How reading my sisters' books changed me | Joy Duggar

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  • Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
  • Over the past couple years, Jinger Duggar Vuolo and Jill Duggar Dillard have written books about their faith growing up. Joy explains her reaction to those books, and how she's grappled with her own faith.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 51

  • @michellestark5387
    @michellestark5387 Місяць тому +83

    I love how supportive Austin is of Joy. I admire the Duggar daughters for their strength and their Faith. Questioning your beliefs, I believe, is part of our journey with God. It strengthens your understanding and faith in God and His plans for us. Is it easy? Nope.

  • @lynetter6850
    @lynetter6850 2 місяці тому +42

    Love this. Such vulnerability and humility. ❤ Love that her sis helped her by writing a book!

  • @valeriemoran842
    @valeriemoran842 Місяць тому +12

    Joy is so genuine and honest. This transparency on such a deeply personal issue will help so many!! Everyone struggles at some point in their life, but not everyone is honest about it. Much respect ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @marybethterhaar4200
    @marybethterhaar4200 Місяць тому +6

    Thank you, Joy, for your witness. I went through something similar many years ago ... I'm 67 now. God has stretched me and grown me many times overthe years. It seems my hardest times are when my faith grows the most. May He guide you and strengthen you as you Trust Him. ❤

  • @mckaylafinkelstein7753
    @mckaylafinkelstein7753 Місяць тому +8

    Matt and Abby, thanks for having an amazing podcast and bringing people on and having them share their story. What a platform you are setting for others.

  • @annairwin8147
    @annairwin8147 Місяць тому +14

    I have to say that I truly think the Duggar sisters are beautiful and smart young women who are so faithful in their beliefs 💕💕

  • @anthonygomez667
    @anthonygomez667 Місяць тому +14

    Praise God for his faithfulness!
    Thank God for Austin’s support.
    Prayers for y’all to be protected from the evil of this world and how it will chisel away at God seeking people.
    I love ya’ll!
    I miss Joys weekly vlog but I understand why you stopped it.
    I love y’all!
    -Rebecca

  • @DavidHain-TX
    @DavidHain-TX 2 місяці тому +13

    Thank you for this interview. While short, it was encouraging, it gives me hope. Thank you for your strong testimony even in an ugly world.

    • @shirlynb148
      @shirlynb148 Місяць тому +2

      This is just a clip from a whole online interview ie podcast

  • @Barbara-pz8ky
    @Barbara-pz8ky Місяць тому +43

    I’ve said it before but it’s amazing how these young ladies have found the most amazing husbands, marriages…I’m truly happy for them…

  • @stephinthewild
    @stephinthewild 29 днів тому +17

    Them not offering her a tissue says a lot to me

  • @nicoleannkyle
    @nicoleannkyle Місяць тому +18

    It’s hard to deprogram from brainwashing. But I’m so glad Joy did.

    • @daveshoemaker7137
      @daveshoemaker7137 4 дні тому

      Did she? It's still bothering her! How would anyone feel if the attacker is fondled and the victim is ignored? Her parents are not nice people!

  • @kathrynwitte3398
    @kathrynwitte3398 9 днів тому +2

    Questioning your faith is NOT “rebellion”, it only is when your parents raised you not to question. Critical thinking is shunned by people who don’t want their families/congregation to question them, their beliefs or their religious agenda.

  • @CCZZ.B
    @CCZZ.B Місяць тому +14

    One thing I’ve noticed from all of these Dugger women is even though they don’t exactly with their parents ideology, they have never once bashed their parents in anyway that itself is a true testament of God. God’s love and respect for their parents.

  • @cc967
    @cc967 2 місяці тому +27

    Joy is so precious and honest. (In the summary, it mentions this is Jana instead of Joy.)

  • @cassandraduncan2947
    @cassandraduncan2947 Місяць тому +15

    Very sweet family! They are both wise to look to God's word for the truth. Men will fail, Christ never fails us🙏

  • @dl7562
    @dl7562 Місяць тому +12

    Such a sweet testimony. Great interview!

  • @hollylanevintagetreasures
    @hollylanevintagetreasures 2 місяці тому +6

    Appreciate this so much. ❤️

  • @heidifrick4400
    @heidifrick4400 Місяць тому +8

    I am a Joy Duggar Forsyth fan!!!!

  • @benicio1967
    @benicio1967 Місяць тому +9

    It seemed that jinger had the most drastic/rebellious change of all the siblings. With Jana, Jessa and Joy they seemed to go through a period of sadness and change but they stayed true to who they originally were. The pain and trauma didn’t seem to change them that much. They stayed the same at their core. I have such respect for that.

    • @heathermckillip742
      @heathermckillip742 Місяць тому +10

      This comment seems like it’s positive, but there is nothing wrong with growth and change. You are allowed to grow outside of your parents’ and families’ beliefs and ultimately decide for yourself what is true. I am so incredibly grateful that I grew and changed. I don’t have to remain the same. And thank goodness! Do you really want to be the same person you were when you were 18 or 20?

    • @mesquitegirl2013
      @mesquitegirl2013 22 дні тому +1

      @@heathermckillip742 you should make it your own anyway you shouldn’t just do it because oh my parents do it and all that you need to make it your own and you should want to believe because you believe not because anybody else does

  • @daveshoemaker7137
    @daveshoemaker7137 4 дні тому +1

    Joy's husband was the only one that attended Josh's trial! Where were all of the other husbands? Anyone that is abused will never have that go away! Do the others think their wives can forget? Jessa likes to make her father seem like a hero? Seriously! Her parents knew their son had a problem and ignored it and covered it up! God made sure he was put in the right place!

  • @ctgctg1
    @ctgctg1 Місяць тому +19

    It’s a shame that the Duggars taught their children fear and submission about God’s word. I hope they have changed their approach with their younger children.

  • @KarenK-r4f
    @KarenK-r4f 2 місяці тому +6

    I love that girl.

  • @pameubanks1806
    @pameubanks1806 Місяць тому +11

    U know if everyone could just say nice things about people and not always putting people down it would be a nice that’s one thing that doesn’t cost a thing just to be a nice person

  • @emilybaker2921
    @emilybaker2921 19 днів тому

    The look on Abby’s face when she realized she didn’t get joy a tissue

  • @heidifrick4400
    @heidifrick4400 Місяць тому +4

    Maybe Abby & Matt are at a different place in their journey than Joy is. Maybe they didnt know what to say. . .

  • @reneehenry6385
    @reneehenry6385 Місяць тому +4

    I like Joy, I've watched her grow from this little girl to a beautiful woman and mom. Austin not so much it appears to me to be verbally abusive. He silenced her. Every single time he puts his hand on her knee she shuts up or changes her tone. Don't like him never have. I've watched him before years.

  • @kathrynwitte3398
    @kathrynwitte3398 9 днів тому

    Does Austin not know the difference between rebut or refute and rebuttal? Score another for home schooling.

  • @hannahg2672
    @hannahg2672 Місяць тому +2

    Why do the microphones have to be so in your face??!! It’s distracting.

  • @lesliefleming6634
    @lesliefleming6634 2 місяці тому +2

    I love the dress you are wearing! Where is it from???

  • @USmomma4
    @USmomma4 2 місяці тому +75

    Love Joy ❤ However…finding it unsettling how Abby & Matt sat there as she broke down crying and cared more about getting it on film then comforting her. Didn’t think to offer tissues, she had to ask…didn’t sincerely come across as they cared. Just wanting to capitalize on her. Meh 🫤

    • @DachshundPal
      @DachshundPal Місяць тому +7

      I agree. This was a very raw moment for her.

    • @carolslavens5565
      @carolslavens5565 Місяць тому +28

      I feel like they were just giving her space.

    • @AMcDub0708
      @AMcDub0708 Місяць тому +18

      This wasn’t the first time she’s talked about it or cried talking about it. If she had NEVER discussed it with anyone ever before, then yes, their actions would be very heartless. But she had a message she wanted to get across even through the tears and they were letting her tell her story uninterrupted. I think the hosts were so intent on listening they forgot they should offer tissues. Hopefully they will keep tissues next to the guests from now on.

    • @preppingmama
      @preppingmama Місяць тому +13

      Her husband is right there.

    • @YonkeeDoodles
      @YonkeeDoodles Місяць тому +12

      Abby was wiping her eyes and Matt reached out to Abby during, what more emotion do you people want? Should they have cut Joy off during this emotional testimony so that could make it about them?

  • @heidifrick4400
    @heidifrick4400 Місяць тому +6

    Maybe Abby & Matt are at a different place in their journey than Joy is. Maybe they didnt know what to say. . .