The Five Stages of Grief | Big Chop Edition

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  • @inicole5899
    @inicole5899 5 років тому +18

    I just cut my hair yesterday and I went through all 5 stages in one day!💀😂😂💓

  • @ashleyreannaa293
    @ashleyreannaa293 7 років тому +116

    I'm at the stage where I hate it and I want to cry😐

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому +6

      Been there...it gets better over time :D

    • @shinesunflower.x_
      @shinesunflower.x_ 6 років тому

      Sameeeeeeeeeee😪 I big chop again after 2 years 😭 and it feels brittle and SUPER dry 😫

    • @PurelyChas
      @PurelyChas 6 років тому

      I cried n cut it again

    • @taliamobley1833
      @taliamobley1833 5 років тому +2

      I crie literally everyday I think I'm so freaking ugly

    • @ramennoodles4763
      @ramennoodles4763 5 років тому

      I am crying cuz of it

  • @denisegaspar7433
    @denisegaspar7433 6 років тому +56

    Regretting my life right now after my big chop. I’m 14 in high school and I’m really not looking forward to going to school tomorrow. I know it will grow out thicker and better but its such a process.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  6 років тому +8

      I get it...maybe you can try cute headwear like headbands, scarves, and hats since it's starting to get colder. It does take some getting used to though.

    • @user-ke9bl9ge3j
      @user-ke9bl9ge3j 6 років тому

      wow me too! good luck to both of us lmao
      p.s how was it?

    • @diamondh9972
      @diamondh9972 6 років тому +2

      I did the same thing today, am not ready for school on Monday

    • @MargaretOlivia
      @MargaretOlivia 6 років тому +2

      i did the same thing after spring break. it wasn’t bad at all

    • @sugahsugah3133
      @sugahsugah3133 5 років тому +5

      Girl this is just a phase that you'd see you'll move past so quickly. It'll be over before you know it, I had to learn to embrace this stage. Trust me you'll learn to love it!! Cheers to happy healthy growing!

  • @vonbook1973
    @vonbook1973 7 років тому +65

    Wow...is there anyone on here that actually LIKED their big chop? Maybe it's just me, but I BC'd & loved it, point blank period. Matter of fact, I was planning to start from scratch & grow it back out...but I love how I look (way more than I thought I would), and it's so easy that I'm keeping it short! I just don't have time for the pressures, long wash days, etc. that came w/ longer natural hair...and the confidence ain't fake, lol. But again, maybe it's just me.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому +3

      Lol...yeah, everyone's experience is different. I'm glad you were able to embrace your chop quickly and easily! It took me a while to get there.

    • @Ky-ln1wr
      @Ky-ln1wr 6 років тому +3

      I'm ecstatic that I cut my hair, it's SO much easier to maintain !!

    • @shauntecodner9400
      @shauntecodner9400 6 років тому +2

      I loovveeeee mine

    • @nyailaa
      @nyailaa 6 років тому +2

      Same! I cut mine and immediately fell in love with it

    • @andreat6381
      @andreat6381 6 років тому +1

      I loved my big chop...I shaved all my hair down to a brush cut a year ago. I love it! Its growing back so thick and pretty.

  • @Simplyuneekechidinma
    @Simplyuneekechidinma 8 років тому +32

    You were definitely on point

  • @fredaaa-
    @fredaaa- 6 років тому +3

    “I have no hair” 😭😭😭😭 this was me the morning after my chop. I think I’m still in shock mode, but maybe I’m on stage 3, I didn’t even have faux confidence >> straight level 3. Tears and all.

  • @faithbaine6900
    @faithbaine6900 8 років тому +19

    You are completely on point! I big chopped a week ago and I'm in stage 3. Lol. I laughed so hard because I was listening to all the women anthems too of stage 2! Great video!

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому +1

      You would have thought I was India Arie in the flesh lol. Thanks for watching love :)

  • @mw7882
    @mw7882 6 років тому +3

    Weaves, wigs, and abandonment had wrecked havoc on my hair cuticle so I just accepted that it needed to be cut off. I love that you made this video for support on day 2.

  • @SmileyMiley4678
    @SmileyMiley4678 7 років тому +7

    I just big chopped today and the only mood I experienced was the double think LOL I cried during the cut, after the cut, during the style everything. But I know that I'll love it in a few months.

  • @ShebrewQueen
    @ShebrewQueen 5 років тому +3

    I had absolutely NO grief. I was so happy. And I'm STILL happy. Ladies, you don't have to be sad about embracing "YOU"! 💞

  • @lynej2011
    @lynej2011 7 років тому +8

    This is the best video I have seen regarding this subject. I have very short, permed hair. I am tired of the perms and tired of "conforming." Well, not exactly of conforming, I just would like to be free of making these hair companies rich.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому

      Thank you and thanks for watching! Let me know how your chop goes if you decide to do it.

  • @JW-bk9qq
    @JW-bk9qq 6 років тому +1

    Very on target. Thanks for this. I just did another BC two weeks ago and I am in the regret stage. In the past when I have BC, I just rolled with it and didn't care too much about what other people thought of it. This time, I find myself being so concerned with what my coworkers will say when I return to work. I shouldn't care what they think, though. This too shall pass. I am going to rock this ish!

  • @MoonSun00
    @MoonSun00 3 роки тому +1

    I just recently chopped my hair about 2 weeks ago, it's a bit longer in the front but it gets really shorter in the back. My hair was extremely dry and heat damaged. Now that I regret chopping my hair, it's time for me to get over it. This is my time to actually take care of it, and hopefully it grows even longer than before! I'm aiming to grow my hair to about 12 inches long!

  • @tiffanyfreeman3648
    @tiffanyfreeman3648 8 років тому +1

    Omg! This is a must see when you do the big chop...I'm Stage 3 right now!!!

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  8 років тому

      Girl! The struggle lol. Thanks for watching :)

  • @lorrainebrumfield3857
    @lorrainebrumfield3857 5 років тому +2

    I love my big chop!
    I feel so free from all the daily stress of what to do and what I shouldn't do to my hair so I am glad I did it

  • @sorasgirl0
    @sorasgirl0 6 років тому +3

    This video is TRUTH!!!! I'm a little over a month post BC. I'm in the acceptance stage, but I went through ALL of those stages!

  • @k.dkennedy9820
    @k.dkennedy9820 4 роки тому +1

    I'm in the "I'm every woman" stage and the feeling "ugly" stage at the same time. (Weird feelings) I love the video, especially the "I'm everyone " catwalk. Lol

  • @naturallyesma2000
    @naturallyesma2000 9 років тому +10

    I've big chopped my hair 3 times and each time I have felt relieved like a weight is off my shoulders and then later once it's grown out a few inches I end up looking in the mirror and thinking 'what the hell am I going to do with this".
    I've always been natural but I've been a lazy natural. So when my hair ends up damaged from neglect I would get frustrated and just chop it all off. But I'm tired of being a lazy natural I have learned to accept that my hair is not low maintenance and if I want it to grow I need to be proactive in my hair care and stick to a regimen/routine.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  9 років тому

      NaturallyEsma Girl you are absolutely right! I am learning that too. I was thinking, "Yeah, short hair is a piece of cake." smh...yeah right lol. It is, to a certain extent, but you definitely have to be mindful of its health and I think that's the part that requires a little more care and maintenance.

    • @taraquinch1256
      @taraquinch1256 5 років тому

      Sounds like spiritual and physical growth to me. 😍

  • @MoodZ1
    @MoodZ1 9 років тому +5

    I so agree with this. I went through all of these stages, especially the double think and regret stage and the boredom and impatience stage. I felt all of this and them some, but in the end I am so glad I did it. I now have hair that is healthy and growing and I love it. Thank you for this video.

  • @holashelah
    @holashelah 6 років тому +1

    Hahahahahaaaaa....totally on point!!!! Every single one. I watched and sang "I am not my hair" yesterday and literally just stopped myself from crying in front of my husband a few minutes ago. Lol.My 4c or should i say 4z hair has blattantly refused to curl like all the gorgeous ones i saw on youtube before i big chopped. Then there's the shrinkage. Oh the frustration!!! I'm literally trying to convince myself to like myself right now.

  • @kanyshacrosby8723
    @kanyshacrosby8723 6 років тому +1

    Beautiful grief explanation !!!

  • @ginad5773
    @ginad5773 8 років тому +12

    you are truly on target.....I am in stage 4/5.....I have accepted it, but I am sooooo bored.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому

      That's the worst...and I'm impatient.

  • @healthyhairsolutions8793
    @healthyhairsolutions8793 5 років тому +1

    LOVED THIS VIDEO!! I HAVE BIG CHOPPED 5 TIMES IN MY LIFE and each time I learned more and more about my hair. Go through the process and it will get better every time. Thank you for sharing your experience.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  5 років тому +1

      Tendai Morris Tendai Morris thank you for watching! Every now and then I’m tempted to big chop again but then I remember how impatient I am and change my mind lol

  • @sherrywaters8348
    @sherrywaters8348 5 років тому +4

    I'm feeling it now 😱 I miss my hair😥

  • @nobione08
    @nobione08 6 років тому +1

    I just big chopped for the 3rd time 6 weeks ago!And I completely agree...I’m getting thru stage 4 right now. On the path to acceptance. The past 2 weeks I have been on stage 3(looking at buying wigs for the first time😳). Decided to keep my hair short on the sides and back. I’m going back to the barber for a trim next week for my birthday.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  5 років тому

      I actually was considering wigs too but I'm too worried about it looking like a helmet lol

  • @capnice
    @capnice 8 років тому +30

    Bc yday... Still in shock I jump every time I pass the mirror

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому +4

      Lol I know I was in the mirror like, new hair, who dis?!

    • @metsl1870
      @metsl1870 5 років тому

      🤣🤣

  • @monniybee1
    @monniybee1 5 років тому +2

    Ooooooooh stage 3 and 4 are definitely me. Omg girl I'm so glad someone else can relate 😢

  • @ms.beabrown9754
    @ms.beabrown9754 5 років тому

    OMG i did the big chop last week and I am still so so mad at myself! Your video was right on time! Thank you!

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  5 років тому

      Ms. Bea Brown Lol hopefully you don’t stay mad long! Thanks for watching!

  • @kenyacob
    @kenyacob 9 років тому +9

    OMG! Girl you read my mind. I did the big chop 3 months ago because it was damaged from the many years of perm. The 2nd stage identifies me exactly and now I am soooooo to the 3rd stage. I CANT WAIT for my hair to be long enough for me to get it braided. I miss my hair :(. Never cutting it again lol

    • @acrystalbyrd
      @acrystalbyrd 9 років тому +2

      +Kenya Bailey Giiirl, the waiting struggle is real! My silly self got a hair cut in August because I thought I wanted to keep it short and now I'm wishing I had not done that. I could have braids by now lol. It's definitely an interesting experience.

  • @suna9963
    @suna9963 4 роки тому +1

    It’s been nearly 4 months since I shaved mine bold looll I went through all this and still am but yoooo I can fully plait my hair. I been doing that and greasing it. It’s so much healthier. Just can’t wait to put it in buns

  • @HeatherHurley1
    @HeatherHurley1 4 роки тому

    OMG! You are so on point! I’m starting to enter stage four.

  • @ziggyza908
    @ziggyza908 5 років тому

    I big chopped 2 weeks ago and I only experienced stages 1&5. I feel in love with it the same day and I'm still in love with it. But great video, I remember watching it while I was transitioning.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  5 років тому

      Good for you! I'm glad you like it :)

  • @tracykanini7473
    @tracykanini7473 6 років тому +4

    I did the bigchop 1mth ago those stages are so accurate I wish I can make a video like this to remind myself in future how far I have come from. Viewing from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @eleshamarquis1397
    @eleshamarquis1397 4 роки тому

    you nailed it mate right on point

  • @brejnicole
    @brejnicole 7 років тому +1

    You are so on point . I just Big chopped my hair about a week ago . I have mixed feelings and forget a lot that my hair is gone until I walk outside and also look in a mirror

  • @nmc2300
    @nmc2300 7 років тому

    You were spot on! I am in stage 1. OMG!

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому

      Yeah, I felt like I was in stage one foooorever lol

  • @girlfrench9224
    @girlfrench9224 7 років тому +1

    yes you were so on point... big chopped like two days ago 😂

  • @o.ccupied
    @o.ccupied 3 роки тому +1

    when your hair is at its worst & you have no choice to let it go, ain't no regrets. @ least fa me 🙂

  • @noble2412
    @noble2412 3 роки тому

    I love it... I knew that I cut it but I forgot... took me out... luv it😂😂

  • @ItsMeTeeDotCom
    @ItsMeTeeDotCom 9 років тому +2

    I love LOVE your style and editing ...you're storytelling drew me in immediately. Thanks so much for coming by the #YCOMHop ... I am looking forward to getting to know you and your Channel even more!

  • @sugahsugah3133
    @sugahsugah3133 5 років тому +2

    Ladies this stage passes so quick, I'm now 1 1/2 year post big chop, Come watch where the journey has taken me. My big chop video is on the way!! The grief is real for a very short time hahaha but the results are EVEN MORE REAL! CONGRATS TO YOU ALL**

  • @justvalencia1631
    @justvalencia1631 6 років тому

    You are spot on. I recently big chopped a month ago, my hair is maybe slightly longer than yours, and I'm now in the bored stage. I bought my first wig ever yesterday...on my way to acceptance I guess! Thanks for a great video!

  • @1stladybreezy
    @1stladybreezy 8 років тому +5

    totally on the nose!

  • @neadageorge4009
    @neadageorge4009 8 років тому +6

    I just big chopped 2 weeks ago and you were spot on with your points. It was a strange thing seeing no hair on my head. I just said today like I don't think I thought this through well enough lol...What if my hair doesn't grow back? lol..I feel confident in my house. Unfortunately I live somewhere where they are very closed minded and I would hate to have to punch some body in the lip for trying to make me the butt of a joke...My temperance is not there yet lol I just wear my head wraps when I go out for now. But yeah I'm a bit bored too..I'm use to doing my hair and now I'm just waiting.. I want to color it but I'm really trying hard to just let it do it's thing..I love it though and would definitely rock it like this forever because it's super easy but my husband wants me to let it grow..He loves me and takes me however...he even thinks it's cute..I just know he would prefer for me to grow it out. Ok that's the end of my NOVEL lol! Ciao!

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  8 років тому +3

      Lol...thanks for sharing your experience! I know what you mean though, people made a lot of comments about my hair...more so men; they said that I should keep it long and that they don't like short hair on women. I told them, last time I checked we weren't together so my hair should not be any of your concern lol. Bye Felipe! Lol

  • @DwaineQuaye
    @DwaineQuaye 4 роки тому

    So accurate!

  • @pattimcclelland6635
    @pattimcclelland6635 6 років тому

    This is my SECOND BIG CHOP! The first time, I was scared, but also excited! I did wonder how long it would take to see growth, but it was something that I had wanted to do for a long time. Now that it’s my SECOND BIG CHOP! I’ve had nothing but EXCITEMENT! I needed the big change in my life...this year is my year to change many things in my life, and I’m totally stoked! LOVING IT ALL!

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  6 років тому

      A new cut can change your life girl! Lol.

  • @SaltyLocks
    @SaltyLocks 9 років тому +5

    This was right on point I big chopped 3 weeks ago and I felt hella bald lol

  • @sammgemm
    @sammgemm 2 роки тому

    I am definitely right at the boredom stage 😭 but I actually like my short cut so it's not the worst

  • @MsSonya6
    @MsSonya6 6 років тому

    You sure are Right! Lol. 6 months in and I'm looking at old pics. 😊

  • @thorisomolefe2276
    @thorisomolefe2276 6 років тому

    And the sad part is my boyfriend adores my natural look and will put pressure on me to wear hair out short, he did a whole campaign for me to cut my hair so that my features can one out since last year and I promised I'd cut my hair if and only if he buys me these other fancy hair products, he kept his end of the bargain and I was like "yasssss 😎 time for a new me" then I cut some hair off and I was looking cute and everyone around the house was feeling my powers along with me telling me how amazing I look now with shorter hair, I went to go wash it and didn't like the fact that my hair had two different textures so I cut off the semi-relaxed bits, looked in the mirror and my life ended. I was even getting ready to tell my boyfriend that I finally did the big chop, now I don't want to because he'll get excited and put pressure on me to wear my hair out short and I really don't want to I feel hideous ... HIDEOUS I TELL YAH😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 then again I know he'll find out because he hates it when I wear my wig and I haven't been wearing it and he's been going on about how much he loves my natural look, and when I met him I wore no make up and didn't own a wig and he really likes my face and checks me out a lot more now that i got tired of my wig (he thinks it's cz he begged and begged me), but now I feel hideous 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 .... Ah my life is over and I don't know how to fix this 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @reginaweems6563
    @reginaweems6563 6 років тому

    On point.I bc'd yesterday and I think I've gone through all these phases in addition to Phantom hair! I feel like I want to shake it move it out of my face😂. It's driving me insane I don't believe it's gone. 😱

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  6 років тому +1

      I used to do that too. Lol. Before my hair was cut I had a side part and I was still trying to tuck it behind my ear. SMH.

  • @deneaseray8332
    @deneaseray8332 5 років тому

    You got it girl

  • @indianajosephine4881
    @indianajosephine4881 4 роки тому

    dw if your regretting you can always glue it back. I would just advise the extra strongsuper glue with the hardcore grip. That'll be sure to get the job done. 😊👍🏾

  • @laurenclairejanuarie4997
    @laurenclairejanuarie4997 4 роки тому

    This is so true .. yaw man

  • @val83aggie
    @val83aggie 7 років тому +3

    I just chopped mine and at stage 3 already. Regretting so much have always had long hair and the new haircut took most of my 15 months growth😭

  • @raph8986
    @raph8986 4 роки тому

    this is so accurate lol, currently at stage 4 but I lowkey accept it too

  • @dellasmith6960
    @dellasmith6960 8 років тому

    So true, omg I was laughing so hard but I have experienced every single one of these stages.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  8 років тому

      That was such an experience! Idk if I will big chop again lol

  • @mikiagumms6425
    @mikiagumms6425 5 років тому +9

    Btw you left out being confused on what products to use 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😢

  • @rakhichames8495
    @rakhichames8495 7 років тому

    Happy to see this video and know others are experiencing the same feelings that I have. You were so on point with this video ❤️

  • @natachajean-pierre9972
    @natachajean-pierre9972 3 роки тому +1

    I just big chopped today, im still in shock

  • @Misslibra24
    @Misslibra24 5 років тому

    I use to cry all the time... literally cry my eyes out

  • @gloriousmettle4014
    @gloriousmettle4014 4 роки тому

    Every time I big chopped I went through all that :) I still think about doing it again...

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  4 роки тому

      Same! I still go back and forth about cutting it again

  • @finiswilliams89
    @finiswilliams89 4 роки тому

    Love the way you explained it.

  • @cretiaedwards4778
    @cretiaedwards4778 6 років тому +1

    Well it looks beautiful on you 💗💚❤️💜💖💞💛💕

  • @sugahsugah3133
    @sugahsugah3133 5 років тому

    And plus you are super gorgeous with any style!! Xoxoxo

  • @claran.8767
    @claran.8767 7 років тому

    Great video :)

  • @mrs.cookie5610
    @mrs.cookie5610 7 років тому +1

    Thank for a much needed video, I'm working my way up to doing the bc.

  • @dilmaneblett8912
    @dilmaneblett8912 5 років тому

    Yes you did. Real talk. Love love this video you really told it as it is.

  • @annettegarcia789
    @annettegarcia789 5 років тому

    Thanks for ur video everything was on point i just love ur hair cut. lm also wearing the short look and loving it . #shorthairgirlsrock

  • @alibey6434
    @alibey6434 5 років тому

    I did it after many years of perms. I absolutely love my hair texture. My curls are amazing. I wish I wouldn't have wasted so much time on permed hair. I wish I would have done it a long time ago. I discovered that I have what some people call good hair.

  • @PrettyRikiWitAWord
    @PrettyRikiWitAWord 7 років тому

    Just hit Stage 5 yesterday baawwwwaahahahah!!!! I Friggin Love this...lolol!!! #EMBRACEYOURYOU:)!!!

  • @Itstmera
    @Itstmera 8 років тому +1

    this video was on target! Before and as i was cutting my hair India Arie's " I am not my hair" was playing in my head! Lol i even said it aloud. Def gonna take some getting use to.

  • @DJ-unome
    @DJ-unome 7 років тому

    Lmao yes this one was good. I just cut my hair 2 days ago and I only had one of your 5, I had the omg moment when you walk by a mirror mode. Girl and I did find my other out mode that I find I do more and that's my eyes. This was so funny to watch. Very cool video and thanks.

  • @trynajackson7734
    @trynajackson7734 6 років тому

    No ooooooh, I can't, I won't do it Everytime I think about doing it 5 seconds latter I'm like not ooooooh I can't do it I can t do it girl I keep my two textured hair in my mini braids, I'm not brave enough I can't lol but you go Girl! I just do a teeny tiny trim when I take my braids out.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  5 років тому

      Lol, I felt the same way. It's definitely a big decision but part of me was over having hair and I wanted to do it just to say I did it

  • @perkslifeuncensored2355
    @perkslifeuncensored2355 8 років тому

    Lol this is sooo funny! I'm totally in stage 4. Nice video :)

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  8 років тому

      Yeah stage 4 is annoying. I didn't know what to do lol

  • @_.alishawyatt
    @_.alishawyatt 7 років тому

    ON POINT! Thank you so much for this i recently did my chop and was going through major mental struggs. 😘 #awesome #twapower lol

  • @diamondd83
    @diamondd83 7 років тому

    this was so funny. all five point were correct! lol

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому

      Thank you and thanks for watching :)

  • @ptigerjones84
    @ptigerjones84 4 роки тому

    I just did the big chop I can’t believe

  • @MonikatheDiva
    @MonikatheDiva 8 років тому +2

    omg so true. im at stage four

  • @francescollins5744
    @francescollins5744 8 років тому

    You are the REALIST one I have seen!! Thank you. I'm trying to transition but I really want to big chop and go ahead and get it over with! I have about an inch of new growth/unprocessed hair.

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому

      Thanks! And try it and see. I'm glad I was able to say I did it :)

  • @tayloralliease8013
    @tayloralliease8013 5 років тому +1

    I went through all of these 🤣👌🏾 still learning to accept how short I cut it . I feel like my face is chubby on some days and too narrow on others for this cut . #OhWell lol

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  5 років тому

      Lol Rihanna said when she feels like her face was getting chubby, she learned how to contour lol

  • @NatsukoIzuki
    @NatsukoIzuki 4 роки тому

    Oh man, I'm dealing with this right now lol. I just did my big chop yesterday and I'm like "Where is my hair?!" But I did it so that I can gain back better and healthy hair.

  • @Itsjustritah
    @Itsjustritah 5 років тому +1

    I can fully relate 🤣🤣🤣😂😂🔥

  • @pbirriel
    @pbirriel 8 років тому

    girl you are on point, i'm in stage 3

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  8 років тому

      I feel like I was in stage 3 for a while...like what was I thinking?! Lol

  • @trustandbelievewithasmile7060
    @trustandbelievewithasmile7060 6 років тому

    Thanks I could so relate from state one to four because I just cut my hair 2days ago and I am actually on my way to the last stage and I really hope I make it The with a lot of confidence

  • @IntellectuallyKurious
    @IntellectuallyKurious 7 років тому

    Omg! Am at stage 3 right now. I BC on Jan 8 after growing out my relaxed hair to mid back.I wanted to experience all the stages of natural hair but every time I touch my head am like mannnn I should have transitioned longer to get more hang time. I just beed to research TWA styles and rock da wish outta it.

  • @MayaAshAnimation
    @MayaAshAnimation 5 років тому

    I’m never getting to the 4th stage. I can’t even take pictures because I don’t like my angles without hair

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  5 років тому

      Maya Ash it’s definitely a learning process!

  • @zakarialucas2403
    @zakarialucas2403 7 років тому +2

    I'm going through the 3rd stage now 😂

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому +1

      I was in that stage for a looooong time lol

  • @mikiagumms6425
    @mikiagumms6425 5 років тому

    This video describes me!!!

  • @melanatednaturemaiden5663
    @melanatednaturemaiden5663 6 років тому +2

    Currently in stage 2. 😂😂 about to bump I am not my hair all the way home😂

  • @teshemalawrence7130
    @teshemalawrence7130 5 років тому

    Omg I had a pixie cut...I grew it out for 8month with protective styles...then I relaxed it I had shoulder length hair...after 2 weeks I went back to my hair stylist bleach color and cut...when I was finished I was like wtf did I do..whyyyy..I think I'm between 1-3 stage...tomorrow will make one week since I did this...lol

  • @lifewithe6893
    @lifewithe6893 6 років тому

    This is my second big chop and this go round I am enjoying the journey! 😊

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  6 років тому

      I feel like I'm ready to chop it off again myself

  • @byronhoffman7699
    @byronhoffman7699 5 років тому

    You are so funny 🤣

  • @mericawillis2338
    @mericawillis2338 7 років тому

    I feel like I'm going through all the stages in a cycle right now 😏 I big chopped last Wednesday ...after allowing my cousin to do a photo shoot the Tuesday. I'm waking up from dreams with my hair being mid-back length to see in the mirror not even 3 inches. I'm still hung up on the 3 inches that I told the barber to leave all over my head...he didn't listen so my plan for braids isn't possible for a few months *sigh*
    I don't regret it though. Health over length.

  • @samiahrenaetv3156
    @samiahrenaetv3156 6 років тому +1

    I had a product stage where I tried every oil to grow my hair

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  6 років тому

      That should definitely be a stage! Lol.

  • @LaadyLovve11
    @LaadyLovve11 7 років тому +1

    So, I cut all my hair off yesterday. I'm still in shock

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  7 років тому

      Yeah, I was in shock for a good month or so.

  • @adebolaoguntade5510
    @adebolaoguntade5510 3 роки тому

    Even as a man this is pretty accurate 😭. But ya boy needed all around even growth. That high top shit wasn’t it

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  3 роки тому

      Good to know it's relatable across the board lol

  • @Ash-ov3ci
    @Ash-ov3ci 5 років тому +2

    I’ve just had a bad hair he cut off like 1 years worth of growth when I said split ends + inch😪

  • @09kimya
    @09kimya 7 років тому +3

    No I didn't go through that I was 100% sure that I wanted it cut

    • @beingCrystalB
      @beingCrystalB  6 років тому

      Lol...everyone's experience is different. I was sure I wanted to cut it, I just wasn't sure how to feel after it was cut lol.

  • @jane-ut6uf
    @jane-ut6uf 7 років тому

    why is is this so accurate lol :(,