AITA For Telling My MIL That I Don't Want Her Here Because My Baby hates Her.
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Story: AITA For Telling My MIL That I Don't Want Her Here Because My Baby hates Her.
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Maybe dad should bring baby to MIL if he wants them to bond. It won't help if mom is there with them as she's obviously getting stressed out as soon as MIL enters their home and baby can feel that. It could be helpful to mom too as she can get some alone time and rest.
NTA he should have at least had the decency to warn her ahead of time. Trying to force the bond will only stress everyone out more. They should try talking to a doctor or something to see why their baby is doing this, then go from there.
There MUST be a reason shes not warming up to MIL. What are the moms feelings about mil? Is MIL like actually a scary person (crooked teeth, unalligned jaw, scraggle messy looking hair etc.) Because that can be scary for babies. They also like people who look more like their parents. But yes, if she like, LIVED at your house, baby WOULD get used to her. Once a week is too little to warm up to someone "scary"
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Okay but there must be a reason the baby is completely freaked out by her. Also it sounds like the husbands issue not the mil's
Nta, that’s just going to stress out mom and baby more. Mom is still recovering from having a baby and the baby is still figuring out the world. The husband is the AH and made everything worse for the baby, his wife and his mother. It sucks the baby will get out of the phase eventually. I’d say don’t push is and traumatize the child.
I've had 4 kids now.... you are rarely "still recovering" in any noticeable sense after 10 months.
@@adararelgnel2695 I’m not necessarily talking about physically recovering. It’s scientifically proven that it takes about 2 yrs to fully recover from pregnancy and giving birth. That’s why postpartum depression can last up to two years and sometimes even a little longer. Your experience doesn’t speak for everyone or even the majority. I’m happy for you that in your experience 10 months no longer felt in recovery but for many it still is.
Yta
Yes let’s call the poor woman who’d have to deal with a screaming baby all day if her mil stayed, who had to deal with much of the same for all but 3 hours the night prior, the 🫏🕳️. Makes perfect sense! /s
YTA.