I grow up, really worried honestly, I don’t know what to do at this point.
Write down 4 good things you like about your dad. Whenever times get tough, think of these 4 things and reject all the negativity that's happening in that moment. Go up to him and tell him the 4 good things you love about him, nothing else. Then walk away. Or you can also write it in a letter and give it to him. I wish you and your family happiness.
Dam man I'm very sorry this exact same thing is happening with my parents my father doesn't like my mother's family he adds more drama and at the end of the day my mother is the one that is getting very hurt sometimes she even cries
I’m scared to confront them while their fighting, but I’ll give it a shot
how'd it go?
@@itzthegoat3742 great! thanks
I gotta watch this vid everyday
Thank you this helped me
My parents fight every single conversation. They cannot have one single conversation without it ending up in screaming within the next few sentences.
Help I’m being so traumatized with my parents they keep fighting in front of me HELP
Hey I’m sorry to hear that. My daughter is wise for her age (because I never thought of this when I was a kid) so whenever my wife and I fought she would cover her hears and yell “ITS TOO LOUD ITS TOO LOUD” over and over and it got us to stop and realize what we’re doing. Try that and see if it helps.
This is normal its been 6 years
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who else searched this up becouse there parents where arguing
@@jayzee3483 Me
I thank you the video help me a little my parents help ,but like a little ,but I feel it get bad and bad each time.
My parents are fighting really bad right now.
I'm sorry to hear that, what have you tried so far in terms of distancing yourself from the fight?
Mine to
I love my parents so much and they actually stopped fighting a lot but when they do it's intense cus after they fight they don't talk anymore and i just want everyone to be happy and they usually don't fight but they used to fight a lot in our old house in this house they don't fight a lot but a couple days later i went to work mowing the lawn for the first time ever in my life and i earned 40$ and i also had saved up a lot of money too (I'm 15) and then i after a couple days it was night and i went to sleep until like 4 or 5 am so i was really tired and ended up waking up at like 2 or 3 and my day was great and everything was fine and my mom was at home and my dad was working the whole day and night too but then since i got some money right i wanted to buy a game and then i decided to call my dad and asked him if he could take me but then my brother stopped me and told me dont ask for too much to dad cus he's a little stressed today and i was like why what happen and he was like they fought in the morning and i didn't know why and i asked him why and he wouldn't tell me but then the day went passed and my dad ended up getting home and I watched a movie with my mom and brother but my dad said he didn't wanted to watch the movie then i started worrying and then after everything was done my finished eating in his room and my mom room and my mom ended up sleeping on the couch and she told just for a little minute because i don't wanna smell the food and i was like okay and then it went a couples minutes by and fell asleep so i feel like she lied to me i think she was just trying to avoid my dad and then i went to my dad and told him that i felt sad cus my mom was alone and he told me he couldn't do anything about it cus he tried a lot but he came to the conclusion that he couldn't get in their heads and change their minds so if she wanted to sleep in there she can and then my brother got mad and started fighting with my dad and I know how to control my emotions and I don't get mad easily i basically never get mad but my brother is the opposite he got very short temper so he started fighting with my dad saying he was tired of everything all the fighting and stuff he told me he was gonna beat me up which is normal cus we brother and then my dad said his last words and told my brother go to your room and he left and I just started crying even tho I used to cry a lot but I learned how to control my emotions but this one i couldn't control cus all i wanted was everyone to be happy but i decided to open my mouth and make everything worse but now this is where the 40$ come in i decided to make a note card of acting like I'm mom and dad and then made a note for both of them and put i apologize and a lot more and then put the 20$ dollars in each card so i spend all my money I hope they are good tomorrow I'm going sleep
I know this is for parents fighting but my aunt and mom are always fighting. I try to calm myself but I can't help but cry. I know all siblings fight but they know better now that they are older. I always just put on headphone s and listen to calm music or plug my ears with my hands and say this prayer. " Dear God, please protect my aunt and tia from this fight. I demand nothing bad happens to them. I demand this will stop in jesus's name." It always just helped a little :) I would ask my grandparents to take me to another trusted adult while they were working so I wouldn't be in their presence while they were fighting. Today I was in my room after eating and I heard my aunt say "stop grabbing my clothes or im gonna BEAT YOU UP" and my mom came out and started protecting herself. That is when I slammed my door and locked it because I knew what was happening next. All I heard was screaming and stuff falling down and moving. I covered my ears and screamed my prayer. Then I screamed as loud as I could about 4 times to try to get them to stop. After they were still fighting my grandpa told me to unlock the door and he brought me to my fighting aunt and mom. I screamed very loud to stop. I think my mom had broken a tooth because there was blood coming from her mouth. Then he told me to come in the backyard. He brought me a jacket and my shoes so while they were fighting I can be outside. He went back inside with my grandma and stopped the fight and they brought me in after it stopped and I talked about it to my grandma why they were fighting over some fabric that you wear it was so stupid and now im in my bed spending 5 minutes talking about it because I feel like I need to.
Thank you for helping😢
TYYY THEY ALWAYS ARGUE! 🥺❤️
Thank you it's hurting my mental health I got depression some other mental illnesses and they are fighting right now and I'm scared it's just been hard on us we lost our house before and had to live with my grandma house and my dad drinks alot but kinda stopped and my mom started and we moved out into a apartment and it's just scary.
Thank you for sharing your story. I feel your struggles, hang in there friend!
My parents always fight and at this point it becomes a regular thing. I'm scared that one day someone is going to get hurt. They always shout and scream at eachother and i always tried to make them stop while bawling my eyes out everytime. They always tell to stay out of it. My older brother seems to be used to it since he doesn't care. My mom keeps on complaining about my dad to me and how much she hates him. My dad says my mom is crazy. Bacause of this i always cry even if someone slightly raises their voice. They think I'm a baby.
My sister passed away few years ago and my mom blames my dad for it. I dont know what to do, i love my parents.
I can't ignore the fighting like my brother, i always get too scared something might happen, i dont wanna lose them.
I told my mom if they are unhappy with eachother they could get a divorce (i obviously don't want that to happen but what else can we do). but of course, its not that easy. She says that divorce is 'bad'. And since I'm still young i need both of them. My brother seems to be alright (he's 21 and has a job but he still lives with us) but that doesn't mean he doesn't need his parents as well.
I understand. I'm 14(no siblings) I would honestly try to reach out to your older brother. Maybe he is hurting and you just don't know. Same with the divorce thing my parents say it's to expensive.
Just yesterday my mom and dad had a physical fight and I'm 18 but I can't say anything cause my dad will reprimand me, I just wish I could go away from all of this 😭
May the Lord bless you!
My parents are fighting since yesterday because my dad was about to punch me and my brother but my mom stop him and she told him to stop doing that to us and she told him to leave because its very stressing that my father is still here..Mom said “Less Talk, Less Mistakes“ and they did that for a couple of hours then my dad started fighting again..They keep fighting for years now even when we already read the bible every day and night to stop thwm from fighting and worshiping God..
Mine are breaking up because of this so I hope this works to get back
You’re a good father😢
Hello I know I'm late but I'm really scared I'm in my closet corner crying my parents are yelling and I so scared my dad hit my mom because he was angry. I'm scared of what might happen if I stay quiet. I don't want them to divorce because I love them both very much but its sadly the best thing is also hurts that it is my moms fault I will never admit it to her but it is. I'm way to scared to go up to them rn. I read some comments and it made me feel less alone because I thought this was just me so I'm writing this to hopefully give someone some comfort knowing they are not alone. I'm also glad my younger siblings are asleep I don't want them to hear this I'm shaking and scared rn. I hope this ends soon.
I SWEAR TO GOD!!! PARENTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT THEIR KIDS AT ALL IF THEY ACT LIKE THIS IN FRONT OF THEM. I'M CRYING SO BAD AND THEY DO NOT CARE!!! THEY JUST YELL AT ME FOR CRYING. IT"S SO SCARY
true man i cryed so much
my family fights like crazy I just do something I like often so im too scared to tell them to stop and I have a fear of them divorcing so I actually dont really care now I care about my future so I study real hard, and tysm ur really helpful new sub btw
I know I’m late but this is going to be helpful. I’ve already tried telling them how I feel and it just doesn’t work or try telling them there is other solutions but I’d just get in trouble for “butting in” which yes I do a lot but I’m just tired of it .
yes, every parent is different. it's often best to wait a day or 2 until things have cooled down before having the talk. Having a discussion will only work with the parent who's more emotionally mature.
thank you so much
I’m glad I saw this it is real ways to stop them.
I’m trying to stop my parents from getting a divorce
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that's so said
Thank a lot this help me a lot thank so much
jts literally christmas and they’re fighting again. i had to comfort my little sister and give her earbuds so she doesn’t have to experience this. i’m actually heartbroken this is the worst christmas ever i hope it gets better
Can you do "How to stop a mom and sibling stop fighting" please? My mom and sibling never stop fighting and I'm getting upset they are fighting right now...
this was helpful thank you soo much
i am 10 i stay up at night because my parents scream at eachother and i think they might divorce thanks for the edvice so much thank you 😌
Today, My parents Fought In the morning just a little, and well, since my mom Gets mad at my dad or brother or even me alot, She starts to get more angrier which We keep having right Things what we are actually saying. They both fought today and My mom was furious and keeps telling me how annoying he is. I feel bad for him because he literally came out of the hospital and Have his leg cut off, cant walk but could be on a wheel chair. I wish I could tell her how annoying and Sad to see or listen their fighting almost every weekend. Even my brother is Older, He feels my Pain how they keep fighting even since he was younger, I'm 14, and Yet I'm trying To make myself go back up to go to highschool this year.
im sorta in the same boat bcuz when they argue like its not even a argue its like a argue but since im wit them or near them they keep low but my mom is depressed i can tell by the way she talks she has many things wrong wit her back and has realy bad insomnia to where she can be up for almost 3 days n 24/48 hrs least so she sleeps alot durring the day she can barley stand for 30 mins and a stay at home mom so my dad does both parenting n i help my mom wit my brother after school hes 5 im 14 ill be 15 tomorrow n i was raised around older people so mentally im like 17 so like all day till my dad gets home idk when he gets her when he does n my dad he works alot he cooks i try to help me n him dont realy have a relationship because he pushes me away cuz he gets mad about me asking questions about what hes doing it feels like he only hears me talking to him with and attitude so i half to talk like a lil kid so he dont get mad i can barley make jokes wit him n i half to watch what i say around him whats ur advice on my situation or how do you feel about it i want a diffrent perspective
Thank you
I'm 29 and living with my parents.. almost every day I watch drama of their fights. I have undiagnose depression and diagnosed anxiety disorder 😢
I'm 15 and my parents actually fight not very often, but when they do fight its really hard to the point of saying things like, I AM LEAVING THE U.S. over incredibly stupid stuff like, *oh why did you say this to our neighbor* and I believe it is because of my mother's declining mental health and my Father's patience running out when he is trying to have a beer after a long day.
My parents argue very morning, very evening & every night!
I get woken up by arguing and then when i say something my mother tells me to fuck off!
The only way i get away is stay in my room all day, no food, no water nothing. Also i have to either listen/watch ASMR or listen or sing to music
And then my parents ask why i stay in my room all day i should come down i’ve told them several times the reason why!
My dad is the voice of reason
My mother is the voice of anger
Check out my new video, maybe you can find it useful :What to do when your parents are fighting and arguing. 3 tips to protect yourself mentally.
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Tysm this helps me alot🥺😭😭😫
And I don’t have the guts to say anything to them while they are fighting😢
Probably only saying “what are we having for dinner?” :( lol
It's best to wait a couple of days when the emotional boiling point has calmed down. Speak to the one who's more level minded.
My parents have been argueing 4to6times the last 3 days like different arguments then make up An emotional rollercoaster
My parents were just fighting and then my mom sent my dad away for the 3rd time I think. I wanted to go to them and tell stop. My mom said she doesn’t want to be married to my dad and I cried hard at that.
I know im late but i need tips to calm my mom down. She throws things around the house, my dad usually is the main reason that disappoints/angers her.. i did my best to calm my mom down but i still feel uneasy.
My parents are thinking of kicking my brother out and now I am depressed
As a 9 year old kid, I fight with my parents and I'm like "please stop fighting with me", "pinky promise to stop fighting" and their like "NO" I'm also like "why do u have to compare my baby sister against me", " why do never want to understand about me" and their like "I'LL GO LET U ON THE STREETS TO BE HOMELESS" I'm just locked my parents bathroom and have my phone. Please be viral or I'll cry so much. P.S. I'm trying to comment this to every type of this video.
Every night man, every night.
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My parents fight every night for dumb reason they always accuse each other for stuff
This helps me in so ewa6 and I know it and ty drewzyy
My dad is feeling unwanted hes crying and posting things on face book of him being unwanted i cant stop it because i have no power
Me too I am just like you same parents ☹️☹️😞😔😢🙃🙃
I feel sorry for him because he went through all of that. But that you for the hellp
My parents are fighting and im the sensitive on and im shaking. My mum is sick so she is really stressted and screaming alot.THERE FIGHTING ABOUT WHAT TO EAT FOR DINNER 😩
Bro ong and I hate it and stuff like that happens like it’s anoying hurtful and makes me wanna step up and do something
My parents fight not too much but when they do it’s pretty bad and they don’t know I hate to see my parents hate each other and now I’m crying and I just told my bff id rather not have any thing than to see them fighting
I tell them to stop and chat with my mom. She cools down and is convinced, but the next day she goes crazy again. I'm tired of this shit, and hopefully she gets her sanity back.
Shit. Since I was tottaly born.. my dad and mom loved me. But I loved my dad and mom… I can tell my dad was so sweet to me.. and I was a boy. But my mom is taking me away from him.. i just want this to stop. My dad wasn’t bad. He’s innocent. I can tell he’s a Angel dad. My dad threw a glass bottle at mom but the glass didn’t break.. he didn’t abuse me tho.
Update: nothing helped me. Please i need an advice that can make the back together
This helps a lot
I stop it the old fashion way 😏
recking everything near me until my parents will have no choice but to stop fighting me to chill out
Well, yesterday evening I went out with my family, but nobody actually walked with me, or even bothered saying something (I could start a conversation, but I didn't want to be always the first to talk), and then the whole evening went down like hell, and now they're probably so mad at me, that I'll have to survive for the next two months of summer, I don't know what to do, because even if I excuse (I don't know if I really did something so bad)
The thing is the next day after the fight they will ether not talk or tell you to go away or some thing like that but I am going to school tomorrow. Good luck to all of you guys who have parents that fight.
My parents are fighting constantly and start saying things about each other. I’m scared and wish they would stop.
Thankyou
I literally hate when my parents fight , it makes me feel like why am I even here. It’s much better when they get along I feel .. whole. I don’t want them to divorce but I want them to stop arguing. And it’s so awkward they want to act like a therapy session with me when they make up, like I have to prove both of their points and talk about my perception and my mom will pin it on my dad and my dad will pin it on my mom. That’s why they’re made for each other lol. This really sucks ass they’re arguing before Valentine’s Day
I am almost 13 years old, and I constantly wake up to my parents fighting
I'm 13 year old my parents are fighting a lot from a few days and I don't know what to do they always blame me for everything maybe because I'm the eldest.
I’m sorry to hear they’re blaming you. If you feel and know it’s not your fault, reject their opinions and theories. However, do you feel you can improve in any area? It’s one thing if one parent blames you but it’s another when both of them are blaming you.
since my parents were fighting my mom has to pay the house bills for 1 month while my dad will take a load to somewhere for 1 month
My mom were arguing with my dad this morning over text about my mom saying to my dad that she’s tired of him from 20 years ago till now and that she wants another baby
Tnx❤️
Like you kinda made me feel better like right now I have a problem
TYSM
I'm now 30 and will never have kids. Adults They have mentally affected me, and hurt me I don't have a relationship with them. They argued all through my life, my kid years teen years and in my 20s when I was 30 I said enough is enough
I don’t care how long I’ve been living with my parents, I don’t care if they pay bills, I don’t care if they are raising me, I don’t care if they are talking care of me. I don’t give a fuck about that shit. I’m an adult and I’m 20 years old. I should be able to do the things I want to do. If my parents wanna boss me around let them who cares? It’s my life and I’m gonna do what I want period. My parents may feed me and put clothes on my back and buy me stuff but that doesn’t mean they can tell me what to do. My parents be getting mad when I get mad because when they tell me something I just walk away.
When my parents fighting i always go out of house and then calm
what I hate the most is that whenever my mums friends come over, my parents always act like we’re just a regular happy family.
Like no we’re not, they argue weekly and the only time they don’t fight is to keep up this fake fantasy of a happy family in front of others.
My mum is especially so fake and manipulative and can change from being all jolly and laughing then becoming grumpy and frustrated once they leave the house.
Sir can u plss help me
My parents have been constantly at odds with each other for almost a monththey have been constantly fighting over small things...and It is being mentally affecting me a lot...and I am not able to study for a few days now..😭...my father gets angry on little things.and have been skipping meals recently..and my mother went to my granny's bcz granny had an operation recently....they release their anger by yelling at me nd my younger brother.my mom dad nd grandmother rarely talk to each other...when made a small mistake they scold me by making very taunty compliments towards each other and me....my finals are staring in2 days and i am not able to study...whenever i open my books their fights and taunts come to my mind....nd i am not able to to concentrate
...i always think about how to make peace between them but none of the 3 ever listen to me and ignore like i am just a chindl..i am 18 now and i understand every thing...and it is mentaly affecting me a lot...
sir can u pls help or advice something🙏🙏
You need to think and keep telling yourself that you are a very strong, smart and confident person no matter what comment they say/yell about you. Just because they are your parents, doesn't mean everything they say its true. Just like the mean kids at school, it's no different. You know in your consciousness what is true and what is not and stick with the truth. If you do that, their quarreling will not effect you. There are noise cancelling ear plugs for sale online that you can buy and that will help you block out all the noise. They're not too expensive. Good luck Nupur.
@@Uncledrewzzy Thanku for ur advice ^_^ 🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️
don't worry, we're all in this together. you're not alone. my parents keep fighting too. keep praying cs GOD is above everything and will get you through this. put some earphones on, close the door, put some calm music and just start studying. YOU WILL WIN. OK?
@@eviewatterson7407 thanku so much😀
Im 10 and my parents are fighting so much Im crying rn
R u ok?
Same I do that I just don’t won’t them to breack up
@@Jaxcanty2345 same
Thank you so much. My parents are starting to get violent :(
Honestly I don't know what to do. I don't know why I'am writing this comment, but I'am afraid. My parents won't stop fighting and they don't think about how it affects me, I tried to intervene but they didn't care at all. I'am scared because I think my father has some problems, evrytime they have a big fight My father cuts his arm with a knife so deep that the scars remain there. Everytime they fight I see his arm bleeding from the same place everytime. And I'am afraid that is he going to hurt me or my mom. I just want to talk to someone
my mom is planning to leave my dad and i and im crying so much they were in a fight yesterday and stopped talking to each other today :(