Why do they keep having babies with all these women?
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Not having a father is not a license to being stupid your entire life. Too many dudes out here need to just GROW UP.
I swear, I know so many successful women who were raised without a father. They still managed to make it.
💯plenty of men are better fathers than they had .
@@TT-xz5sy yes
Yes. Got to learn hard life lessons quick or live a had life.
Yess. And these women are doing the most too. They see it and say ok. Then some do try and get toss away for girls who be stupid too.
WOW! I NEVER in a million years would've imagined a black man actually addressing this issue and irresponsible behavior in the community! Finally...thank you!
St least they're trying to reverse the negative image.
No other group tends to do this
Exactly!!! I subscribed to him IMMEDIATELY.
@@victoria-ix6de same girl same
This was the most sensible and honest opinion of a bm not masking an issue. No sugar-coated lies was told. I hope this type of thought process becomes a thing between bm on these Yt streets.
Sis, I clicked on this video just for this reason!!!!
5:05 - "Kids pay for the sins of their parents" that's what generational curses are called.
Exactly. The devalue their own bloodline. Sexual energy is magickal.
Yes, that’s where it begins. Well said.
✔️✔️✔️ More like GENERATIONAL CYCLES because WHY?!!!!! Like literally and they wonder why many of us DO NOT desire reproducing. Forever feeling parental resentment, smh. 🙄
No child asks to be born. We force them here. No child wants to be born into a family without their mother and father. To force a child into this situation is a disgrace.
Agreed, it’s irresponsible.
It’s very simple but people will still complicate it
You need to be more explicit. Two loving and secure parents. Children deserve a peaceful home
I know yall ignorant🤷🏾♀️talkn about factz! I know yall not spiritual becuz if u were yall would know no one is forced bt okay🤦🏾♀️
Okayyy
You are the first man to speak about this. What's with the lack of condom usage in the black community? And people acting like AIDS and other STD's are gone.
Right, that’s terrifying.
@@sxyteesa0890 I think they are okay to date them as long as they don't have sex.
What's with the lack of requirement for a man to put on a condom before you let him insert himself in you????? What's with the lack of birth control??? What's with the lack of not laying with anyone you're not married too?? I can go on and on and on.....
@@empowerment_007 Most likely they wanted to get pregnant.
@@The-Oneness11 Straight up. To believe otherwise or defend their behavior is pure ignorance
Thank you for speaking on this terribly irresponsible behavior. So refreshing to see a beautiful black man holding him and his brothers to a higher standard.
I agree wait till these kids get there teens
Whites can't have children like Blacks. Whitewomen need fertility clinics and Blackwomen give birth effortlessly. Its accursed on Whites to have low birth rates but silly blacks think it's cool to not have children or abort our babies. Your not as wise as you think you are.
Women determine who they have sex with not the men.
Unless you were going to marry that man
Then common sense should tell any woman
To use protection because you know you could bring a child into this world
We have to stop giving black women a pass for their poor choices in life
@@dappergents3743 all people determine who they have sex with, anything outside that is r*pe. All people should protect themselves and prevent unwanted pregnancies, don’t come over here trying to make this a woman vs man. I’m congratulating this MAN on being responsible with his seed and encouraging that for his brothers, don’t come here with negativity.
To be honest he should hold the females accountable not the men they are the ones keep opening there legs the men ain't wrong and to be honest men is built to have more than one and populate the earth
Black men have this expectation that Black women should endure struggle just as their own mothers did. Some Black women have this mentality as well. I don’t believe that Black men know how to humanize Black women, like at all. It is hard to unsee once you see it through any sort of interaction/encounter.
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Facts!!! It’s like we’re not human
Right
@C&G/G&C Why do some people always ask this silly question? Do you not understand that when people talk about a group, they are talking about the collective?
Crazy and he has Lupus which can be hereditary and one baby already died of a brain tumor at 5 months old. I believe these women has low self-esteem and don’t even understand the gravity of their actions and how it will affect their children and everyone’s future.
I think it's all about the money. They probably don't want a traditional marriage but do want children which is why they agreed to this. Also, who knows what he promised them. If he were poor ask yourself if they would do this.
@@thematrix3663 💯 exactly
@@thematrix3663
Did you see where one of the moms got mad when a commenter advised her to get a night nurse because she was complaining on IG that the baby kept her up and she snapped and said "Who was going to pay for it?" and basically said that Nick didn't really financially support her.
But there are men with no money who do this and women allow it. Find the Iyanla Fix My Life show clips with the guy with 30+ kids. It's probably on UA-cam and it was a two part episode. The man's oldest kids were severely affected by his action
Some can't see past the potential cash flow
@@thematrix3663 probably so. Poor @ss men have a lot of children. Some men don’t even have jobs because they trapping but have a lot of children.
Furthermore, a LOT of women selfishly bring these kids in the world, knowing full well that man wants nothing to do with it. And bcuz she can handle the rejection, she expects the child to. In some cases……even offended if the child asks about their father. Those kind disgust me
So she should abort?
Well, sir, there's not much more that can be said. My ex has 9 or 10 kids with multiple women. He had only one other child when we met. He blames me for his downfall. Apparently, leaving an abusive marriage is wrong. Anyway, none of the women he's been with like him. He lied about the number of kids he has, is what I've learned from the later moms. Because they're all spread out, there was no way for them to truly know. I continue to feel glad that I walked away many moons ago. Ladies, do not give any of these plantation bucks the time of day in Wakanda.
I feel like you totally violated wakanda, but I totally get your point 🤣
That's why is so important to talk your time before have kid lady my clock is ticking.
Especially when no other group does this..as a rule ..
There may be a few whites or latinos..but they know kids cost money, and they tend to gave an "honor code""
The MEN get after those who do this
And make the group look bad
I gave a dude a chance like that. He lied about kids he had. One year later he told me he had 7 kids and 7 baby mamas.
Well sis, I hope you're living in peace now. 😘
Yes that’s why it’s so important right now ladies to be celibate and wait for the right one to come along, because these men will LITERALLY pump and DUMP and leave, and do it to the next one with no remorse.
You not lying on this...
Birth control works. People should try it.
I’m so glad it’s a real man speaking on this. I’m a single mother and everything he’s saying is FACTS, this has to stop. Becoming a single mother really changed me and opened up my eyes to all this generational curses, past trauma, mental health and etc we aren’t aware of. We have to keep telling the truth!
💯 If their best friend or brother is a deadbeat , it hits different if they hold them accountable.
I didn't realize Joc and Kendra don't have a child/children together. That's alot to marry into. 8 kids/4 BM's, and Meta. Yikes!
Even if they did have a kid together. He has major issues and so does she by thinking he’s a catch.
Kendra thought she was the exception because she's an educated black woman. She thought that Yung Joc wouldn't treat her the same way she treated all his previous partners. I remember how she treated Karlie when she tried to warn her about Joc. She acted like Karlie was beneath her and that it would never happen to her.
Let’s not forget she’s his 2nd wife.
If she likes it, I love it! Certainly wouldn't be me!
I also think women have more power than they think they have. If they put our foot down and tell a guy you will get nothing without a commitment/MARRIAGE. And dating and counseling comes before that it will be more men stepping up doing things the right way.
Amen
Very true!! The female advantage to choose has been lost & it needs to reemerge.
MARRIAGE CHANGES NOTHING. ALL THESE PLANTATION BUCKS WOULD STILL BE LIKE THIS MARRIED OR NOR
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I stayed on birth control evem while married til i felt we could afford children
In the 80s I encountered this behavior. I was in business school and 1 of the girls was all excited she was pregnant. In my culture you were pregnant you got married. I asked her about marriage and everyone was silent. I knew I said something wrong. I discovered This guy had several girls pregnant at the same time. Had a total of 8 kids at the time. Why? The women would get all expenses paid housing, food stamps, utilities etc. Then on birth certificate states unknown father so he did not have to pay child support. He would take turns staying with different women. This was an entire culture. I was shocked and could not believe it. I am so glad you are addressing this problem. So sad. Children need both parents.
So true, i remembered when I relocated to the US, I also noticed this issue, I was shocked, the girls are happy getting pregnant without marriage even as a teenager. I thought I was in another planet. No dream, no life plans, they are just happy getting all the benefits from the government. Right after having one child , they are happy to get pregnant again by another man. I said God.... this is crazy.
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The way I hollered when he said jump up and down on you😂😂😂
Childless women are in survival mode too
We're expected to babysit because we're child free
Not me😂😂 i avoid men with kids like a plague. They always expect you to be a mommy to him and the kids and that's not me.
Black people take it WAY beyond babysitting. I had to help my mother raise her children, helped my sister raise her daughter and finally said no when another sister had a son and he was about 5 years old.
@@djlivvy46 Going through this now with a cousin. Her mom is raising her daughter and they want ME to coparent. Is that not crazy?! Like I am going back and forth between actually doing it for the sake of the child and walking away 😭 I don’t even have kids!
@@LetGo0007 - don't walk, RUN!
Not being in a relationship with your child's other parent is not an excuse to not take care of them. Animals care more about their kids than a lot of these males do and I'm glad you're not making excuses for them. I don't either.
Facts, same thing I say. They also not on heat like some men. People keep calling men dogs, and that's offending those dogs tbh.
P.E.A.C.E
Also if a woman marries a man with kids she may have to pay child support with her money.
I will never comprehend the idea of being someone’s baby momma let alone being one of multiple women . Unless I mistakenly was the first , which I would be so ashamed that I would move to another country and change my name and my child’s 😅. No lies! It’s so degrading, ghetto, trashy , reckless, low self esteem, low self worth. I just would never understand how a woman would allow herself to be baby momma #3 ,4,5,6 🥴🥴🥴
Facts not even married with no real title. Or being together for so long and the relationship going no where.
Very embarrassing and sad. Especially down the line.
As the only baby mother I am ashamed.
Ig but I'm not related to my child's fathers so I'm technically a mother to my child
I mean accidents happen but when you link with a guy that has not 1 but 2 or more "babymama" what are you really hoping for. A man can have 1-2 kids with his ex and they just grew up and apart but anything after that..Because 1 messy "babymama" is too much for me. I want more for me more for my child more for our community
Watching the interview with Nick’s BM was alarming to say the least. She definitely has some internal issues and is not as confident in the decisions she’s made. You can tell they’re “trained” to not say anything negative about Nick or their arrangement.
Sad right!
It's called a non-disclosure agreement or nda.
He is their bread and butter. He bought 2 houses and paying the notes so they know not to say ish.
@@Sunny-tc3ul why do women put men with money on a pedestal? The behavior of rich men is not just on them, it’s also on the people who condone it. If women didn’t care for money so much, what power will they have?
@@TT-xz5sy Maybe afraid of being alone. Women back than use to tell their daughters “a little bit of a man is better than no man at all”. I’m glad my father taught me better. That mentality gives I have low-self esteem and I’ll take anything in life.
My son's father is one of them. Of course I didn't know about all his kids until it was too late. He also had his father who is a military vet in his life growing up. Had a scholarship to college too he threw away for fast money
I swear, people ignore the bad behavior of people who had both of their parents. Even the ones who had great parents still turn out like this.
Of course you found out too late .... who'd have thought otherwise 🤷🏽♂️
@@TT-xz5sy Thank you because they are so quick to blame single parent household
@@empowerment_007 my dad lied about having children, after my mother had me that’s when she found out. My older sister lives in another state, so it was easy to pull off.
@@TT-xz5sy 4.1m single Black mothers in the US. What percentage do you think are in that specific situation?
I hate to say this but, how can BM think this is a Culture, Norm, or is ok to be out here doing degenerate things but, claims there’s TO MANY SINGLE BABY MAMAS!!! Honestly, I don’t hear or see WM, out here ADVERTISING DEGENERATE BEHAVIOR and HONORING IT as a BADGE OF HONOR!!!
That's why Black women need to divest and date out. Or be single with your dog or cat...
This notion that there is an abundance of good, quality BM and BW just can't seem to find them....is insidious ass lie.
Majority of BM is dysfunctional, degenerate, immoral, unethical, immature....they make horrible romantic partners. And the so-called unicorns...alot of them are married to non-Black women...or dead.
The few who isn't...how many are there for every BW?
Divest
Something has to shake in this community or we are doomed.
Thank you for speaking on this. I grew up with an "uncle" (godmom's brother) who has 13 kids by 9 women. The dysfunction is crazy, you can only behave this way in our modern society if you are empty inside. People have to own their emptiness and fill it, rather than acting out with irresponsible behavior
Please say this loud enough for the people in the back!
These dudes are nothing more than modern-day "bucks" and this behavior is beyond trifling!!
I'm a great grandmother and I'm facing all kind of difficulty like this. These people having children and bringing the responsibility back to grandmother. I have talked preached untill I'm so tired of talking. I feel so sorry for my 10 year old great grand son. My heart is broken 💔
All you are saying is so true. I worry everyday about my daughter and son, I am a single mother. I try to keep them in activities or sports to keep them busy. Do the best I can. Their “dad” turned out to be a closet gay man. No I had no idea soon as I found out the depths of it I left. My daughter was 11/2 and my son 9 months. Yes I regret meeting that man. I have my children, but not the ideal way I wanted for them. I would of preferred a traditional family for them to grow up in. I will forever have that on me. Everything you put out is always spot on, I listen and I just take the advice as of my current. Thank you for speaking the truth.
This is how I've felt for the longest about my daughters dad, since I was pregnant with her it's a feeling I can't shake off.
@@loyalandkindsunshine3382 it’s more common than you think. I’m retired military, and it’s almost a hidden fetish, if it’s even hidden anymore. If you have a feeling do just a little digging and maybe you will find out. There’s apps they go on to meet others and have sex. Maybe he has a hidden fetish toy box you don’t know of. Look at the closest friends, sometimes they know. Also don’t have intercourse they do all this unprotected. My ex is into trans. He hides it not even his family know. He meets random strangers in hotels rooms then goes home, and pretends to be straight. I have no clue why, why make children your not going to help raise. Just come out and live your true identity, don’t lie to others. This lifestyle is more accepted now.
@@gilda1807 wow going through the friends and family sounds like a full time job. it's great that you did your detective work to protect yourself from catching an incurable std since it is being reported that BW are the growing numbers with HIV so I am really proud of you for finding out and leaving! There's just too many gullible women that will know they're sleeping with a bisexual man and still risk their health just to say they have someone or they're married. But for me, I personally no longer have anything to do with my daughters dad since he gave up his parental rights of his daughter by not showing up to court hearings and I changed my phone number so there's that lol
@@loyalandkindsunshine3382 you’re lucky you don’t have to deal with him, I’m waiting on this one to eventually fizzle out since he barely contacts them anyway. I didn’t really do detective work I was just on the computer one day when he was deployed, and I saw an email that he was responding to a Craigslist sex add. I was disgusted and from then I mentally left the relationship. I went and found a lawyer soon after and got all the info I needed.
@@gilda1807 Not a Craigslist sex add... yikes you did good for checking. And yes girl omg the horror stories I could tell you in such a short amount of time.. I never would've imagined someone could do so much damage in just three years !!! My family warned me, my guts warned me but I didn't listen !!! I gave that bum more than enough rope to hang himself and he did not show up to court because he knew he was screwed and thank god I am finally on my road to healing.
One of the main reasons I am child-free is because I know that no matter what society will place however my child turns out as my responsibility even if the dad is there even if I'm married. For those of y'all yelling about marriage this is a society that literally does not care about commitments or fidelity. Not even to say that there is no perks to being married but for a woman please list them out, especially for a child free woman.
I think similarly.
I don't worry about society, I worry about what God says. Oh. And I am not married and childless. Without Jesus, being in this state would be empty.
If I have to start over after high school...
I would choose not to have kids...
I was 18 and naive when I got into a relationship...
I can’t agree more . We as woman need to stop accepting breadcrumbs.
I want to thank you for speaking this Truth because it means so much to our young people in the black community to hear this. The generational curses that are on the black people need to broken but it only seems like we are getting worse because they are promoting filth and sin. WHEN DOES IT STOP AND WE TURN FROM OUR WICKED WAYS? I suggest everyone take a closer look at the bible verses 2 Timothy 3:1-7 and really study those verses.
Stop, by talking against ganfstah rap music ..its trash
They even have a woman named glorilla
It confuses kids when they hear the n word all over and the disrespect of black women
It teaches other non black to do the same...and kids thinking it's ok to use n word to each other
Studying 2 tim 3:7 does help as well
Fr ❤
I believe that it's no generational curse its a lack of responsibility. U should kno if u don't own up to ur responsibility there will be consequences. None of us is perfect. Come on now, I can see one mistake but making a career out of it?
People need to stop looking at celebrities for guidance on how to live their lives. These people have been placed their for the black community to implode. They may be cash rich but morality poor, and in fact trust that they don't worship God Jehovah. They do worship other gods and I am not talking about money. By their fruit you shall know them.
Great assessment. Both men and women must make FAMILY a priority in our communities. Meet, cultivate meaningful relationships. Marriage. The value system must be restored, value your bodies, who you let in, who you enter. Men and women. ❤️
He is right. Although I am a single mother due to the divorce from my ex husband who is a monster in disguise. These are facts. Thanks for the content.
Speak🙌 I grew up without a father figure and it follows you until you know you need healing
It will never cease to amaze me when black men grow up and continuously create broken homes and children when they grew up in these same broken homes and as these same broken children 🤦🏾♀️
It’s always gone be “momma baby, daddy maybe🤷🏽♀️ no matter if provide or not!
Brother, the honesty of this whole thing is what alot of us know, but are affaid to talk about. Simply put our culture allows this, it didn't always, but now it does now. Too many black guys are proud to be fathers, but never think or plan on supporting the child, that's made easier when you're not the custodial parent. If our culture celebrates guys with many baby mamas and the women that have no immediate problems with him and keep coming, how is this discouraging to younger guys growing up? Too many black women/girl are willing to have a child planning on 1st-family support, 2nd-gov't support, or 3rd-child support to help raise the (child)ren. Marrige is not usually an option for the guys, and it's not an immediate option for the woman/girl, to complicate matters, marrige without gainfully employed parents, educated parents, or trade-school trained parents isn't going to work or last either. I can actually see the game of some women to have a child by a high net worth man, but I don't understand it when it's a pokie or ray-ray that never shown any willingness or potential to support or provide a child/family. I do remember and know that the genetics of the guys plays a role somethings, whatever the reason for having a child with a dusty own it and be honest about your decision to have that child, don't bash the guy. I hear alot of excuse about a conspiracy by the gov't to keep black men out of the home from alot of "educated" black men. We blame alot of things except our culture.
Great content u talkin bout that real the things that matter such a relief from all that redpill alpha male crap wish u n yo fam the best
this is the first video of yours i'm watching, i hope you are who i think you are! the community needs voices like yours!
I agree and the women with low self-esteem keep letting them pump and dumb for a paycheck is the dumbest thing
Thank you for having the necessary conversations. Your voice is desperately needed!! I don't see enough men talking about the dysfunction and straight up hypocrisy of these choices. On the one hand, single mothers are destroying the Black community, but on the other, these celebrity men (and the women who allow this) are creating single parent households!! Make it make sense!! There's also this assumption that they can all afford it - but for how long? The children will grow older and eventually need more, what will they do then?!
The problem has ALWAYS been Black men and their inability to protect, provide, and profess.
Don't let these Kangz with no Kingdom tell you different.
Unless these men are raping these women or these adult baby mamas were born the literal day before they bussed it open for a celebrity, I would say they weren't naive and got exactly what they were looking for.
How are single women destroying the black community? Where are the black men who abandon their kids and why aren’t you holding them accountable? Anyone who blames black women is a big part of the problem.
@@angrycannibal6625 Where are the women who require a man wear a condom before they "buss it open" for him? Why is it an avg of 1mil black babies born each year out of wedlock, meaning, no structured family or household in place? In Future's case, why did 7 other BW decide to let him enjoy their bodies with no protection even after he was already considered a dead-beat father?
@@angrycannibal6625: Hey, I can see how you misinterpreted my comment - let me clarify: what I meant to say was that, there’s contradictory messages online in regards to parenting in the black community. On the one hand, people say that single mothers are the problem but on the other hand, you have black men like Nick Cannon making women single mothers and nobody says much about it. I definitely didn’t mean to demean or disparage single mothers or make them responsible for the dysfunction in our community.
Hope that makes more sense 🙏🏽
Wise words..The mothers of these children may regret their choices later. I hope they are smart with the $ from the affluent baby fathers
I'm married my husband and I don't have any kids yet. I just finally watched your video and I use to skip it and watching this video and the one you made about Keke Palmer oh yeah you got my respect. Experience comes with great wisdom if you welcome it. #SUBSCRIBED 🤗❤🙏🏾
Thank you
BeCaUSE tHeY'rE hIgH vALuE?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Whaaat, a high value black man holding his fellow brothers accountable there's atleast one of you that actually exists??? No freaking way thankyou sir whoever you are.
Thank you Sir for revealing & sharing the truth, being painfully and brutally honest and for displaying strength & courage on this podcast.
Sincerely,
a single mother
Why do these women keep having their babies,
Children pay for the sins of their fathers....this is in the bible....so glad you addressed this and why are black women so eager to accommodate black men
Most, not all, but most Black women are Black male worshippers.
Pickmeishas and Mammies...large majority of Black women.
Pickmeishas and Mammies are ZERO self-respect...so they choose to date and procreate with Black males.
I will never understand the baby mama or baby daddy culture in America. Granted it happens across the world as well. To me it’s a curse to lay with a partner or several and impregnate women with children you have no intention of being a part of their life. I’ve managed employees who are in this predicament and I wholeheartedly feel bad for their children. They act irresponsible and blame the women for being so needy about child support but are the worst when it comes to work ethic and providing. It’s a sad cycle! In a business it tells me they lack self control and accountability very irresponsible!
The men are sick and the women are too . An old time saying "every tick have them hoe a bush" . As long as the sick people stay with each other Idc. Their offspring however will just have to deal with their traumas like the rest of us later in life.
Thank you 🤴🏾. All of us and our children deserve the best, start any relationship with that mindset. Run when you see the first red flag.
I notice the rise in young men unaliving women that are pregnant or had a baby for them. I don't think they thought this through all the way before they regretted their decisions. Via "BlackGirl Unlost" "Leah Gordone" UA-cam Channels. This single mother pandemic is horrible and I don't wish it on no woman.
I am so thankful for you starting this channel. God knew best. Prayers and love go out to you my brother. So proud of you speaking up for the black community. You tell it like it is.
well ive been saying it since baby like nr 33 was announced 💥HE'S HAVING ALL THESE KIDS SO HE HAS OPTIONS FOR ORGAN DONORS FOR WHEN HIS KIDNEYS START FAILING, THESE WOMEN ARE ALL THE SAME PHENOTYPE AND I BET HE MAKES THEM TAKE BLOOD TESTS BEFOREHAND TO TEST FOR HIGHEST POTENTIAL COMPATIBILITYYYYY💥
But what if the mothers don't want their kid harvested for organs?
Chile....I've been saying this shit!!!
He's NOT having children out love. This about him having his own private organ donation clinic.
Sick
Wooooowwww!!!! 🤯
Only something a true narcissist would do
This was great! Thanks for addressing this. This is so rampant in our community...
Finally someone says something. Back in the day it 2 families across down. Now it's 5-10 families across the nation.
I hope bm keep speaking up against these terrible celebs.
No matter if it's 2 or 10 families across town it's still the same...horrible.
@@shayemoore No...no...it's not the same. Both are evil. But not the same.
I'm glad its a black man speaking on this because a lot of people think money will fix everything and it doesn't. Dick Cannon maybe what folks are aspiring to be to but best believe in about 20 years or when he passes we will get a few think pieces on him as a father from his children. Look at Al B Sure he only has 3 children and Quincy came out a few years ago calling his father a deadbeat and recounting his experiences as a children wondering where he was. Thankfully he had Diddy fill in the role of a father figure (his words) but there are so many young boys who don't have that. Then those same young boys go searching what what they didn't have see how hard it is and either do what their father did and leave to have more children or step up when really what folks need is a therapist to help them work though that issue.
Lmfao @ Dick
Men gotta be wise when having sex.. my ex’s were men that wanted to get me pregnant just because.. I’ll wait for my husband 💍
If you waiting for Black husband...best of luck. Patience of Job is required.
I agree with Cat. I love my black folks, but there are way too many BM who has many personal issues, aren’t emotionally available, or are about playing games. And there’s way too many non-black men who are willing to commit and be serious literally on the first date. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
These Men mentality seems to be, like, I grew up without A Father, so ALL these kids they having, gonna be alright, they probably be like, "I made it, they will be Fine, their Mothers got this", like mines did, they just give the Mothers some Money and keep living their best Lives, with no responsibilities raising those kids DAILY. Sad.
I think it's more out spite..."I didn't have father so I'm gonna make sure my kids don't have one either"
EXCELLENT video!!! I have a family me who needs to see this video ASAP because they are affecting all of our lives. THANK YOU for this
Why ?!
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To be honest, I'm 56 and never had a man impregnate me. I wouldn't have it! I lost my virginity at 36 and he did use a condom. I had a hysterectomy in 2007 and four years later had a STD. I since recovered. It's important to stand up for yourself as a woman to not be suckered by a man who doesn't want a relationship, and if he is honest with you that he is messing around with other women and having babies, don't get involved. If he uses a condom, that is up to you. My sweetheart has grown kids and grandkids and great grandchildren. I'd be caught dead if I have a baby from him along with his other kids from different women. I have to be careful because I don't have kids which is a good thing.
I agree that this culture needs to stop being promoted. Sadly I think a lot of men and woman think it is normal to be the 2nd, 3rd, or 4th + baby daddy or baby momma. It needs to be seen as unusual.
My brother just married his 3rd baby mama. He's the 4th baby father to his new wife.
They living out in homeless shelter...because...the naker can't support himself let alone a woman and children.
Thx God I NEVER wanted to be a Black man's baby mother.❤
@@catmouse2882 Sorry to hear about your brother. Good job to you for avoiding that mess.
Such a WISE man and I will be a subsriber forever! I have made bad decisions in my life in dealing with broken people, but I'm learning, working on myself and praying that I gain discernment. Thank you brother. Just got out of tumultuos relationship with a man who only wants to MAKE BABIES. I wouldve been his THIRD bm! Keep up with these videos, a lot of people need to hear this!
These irresponsible people are not aware the conflicts they're creating in to our community. Just 20 minutes of sexual activity has caused a lifetime of pain and hardship to families. It will affect the whole family. Everyone is affected. Moms dads auntie grannies grandads just because of 2 irresponsible people. My heart is so full right now. I see my great grand kids suffering because a lack of accountability. I'm fed up.
Thank you for speaking up honestly and telling it how it is
I want children so bad but alot of men aren't traditional and don't want to get married and I won't lower my standards to let someone make me a baby mama. Most of them don't want marriage yet they blame black women for it. I didn't have the best father and I seen what my mama went through and I refuse to bring children in the world that way
My mother grew up in a 2 parent home. But her parent’s marriage wasn’t stable. Grandfather wasn’t a leader, so my mother became a single mom. I said I don’t want to be a single mom because of what I’ve seen her and her sisters went through. My sister is now a single mom. My older cousins are single moms. My mother told me that’s there’s nothing wrong with being a single mom. I said wow.
King Solomon was spared because his father, King David did right by God but King Solomon’s children were cursed because he did evil in the sight of God.
What we do NOW will effect generations after us. Unfortunately, some couldn’t care less about their kids or future generations. 🤷🏾♀️ 🤦🏾♀️
Thank you for being one of the brave, moral ones, Shumaker! Sending love, strength, and light your way!
U are one of the BEST on social media. U are making an impact on lives in a positive way and I thank u so very much. Im proud of u.
My daddy got 9 kids by 8 women. None of us have a bond with each other, smh
Because as we say where I'm from.. they wutless, just sticking their things everywhere with no regard for repercussions, knowing they have no intention of being responsible
I approve this message coming from a man that is a critical thinker and experience will make you a critical thinker! Stay humble my friends but also spit facts!
Just discovered your channel today by accident. Great content, excellent commentary. You're a welcome alternative to the Red Pill, Black incel, misogynoir spouting clowns on this platform. It does sadden me that by looking at the comments, your audience is mostly female. I wish that more men would gravitate towards you and other positive, thoughtful channels.
FACTS.🙋🏽♀️Born into this Life’s story.
Couldn't have said any of this any better myself!
Then they will get mad and hate the children when these women make them take responsibility and pay child support for these children.
Tryna win the baby olympics Lmaooo
Will you be giving commentary on the Shanquella Robinson story? There is a message in there for all young women. We need to keep this story going until justice is served.
Kids are expensive lol if they have money then more power to them, I know I'm not having anymore children. Nope I got alot of catching up on life to do"
Namaste 🙏
Thank you for speaking on this.
#CynthiaGisRIGHT
Real question should also be why the woman keep going to these men,but yeah, I agree non the less.
Thank you brother for addressing this issue.
Thank u! 👏🏽Yes! Kids absolutely pay for their parents sins
My sperm donor isn't my peace🛑.
Yes there is more to raising children. Its not just money. Its time efforts shows up cheering reinforcing peer pressure. Its a daily chore
Thank you brother
Yep what he said … thank you sir
Alot of men don't have a problem with having kids but don't want marriage. Then end up on child support
It's all *Black* *Power*
Till its time to take care of the *kids* ‼
Very well said young man!
That was my big brother. My mother is a widow and had to raise males. She had the hardest time with my big brother. And he ended up with two kids out of wedlock. Me andy little brother know better
Keep the truth coming!
Thank you brother 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I blame the women too they be knowing it takes two
It takes two to tango. Im 27; no kids and will not allow myself to sacrifice my health and life to bring a baby in the world for a man that would never commit his life to me. I’m not going for the okey-doke or settling for less
You and Kountry Wayne favor each other. Anywho keep teaching man.
But the mentalities are worlds apart
Unsure the Age of this this man but he is rare and wise ❤