Wrestler Groom Hates Brides Blingy Wedding Dress Vision | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta
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- Опубліковано 2 лют 2020
- Karen has brought her fiancé to her bridal appointment because she values his opinion, however when he starts to disagree with her vision Lori is quick to show this opinionated groom the door.
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"Don't hide the booty, Daddy likes that" is the worst thing I've ever heard someone say
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Pq
I cringed so hard
ugh sounds like wattpad smut
Why? I've heard people defend literal child molesters. Why can't a fellow get playful when discussing his adult fiance? My boyfriend has said "worse." Then I say "worse" right back to him and we laugh at it. People are too easily offended.
This man is toxic af, he's already controlling her.
wetookachonce and the sad part is she doesn’t even realize it. He will abuse her emotionally and mentally. What a nightmare waiting to happen 🤦🏻♀️
He's not controlling her. She has invited him/given him permission to make decisions for her. She has given him that power
You do remember the producers twist everything they say so it creates more drama right ?
There’s no proof he’s like that in real life
Maybe he did not really want to be there, so he was TRYING to get chucked out. He might have felt obliged because he was invited. ;-)
blood dragon There’s no proof that he isn’t either. Soooooo.
This woman literally said "I'm scared" when he left and if y'all don't think there's something WRONG with that??? I'm worried about y'all's relationships too.
Literally everyone is saying that it is a toxic relationship. XD
They've been married for many years now.
@@stargazer0480 That doesn't mean he's not abusive. His attitude here says it all... If they've been together this long it's because she has self-esteem issues too, obvious in this clip too.
@@prettybrowneyez3338 he's got attitude and ego for sure but my ex husband was abusive and he wouldn't have left when they told him to go and when they were making little jokes about him while he was walking away he would have taken my hand and walled us the fuck out of there
@@prettybrowneyez3338 exactly! If they have been together a long time, it's because she does and says everything he wants.
She asks him what she should wear EVERY time they go out????? Oh heck no!
trouble
Yeah, he had better not use physical or mental force on her. She is too dependant on him already and has given him control. I fear for this marriage.
My husband used to check his outfit with me whenever we were going somewhere. Since the woman typically (yes!) holds the social calendar, we know the setting and appropriate wardrobe. Yes, he dressed to please me, and vice versa.
@Toni P., I pray you’re loving a happy life with him but you might be surprised to find out this type of dynamic would bother a lot of people. I don’t mind my partner asking my opinion if it’s a formal occasion (that’s pretty common for me to do) and I’m fine to do the same from time to time but no one decides what I wear and I’m not interested in dressing my partner. Even for the formal occasion opinion, I’m not trying to pick out clothes for this man. I know some women do that and it kind of grosses me out. I mean him asking my opinion on this or that tie it shows. Something like that.
I thought he was the worst until he called himself "daddy". That confirmed it.
India J. Vincent made me gag
That was disgusting.
oh my god yeet him straight out the window X(
@dietotaku LMMFAOOOO
Ewww, that honestly gave me the chills and not in a good way. So 😔
It seems like his happiness is the only important thing here. She doesn't "value his opinion." She is bending to his will. This could easily become an abusive relationship.
It definitely already is. 100%. Abuse doesn't have to include fists.
As there is someone like her, it will always be someone like him
miz jackson I agree with you 100%! He seems very controlling and this marriage won’t last if we’re right. If they have children I could only imagine.
breaks my heart. she is so demure and this talk about two personalities of his in this personal (!) life?!?! I cannot see any bling bc of all the red flags...
Totally agree
I like how even if it’s a business they don’t focus on selling a dress rather than how the bride feels in a dress.
That’s how the BEST sales people do it
You notice when they Jack the bride up with the veil and accessories… the “no’s” become “yes”! People forget to imagine what it will look like with a complete ensemble! The Groom won’t be concern the dress on the wedding Day!
He doesn’t want her to be the center of attention! Who trained him! She’s the Bride so she will be no matter what she wears!
I came from an abusive relationship and this man is a bully and I believe after the marriage he will start to isolate her from her family and start physically abusing her. Her family, really needs to do an intervention before it is too late.
If fiance Shane, The Hurricane wrestler has this much control over her clothes, he more than likely has total control over her food choices, telephone & computer habits, her friends. This show was 2 years ago. I wonder if they have divorced. She's given him too much power & he's quite satisfied with this arrangement. Her confidence is lacking & self esteem has tanked to where she cannot choose an outfit on her own. She needs to be more independent. And he will move on to find another co-dependent, indecisive female that allows him to make all the decisions.
@@judithpalier6980 I wonder if they ever got married. I can't find anything on internet for Shane Helms being married to "Karen"...dated her and had a kid, but not "Married"!
Edit: I found his FB account and it says engaged to Karen Blalock, but her page says nothing about relationships
@@stirrednotshaken4837 oh my I bet they never got married
I see that as well. She should run!!
@@stirrednotshaken4837, I found them on Instagram, and looks like they're still together. I hope and pray he stopped trying to control her. The last post together was August 24th.
"Shane is my support system." - That isn't a support system, it's a dictatorship.
So true!
She needs to think for herself. This is a bad marriage match. He will be controlling her entire life.
@@doriswiesike1417 and she will be utterly lost without his control, that's the worrying point.
Trouble ahead.
There are women out there who love a man who can take charge. Some women out there find that very attractive
When she said he's her support system, my heart broke for her. That's not what support looks like.
He didn't stop to humiliate her! my ex husband used to compare me with a pet, I suppose something similar is going on in this relationship. He's a narcissist.
She meant financially.
Should fix his beard first
totally - that is a very distructive relationship...
True. That's what toxicity looks like 😢
“Daddy likes that!!!” Made me shudder. That man’s a creepy freak.
He needs to go pluck his eyebrows some more 🤨🤮
Shane isn't your support system, he's controling you, plain and simple !!!
she dependent
Domyou guys forget this is a scripted reality show? Lolololol
She's "not used to being the center of attention" and she's marrying a guy who's gonna keep it that way. Until she can be his equal, she's not ready to get married. This relationship is not 50/50.
Anna Lewicke No relationship is 50/50 but I get what you’re saying. She needs to find her voice now.
PREECH
It's obvious that he wants the focus on him at the wedding, not her.
@@DD-hv4lq, not just at the wedding....everywhere, always. In a few years, he'll tell her she's too mousy and that she looked awful in her wedding dress anyway and dump her for someone new who'll...foolishly....stroke his ego. He's nothing special and he knows it, so he gaslights her into believing he is. She's meek enough to believe it. Sad.
Anna Lewicke
I had a wonderful and loving husband and an amazing marriage for 34 years before I lost my husband to pancreatic cancer. I can honestly tell you there is no such thing as a 50-50 or equal relationship. There is also no such thing as a perfect relationship. A really good relationship is when one person steps up to where the other person falls short and vice versa. A relationship with communication, willingness to let the small petty bullshit stuff go. A wonderful marriage has love, trust and respect.
The fact that he referred to her as his "damsel in distress" is a huge red flag!! he's got a hero complex he wants to "save" her and she lets him think that way. He is toxic, verbally and emotionally abusive.
Austin Uttilie yup! Sounds like a narcissist to me!
Black Beauty I totally agree, he will not like this dress nor the blingy accessories, she will get critism maybe give in - she looked beautiful though in the outfit
And she's buying in to this whole toxic ''relationship'', shame.
And who knows. He could even be PHYSICALLY abusive.
I am an old woman and I am heartened by the comments on this page.
He doesn't want a wife... he wants a Barbie doll he can dress up.
Run girl RUN
"Do you want me to..." "I'm concerned because he didn't see the dress" GIRL, leave that freakin' dress and RUN AWAY.
That bride is gonna burst out of anger one day. Groom seems controlling
But he's a wrestler.
How's that gonna go? 😨😢
I hope he doesn't give her crap and gets all childish and angry that he didn't choose the dress
They are still together but not married from what I found out after another person mention them being just being bf/gf instead of fiancee/wife.
Moonie makes sense that they aren’t married yet
The King's Daughter it’s gonna turn into an abusive relationship
How do some women end up in these relationships? Forever baffled!
True🤣
Low self esteem tbh 😞
Daphne Nyesimire some women like men who are authoritative. I don’t get it but whatever
Same reason men get into relationships with women who use them for their money. Or treat them like a second choice.
Low self esteem.
@@ffiggy There's authoritative and controlling, like don't make a move without me controlling. Creepy and scary.
Monte: "Liberace, what's wrong with Liberace?"
*ting!*
😂😂😂
This man said that he was "daddy" and she was his "damsel in distress" girl, bye
He’s horrible. I love that Lori said “this is my house” & when he’s leaving they start making fun of his controlling ass 😂😂
I lost my shit when lori said THIS IS MY HOUSE such a queen
YES
You know this is all scripted for a reality TV show, right?
I like how he calls it a hurricane when in reality, he's just trying to fabricate his controlling behavior
He’s a WWE wrestler by the name “The Hurricane.” I hope she’s surviving the marriage, or better yet, divorced and thinking on her own! en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gregory_Helms
Monte, Lori and their whole team are so great at their jobs
The fact that she changes her decision immediately when he doesn’t like it, tells me everything I need to know. Good luck girl because whew btw that first dress was lovely on her and she loved it smh
Narcissistic
Yes the first one was her dress!!!
Yes, it looked so much better than the one she picked. The third one did not do her figure justice at all, unlike what the girls were telling her
He hasn't even married the woman and yet he's already criticizing her .can you imagine what she's in for the next 13, 14 ,25 years? that's a sin.3cheers from Canada
Only if it lasts that long lol
how about in 3 years?
Relax..makes a perfect .I ran off with the bar guy story..Lol 😂
they’ve been married since 2013/ 2014 i believe
@Black Beauty unfortunately that is more than likely true. Where did her family or close women not strengthen her identity, her spine .that's the bigger sin .3cheers from Canada
"Bye hurricane!"😂😂 this show is killing me😂😅
The Hurricane's breakin' wind!!
"What's wrong with Liberace?" Monte's a hoot!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Did this man call himself "Daddy"?
Yes he did😅
Damn that's creepy
😩😩
Very disturbing....😒
Nasty and that hit my cringe button.
So, when is it ok for the groom to see the dress before the wedding?!
He’s a arrogant, control freak.
I hate that he calls himself the “hurricane” when he’s not wrestling. He’s full of himself.
I’m glad the owner told him to get lost.
Not saying you're wrong about him but alot of people dont follow that tradition of the groom not seeing the dress.
Aren't hurricanes full of wind?
@@gillianbergh7002 🤣
Seems like the groom is really grooming her.
The DAY I WOULD LET MY FUTURE "HUSBAND " PICK SOMETHING FOR ME.....IS THE DAY I LEAVE ON A HORSE RUNNING
There’s nothing wrong with him picking out things but this relationship is very much controlling
“I know what she’s gonna like” - huge red flag of being in a controlling relationship. He should like any dress she picks. He’s called her his damsel in distress. Pretty sad that’s how he thinks of her.
When there is nothing distressing here for her but him.
What’s wrong with being damsel in distress ? I mean this relationship is awful but the terminology you used doesn’t correlate to this situation
The groom isnt suppose to see the bride's dress before the wedding. I'm glad Lori kicked him out I love her
She kicked him out because he is a douchecanoe.
I think she would not have kicked him out, if he had behaved somewhat supportive and not this self centered crap. If bride and groom want to buy the dress together that is their prerogative. Unfortunately there was no together to see. Good for Lori. I hope the woman realised what was happening and the real reason why he was kicked out.
Do people often tell you that you are missing the point?
It depends on the culture of the person
Do you know why The groom is not supposed to see the bride before the wedding? Well if you don't let me just tell you, it's because when arranged marriages were thing they were afraid that if the groom and the bride saw each other and spoke before the wedding that they not want to get married. And occasionally that happened they would just kill both of them.
"This is why one of my ten commandments is no groom allowed."😂😂😂😅
The way he said "daddy likes that" just told me everything I need to know about him.
She thinks she needs his “opinion”. She’s learnt to need it. She doesn’t, this relationship won’t last if she doesn’t ever get to have a say.
It is downright disturbing how often I see that mentality in these shows - "my mom's opinion is important to me, my fiance's opinion is important to me" Do you think my husband had a word to say about my wedding dress? No, because it was MY dress and MY HAPPINESS was important to HIM. Wanting someone else's input is one thing but it should never ever override YOUR opinion on something that only affects YOU.
Idk if she’s even attracted to him, she might just be attracted to the idea of someone wanting her so bad and deciding for her. Idk how anyone could be attracted to THAT 🤢
lmao i had a big urge to punch him in the face.
So do I. He is super annoying!
@Why tho 😄😄😄😄😄😄definitely u will
You're not the only one join the queue
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well this is an abusive relationship if I've ever seen one... Please tell me she's okay
some people do not know that abuse isn't only aggression and violence.
She’s not a damsel in distress!
She’s a grown woman for heavens sake.
She’s making herself sound truly pathetic by calling him her support system.
I hate it when people mistake being possessive as love.
I feel like he's insecure about showing her off
“That belt is gawdy. It will attract too much attention!” Just remind him of that when he when’s a wrestling belt-or whatever they all it! Let’s hope most of this was a PR stunt for his character and so that they got to be filmed! I like to hope that the editors and producers wanted this behavior bc he did seem to leave pretty quickly and I doubt most men like that would.
I think "Say Yes to the Dress" needs to invest in security. That would take care of the bully boyfriends.
Security wasn't necessary here.
Not a good move when your boyfriend picks out everything you wear the next thing you know he's having an affair because you are to dumpy. That dress looks beautiful on her it was amazing and maybe he didn't want her to be too beautiful on her wedding day a lot of men do that she is going to be a knockout.
did he call himself daddy on national tv
Lori should put up a sign saying "NO Grooms!" on the front desk and on the door 😂😂
Good luck to her, she's going to be in a toxic environment
What a toxic relationship already... wow, the typical narcissist who has found the co-dependent. Ohhh she’s in for a rude awakening. And when she decides she wants to leave, it’ll be too late. Poor soul 🤦🏻♀️
@ Grisel Blanco-Garcia: You are absolutely correct! She may think Shane's control is LOVE...it isn't. Their relationship will become more complex if, when children are involved. She'll often be in tears because according to him, she can't do anything right.
@@judithpalier6980 Correct!!! I'm sure she's crying every single day wishing she would've dodged that bullet when she could! Now is too late! Especially if she has kids with him already, she won't be able to leave him...
@@judithpalier6980 And I bet you he physically abuses her, too!!!
Within the first 40 seconds, I wanted to punch him.
Me too
I paused at exactly 40 seconds to read comments because I couldn’t take it anymore lol
The best part of say yes to the dress is when the fashion consultants/owners are ready to fight the entourage
If she's so concerned about his opinion it means she's concerned of what's going to happen if his opinion is not pandered to.
Red flag
I don’t like their relationship dynamic. She cares way too much about his opinions and switches out her traits for whatever he wants. And he clearly sees her as an object.
I'm not near to marriage but always watch this show so addective
Yeah
Make sure you don't marry too soon or settle for a guy cause youre lonely....
Addictive
I've been married almost 18nyears and still love this show. Haha
@@flamingpieherman9822 Well that's a bit harsh! Poor woman was just saying how she likes the show even if she's not looking for a dress herself. You make it sound like she's going to turn all desperate or something, lol 😂🤭
"daddy likes that" I was nearly sick
She's afraid of him.
Sounds desperate to keep him, this marriage wont end well.
Heaven help her. Give her strength to stand up to him and realize she is a person with good ideas and decisions.
she'll grow some cohones by the 2nd child. seen it happen many times. then it's survival of the fittest.
“It’s going to be her wedding dress, but she is going to make me happy too” instantly made me think of my ex friend who is currently trapped in an abusive relationship like this honestly. It’s horrible seeing her go through this and hopefully she was able to get away from him bc I doubt he’d change. He’s a truly scary guy if he’s so controlling.
I laughed so hard when Lori said bye hurricane after she kicked Shane out.
So basically this girl is just a doll playing according to that dude's wishes!
Have some opinion girl!!
Grow a spine too!
She's in an abusive relationship. She isn't allowed to have an opinion of any worth. She likely doesn't see it for what it is.
It's hard to realize when you're in abuse relationship.
She doesn’t even see how much he is controlling her life.
‘When writing the story of your life make sure someone else isn’t holding the pen.’ I think this saying really applies to this lady - it probably feels comfortable to her to give so much control over to this guy, but he is going to write whatever story HE wants.
Girl, when he’s controlling you now and you’re not married, you won’t be able to go anywhere alone when you’re married.
First sign of a controller, this lady is in trouble
She isn't scared because he's her support system... She's scared because she's worried he'll be mad. Way too controlling.
He's already controlling her. 😔 The first dress looked so good on her anyway
Typical abusive relationship.
That first dress was stunning. I would have kicked him out after that first reaction. 🤷♀️ Still not the most annoying fiancé on the show but definitely on the list.
The problem isn’t finding the dress, it’s the groom 🤢 disgusting
I do NOT abide by relationships like this and she should NOT marry a man who controls her like that. Glad Laurie told him to hit the skids...
Red flags all over the place. She gives him too much power.
Once again it seems like a passive aggressive and controlling relationship, I'm going to try and give him a slight benefit of doubt and say maybe he is going to gift her an amazing wedding gift which might be jewelry that could clash with a "busy" dress.
if he can buy her love, then she would be a gold digger..
@@katherineh.9379 there was a commenter who stated they never got married and so I looked it up myself and it seems they are either still dating or his fiancee... But most site's just call her his gf. 🤔
@@Dulcess thanks dir the Update, i hope that she will be free one Time.....
Giving someone the benefit of the doubt is wrong to do. You are placing your hope on them, your expectation so it can make you feel better abut the situation. He's a manipulative, controlling jerk and he shows so many red flags of being an abuser.
@@hilaryc3203 I stated in another video how a guy was almost like this and some felt I was making assumptions based on this clip, now most of the time I do try to not jump to conclusions given this little amount of information. This person and the other guy seems to be someone people around them need to keep an eye on.
No compromise with this guy, it's his way or no way. She needs to run. This is a doomed marriage.
Who in the hell in their right mind brings their fiance to pick a bridal gown. Run woman run.
What a controlling man and the fact that she listens to him makes me sick. This isn't the 1950s! 🤬
Should fix his beard first
Tea 🍵
It’s hideous. I’m a barber and would never do this on someone
or his noseeeeee!!!!!
and his eyebrows
@@doglife3543 or better erase himself from Earth 😂😂😂😂
This show is becoming my stress buster ❤ love lori and monte
It is a great stress buster
The way they keep mentioning the 'hurracaine' scared me i thought he was gonna lash out
Wow, blame everything on his alter ego.
Here we go
The VEIL CHARM again.....
Do you have problem with?
•Decisions
•Self esteem
•Fashionista spouse
•Mother in law
•Getting approval from your parents
SOLUTION -> THE VEIL 11/10 Monte's recommend!!!
In Brazil we have a say: 'a groom seeing the dress before the wedding brings bad luck'.
I think her reaction is my favorite yet ... instant tears and honestly a gorgeous dress!
That seems like a clear recipe for an abusive relationship.
So true!
maybe they should just stop bringing their to-be-husbands there
If it's not het fiance, it's her mother. Or sister. Or mother-in-law. 😕
I'm starting to think that I was very smart to shop alone. 😉
They just have him there for added drama
The King's Daughter i agree.. we know ourselves more than anyone else so im sure we could know which dress is best for us without anyone's consultation 😂
Maya Foster i feel like he just made everything worst
I think the groom was jealous and he really wanted to wear the wedding dress.
I loved when Monte made fun of the Groom- lol.
The 2 people in this relationship are him and him. He doesn't want her to outshine him. Best of luck girl....
He’s looking at her like she’s an object
He isn't your support system. He makes desicions for you, not with you 👎
❤❤❤ Lori for throwing out this manipulating, controlling person out. Hope his bride saw through him before it was too late
Monte: Nothing makes Lorie's blood boil than a fiance' in her store. Lorie: You may be the champion in the ring but this is my house it's time for you to leave. Shane: Uh oh. Lorie: Bye hurricane.
Daddy likes that🤨 That’s why there’s no Roosters in the Hen house😁
Its the “would you like me to wear a dress, would you like me to wear jeans?” for me.
“Do I look good in these pants” is not the same as “would you allow me to wear this”. Oh honey no.
You go lori! YOU AMAZING HUMAN BEINGGG!! kicking the “hurricane” out was AWESOMEEE!
The first dress was my favorite
1000000% chance they got into a fight after this, ended up hating this show/store, and found a new and “approved” dress elsewhere.
Also, his beard is stupid looking.
Wow he runs the show he should support what she loves
That first dress was so beautifull. Her fiance doesnt want her to shine on her wedding day. Sad
What a groomzilla