8 practical ways to become *that girl* for summer | self care reset, habits & routines
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All of a sudden everyone was posting their aesthetic sunrises, matchas, and workouts under this new Tik Tok trend - becoming "that girl", and I had to let the idea simmer for a bit before I decided how I felt about it.
Always remember that social media is a snippet - a teeny tiny SNIPPET - of real life. It's not even always purposely misleading, that's just the nature of content creation 🙃 I hope this video inspires you to pull out the bits & pieces of this trend that are helpful to you and have a beautiful summer 😇
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✨ TABLE OF CONTENTS
0:00 intro
2:02 do brain dumps
2:39 declutter
3:07 set goals & be intentional
5:14 eat clean
6:01 drink water (*storytime*)
6:25 exercise
8:34 sleep schedule
8:56 romanticize & be present
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I deleted my social media accounts and life is so much better since then. 💕
That's awesome!! proud of you 🤗
how did people react?
i deleted my instagram account and everyone around me is so judgemental...
@@itsjustme. well same. But I don't care about how they act, I do what I think is good for me. 💁🏻♀️
@@itsjustme. same happened to me. just know that their opinion doesn't matter, your mental health and your good is what matters. I'm so proud of you for taking that step!
Thats so awesome! I was wondering tho, are you still in school? I live in a strict family and I'm not allowed a phone until I'm driving :/ trying to go into high school having no social media or a phone is really hard. How do you handle/deal with that?
👇🏻Summary with timestamps👇🏻
1. (2:02) Brain Dump
2. (2:40) Declutter
3. (3:07) Set yourself some goals
4. (5:12) Eat fresh and nutritious foods
5. (6:01) Drink water
6. (6:24) Exercise
7. (8:34) Wake and sleep consistently (preferably early)
8. (8:57) Romanticize your life
Tysm!
Most wholesome ‘that girl’ video and the editing is *chefs kiss*
YESS
i love how you had a disclaimer-ish at the start saying social media is not real. i feel like we all have a tendency of getting caught up and spiraling because of what we see on these silly little apps. what you said would be my new mantra now i think!!
yes I loved that too !
i feel like the "that girl" trend is a great motivation for people to romanticize their life & to reach their goals BUT it also sets this standard to become that girl, that not all people can attain. you need aesthetic room decor, cute workout outfits, pretty journals etc, which not everyone can afford, and that's why it might demotivate people. other than that, it's really cool tbh, and i love it !! and i couldn't agree more with your opinions on the whole exercise thing!!
I get that even though the online view gas set it at a certain standard but that's not what's it about. Putting in as much effort as you can in your life to know ur full potential is entirely different than the room decor. Like she said you don't have to look like them, it's not a copy and paste it's an improvement. You were right with the motivation to have the green smoothie and having avocado toast but that doesn't mean you force yourself to eat it if u don't like, simply eat a healthy breakfast. Journalling is great to reduce anxiety etc etc but u get the point. It's not about copying another toned aesthetic life but improving yours so social life, mental and physical health is improved. The toxicity isn't diminished I won't say that but the overall neash is improvement not the aesthetic of it.
The thumbnail is soooooo pretttyyyyy 🌷🌷🌷 I want to watch the video right now 😆✨ can’t wait 🙈☀️☀️☀️
Thank you! Had a lot of fun making it, I need to experiment with MORE COLORS hehe
Your creative direction is amazing, glad to see taking your twist to this trend and sharing it to others because we need it in this day and age of toxic social media. We need more authentic creators like you, keep doing what you're doing! 💛
Really liked the twist too!
hope you all are able to become "that girl" 🌷☀️ whatever that means to you
bliss bean coming in clutch with actually practical hacks 😌
I loved the clarification about social media! this week has been so rough for me (that I ended up in the hospital at 5am) and I'm sure social media was one of the reasons of me being burned out.
Even though it seems like "that girl" has so much time in the day to do all of this, I really enjoyed this video ❤ Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for being straightforward about this issue & the helpful tips. I'm also trying to be real on my channel. I don't care about the setup, I don't care about my make up...at all, I ugly cry and talk about feelings 😅 We need to honor our messy parts. 💕
This thumbnail is SO colorful, so cute, so summery 💛🎀🍏
Let my imagination run a bit wild with this one, hehe, thank you so much! ❤️
your face, your eyes, your colour palette is aesthetic goals!
omg thank you I really tried to improve the background and stuff for this video!
i've really been loving ur videos recently! the editing, the thumbnails, and ofc how ur persona has been showing through, all of it is just immaculate
I'm glad you decided to talk about this. I always come back to your channel when I'm lost on any of these topics. The video was beautiful and it was very useful for me, thank you so muchh uwu
this video was really fun to watch! I love how you've edited the intro and I just wanted to tell you that you are such a big inspiration! thank you for all the effort you put into your videos
ALSO the design of the titles of each section of the video are so so cute !!!
I love your videos so much! Best “that girl” take I’ve seen yet. Thanks for talking about all the positives and negatives to this mindset.
Just got this channel recommended by UA-cam and, omg, the real-talk is so refreshing! This looks like the perfect combination of lifestyle aesthetic and real life...just what I looked for! 💜
Yes, I love this video and your perspective on becoming ‘that girl’ 😩! And the editing is gorgeous as always!
i love your mindset and the beginning disclaimer of this video, it is so helpful you don’t even know🥺💗💗
It amazes me to see how mature and insightful you are through your videos, newsletters, and all of your online presence, yet everything you have shown is also so genuine and authentic! Atta girl! Watching your videos always makes me think more about life and it gives me a positive boost to continue my day! Thank you so much❤️
I have seen many that-girl videos that talk about the negative aspects. But yours is the realest video amongst all those!! You mentioned and explained so many little things that opened my eyes. I am gonna rewatch this video whenever I need a reality check and want to detach myself from an unattainable that-girl aesthetic :)
ahhhh I’m excited to hear your take on “that girl!” can’t wait to watch this 😌😌😌
Hehehe I hope you enjoy!
Ok I just watched it, what a lovely morning watch!!! I loved the reminders how social media is often staged and the reflections to why you would wanna do different things in the routine.
This video is so relevant. I smiled when you included the integrations. Love this ☺️🥰🥰🥰
Love this video so much! I appreciate how realistic you are in helping us set achievable goals. Hope you have the best summer
this was such a great breakdown of ‘that girl’ concept and habits ! super great video ❤️❤️
your videos actually inspired me to declutter my room a few days ago and I feel so much better now!
turned notifications on for you 🤍 lovely video, thank you. ive been really looking for something like this, have a great week
One of my favorite videos on the channel! Very well edited!
This video is soooo good ahhh! The editing, tips, style, everything! Thanks for such a useful video
Loved this video. I feel like social media can be an awful space for someone like me that easily goes to a comparison stage. So I think that "learn how to manage your time on social media" and "what to take mindfully from there" can really benefit a lot of people and should be a major goal. Thank you for this video!
Awww, Thank you soo much for these beautiful reminders my Lovee !! I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS AND I LOVE YOU SO MUCH BABE BB SENDING YOU HUGS AND LOVEE, BLESSINGS POSITIVE ENERGY AND BIG HUGSS !! ❤️❤️❤️✨
The perfect video at the right time 😀😀😀 time to start from the beginning 🤧🤧
Girl your SKIN. GLOWING.
Isn’t her video quality on point! I would love to see an in-depth tutorial on filming for UA-cam. Cuz DAMN! It is FLAWLESS
The editing here, in the beginning too ✨ immaculate &🔥
Amoo tus videos!! very wholesome
6:18 omg this photo is so accurate and these migraines were so terrible I started crying from fear every time my sight got blurried cuz I knew what's coming after it 🥲 I love the videeeeeoo so so so much and it inspired me even more for my plans when I come back from travel 😭😍
This makes me feel good. Idk why, but your videos are calming to me 😌💖
The finding exercise you actually enjoy part is so important - for all the 27 years of my life I haven't found any kind of exercise that made me being excited for the next workout. Mostly the stuff I did was okay, and because of that it didn't stick with me. Then I tried Ringfit for the Nintendo Switch and this is the real game changer! It's fun, the gamification of the workouts really help me to stay focused and curious and the story you're playing is pretty cute and engaging. My gamer girl heart loves it, and I can't wait to start again as soon as my shoulder isn't hurting anymore ♥
I love how realistic that video is! We need that on the internet!
THE EDITING!!!! u are so underrated
I loved your take on exercise, body image and social media in general. I deleted instagram a week ago and I can see such a difference in my day. I am reading so much more!
Im so glad I found your channel 😍 been really productive watching your videos 👍
Watch this early in the morning. You are such an inspiration. Your content and aesthetic are fantastic. Love from the Philippines😘
i really hope you keep the thumbnails colourful!! i love it
Ugh, this was so good, I loved it and actually inspired me so much, thank you!💗
Keep glowing ✨
I love your mindset and perspective on things! I also watched one of your language videos and that was enough to subscribe. I really appreciate your content! ☺️
your take on this is amazing!
hi i just wanted to say that i really love your whole vibes! also this video was so informative, i think i can try most of them today! 😚as everyone is mentioning, i'm in love with the thumbnail too! haha
I definitely feel this video so much!! I can’t wait to start doing it too 😻🤍
YES 😻 also the part on exercising was really good to hear
I Feel Like Your The Most Realistic Human On UA-cam And Think Of The Questions That Anyone Is Thinking But Does Not Ask.....I Love That ❤‼💯
Hello...thank you so mich for this video...i hav been searching a lot on how to be that girl and i was truly overwhelmed but zis video cleared my mind and helped to truly understand how to be "that girl" or a better "me girl"....thank you so much 😊✨✨✨
I just wanted to say that although I don't use notifications (like ever), I always check my subscriptions tab and watch your videos from there 😊
Your new editing style is sooooo cute 💖
The exercise part! You nailed it!!!!
been following your videos for quite some time, and they're really good and inspiring! PS. found your glasses look in the former videos super cute. keep inspiring! ❤
This was so good and realistic. Thank you for this video Beatrice 🥰
The thumbnails is amazing gurl I loved your vlogs gurl and you are sweetheart and you are gorgeous
I really love the lovely colours in this video, I would really like them to be in future vids as well!
this video is so engaging and i come away feeling so inspired - the usual with these vids🥰
tbh i hesitated watching this video because i was really worried it was gonna enforce the superficial stuff i've seen floating around social media, but you really subverted my expectations and gave such great advice. thank you beatrice!
edit: just got to the very end of the vid and, as an enby, i appreciate you saying "that person" 😁
Could you do more videos like this one where you take out some actual real-life benefits from certain "aesthetic trends"? Loving this one so much!
best "that girl" video I've seen! you're amazing
Soo underrated, you deserve more attention ❤️
This was so nice to watch! I loved the video!
Loving that new thumbnail style
THANKS! I loved designing it😅
IKR SO CUTE
Beatrice is seriously my favourite productivity UA-camr 💖
Omg this is so good.. Surely waiting for your take on this trend
Omg, thank you so much for sharing your story and what would happen if you didn't drink water because I've been experiencing exactly the same thing and i was starting to get really anxious and worried about that. I've always found hard to drink enough water and thanks to you I figured out it stems from that, so yeah. 🛐
loved this video!
omg i loved this video so much, from the b-roll to the tips you gave and u of course!
Just a reminder that «You are incredible, and your light is needed in the world» ✨
thank u for pointing out the unrealistic sides of these trends! we need more youtubers like u beatrice!🤍
Before watching this I hit the notification bell, thinking "why didn't I know you made a new video?" - Thanks for the reminder! Your videos are so motivating.
I had so much fun with this one! :)
This is very helpful,
and thank you for mentioning that Tik Tok videos focus on the visual parts.
Super great vid. I'm in love with your channel haha.
btw that thumbnail is out of this world!!
I just found your channel! I love your vibe and your personality. Thank you so much for the video!
i loved every second of this
Estoy enamorada de la paleta de color de este video, la usaré para mi bullet journal 😍
You’re SO awesome! Inspiring, as always 💪
finally a youtuber whose thoughts on Exercise I completely related to!!
the best one who’s talk about " that girl " !!!
Excited 💥💥
thank you for this wonderful video! I really needed it
Love that video!
Beatrice - your integrations are *ON POINT* girl!! Get it! Okay for real though - thanks for such a helpful video!
Love your videos!!!
Thank you for this video!! I love your visions of life. You have a big fan from Brasil!!💕💕💕
Really enjoyed this video!
Great video thanks for inspiring one 👌🏽🌸
Your points about exercise were my favorite! I hate the aesthetic of exercise and the one type of body that's ever prevalent
I love your take about “that girl”! Especially about exercise 😉
Thankyou for this video.
Such a cute video! Loved the tips! 😍
This is "that girl" that is simple, realistic, and relatable 💙🤟..... thank you 💙
This video is awesome!