Thank you! I cried sad happy tears because Mrs Dana gives me hope and understanding. I know I'm broken but I'll take a walk and open up to sun air trees. Thank you for this information.
I have Asperger's syndrome, and I've been studying a little bit about polyvagal theory. I've listened to one or two of Dr. Porges' videos, and currently listening to a book that he and his son wrote. I tend to be in the dorsal vagal mode most of the day unfortunately. So as a result I'm not really engaging with people unless I really try. So as you can imagine my relationships tend to be a little flat, and not many people want to engage with me. But I do have moments like you said, of the ventral vagal. And I'll try what you said also about thinking about scenarios with the three modes .. That seems like something that would really help.
Surely yr on your way! As you’ve clearly identified all three nervous systems. I have to listen to this fascinating podcast again in one sweep with no distractions
I’m so glad I found this interview. I’ve been studying this topic for several years now, and I’m very appreciative of this guest, as well as the person interviewed. Thank you!
New Years Day & came across this podcast, what a find ! In APPRECIATION for this information !! Exactly what I need to move forward in 2024.. THANK YOU, BOTH 🫶
Thank you very much sir for this very good podcast..I think it all starts with being mindful and in the present moment in order to catch up those macro beautiful moments that reshape our nervous system and transform it from flight fight mode to a peaceful,calm mode ,where we can get happy and authentic.thanks a lot
Nice interview. Though I disagree that having a negative nervous system response to another person simply means they remind you of someone in your past. I find it a bit baffling that a person who specializes in trauma would advise a person to not listen to their own nervous system if they're feeling unsafe, etc.
I would recommend listening again. She's not saying that when you feel a "negative" response, it's only because the person reminds you of someone and there's nothing wrong. What she's saying is that it's important to touch in - there are lots of times when we judge someone negatively unfairly because they remind you of something negative in your past. I've had that happen, and when I realize that, I could see that the person was just fine and I could be nonjudgmental about them. On the other hand, when I touch in to how I feel, and realize that my spidey senses are on alert and I feel unsafe, and I can touch base in ventral to take the appropriate actions to keep myself safe. Can you see the difference?
@@dariosergevna for me, it's putting my hand on my heart and breathing into what I'm feeling. It's like I'm anchoring my heart so I can feel what's going on inside. In my experience of it, it feels like I'm allowing myself to self-regulate in ventral. Then, I can use my discrimination to evaluate the situation in the present, rather than through the lens of my trauma. Sometimes that sense that something is off is correct, and I can take steps to leave the environment or establish clear boundaries. Sometimes, I get that it's my inner child that's scared. If things are safe, I can comfort my inner child and assure her that I'll pay attention and I'll take good care of her
Thank you! I cried sad happy tears because Mrs Dana gives me hope and understanding. I know I'm broken but I'll take a walk and open up to sun air trees. Thank you for this information.
I have Asperger's syndrome, and I've been studying a little bit about polyvagal theory. I've listened to one or two of Dr. Porges' videos, and currently listening to a book that he and his son wrote. I tend to be in the dorsal vagal mode most of the day unfortunately. So as a result I'm not really engaging with people unless I really try. So as you can imagine my relationships tend to be a little flat, and not many people want to engage with me. But I do have moments like you said, of the ventral vagal.
And I'll try what you said also about thinking about scenarios with the three modes .. That seems like something that would really help.
Thanks for sharing!
Surely yr on your way! As you’ve clearly identified all three nervous systems. I have to listen to this fascinating podcast again in one sweep with no distractions
I’m so glad I found this interview. I’ve been studying this topic for several years now, and I’m very appreciative of this guest, as well as the person interviewed. Thank you!
Thank you. From the aftermath of a dysfunctional family.
I wish I was on your ME Beach when it's warmer.
New Years Day & came across this podcast, what a find ! In APPRECIATION for this information !! Exactly what I need to move forward in 2024.. THANK YOU, BOTH 🫶
Thanks for listening! We're grateful for your new support.
Thank you very much sir for this very good podcast..I think it all starts with being mindful and in the present moment in order to catch up those macro beautiful moments that reshape our nervous system and transform it from flight fight mode to a peaceful,calm mode ,where we can get happy and authentic.thanks a lot
Lovely 🎉
Thank you for listening!
Is there a poly vagal community online?
Nice interview. Though I disagree that having a negative nervous system response to another person simply means they remind you of someone in your past. I find it a bit baffling that a person who specializes in trauma would advise a person to not listen to their own nervous system if they're feeling unsafe, etc.
I would recommend listening again. She's not saying that when you feel a "negative" response, it's only because the person reminds you of someone and there's nothing wrong. What she's saying is that it's important to touch in - there are lots of times when we judge someone negatively unfairly because they remind you of something negative in your past. I've had that happen, and when I realize that, I could see that the person was just fine and I could be nonjudgmental about them. On the other hand, when I touch in to how I feel, and realize that my spidey senses are on alert and I feel unsafe, and I can touch base in ventral to take the appropriate actions to keep myself safe. Can you see the difference?
I understand that. But she should have added that caveat. @@tambikhai3601
@@tambikhai3601how do you “touch base” in central? Do you imagine ventral by imagining moving hands?
@@dariosergevna for me, it's putting my hand on my heart and breathing into what I'm feeling. It's like I'm anchoring my heart so I can feel what's going on inside. In my experience of it, it feels like I'm allowing myself to self-regulate in ventral. Then, I can use my discrimination to evaluate the situation in the present, rather than through the lens of my trauma. Sometimes that sense that something is off is correct, and I can take steps to leave the environment or establish clear boundaries. Sometimes, I get that it's my inner child that's scared. If things are safe, I can comfort my inner child and assure her that I'll pay attention and I'll take good care of her
This one was not very easy to understand seemed more like a college class session.