Casually Explained: Making New Friends
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- Опубліковано 26 сер 2018
- "How can you make a video on something you've never done?"
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I feel like Casually Explained would make really good TED Talks
Viral Videos but in 4 minute monologues
@@jamesm1041 He'd just stack them up, 4 minutes at a time
Better than TED, being that a lot of them are pointless and full of filler.
@@JoeyLevenson Like most anime...
@@jackpadz6079 lmao nice one
I'm great at talking to people when I'm all alone in my room.
But when you actually end up talking to people. *GOD SENT YOU TO KILL ME*
@x Whaledream that subreddit is full of depression
I make better friends with my thoughts than with thots.
Yeah it’s called discord
Hey! me too :) we should be friends!
“But he said to just give it 9 months”
Parzival I CACKLED
Natalie HHH what are you lightning
I. Died. 😂
I thought the make-a-wish line was savage but this shit topped it. I'm dying.
I can't breathe 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
I finally realized your delivery is like you're doing stand-up comedy, you just don't pause as long for people to laugh.
AaronChalce Santiago this isn’t stand up it probably took hours to make
@@soundsoul4796
Stand up also takes hours (and days) to make, they don't just come up with jokes on stage, they write them beforehand
Than why is it called standup, seems kinds dumb that it takes days to make jokes to make it seem like it just rolls of the tounge
Elvin deSouza
I see you are also up until 3 am, go to sleep
XO Formula Are you five years old or something
I was literally thinking two minutes ago “man it’s hard to make friends.”
hello there
I'll be your friend.... SHIT! Rule 2....
here before everyone starts replying to this
UA-cam is tracking our thoughts
Quinton Reviews I was just thinking, "Man, I'm just about to lose all of my friends"
"A great way to practice is by volunteering at the Make-a-Wish foundation." DAMN.
God damn. Next level savage
7/10
im glad someone else caught that bc i was a lil shook
I live under a rock. Can someone explain this quote? Thanks lol
It means they're going to die before you'll possibly run into them again.
“This technique is called getting a job.”
I could hear the mic drop all the way from some casual location.
underappreciated joke 0:02 : "making friends is something that comes incredibly naturally to other people"
This isn't a joke.
@Hoffedemann That’s the joke.
Hoffedemann whoosh
Aye we do exist
I thought the joke was the subtle self-deprecation that the speaker can't make friends incredibly naturally
Can you do an advance tutorial "how to not be weird"?
I second this motion!
I find the strangest people to be the ones that aren’t weird and fight the urge to be random and off the wall. Those people are the real weirdos
Please this. You’re my only hope
Step 1:- Don't be weird.
Everybody's weird, whether they embrace it or not (*＾ー＾)
Being weird is the best way to make invisible friends
and then the next step is going crazy
FroyoHead Animation
That's a pleb move, why go through the hassle to imagine a fake friend when you can talk to yourself and ask yourself questions/talk about the things that bother you and internalize them.
Being schizophrenic is the best way to make invisible friends.
@@insertnamehere3716 lmao
-"You should go out more."
-"Shut up. Who cares what you say? You're imaginary!"
-"At least all my friends are real."
...my imaginary friend and I don't talk much anymore.
"but he said to give it 9 months"
Jesus.
"Yeah... half-sister, btw... on your mom's side."
I don't think Jesus is his sister.
@@augustohff You did watch the video, right?
@@plzletmebefrank omg I'm not explaining the joke
@@augustohff Yeah... I knew what the joke you made was... I thought, and still think, poorly of it.
I just wasn't sure you understood what my joke was. Still not sure.
How to get friends:
1. Ask someone out on a date
2. Get rejected
3. Them: " But we can still be friends though!"
Now you've made a friend!
What if they actually accept
So bold of you to assume that they don't ignore me. :'v
@@miketyson7274 reject and told them you still think of them as a friend tho then boom you and they have a friend
You made me throw up a little
Modern problems require modern solutions
When you realize that the school system or a random-computer-generated seating chart put you there so you can automatically make friends without you finding friends. Oh how I miss those days.
True Medallion .r .hh,fm.
True tho
True Medallion 700 likes 2 comments
Computer generated seating chart?
What are you like 12?
True Medallion my school had seats by alphabetical order
Step 1: Ok, I guess thats pretty easy
Step 2: Shit, guess i’m not gonna be making any friends.
You're so pretty tho
@@dorro4813 I couldn't stop laughing for 5 months after i read that
I love Dix lol
@@dorro4813 PRETTY EASY THAT IS
Step 3: I could make it my feature!
I feel like the “make a wish foundation” joke went over some peoples head
That was crazy dark. I had to pause the video for a second to stop laughing.
I don't get it.
It didn’t register for me until like 10 seconds later, had to rewind and rewatch, then catch my breath from laughing
Principe Giankie it kind of ruins it but it’s because people in make a wish you talk to Até about to die of some disease like cancer
I didn’t get it either
He said a 4 minute monologue and this vid is exactly 4 minutes, absolute legend
Yeah, but the monologue isn't, so he's not even good at that technique.
Fucking legend...
That Make a Wish joke was amazing
I thought exactly the same😂
I didn't understand that😣
It was rather edgy.
didnt get it either
"You're never wanna go back in case they're there." He was joking that the kids would be dead by the next time you went
A good friend is like a four leaf clover; Hard to find and lucky to have
Beer By The Numbers true
people believe it's lucky to have*
shutup youre drunk
One time I found a four leaf clover, then a guy poked one out and laughed.
One time I found a friend who gave me a four leaf clover, it was real nice of him. Then I realized I was allergic to humans and snapped his neck in order to keep the leaf.
More like Casually Savage @ 2:14 I legit choked
If a person spends a lot of time alone, in solitude, and perpetually quiet, they can become pretty socially inept. Solitary can make people a little weird.
.esrever ni tub siht ma I
Also having autism can make you socially inept
I spend a lot of time alone AND have autism AND have anxiety, yay I suck! :D
This is true. It's an actual fact that this is true, yet most people on here are going to argue it's because of genetics or some undiagnosed autism.
Being social gets better with practice. It's really not that difficult of a concept.
@@cgme7076 tell that to me :(
How to make friends: talk to people
How to talk to people: this isn’t going to work
He said to give it nine months lmao
Jen Tuesday, I'm happy to tell you that you will have a sister. XD
Because I'll be your daddy hehe
Yes... a very funny remark... "banging her sister" ...
He said he wanted to Bang his sister tho so if u guys are right about him being the dad...😬🤭🤮
i literally spat out my drink XD
Post-college friend-making is hard
James Knox r/gatekeeping for making friends?
S They’re having s competition to see who is more lonely
Try during college but during lockdown...
"...through a 4-minute monologue"
does this mean we're friends now?
*Step 2: Don't be weird*
Well I guess I'm out.
PaleGhost69 step 3: stop fucking up the 2nd step
Weird is good!
Dana Homsi - weird is subjective
The solution is to find weirder people, because they won't find you that weird if they are weirder than you.
@@ohno2146 but weird people are weird
First day back to school and this pops up in my sub feed. What a time to be alive.
IKR
@Prussian Eagle I dont think it's luck if you guys had the same amount of time off school :/
First day? Bruh here in Norway we been going to that shit for 2 weeks now
"I quickly realized I don't have any interests...anyway"
Lmao me
I’m 18 now and I literally just realized that all of my current friends are from my childhood. I don’t remember the last time I made a new, close friendship with someone. Like besides those 5 childhood friends I can be cool and friendly with their friends but it never ended up with me and her/him hangout together separately, without a third party. Lol, guess I suck at making new friends
Same here
"...which is through a 4-minute monologue."
*checks video length*
Well done, sir.
I read this right when he said it. LoL.
Joseph Frank y
This comment should have more likes, it is gold
Well ill be damned. Hes a genius
This is actually a legit guide... Wtf Happened to you?
He understands this is a real problem lots of people have.
He has always been like this. Amazing advice filled with several layers of irony.
It's always legit, especially the gym advice episode
I know! I’m going to try the make a wish foundation strategy
I have completely stopped giving a shit if my initial interactions are awkward. One time I approached a circle of people and just asked if I could be invited to the conversation.
I was a weirdo, sure, but people appreciated that I was friendly and wanted to talk anyway. I eventually made friends with a few of those people through mutual shared interests.
Nobody cares if your awkward. It's obvious that you're a little goofy, but it doesn't matter, and it's not worth hiding in the first place. Most people don't analyze social situations like that, and they just want to get to know the new guy.
Matter of fact, 'social' people get away with socially unacceptable shit all the time, simply because they don't care. They're viewed as 'cool' because they break all the rules, but they aren't even aware there were rules in the first place. That's why alcohol is such a great social lubricant. You stop thinking about interactions so hard. It makes you just reckless enough to not care if now is the time to jump into the conversation with your thoughts.
Even worse, your fear of being judged can be confused for arrogance. Usually that's what happens to people who avoid everyone. Nobody puts together that the guy hiding in the corner has social anxiety. They just think that guy hates everyone.
You can ester be a little weird up front, or you can be viewed as arrogant. Pick one.
yeh my drunk self is the alone me in my bedroom, I'm just trying to get that to be me with others - not drunk and a little less ''I LOVE YOU''
That's some good advice. Too bad my social skills are too bad for it to matter :p
This! It just takes 20 seconds of insane courage to start the ball rolling, which could end up in great friendships or even relationships
guess i’ll be viewed as arrogant feelsbad
What the hell is wrong with me, even when I get completely shit faced I still overthink and don't relax at all.
When I lived in Brazil things were so much easier you can literally walk down the street or go to the park and talk to anyone. Here in the u.s where I live, people look at you like you're crazy for trying to start a conversation and some even seem annoyed !! Ppl will give u dirty looks for saying good morning. I never felt anxiety talking to people in Brazil. But here I feel so scared I'm going to annoy someone.
Maybe you're in the UK, not the US.
Maybe London.
I live in the UK so I'm not some butthurt American :)
@@noidealmao268 no I'm in the u.s
I feel you bro, I've lived around the world and Brazil was literally the only place where it was easy to make friends.
It’s because the world is a dangerous place, and people are hard to trust nowadays. If some random person I didn’t even know said good morning to me, I’d be pretty weirded out too.
high vicky pie individualistic society that is the US
Wow he is behind on his rent again I guess.
hey sorry to be a bother but if you have time could you check my songs out. i spend a lotttt of time working on them thanks!
i would prefer he waits until he has a good idea and proper execution than just shit out 10+ minute videos like some people
@@IshanII this is not how you make friends
Sha shut up nerd
That guy no one talks about he tried
bruh he said "wait for 9 months" I can't breathe haha!
so jimmy wants to bang his non-existent daughter. step 2 failed
Best dark humor joke ever! I had to take that back a few times to make sure that I heard that correctly... 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m dying
Aardvark its cause pregnancy is 9 months, so basically he wanted to bang his mom...., then.... his sister......
I would be concerned if some guy says he wants to bang a newborn
Showing up to events with *_current friends?_* That's a Catch-22.
The James line about giving it 9 months might be your funniest and cleverest joke. Thanks for always making my day when you upload a video.
This all sounds way too hard.
Guess I'll die alone.
Aiden's Face I'm ok with that!
Aiden's Face ok have fun!
billy, don't bve so harsh, just open up, listen people... and stop being a massive faggEHM! brony.
you'll see in no time how people think you don't smell as bad as they imagined
Look to the bright side, everybody dies alone, you may be surrounded by people but death is a journey that you make on your own.
Rafael Alódio dark but true
Hahaha. I have an idea for a collab. We meet up nod to each other and walk away.
Wait, itsAlexClark's comment got buried in the comments section? DO THESE PEOPLE NOT KNOW WHO YOU ARE???
itsAlexClark and Casually Explained are two different types of "Animation". They have different fans.
3.1 Million subs and never heard of the name. Channel probably not targeting adult women lol.
are tickets to see that available now or...?
No. Nobody likes you.
2:46 wtf 😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is one of my absolute favorites. "Be yourself, but not literally because then you'd be at home" is the most relatable statement I've ever heard.
Me: Anyone want to be friends?
Comments: No, go away bot.
No, go away bot
I would be your friend, but I have a thing. Sorry, can't make it.
Michael Jay - Value Investing self aware bot?
No, go away bot
we can be friends...
For money
(Completely quiet classroom)
"So do you guys like fortnite?"
Hey,it's the CONTeNT cop!
I could hear crickets after reading your comment
Cringe
In the news today... A student is violently beaten to death by entire class. It is said that everyone in class is now friends.
Rise up against Justin Y. and take back your throne.
"Show up even when you don't want to" This is too real. This was my biggest problem freshman year of college (and now I guess). It's just so easy to chill out alone instead of go out side and.. talk to people. Great video. Maybe I'll try that tomorrow :)
"Show up, even if you don't want to..- even in life itself" yea I GUESS
Is it bad that I take note from his videos?
Well that’s what satire is for I guess.
Aside from sitting at your computer on your time off he suggests actually doing things. Yeah, he's got the right idea. Will I follow that idea? Hell no.
3 points... really narrowed down to just one point....
Lol, you're not alone
@@JeffRennt agreed, the outside world is scary and cold.
What are friends?
Hi dad im hjngry
A sitcom
You said you were going to get milk. Where is the milk?
Imaginary things
Damn Dad youre licke everywehre
Your awkward pauses are *perfectly* timed. Thank you for your service
He can make such great jokes but also gives ironic but good advice all in the same video. The full package
Step 4: Dont tell people you watch casually explained.
jimmy chong no tell them you doooo
But the real question is. Is she into you?
90% of all friends don’t stay as friends
They become bros ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
You don't need the 90% anyway, just the 10% will do.
@@plainplane7580 but how do you take 10% of one person
ill take a foot?!
73% of statistics are made up on the spot.
I legit need that "how to have a conversation with someone" toturial.
Hi, you seem to enjoy homestuck (I'm trying too)
omg I never laughed so hard. Don't stop making these!! This is the only reason why I'm able to endure my PhD program!! no pressure.
I like to make friends by asking if they like High School Musical 2 and if they say no I walk away silently
I make friends almost the same way! After I ask them, if they say yes, I walk away silently.
24 Frames Of Nick you sound pretty lonely
That's a stupid question, because if they like any movie at all they inadvertently like High School Musical 2 because every movie ever is inspired by High School Musical 2.
oh hey i watch ur vids
+Stick Man King
Hey.
That's not nice.
Steps too unclear.
Made friends with a plant.
His name's Mike.
That's a good thing, plants always listen.
This is actually really good. How have I not seen something on this channel before?
MeetUp is 👌🏼 i went for a photography walk with my iPhone today, after finding the group 2 days ago. i took great shots, made a few friends, and discovered a part of my city i’d never been to.
Solution: Just don't.
Thats what I tell myself every night befor I go crying in the dark cornor
I’m friendless and lifeless
my man
hey guys sorry to annoy yall but could you please check my music, i swear you wont be disappointed.
@@IshanII yea we are already dissapointed in our selfs
Omg the bang my sister part is hilarious! 😂😂
Good video. I like the cuts/asides (which are below with what they had me think about while watching)
Don't have any interests (find them, there's something you're interested in), looked up facebook (and saw an outsider's perspective), that one weird acquaintance you don't want to become ("that one weird acquaintance" had interests and was passionate about something) , make a wish (helping other to help yourself is a legit-pro strat), because then you would actually be at home (when you have interests, social skills, and friends, you will always be at home (wherever you are)), which is through a 4 minute long blog (if the only way you know how to have a conversation is through a 4 minute blog, the comments section is how you make friends)
This man literally has the best merch iv ever seen from a youtuber wtf
2:40 best part of the video
I feel like this guy doesn't care whether he lives or die. He just...exists. 😆
Johnny M Isn’t that all of us though?
@@Slame333
Some people enjoy their lives and others hate it, and then there's people who just doesn't give a shit.
I'm sure those people who don't give a shit hate the fact that they don't give a shit though. So that kinda falls under the "hate their lives" category.
@@BaldMancTwat
I guess so.
I’m actually crying watching this vid on my fresh year dorm room
I love ur social videos they're really helpful and fun
Step 1 : remember that there is a world outside Internet
Step 2 : ???
Step 3 : Profit
*Wait....*
There is a world outside of the internet?
*WAIT*
*WHAT*
I can't wait until I can make friends with a 3d printer.
Multi Gaming lmao!
I started watching casually explained when i was 18. Now i'm 22, watching this as i'm going trough this exact same phase after moving to a new town and fiding out that making friends whithout being forced to it is actually quite the task.
"The most important thing is *Be Yourself*
Not literally of course or you'll be at home"
*Damn!*
Have you met Ted?
ChrisAwake no. I don't think anyone has. he never shows up to those talks
Classic schmosby
Oh I thought this was referring to Ted from How I Met your Mother
It was dude, "haaaaaave you met Ted?"
No but I've met Ed
Moving to a new city alone, this is just what I needed. Best guides in YT period.
Good luck, buddy!
@YTIsTakingOverMyLife Richard La Ruina has a video on what to do when moving to a new city. Might be useful
This is just what I needed
Life hack for being nervous around people: just keep in mind that they took a big dump in the last few hours and most likely farted as well
ꪜ عَلي الحُسَينيّ bruh killed off all their charisma
Not 100% true.
Angel Fluff
It’s 200% true in your case
That makes it worse
@limp bizkit 😂😂😂
Socially awkward people (Including me) like the comfort of a close friend instead of multiple ones. So make a friend whom you feel Comfortable with, and things will look good!
Very introverted kid that hates presentations, works that include expressing yourself, and just plays videogames all day rather than playing with people (me, I'm talking about me): This is very true
@@LuminousOriens that's partially true in my case as well. But I generally go through with whatever the task is anyway, and come out feeling better about myself.
I believe that’s called marriage
@@harharhar696969seems nice
*Can I do this without leaving my house??? Asking for a friend*
imsureyoudohaveafriend
I love everything about this
Panther it’s me guys, I’m the friend
Really love the subliminal messages behind the explanation!
I feel like I can relate to the entire video!!!
just moved to college, needed this. for ... more than one reason.
Step 2 is a deal breaker for me.
He lost me at step 1 fam
Nostra Fn Damus don't worry Step 3 is : Fucking up the second step on purpose
Wait there were steps?
too advanced, 2/10
it was done by expert
n00b
Oh hey, #18 on trending, gratz man! Found you through Philly D's "Today in Awesome" which.. I think was from yesterday's show x'D This is pretty fabulous though, definitely subscribing ^^
2:41 That's one of the best dark humor jokes I've ever heard. Oh my lord. This man deserves a raise!
I really shouldn't be getting all my life advise from these videos, should I.
I went to a college for four years and didn't make a single lasting friend. At least in this new college I'm at I got some friends, somehow
Great for you! Good that you are doing better now
Stein yeah, it's definitely great. I still get a bit depressed from time to time, but I'm getting better. Thanks for the support! :D
Damn dude. That’s all your fault, you know?
sassypenguin never said it wasn't. My social skills suck ass
Kevin Accetta
But for four years? Dude..
"James you did one year of engineering, let it go" I feel that right now.
I am big fan since so much I can’t recall if it was 4 rather then 6 yrs ago! Really enjoy your work, together with Aussie man review you’re my fav UA-cam artists! I saw a lad suggested the moving out plot and actually worked out, so gonna try to call some shots (obviously they’re just mere suggestions and have no actual demand): 1) pro and counts of falling in love: good sensation vs commitment and becoming depending; 2) how to choose a pleasure purpose read; 3) types of approach w sheila; 4) types of vacation: budget, location, company; 5) pro and counts: relationship vs dating; 6) worst thing/mistake that could happen at work; 7) portrait on how our generation will fit in role of parenting; 8) extravagant plot, eg Canada profit of Trump wall building to invade the US/how Europe would be if it was lead by Greece/Bruxelles and Frankfurt in the EU governance: function and objectives; 9) types and dynamics of particular small talks and setting. Eg: elevator, gf parents, bartender, newspaper shop; 10) time process and paradox, eg: growing/remain at 20, party/relax and have a quiet time, getting wasted/becoming picky w alchool brand and chronological order or simply not up to risk to overtake some irrational choices. Keep it up men, regards from Italy
Even if rare, you’re uploads are always a joy in my day!
*ahem* in my month.
Dog yo give him some slack, i mean these vids take a lot of work, like he needs to talk for 4 minutes.... and, uuh, draw really horribly, and uhh....
Oh
Jokes aside, this video, like most of your other videos, are pretty helpful. You really know how to break down simple situations and casually explain them :)
I like your videos right at the start because I know its going to be amazing.
That casually explained mug looks awesome! Nice merch :)
Instructions unclear: Accidentally became a super villain.
PowahSlap Entertainmint that was original, here have a like
Do people find this funny?
all might will find u
Wdym powahslap
@@Miles-ub7rz yes 😂
But can you make friends with artillery only?
Your average Commentator only isuicideproductions can
Ich bin einen Artillerie?
Your average Commentator Yaaasss
I hear they’re a blast.
if you believe enough
This art is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen I give it a 10/1000
I really needed this lol
Friends? Those are pretty rare these days, I haven't encountered those in years...
Wow the pic matches so perfectly
The comedic effect of him speaking a little away from the microphone for a couple seconds is too strong, I love this channel
Needed this video
That make a wish joke took me a second but my God did it have me dying when it finally came 😂😂
Me (at grocery store): ... I really wish someon would talk to me... I really need some friends.
Random girl: Hey, I really like your sweater!
Me: Ummm... thanks. Okay, bye. (Why TF is that weirdo talking to me.)
airplainchild ya but like how do you take that and then make it into a full conversation? That’s always been my struggle I’m really bad at keeping a conversation going
That is me 100%
Just start singing that Weezer song. There's a slight chance they'll laugh.
Isabell G. That’s seems like a really good idea I will attempt this the next time a human approaches me
Okay good luck. But do so in case of sweater appreciation only :DDD
Instructions not clear: got stuck in friend zone
It's not so much making friends, but finding them. When you live alone, work from home, and live in an area with no public social events, what chance do you have?
Right now my options are I either accept online friends as my only option. Or go to a bar, and just interrupt conversations by saying "I need new friends, and I have chosen your group to adopt me."
And then I checked the video length. This guy is always spot on