How? Tips and Guidance | Crafting a Moving and Powerful Eulogy

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 108

  • @ceilidhcofer3007
    @ceilidhcofer3007 3 роки тому +74

    I'm supposed to give a eulogy this sat for my mother.... Only I'm 15 and I have no idea what to write.... Thank you for this ❤

    • @patrickrobert7342
      @patrickrobert7342 3 роки тому +7

      Sorry for your loss

    • @ceilidhcofer3007
      @ceilidhcofer3007 3 роки тому +3

      @@patrickrobert7342 thank you

    • @lms6979
      @lms6979 3 роки тому +4

      i know what your going through. I just lost my grandma who was basically my mother, But i’m 22.. you’re too young to loose your mother. I hope it went well, her heart would’ve been full knowing you did this, sending love and blessings ❤️❤️

    • @nyla592
      @nyla592 3 роки тому +4

      same i’m 14 tho and i’ve never been to a funeral idk what to say

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  2 роки тому +6

      So sorry for your loss. I hope the video helped you to organize your thoughts. I'm sure the service for your mother was lovely.

  • @josenia1935
    @josenia1935 Місяць тому +1

    Awesome tops . Thank you.

  • @Poop-qn4yw
    @Poop-qn4yw 2 роки тому +28

    I seriously can’t thank you enough for this video. I lost my brother the other day and i’m first to speak at his funeral. He was so close to me, and it deeply saddens me to say goodbye

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  2 роки тому +3

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure the words you shared at his funeral were moving and powerful.

  • @rarebreed-wj3ov
    @rarebreed-wj3ov Рік тому +5

    I pre recorded my own personal Eulogy & Epitaph in a video format to a song I loved. I had to try 3 times as I would lose my composure it was very Emotional to me and it was one of the most joyous experiences I had with The Lord after Decades of abuse and heartache. I'm moving on and I recorded my Eulogy Epitaph both to astro photography pics I took myself & Joan Osborne- 1995 song called One of Us. VERY EMOTIONAL experience to me knowing I'm Going to Heaven and this illness is finally over. Much Love everyone.

  • @shannonelizabethkelley7822
    @shannonelizabethkelley7822 10 місяців тому +5

    Thank u soo much for this video..I lost my mom Margaret Sept 4th 2023..I'm speaking at her funeral tomorrow morning...I was struggling on how to close the eulogy this video was most helpful thank you

  • @apw474
    @apw474 2 роки тому +9

    I’m speaking at a funeral for the first time tomorrow, it’s for my grandmother, and i’m excited but sad. i’m happy and honored to be honoring her. thank you for this video!! it helps!

  • @danb3080
    @danb3080 2 роки тому +1

    I followed along, put my writing into your 3 parts. Made it simple to organize and it turned out beautifully. Thank you!

  • @mariacameron3794
    @mariacameron3794 Рік тому +1

    This was great information...THANK YOU!! Simple and to the point.

  • @ksurfer72
    @ksurfer72 2 роки тому

    Great video. Love the 3 part approach. Thanks so much.

  • @AnupamArohi
    @AnupamArohi 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing!

  • @aldroid4844
    @aldroid4844 3 роки тому

    Awesome thanks 🙏

  • @oi5692
    @oi5692 2 роки тому

    Thank you lovely, a big help for me 🙏

  • @tammynewton7441
    @tammynewton7441 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much

  • @reccareyortiz222
    @reccareyortiz222 2 роки тому

    Thank you sooo much

  • @claud461
    @claud461 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much... I've been honored to speak at a friend's funeral I really didn't know where to start... Much appreciation 💯

  • @vminmotivationalcurve88yea64
    @vminmotivationalcurve88yea64 2 роки тому +5

    I lost my dad 3 days ago. I kept on reliving that day in my head.
    I thought it just happens in movies.

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  2 роки тому +3

      I'm so sorry for your loss. It can seem surreal when it happens to us. Grab a spot on our calendar if you would like to talk to a Grief Coach team.griefhelpchat.com/session

  • @KS-yb1wq
    @KS-yb1wq Рік тому +2

    Thank you for the outline, I will use it. The hardest part will be "holding it together'"

  • @nathangalbraith9487
    @nathangalbraith9487 2 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @lxdeuropeanlifebydesign1616

    thank you this has helped be so much with what to say at my dads funeral

  • @dogedin
    @dogedin 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for direction…..beginning/middle/end❤️

  • @joevillaverde4124
    @joevillaverde4124 3 роки тому

    Amazing advice thank you 😊

  • @aldomagistrelli3794
    @aldomagistrelli3794 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for this. My mom passed away a week ago and I want to do a good job eulogizing her this coming weekend. I’ve been struggling to figure out how to best organize my thoughts. This is tremendously helpful.

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  7 місяців тому

      I'm so glad you found it helpful. I'm sure your mom was honored by what you said and so proud of you! How did it go?

  • @Meadowwing
    @Meadowwing Рік тому +2

    You definitely helped me with this outline and taking the notes to the podium with me... Thank you or this would have been a disaster just breaking up and crying.
    So now I think I can proceed with dignity that he would appreciate

  • @andreahawkins5890
    @andreahawkins5890 9 місяців тому +1

    my best friends memorial service is this weekend and I'm so nervous this is my first time and I'm so happy I found your advice 👍 thank you.

  • @tracylombardo364
    @tracylombardo364 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this video. My fiance passed Nov 28 2022. Its been 5 months and we are having a memorial service May 21. I will be speaking in front of everyone. Not even positive i can get thru this. Your video has helped me immensely

  • @danellaswansonmunoz346
    @danellaswansonmunoz346 2 роки тому +1

    This is excellent! I love your tips about speaking to my brother who passed and speaking on behalf of him. I feel your tips were most helpful of all videos that I watched to create a most meaningful and impactful speech. Thank you so much for sharing your insight
    !

    • @krewjaime4482
      @krewjaime4482 2 роки тому

      i know im randomly asking but does anybody know a tool to log back into an Instagram account??
      I somehow forgot the login password. I love any help you can offer me.

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  2 роки тому

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @c79891
    @c79891 Місяць тому

    Thank you for the tips. I appreciate your guidance. By the way, you are STUNNING.

  • @mxcollin95
    @mxcollin95 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for posting this! My mom died last week and this really helps.

  • @wilrodriguez6246
    @wilrodriguez6246 2 роки тому

    This was great information

  • @kairichapman
    @kairichapman 3 роки тому

    Very helpful.

    • @mayrasolis6866
      @mayrasolis6866 3 роки тому

      Many thanks, been searching for "christian eulogy template" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Zanogan Deynna Domination - (just google it )? It is a great exclusive product for finding some excellent eulogy speeches minus the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my friend got great success with it.

  • @francoisbegin6718
    @francoisbegin6718 2 роки тому

    I am giving one for my best friend saturday good advice tx

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  2 роки тому

      How did it go? I hope that it was a healing time for you. I'm sure you did great!

  • @anitamangum4179
    @anitamangum4179 2 роки тому +15

    I’m writing a eulogy for my father’s memorial and it’s been hard. He was my best friend and biggest supporter. Your video has been the most helpful I’ve found.

    • @kassieoliva1269
      @kassieoliva1269 2 роки тому +5

      I’m doing the same thing ! My dads funeral is tomorrow and I talk first

    • @kassieoliva1269
      @kassieoliva1269 2 роки тому +4

      Sorry for your loss❤️

    • @anitamangum4179
      @anitamangum4179 2 роки тому +3

      It’s hard, I’m sorry for your loss as well. ❤️

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  2 роки тому +2

      So sorry for your loss Anita. I’m glad the video was helpful and hope the service was a healing time for you. I’m sure your eulogy was beautiful.

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  2 роки тому +1

      Kassie I’m sure you did a wonderful job.

  • @RaquelNavas
    @RaquelNavas 10 місяців тому +1

    We lost a family friend a week ago and her memorial service is on Saturday

  • @woofbark4475
    @woofbark4475 Рік тому +1

    And print out what you write as having it on electronic devices is okay but having that back up is important. Sometimes easier to not have to click a notepad on a phone etc when the nerves and emotions are rattling from your loss.

  • @senpintravelsandmore
    @senpintravelsandmore 2 роки тому +2

    I have been asked to be the emcee at a viewing. I watched a lot of videos before I found yours. You clearly gave me the directions I need to become a worthy emcee. Thank you so much. If you have anything more to add, please let me know right away because the viewing will happen on October 8. I appreciate your presentation.

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  2 роки тому +1

      I will be thinking of you and praying for you on October 8th and trust that you will do a beautiful job to create a space for comfort and healing. Please let us know how it goes!

    • @senpintravelsandmore
      @senpintravelsandmore 2 роки тому

      @@Graceforlivingafterloss after October 8th, I will reach out to you again. I will also be a part of two veteran organizations' rituals during the ceremony. I combined the rituals of both organizations to reflect cooperation and teamwork. I've received protests but expect for them to be professional and follow directions on the 8th. I'll let you know.

  • @nahom3
    @nahom3 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you so much. I have the honor to speak at my grandmother funeral in 2 days and this video helped shape up what I wanted to say!

    • @gsusmakama
      @gsusmakama 3 роки тому

      Many thanks, I've been looking for "eulogy introductions samples" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Zanogan Deynna Domination - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now )? It is a good exclusive product for finding some excellent eulogy speeches minus the headache. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my buddy got cool success with it.

    • @liufox4394
      @liufox4394 3 роки тому

      This is glorious, I have been researching "eulogy template word" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Zanogan Deynna Domination - (do a google search )? It is a great one off guide for finding some excellent eulogy speeches minus the headache. Ive heard some great things about it and my m8 got great results with it.

    • @vladtyb9487
      @vladtyb9487 2 роки тому

      This was great, thanks, been searching for "eulogy conclusion examples" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Zanogan Deynna Domination - (should be on google have a look )? It is an awesome one off product for finding some excellent eulogy speeches minus the hard work. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my m8 got amazing success with it.

    • @mauishihtzu6280
      @mauishihtzu6280 2 роки тому

      Winner of a video, I've been looking for "what is a good eulogy" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Zanogan Deynna Domination - (should be on google have a look )? It is an awesome one of a kind guide for finding some excellent eulogy speeches without the hard work. Ive heard some great things about it and my mate got excellent success with it.

    • @kinverlyanncruz2451
      @kinverlyanncruz2451 2 роки тому

      Just wonderful, I been tryin to find out about "how to write eulogy" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Zanogan Deynna Domination - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now )? It is a great exclusive product for finding some excellent eulogy speeches without the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my buddy got amazing success with it.

  • @DesignandDysfunction
    @DesignandDysfunction 4 роки тому +7

    I had the honor of speaking at my Grandmother's funeral and also designing the programs for both of my grandparents. It is hard, but so worth it! Thank you for sharing...wish I had this video 3 years ago!

    • @matthewguinto7163
      @matthewguinto7163 3 роки тому

      @Harness Thought This was great, I've been looking for "eulogy for mother from daughter" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Zanogan Deynna Domination - (search on google )? It is an awesome one of a kind product for finding some excellent eulogy speeches without the headache. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my buddy got excellent results with it.

  • @Lucky_ness
    @Lucky_ness 3 роки тому +3

    My mom passed. I have to write the eulogy and possibly deliver it.
    But there is no way I can say what I truly want to say to her. At least not in front of everyone. My mom disappointed me so much before she passed and we never really worked it out
    So I'll just write a nice eulogy so those who are missing her can cope

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  3 роки тому +2

      I’m sorry for your loss and for the strained relationship you experienced. Hopefully the memorial service is a time for reflection for the entire family. Praying that you move forward in peace and love.

    • @rubylimey7614
      @rubylimey7614 2 роки тому

      Sorry you are going through that..its hard ..may God give u strenght 🙏🙏

  • @riotxclan1364
    @riotxclan1364 Рік тому +1

    Any advice when speaking and praying for a stillborn?

  • @kevinmaina9433
    @kevinmaina9433 2 роки тому +1

    You're gorgeous😍

  • @lynel2765
    @lynel2765 Рік тому

    Hi. My mother in law passed away and when I see my brother & sister in law, is it appropriate to say " I am sorry for your loss"? Do my children say that to them or to their children ( after all, they all lost the same grandmother and it doesn't sound right). Is there something more appropriate or some alternatives in such a situation ? thx

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  Рік тому +1

      Certainly saying you are sorry for their loss, is appropriate. Letting your family members know that you are there for them to listen and process the loss is helpful. Checking in with them and letting them know that you are thinking of them and are there to support them can help them not to feel so alone. Chances are many people are reaching out right now, make a point to check back in a few months when everyone else has moved on, that is when they will really need and appreciate the support.

  • @lilliemoreno1909
    @lilliemoreno1909 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you for the tips and structure. I just lost my mom. It’s confusing

    • @robertomartintv4235
      @robertomartintv4235 3 роки тому

      I just lost my father. God bless you. We’re gonna make it through ❤️

    • @martinmutugi2073
      @martinmutugi2073 3 роки тому

      This was great, I have been researching "free eulogy speech examples" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Zanogan Deynna Domination - (do a search on google )? It is a smashing one of a kind guide for finding some excellent eulogy speeches without the normal expense. Ive heard some super things about it and my partner got cool results with it.

    • @nyla592
      @nyla592 3 роки тому

      same my mom was only 45 and i feel bad not speaking idk what to say i’ve never even been to a funeral before

    • @jessicapliskin441
      @jessicapliskin441 2 роки тому

      me too. My mum died 2 days ago and i just want to make my speech at her funeral perfect, make her proud one more time.

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  2 роки тому +1

      @@jessicapliskin441 so sorry for your loss. I'm sure your mom is proud of you!

  • @Favvswizzel
    @Favvswizzel 2 роки тому +2

    I'm 14 and I have to write a speech for my mother at her funeral

    • @aanyamangla106
      @aanyamangla106 2 роки тому +1

      im so sorry.

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  2 роки тому +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure that the words you spoke at your mothers funeral were moving and I'm sure she is proud of you. How are you doing in your grief recovery?

  • @MrElPoderozo1
    @MrElPoderozo1 Рік тому

    Thanks for the video. I am a bit confused on how do I talk to the audience on behalf of my dad? What kind of things are you referring too? What things or how should I say them? Not following that part, sorry but I have so much in my mind that im not thinkingcstraight right now.

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  Рік тому

      I'm so sorry, just seeing this comment now. Did you give the eulogy? How did it go?

    • @MrElPoderozo1
      @MrElPoderozo1 Рік тому

      @@Graceforlivingafterloss No worries, yes I did. I am the oldest and I went first and so I spoke from the heart but I was very nervous and I believe I did ok but afterwards I felt like I could have said more because he truly was a wonderful dad. My two other brother's started talking and a few seconds later they just couldn't talk anymore each one of them just got chocked with tears.
      Thanks for responding.

  • @Novanetics
    @Novanetics 2 роки тому +1

    1:02

  • @singinggirl569
    @singinggirl569 Рік тому

    Th*

  • @evastood4539
    @evastood4539 Рік тому

    3:14

  • @cashminerichardson8245
    @cashminerichardson8245 Рік тому

    Here we have REMEMBERACE which is different from the EULOGY. Some of what you've mentioned must be in the rememberance. May some persons only do the eulogy sp everything could go in one.

  • @doubletapplayz3702
    @doubletapplayz3702 Рік тому

    These are all just obvious points

    • @Graceforlivingafterloss
      @Graceforlivingafterloss  Рік тому +1

      When you numb, or in shock or dealing with grief it can be hard to put thoughts together. This video is meant to help people in that condition or state. What is obvious to you is not always obvious to others.