Camagu mkhulu. Diyathemba uba uyaphila? I have watched this video insert over and over. But as much as I find it informative and eye opening as it is, I still find incomplete, because in the case of Ilongwe, it does not give solutions or answers to those are completely rejected outrightly from the family where the mother was married to. What should be or do? He/she is rejected by both the parents (that is the husband and his parents) and by his or her filings. What must or should they do, Dr. Mkhize?
Baba unjani ngicela ukubuza ukuthi Uma uyilongwe sewazi nomama ongizalayo senixoxile istep sokuqla okumele ngisithatha isiphi. Senginomuzi manje izinto ziyangibhedela kuvaleke imali izikwelentu kunzima okwami manje sekuvaleka yonke into sengiphila ngonkosi sikelela sengicabanga nokudayisa umuzi manje please help kunzima baba
My understanding is that if ungagcagcanga being ukwaba, uthelwe ngenyongo then you're not recognized as a wife in Zulu culture. A civil marriage is just iphepha because izidalwa azimazi lowomakoti. So if ezala umakoti engagcagcanga, leyongane izobiza isibongo sakonina still
Mkhize wayelapha inhliziyo yam ngoku ke ilongwe Liya kwazi na ukukhuluma emsam na Liya wenza na umsebenzi akengicaciseleke lapho njenga umama washiwa yindoda yashona unelungelo na njengelongwe ukukhuluma emsam na? Angibonge
Skhanyisele Baba
Uma ke ususebenzisa lesisibongo ongeyena wakhon wenze njn Uma ingane yakh isithandana nentombazane yesibongo esingesakini sesende
Umlanjwana uyakwazi ukuthi ulotsholwe bese uya kuba ka Baba.Ayikho lendaba yokuthi umlanjwana awukwazi ukuphuma ekhaya lakonina.Singaphela oo Dr Mkhize abazitshela ukuthi bazi konke.Ubuye ubhede kabi wena Mkhize.Ayikho indaba yokuthi umlanjwa ngeke usishintshe isibongo.Baningi abalotsholwa oyise kwenziwa zonke izimfanelo.Uma ngifuna ukubizwa ngesibongo sika Baba sekumele ngifele indaba yokuthi ngingu mlanjwana noma ngingafuni ukubizwa ngesibingo sika Mama.Kumele ngifele icala engingalazi ngingajabuli ngoba nakhu ngiwumlanjwana.Uyabheda Mkhize uswele abakutshelayo.
Khabazela I never met you in person but ungenza ngikulambele ukuhlangana nawe and no doubt ngokhululeka
Siyabonga Baba ngokusandisela ngolwazi sifunda okuningi kubaba uVvo Mkhize emlambomunye
Ngiyi longwe lakhaya ngubani ozothenga imbuzi yonkungi bika lakhaya yimi noma balakhaya
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Uyafundisa Baba Mkhize
Camagu mkhulu. Diyathemba uba uyaphila? I have watched this video insert over and over. But as much as I find it informative and eye opening as it is, I still find incomplete, because in the case of Ilongwe, it does not give solutions or answers to those are completely rejected outrightly from the family where the mother was married to. What should be or do? He/she is rejected by both the parents (that is the husband and his parents) and by his or her filings. What must or should they do, Dr. Mkhize?
Iyangiphilisa impande yakwa Mkhize Baba wethu, siyabonga Dokotela
Hi baba umama no baba abashadanga kodwa ubaba ushone behlala bonke thina sikhuliswe ko mom senza njani
Ningabasekhaya konina
Kucace bha!
Sawubona mkhulu umkhize ukuphupha uphuma izinyo kuchazani
Syabonga kakhulu Khabazela, sifunda lukhulu kule ngosi
Khabazela.Siyabonga kakhulu.
Syabonga Khabazela Ume njalo
Sawbona baba Mkhize ilashwa kanjani yengane eyagajiswa esdulini wathatha iskhiye nelog wavala ilog yafakwa kuso lesosiduli walahliswa ukhiye wokuvula
MKHULU ingani mina akaze kulunge la kwakushadele khona umama ngaze ngabuyiselwa kubo kamama kwakhane ngathi kuyalunga.kodwa ngyafisa ukukbona
Baba Mkhize sicela uvule iskole sezinto zesintu siyacela Khabazela ayibe ku syllabus lento.
Watsho kwavokotheka khehla, kwande!🙌🏽
Loku okubizwa 'ngeSiko lesiNtu' kuyijoka elinzima. Likhona elilula othi uma uthathe lona wena nosapho nezizukulwane kukhanye bha!
Siyabonga
Awu Baba Mkhize Khabazela,Gcwabe kaYihlandla uyibekile Baba izwakele
uMavovo kaZihlandla mfwethu*
@@siyandamazibukoonlife3611 😀🙏🙏 ngyabonga Mnewethu ukuba ungilungise
Injalo Mkhulu siyabonga Mkhulu
Mina baba ngifisa ukwazi ukuthi mengabe umama washada kodwa wangakhishwa kubo bese iyashona indoda yakhe ingane ayithola nomunye umuntu kmele isebenzise siphi isibongo? Esala ashadela khona noma esakoMalume?
Indeginous science thumbs up noma uhulumeni engayi embrace so sad
At 3:00 minutes its confusing, So ubaba uthi singashadi umuntu owazalwa embethe if nami ngazalwa ngembethe ngoba soxabana? if sazalwa simbethe noma sinemoya sobabili senza njani kuze imimoya yethu esimbethe ingashayisani? also at 8:00 minutes imimoya embethe umama iwisa induku kubaba ivikelwa kanjani lokho kuze kungenzeki?
Cha akasho njalo mnewethu mangabe wazalwa umbethe nowakwakho wazalwa embethe angithi kwesinye iskhathi simbathwa immoya edinga ukuhlanjululwa ngakho keh kubalulekile kuthi ugezwe lowommoya okwembethe wenzelwe lokh okufanele wenziwe based ekutheni uzalwe wembethe kanjani, mangabe nizoshada omunye immoya yakhe ihlanjuliwe yalungiswa ngendlela yakhona kanti lomunye eyakhe immoya ayenzelwe lutho ilapho kuzovuka khona izinkinga nezingxabano isishayisana lemmimoya nokuthi keh kumele nikhunge immoya enembethe kuze kungeke kwaba khona inkinga
@@ntandokhumalo5730 angibonge mnewethu uyicacise kahle futhi iyazwakala. ngabe unalo ulwazi ukuthi ikhungwa kanjani lemimoya?
Ngicela ukubuza uma umuntu wesifazane ezele ekhaya mhlampe 3 wabantwa agcine engagananga aphume ekhaya nabantwana izinto zakhe nabantwana uzigcinela kuphi kubo or laphayana emzini awakhile
Khabazela, Gubhela!
Baba uyalubeka udaba ft luyacaca. Bengisacela ungipha inumber kamakhos uMathabethe kunento engicela ukuyibuza kuye.
Baba siyabonga iziluleko siyafunda bengicela ukuthola incwadi timpani
Dankie
Kodwake khehla kusamele nibe nesihloko mayelana nengane eyijazi.. le okuthiwa ngeyakho kungeyona
Baba unjani ngicela ukubuza ukuthi Uma uyilongwe sewazi nomama ongizalayo senixoxile istep sokuqla okumele ngisithatha isiphi. Senginomuzi manje izinto ziyangibhedela kuvaleke imali izikwelentu kunzima okwami manje sekuvaleka yonke into sengiphila ngonkosi sikelela sengicabanga nokudayisa umuzi manje please help kunzima baba
Uma ngabe umama nalobaba abakagcagci bavele basayina umama akathelwanga ngenyongo ka Nisi . Mina ngibizwani uma umama angithole ngokuyokha umfino.
Isibongo sikamama..ngoba uyafana umama nomuntu ongaganile yize elotsholiwe..
Baba khabazela ngifuna ukubuza kunento abandala ababayenza lena yokuthi umuntu wesifazane akaqedwa kukhishwe izinkomo ezine(4)bese kube zibizo zingapheleli nazo bese kucelwa umshando kushandwe bese kushona owesilisa umama abuye athole izinye ingane nazo ziyilogwe
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Ewu, uBab'uKhabazela wavele way'qondisa yathi thwi...lendaba. Aw'zwake... 😏
Ebukweni bathi abacobisi umakoti ngenyono .. ikhona yini loko?
Uma engathelwangwa ngenyongo egcine ngomshado omhlophe kona kuthiwani?
My understanding is that if ungagcagcanga being ukwaba, uthelwe ngenyongo then you're not recognized as a wife in Zulu culture. A civil marriage is just iphepha because izidalwa azimazi lowomakoti. So if ezala umakoti engagcagcanga, leyongane izobiza isibongo sakonina still
Malibongwe
Uma kuthiwa kufunele ngimage umfazi neThonga lakhe.
Ulilobola kanjani ithonga.
Siyabonga Baba Mkhize
Mkhize wayelapha inhliziyo yam ngoku ke ilongwe Liya kwazi na ukukhuluma emsam na Liya wenza na umsebenzi akengicaciseleke lapho njenga umama washiwa yindoda yashona unelungelo na njengelongwe ukukhuluma emsam na?
Angibonge
Thokoza Baba, ngicela ukucaciseleka kumuntu owazaleka ngalendlela yokuthi "umama ogcagcile wathola ingane yokuqala, ubaba wakhona wabhunguka, umama waphimga wasewathola ingane yesibili, wabuya ubaba, umama waphinda ingane yesithathu. Umbuzo uthi kungabe lengane yesibili okungesilo isende likababa iyini lapha ekhaya? Ivezandlebe noma ilongwe na?
Ngicabanga ukuthi yi vezandlebe ngoba ubaba wayesaphila! Ilongwe ilapho ubaba engasekho khona ( ingane yomfelokazi ayizala kwesinye isibongo/ ingane yomfelokazi onga ngenwanga echekeni).
@@zam2879 Ngiyabonga, isandla sendlulikhanda. Makwande ubuntu ebantwini...
Khabazela, ngifisa ukwazi la ukuthi uma intombazane izalele ekhaya kepha igcine ngokuthi ingagcagceli lapho ezale khona. Ingane ukuze ibize isibongo sikababa leyondaba ilungiswa kanjani since amahlawulo kungesiwo umsebenzi ophelele?
Wakhuluma Khabazela. Siyabonga 🙏
Akuhluphi lokho,iyahlawulwa ingane uyise wayo wesende bese eyithenga noma eyilobola ,bese kwenziwa umsebenzi wokuyikhipha isibongo,ikhishwa esibongweni sako nina iyofakwa esibongweni sika yise
Dokotela Gcwabe...uzenayo kahle kodwa ayiphelele Khabazela, abantu ubashiye nemibuzo engaphendulekile kanye nezinkinga.Yonke into yesintu yayibekelwe ukuxazulula izinkinga ezithize...kunombuzo lana othi uma ilongwe lingafunwa lapho eliyilongwe khona komele lenze njani?Uma uyise wesende welongwe eyifuna ingane yakhe komele enze njani?uma ingane eyilongwe ifuna ukusebenzisa nokubiza isbongo sika yise wesende ngokwesintu komele yenze njani?Uyabubona na ubungozi bokuba yilongwe bese usebenzisa isibongo sika yihlo lo oyilongwe lakhe,mhla isikulwane noma izingane zesibongo sesende sezilalana,zingazi zona ukuthi umkhulu noma ubaba wazo wayeyilongwe?...Ngyacela Khabazela abantu nibakhanyisele ngezixazululo nezimpendulo ngoba zikhona,abobabamkhulu babeyizinjulabuchopho.
Bab ninjan kulomhlab yonke into yenzeka ngesizathu sayo uyaz kunento esengibonil ngalabtwan ababizwa ngamalongw abanye babo baphumelele yebo bakhon nabadonsa kanzima indaba yelongwe ngyafisa nami besichazel ukuthi bekwenziwa njan endulo mina engibaziyo abahamba baya esbongwen sesende abanalutho ngakith kunzim ukuya kwesinye isbonga komuny umsamu imisamu inezinkinga
Wayibuza imibuzo eminye yawo ebengizibuza yona ngoba mina, umam ongizalayo uyilongwe kanti futhi naye akaganile, manje uyane asho ukuthi wazenza izinto ngokwasemshadweni kagogo but zangalunga wabe esezenza ngokwesende likababa wakhe zabe seziyalunga manje ngididekile ngiphelile..
Ngicela ukwazi ukuthi ngingenza kanjani ukuze umntwana akwazi ukubiza isibongo sami uma ngimthole kumfelokazi?
Longane iyilongwe kulomuzi bhut wen ngek ukwaz ukuyithatha longane ngoba eyalondoda yakhon a ngoba wen uyafan nokuthi waphenye isdwaba sako munye muzi
Yebo mkhulu imimoya engcolile kunjalo
Khabazela uyibeke yacaca kepha nakhu kukhona okusalayo ... uma wena njenge-Longwe bengakufuni baze basho ngomlomo lapho kwaGanela uMama wakho khona ngabe kuliphutha ukuyozilahla ko-Malume bakukhosele ukuze uthole ukuphila na?
Ngicela ukubuza, uma ngabe ungumlanjwana sewakha umuzi, wakha umuzi bese kuba umuzi kabani? Ngoba ukma wakha umuzi usuke wakhela ubaba wakho, uma ungumlanjwana wakha okabani umuzi? Ngicela usizo
Obvious phela wena ubaba wakho ubaba ka mama wakho🚶🚶🚶
@@unathimajova9735 khusho ukuthi uqhubeka nokukhulisa umuzi kamkhulu wakho ozala umama? Ngyabonga bhuti
umuzi kamkhulu/ubaba ozala umama if umama ubiza isbongo samkhulu ngokufanele.
Wakha muzi ka mkhulu wakho baningi bayadidisek kulodab