If Introverts Were Completely Honest...
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
- What if introverts were completely honest?
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When i have to call someone.
My mind: PLEASE DON'T PICK UP PLEASE DON'T PICK UP PLEASE DON'T PICK UP PLEASE DON'T PICK UP
So true 😅
So true 🤭🤭
So true cuz we don't know what to say
Even when I’m calling for pizza they pick up
Me: damn it
Mood...
"I've been mentally rehearsing it for about three weeks. Everything went better than expected". story of my life
Mine too 😳🤭
The build-up is the worst part. Sweet relief when it went well and is over.😓
Relatable
Semi-relatable; It usually goes worse than expected for me 😬
Even when it goes badly, it's still a relief.
"sorry I'm still thinking about that stupid thing I said earlier and even though I know you probably won't remember its going to haunt me until I die."
That stupid thing I said to someone I don't know anymore and can't remember his name about 20 years ago. Yeah, that.
Yeah...That thought is mutual
same thoughts
That is really me hahaha
omg so relatable😂😭
As an introvert, I love it when someone talks much. That means i don't have to freak out and think what I should say.
When you're with a chatterbox, you don't have to fill awkward silences. There are no silences.
me too!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
TOO RIGHT lol !!
Same here
Or, why can’t this person just follow the script of my rehearsed conversation ... jeez 🤣
@@elises8825 Nah, it would just feel like, I am omniscient, I predicted it perfectly!
Aaltje Jenneke honestly thooooo. that'd be beautiful
L.M.A.O.!....T.Y. ....really needed a pick me up today!
Omg! Yesss!
Cassandra Calley I’m glad it made you feel a bit better!
When you prepare the whole conversation in your head but the person you’re talking with doesn’t follow the dams script.
So damn true 😹
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
The conversation in my mind is quite big but I just say 2 or 3 words from that script 😂
so true XD
Ikr!
People tell us we’re too quiet when in reality we can never get a word in because they won’t stop talking 🙃
I'm extraverted on the tests but I relate to this to some degree
And it's also rude to tell someone there quite a new friend recently said to me are you quiet when your with your family😠
Because extroverts feel awkward in silence and desperately want you to talk! It's a catch-22
Exactly!
@@JaredJonesAZ Same same but different!
As an introvert I love it when expected visitors call to cancel.
Omg! I'm secretly hoping they will from the moment I reluctantly committed myself.😁😆😅🤣
Now THAT I can relate to. I didn't want to go somewhere HUGELY social once. So while my ex was in the shower, I called the phone company and said I think there is something wrong with my line, could they call me back? When the phone rang, I called out "IIIIII'll get it!" And I answered, said it worked, thank you, it was the cord and hung up with the telco. Then went to the shower and said apologetically that my unit called (Army) and said we may have to go to the field this weekend so don't go far. He bought it. I felt only a little bad. He was a mean guy.
@@C.Church 😅🤭
@@blossomslaceteaandcakeatch6872 lol yeah. It was an entire weekend of minimum-privacy socializing and the clock was ticking loudly in my head until time to get in the car.. 😩 I got desperate 😂
Ok, then just don’t invite them in the first place?
"I'm clearly disinterested, how can you keep going?"
I call this "being held verbally hostage." Literally my hell.
I'm not an introvert but I have a couple friends that do this and every time I get irritated and hurt like, "You don't care at all if anyone is enjoying themselves, as king as you are?"
Yet still can't bring myself to tell them to stop. TT-TT
The worst is when you start to become relaxed and start to feel like "hey this isn't that bad I might start contributing" but every opportunity you get they talk over you again and again so you feel bed now cuz you felt hopeful and now you back to where you start with the hmm and uh huh feeling like oh god wish I didn't come here why did I think this time would be different from every other time il wait another 20 minutes so it doesn't look suspicious that I WANT TO LEAVE
I can relate to that. But introverts supposed to be good listeners, right? I don't sure if I'm a good listener haha
@@holanoche14 I don't think I'm lying when I say that Introvert know all the tea in family and friends groups
One time my aunt talked for an hour straight while I was stuck in a long fair ride line with her... _it was torture_
I don't have a good memory, but I still think about the embarrassing things I said years ago. 🙃
@@smalltownvvitch I'd love to see that face! 😂
I don’t have enough storage on my mental hard drive to remember all the embarrassing things I’ve said. 🤯😂
saaaame, and i hate it.
Wait...I don't understand, under the video it said that it was uploaded 48 minutes ago as well as the comments but some of the comments say 2 days ago.....or it just might be UA-cam being drunk again😂😂😂
@@smalltownvvitch 😂😂ofc I'm not drunk, I was saying UA-cam was cuz the joke and all😅😅😅but thanks for telling me I was confused😅
When someone introduces themselves to you but you were too busy rehearsing how to say your name and you completely didn’t hear their name...
A trick I’ve noticed that helps me is to say their name back to them right after they introduce themselves. For example “Hi Natalie I’m Jake” then you would say “Jake, nice to meet you” seems to work very well for me.
@@neonpaintsplash that’s a good idea. I’m gonna start doing that.
@@neonpaintsplash I don't know if I would recommend that 😂it can open up opportunities for all sorts of new fun little bs that can go wrong such as
"Hi, I'm Natalie, what's your name?" - "Hi Natalie, I'm Jake, nice to meet you - what's your name"
Example 2 : "Hi Natalie, I'm Jake!" "Hello Jake, I'm Natalie" (when it's clear they already knew your name)
Twins lol
Haha, this certainly happens. 😁😁😁
Being an introvert is what I imagine a spy must feel like, trying to appear like he fits in and belongs there, and hoping he isn't discovered.
This hit me too hard
THIS!!!!
dude ! that's SO TRUE !
OMG SOO TRUEE
That's so accurate you must be an introvert too
“Is there any way for me to get out of this conversation because me nodding and saying uh-huh for 20 minutes clearly isnt working.” I SWEAR THIS IS THE MOST RELATABLE THING EVER
I was doing the “slowly backing away towards a door while nodding and saying “uh huh” the other day. 😂
Is there a way we’re supposed to make it stop? I thought I was supposed to act interested no matter what.
@@jellyfishi_ I hear you. But only problem is...what if their answer is a 20 minute life story and they can't answer the question until they have told that story. If I interrupt and push for the answer, that's pushy, but If I wait and listen to their entire life story, that's ingenuine for me. Is there a way out of the conversation labyrinth?
Yessss
@@rachelw3533 Well, that's an if You're really not sure how it'll happen, but you got to try or you'll never move from that spot.
Them: 'You're so quiet '
Me-I wish you were too...
And then what do You do.
Stare at each other? How fun
@@gabrielsebastianelhagezote1486 you are clearly not an introvert :D if so, you would know how to enjoy a silent company
YOU GOT ME!
@@majorbrightside1435 I'm 90% introverted and I like silent company. As long as it's not
1 on 1 cause then it gets awkward and thoughts start running thru my head, like: _omg am I making this awkward? Do they think it's awkward? What do I say? When do I talk?_
Yo am I just introverted or is this social anxiety????
😆😆😆😆😆😆 Naresh
The worst is when people ask why you're so quiet. Its like what do you want me say?
exactly, it happens to me a lot
I just give them a menacing stare and threaten them to leave me alone or I will punch them in the gut or something and it works pretty well.
"you're too loud"
@@jotarokujo806 That's actually perfect, I spent years overthinking random stuff and I never thought of that.
Yes. Please just let me listen to you, I just don't want to talk about myself with you, and don't stay with me all the day waiting for me to speak, or I'll be exhausted and craving for alone time more than ever-
I'm naturally introverted, to fit into society I faked being an extrovert. Most draining years of my life. Now older and wiser, I do as I please, keep my circle small and important.
💯👏👏
I get it. Trying to pretend to be an extrovert is absolutely exhausting.
I relate to this so much🙏🏾
Relatable 😇
Relatee.. Mirroring extros waa the most exhausting and confusing thing i ever done.
"I'm not even sure what your name is" this happen to me A LOT lol
I cant remember names to save my life. I can get faces down, like I recognize their faces and know what relationship I have with them, but I get lost when it comes to names.
I had this friend and I had them for a class and I forgot their name for a whole month so to get her attention I was like “hey,” 😭😂👍they’re really nice
When that happens, I force myself to cheerfully smile and ask their name. Usually they'd be like "aw man, how can you forget?" Sort of thing but they don't get upset. Whilst some think I'm joking and keep talking for the next 3 hours. Even after they leave I won't even know their name and I pray to never see them again.
@@thedarkguardian6669 This was me all the time in school...and pretty much everywhere else in life.
Same I talk to the same group of people at lunch but I forgot there names and are scared to ask them it's been two weeks
Well , as an introvert ,we don't talk too much, but we do overthink like crazy
So it is kinda like you talk mostly in your head if you think about it. So you talk in a different way. I think that’s neat
The more you think about thing, the more of higher perspective you acheve, its about being smart, they don't like smarter ones, that's how we learn't to be even more..silent.;D Vhoh vhoh vhoooh. Hello there, 1 procent.
Omg yesss
@@daveshusband2606 thats so accurate bruh
@@daveshusband2606 Same
"Is there anybody who can save me right now?"
Relate much😁
yess same xD
yup
same
I learned how to control this crap, I simple slap my face and say out loud WAKE UP
And yes I relate to this but my parents throughout my childhood always told me that I'm shy, but I knew I wasn't and nobody trusted me, until to this day they're still abusing me for this, because they can't understand me
You missed one, how about, "I've been listening to you talk non-stop for about an hour now. Did it ever cross your mind that I might have something to say, like a sentence or two? You don't even really need me here to talk, just look into that mirror and keep talking, you'll be fine."
Yes! So often its like people question why I don't talk much but then there is often no space for me to say anything even when I want to. Don't complain if you're not even gonna give me a chance to say anything. Lol
Praise!!! I'm sick of people telling me their whole life without giving me a chance to talk! And when I FINALLY can, they interrupt me after 5 seconds to talk about their own experiences again... I can't even recall the last day I had an equal-time conversation with someone... Can't they realize I ALSO want to talk about my life and passions once in a while?
I think about being more bold with them from now on... Good luck to you and everyone else like us!
Lol, my sister! Once when I was on the phone with her at Sam's Club, she barely let me get a word in. 45 minutes! I went through checkout and just put the phone down. The clerk gave me a funny look and I said, "She'll never notice." She didn't. I picked up the phone and she was still yacking away.
What we want to say: *inserts this video*
What we actually say: *nod and mhmm*
Yep.
exactly
And another thing i say alot is yes or ok
@@animefreaknalu4497 or if you're really going out there, "I understand or I totally get it"
Yup. Add in a few “oh wow”’s and fake laughs😅
My internal monologues have finally been exposed
Frank James knows too much...It's too dangerous to be left alive.
@@Adri9570 You spoke the truth ! let's send him to the dark realm 🤡🤡
This is a force that must never be shown to the public again... It's too dangerous
There are actually people who can read internal monologues so beware.
😂
friend: “What are you doing Friday?”
Introvert: “I am very busy doing absolutely nothing.”
XD
"Sorry I have to watch over my sister I can't come to anything u might invite me to." is literally what I say to anyone when they invite me to do something with them or are trying to ask.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes😂😂
So true 😆 that’s me
“I’m clearly disinterested; how can you keep going?” I felt this in my soul. People who talk on and on with zero awareness of the other person are my pet peeve.
Lack the ability to read social cues.
I hate it when I say a million "Man that's crazy"s and "wow"s and I nod every half second and they still keep talking.
My brother always does this he'll go on and on and after about like 5 minutes I check out and stop listening.
Being an introvert is wanting to be invited but not wanting to go anywhere. Being lonely at home but not wanting anyone in your space unless you really like them. And even if you really like them, you want them to go home soon.
- Daniel Radcliffe
This is soo me lmaoo spot on im just a quiet guy with a heart that has a drop on you fools 😂😂
This makes me like Daniel Radcliffe even more than Harry Potter
@@jesshern2701 nobody cares
Or just text the person and all the hassle of seeing them is saved!
That just described me perfectly.
We introverts live in our own minds, and its pretty darn comfortable there
edit: okay sometimes it's the opposite, but I was talking about the solace we gain from living in our 'own world'
Also we want lonely life with our own house and love rain
@@wisenotwise2676 and listening to lofi music
I mean yes as an Introvert I can agree but not always.
@@wisenotwise2676 I can't relate, I guess there is a spectrum. I don't think I'm as introvert as y'all
@@wisenotwise2676 exactly
Nobody: “Hey are you free tomorrow to hang out?”
In my head: ‘technically yes but I have planned to sleep and do nothing because I’m tired of people so I don’t want to hang out even though I could’
What I say: “no sorry I’m super busy you know bummer I wish I could...”
MEEEE
This literally happened to me some couple minutes ago ;----;
Then they go like : “no worries we’ll wait for you to finish that task you said” or “no problem we will go to keep you company” and literally become best problem solvers to any excuse you come up with
I am not busy instead no one is asking me out
Yes, me :(
I am an introvert. And I'm stupid enough to try to socialize. It drains me of all my energy quickly
Yes! It is exhausting, which a lot of people don't get. I get home from work and even though I may not have done much physical labor I'm burned out just from all the socializing I had to do and just don't want to go anywhere.
Yeah…
Nothing wrong with that
So long as you are left happy as well as drained
I can socialize if I get a month or more to prepare(usually more)
But even if I get that time to prepare myself to socialize I still need to get away after 30 minutes to an hour to two hours, depending how big the group is and how much I have to socialize in the social situation.
We live in our heads more than the outside world...and I like it that way.
It's nice to have a world of our own, but only sometimes our minds can be tiring
The outside world is dangerous o-o
I like it too, but people always keep on telling me that I should get out of my own world and face reality;;; hate when people say that
yea me too
@@SkylerDemness I don't think that's related to being an introvert, that's something different, I don't really care if you're using escapism but sometimes that can hurt the people around you, one of my friends lied for a very long time before he told me the truth, if it were anyone else but me it would have ended on sour note.
However even then I barely talk to him anymore, mostly because I'm bored of what he has to say, but in my head I think "it can't be the right thing to stop talking to people because you're bored of them right?"
But I'm also at the point where I just don't care anymore.
Me: *Makes a tiny bit of mistake
Also me: "I wanna die, so i'm going home"
I know that struggle.
Ishigami 100
Lmaoooo love is war reference
Ughhh......I literally raised my own hand and said the wrong answer.....I still think about it after 2 years....
Same that is me All. The. Time. It's terrible.
I find it funny how when us introverts are almost cold and unresponsive to someone's conversation, they interpret it as being good listeners😂
HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAH TRUE
Or. It could go the other way.
@@friskypony7436 wym?
You'd be attentively listening and the other person thinks that you're being cold and unresponsive
@@friskypony7436 oh okkkk, this doesn't often happen to me lol 😂
"Mentally prepared for this conversation" hit home hard 😂
As an Introvert, YES. I hate when people ask me to "speak up" or "why are you so quiet."
No one car s that you're an introvert.
And then you get like half a sentence out before they cut over you...
My teacher forced me into a play, then I had to dance with a popular kid.
@@stealthyblade8993 what the hell is car s?? 🤣
Get your spellings correct first....
@@stealthyblade8993 hello there extrovert
No one cares
And stop wasting time being here and delete your comment
The first one... man, I felt that. Like
"I got nothing. I really have no idea what you said. I want to ask you again but I'm afraid you'll think I'm an idiot so I'll just play along, nod, laugh a little, and ask you, 'and then?' with a smile of someone who is soooo willing to listen. I'm a good actor."
Dats sooooo meee !!! 😅😂
Me too I have perfected the acting so well I'm always believed to be actually listening and understanding
This is so me
All went good until they ask my opinion...
That "blah blah blah" in the background at 1:03 is exactly what we hear while we're thinking to ourselves "How/why is this person still talking to me!?" That was spot on. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
processing every way to get out of the situation tactfully
I don’t want to minimize how anyone might be struggling mentally and emotionally during the pandemic, but all of the advisories and lockdown orders are the justifications for being alone with myself I’ve been desperately craving my entire life. I wouldn’t call myself an anxious person, but all of the examples in this video feature pretty regularly in my world. Because of the way we’ve had to isolate ourselves, I’ve been able to ease my foot off the awkward pedal.
I totally understand what you mean, and also by god you are attractive.
This is so true! I was the only one of my friends who didn't want the lockdown to end. I felt no need to leave the house at all.
@@italianstallion701 oh, why thank you! I brushed my hair in that picture.
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@@smug3311 💯 %%
"I'm clearly disinterested. How can you keep going?" 😂😂😂😂
Can't relate more😂😂😂
They clearly have no intuitive body language sense.
I don't even hide my facial expressions and I've literally thought as someone is non-stop talking -how can you not read my annoyed face right now??? Are you blind?? Lack of self awareness I guess.
@@FamilieVideos86 been there, done that. XD I agree!
I can relate to this sometimes but other times I infodump a lot. As an autistic person it’s hard to read social cues so I don’t know if I’m going on and on about a SpIn.
ua-cam.com/video/_K1ic7C0FtM/v-deo.html hahaha
And everyone tells us to be more social, but nobody tells extrovert people to shut up just for a little while
Amen
bravo, BRAVO
Oh they do. They just don’t tell you that 😁
I’m an introvert mother to an extrovert son. Dear God, I can’t hear my thoughts anymore.
Monika Suszek My condolences. My daughter who lives with me is fairly introverted but about once a week she appears in my room wanting to tell me something. At length. Always on her timetable. As I’m enjoying my Netflix binge. 🙄
A random guy: “Why are you so quiet?”
Me: “I like listening better”
Also me: *doesn’t have any idea what the other person is saying.*
i respond like "idk"
but really i wanna say "i am antisocial pls stop talking to me pls pls pls omg"
😂i use that too! "Im a good listener"
Too 😂❤️
I just say that i have nothing to talk about😃
I am always saying that I am a good listener :-D
I don't like the attention of saying the goodbyes at parties when leaving so I try to leave without saying goodbye. Anyone else? This is mainly at family parties cuz it's easier than at other parties.
☝🏼
I just yell one bye to everyone as I'm going out the door 😅, and then hurry as fast as I can.
You need a hole in the floor like at concerts and you’re suddenly whisked away !!!
Meeeee
At least your family noticed you at parties. I can duck out and they'd never even know I was there or had left.
"I still have no idea what you just said. So, I'm just gonna nod, and say 'yeeeeaah..'"
I'm related 🤦🤣
I live on this🤣🤣
Sometimes I like people who talk to much, that way I don’t need to say anything
This comment is so relatable for me, it’s insane.
i agree but it also depends on the person. if they are the irritating kind, i'm plotting my escape
Same!! Haha
ayyy
That's the problem. If you don't say anything, you will be stuck with that person for as long as this person wants. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about.
My mother-in-law is the most talkative person I know, I've been stuck in her monologue for literally 3 hours straight, even though I'm clearly not interested in anything she said.
I love talking to people online, even in voice chat. But the second I meet someone in person all brain functions shut down in panic.
I can talk to anyone online but with barely any people I know. I feel pressured when around somebody. That's relatable.
Lord Ecramox this is Corpse Husband lol
SAME
Truth
I can't, I get nervous when some people tell me to put my mic on or to bring up voice chat.
The mentally rehearsing part is so relatable lol. I remember going the extra mile by writing a damn script just so I knew what to say in a phone call
Preparing is good. But trying to follow the pre-rehearsed scenario 100% must be a clinical diagnosis.
Frank: *“Oh sorry I was thinking about the embarrassing thing I said a half hour ago, and it’s basically all I can think about anymore...”*
Me: **zones out the rest of the video thinking about all the embarrassing things I said yesterday** 😐😬
Thought I was the only one who did this. I know now that I am normal.
Same here 😂
Finnaly a comment that makes me think that maybe i am not crazy and weird.
😂😂 same same !!
Anxiety 😞
If us introverts were completely honest, we wouldn't be introverts... we would just be rude
You can be fully honest and still nice. Example:
"are we friends?"
*wince*"I see us as colleagues only, sorry." I said this to my boss, he didn't mind.
Silence works when you can't find a way to be nice.
So true
Exactly....... People say im rude but im not . .....im just honest. Their loss not mine🤷🤷
I agree if you start to drag a conversation along and I were honest you eould never talk to me again
That is being brutally honest
What about the rare occasion when the introvert actually has something they'd like to say, but the extrovert interrupts or never pauses to breathe so we can chime in. Then we forget what we were going to say or decided they wouldn't care anyway & that we don't want to make the conversation longer than it already is.
Just me?
Edit: Woah, thas a lotta likes, thx
Me too, I try to say smth but fail, especially if I am with 2 or more friends, they already are too deep in their conversation so I can't say anything and just keep nodding and pretend to listen...
I often think of something that I want to say but can't get a word in, and then 20 minutes later when everyone finally pauses for a split second, the conversation has already moved on through several new topics. And I can either say the thing I've been dying to say and awkwardly drag the conversation back to the old topic, or I can just not say anything at all. I don't have something to say about the new topic because I've been thinking about my comment and watching for an opening to speak. SO FRUSTRATING!
@@ka-li-tzi-n And the times when I drag back the conversation to the old topic I hear that they agree with me and then I'm like "yeah" and they start talking again about the theme and all becomes boring again.
Eeyup. I hate getting interrupted. It happens every time I try to talk and I just get talked over until I snap and then I am the asshole. Like you interrupting me over 100s wasn’t rude? I squally just leave when I keep getting interrupted now and that still makes me the asshole. Or if I say stop interrupting me while I am talking also makes me an asshole. And my friends and family often wonder why I just flat out never talk to them.
happens to me so often...
Being an Introvert has nothing to do with shyness or any other qualities
IT IS MAINLY ABOUT WHERE DO YOU RECHARGE and get your thoughts together
Is it around people or when you are by yourself? Simple is that!
Finally. Someone who understands what introversion is. The video implies it's ADD. Someone says it's "this weekend I'll be busy doing nothing" (which is mental laziness). Another says it's loneliness and another says it's social anxiety ("When I count the desks to see how much time before I have to read in class!") These things are not introversion. This is my first video watching this channel. Surely he won't miss me, but I'm not coming back to hurt my brain more. lol
Exactly! There are shy or socially anxious extroverts and outgoing introverts. One of my good friends in college was the class clown type, but he had to have alone time to recharge. I have a family member that hates to be alone, but she thinks parties or large gatherings are the worst.
Finally someone said it :)
@Smirkin' Dirk ៚ as an ambivert this makes a lot of sense. I thrive on mental chaos, I hate being alone when everyone else is doing things around me, and I love being around chaotic people.
Yes . A person can be both shy and introverted, but they're not the same thing. The two aren't always intertwined
I find learning people’s names through overhearing conversations easier than asking them directly
Same
Same
This is the only way i learn peoples names. No way in hell I'm gonna bother trying to remember it. Never talk to em. Let other people do the work. I'm a good listener.
I am trying to do this but i don't know what to talk and learn their name ugh it is so hard
There's so much you can learn from people just by letting them talk. So much they don't think you'll hear. Very intriguing.
I think "You're a psycho" is now my second favorite Frank quote, only surpassed by "We also have Pepsi products."
Which video has the pepsi comment?
Lololol
Sonia S The ENFP part of the Waiter skit, yeah lolol 🤩
Thanks guys
ENFPs have some strange things to tell. :)
"I'm like playing it over and over again in my mind, I'm looking for context clues" 💀😂im ded
ua-cam.com/video/_K1ic7C0FtM/v-deo.html yes
After the first lockdown was lifted and I went to the office, people exchanged warm hugs saying how much they MISSED each other and how RELIEVED they felt being close to each other again, and I smiled politely, thinking in disbelief, "WTF??? What are they talking about?"
Actually we are normal with the people we are comfortable with.
Totally agree
We are normal with people who:
1. Talk about interesting things.
2. Don't take over all our time and space and try to put themselves at the center of OUR lives.
Or in other words: sweetheart,
I don't care what you bought yesterday at the supermarket and don't announce me when you go to the bathroom and don't ask me personal questions when you are clearly not my bff.
When I know you....I talk a lot
Those who dont know me tell me to speak up
Those who know me tell me to shut up
Yes sir.
I'm an introvert that talks a *lot* i just keep chanting in my head "i wanna go home, i wanna go home" while acting all friendly...then when i go back home i just stare at the cieling for a solid 30 minutes...cringeing about all the shit i said earlier...its a cycle man (thank god for quarantine)
I feel bad for liking quarantine but honestly I love it so much and don’t wanna go back to social interaction ever.
OMG ME people never think I'm an introvert because I'm so chatty. I've never related to something more in my life
Relatable
Same because my best friend is also an introvert so I have to lead the conversation and die from embarrassment later
@@chuu7062 and @Fran Bo, why it feels like we are soulmates
This is so relatable
You are everywhere
WHY ARE YOU HERE TOO
@@alukardio6991 Promotions maybe? Or before anyone attacks me yes i know he could be also just enjoying himself😑
@@sereneblossom2951 lmao watch his video. He has explained it
In the picture of you profile, you don’t look Asian
Just read the comment section and I'm lmao. 😃 Being an introvert and having social anxiety are two different things. Some of you have social anxiety. I'm an introvert. I can carry a conversation but I'd rather not. I can go to parties but people make me sooooo tired. I'm usually ready to leave 30 minutes after I arrive. My real life seems to take place in my head. I definitely relate. 🤣😅😆
"My real life seems to take place in my head" this describes me perfectly
Yep
Someone I don't know very well: "hOw ArE yOu?"
Me: I'd be perfectly fine if you didn't ask me this pointless question.
As an extrovert (ENTP), when someone asks me this question I proceed to go on tangents about how I really feel. 😅We all know that the person didn't actually want to KNOW how I feel. 🤣Oh well.
One embarrassing memory of school last year: ”How are you?” -Not good. They found white spots in my brain in MRI scan and now I’m worried I have a brain injury or some disease. The other: Awkward silence. (My total autistic inability to do small talk).
"Do you actually care how I am at this particular moment, or are you merely trying to rope me into insufferable small talk so you can unload your day on me while I pretend like I care?"
Me: terrible
Them: why
Me: I’m alive
That ever super tricky question...
Teacher: doing attendance
Me: missing my name being called cause I’m too busy trying to figure out how to say “here” correctly
YESSSSS
Lmao, I just put my hand up so I didn’t have to say anything. Another person in my class who was really quiet also did this so I just copied
Yes 😂
So true.
Oh lord. Can relate to a spiritual level. And it totally doesn't help that i have some obsession with 100% attendance
I love the people saying "introverts just be honest!" Or "just say what's on your mind!" Guys we literally can't, that's why we're introverts. I'm more myself online than I am irl because when I'm speaking out loud, I'm constantly second guessing what I need to say and that makes conversation even worse. I let the calm part of my brain do the typing, but the stressed out part forcefully takes care of verbal speech.
@@YellohMelloh I can barely get out full sentences in small talk
I find it funny cause it's SOOOO MEEE and when I start saying things, no one really listens so I shut my mouth and just listen to them all 😂
This is the most accurate depiction of me ever.
@@onyxangelle hahaha yes
Dude just break it
I was there and got the t shirt
Just break your introvertion do the opposite make yourself an bit uncomfortable it ain’t gonna kill you it will only make your balls harder.
1:20 this actually happened to me! This girl was very talkative and would follow me. So one day I went to the bathroom to get away from her, and low and behold she was there and said “hey! Did u miss me?”
"please... shut up.... leave me alone..."
I’ve resorted to being brutally honest about exactly what people ask me
“Why aren’t you talking are you okay?”
“No I’m just thinking about when I was eight and I was called unexpectedly to speak in front of the whole school and cried on stage into the microphone”
I always got to lie because what I am thinking most of the time is: What the Fuck are you talking about let me eat/learn/sleep or at least don't get on my nerfes I got better bull'shots to do than hearing from your day n shot 🙄
Most of the time at work I'm thinking, "leave me alone," "go away," "stop coming!" And "let me do my job in peace!"
@@brittanyparks8242 lol the ‘stop coming!’ part is me. Every time I see one of those distant family members who I didn’t know existed call my name and start speed walking towards me I feel like saying “stop! Please! Leave me alone! UGH HE/SHE’S SPEEDING UP RUNRUNRUN-“
Oh man! Yessss. I always remember times I humiliated myself in front of an old boyfriend’s friends. Why?! It was over a decade ago who cares!! Me apparently. And usually when I’m trying to sleep.
@@arielhatch6492
Yep. And then, you wonder what you could have done differently, and go through the scenario 100 times or more. After this, I usually feel pretty dumb. And then I wonder if they still remember . . .
He is definitely introvert. The only person he can talk with honesty is himself😂😂😉
I'm your 600th like
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If introverts were completely honest...
Person: *starts talking...*
Introvert: I'm sorry, I'm not interested. Can you please stop talking?
I always want to say this but I feel bad. But then it’s also bad that I’m not being honest? I just can’t win😫
@Dee Cee Yes, I’ve been trying to practice silence and be comfortable with it. I’m really not good at keeping conversations nor am I that good at starting them.
I’ve heard meditation is good for practicing silence and quiet observation.
I’m both an introvert and extrovert. I’m somewhere in the middle. I always look for signs in my audience when I talk to make sure I don’t bore them and the moment they show one I wrap it up. It’s the news anchor interview strategy. If the news anchor interrupts you it means they have to go to a commercial so you need to wrap it up.
so you're not an introvert you're an asshole. I wish the introverts would stop saying that are introverts when they're really just assholes and narcissist trying to masquerade as introverts
@@cindylou3524 It's not that we aren't interested in talking. It's that we dont like small talk. And yes I understand you need to have small talk to get to know someone. We would rather connect with someone on a deeper level. I love talking about psychology, religion, politics, etc. But most people find it weird to talk about that the first time meeting someone. To me small talk is like when you see an ad on UA-cam and you press skip ad so you can get to the more interesting topics. No one likes to sit through the ads. And for me I dont like to sit through the small talk.
Certainly as an introvert I value my privacy literally more than anything and things can get frustrating if the other person "doesn't follows the script".
my social life be like :
The explosion - *arabic name*
@@il_gangster2274 👀
Is that a brag
Yeah we know
😅
a phrase that summarizes introverts: “you don’t want to know what’s on my mind”
exactly..... do not ask me what im thinking about because its either fanfic scenarios or some random thing i said three months ago.
Yup
That is very true
I tend think of killing anyone who talks to me. If they dare to interrupt me of my brooding, I will choke them in the neck till there last breath, but of course, it's just on my mind. Small talks bore me.
@@hyperbolicparaboloid154 What?
"I'm clearly disinterested, how can you keep going" this....this is it.
That really got me 😂
Stop feeling the need to be so overly polite. You can still tell people you're not interested while even still being polite. What is there to lose to be politely blunt?
@@mtnmotoadv i just say "that's crazy" or "that's wild" most people know that means you really don't care. But they don't stop because they're too invested in their boring ass story. I'm only blunt with certain people. Others are just looking for someone to talk to.
@DudeImJasmine One thing that I absolutely cannot stand is if you ask them how they're doing and they go on a long ass rant about their life, but then when they ask you how you doing they act like they don't care or they couldn't be less intrested like I just listened to you talk for 10 minutes straight, and now it's my turn to say a few words and you don't care wtf. Rude
Me when I talk to my mother about her diet
Yeah, I don’t think I’ve ever had a pre-prepared conversation go "better than expected." They’re always just as awkward and awful as I expected them to be. Sometimes they’re worse. I know this because I replay them in my head for months afterwards.
What about, "to be honest, I'm not really interested in every single aspect of your life, I'm just asking you questions so you'll be doing most of the talking and less of the focus will be on me."
Yes
M Bailey that’s big brain thinking 😌
Hahahaha, so true!!
@M Bailey big brain energy! 💪
EXACTLY SO ACCURATE AAAA SHSJJSKSJS
So, i relate to:
-Not talking much
-thinking of 40 ways stuff could go wrong, do the thing right and keep thinking of something that i did wrong
-o v e r t h i n k i n g
-rainy days are incredible
-my speaking abilities shut down at the moment i see a group of more than 2 people
@@charon9466 I love when I talk to an introvert and they're like 'oh I' m so stupid for saying this' and I'm like 'No you aren't I say/think this all the time'
When talking to more than 4+ people I freeze up and get really nervous, to the point where it’s like they aren’t speaking the same language as me and I just nod my head agreeing to everything.
"thinking of 40 ways stuff could go wrong"
*Me reading this after needing 100 days to choose a new Hard drive for the next 10 years and still having one critical factor to investigate even though I already made an almost definitive choice* ._.
By the way, I had to edit this text 5 times to get it into the final version.
Nice username @foxy .-. ^_^
@@Adri9570 wow, yeah this also happens to me whenever i want to buy something (even in-game items xd)
(Also, thanks, i decided this name after getting back into a fnaf phase and spending too much time drawing the pfp so i decided to keep it lol)
* yea i just related to your reply and wrote a small story for no reason *
@@gioworno lol
"There's no need to repeat yourself, I ignored you just fine the first time"
Life motto😂😂
"Everything went better than expected" is too true
Me trying to call someone:
* beep- *
okay they’re busy let’s end the call.
* ends the call *
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
😂😂😂👍
its like, *rings twice, hangs up* well i dont want to bother them i can probably figure out what to do on my own they seem busy, i wont bother them ill just take my best educated guess.
*Oh well they’re busy...!
“Hello?”
*Damnit.
Yup that, s me
"I'm clearly disinterested. How can you keep going?!" That one got me xD
Yes and that "you're a psycho" :D
And those who say "oh I must've been boring you to death for the last 30 minutes" and then expect you to say "uh don't say that, it's really interesting please go on"
Ogdoyeoyeo
@Dan Mercer Schizophrenia and DID are two separate things... they’re sometimes comorbid, but still different. DID is also known as a split personality, whereas schizophrenia is something that makes people predisposed to psychosis. Schizophrenic people without DID have only one personality, and although they sometimes struggle to tell reality and imagination apart, they’re still different from people who does have DID... just thought I should say it... before going on to read more comments and hide...
“I’m really glad that we’ve finally had this conversation because I’ve been mentally rehearsing it for the past three weeks, and I’ve gotta say. It went better than I expected.”
This. This it the one that hits home the most and sadly, sometimes I rehearse it for much longer than that and don’t end up even having the conversation in the end anyway.
It’s the story of my life.
If only people will follow the script we rehearsed xD
Our life
So I was planning on talking to a girl I like in a party that happened yesterday and guess what
The only thing I said to her was bye when I left the party I just want to fucking talk with confidence but when I got the chance to do it I just don't then I regret not doing it when I get home
That is exactly what happens.
I mentally rehearse conversations and half of the time they don't end up happening.
Sometimes I get so scared that I am falling in an awkward silence, so I use the topic of the rehearsed conversation as a 'back up plan', the problem is, I use the topic as a backup way to quickly, and end up speaking about the topic as a backup too quickly and unscripted, that I lost the flow which I originally planned it to have and end up wasting time on rehearsing.
I advise you guys, don't forget to rehearse a 'backup conversation' for everyone you know, in case you think you will fall in awkward silence.
@@cerebrummaximus3762 Honestly at this point I'm about to go to omegle to practice talking to people especially girls because otherwise I'm not going to have a gf for a good while
The guy who has been talking for the last three hours: why are you so quet? Say something.
Me: I had lots of things to say but you kept talking and I was to afraid to interrupt you and now the context is different so my words won't make any sense.
"I made a skript of this conversation in my mind so i could have an answer to evrything that you could say or ask, WHY AREN'T YOU FOLLOWING IT?"
ikr lol
That's why I always plan out three different ways they can take it.
It's exhausting.
@@beemel5734 Three? That eXtroVerTs will find a 4, 5 and EVEN 6 possible unexpected movement 😣 They talk about the partners of their work mates wtf, I can't add all the country on my diagram!
That's why i tend to avoid talking to females. You just cannot prepare enough
I like conversations and I'm pretty talkative when I want to, but I prefer one or two people and actual conversations, not mindless chitchat
I feel this so much. I'm INFJ so when I feel like socializing I long for meaningful conversation. Mindless, endless, irrelevant chatter makes me angry after about 2 minutes and I want to run away screaming but I'm too empathic and I don't want to hurt another person's feelings, so I politely listen while formulating an escape plan. Usually I "get a headache" or "need to use the restroom." Mindless chatter drains my energy like nothing else.
@@TheMovieMuse Finally a girl can relate to what I’m thinking under these situations!
same here i think, i feel like the "mindless chitchat" is so fake, i almost feel like i get sick of it, it's like it's a thick layer above what the person actually have to say
@@TheMovieMuse wow im have the same type of personality with u and this exactly what i feel everytime. People always labelling me as antisocial but in fact im actually doesnt like to waste my time with someone who drain my enery!
Me too
"any plans on the weekend"
"yes, not draining my energy talking and listening to unimportant conversations is my plan for the weekend"
In answer to "any plans for the weekend?" - That entirely depends on what you're going to say next.
Then what is truly important to you.
@@legendkryt7006 they just want to have some rest. Rest is important.
How do you know it's unimportant...?
I feel that one about the conversation going on too long. Worse than in person is a phone call with someone who just won't stop talking. I work in customer service, and it happens more than I'd like to admit. Those conversations that go on too long combined with it being a phone call are very draining.
Reading the comments, I’m not the only one. Never have I felt more at home in my life
We should all meet up and... hey, wait a minute!
@@HM-hu4hu DDDD i felt a bit of warmth in my hearth tbh, and its like once in a year ;Dd Stupid ones feel that all the time jealoushly.
😂😂 exactly how I felt watching this & reading the comments
totally me guys i wanna meet u
omg same
"Is there anybody who can save me right now", oh God, that's me every time someone comes up to me.
This is actually too real for comfort I'm getting flashbacks
@@jamesdowling41 yo same tho
Bruh. Same.
Lol this sounds more like "If People With Anxiety Were Completely Honest."
😂😂😂😂😂
People with social anxiety xD
Fair enough but the venn diagram of social anxiety and introverts, I would guess, is like 90% overlap
I'm an introvert with anxiety 👁👅👁👌
Yeah. I'm an extrovert and have anxiety it's really like that
How is this so relatable?! I mean, you just said my thoughts from everyday out loud..
"You're so quiet all the time."
Not really, I just hate talking to you
to everyone
I say this in my mind 🤣
Ah yes, """introverts""" These generalisations are ridiculous. If you want to speak to your own experiences, DO THAT. I'll applaud anyone for doing that.
OUCH ...but so true:)
Then… just dont?
Just sent this to my fiancé as hairspo GOD your hair looks like it was coiffed by angels!
Hey Lucy!
Ain't you the lad that teach broken english
Hey Lucy how you and will doing... How's your farming? 🙂☺️
Lucy is here too!! 'Sup teacher😂
Excited for ur new coarse !!Good Luck! 🤗🤗
I'm sorry but you forgot to mention one striking thing: The need to bolt whenever we see someone we know because we can't, for the life of us, afford small conversations.
Bruh I've done this so many times! And later I can't stop thinking about it cuz I'm guilty for running away but at the same time I'm happy to not have wasted time in small talk oh god...so messed up
I have done this more times than I care to remember.
Yesss
Just look at them, say hello and look away. They will feel awkward trying to talk to you. That only works if you're walking or in a crowded area tho. If you're all alone in a room you're fucked.
So true😭😭
This is so true 😂.
I literally go the whole day without saying one word, and people still seem to have trouble ignoring me.
I literally just want them to forget I exist at this point
Real nervous when someone is starting to walk towards you
ua-cam.com/video/_K1ic7C0FtM/v-deo.html yeah
God the last one hit so hard😂😂
I have to call two people today and I've rehearsed those in my mind to the point where I'm going INSANE!
I hope it goes well😭🤝🏻
Wait. Before you call, rehearse the possibility that those two people might be in the same room when you call. Can you handle two conversations at the same time?
Did it go well? Asking for a friend....
True. I've literally written down what I was going to say before...yeah
You’ve got this!!! Go get them, 🐯
Good luck! Hopefully you don’t have to leave voicemails lol
No, I am not socially awkward, shy or anxious. I just can't be bothered.
Mood 😂
I'm all four tbh 🤷
Bruh me all the time
Right! Same. And they usually tell you the same stuff over and over..
This. I can talk to anyone if I want to, I just usually don’t because 99% of people bore me.
"you know I'm really glad that we finally had this 10 minutes conversation, because I've been mentally rehearsing it for about three weeks. Everything went better than expected "😂
Me : (sees a friend)
He : (haven't seen me yet)
Mind : (Oh okay this is the time.. Try to be more social)
Me : Hey
He : (doesn't hear me because of my low voice)
Me : (mental breakdown at the place)
*Meanwhile in present*
Wife : (Hands keys)
I can scream loud when I'm talking with a single person, but can't talk loud in crowds🤦🏻♂️
@@geni3595 life sucks and so do the maniacs in crowds with no definite conversations...I hate life....
me: * thinking I'll never approach anyone again in my life because they didn't hear me *
Hahahahaahaya same
Me: (sees a friend/acquaintance I'm not close to)
Her: (haven't seen me yet)
Mind: "Now's the Time to escape"
Me: (tries to sneak away)
Her: "Oh hey!"
Me: (Shoot)
Hey!
Someone: *talking*
My brain: Imma head out
Everyone knows that introvert doesn't mean shy, socially anxious, and/or awkward, right? It refers to how we recharge, in that social interactions make us tired and we need alone time to refresh. Extroverts are the opposite, alone time drains them and they need people to recharge. Extroverts can also be shy, socially awkward, and/or anxious. Those are separate things from being an extrovert or introvert.
Introverts can be extremely social and suave. They can be dumpster fires when talking to people. They can be completely normal. All that matters is that they need alone time to be refreshed.
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You right
I hate these videos, they only serve to misinform people
@@frances_1755 Yeah, it should be called "If Socially Anxious People Were Honest." As someone who can be socially anxious, I'd find it relatable and funny. But when it is mislabeled and spreading misinformation, it makes me upset.
@@WelcomeApathy
Completely accurate.
I couldn’t even see the whole video, because people sell it here and there.
If you want to learn about introversion and extroversion, you should put aside comedy videos or memes on the internet and focus on scientific information
People get mad at me because when they argue with me I tend to have quick and accurate responses. I have laughed and told them, the reason I can do that is because I have had this conversation in my head a dozen times already if not more. - INTJ
“Sorry I’m busy thinking about something that I said that was wrong 30 minutes ago”
Me- is embarrassed about something that I said wrong 7 years ago and is still haunting me to this day
After watching this video I started to remember about all of the stuff of this kind that happened with me
I suffer from this quite often
I relate so hard. I say this one thing by accident and years later it comes back to haunt me and I think of every single way it could've gone better
Omg me but for me 10 years ago and maybe even 12(I'm 16 can't go much farther than that). Our minds can pick up on the most embarrassing things and then relive it all over again much to our dismay
Same
"I'm clearly disinterested. How can you keep going?" *major mood*
I’m introverted in person. But when I’m online with people I know. Or hanging out with my two in person best friends. I’ll admit I turn into an annoying extrovert.
That’s me 🙂
Maybe that's why I lost all my friends, I was like an extrovert when I talked to them even though I wished I didn't have to be like that, to me the extroverted part was a mask that I used to appeal to other people, to entertain.
That want to have friends and be a good guy almost destroyed my future and my life, I know you're not lying when you're being super social with them, but the moment you want to be honest, the moment you want support or help you'll be laughed off, nobody will believe you when you actually need some emotional or maybe mental help.
If I was honest from the start I might not have ever had these "friends" but my happiness and hopefulness might have remained forever.
Instead I can't wait for the end, I know it's hopeless to try and be happy or make friends, all I've got left is work, you random strangers that I meet online are ten times better than the people I knew in real life, that's why I don't act the same online as I do in real life.
In real life I have to be cold hearted and distant all the time, at least I can be who I'm supposed to be on the Internet, but I think this same Internet is why all the people I met were so cold in the first place...
Dude how is this so true wtf
@@DreamerFromTheDepths Hey. I just read your post and just wanted to comment that I've been there. I'm 32 now and as a kid I had to deal abuse that really wrecked me. There was a time in my life when I was so nervous to talk to a girl that I liked i would seriously get sick to my stomach. I was very socially awkward. Even now sometimes I still am. I also want to say that I think the internet and technology make people cold. Like people care more about quantity over quality. Lot care more about the amount of Facebook friends they have as opposed to real friends. Anyways I just want to say that I'm sure you'll find real friends like I have. Good luck to you
Same like irl, I just don’t like to socialize