The Problem with Nice People
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Being good is not the same as being nice. Just because someone else sees our need to progress and win as bad or in any way unacceptable, does not mean that we should soften it or abandon it. You can never be fully accepted as social if you want to truly be yourself, that separates you from that society. Something inside you has to stay true to your natural instincts that will distance you from anyone who don't share the fire and passion. Following too much advice makes you follow someone else's life rather than your own.
Honesty is the key
Man... My name is Alex. And I am dealing with this issue on such a profound aspect of my self worth, comfort, and interactions. I'm dealing with immense heartbreak due to an ended relationship. My incredible neglect of my authenticity for the sake of being agreeable permeated every interaction with my first love. Through conversations and therapy I am asked why do I not speak up why do I think I take it without objection? Because I'm scared, because it makes me uncomfortable, because I think I may be wrong or communicate wrongly. I needed this in this moment. I hope you are honoring yourself and discovering your authentic assertive voice of compassion.
Yes I am so afraid of expressing my self-love and expressing healthy boundaries ❤ full of shame and fear to say no and not be accepted or liked... I am not ok .
Yeah, quit being the nice guy, just don't expect anybody to like you after you change. I have no friends. I haven't had a lover in over 7 years. I do everything alone. I am completely alone. When you stop kowtowing to everyone else, you realize how little they want anything to do with you.
Much prefer Genuine over nice!
Nice people aren't always authentic
“The world is full of actors pretending to be human”
~J.D. Salinger
Authentic people are not always nice.
being nice and kindness are almost the same act of goodness but being nice are kindness without wisdom. you are being nice no matter how people treat u bad .. because its like u just to please people .
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I have been Alex one too many times in the past.
Be selfishly selfless as if nobody else existed. ☕️
Im "Alex"...😢
Oi oi
This video I not helpful. Explaining “what “ niceness means will not help you . If you are looking for “help “ follow Jordan Pertersons videos on being agreeable or non agreeable . It will actually help you .
Doesn't pay to be nice. People are fked
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I’m guessing Jesus and Buddha must have being very unhappy humans? Lol
No, because they where Nice for real. They don't played a character hoping to get what they fant in exchange. They where nice with out trying.
This video is about the act of sacrificing your true thoughts and feelings and play à character hoping people will like you because of that.
No you didn't understood the video
@@temujin5743 He has completely missed the point.
I love Siddartha Gautama the Enlightened One.