Ashley Walters: The Unheard TRUTH About Top Boy! "Me & Kano Didn't Have The Greatest Time"
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- Опубліковано 4 тра 2024
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From Asher D to Top Boy, prison to fame, Ashley Walters refuses to be told what he can or can’t do.
In this new episode Steven sits down with rapper and actor, Ashley Walters.
00:00 Intro
01:37 😢 Ashley Walters discusses his troubled childhood, trauma, and anger issues, leading to a negative attitude and reckless behavior.
04:46 🧠 Walters delves into his therapy experiences and the impact of his absent father on his self-esteem and relationships.
11:06 💔 Walters reflects on his deep desire for his absent father's approval and how it shaped his self-worth and fear of rejection.
15:32 🎥 Ashley Walters shares a poignant story about his father's last days, his own obsession with dying young, and the emotional impact of his father's death.
23:41 😔 Walters hints at unresolved grief and the struggle to cope with his father's loss, even after 18 years.
24:28 🌌 Ashley Walters believes in the universal law and manifestation, feeling that what he gives, he eventually receives. He attributes his success to this belief.
27:14 🚀 Ashley admits to abusing his celebrity status, making reckless decisions, and hurting his first partner, resulting in two children. He acknowledges his past ego-centric behavior.
32:28 🧡 Ashley reflects on the last two weeks with his father before he passed away, gaining a better understanding of himself and his father's impact on him.
37:45 🎭 Ashley attributes his success to his charm, people skills, humility, and maintaining good relationships within the entertainment industry.
47:02 🌟 Ashley describes the rocky and unstable nature of the entertainment industry, where rejection is frequent, but his drive and motivation come from turning those rejections into fuel for success.
48:58 😶 Ashley Walters prefers the opportunity to try rather than being told he can't do something. He values the chance to bring his ideas to the table and learn from failure.
50:09 🎬 Ashley Walters overcame skepticism about directing by making a short film after being told he lacked experience. This experience led him to discover his passion for directing.
51:51 🤝 Ashley advises students to embrace their unique life journeys and not seek to replicate his own path, which includes hardships like prison and loss.
54:47 💔 The pandemic forced Ashley Walters to confront himself, his flaws, and the importance of communication in his relationship with his wife. It was a challenging time but led to self-awareness.
01:00:53 🗣️ Ashley recognizes the limitations of the voice in his head, which can sometimes lead to poor decisions. He emphasizes the importance of seeking outside perspectives and avoiding impulsive choices based on emotion.
01:12:18 😌 Ashley Walters believes in taking action and not just talking about problems, inspired by his mother's practical approach.
01:13:39 😔 Ashley Walters discusses the challenges of bridging the gap with his partner, who may struggle to understand his background and emotional complexities.
01:14:47 🧔 Ashley reflects on his past failures as a father, acknowledging that he wasn't fully present for his older children due to career priorities.
01:16:02 😞 Ashley expresses concern about the generational impact of his distant relationship with his own father and how it may affect his relationship with his children.
01:17:20 Ad break
01:18:25 🎬 Ashley Walters journey with Top Boy
01:31:20 😢 Ashley Walters shares his thoughts about the final season of "Top Boy,"
01:36:27 🌍 "Top Boy" has helped opening doors for a new type of shows.
01:38:41 ❤️ Ashley Walters would use his last phone call to tell his children that he loves them, emphasizing the importance of expressing love.
01:37:45 🙌 The last guest's question
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Thank you for your amazing content man.
Done before finishing you are one of my favorite interviewers. Your effort to relate to your guest and attempt to make them comfortable yet ask detailed questions is commendable! Keep up the good work and if possible , i think it would be interesting for your American audience (surely for myself as well) to interview someone of your parliment.
Kano next
Man described my own child hood to the letter thank you all Top Boy cast
@@otiscarswell3403really appreciate your kindness !
It’s always commendable seeing men open up and talk about emotions and the expectations of being a man.
Facts bro it’s needs to be done more often by celebrities and people we always see in the media, it’s like they’ve created a false sense of success when it’s not always hyped up to what it’s actually like
Just remember hes not American. So different guidelines
Yep and the funny thing is I would never ever thought he would of been through this and this is why we must treat everyone with love and respect and treat people kindly
Which channel 4 series is he talking about?
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I’d love to see Kano on a future episode. One of the best actors in the UK right now. Sully was one of the most complex characters I’ve seen in a gangster show
Same ❤
Sully was not complex in the show- he was consistently the same. Deshaun was the complex character. Going to church with his mom to drug dealing and killing people.
@@shynepo6296 I’d say it’s the opposite. Dushane goes against his own mother for love of money whereas Sully is completely loyal to the likes of Dushane, Pebbles, Jason and his daughter
@@shynepo6296Sully shifted tremendously from Summer House to this final season. You may need to rewatch it.
Deshaun was a boring selfish charatcer. Sully cared for his friends and got betrayed a lot@@shynepo6296
thank u for your brave words ashley ❤
Hi youtube
Oh shit big up UA-cam
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Me beast has more subscribers than y’all lmao
Organisations like yours are the problem
Ashley and Kano are those guys! They should never ever underestimate themselves. They are both extremely talented. God bless them both with even more success! They deserve it 🙏🏾 Great interview!
Kane
@@leonderose8467Kane Robinson aka Kano
@@ppate8 Exactly!
I watched the final season and it clearly could have been better, I can absolutely see why the actors were frustrated and even felt betrayed. No spoilers, but some story choices seemed rushed and less organic, and you always ask why writers / directors make those mistakes. What never wavered were the extraordinary performances of Kano and Walters-- they were the heart and soul of the show from start to finish, fire and ice, a classic pair. I think a few years down the line, they will be very proud of what they accomplished in giving Top Boy to the world.
@@SuperRobertoClemente I totally agree. It did seemed rushed.
This is very very deep. I am sure a lot of us can relate a lot to Ashley’s trauma and fear of abandonment and not feeling good enough. I am very happy to see that he is healing and continuing on his journey.
I have that voice in my head that Ashley mentions and I try to silence it as it can be toxic. It was refreshing to know that someone of his stature has this crazy voice too... ❤ Best interview for me
@@susanbrown5878its being human and not being fake
UNSUBSCRIBE, Steven has deleted innocent truth & freedom fighter Russell Brand from his UA-cam Channel. Goodbye forever Steven, I kind of trusted you and used to watch a lot of your episodes, but they almost always made me feel bad. You're NOT a good person
This interview stoped me in my tracks. Ashley, I haven’t heard anyone articulate the abandonment of a father and the misunderstanding from an otherwise, loving mother. The need to know where you come
from is so important to self. I’m really glad you got some time to understand your father and spend time. Thank you for talking about your trauma, I can see you have touched many others.
Great comment 👏🏼
Wow this interview is the interviewer his amazing 100%
This man is speaking about my life..... my mother did her best. Thank you for this interview it made me realize that this is a monster that mostly young black men have to deal with no Dad
The pain and destruction a parent can cause in their children is insane. 🙏
It be like that sometime
This interview must have been very therapeutic for Mr. Walters. I can literally feel his pain talking about the demise of his father. When my father died, a part of me died with him. Steve is one of the best interviewers in world for creating this type of space for his guests.
You can never underestimate the quality of deep and meaningful conversation in private, but to be able to share that conversation on your platform, to the masses is priceless, Steven I have to take my hat off, your interviewing skills are immense, you listen, prompt at the right times, you are actually invested in the story, and the journey of your guest - And what a guest, Ashley is the shining light for so many, inspirational in fact - Waiting with baited breath for Mr Robinson's interview (Kano) Thank you for the content.
Well said!! I agree with everything you’ve just said. Excellent Interviewing skills !!
What a smart, open and relatable guy he is. Genuinely talented to. Nice to see Steven keep doing it so well
You guys gave us one of the greatest UK TV series ever made, for that all we can say is Thank You
Wow. So impressed with Ashley. So well mannered, so articulate, so insightful.
Wow thank you so much for being so vulnerable and honest with us
Absolutely 🙏🙏
You must be white
Why would he not have manners!?!? Therapy has given him the language to speak and "articulate" his feelings and self-awareness, sure but well mannered!?! He's not an 8 y.o. Of course he's professional and personable!
@@lfd6989
Because he has made it, he doesn't owe us any honesty or vulnerability from the top of the mountain.
It's also quite a contrast from the life he describes. You would imagine he is someone with a chip on his shoulder, but actually, he is the opposite.
Spend some time with your favorite celebrity. I bet you won't find them very personable like Ashley has been
@@lfd6989yes 💯, proper racist comment tbf. Why wouldn’t he be articulate? 🤦🏻♀️
PLEASE get Kano on next, he has an amazing story i want to hear more about ! PLEASE
From 10:11, that's me too. I grew up without a father and mother. My grandparents brought me up, and they were really abusive. I was 19 when i ran away from my paternal grandparents' home - they teamed-up with my uncle to beat me and burnt my school books so that I don't continue with my education. I was broken, hopeless, and had no one to talk to. Later that year I met God, He has been a Father that I needed! He has wiped my tears, wiped my wounds and filled my 'hollow' being with some love. I'm not complete yet, I still feel 'not good enough', insecure, but I bring all these to my heavenly Father, and each day I feel better. I have a son, he'll be 2 soon. I'm learning everyday, because I don't know how a father should behave. I pray everyday that God will be a 'father' in me toward him.
Amen! What a beautiful testimony. Only Jesus Christ can truly heal
The interviewer comes from a place of compassion and it seems sincere and in that he is a kind of therapist/psychologist. He understands and views his guests from a non negative judgemental energy. Refreshing to see such a thing in a podcast host.
And he doesn’t interrupt, allows the interviewee to articulate his thoughts.
Exactly. You love to see it.
Great interview. I really hope Kane Robinson is interviewed. He is talented and I think his story needs to be shared
Yes would love to hear more about Kanos journey too!
@@Thepearlsandperils I think his talented is so underrated.
Let's start a Kano interview campaign😊. Stephen how about it? You know it will be so gooood.
@@calmandcollective6429For sure, he absolutely killed the Sully role.
Sully was hands down the best character in the show.
Kano is the man,,,actually all top boy actors were fucking awesome
It's a rare occurrence to witness an actor open up like this. I truly felt honored to hear his story directly from him. Dushane has always been a character with remarkable depth, and it's evident that the credit for this entirely goes to the man portraying him. What a privilege it is to witness.
Steven's closing message was beautifully articulated, and I hope every word of it is taken to heart. Thank you, Ashley!
👏🏼 nice words
This is the interview every man needs to tune into because you see and hear bits of yourself .YOUR TRUE internal dialogues you can learn & grow from. Talking & addressing issues & difficult emotions will help you heal & grow. Nice one Ashley & Steven 🎓🤲🏾❤️
He deserves a whole lot of credit for his candour . Childhood can most definitely do you in , if you haven’t been gifted with a happy one . I hope he gets to a better place. Such a gem of an actor .
I'm 50 and can so relate.
Ashley speaks for us Black males that have risen above and traversed all the BS that life has served us.
I respect a man that can rise from the dirt we've been dealt.
He ìs proof of how transferable road skills are. There is a confidence that that can't be taught.
THIS MAN!!!! he speaks raw emotion and pure facts especially for our generation
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Hearing talk about dad's for me in my situation growing up means that I am blessed to have a father who truly loves
When Ashley says he does not think he has finished grieving his fathers death, I could not relate more. My dad passed away almost 10 years ago and talking about it sometimes hurts just like it did back then. I don't believe we ever truly stop grieving. It probably just gets a little easier to comprehend. Lots of love for you Ashley xxx
I often wonder if that's caused by some illusion that we had more control over some aspects and rather than accepting we all have to die.
My Dad passed away two weeks ago and I'm really struggling.
@@akanhi1431 it will get a little easier as time goes on. Just have to think that they’re all in a better place and away from this hell on earth. 🤍
Ashley, new artist is on my channel
I hope you're doing ok, please just stick with family and friends. Make sure everyone grieves together, speak about the good times and let out everything together. I pray you find peace quickly, as I'm sure you will :) @@akanhi1431
This is one of the deepest pods I’ve ever seen in my life! I resonated with absolutely everything that he had to say. From coming from a home where there was love shown in many ways (like providing food and shelter) but no affection, to having a fractious relationship with a father and then making up just before they died; to then having again taking certain things into fatherhood yourself; and then into a romantic relationship too.
Loved everything he had to say! Blessings Ashley Walters! And keep doing your thing Stephen!!!!
Ashley, you are a gift to the world. Be kind to yourself and enjoy this journey.
Whoever has the tapes of his Father, I hope they reach out and return them. Be a decent human no matter how you may feel he wronged you in the past. It’s beyond deep to withhold something like this on purpose.
Yeah I was thinking that too. Hopefully it cam be resolved I'm mindful we only have Ashley's version of events. But Time is a healer hoping it can be sorted.
Is a violent criminal a decent Human being too?
@@benitolazio8193clearly didn't listen to the video, violent criminals can change overtime, you don't understand what people go through to put themselves In certain situations
The person holding out to get a nice bit of wedge for them💰
Rightly so if he’s done all the work for something and it’s failed through no fault of his own. Everything has a price
Rowen ain't even human. Hush up A.I😂😂
This conversation covered so many areas, abandonment, seeking belonging from the street and your road family, mens emotional wellbeing not spoken about, the importance of fathers, grief, healing, perfection, self destruction, accountability and this is only 40mins in. I pray for your healing Ashley, your father would be proud of where you are and what you have become. I hope you can gain access to those tapes. Thank you Steven for providing a safe space and for just listening. Both amazing men. You are both loved and needed in this crazy world ❤
His new artist is on my channel
Really loved this interview! Both Ashley and the host conducted themselves well. I was particularly moved by how raw and vulnerable Ashley was in this. It's very rare to for celebrities, especially Black men to open up about their personal lives the way Ashley did. Also made me appreciate the years of work and effort put into Top Boy by Ashley and Kano as well as other other projects in their careers.
As a 60yr old white woman I am staggered by how much I identify with almost every interpretation of emotion Ashley expressed! I totally identify and understand everything he said even though clearly my journey has been different. Another example of how we are all so connected! Wonderful insight and hugely interesting talk. Thankyou ❤️👏🏻
Can I ask how you stumbled on or decided too watch this, its really cool too see a broader circle off people watching,I grew up watching Asda D so that's why I know him..cheers 😁✌
as a proud anti lgbt chinese racist transgender person i agree with this statement
Amazing! I’d love to know if you watched Top Boy and if you have, what are your thoughts x
Thank you for identifying that we all come from different backgrounds but we share the same struggles.. I wish 85% of white people thought like you because it would me definitely a different world..
@@seanshaw8393 who are these white people you speak off ?
I can relate to his story, many boys I grew up with I the 80s had this. Mental torture, some are still there doing the same thing. Well done Ashley for turning that and propelling you forward. Well done king 👑 🖤 🤜🏿
It's interesting, I've watched almost every interview that Steven's done and this one by far has been the most engaging for me. There's a TRUTH and a Vulnerability that Ashely shows which is commendable and important for men (especially men from backgrounds in troubled areas of London) to attain to. Inspiring and very relatable. Thank you BOTH!
Thank you Steven & Ashley . I feel there is parts of this podcast that everyone can gain knowledge from. I’m a mum to a 7 year old boy , his father is absent from his life . Everything Ashley spoke so honestly about regarding his dad has really hit home. The rejection, anger , confusion of a belonging . We are so close & he is my world as I am his but it’s difficult when people say that is all that matters , because although he has no relationship with his father , I feel it’s the strongest relationship and the main connection in his young eyes and head . He sees this unknown superhero . I can totally see where both Ashley and his mother are coming from & all those emotions. It’s so confusing as a child & I am slightly worried how it goes as he gets older. We all just want the best for our kids ❤ thank you again for this wonderful insight x
I hope you can find a positive male role
Model for your child. Whether a good teacher or youth club leader. It cant always be the dad or even just ONE man sometimes it might be different men that are role models in different ways. I dont have a child so my words might be naive. I also wanted to say therapy can go a long way as long as meditation the younger they start these things the better ! Also it sounds like you're a wonderful mother I'm sure you're doing an amazing job!
45yo bloke. The topics in the first 15 minutes have given me some clarity for my own experiences, and I am grateful for Ashley's Honesty and vocalization of these topics, That's my definition of a brave man. I wasn't really aware of the link with being so damn angry at the world through my younger years, and also feeling inadequate in most situations involving a room full of men. In general, How to be a man. I guess some therapy on the way may have sped up the process. That constant self nagging that you either don't deserve good things or simply should not have them. Or even believing they will all be taken away at some point anyway. Apply that to every relationship you have with every person and every situation, social or otherwise. Complicated stuff that affects and shapes each of us in unique ways.
As a single mother to my son I never understood that no matter how much I love him, how I care for him, how I work so hard to be both mom and dad and give him everything and support him and teach him and try to be a good role model, he still always longs for his father, misses him. If I am being honest when he was younger it hurt me that I did everything for him 24/7 and that s normal but if his dad came around once every couple of years takes him out one time, gives him a gift and a burger and that s his hero, dad's the best, loves him, gives him a sparkle that no matter how hard I worked, just wasn't the same. I used to hate that (I know, I was young, ego etc.) But thanks to this conversation, I understand it more. Thank you. My son is 24 now, doing great, I am so very very proud of him (he s my everything❤)
love, eliedenning
Bring Kano on pleaseeeeeeeee. He is a great and fantastic actor. The raw emotions just shows on him. He is amazing.
Ashley’s experience from a father that wasn’t present has always been my deepest fear coming from a father that split with his partner and my son being with his mum for the majority of the time. When I knew the relationship was coming to an end my biggest fear was always resentment from my son in any facet to me and depriving him of a proper family scenario that I was privileged enough to experience growing up.
My biggest take away is just to make the biggest effort in time as humanly possible from me to him to create a good normal and give him as much presence from me as possible.
As a kid from a divorced background, if you do what you’ve realised and shared here you’ll be successful. My father passed away when I was 20 and parents divorced when I was 12. But all myself and my 6 siblings remember is him always popping up and being there. Organising trips for us. When my mum had to go abroad because of a business deal that was going wrong, she wanted to get our aunt to look after us. My dad said “I can do it, stop over thinking things, go on your trip and good luck” he did so well my mum ended up staying out there for 6 months. We bonded so much with him. He managed to go to work, have us in school on time. He even cooked and gave us all child appropriate chores while he did the leg work.
When my mum returned and he moved back to his place, we travelled across London every weekend to go see him.
I would jump out of cars with my friends in my late teens, because I’d recognise I’m near where he lived. & an afternoon eating spaghetti 🍝 and chicken with my dad meant more than a party to me.
I learnt from him as did all my siblings did (especially the boys) that to be a good dad is to love your kids to be a great dad is to have the discipline to act on that love and manifest it with your presence.
It’s not about the calibre of gifts, it’s about how we feel as kids. All we remember is who was present.
So be there and if you ever make a mistake don’t dwell on it, reset it in your mind and turn up again.
@@emerald7857 thank you so much for sharing your story and helping me see it from your perspective. I’m glad you had the time that you did with your dad and are able to give me some first hand experience to grow from. Thank you.
@@emerald7857wow as a father who struggles with this potential scenario, I’ve haven’t heard such a refreshing point of view. Thanks so much for sharing.
Such a great interview, I have been a fan of Ashley's work for years so it's refreshing to see him open up in such a raw and honest way. Great work Stephen, now can we get an interview with Kano, the guy who when he raps you forget he's an actor and when he acts you forget he's a rapper. He is a pioneer of UK grime/rap and is so humble.
Its crazy how a lot of us suffer from Imposter syndrome, no matter what career path we are in and hard work we put in. I can relate.
Asher's been one of my inspirations from my early teens. I'm 34 now, this conversation resonates well and it's good to see this level of openness and honesty from him. I'm 23mins in and seriously this is my favourite DOAC so far.
Big up and well done on making it through Asher. Happy to see
When Ashley doubted himself for whether or not he could answer a question, he then proceeded to answer it perfectly. Brilliant guest and podcast🙏
An incredibly talented actor who deserves much more recognition.
Having lost my dad a couple of years ago to very traumatic circumstances, this one hit hard for me not gonna lie. Mad love Ashley and thank you for Top Boy 👏🏻💙
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What a journey you guys took us on. It was top notch casting and amazing performances from all the actors.
What a great interview, it's wonderful to see a man like Ashley Walters open up about his life. It's refreshing to see a man of his generation and his background speak so personally, profoundly and eloquently about his rather complex relationship with his father and how that relationship has shaped him to be the person he is today. Vulnerability is rare in men, but there is a strength in it that I saw while watching this interview. I wish him all the best in the future. I can't wait to see what he accomplishes next.
Thanks Ashley for being so transparent & vulnerable about your narrative in this Podcast. It's so refreshing & insightful to obtain a male's perspective about emotions/feelings & the traumas within his life. Brilliant talent! Bless u❤ 1:37:40
This interview has eaten into my sleep time 😢 but just couldn't leave it!! This was brilliant and loved to see Our Ashley open up and show that vulnerability. Really enjoyed this one. Love n respect to you both!! 👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️
Ashley is some guy, I rate him so much, he's the whole package, he deserves more recognition and loads more roles. Please get on our screens more ❤
Well done Ashley, its never easy speaking from a vulnerable place, that realness will inspire other men and boys to take the time to be just as real, vulnerable and be so much better for it.
Ngl, you sound moist
This is a message to the guy who owned the production company with Ashley Walters:
Give him back his recordings of his dad man.
Thank you Ashley for being so open with the world. I know it's not easy to share such deep and intimate details of your life experiences. We appreciate it. I think a lot of us can relate when it comes to relationships with our parents or kids. It lovely to see how much you have grown and how you recognise that. Thank you Steven for having a platform where one can be open, honest, have a laugh and also learn something new. This is definitely an episode for all to watch and learn from.
I found this absolutely fascinating - i lost my baby daughter back in March this year and im fighting to recover for my family
Some of the things Asher said really resonated with me
Asher was always a person i would love to sit and chat too, this video gave me that and i thank you!
Bless you
I feel your loss I lost my son 10yrs ago a week old hospital could not work out what was wrong with him my biggest test in 2013 its a pain like no other I will keep you in my prayers stay 💪🏾🙏🏾
The pain is real. I lost my daughter at 11 weeks old last march. My other 4 kids were taken off me and I’m just at the point of getting my kids back and healing. Sorry for your loss.
@@jassminejames210you 😊❤
Sorry to read of the loss of your daughter. As a father of 2 girls I can’t imagine your grief. I hope you can find a way to live on and make the most of your life in her memory ❤️
Impressive - I’m so moved by the frank , open nature of this conversation …So delighted to hear young men articulate their fears , regrets and their honest emotions about these important issues …Definitely sharing this with many more who I know will resonate with it .Thankyou for your efforts …
As a fan of Ashley knowing he’s had a traumatic upbringing & knowing how good of an interviewer Steven is I knew they would get DEEP in this talk 😅 This was like a therapy session
Amazing interview and very emotional too, regarding not having his dad in his life.🎉 I can so relate to that. Seen this guy back in his Soul Solid days, in Brixton and he was so angry.
Different man sat there... So much this interview has taught me. WE SOUTH MAN'S ARE FIGHTERS 💪🏿.
Such a ground breaking culturally iconic series. It’s bittersweet it’s now over but I am forever grateful for its existence. It will always be in the same talks as legendary series like “The Wire” “OZ” tons more. Looking forward to what Ashley and the rest do in the future.
Wow, I can really relate with this. The pain of abandonment is unreal. Your growth it’s amazing. And Steven, your understanding is incredible. More people need to see this. Children in care and children with difficult family situations need to know that they really are worth it. We are all incredible humans inside. Everyone has so much potential ❤
This hit me so hard it was like someone was speaking about my life through the words of another man. Was so touching to watch but uncomfortable at the same time. Big respect for Ashley opening up like this. Appreciate this bro. 💜🙏🏾
I was fortunate to make a great friend at university who's life resembles many of the aspects Ashley discussed. This person helped shape my views, in a positive way, and broadened my horizon. Life had presented him with many challenges and yet, he kept moving forwards.
thank you for giving him a chance and accepting him into your life. Not everyone is willing to accept those with skeletons in their past but people like you who are willing to learn and accept us are golden. thank you
I guess it goes both ways. To that person (now my friend), I could have just been another kid, who had been handed life and opportunities on a plate. He also had to have an open mind. He had to give me a chance. Would could not have started off in two more different places, yet, we had so much in common. @@DrDre999
This man looks healthy and knows how to express himself 👌🏾👌🏾
Ashley, you have family that love you more than you will ever know
And even though you don't here it or see those members very often, just remember you are always in our hearts and prayers!!!!!
Always!!!!
We pray for your continued success and happiness!!!
Always!!!!
Always!!!!❤
For me - the question about the impact of top boy on the world is such a simple answer. It’s exposed the UK for what it really is. Not the image the white politicians, the royal family and the media want to show. It’s exposed the injustice and suffering of many. Loved this interview Ashley!!
Omg I actually recommend Ashlee coming on a year ago! Yes!!! He is such an incredible actor one of the best we have in this country. Deserves so much more credit.
I absolutely love his honesty. In awe watching him openly discuss his emotions and feelings. Well done Ashley, really insightful watch X
In an era where 'Toxic Masculinity' is a term, its refreshing to see discussion about the reality of being a man, Steven you've done it once again 🏆
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This is now my favourite episode. It takes a lot time and growth to be able to have these conversations and be introspective. This conversation will resonate with a lot of people. Thank you 🙏🏼
This story Of Top Boy. Dushane touch my soul at such a level. Thanks to all the actors for bringing this to life ❤
I’m seriously so impressed with his ability to acknowledge his growth and healing over the years and hold himself accountable for his actions in his relationship, what a man not only really talented but also able to reflect on all his struggles and accomplishments 👏👏👏
His new artist is on my channel
I love that you still do podcasts like this. Getting super rich business people on is good, and we learn a lot, but podcasts like this are more interesting to me!
Agree. But, being rich to me is money. This man has a heart and soul so he is wealthy.
Ashley Walter's role as Dushane became my favorite character in Top Boy. I balled my eyes out on the last episode lol. Something about him is just so raw, so real. Even behind television .This is my first time watching him in an interview. It only confirms what I already thought about him. Astonishing person he is. Thanks for this interview, it couldn't have been filmed better by some of my favorite internet peeps! ❤❤❤
👊🏾 What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, appreciated this convo big time, outstanding work from Ashley and his crew on Top Boy, thank you for showing us all how to "Rise like a Phoenix" from all situations and from any background 👊🏾
It’s so interesting that he spoke mostly about his father and how much his absences was felt and made him feel. It almost feels like kids that grow up without one parent fantasize about the one missing and not so much about the one that stays!
Correct all of the major literature confirms this in detail.
You sound bitter, if what you understood from this is “fantasising” about the one who left and ignoring the one who stayed. It’s not a competition it’s more nuanced and deeper than you’ve demonstrated you can comprehend. He spoke about his father and the absence because it was the childhood wound that shaped his beliefs about himself, the world he lives in and ppl in such a world. It’s where his egos core patterns of behaviour stemmed from.
Seems like you listened from a gender based angle and empathised with his mum (the one who stayed) even though his wound wasn’t because of her. (She was what was right about him)
Try to detach from what you hear and you’ll more and receive it’s not always about the things you care about or deem worthy and in the way that you do.
Great interview. Please interview Kane " Kano " Robinson. His portrayal of Sulley was incredible. I've not seen one in depth interview of him. Top Boy had an incredible cast.
Top Boy will stand the test of time and become a classic like The Wire of essential television culture shifters! “Say less…” Ashley thank you for the interview and the integrity you brought to your character and show overall. 👌🏾✨💫
What a beautiful conversation. Thank you both for your honesty and vulnerability.
Brilliant interview.. great to hear him talking about his father and how is death affected him so much…..i can relate to that after the loss of my father i lost myself and hated the world .. takes time to heal
Thanks for getting all the amazing people who speak very openly and share their stories. Thanks, Steven
Wow!!! This was a powerful and moving conversation between interviewer and interviewee - wasn’t expecting this at all. Always had big respect for Ashley but that has grown tenfold. Thanks to you both🙌🏾
My god, his honesty and insight is brutal and astonishing - amazing to hear this verbalize so articulately thank you both for sharing your hearts.
So solid fan, Top Boy fan, Ashley Walters fan….💯 also diary of a CEO fan, keep up the fantastic interviews this podcast gets me through the night shifts thank you
This was a fantastic episode. There were parts of this conversation that really felt like the two of you were friends. It was great to see. This really is one of the best podcasts to ever come out of the podcasting genre! The DOAC Team should be PROUD!!!!
When you become that one Quote! it's was at that point Ashley Walter in this podcast opened the floodgates of your uniqueness as who you are and how you shine ...Top boy is just the start to the I can I have and I will
Proud of your honesty Ashley
Ashley, you should be proud of the man you are and the things you have achieved. To be able to speak in great detail about these things is tough but so relatable and it's nice to know we as men are all the same
Great guy.....i contacted this man with bad depression and this man took the time to listen and he doesn't know me from nowhere.....i told him over and over i wanted to meet him personally and be with him, but he said I'm flattered, i really i am but i can't do that im with someone. And at the time he was i was upset, but not anymore i see that what he was doing was the right thing he admitted i was very attractive. But he couldn't be risking his family and that shows me he's a good man....but someone times i wish i would of met him in 2003 instead of 2017 he was the best thing in my life. If he ever becomes single I'm telling you I'm right on his case and this time i will be with him. 🖤
😅🙈 Are you alright....you seem like you still having issues no offence you seem obsessed with him.
😂 he fancied me back don't watch that, he admitted I was his type and more attractive than the woman he's with now, which is true I am better looking, but that's not the point he can't just run off with me some woman he hardly knows. Just based on attraction. He even admitted if he meets me he will end up sleeping with me, he didn't trust himself....anyway he did better than cassidy cos he gave in😅 but I guess American man hit different right and no I didn't message cass he contacted me and flew me out within weeks and he married too.😂
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I hear you, you do sound naughty you must be nice, if them man are hitting you up. Cassidy flew you out yea lol madness i can imagine Cassidy doing this tho, married or not 😆 he's not a man to play with tho serious guy still.
Dear Stan I think you need some councelling.
This was such a frank and enlightening look at the talented young man who I’ve followed through film and music. He most definitely deserves all that he has and has worked hard for.
Grateful for his honest, open dialogue ❤ These conversations are so important for him, but ultimately for others ❤
200000% respect to him for openly talking about the trauma im going fru it bad rn! Love to anyone struggling or that have struggled. Stay strong we got this❤
This interview was beautiful, thank you both. Ashley I commend your courage and openness, allowing us to see real and rawness. ❤
This was one of the best interviews I’ve ever watched. Wow, thank you Ashley and Stephen for this.
The knock on effect is real. You will always be Top Boy Ashley. Thank you for sharing dude.❤
What a great interview, cried a few times. All the best in his journey. He has really inspired so many people, including myself. Bless!!!
Of all the guests I've watched on here, this is the one I needed the most. Resonated with this so much it was like it he was speaking everything I've felt/experienced.
Thank you Ashley for being so relatable and most of Stephen for gifting us with such amazing and valuable content. Just amazing 👏🏾 🙌🏾
Wow. Such a powerful interview. This is inspiring me to get back into therapy. Realizing I have so much more to work through. One of my favorite actors ever. Thank you Ashley and I hope you find total peace. 🙏🖤
This video was so good and I relate so much. I dont know who my dad is, and he doesn't even know I exist.
Im in my 30s now, and I still regularly think about him, I always wonder who I am and where I come from.
I always long to know him.
Its crazy the damage parents can do to their kids and how it shapes and sticks with us.
i swear this pod gets better every episode. steven is a great listener.
This is such a beautiful and candid conversation. I’m so happy for him and that he is receiving his flowers, with how long he’s been in the Industry. I truly don’t think he understands how much of catalyst this interview is for him ! 🙏🏾
Nothing but respect to Ashley for telling his story, that interview was so solid
Such honesty from Ashley. Coming from endz it ain’t never been easy to open up & talk deep ! Respect to the legend that is , Ashley Walters
what an honest, transparent and vulnerable convo this was. i have a newfound and tremendous amount of respect for ashley for this one, and i think men around the world will be grateful for how he managed to put words to an experience many have had but haven't had the safe space to articulate. respect.
The sheer humble and honesty integration of Ashley is so commendable .....
Totally agree .. so humble.. so refreshing listening to this
His new artist is on my channel
50 cent on this podcast would be the best interview yet!
This is a beautiful interview. I’m amazed at the maturity and self awareness in both brothers.
Wow! Amazing - Beautiful interview - I was glued for for the entire time - I cried, related, thought and loved. Thank you ❤